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00:02:39.420 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.

00:02:40.880 I'm Jacqueline Novak.

00:02:42.000 And this is Poogh, an ongoing conversation about wellness

00:02:45.040 between two obsessive friends.

00:02:46.720 Two untamable intellects.

00:02:48.520 This is our hobby. 0.97

00:02:49.340 This is our hell.

00:02:50.220 This is our naked desire for free products.

00:02:52.260 This is Hoog.

00:02:53.880 Today's topic, loosely speaking,

00:02:55.800 the white knuckle goal, cutlery, constant BJ.

00:03:03.160 You know what I do enjoy?

00:03:04.660 Hi.

00:03:05.700 You have a pink lip on.

00:03:07.580 Is it pink in your mind?

00:03:09.420 Yes, that looks pink to me on camera.

00:03:10.920 I was aiming for a red.

00:03:12.360 To me, that's pink.

00:03:13.280 I know.

00:03:13.800 Kula brand.

00:03:15.020 Guess what it's called? 0.78

00:03:16.980 Scarlet.

00:03:17.800 Scarlet red. 1.00

00:03:18.600 Honey, that is pink as Barbie's pussy. 1.00

00:03:22.260 sorry to reference barbie 1.00

00:03:25.940 I have a little Kula

00:03:28.320 SPF 30

00:03:29.760 tinted lip

00:03:31.500 water resistant

00:03:32.800 which was really fun

00:03:33.700 all summer to wear

00:03:34.480 I have to say

00:03:35.180 splashing around 1.00

00:03:36.360 perhaps Kula will send

00:03:37.660 the full line now

00:03:38.620 yeah I was

00:03:40.520 I found myself

00:03:41.420 at a

00:03:42.160 I found myself

00:03:44.420 in an affair

00:03:45.080 arguing for mineral

00:03:46.280 scum screen 0.96

00:03:47.480 and it was 0.99

00:03:49.500 tough to find myself

00:03:51.260 like that

00:03:51.800 oh you know what

00:03:54.200 I had a disaster

00:03:54.960 so I spent weeks

00:03:56.200 trying to find a

00:03:57.420 dress in consignment

00:03:59.320 for a wedding

00:04:00.340 and

00:04:00.800 and you looked gorgeous

00:04:01.780 finally did it

00:04:02.480 thanks

00:04:02.840 I never got the final look

00:04:03.960 and then

00:04:04.720 you know

00:04:06.140 for I forget what

00:04:07.280 like 200 bucks

00:04:08.420 or something

00:04:08.800 I got whatever

00:04:09.520 then I decided to run

00:04:11.020 into CVS

00:04:11.780 before the event

00:04:12.440 to grab like some 1.00

00:04:13.180 bullshit 1.00

00:04:13.940 like I don't have all my shit 1.00

00:04:14.780 with me 0.99

00:04:15.000 so I'm gonna run in there

00:04:15.840 and like get some makeup

00:04:16.980 and like oh you know

00:04:17.880 I'll grab a hair iron

00:04:18.680 just cause I wanna try something 0.98

00:04:19.720 and like shit like that 0.99

00:04:21.240 Fucking somehow it was like $300 in CVS. 1.00

00:04:24.320 Oh, my God. 0.99

00:04:25.200 Because I just kept grabbing makeup.

00:04:25.980 There's nothing like the CVS bill.

00:04:28.360 It's crazy.

00:04:29.380 And I couldn't put things back.

00:04:30.980 It was like, because I just needed all this just, you know, 0.99

00:04:34.380 I was just grabbing shit. 0.98

00:04:35.560 Like, I mean, just say it adds up. 0.99

00:04:38.360 Oh, honey, it adds up.

00:04:39.800 Should I go through?

00:04:40.540 This will be a little fun.

00:04:42.160 That's what I'm going to do.

00:04:42.780 I'm going to go grab right over there because I went to Sephora yesterday.

00:04:44.820 I'm going to do a haul.

00:04:45.640 And I'm going to do a haul.

00:04:46.700 What happened?

00:04:47.540 Oh, yeah, it's much more interesting.

00:04:52.140 You know what?

00:04:55.540 This is exciting. 0.99

00:04:56.520 How many years have we been doing poog? 0.99

00:04:57.860 This is the first time doing a haul. 0.99

00:04:59.960 I just want to say,

00:05:00.820 I got a couple of the fashion boob CVS 1.00

00:05:04.300 like bras that aren't bras thing.

00:05:07.440 Wait, what do you mean?

00:05:08.640 Bras that aren't bras?

00:05:09.520 You know, like the things that tape to you

00:05:10.660 that are shaped like a bra,

00:05:11.860 but it's just tape.

00:05:12.880 I got a few of those,

00:05:14.100 all total disaster in the room.

00:05:16.160 And I consider myself a sculptor.

00:05:18.220 Okay, I'm not like afraid.

00:05:20.800 Of what?

00:05:21.380 It was absolute disaster.

00:05:24.620 Pain?

00:05:25.300 Well, yes.

00:05:25.840 At one point, I tried to peel it off.

00:05:27.300 And it just, it was like, it was like the biggest joke.

00:05:31.840 It just, it was sticking everywhere.

00:05:34.680 Yeah.

00:05:35.440 Whatever.

00:05:36.100 Chaos.

00:05:36.640 It's a non-story.

00:05:37.820 This I'm putting on, which is an out-of-pocket, or maybe they sent this.

00:05:41.480 I love this.

00:05:42.100 The Tower 28 lip gloss in.

00:05:44.440 They did send that.

00:05:45.500 XOXO.

00:05:46.380 I love it.

00:05:46.820 We put together a list for them

00:05:48.860 and I have been enjoying their products.

00:05:50.760 And I sent my friend a series of essences.

00:05:53.580 I'm wearing pink lipstick too now.

00:05:55.760 This is Tower 28, what I'm wearing.

00:05:57.580 Tower 28 was his favorite essence.

00:05:59.920 I sent my friend Paul like six of them

00:06:01.480 and he's like, this one's my favorite.

00:06:03.100 Well, guess what?

00:06:04.000 Tower 28, this is a huge announcement.

00:06:06.060 This is breaking news.

00:06:08.660 We all know the Ilea Skin Serum is my go-to

00:06:11.560 and it is forever in my heart and I still love it. 1.00

00:06:13.820 Rabbits trough.

00:06:14.340 Guess what I'm loving?

00:06:15.020 The Tower 28 tinted sunscreen

00:06:17.480 Wait

00:06:18.560 Out of pocket

00:06:19.460 Did I get that?

00:06:20.080 No

00:06:20.320 Okay

00:06:20.900 I had heard about it

00:06:22.680 I went let's go

00:06:23.340 More

00:06:23.820 It's a little less oily

00:06:25.900 I like the way the skin serum

00:06:27.420 Provides a lot of like oil moisture

00:06:29.320 It's a little more makeup-y

00:06:31.180 The Tower

00:06:31.740 I like it honey

00:06:33.020 I like it

00:06:33.880 I'm looking at

00:06:34.400 I'm looking

00:06:35.100 I mean I have coverage

00:06:36.420 But not too much

00:06:37.460 I'm astonished

00:06:38.240 I love it

00:06:38.660 Okay

00:06:38.880 Here is my Sephora unboxing

00:06:40.980 Here we have the Supergroup

00:06:43.140 Wait, I'm shocked.

00:06:45.920 The Unseen sunscreen?

00:06:47.820 It's happened again.

00:06:49.020 You can't say it.

00:06:50.400 The Supergoop Unseen Body Sunscreen.

00:06:53.960 You paid for that.

00:06:54.680 I paid for this.

00:06:55.700 They sent us a haul

00:06:57.460 and I've been living off of it for a year.

00:06:59.200 The different...

00:06:59.800 So I've used through a lot of it.

00:07:01.160 I gave some to my cousins.

00:07:02.680 But I've purchased this twice now.

00:07:04.780 I repeat.

00:07:05.220 This is the second time I've purchased this.

00:07:07.200 The Unseen...

00:07:07.520 Wait, and that's the Unseen...

00:07:08.460 Unseen Sunscreen for Body.

00:07:10.340 SPF 40.

00:07:11.580 Water and sweat resistant.

00:07:12.680 Is it that clear one that looks a little like the Smashbox primer?

00:07:16.640 Yep.

00:07:17.360 Like a blur primer.

00:07:18.820 And you believe it's working?

00:07:20.920 Yeah.

00:07:21.760 Now, it's a chemical sunscreen, obviously, for it to be clear.

00:07:24.920 It's not physically blocking anything with zinc, right?

00:07:27.960 You already know so much more than I do.

00:07:31.300 Yeah.

00:07:31.900 And again, I'm concerned of nothing.

