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00:02:35.440 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.

00:02:36.900 I'm Jacqueline Novak.

00:02:38.000 And this is POOG, an ongoing conversation about wellness between two obsessive friends.

00:02:42.720 Two untamable intellects.

00:02:44.520 This is our hobby. 0.97

00:02:45.360 This is our hell.

00:02:46.220 This is our naked desire for free products.

00:02:48.500 This is POOG.

00:02:49.920 Today's topic, loosely speaking, botched.

00:02:52.360 tear this out rabbit's paw

00:02:55.160 so hello hi i was just gonna say before you look at your notes okay we just had to do a promotional

00:03:05.280 thing for poog okay and i just want to acknowledge that okay so we're in the recording yeah that was

00:03:08.800 hard yeah yeah okay and i realized just like what why was that hell right afterwards for for all

00:03:14.060 the reasons and it's because the mask i need a promotional sort of character mask okay when we

00:03:20.860 promote poog that I can just drop into

00:03:22.700 because it's this half

00:03:24.380 it's one foot in this tone

00:03:26.860 I know

00:03:27.400 it's

00:03:28.200 no it's bad

00:03:29.580 I feel too

00:03:30.720 oh my god

00:03:32.940 okay 1.00

00:03:33.900 I was thinking yeah fuck 0.99

00:03:36.120 it really is Borges and I 0.99

00:03:37.620 I found another

00:03:38.980 I pulled another quote for us

00:03:42.720 that I thought was even stronger from another Marion Woodman

00:03:44.800 by the way

00:03:45.260 Chris

00:03:46.060 can you bring me the two Marion Woodman books

00:03:50.740 that are resting atop the tall stack

00:03:53.260 of how to weep in public books.

00:03:55.880 Two books atop of the stack

00:03:57.780 of the top of the stack

00:03:59.560 of how to weep in public books.

00:03:59.860 There's my girl.

00:04:00.480 I love her.

00:04:01.140 She's crazy, but I love her. 0.95

00:04:05.140 That little kook. 0.87

00:04:06.640 He sees him.

00:04:07.860 Okay. 0.99

00:04:14.140 The Pregnant Virgin. 1.00

00:04:15.640 A Process of Psychological Transformation. 1.00

00:04:19.760 Pregnant Virgin. 1.00

00:04:20.620 Here we fucking go. 1.00

00:04:21.660 Here we fucking go. 0.99

00:04:22.560 Because I want to write a whole dissertation. 0.99

00:04:24.300 In like six years, I might go to Rome for six months. 1.00

00:04:27.080 I want to write a whole thing about the absence of pregnant women 0.98

00:04:29.220 and classical Christian imagery.

00:04:32.140 Well, have you read the Magdalene books I've been pushing?

00:04:35.940 No.

00:04:36.900 As usual, I know almost nothing and I'm prepared to write a book.

00:04:40.180 Okay.

00:04:42.480 Well, some would say it's the only way.

00:04:43.940 Okay, because...

00:04:44.940 Yeah.

00:04:45.460 Because...

00:04:45.780 Can I tell you, at my college, emblazoned in the library,

00:04:48.380 there's nothing more dangerous

00:04:49.540 than a little information.

00:04:51.140 Oh, right, right.

00:04:51.860 Or fun.

00:04:52.140 The library would say such a thing,

00:04:53.820 wouldn't they?

00:04:54.340 Yeah.

00:04:54.880 And by the way,

00:04:55.520 a little information,

00:04:56.300 that's all we have.

00:04:56.900 Even in the library

00:04:57.680 because library is limited by the body.

00:05:01.460 Okay, the body can go into a library.

00:05:03.520 How much can the body consume

00:05:04.760 in a single day?

00:05:06.000 Yeah.

00:05:06.620 Only a little bit.

00:05:07.740 The library is something you dip in.

00:05:09.160 You can't swim through the library

00:05:10.720 and have a lot.

00:05:11.380 I mean, I guess you can stay there for hours.

00:05:12.660 I mean, sorry, go on.

00:05:13.240 You could solve all,

00:05:15.200 I would say all contemporary maladies

00:05:17.000 could be solved.

00:05:18.020 not with the tinctures and the powders

00:05:20.560 and everything we claim to love

00:05:22.180 and what we do love.

00:05:24.140 But if everyone had state, 0.99

00:05:25.720 this is how the government should fucking work. 0.99

00:05:27.680 If the government knew what the fuck they were doing. 0.99

00:05:30.580 Every citizen, mandatory. 0.99

00:05:31.880 I feel like totalitarianism is coming.

00:05:33.080 I feel like totalitarianism is coming.

00:05:34.600 I go totalitarian with this.

00:05:36.500 I go totalitarian with this.

00:05:36.520 At the top. 0.99

00:05:37.840 I am fucking stalling with this. 0.92

00:05:40.060 Mandatory. 0.98

00:05:41.320 Every citizen, one hour a day in the library

00:05:43.920 or you become branded.

00:05:45.760 Every day that you miss a day in the library.