00:07:34.600 Clean chemical sunscreen actives.

00:07:37.380 That's what it says here.

00:07:39.360 On the face, I'm using mineral.

00:07:40.980 but on the body here

00:07:42.560 and here's what I love

00:07:43.700 I just love the way it feels

00:07:45.040 feels like nothing's there

00:07:46.300 yeah

00:07:46.600 okay then I've got

00:07:48.140 I received this free 0.91

00:07:49.620 not because of Pooh

00:07:50.360 but in a gift bag

00:07:51.120 for an event I attended

00:07:52.060 and I've now purchased it

00:07:54.060 out of pocket

00:07:54.600 because I enjoy it so much

00:07:55.860 the rose ink

00:07:57.380 skin enhanced

00:07:58.740 luminous tinted serum

00:07:59.960 you mix it into your foundation

00:08:01.780 and it gives you

00:08:03.340 a nice little glow

00:08:04.440 and don't worry folks

00:08:05.620 I'll post a photo of these items

00:08:06.980 on the Pooh Instagram

00:08:07.980 next up we have my go-to

00:08:10.300 favorite foundation

00:08:11.180 filled with chemicals

00:08:12.480 and I couldn't care less.

00:08:13.720 The Armani

00:08:14.180 Luminous Silk

00:08:15.040 Perfect Glow

00:08:16.040 Flawless Foundation.

00:08:17.480 For me,

00:08:18.100 this is what you wear

00:08:18.620 when you're going out.

00:08:19.540 For me,

00:08:20.000 this is what I wear on stage.

00:08:21.100 Really?

00:08:21.500 For a special night out.

00:08:22.760 Luminous Silk.

00:08:23.540 I put on the Armani.

00:08:25.000 It's not a daily.

00:08:25.860 It's a night out.

00:08:27.000 Is it?

00:08:27.540 Does it have a scent?

00:08:28.520 Like beautiful

00:08:29.620 cream.

00:08:30.660 Yeah, definitely a scent.

00:08:31.820 Oh my God.

00:08:32.280 I'm going to try this on air.

00:08:33.520 I've never had more fun.

00:08:34.520 I understand why

00:08:35.080 my unboxing videos are huge.

00:08:36.900 I'm literally,

00:08:37.240 my heart is racing

00:08:37.940 because I'm so exhilarated.

00:08:38.940 this like kind of

00:08:40.000 this cross section

00:08:41.160 of a friend

00:08:41.720 yeah

00:08:42.340 okay

00:08:43.080 wait wait

00:08:43.720 I want to screen grab

00:08:44.620 how little I can see

00:08:45.680 to reveal what I

00:08:47.080 was able to identify

00:08:49.380 as

00:08:50.140 okay

00:08:50.700 then you said it's you

00:08:52.280 because people can see

00:08:53.680 is it cuddly or no

00:08:54.940 this is cuddly

00:08:55.960 okay then I'm

00:08:56.840 I'm

00:08:57.820 you need to just

00:08:58.960 and then we'll post it

00:09:00.040 so cuddly

00:09:01.040 look at what I sent

00:09:01.940 okay let me look

00:09:02.740 you're texting it to me

00:09:03.980 okay

00:09:04.960 that I saw that

00:09:06.580 and said is that cuddly

00:09:07.540 wait I'm looking at

00:09:08.860 okay it's very it's we'll post that on the pook instagram too it's so so funny um okay go okay so

00:09:18.300 totally one of the first beauty products they ever purchased was their beauty elixir

00:09:22.140 so i got that but i went oh it's in glass and i'm traveling whatever i want something for backstage

00:09:27.460 and then and then in the sephora checkout line they really seduce you don't they folks

00:09:32.160 with all this point at this point that's where you shop that's where i just get in line so then i saw

00:09:37.740 this and i went i've never even seen that let's do it and what is it the grape water what is it

00:09:43.360 grape water yeah and it says which is really what i want soothes moisturized sensitive skin

00:09:50.500 it doesn't have the beauty elixir the other one has such a gorgeous scent this really doesn't

00:09:55.120 have i think that one is very minimal minimal oh wait hold on i hear something oh my god i think

00:10:03.240 the guys are here

00:10:03.940 to spray the roaches

00:10:04.840 I don't hear anything

00:10:10.120 god it's like

00:10:11.620 you're listening 1.00

00:10:11.960 for the fucking Nazis 1.00

00:10:12.980 your face right now 1.00

00:10:13.660 my god

00:10:14.260 sorry

00:10:15.060 no

00:10:15.780 the bathroom

00:10:18.320 and the living room

00:10:21.060 they were like

00:10:24.700 plug the drains

00:10:25.540 my friend said that

00:10:27.360 plug them

00:10:28.300 they like to come up in

00:10:29.500 come up from

00:10:30.400 um

00:10:31.160 okay

00:10:32.200 This thing's still lying on me.

00:10:33.340 People won't understand.

00:10:35.020 All right, keep going.

00:10:35.520 Wait, what do you mean minimal?

00:10:36.420 More minimal than this?

00:10:38.180 Than the Beauty Elixir?

00:10:39.240 The Caudalie grape water?

00:10:40.760 Yeah.

00:10:41.300 I'm sure it is.

00:10:42.300 This is more minimal.

00:10:43.340 Whatever.

00:10:44.560 This is nice, I guess.

00:10:45.740 It kind of just feels like water.

00:10:46.900 I guess it says it on the thing.

00:10:48.420 This is a go-to staple for me,

00:10:50.060 but in a travel size.

00:10:51.040 Since I am traveling international to London,

00:10:52.840 do you have your tickets up?

00:10:53.880 Still completely pixelated.

00:10:55.140 Can't see.

00:10:56.120 Not immediately clocking anything,

00:10:58.460 but wait, let me just...

00:10:59.140 Can you guess?

00:11:01.280 Orib?

00:11:02.160 Yeah, Oribe.

00:11:03.040 Wait, bring it back.

00:11:04.360 Bring it back, wait.

00:11:08.500 Laughing like a child, I'm having so much fun.

00:11:11.740 No, this one's not as impressive,

00:11:13.220 but I still did, you know, clock it.

00:11:16.280 This is a classic.

00:11:17.740 This is a real classic.

00:11:19.360 Yes.

00:11:19.760 The dry texturizing spray,

00:11:21.860 kind of a can't live without product, folks.

00:11:24.400 Oribe could really stand to send some product.

00:11:27.760 All right.

00:11:28.180 Don't push anything too close.

00:11:29.640 I want to do my test again.

00:11:31.640 Yeah, you want a new thing.

00:11:32.820 Yeah.

00:11:32.960 This is the new thing.

00:11:33.960 Don't bring it too close.

00:11:34.940 I don't want to be helped.

00:11:36.980 I sort of vaguely see pink and black.

00:11:38.660 I'm like, what is that, Benefit? 0.98

00:11:41.560 Give me brow or some shit? 0.98

00:11:42.900 What is that? 0.99

00:11:43.400 This is the 24-hour brow setter, which is an invisible.

00:11:46.720 Wait, from?

00:11:47.880 What do you mean?

00:11:48.440 Benefit?

00:11:48.880 From Benefit.

00:11:49.460 Yeah, good job.

00:11:50.040 I was right.

00:11:51.100 Yeah, you were right.

00:11:51.880 Benefit.

00:11:52.140 Hold it up.

00:11:53.600 And back like where it was, okay?

00:11:56.880 I mean, you're not going to believe how impressive I am.

00:12:00.640 again to be clear

00:12:02.560 Jacqueline is

00:12:03.620 because our screens

00:12:04.880 are so pixelated

00:12:05.900 she's shocked

00:12:06.500 that I can hold

00:12:07.160 the product up 0.97

00:12:07.800 and that she can

00:12:08.300 manage to tell

00:12:09.160 what it is

00:12:09.780 so I love this stuff

00:12:12.240 as a clear

00:12:13.120 brow gel

00:12:14.560 I'm really

00:12:15.540 I've really been

00:12:16.220 enjoying it

00:12:16.760 and that's called

00:12:17.240 Gimme Brow

00:12:17.820 it's called

00:12:19.000 24 hour brow setter

00:12:20.960 Gimme Brow is another one

00:12:22.080 this has no color in it

00:12:23.520 okay

00:12:24.480 and then something

00:12:25.640 I got

00:12:26.160 this

00:12:27.320 this is just an item

00:12:28.380 like it's not a product

00:12:29.560 don't

00:12:30.000 don't

00:12:30.200 don't um i want to just see it says it's an item it's not a product oh i bet i know what it is i 0.95

00:12:36.200 bet i bet i think i can tell what is it is it for decanting no fuck but it makes sense that you

00:12:43.200 think that it's not a container it's not a perfume atomizer or something no can i just tell you glue 0.93

00:12:49.740 no it's a retractable face brush so for a brand travel okay because i need that i did my best

00:12:55.680 This is so fun.