00:05:47.340 and sponsorship

00:05:48.180 because I'm listening

00:05:50.880 you are branded 0.73

00:05:52.180 like cattle

00:05:53.140 for every day

00:05:54.360 if you haven't been

00:05:54.780 in the library

00:05:55.140 and by the way

00:05:55.560 it's a small brand

00:05:56.240 it's a little like

00:05:57.020 dot

00:05:57.360 remember in

00:05:58.340 remember in

00:05:59.180 Eternal Sunshine

00:05:59.860 and the Spotless Line

00:06:00.880 Eternal Sunshine

00:06:03.960 Eternal Sunshine

00:06:05.600 and the Spotless Mind

00:06:06.720 okay

00:06:07.100 remember he was like

00:06:08.040 he's like

00:06:08.540 when they're fighting

00:06:09.360 when their relationship

00:06:10.100 takes a turn

00:06:10.780 whatever

00:06:11.040 and he's like

00:06:11.640 he's like

00:06:12.320 library

00:06:12.860 he's like

00:06:13.700 oh yeah

00:06:14.020 the way

00:06:14.540 he's like

00:06:15.300 the way you say

00:06:15.900 library

00:06:16.280 yeah like he was like like yeah you know it was okay wait wait mandatory library hours and by the

00:06:23.520 way if you don't want to read you don't have to then you go in there and you sit quietly

00:06:26.480 with yourself community with yourself mandatory but don't you but do you see what i'm saying

00:06:32.120 about the library vastness of information but the it's like it's like a massive apple and you're

00:06:38.560 you know an ant like it's like no i know you can only that's what people are afraid of it

00:06:42.920 Because it suggests, it amplifies your own lack of knowledge.

00:06:47.260 I had a Jungian dream like beyond, like, you know, like a corpse, like under my bed.

00:06:52.520 Oh, cool.

00:06:53.220 Yeah.

00:06:53.340 It's fun when it becomes the symbols like that.

00:06:56.440 And I left it there.

00:06:57.000 It was kind of an ADD nightmare.

00:06:58.380 I was like, because then I went about my day because someone said like, oh, like, yeah, just come back later.

00:07:03.080 And then it was like, why did you leave like a corpse?

00:07:05.100 Like you discovered a corpse in your home, didn't say anything all day.

00:07:07.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:07:08.740 And then I realized.

00:07:10.700 You haven't done your taxes.

00:07:11.680 Oh, I wrote, tear this out.

00:07:13.260 I wrote, tear this out.

00:07:14.720 Okay, marginally, I said, tear this out.

00:07:16.820 Oh, okay, read it.

00:07:18.260 Okay, let's see.

00:07:19.840 We always try to read on Poog.

00:07:21.040 Does it work?

00:07:21.760 Let's try.

00:07:22.640 It does.

00:07:23.140 I've heard people say they sob.

00:07:24.640 Experimenting with the new protein drink today.

00:07:26.240 Look, gaffed over.

00:07:27.840 That's Koya again. 0.66

00:07:29.240 Yeah, but until Koya sends Koya, they're not getting... 0.86

00:07:31.600 Oh, but I mean, Koya might not send

00:07:33.580 because don't you remember about three weeks back, 0.98

00:07:35.380 you were like, this is trash. 0.95

00:07:36.780 No, by the way, no, no, Koya's not trash. 0.99

00:07:38.720 It was the other one that was trash. 0.96

00:07:40.000 Koya, though, and I also want to say... 0.97

00:07:41.680 Oh, chicory root fiber I heard isn't good.

00:07:44.500 That's in here. 1.00

00:07:45.460 Fuck. 1.00

00:07:46.480 But sunflower. 1.00

00:07:47.940 It's all.

00:07:48.700 I mean, it is all.

00:07:50.060 Honey, don't drink this every day.

00:07:51.600 I'm not going to drink this every day.

00:07:52.440 But in a pinch today, I woke up frantic doing things.

00:07:55.520 Have to record POOG.

00:07:56.920 Not to be pro Anna, but I didn't have time for breakfast. 0.75

00:07:59.640 So I sucked this down.

00:08:01.740 Okay.

00:08:02.680 It happens sometimes.

00:08:04.780 I'm going to lunch after this and I'm going to have protein.

00:08:08.160 I'm reading.

00:08:08.980 I'm interested.

00:08:09.480 I'm interested

00:08:11.300 in adolescence

00:08:12.340 while her sisters

00:08:13.020 were conspiring 0.61

00:08:14.380 about bangles

00:08:15.100 babies

00:08:15.580 and bans of marriage 0.98

00:08:16.600 she is banished 0.91

00:08:17.340 by her own decree

00:08:18.280 her creativity

00:08:19.340 is of a different nature

00:08:20.440 am I supposed to listen

00:08:20.500 or is this kind of

00:08:21.180 a rumbling

00:08:21.760 I'm not sure

00:08:22.420 I'm finding

00:08:22.940 I'm finding

00:08:23.500 okay let it

00:08:24.240 wash over you

00:08:25.060 all right hold on

00:08:26.620 yeah well

00:08:27.080 part of her

00:08:27.620 feels abandoned

00:08:28.380 part of her knows

00:08:30.020 that were she

00:08:30.640 to forsake

00:08:31.380 her own creativity

00:08:32.260 she would be

00:08:32.660 banning her 0.99

00:08:33.040 so okay

00:08:33.680 I want to talk

00:08:35.600 about my experience

00:08:36.620 at Nordstrom's

00:08:37.280 yesterday

00:08:37.620 well I want to

00:08:38.660 talk about my

00:08:39.120 I went to the mall six times in the last three weeks.

00:08:42.380 Okay. 1.00

00:08:43.200 Listen to fucking this. 1.00

00:08:45.060 First of all, first of all, 1.00

00:08:46.820 we've talked about the pains of online ordering and the returns, right?

00:08:50.640 Although we've tried to push you through that,

00:08:52.220 realize that, you know, it's a label.

00:08:54.280 Although I do have something I'm waiting on returning.

00:08:56.220 Okay.

00:08:56.480 So something that I did.

00:08:58.240 I got, well, posture correcting bra that it doesn't fit.

00:09:01.980 It's not lifting enough.

00:09:03.160 Anyway, go on.

00:09:03.720 Sitting on the counter.

00:09:04.440 I went to the brick and mortar.

00:09:06.100 I went to the mall yesterday.

00:09:08.240 I had to go to Sephora to get some items, some makeup.

00:09:12.520 I had two botched returns yesterday.

00:09:14.780 One was I went in.

00:09:16.480 Okay, first of all, last time I was at Sephora, I got something.

00:09:19.700 I also have another mouth injury.

00:09:21.060 Sorry, botched is one of the great archetypal actions of modern existence.

00:09:27.920 Ooh.

00:09:28.840 There I say.

00:09:30.680 It's like botching something.

00:09:33.420 You don't really think of that in the 1500s, okay?

00:09:36.340 there's something a little cheap about it botching something yeah like i think it kind of

00:09:41.900 it's kind of 90s like it's sort of like it's cheap it's fast i think you can get it done

00:09:46.220 and then and then botch it in the urgent care clinic and then yeah yeah you know all right go

00:09:50.960 on sorry sorry i am no but i went to sephora last time i was at sephora the hags may remember i or 0.97

00:09:58.980 i bought something i bought a benefit 24 hour lip i'm sorry eye gel whatever the fuck took it home 0.66

00:10:05.460 it's an empty box. It's an empty box. Oh, right, right. I could have sworn I had the box with me 0.96

00:10:10.440 to return. I get to the counter. I don't have the box. They go, we can't do anything for you

00:10:14.540 if you don't have the empty box. So that was painful. And then you went back with not even

00:10:18.980 the empty box. Yeah. So I thought I had the box. You tried to return air. You tried to return two

00:10:26.420 open hands. You tried to return two open hands and a frown. I'm a VIP beauty. I'm a beauty

00:10:33.000 member. I'm a V.I.B. beauty member. Yeah. Who isn't? Yeah, I know. All you have to do is spend

00:10:37.660 $7,000 every four days. But the point is, then I did the unimaginable. I went to a physical

00:10:45.640 brick and mortar Urban Outfitters that wasn't at the mall, but that was five minutes away

00:10:49.720 because I ordered a couple sizes wrong of this freaking slip. I had a botched return

00:10:57.560 at Urban Outfitters,

00:10:59.520 they botched,

00:11:01.960 straight up botched, okay?

00:11:04.420 Where I bring in the jeans

00:11:05.880 one day after I bought them,

00:11:08.580 realize I've left the receipt somewhere,

00:11:12.260 unsure where, okay?

00:11:13.160 And I go, I am open.

00:11:14.820 I know this means exchange,

00:11:18.280 not cash back, okay?

00:11:20.540 They try to process it.

00:11:22.640 It doesn't work.

00:11:25.280 They're just getting errors on the receipt

00:11:27.160 and they send me home.

00:11:29.140 No.

00:11:30.280 With no answers.

00:11:31.260 That's terrible.

00:11:31.900 If you go into another Urban Outfitters,

00:11:34.000 probably going to get the same result.

00:11:35.740 You fell through the cracks.

00:11:38.680 That's terrible.

00:11:40.000 Wait, wait, wait, wait. 0.75

00:11:41.840 She may suddenly reclaim her abandoned child 1.00

00:11:44.540 and attempt a 180 degree turn 1.00

00:11:47.560 with all the determination of the outcast

00:11:49.360 about to come into her kingdom. 1.00

00:11:51.180 What?

00:11:51.720 Either the archetypal influx is too much 0.99

00:11:53.620 for her immature body

00:11:54.600 or the ego is not sufficiently related

00:11:56.200 to the body energy.

00:11:57.580 It's not taking.

00:11:58.680 The words aren't taking.

00:12:00.100 All right, all right, all right.

00:12:00.980 Sorry, I thought maybe I did them really hard and fast.

00:12:04.000 There's no context that's been provided

00:12:05.480 and completely confused.

00:12:07.000 I like to hear you read, but I don't understand.

00:12:09.260 Okay, wait, Nordstrom's.

00:12:11.120 Oh, yeah.

00:12:11.540 I went to Nordstrom's yesterday looking for socks.

00:12:15.840 I specifically had the sock chaos

00:12:18.200 happen in Bloomingdale's in Soho.

00:12:20.840 One would think one of the nicest Bloomingdale's 0.99

00:12:23.280 a fucking person could walk into in this day and age. 0.99

00:12:26.700 Soho Bloomingdale's is a laugh and a half. 1.00

00:12:28.940 You have to go to the center of Omaha.

00:12:31.020 No, you have to go to the outskirts of Omaha.

00:12:32.800 And even there, frankly, go on, go on.

00:12:34.300 Not to suggest Omaha is like the end of civilization.

00:12:37.380 I'm sorry.