00:12:56.320 I want the products to never end.

00:12:57.520 Is that everything? 1.00

00:12:58.520 Fuck. 1.00

00:12:59.280 That's everything. 1.00

00:13:00.700 I want it to go on forever.

00:13:03.720 I'm going to take a photo of this now

00:13:04.860 so I don't forget

00:13:05.480 because I promised the hacks.

00:13:07.720 And also you're going to see from Porter

00:13:09.420 a wonderful insulated bottle.

00:13:12.000 And they sent us-

00:13:12.480 Is that the terrazzo?

00:13:13.320 Did you get the terrazzo?

00:13:13.860 I got the terrazzo.

00:13:15.020 They sent us-

00:13:15.940 Stunning.

00:13:16.340 They sent us beautiful glass jars

00:13:19.360 to hold store food in.

00:13:20.120 And by the way,

00:13:20.560 you know that I picked out those.

00:13:22.460 I went through their entire product line

00:13:24.100 and picked out that assortment

00:13:25.960 and they honored us.

00:13:27.240 I want to thank you so much

00:13:28.320 because I love it

00:13:29.920 and I love,

00:13:30.960 we also got from them

00:13:31.840 a little travel

00:13:33.140 to really nice stuff.

00:13:34.660 We got a travel container,

00:13:36.160 I'm sorry,

00:13:36.540 a travel like cutlery set

00:13:38.280 for picnics.

00:13:39.300 Yes, that's quality

00:13:39.820 because I've struggled.

00:13:41.260 I've gotten bad ones.

00:13:42.560 What a fun date.

00:13:43.320 Go to the picnic.

00:13:44.320 Go on a picnic

00:13:44.860 with your own cutlery.

00:13:47.040 I was leaving in a pinch.

00:13:48.200 I was leaving my house

00:13:48.980 in a pinch.

00:13:49.500 Travel, right?

00:13:50.140 I'd already gotten outside.

00:13:51.000 I can't go back in,

00:13:51.720 you know,

00:13:51.960 like I've already cut and run

00:13:53.220 and I see a fork

00:13:55.460 a dirty fork

00:13:56.140 on my back porch

00:13:57.620 because I'd eaten out there

00:13:58.580 and left the fork out there

00:13:59.360 I guess right

00:13:59.900 so I'm leaving

00:14:00.960 I just

00:14:01.300 I go to my neighbor

00:14:02.140 I go

00:14:02.380 can I just

00:14:03.140 give this to you

00:14:03.960 that's cute

00:14:06.300 I can't go back in

00:14:07.600 that's community

00:14:08.400 that's community

00:14:09.580 yeah so

00:14:12.440 if you were me

00:14:13.560 this is also 0.80

00:14:14.380 a huge poo thing

00:14:15.420 and I do think 1.00

00:14:16.200 we should

00:14:16.560 do an episode tomorrow

00:14:17.940 as I am in the throes

00:14:18.820 of international packing

00:14:19.940 which is fun

00:14:21.260 god I went down

00:14:22.600 It's such...

00:14:23.220 My packing cubes.

00:14:24.360 The long, the big packing for the big trips.

00:14:26.940 And Jacqueline?

00:14:27.520 Managing anxiety.

00:14:28.660 Huge.

00:14:29.640 But Jacqueline, I swear to God, I'm not letting myself overpack this time.

00:14:34.960 I've already made the executive decision.

00:14:36.900 I'm taking one pair of blue jeans, one pair of slacks, and one pair of evening pants.

00:14:41.600 And that's it.

00:14:42.580 Wow.

00:14:43.320 The fact that evening pants are making it in.

00:14:44.540 And then, of course, a dress and a skirt.

00:14:47.100 I'm shocked by one pair of jeans.

00:14:49.260 Here's where it is. 1.00

00:14:49.980 What are these slacks you're talking about? 1.00

00:14:51.580 Trousers?

00:14:51.980 Sorry, trousers that are kind of like

00:14:53.960 Afternoons accounting

00:14:55.440 Afternoons, they can transition

00:14:57.960 Into day, into night

00:14:59.140 But yeah, I'm making the move with only one pair of jeans

00:15:02.500 One pair of jeans just seems 1.00

00:15:03.320 Fuck 0.99

00:15:03.860 I mean, that means you can't wear jeans when the one jeans are being washed 1.00

00:15:06.700 That just seems like

00:15:07.760 Are you sitting down? I'm not going to wash them

00:15:09.460 I'm not going to wash jeans in a month

00:15:12.180 A month?

00:15:13.380 What if you spill something?

00:15:14.800 I won't

00:15:15.380 I never have

00:15:16.640 These aren't your jeans you're wearing on stage or anything, right?

00:15:18.980 My stage outfit is a totally different thing

00:15:20.720 all right separate thing so that's not not a question stage jeans are a separate issue

00:15:25.680 what is it summer it's summer it's fall early fall late late summer right 60 degrees so you

00:15:32.980 won't be uh taking a jacket and then a very light jacket and then a sweater and a sweatshirt well

00:15:38.900 you must recall that you know anything you really need you can get there exactly which is why i'm

00:15:45.060 really not gonna let myself bring more than one pair of jeans and then shocking travel

00:15:50.520 sizes. I mean, that is also why. Not travel sizes, not travel sizes. No, but I was going to say the

00:15:55.820 Sephora, those travel sizes. Yeah. I mean, I fantasize about this constantly. It's really

00:16:01.780 hard though because to maintain the travel kit that stays the travel kit and doesn't get unpacked

00:16:08.260 when you get home. Just a complete kit. Yeah. Okay. That just could live in the suitcase. Now,

00:16:14.660 of course, some products are going to expire and you have to face that. Right. Right. But what if

00:16:19.700 stuff that didn't just lived like that in that thing you just threw it in your suitcase

00:16:25.340 you know i was thinking of leaving a kit because i was at my parents i was thinking okay i leave

00:16:32.840 a kit there yeah no that's brilliant okay where it's like i can just show up at my parents house

00:16:37.440 and i know that there's like a few basic makeup items a few basic skincare items some of that's

00:16:43.320 happened naturally due to me leaving things yes i've tried to leave things like there so if i

00:16:48.680 spend the night like when you are back at your parents house you're spending the night are you

00:16:53.540 in a bathroom that isn't normally used by them when you're not there like is it i'm in the bathroom

00:16:58.280 that's my old bedroom which is like sometimes the guest room right so it's a kind of a rarely

00:17:02.160 used bathroom yeah relatively to the other bathrooms so is there kind of like products

00:17:08.680 that just sort of are there and have been there for essentially 20 years because yes the shampoo

00:17:13.600 who only gets used.

00:17:14.860 There are,

00:17:15.120 there are Burt's Bees products from,

00:17:17.540 I'm not exaggerating when I was 15.

00:17:19.640 Yeah.

00:17:19.960 But those have been sort of calcified and they're in a,

00:17:21.900 in a certain drawer.

00:17:23.100 In fact,

00:17:23.440 we had a little mystery happen at my house because I had some Tata Harper,

00:17:27.480 gorgeous Tata Harper travel size products that I left my parents' house being like,

00:17:32.120 we were sent,

00:17:32.700 I believe.

00:17:32.860 Yes,

00:17:33.060 exactly.

00:17:33.460 So I was like,

00:17:33.780 when I'm at my parents' house, 0.94

00:17:34.660 I'll have some Tata there. 0.66

00:17:36.340 Yeah.

00:17:36.840 I spent the night at my parents' house last weekend.

00:17:38.720 Stick your fingers, 1.00

00:17:39.700 mama. 1.00

00:17:40.260 It's gone.

00:17:41.680 My products are gone.

00:17:42.500 I run upstairs nude wrapped in a towel whining like a brat to my mom where's my tata I said

00:17:48.600 leaving I said mom mom I don't have all my where are my products so what do you mean I go

00:17:54.100 I had all my little tata harbor I had a serum and a cleanser and a moisturizer it's gone

00:17:58.920 it's gone and she was stunned so I'm not going to say names but there are a couple potential names

00:18:04.900 of some recent houseguests

00:18:06.820 who may have had some sticky fingers.

00:18:10.280 No.

00:18:10.940 There's no other explanation. 1.00

00:18:15.020 Did your mother fess up? 0.97

00:18:16.520 My mom said,

00:18:17.300 I don't,

00:18:17.640 completely unlike my mother.

00:18:19.580 Yeah.

00:18:20.120 And also I went rummaging through her drawers.

00:18:21.680 It's not there.

00:18:22.260 My mother also has cosmetics from the 80s.

00:18:24.500 She would have said,

00:18:24.940 oh, I used them.

00:18:25.380 No, she would have gone,

00:18:26.020 oh, I took, yeah. 0.94

00:18:27.140 Yeah.

00:18:27.900 Gone.

00:18:28.140 I don't know.

00:18:28.700 I don't believe they took it.

00:18:29.700 That's insane.

00:18:30.440 I know.

00:18:31.020 Unless they perceived the travel size

00:18:34.040 as almost like

00:18:35.240 hotel shampoo

00:18:36.560 like

00:18:36.880 it's like

00:18:37.820 or these

00:18:38.440 or some Airbnbs

00:18:39.760 the people will

00:18:41.160 it's like a new thing

00:18:42.740 like and they had

00:18:43.400 like

00:18:43.660 they'll leave almost

00:18:44.660 a hotel like

00:18:45.440 little travel

00:18:46.180 like a soap

00:18:47.020 thing

00:18:47.740 they'll leave like an

00:18:48.920 never opened one

00:18:50.480 and it's almost like

00:18:51.140 that's just for you

00:18:51.980 I'll never forget

00:18:52.620 I wonder if they thought

00:18:53.600 like

00:18:54.000 no no no

00:18:54.540 that it's a gift

00:18:55.060 well listen to this

00:18:55.720 I was moved by this

00:18:56.880 I'll never forget

00:18:57.460 I was in Omaha Nebraska

00:18:59.160 for a friend's wedding

00:19:00.280 I'll never forget

00:19:01.300 I was staying at my friend's house

00:19:02.700 and her mother was hosting us

00:19:06.240 and we were getting ready to go to the wedding.

00:19:08.480 I land there.

00:19:09.740 I go into a little guest room.

00:19:11.660 There is a little basket

00:19:13.500 with fresh towels right there.

00:19:15.240 Yes, yes, yes.

00:19:16.000 A toothbrush in a package.

00:19:18.400 A razor in a package.

00:19:20.360 Are you hearing what I'm saying?

00:19:21.240 No, I am.

00:19:21.860 I was like, are you?

00:19:23.600 I know someone who does that. 0.99

00:19:24.540 Fucking kidding me. 0.98

00:19:25.460 It brought me to my knees, 0.99

00:19:26.560 that level of hospitality.

00:19:27.840 No, it's phenomenal.

00:19:28.460 And guess who used it all?

00:19:29.640 Me.

00:19:30.480 Yeah.

00:19:31.200 My friend Paul will do that

00:19:32.520 and it'll be like bespoke kind of to you.

00:19:35.220 It'll be like, oh, he'll do slippers too.

00:19:37.820 Like just like-

00:19:38.160 That is unreal.

00:19:39.460 We should all aspire to that.

00:19:40.700 I want to be, that is the hostess.

00:19:43.320 Although you have to be careful.

00:19:45.740 You have to do it and he does it this way.

00:19:47.720 You have to do it in a way that doesn't make people,

00:19:52.720 that doesn't become so about your hosting

00:19:54.220 that they become uncomfortable.

00:19:57.320 Like when now, you know that they're so aware of the details.

00:20:00.740 Yeah, yeah.

00:20:01.360 Every detail of every object and every thing that now you're afraid to move.

00:20:05.820 It's like,

00:20:06.180 it's like they've accounted and inserted themselves into your most intimate

00:20:09.860 moment.

00:20:10.280 Like it'd be like that there's bad or a great example,

00:20:12.700 but like,

00:20:12.960 it'd be like a tampon unwrapped the kind of tampon that's meant to travel and

00:20:16.920 that,

00:20:17.180 but it has an applicator and then you pull the applicator out to load it up to

00:20:20.420 be ready to be a full size thing.

00:20:22.300 It'd be like,

00:20:22.740 like resting on a golden tray next to your thing.

00:20:27.080 I'm like,

00:20:27.240 what a host,

00:20:27.840 right?

00:20:28.140 Yeah.

00:20:28.740 They caught wind of the period.

00:20:31.180 you know my point being yeah yeah the intimacy it's like Paul does it perfectly because he does

00:20:37.800 it in a way that feels casual okay like you know I guess bathroom always just has a little

00:20:43.520 unopened little toothpaste and a little you know it's just like yeah there's no well the effort

00:20:50.080 my point is it's all about effortlessness of course always being the goal there it is

00:20:54.340 the white knuckled goal I know

00:20:56.500 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

00:21:08.980 It was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea.

00:21:14.220 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor, disappeared from a commune.

00:21:18.220 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:21:19.560 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:21:23.180 No, I am not your guru.

00:21:26.500 And back then, I lied to my parents, I lied to police, I lied to everybody.

00:21:31.860 There were years, Ryder, where I could not say your name.

00:21:34.840 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California, interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists, whomever I can, to try to find out what actually happened.

00:21:43.680 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:21:48.260 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.95

00:21:51.020 I'll teach you sons of a** to come around here and my wife. 0.90

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00:22:06.140 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,

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00:23:35.660 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?

00:23:39.660 Welcome to Boys and Girls, the podcast where dating isn't dating.

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00:24:40.140 I'm scared to go to the dentist today.

00:24:43.320 Oh, little baby going to the dentist.

00:24:46.400 I'm in no mood to be judged.

00:24:49.160 God, I'm behind, I gotta say.

00:24:52.360 I call them, like, can I cancel?

00:24:53.600 Another mouth laceration.

00:24:55.240 I bit, I was so hungry last night.

00:24:58.000 I think when you bite the lip due to the hunger,

00:25:01.360 do you know what I mean?

00:25:02.280 Like, I was hungry.

00:25:04.360 I apparently bit your lip.

00:25:05.500 Eating.

00:25:06.420 Yeah.

00:25:06.920 I bit, I was eating salmon. 1.00

00:25:08.640 I bit my fucking mouth 1.00

00:25:09.820 Like it was salmon 1.00

00:25:10.440 So disgusting

00:25:11.420 Not bleeding a ton 0.99

00:25:12.960 But it fucking hurts today man 1.00

00:25:14.980 Fucking hurts 1.00

00:25:17.520 Your only comfort 1.00

00:25:20.840 You'll love it 0.99

00:25:21.480 Mouth kills quick 0.94

00:25:22.600 Well I know

00:25:23.800 But you might recall

00:25:24.660 My horrible skin lacerations

00:25:26.380 A few weeks ago

00:25:27.280 Dude french fries

00:25:28.460 That was bad

00:25:29.740 That really hurt

00:25:30.600 Dragging on the way in

00:25:31.460 But this

00:25:32.220 It's just right there

00:25:33.840 Where anything touches it

00:25:36.360 And it's at huge risk

00:25:38.320 being bitten again yeah right anyway then it's protruding possibly care i do thank you

00:25:44.900 vinaigrette lemon just i thrive off salt vinegar yeah lemon this is what i live for stinging you

00:25:52.280 have to send it further back so also in the interim i went and looked at one of my keto

00:25:57.960 think bars that i'm addicted to as a three days i have to completely get off of it i can't repurchase

00:26:02.760 palm oil like it's bad you know what i mean really palm oil i mean it's fine obviously it's fine

00:26:08.200 as like an airplane thing like all right i'm on an airplane or something but becoming a

00:26:13.000 package um i mean i find it i find them satisfying as like a okay like a as far as a protein bar goes

00:26:20.960 but it's just i can't be mainlining i've frankly been enjoying the ratio brand bar because kind

00:26:29.780 of reminds me of an old uh nutric grain nature of out no what is it it maybe was nature valley

00:26:36.580 Is it keto?

00:26:37.820 Yes, it falls under that.

00:26:39.520 It's like, because it's like sugar-free. 0.99

00:26:41.400 It's sweetened with some bullshit, you know, something. 0.99

00:26:44.100 But it's, let's see what it is. 0.99

00:26:45.820 Speaking of keto, yeah.

00:26:46.620 We got to talk about my spaghetti squash dinner.

00:26:49.300 Ratio, bar.

00:26:51.980 I ate quite a few of them.

00:26:53.560 I got lost on an Instagram.

00:26:55.640 As we know, I don't have TikTok. 1.00

00:26:57.360 Like a fucking elderly person, 0.99

00:26:58.760 I got lost in Instagram reels of recipes. 1.00

00:27:03.700 And these freaks, they're what I eat in a day.

00:27:05.560 and I just can't stop watching it.

00:27:07.080 Oh, that's what it is?

00:27:08.060 What I eat in a day?

00:27:09.060 Oh my God.

00:27:09.740 You know, and they're like

00:27:10.440 the most like

00:27:11.860 empty vessels you've ever seen.

00:27:15.000 I thought.

00:27:15.980 And I love them.