00:12:38.360 I've had great times there, actually.

00:12:40.140 Some very memorable times.

00:12:41.900 Okay, listen.

00:12:43.220 First of all, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

00:12:44.960 Here's what it is.

00:12:45.920 I'm looking for a specific Armani lipstick.

00:12:47.980 I go to Sephora.

00:12:48.720 They don't have it.

00:12:49.640 I go, ouch.

00:12:50.160 I make the walk

00:12:51.580 to Nordstrom's

00:12:52.820 beauty counter

00:12:53.300 the Armani Center

00:12:54.400 the Armani Center

00:12:55.800 so you're at the Grove

00:12:56.660 I'm at the Grove

00:12:57.580 okay

00:12:57.860 okay

00:12:58.280 they don't have

00:12:59.400 the lipstick either

00:13:00.520 I go

00:13:01.060 they go

00:13:01.740 we can order it for you

00:13:02.820 by the way

00:13:03.400 my knees almost buckle

00:13:04.520 when they

00:13:05.460 open their mouth

00:13:06.860 okay

00:13:08.500 and that includes

00:13:09.360 that includes

00:13:10.500 on a website

00:13:11.120 okay

00:13:11.520 okay

00:13:12.480 the mouth

00:13:12.940 the copy's mouth

00:13:14.300 opening to say

00:13:15.300 well we can order it

00:13:17.000 to the store

00:13:17.460 and then you can pick it up

00:13:18.360 well yeah

00:13:19.100 I could also sew it.

00:13:20.760 Yeah.

00:13:21.040 You know?

00:13:21.700 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:13:22.240 Of course.

00:13:22.980 You could pick it up next week.

00:13:24.200 This is 1943.

00:13:26.180 This is,

00:13:26.700 and I go,

00:13:27.140 I need it today.

00:13:27.800 And then this irritated me.

00:13:29.420 I'm coming for the lipstick.

00:13:30.600 They go,

00:13:30.880 we don't have it.

00:13:31.460 I go,

00:13:32.100 can you validate me?

00:13:32.940 They go,

00:13:33.300 oh,

00:13:33.500 you can only validate with purchase.

00:13:34.720 I go,

00:13:35.240 I know,

00:13:35.600 but I was going to purchase that

00:13:36.600 and you don't have it.

00:13:37.340 You can't just kind of do me a favor.

00:13:39.000 She goes,

00:13:39.920 I can't.

00:13:41.580 And I,

00:13:41.860 and I put my,

00:13:42.440 I cut my hand,

00:13:43.520 I cut my hand,

00:13:44.320 I cut my hand over my mouth.

00:13:46.260 I go,

00:13:46.820 really?

00:13:47.600 You can't just validate it?

00:13:48.440 No, here's my question.

00:13:49.340 When you cup your hand to the left or the right of your mouth,

00:13:51.760 which side were you shielding against?

00:13:53.700 Now, I bet.

00:13:54.900 Okay, which side were you shielding the whisper from?

00:13:57.260 Okay.

00:13:57.600 I believe you probably, if you know what's good for you, did it?

00:14:02.880 No, you did it.

00:14:04.040 I think you did it right.

00:14:04.720 Okay, I think you did it with a hand that would allow for the backstage of Sephora.

00:14:11.320 Okay, wherever the door to the back is.

00:14:13.980 Oh, I lost the thread.

00:14:15.980 Sephora had already failed.

00:14:16.700 it's interesting you thought you get validated with without a purchase well come on smile and

00:14:21.000 hand well come on so then you know what i do i go upstairs so the i go i need socks i wanted and 0.99

00:14:27.440 i'll be very clear here i want regular black not too thick socks just regular fucking socks not too 1.00

00:14:35.560 high not short just a simple sock i go up there's this lovely older woman working there behind the 0.97

00:14:42.160 counter i say excuse me could you help me i'm looking for socks she goes yep our socks are

00:14:45.580 right over there i'm gonna post on the poog instagram yeah yeah sock display you sent me

00:14:50.520 and then i go to her and i go oh are there any others all they have are freaking socks that just 0.91

00:14:57.660 hold the base of the foot right like haven't those been outlawed for being not only a useless 0.90

00:15:04.620 visceral human humiliation but yeah useless i just don't understand i go i'm just looking for

00:15:10.000 like regular like super simple black socks that you could wear with like a boot she goes we have

00:15:14.140 these they're so thick i almost fall over i go yeah not like an athletic sock just like a simple

00:15:19.220 sock she goes and she's looking at the display honey her arms are she's wringing her hands she's

00:15:23.700 like this is the extent of the sock she was she was haunted as well yeah i end up buying some

00:15:29.540 hanky pinky kind of like slutty lace underwear which hanky pinky are you aware i know their

00:15:34.380 display one size fits all is the idea no they have sizes nope there are certain ones no there

00:15:40.040 are certain ones that don't have sizes are you joking yeah okay because i got two that were

00:15:43.880 one size. And I was like, this seems like that's not possible because they're quite small. I haven't

00:15:51.460 put them on my body yet, but I plan to strap them to my ass later. Butter lace. That's what it's 1.00

00:15:57.380 called. Okay. Well, we'll report back on that. But we had a blast. She was having fun because

00:16:02.240 I got some red lace, slutty lace. She thought that was fun. We had a laugh. The socks. She 1.00

00:16:08.860 with someone at Nordstrom behind the counter.