00:27:16.740 So I've been

00:27:17.420 I've been

00:27:18.400 lapping up

00:27:19.620 this ratio

00:27:21.460 keto

00:27:22.020 yogurt

00:27:22.820 and

00:27:23.360 yogurt.

00:27:24.240 Whatever.

00:27:24.960 They have yogurt.

00:27:25.760 Yeah.

00:27:26.020 And then

00:27:26.440 now they have like

00:27:28.520 cereal and these

00:27:29.720 crunchy bars.

00:27:30.860 And then I thought

00:27:32.020 I saw them in the dessert aisle

00:27:33.640 just like

00:27:34.280 I was like,

00:27:35.040 oh my god

00:27:35.900 they've made it to the

00:27:36.700 dessert aisle

00:27:37.480 I thought they were doing

00:27:38.320 like a

00:27:38.760 Snickers ice cream bar

00:27:40.060 I've seen them

00:27:40.560 and

00:27:41.140 it wasn't

00:27:41.960 it was kind bar

00:27:42.920 but I was like

00:27:43.720 huge difference there

00:27:45.940 it really is exciting

00:27:46.320 when a brand new love

00:27:47.220 appears in a different

00:27:48.240 aisle

00:27:48.820 form

00:27:49.140 yeah

00:27:49.520 you know

00:27:51.000 look honey

00:27:51.680 Chipotle cheddar

00:27:53.140 what's that

00:27:54.380 it says ratio food

00:27:56.160 Chipotle cheddar

00:27:56.940 what

00:27:57.740 no no

00:27:58.640 it's like

00:27:59.860 colon ratio

00:28:00.920 no I'm looking at the website

00:28:02.180 doll

00:28:02.900 oh

00:28:03.480 chocolate brownie

00:28:04.920 A bar

00:28:06.260 I'm like

00:28:06.940 Scoot over to

00:28:07.760 Erewhon tomorrow

00:28:08.400 And get some special

00:28:09.100 Plane snacks for myself

00:28:10.280 Some travel snacks

00:28:11.260 There appears to be

00:28:12.160 A picture in

00:28:12.860 Vogue magazine's

00:28:13.980 Instagram

00:28:14.340 You can see me in the back

00:28:15.560 At this wedding

00:28:16.420 Oh hell yeah

00:28:17.220 Paparazzi

00:28:17.900 Do I

00:28:18.620 Look good

00:28:20.860 That's the question

00:28:22.840 I mean you can't see much

00:28:24.240 Why do I even need to

00:28:25.560 I send it to you

00:28:26.940 Just for fun

00:28:27.580 You sent it?

00:28:29.120 Mm-hmm

00:28:29.480 Oh I want more

00:28:30.480 But do you see me

00:28:31.580 Smiling in the back

00:28:33.020 Vogue

00:28:33.760 from Margaret Qualley

00:28:35.040 and Jack Antonoff's wedding.

00:28:37.120 Jacqueline Novak

00:28:37.960 appears in the background

00:28:38.960 right behind the bride.

00:28:41.100 It's a family wedding game.

00:28:42.200 Huge.

00:28:43.200 Huge.

00:28:43.640 Natural hair,

00:28:44.320 natural curls.

00:28:45.520 Beautiful.

00:28:46.700 Real question.

00:28:47.400 Did Vogue,

00:28:48.320 did Vogue know 1.00

00:28:49.440 to tag my ass? 1.00

00:28:51.400 I don't think they tag 1.00

00:28:52.520 when it's like half a face.

00:28:53.900 Of course they wouldn't.

00:28:54.500 But I think it's more just that

00:28:55.740 they don't do that when it's half a face.

00:28:57.620 No, of course they wouldn't,

00:28:58.700 but someone's got to speak up.

00:29:00.600 Yeah.

00:29:03.760 I got this thing called gap filler and sprayed it around the edges of my pipes,

00:29:10.380 you know, trying to seal everything up.

00:29:11.840 It was a disaster.

00:29:13.100 I didn't prepare.

00:29:14.200 It's all over my hands, sticky.

00:29:16.660 It was a disaster.

00:29:18.000 But I couldn't prepare.

00:29:19.980 I want to do things when I want to do them.

00:29:22.980 I tore down some curtains that were devastating me.

00:29:25.440 Now we're baldly visible to the neighbors.

00:29:29.420 Okay.

00:29:30.820 They had to go.

00:29:31.860 sometimes they have to go and you just have to

00:29:34.840 let them be bare until it's time

00:29:36.580 I've discussed on POOG I think briefly once

00:29:38.820 my old apartment in New York when I was in my

00:29:40.700 20s early 20s

00:29:42.100 being in a fit of being

00:29:44.740 hung over a migraine some kind of hell

00:29:46.600 ripping my blinds right off my window

00:29:48.700 yes

00:29:49.140 and then taping

00:29:52.820 towels

00:29:53.460 taping towels

00:29:55.560 I did that in New York

00:29:57.920 ripped in rage like this is hideous

00:30:00.520 like I regularly

00:30:01.860 when I think

00:30:02.480 something's hideous

00:30:03.060 will choose like

00:30:03.740 nothing at all

00:30:04.720 even like

00:30:05.540 a bare

00:30:06.720 like a bare

00:30:08.500 screw

00:30:09.080 you know what I mean 0.97

00:30:09.880 yeah

00:30:10.320 like the

00:30:11.040 like the

00:30:11.960 you know

00:30:12.960 the plastic

00:30:13.900 vertical

00:30:14.420 blind things

00:30:16.100 that are popular

00:30:17.460 here in LA

00:30:18.080 and they're always

00:30:18.820 falling out

00:30:19.560 you know

00:30:19.940 in rentals

00:30:20.540 yeah

00:30:21.000 you know what I'm talking about

00:30:22.140 the hanging ones

00:30:23.240 that are like

00:30:23.700 yeah yeah yeah

00:30:24.260 you know

00:30:24.540 the slats

00:30:25.120 not slats

00:30:26.140 you know

00:30:26.620 they call them vertical blinds

00:30:27.640 but it's actually kind of confusing

00:30:28.800 it's not really

00:30:29.580 and they fall out

00:30:32.820 and everything pops up

00:30:34.200 and I just

00:30:34.580 I've ripped them out

00:30:35.800 and

00:30:36.040 and then so the

00:30:37.800 the structure is still there

00:30:39.280 but the blinds are gone

00:30:40.300 and

00:30:40.800 I feel relief

00:30:42.460 it's like one time

00:30:43.120 I borrowed my friend

00:30:44.020 Erica's

00:30:44.720 sweatshirt

00:30:46.320 many years ago

00:30:48.140 in college

00:30:48.740 and it was a hoodie

00:30:49.660 and there was a pocket

00:30:50.560 in the front

00:30:51.000 and

00:30:52.400 there was this round

00:30:53.780 almost like grease stain

00:30:54.820 on it

00:30:55.340 like just

00:30:56.200 perfectly round

00:30:57.200 will never come out

00:30:58.440 kind of like

00:30:59.060 just

00:30:59.580 You know those stains?

00:31:00.620 It feels like it came from something oiled, and so it will just never.

00:31:04.860 And I just looked at it, and I was probably soaring on Adderall.

00:31:09.420 And it was just very obvious to me that the answer was to cut out a perfect circle.

00:31:14.820 The actual stain.

00:31:15.960 Cut.

00:31:16.380 Yeah. 0.79

00:31:16.960 So I did that, and eventually gave it back to her.

00:31:20.780 And it was as though I had, in my mind, it was as though I had cleaned up a hem.

00:31:26.520 Instead, I cut a large circle.

00:31:29.580 in the pocket of her sweatshirt.

00:31:32.780 She brings it up to this day.

00:31:34.440 That's pretty cute of you.

00:31:36.300 Here's a question.

00:31:37.640 Yeah.

00:31:38.460 So here, okay, you love solving problems.

00:31:40.120 This will be too small a problem for you, I think.

00:31:42.300 I'll make it big first.

00:31:43.140 Hair dryer outlets in London.

00:31:45.280 You don't take...

00:31:46.580 You know what?

00:31:47.580 You know what?

00:31:48.000 You're going to be shocked.

00:31:49.040 What?

00:31:49.760 I have a drawer right here.

00:31:50.860 I just opened it for you.

00:31:51.920 Okay, one.

00:31:52.660 Converters?

00:31:53.420 Two.

00:31:53.940 Wait.

00:31:54.760 Oh my God.

00:31:55.420 No, you'll never believe what is on a drawer.

00:31:57.720 I just looked down

00:31:58.760 at one of my three drawers here

00:31:59.820 none of the other ones

00:32:00.680 have labels

00:32:01.140 this one is a tiny label

00:32:03.100 from a label maker

00:32:03.920 it says

00:32:04.700 travel tech

00:32:06.020 yeah

00:32:07.100 are you ready

00:32:08.000 are you ready for this Kate

00:32:08.900 look

00:32:09.320 this is a packing cube

00:32:12.220 and look at those

00:32:14.260 converters 0.99

00:32:14.980 she pulled out converters

00:32:16.700 so I have converters

00:32:17.940 so many

00:32:18.420 here's my question

00:32:19.440 the three prong

00:32:21.280 like do I take my hair dryer

00:32:23.060 that's my question

00:32:23.760 do I take my hair dryer

00:32:24.560 I'm trying to think back

00:32:26.520 have I taken it

00:32:27.520 I'm trying to think of last summer

00:32:28.460 when I was in London.

00:32:29.580 Did I have my hair dryer

00:32:30.820 with the diffuser? 1.00

00:32:32.740 Fuck. 1.00

00:32:33.540 You can't remember? 1.00

00:32:34.940 You can't picture yourself

00:32:35.840 in the room?

00:32:35.860 You've never taken a three-prong?

00:32:37.100 I know, I can't.

00:32:37.860 No, because I never feel

00:32:39.280 like a diffuser

00:32:39.980 is essential on travel.

00:32:42.600 To me, it's essential.

00:32:43.300 I feel like you could always

00:32:43.720 do the plop,

00:32:44.780 the plop method.

00:32:47.240 You're not going to get

00:32:47.720 to be able to dry my hair.

00:32:48.400 You're not going to get

00:32:48.880 as much volume.

00:32:49.660 No, you're not going to get

00:32:50.520 as much.

00:32:50.780 I'm on stage every night.

00:32:52.200 I got to have volume.

00:32:53.120 Oh, for stage.

00:32:54.220 For stage.

00:32:55.000 Yeah, I forgot about stage.

00:32:55.860 I got to have freaking volume. 1.00

00:32:57.520 shit 1.00

00:32:58.880 shit and fuck 1.00

00:33:01.100 still there are other ways 1.00

00:33:02.640 but yeah it's not as speedy

00:33:05.180 well what if you do this

00:33:07.420 the place you're staying

00:33:09.240 if they have a

00:33:10.300 hairdryer already

00:33:12.160 why don't you do the whole like 1.00

00:33:13.880 one of those diffuser socks 0.99

00:33:16.080 over the existing hairdryer

00:33:19.580 I will take the hairdryer

00:33:21.300 my concern is what if I pack it

00:33:23.200 and this is a real eavesdropper 0.98

00:33:26.000 fucking ep 0.98

00:33:26.580 or not the whole ep 0.99

00:33:27.840 but this for sure

00:33:28.800 what if I take it

00:33:30.120 and it was in vain

00:33:31.020 you see what I'm saying

00:33:32.220 that's my fear

00:33:33.040 wait how would it be in vain

00:33:34.480 if it doesn't plug in

00:33:35.420 like if it won't

00:33:37.000 convert

00:33:37.420 are you concerned

00:33:38.740 that with the converter

00:33:39.760 it's not going to

00:33:41.320 wait it didn't work

00:33:42.380 I think in Italy

00:33:43.280 it didn't work

00:33:44.160 interesting

00:33:45.600 I'm almost positive

00:33:46.700 I never diffused in Italy

00:33:47.880 why can't I remember

00:33:48.720 these key details of my life

00:33:50.040 at the end of my life

00:33:51.400 I will have spent like

00:33:52.040 six years diffusing my hair 0.99

00:33:53.400 God to be like

00:33:54.320 wait let's not leave yet

00:33:55.580 I'm diffusing

00:33:56.240 in Italy I mean 0.82

00:33:57.760 just like I was

00:33:58.260 I'm hungry right now

00:33:59.420 so I'm just imagining

00:34:00.120 being starving

00:34:00.760 I miss being hungry

00:34:01.880 in Italy

00:34:02.280 it's the best

00:34:02.960 although I was never

00:34:03.600 hungry there

00:34:04.260 no there's no time

00:34:05.540 and I'll never forget

00:34:06.420 and I'll still

00:34:07.340 I'll never understand it

00:34:08.320 endless meals

00:34:09.560 pasta dessert

00:34:11.160 alcohol every meal

00:34:12.460 came back light

00:34:13.300 as a feather 1.00

00:34:13.800 you fucking explain 0.99

00:34:14.840 that to me 1.00

00:34:15.420 heaping pasta

00:34:16.640 heaping dessert

00:34:17.460 Aperol spritz

00:34:19.120 for a day

00:34:19.980 came back light 1.00

00:34:21.100 as a fucking feather 0.99

00:34:22.580 joyful 0.99

00:34:23.360 yeah

00:34:24.360 well they say

00:34:25.480 You know, I'll stretch up to the sun and enjoy.

00:34:27.920 Everything is good for you there.

00:34:31.100 Talked here, yeah.

00:34:32.740 I know, I know.

00:34:33.660 Which is why we must turn to the spiritual life.

00:34:37.180 We absolutely must.

00:34:46.640 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

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00:35:01.240 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

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00:38:23.040 Um, I took Adderall today.

00:38:26.800 You did?

00:38:27.120 Maybe that's why I've covered my drawer with stickers.

00:38:31.820 Maybe my ADT, sorry, my alarm just beeped in a way that I find upsetting.

00:38:36.140 I want to guess more products just by their sight alone.

00:38:38.680 you pull something

00:38:40.080 into frame

00:38:41.040 it's too funny

00:38:41.440 the idea of that being

00:38:42.620 once I navigated

00:38:45.180 through a series of

00:38:46.380 through like a streaming

00:38:47.800 thing with no visual

00:38:49.300 to the show I wanted

00:38:50.660 and the episode

00:38:51.360 wow that's impressive

00:38:52.660 honestly

00:38:53.320 yeah

00:38:55.700 it was a very long time ago

00:38:58.140 oh my mother

00:39:03.940 ew 0.99

00:39:04.340 she just wrote

00:39:05.780 I put on the lotion

00:39:06.640 in your room

00:39:07.380 goop

00:39:08.080 and then she goes dad just said you smell so good ew ew okay wait which product that i must

00:39:14.900 have left some goop behind have you ever actually had the strength to submit a super bowl a super

00:39:22.560 bill to your insurance because i'll tell you right now i once went i don't even know what that means

00:39:27.860 to submit a super bill i don't know what that means therapy that you submit to your health

00:39:33.080 insurance oh you mean it like where they add it all together yeah and you send it to your insurance

00:39:37.660 and they go, okay, we'll give you this much back.

00:39:39.420 I've never tried to...

00:39:41.140 The only thing I've done is when I've gotten...

00:39:43.440 When the insurance...

00:39:45.280 When there was an issue and I had to pay

00:39:47.140 an insane amount of money for a prescription,

00:39:50.680 I went after them.

00:39:51.820 I had to. Rent was due.

00:39:53.860 Well, I

00:39:54.640 submitted a super bill.

00:39:58.020 Speaking of consignment.

00:39:59.760 What about it?

00:40:00.480 Can it pay the bills? 1.00

00:40:02.880 How many dresses do you need? 1.00

00:40:05.080 You get like $8.

00:40:06.220 It's like you buy a dress for $400.

00:40:08.800 You can sign it and you get a check for like $30 or something.

00:40:11.980 I don't know how.

00:40:12.880 Don't listen to me, but I'm pretty sure it's bad.

00:40:15.120 It's like on that level.

00:40:16.700 Yeah.

00:40:17.200 I guess that's why you got to use the apps.

00:40:19.100 Then you can try to get more.

00:40:22.180 My mom's calling.

00:40:22.880 Let me just tell her I'll call her back.

00:40:24.120 I'm going to tell her I'll call her back.

00:40:26.320 Sure.

00:40:27.120 Hi, Mom.

00:40:28.420 Hi, honey.

00:40:29.060 FaceTime with me, okay, right now?

00:40:30.780 Wait, wait.

00:40:31.100 I'm recording POOG.

00:40:33.100 Oh, okay.

00:40:33.760 Okay.

00:40:33.960 I'll talk to you later.

00:40:34.680 Okay, bye.

00:40:35.740 i thought that could be fun for the listener

00:40:39.140 no i agree i wanted more i know that's unusual she's she's testing her phone it's like she

00:40:46.100 perpetually her phone like doesn't work she like got a new phone she's like i can't get texts i'm

00:40:50.200 like you can though i know you can and then it's like yeah yeah my phone's not buzzing and i'm like

00:40:54.420 do this do that you know yeah she looked so just the other night was her date to a wedding

00:41:01.460 Oh, really? 0.91

00:41:02.120 Or Dancing the ABBA, Dancing Queen.