00:16:12.580 We related over not wanting to socialize with others.

00:16:16.700 And I thought, this might be a keeper.

00:16:18.980 Yeah, yeah.

00:16:20.040 I had a great time on customer service with ADT the other day.

00:16:24.060 I had to fill out her customer survey.

00:16:25.760 Here's a huge thing.

00:16:27.040 She was great on the phone.

00:16:28.040 She gave me completely the wrong information 0.95

00:16:30.040 that actually ended up being really annoying.

00:16:32.560 She was like, this is the kind of battery you need.

00:16:34.540 Wrote it down, went, got the battery.

00:16:36.260 It opened up the machine.

00:16:37.340 It was wrong.

00:16:37.840 so I'm still going to give her of course 10 out of 10 customer service even though she led me

00:16:41.960 astray for ambiance it was an interesting moment because I was like well the food was terrible you

00:16:47.000 did give me exactly the wrong information and I double checked and it was completely wrong and

00:16:50.960 ended up being a massive inconvenience but you were a doll and that isn't that the way life works

00:16:57.000 you know sure is and um if you can't enjoy your agency not working but I haven't met a doll

00:17:03.260 yeah 0.70

00:17:03.820 well by the way

00:17:05.660 so what do you want me to do

00:17:07.000 so here's what I

00:17:07.920 as a consumer

00:17:08.440 I'm frozen in activity

00:17:09.980 so am I going to do

00:17:11.080 spend the rest of the afternoon

00:17:12.140 driving

00:17:12.700 oh god

00:17:14.080 should have gone to Gap

00:17:14.840 and by the way

00:17:15.040 I'll say though 1.00

00:17:16.520 they give you that shit away 1.00

00:17:17.140 free at this point 1.00

00:17:18.000 because they're like

00:17:18.580 Gap

00:17:18.960 they'll give you like a voucher

00:17:21.100 if you shop at Gap

00:17:22.340 they'll give you like

00:17:23.140 a meal voucher

00:17:23.980 to say thank you 1.00

00:17:24.840 for getting a goddamn 0.99

00:17:26.020 crew neck sweatshirt there 0.99

00:17:27.740 although now they have

00:17:28.700 Gap vintage hanging

00:17:29.600 in the window

00:17:30.100 that you can pay for like

00:17:31.260 $400

00:17:31.940 that sounds funny

00:17:33.240 I haven't seen that.

00:17:34.240 Meanwhile, J.Crew men,

00:17:35.660 the men's J.Crew,

00:17:36.840 which is fantastic.

00:17:37.960 I used to love to get pants

00:17:39.120 from men's J.Crew gone.

00:17:41.080 Wiped from the face of the earth.

00:17:42.420 Why?

00:17:42.740 Is that...

00:17:43.660 Maybe not wiped.

00:17:44.460 Maybe just wiped from the grove,

00:17:45.740 but it might as well be

00:17:46.240 the face of the earth.

00:17:47.880 Now there's a Fisker automobile store.

00:17:51.040 Do you walk by that?

00:17:52.260 No.

00:17:52.740 I was like, what?

00:17:53.480 A car store?

00:17:54.740 Yeah.

00:17:55.200 It's crazy.

00:17:56.600 Because they need something

00:17:57.380 for the guys 1.00

00:17:58.040 while the bitches 1.00

00:17:58.640 are getting their skims. 1.00

00:17:59.940 Yeah, yeah.

00:18:00.660 Oh, yeah.

00:18:01.160 I did.

00:18:01.920 I went to I recently overheard that whole conversation you know we have chairs sir

00:18:07.340 right over here because guess what it's gonna be a while see that's fun something about that

00:18:11.980 makes me kind of it's kind of fun it's kind of horny no no I know exactly what you mean okay but 0.97

00:18:17.560 like it feels like Christmas oh god here she goes she's gonna try on another four dresses just to 0.73

00:18:24.820 not even buy one you know what I mean it feels very that sounds like Jewish to me more but 0.92

00:18:30.060 The not even buy one, the neuroses, okay? 0.89

00:18:32.600 Sometimes those really strict gender roles,

00:18:35.580 it feels like Christmas.

00:18:37.040 Yeah, it's just like...

00:18:38.380 Of course.

00:18:40.320 Okay, no, absolutely.

00:18:42.000 I loved it.

00:18:42.880 I'm not sure.

00:18:43.680 I mean, I didn't love it.

00:18:45.000 For some reason that time, it annoyed me,

00:18:46.340 and I don't know why, okay?

00:18:48.000 Maybe because it was late in the day.

00:18:49.420 No, of course.

00:18:50.440 Well, it's mealtime, time of day.

00:18:53.000 What happened to me?

00:18:54.040 I went to a Sprouts the other day. 0.99

00:18:56.040 Most depressing experience of my fucking life. 1.00

00:18:58.280 I go, I'll spend the extra... 1.00

00:18:59.880 great products. I'll expend the extra

00:19:01.380 premium $15 to not

00:19:03.940 be here. To go to Erewhon? Because honey

00:19:05.780 is $150. I know.

00:19:07.920 I know. No, I actually was looking at the

00:19:09.880 prices. I was like, oh, at Erewhon, this would be

00:19:11.720 $8.99. Here it's $6.99.

00:19:14.320 Oh, at Erewhon, this... I actually was there

00:19:15.720 yesterday. I strolled in. Erewhon?

00:19:18.140 Yeah. Didn't buy anything, but

00:19:19.920 we strolled in and

00:19:22.000 looked around. I actually hadn't really been there at night.

00:19:24.460 Oh, yeah. Open until 10 p.m.

00:19:26.120 Different feeling. Which I love.

00:19:27.720 I stood in front of... I went into the section...

00:19:29.760 I had a bad slice of cake there a few weeks ago.

00:19:32.200 Why?

00:19:32.760 Was it grain-free or something?

00:19:34.800 It was vegan.

00:19:35.560 You said a bad piece of cake?

00:19:36.940 It wasn't grain-free, but it was not good.

00:19:39.940 And there's no excuse for a badly made vegan pastry or sweet because it's really easy to make them taste great.

00:19:46.440 The texture was not there.

00:19:47.120 Well, they're trying to punish you back to their original offerings.

00:19:51.260 Look, we tried and you hated them.

00:19:53.640 We have a brick and mortar.

00:19:54.380 I had an experience where I went into...

00:19:57.380 They're doing...

00:19:58.180 There's something amiss.

00:20:00.580 I went to a series of department stores.

00:20:04.780 Who cares?

00:20:05.700 But you know what I do love?

00:20:08.080 I need socks today.

00:20:08.920 I've said this before.

00:20:09.600 Coffee at Nordstrom.

00:20:11.180 Never had it.

00:20:12.560 It's phenomenal.

00:20:13.540 Okay, coffee corner.

00:20:14.360 The little coffee.

00:20:15.300 Coffee corner update. 0.79

00:20:16.120 I have been corrupted by French press.

00:20:18.980 French press never again.

00:20:20.340 What?

00:20:20.660 How did I become a French press person?

00:20:22.080 Wait, never again?

00:20:23.500 What are you talking about?

00:20:24.180 French press.

00:20:24.920 Oh, no, no, no.

00:20:25.800 Oh, you mean pour over instead?

00:20:27.380 Yeah, because now I'm back to my little pour-over lifestyle

00:20:30.400 and the flavor, I'm moaning,

00:20:32.720 but here's the issue, of course,

00:20:34.120 just takes a lot of grounds.

00:20:35.460 That's what we suffer through. 0.99

00:20:37.280 It's a lot of fucking java you're going through. 0.99

00:20:39.860 It's expensive, yeah. 0.99

00:20:41.100 More than French press?

00:20:43.320 Certainly, but also I'm like, well...

00:20:45.080 It is pleasurable.

00:20:45.940 I like a strong cup.

00:20:47.140 I do have a recollection of having a green bodum.

00:20:50.720 Okay, a lime green bodum.

00:20:52.700 French press?

00:20:54.020 Yeah, and just sort of filling it up

00:20:57.080 and waiting the minutes

00:20:58.360 and putting a little too much grounds in

00:21:00.640 that is necessary and loving it

00:21:01.920 and just pushing it down.

00:21:02.580 I mean, it was nice.

00:21:03.480 No, I like it.

00:21:04.860 I like that process,

00:21:06.540 but I cannot get over the flavor difference.

00:21:12.020 Anyway, Breville, where are you?

00:21:16.360 Thermage, curious.

00:21:17.860 Went to the dermatologist to get a hydrofacial,

00:21:20.080 which I really love, I got to say.

00:21:22.240 Interesting.

00:21:22.860 It's really good.

00:21:23.820 Interesting you went to the derm

00:21:24.740 to get kind of a mall-based

00:21:26.380 yeah i like going to the dermatologist for a facial and sometimes just escaping the whole

00:21:31.660 you know i just want it fast i don't need don't i don't need the hand massage i don't need to just 0.65

00:21:35.660 like go no i just i just scrub your facial just seems like she showed me what she sucked out of 0.88

00:21:40.380 my face yeah disgusting really needed the deep like at the at the mechanic at the oil change

00:21:47.380 like i'm like a dream customer i need to get an oil change so like they roll up to the window 0.83

00:21:52.280 after you've gotten the other thing they're like by the way we took a look in the engine or whatever

00:21:55.240 okay yeah take a look at the thing and they're like they're like hey this is what a functional

00:22:00.960 filter looks like okay i go what okay and then they're like and here's yours okay okay and they

00:22:09.920 hold up yours and it's okay yeah yeah okay immediately yeah i go oh god and i'm like

00:22:16.180 i'm guessing there's nothing i can do about that and they go how about 75 bucks how much does an

00:22:23.660 I'll change even costs.

00:22:24.640 I don't even know.

00:22:25.180 It's been so long.

00:22:26.180 I'm really overdue.

00:22:28.540 But, oh, but wait, at the Hydra Facial Place, I'm like, okay, what would you do for me?

00:22:33.140 What would you do?

00:22:33.960 She goes, you could get Thermage.

00:22:36.020 I was like, I'm avoiding, you know, I don't want to do needles.

00:22:39.540 She goes, Thermage, tightens lifts once a year.

00:22:44.760 Hold your breath.