00:41:05.000 Oh, this is big.

00:41:06.260 Yeah, what?

00:41:06.640 Are you ready?

00:41:07.140 Yeah.

00:41:08.040 Okay, so I'm reading Thick-Faced Black Heart, okay?

00:41:11.360 I think I told you about it.

00:41:12.300 What's that?

00:41:12.600 It's The Warrior Philosophy for Conquering the Challenges of Business and Life by Chin Ning Chu. 0.54

00:41:21.000 Don't know it.

00:41:21.960 International bestseller written...

00:41:24.600 Anyway, obviously I was drawn in by the title.

00:41:27.400 I mean...

00:41:28.600 Yeah.

00:41:28.880 I think my heart could go darker

00:41:32.380 and my face could get thicker.

00:41:34.540 You know what I'm saying?

00:41:35.560 Yeah.

00:41:36.700 How to be like,

00:41:37.600 how to like,

00:41:38.280 you know, 1.00

00:41:39.300 be a fucking warrior. 1.00

00:41:40.760 Yeah. 1.00

00:41:41.280 Merciless.

00:41:41.700 So.

00:41:42.340 I can't say the word.

00:41:43.560 Merciless.

00:41:44.340 How to mercilessly succeed in business?

00:41:47.160 Mercilessly.

00:41:48.020 Mercilessly.

00:41:48.540 Mercilessly.

00:41:49.080 What's happening to me?

00:41:49.960 Jesus.

00:41:50.560 Merciless.

00:41:51.460 Yeah.

00:41:51.740 Merciless.

00:41:52.700 Winning through negative thinking is chapter five.

00:41:54.780 And I just,

00:41:56.240 the relief.

00:41:57.620 Okay. 1.00

00:41:57.880 Thick-faced Blackheart practitioners do not accept the common rules of success, okay? 1.00

00:42:03.300 So anyway, this is like this chapter. 1.00

00:42:05.100 You might find inconsistencies with other chapters.

00:42:07.460 Well, you know, the universe isn't consistent.

00:42:10.100 It basically says, okay? 0.98

00:42:10.640 That's for fucking sure. 0.98

00:42:11.680 It's fabulous, okay? 0.99

00:42:13.340 This is fabulous. 0.99

00:42:14.580 A death sentence awaits, whatever.

00:42:17.860 It really just goes like, basically it's saying like, if you're negative, you don't have to fix that all before you can move forward.

00:42:24.440 Of course not.

00:42:25.480 Negativity.

00:42:26.160 I was reading this in my book.

00:42:27.880 But it's like pain, like negativity that we live in this like positive culture.

00:42:32.940 It's like sickening.

00:42:33.860 It's killing us like positivity poison.

00:42:35.940 It's like, no, pain is, I mean, we're talking about two different things,

00:42:39.840 but pain is where life happens.

00:42:42.520 You freaks.

00:42:43.620 Yeah.

00:42:44.040 And so this is saying.

00:42:45.720 We're not babies. 0.99

00:42:46.420 The baby's vacation is fucking life now. 0.99

00:42:49.240 We're considered positive or negative. 0.98

00:42:52.840 Therefore, we spend enormous.

00:42:55.600 Okay.

00:42:55.800 if you consider yourself a negative individual and your inner voice often tells you that you

00:42:58.720 can't do it don't fight back yield to your voice by ignoring it you'll you know i mean that was

00:43:04.820 like a key tenant of my depression approach don't argue with the devil the devil always wins yeah

00:43:09.740 yeah totally smart um by ignoring your voice you know blah blah blah you're free to free yourself

00:43:17.440 from the trap that says change comes before success it's like no if i can if i can go um

00:43:22.860 Anyway, this I love.

00:43:24.340 So listen to these headlines.

00:43:25.380 The power of hating life.

00:43:28.220 Okay.

00:43:29.140 If that isn't the balm,

00:43:30.700 if that isn't the salve that you need.

00:43:32.900 If you think your life is a drag and you hate it,

00:43:35.120 I will not attempt to talk you out of your opinion.

00:43:37.920 However, I think you can benefit much more

00:43:40.420 if you change the object of your hatred.

00:43:42.120 Instead of hating life, hate God.

00:43:43.540 Oh.

00:43:45.640 Wait, what just happened?

00:43:46.720 We're reacting to something.

00:43:49.200 No, I know you are.

00:43:50.760 I only realized it was the ADT.

00:43:52.300 I forgot to put my salad in the fridge.

00:43:54.940 Hang on. 1.00

00:43:56.120 Fuck. 1.00

00:43:57.020 My $17 salad from Erewhon. 1.00

00:44:00.160 That was not a typo.

00:44:01.320 You read correctly. 0.99

00:44:02.140 Hate God.

00:44:02.740 Ironically, so many people love God, but hate everybody else.

00:44:05.240 Sure. 0.99

00:44:09.400 God damn it. 0.99

00:44:11.260 Sorry. 0.99

00:44:13.920 Are you ready?

00:44:14.760 My $17 Chinese chicken salad I forgot to put in the fridge.

00:44:17.520 Yeah.

00:44:18.760 Where from?

00:44:19.520 Goop Kitchen?

00:44:20.300 Erewhon.

00:44:20.700 so listen to me

00:44:21.380 right quick

00:44:22.400 you know this whole thing

00:44:23.920 like oh you can't

00:44:24.560 leave meat out

00:44:25.100 for two hours

00:44:25.620 of course you can

00:44:26.200 yeah

00:44:26.520 of course you can

00:44:27.700 right

00:44:28.080 I don't know 1.00

00:44:29.340 fuck 1.00

00:44:30.080 don't tell me 1.00

00:44:30.800 you would throw that away

00:44:31.600 you're fine

00:44:31.940 your salad

00:44:32.860 you're fine

00:44:33.620 you're fine

00:44:34.100 think of a picnic table

00:44:35.380 it's cooked

00:44:35.840 okay keep going

00:44:36.560 think of a picnic table

00:44:38.140 okay so

00:44:38.900 okay go

00:44:39.320 so I'm gonna reread

00:44:40.900 this paragraph

00:44:41.400 okay great

00:44:42.140 the power of hating life

00:44:43.300 if you think your life

00:44:44.620 is a drag and you hate it

00:44:45.540 it will not attempt 1.00

00:44:46.080 to talk you out

00:44:46.680 of your opinion

00:44:47.160 however I think

00:44:48.260 you can benefit

00:44:48.980 much more

00:44:49.460 if you change

00:44:50.000 the object of your hatred.

00:44:51.420 Instead of hating life,

00:44:52.500 hate God.

00:44:53.660 I don't like that. 0.91

00:44:54.600 That's what I gasped at.

00:44:55.560 No.

00:44:56.020 Okay.

00:44:56.520 Okay.

00:44:56.920 No.

00:44:57.160 Now listen.

00:44:58.200 Okay.

00:44:58.600 Listen.

00:44:59.720 Okay.

00:45:00.720 It's going to come back around.

00:45:02.080 You think I'm,

00:45:03.060 you think God's my friend.

00:45:04.640 Keep going.

00:45:06.640 Okay.

00:45:07.300 Well,

00:45:07.740 you don't have the issue

00:45:08.820 of this particular person

00:45:10.300 with this negativity.

00:45:11.160 Okay.

00:45:11.340 Yeah.

00:45:11.540 I love God.

00:45:12.480 Just let.

00:45:15.700 I know you're irritating.

00:45:16.980 Hold the complexity for a second.

00:45:18.580 I'm holding it.

00:45:18.780 I'm sorry.

00:45:19.080 to love God. I know you do. Keep going. Okay. That was not a typo you read correctly. Hate

00:45:25.700 God. Ironically, so many people love God, but hate everybody else. We know this. Okay. So 0.73

00:45:30.340 whatever the man who hates his fellow man and loves only God is no lover of God. Sure. That's

00:45:35.660 for sure. Okay. Okay. But then if hatred exists within you, then the best thing you can do is

00:45:40.740 rechannel the hate from man to God since the essence of God is love. Okay. Hold on. Other

00:45:46.980 people's attitudes towards him are inconsequential. Unlike humans, God cares not whether you hate him

00:45:53.680 or love him. He is like a fire, which you may love or hate, but as long as you come close to

00:45:58.440 fire, it will warm you. Okay, hold on. The emotions of hate and love come from the same source.

00:46:04.360 Hate is another side of love and only due to love can hate exist in the Bible, Revelation 3.16.

00:46:09.240 So then because thou art lukewarm and neither hot nor cold, I will spew thee out of my mouth.