00:22:46.340 $3,500, which is basically the price of if you did microcurrent,

00:22:51.260 like a microcurrent facial

00:22:52.720 every month for a year

00:22:53.980 they pretty much come to that

00:22:55.600 so this is an official call out

00:22:57.860 to ask about Thermage

00:22:58.860 and if Thermage would like to

00:23:00.560 gift us a couple Thermage treatments

00:23:03.340 surely the listeners

00:23:04.920 would love to hear the results

00:23:06.300 attention Thermage

00:23:08.140 red alert

00:23:09.500 red alert

00:23:10.080 huge possibility here

00:23:12.080 huge marketing opportunity

00:23:13.920 gift us Thermage

00:23:21.260 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,

00:23:28.960 the number one hit true crime show

00:23:31.280 that puts women right in the centre of their own stories.

00:23:35.120 I'm back with more one-off interviews 1.00

00:23:37.540 with some truly kick-ass women on The Girlfriends Spotlight. 1.00

00:23:42.460 I want to introduce you to Sylvia.

00:23:44.940 I'm going to climb this.

00:23:47.340 And then there's Vaisaka.

00:23:49.460 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.

00:23:53.560 Leila dared to ask the question.

00:23:56.040 Is badness hereditary?

00:23:58.080 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.

00:24:00.200 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,

00:24:03.020 she wouldn't have died on that fatal night.

00:24:05.960 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,

00:24:07.680 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.

00:24:10.680 I'm not too intimidated by her.

00:24:12.120 What are you talking about? 1.00

00:24:15.020 Listen to the Girlfriend Spotlight 1.00

00:24:16.900 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:24:46.900 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.

00:24:50.500 And the wild part?

00:24:51.980 You're not just looking for someone you like.

00:24:53.840 You're casting for a mythical hero your entire family approves of.

00:24:57.540 A saint, a demigod, a unicorn.

00:25:00.520 I know because years ago, I sacrificed myself

00:25:03.160 to this chaotic, soul-crushing tradition,

00:25:05.580 hoping to find love the correct way.

00:25:08.320 Boys and Girls is our absurd, cringy, heartfelt ride 1.00

00:25:11.560 through the highs and lows of the Indian arranged marriage, 0.96

00:25:14.300 finally giving you the validation and healing you deserve.

00:25:18.840 Listen to Boys and Girls starting February 19th

00:25:21.500 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

00:25:23.900 or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:25:25.860 This is Ryder Strong,

00:25:26.980 and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

00:25:29.520 It was many and many a year ago

00:25:32.520 in a kingdom by the sea.

00:25:34.920 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor,

00:25:37.460 disappeared from a commune.

00:25:38.740 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:25:40.080 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:25:43.700 No, I am not your guru.

00:25:47.500 And back then, I lied to my parents, I lied to police, I lied to everybody.

00:25:52.360 There were years, right, where I could not say your name.

00:25:55.160 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California, interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists, whomever I can, to try to find out what actually happened.

00:26:04.200 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:26:08.800 They have had this case for 30 years. 1.00

00:26:11.560 I'll teach you sons of bitches to come around here and my wife. 1.00

00:26:14.740 Boom, boom. 1.00

00:26:16.060 This is The Red Weather.

00:26:19.040 Listen to The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:26:25.840 The more you listen to your kids, the closer you'll be.

00:26:29.800 So we asked kids, what do you want your parents to hear?

00:26:33.820 I feel sometimes that I'm not listened to.

00:26:35.960 I would just want you to listen to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success.

00:26:42.960 Listening is a form of love.

00:26:45.140 Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being at SoundItOutTogether.org.

00:26:51.360 That's SoundItOutTogether.org.

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00:27:00.860 You know what makes me laugh?

00:27:02.500 High, high into the mountains, running nude into the mountains laughing.

00:27:05.960 is that we got kind of a pseudo cease and desist from McDonald's,

00:27:10.280 which is so funny.

00:27:11.720 So remember when I talked about,

00:27:14.240 it was,

00:27:14.520 wait,

00:27:14.680 was it Mark Bittman or was it the other one?

00:27:16.260 First of all,

00:27:16.900 Michael Pollan.

00:27:17.360 That's hysterical.

00:27:18.160 It was Michael Pollan.

00:27:19.560 I got fed this video on Instagram about Michael Pollan going off on

00:27:23.820 McDonald's french fries and how they're,

00:27:26.220 you know,

00:27:26.500 allegedly sprayed with all these pesticides and whatever.

00:27:29.540 And then I talked about some episodes a while back,

00:27:32.700 yeah,

00:27:32.860 off gassing for 10 years before they're fit for human conception and 0.97

00:27:35.860 whatnot we got kind of like a little bitch email from someone being like yeah please don't act 0.83

00:27:42.340 talk about that this is from factcheck.com usa forward slash facts rule and i go oh sweetie 0.99

00:27:51.960 sweetie i'm not scared honey honey satire this is a comedy podcast run by a couple bitches 0.99

00:28:00.860 A couple broads along here 1.00

00:28:03.360 If you think you're coming here 1.00

00:28:06.020 For information

00:28:07.360 So if this is whatever little person

00:28:10.440 Wrote that email

00:28:11.200 Oh sweetheart I hope you're listening now

00:28:13.860 Because we laugh at you

00:28:18.020 We laugh at you

00:28:19.700 We laugh

00:28:20.640 I mean literally

00:28:23.440 Has the listener no responsibility

00:28:25.560 You know what I mean

00:28:27.360 Well it's down in the listeners

00:28:30.200 understanding it's a comedy.