00:46:14.180 the only time god will ignore you and silently wait for you is when you totally ignore him

00:46:19.240 so as long as you focus your attention towards god he will purify you support you and rehabilitate

00:46:24.560 you you may then see your hatred transformed into divine love so it's really saying

00:46:29.780 okay if you're sitting there hating man and hating your fellow man and dealing with that right

00:46:36.120 mm-hmm that can't that isn't you know what's that doing for anyone okay let's just say you

00:46:44.180 literally take that and you go instead i'm gonna hate god okay you bring that to god

00:46:49.100 by actively focusing on god okay in this way like like it's basically saying like give it a shot

00:46:56.240 yeah honey the light will warm you yeah yeah yeah it's like lay it it's like saying lay it on god

00:47:01.460 yeah yeah give it to god sure but it's not just give it to god no it's actually i mean

00:47:06.340 i'm sure it's not it's not working for me focus i'll focus more

00:47:11.720 thing as long as you focus your attention toward god he will purify you support you and rehabilitate

00:47:17.980 you well that's for sure so you may then see your hatred transformed into divine love okay so you can

00:47:24.440 hate fellow man forever and it will not transform you yeah okay right that's for sure so then bring

00:47:31.360 it over to god get on your knees rage oh yeah wrestle with the angels okay it's god okay yeah

00:47:37.860 okay and when you're there before god in conversation with god yeah let's just say by 0.72

00:47:42.620 hating i hate you gotta hate you yeah yeah you're you're in it with god and and there something

00:47:49.360 will happen okay no okay that's interesting okay okay i mean i didn't share it because it sounded 0.97

00:47:55.180 like the average whatever yeah you know what I'm saying but it's it's and then you know and then

00:48:01.440 a series of others you're submitting to something if you're allowing yourself like god can handle

00:48:06.840 yeah exactly exactly your hatred yeah and it will therefore transform other men nothing gets

00:48:14.680 transformed through your hatred of other of other people it's huge looking outside for you another

00:48:20.340 time with it spiderweb i'll come for you another time with it no i i'm listening did i not respond

00:48:26.680 enough i hear it no i i want you to i just i want you to find the same sort of thrill because

00:48:33.640 to me it's like this to me it's like it's hardcore in this way that is so much more exciting about

00:48:42.260 god okay than bringing kind of a lukewarm love like a hearing again and getting it like we love

00:48:49.340 god i love god you know like there's something like and therefore then when you are a pit of

00:48:55.160 hate depression whatever that therefore you keep yourself like basically bring your your hate and

00:49:02.720 depression into the altar yeah yeah yeah instead of today i don't go into the sacred because

00:49:09.820 i'm too angry i am hideous no no of course yeah and i do think yeah

00:49:14.520 i don't know it did something for me it's fine you know no i i i hear you i'm just imagining

00:49:22.220 myself in a classroom just reading reading reading huh it's just like like if i like just

00:49:28.440 like if i were just this like teacher who was like just so excited at the front and my eyes

00:49:34.720 desperately searching the crowd the crowd the crowd it is a crowd to like me just reading the

00:49:42.840 text with i mean the thing is like whatever you know yeah me needing you to love it right now

00:49:49.660 or feel the same thrill that i'm feeling it's probably because also i've been

00:49:53.580 no i'm interested i feel like i didn't well i don't know keep going

00:49:59.720 i couldn't match your enthusiasm but i was listening i did think there was something

00:50:05.980 that i was i think i understood it was it was sparked yeah i think i think i think uh

00:50:12.780 well it's also like it's also in the context of the rest of the book like you know what i mean

00:50:20.080 i mean like you know what i mean and that's the chapter that that you know whatever it doesn't

00:50:25.860 fucking matter i just find it more it's funny to me the whole book is about business i think

00:50:29.680 that's where i bristle it's like as a way to like succeed in business which is like to me 0.98

00:50:34.140 ultimately the most hideous like oh like like yes but but you have to understand okay

00:50:40.200 it's like this book is from let's see like 1984 yeah let me guess 1991

00:50:50.020 2007 no maybe 2010 let me just find it post 2008 i love going anxiety like i don't have

00:51:00.060 like i love going to a thing i'm getting to it i mean i'm looking for it hold on

00:51:04.300 my guess is

00:51:05.660 post-2008

00:51:06.720 or

00:51:07.660 the 90s

00:51:08.760 1992

00:51:12.040 ooh yeah

00:51:13.740 okay that

00:51:14.360 that's a very

00:51:14.980 but her 1.00

00:51:15.520 her fucking story 1.00

00:51:16.640 is 1.00

00:51:17.380 quite interesting

00:51:19.320 the point is

00:51:20.240 I love when

00:51:21.160 you know this about

00:51:21.960 I literally love to roll

00:51:23.080 into the business section

00:51:24.120 no I know

00:51:24.780 I know

00:51:25.380 because

00:51:26.180 you're gonna get something

00:51:28.520 not

00:51:29.600 like

00:51:30.280 the medicine you need

00:51:32.240 you know what I mean

00:51:32.880 like 1.00

00:51:34.300 the self-help fuckers the ones who you're already drawn to the spiritual section yeah 1.00

00:51:40.020 no hey you're gonna get conversations around money or the almost the only contemporary way 0.99

00:51:47.140 to have a conversation about god the only kind of assertion you can still be welcomed into polite

00:51:53.660 society if you talk about your desire for money talking about a desire for god is practically

00:51:58.500 makes you an instant social pariah particularly in hollywood

00:52:02.860 you know yes i i'm just i'm just i don't know i i i i love um the fight for achievement 0.55

00:52:15.400 and people i fucking like i love it i love i ultimately deplore the fight for achievement 0.85

00:52:21.460 but i do see it in myself of course i'm i mean i have a podcast fucking going on stage 0.97

00:52:29.020 seven nights a week in London 0.96

00:52:30.860 personal

00:52:32.080 you what

00:52:32.860 I mean private victory

00:52:34.000 it doesn't have to be a public victory

00:52:35.700 but

00:52:36.500 I do think there's

00:52:37.580 I mean to me

00:52:38.400 like the opposite of

00:52:39.660 of depression

00:52:41.100 like

00:52:42.240 to

00:52:42.700 I mean for me personally

00:52:44.160 like

00:52:44.440 to get back into wanting things

00:52:46.700 no I understand

00:52:48.320 yeah

00:52:48.740 is like

00:52:49.380 I'm like nurture it

00:52:51.340 don't transcend it

00:52:52.060 don't transcend it

00:52:52.780 because I can like

00:52:53.400 transcend it

00:52:54.100 and then slip into meaninglessness

00:52:55.480 I understand

00:52:56.300 so it's like value the thing

00:52:57.680 oh and I'm

00:52:58.280 I'm a wanting person.

00:53:00.200 Trust me.

00:53:00.680 Yeah.

00:53:02.100 I just,

00:53:03.280 I don't know.

00:53:04.280 I really like,

00:53:08.460 I don't know.

00:53:09.400 I remember my painting teacher saying wrestling with the angels,

00:53:11.880 you know,

00:53:12.500 about this.

00:53:14.060 I was struggling in the class.

00:53:18.100 Wrestling with the angels.

00:53:19.220 And I just,

00:53:19.620 I love that.

00:53:20.560 Knowing,

00:53:21.040 knowing nothing.

00:53:21.940 I,

00:53:22.160 I like that phrase and everything that it conjures.

00:53:26.160 A favorite,

00:53:26.600 favorite phrase of mine.

00:53:27.600 i think wait is it young or is it campbell i think it's cast out gods no you take you need

00:53:36.380 only take one step toward the gods and they will take 10 toward you oh yeah beautiful yeah yeah 0.82

00:53:41.400 yeah real words to fucking live by i had those carved in my journal oh my god imagine carving 0.90

00:53:48.760 in your journal yeah no i was i was picturing them it pushing through to the carved next page 0.98

00:53:55.520 Yeah.

00:53:57.120 Well, look at this.

00:53:57.860 I think we have to wrap up.

00:53:59.080 A frequent guest on Larry King Live.

00:54:01.040 I just, I love that.

00:54:02.060 That's hysterical.

00:54:03.680 1992 Larry King Live.

00:54:05.040 Unbelievable.

00:54:05.620 Him getting a constant BJ for 20 years under the desk.

00:54:12.580 I was lying in bed thinking,

00:54:14.420 no more blowing raspberries, as they call it,

00:54:17.660 okay, in the business,

00:54:18.740 all to make my cackle not blow out the mics.

00:54:22.000 I'm bringing back my cackle.

00:54:22.980 It's not who I am.

00:54:23.860 And I've been doing it because I don't want to cackle too loud.

00:54:27.060 Keep cackling. I love your cackle.

00:54:30.560 Should we go, little girl?

00:54:32.300 Okay, great. I'll talk to you in a bit.

00:54:33.960 Okay, love you, bye.

00:54:35.120 Love you, bye.

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