00:28:33.160 It's a comedy show.

00:28:34.980 If you came here for

00:28:36.620 information.

00:28:38.840 I believe we even say

00:28:40.120 it's been a while since I listened to a full episode 0.99

00:28:42.800 of this shit, but don't we say 0.98

00:28:44.720 we're not experts in the 1.00

00:28:46.660 goddamn intro? No, I don't think that's 0.98

00:28:48.800 anymore. I don't think that's

00:28:49.980 in the... We had a line

00:28:52.080 when we were

00:28:53.440 building out the... Cut to us being sued

00:28:56.380 by McDonald's, the most powerful

00:28:58.360 nation corporation.

00:29:00.660 It's not a corporation.

00:29:01.580 It's a nation state.

00:29:03.200 When we were

00:29:03.680 working on our opening for this,

00:29:06.020 one of our options was

00:29:06.860 we are not doctors.

00:29:07.800 We are not experts.

00:29:08.760 In fact,

00:29:10.040 we're barely alkaline,

00:29:11.720 which is hysterical.

00:29:13.040 Hysterical.

00:29:13.440 And you gave it the boot.

00:29:14.720 I gave it the boot?

00:29:15.720 You ultimately gave it the boot.

00:29:17.020 I thought it was too esoteric

00:29:18.280 to say we're barely alkaline.

00:29:19.460 Maybe.

00:29:19.920 I don't know.

00:29:20.360 Sometimes I'm a coward.

00:29:22.640 But all to say,

00:29:24.480 I think it's time

00:29:25.380 to change the pogue description. 0.98

00:29:27.280 Oh, shit. 0.95

00:29:27.920 it's still trying to bridge 1.00

00:29:29.800 the marketplace like well

00:29:31.540 wellness is a four billion dollar industry

00:29:33.560 and yeah you know

00:29:35.660 it still sounds a little bit like everything we're not

00:29:37.600 and at this point it's like it's the description

00:29:39.900 should be there is none let's go

00:29:41.680 back in there let's no you don't

00:29:43.600 get out

00:29:44.480 keep out I think about it all

00:29:47.820 the time remember when I said like 1.00

00:29:49.040 keep out oh I think that's good

00:29:51.300 we should with the looney tunes with the

00:29:53.640 looney tunes kind of like you know

00:29:55.640 the wooden sign it's like all scraggly

00:29:57.920 yes keep out by the way i this is crazy i have to leave in 15 minutes for therapy going from

00:30:04.020 poog directly into therapy oh wait wow i was gonna read you let me just try because some

00:30:09.360 might be interested okay in my experience there's one very dangerous passover to be made with a

00:30:15.540 creative woman if she is in a midlife crisis has recognized that she has not yet taken 0.99

00:30:20.360 responsibility for her talent and has lived a basically persona oriented or animus dominated

00:30:25.800 life. She may suddenly reclaim her

00:30:27.880 abandoned child and attempt a 0.98

00:30:29.660 180 degree turn. Okay.

00:30:31.700 With all the determination of the outcast trying to rejoin

00:30:33.840 the kingdom. Anything? Stick

00:30:35.820 or no? Yeah. Okay. Yeah.

00:30:37.700 Animus. Anima is the masculine 0.99

00:30:39.780 one. Animus is feminine. 0.96

00:30:41.660 I think the opposite. Opposite. Animus. 1.00

00:30:43.820 You know, anima. Elena.

00:30:45.100 The masculine energy. Jessica.

00:30:47.540 Jesus.

00:30:50.720 Okay.

00:30:51.680 Marcos. We should do Pooh

00:30:53.360 season four. Jesus.

00:30:55.080 where we just talk about Christ.

00:30:58.360 Finally.

00:30:59.400 The Jesus season. 0.95

00:31:00.940 Well, I do think we should do a Clarissa Pincolistes. 0.92

00:31:04.280 Huh?

00:31:04.960 Clarissa Pincolistes. 1.00

00:31:06.020 Clarissa Flockhart?

00:31:06.960 What do you say? 1.00

00:31:07.340 Women who run with the wolves. 1.00

00:31:09.140 Oh, yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:31:09.720 I own that.

00:31:10.600 Never cracked it.

00:31:11.660 Okay. 1.00

00:31:12.520 So the danger here is that either the archetypal influx

00:31:14.940 is too much for her immature body, okay?

00:31:18.040 Or the ego is not sufficiently related to the body energy.

00:31:21.000 Or the psychic shift is too sudden

00:31:22.840 for the body to move in harmony with it.

00:31:25.080 There can be serious physical symptoms.

00:31:26.800 So if the initiation rites that were not assimilated at puberty have now to be integrated,

00:31:34.540 half now, they must be integrated now before the rites of menopause can be endured.

00:31:39.120 So if you've never become, you've never gone from child to maiden to mother, okay?

00:31:45.380 You can't go from mother to crone. 0.61

00:31:47.400 Right.

00:31:47.680 All right.

00:31:47.980 Totally.

00:31:48.460 Okay.

00:31:48.740 And mother, of course, doesn't mean.

00:31:51.100 You have a child, of course not.

00:31:53.100 Please.

00:31:53.380 Actually, I did start reading.

00:31:54.260 There are other forms of reproduction, obviously.

00:31:57.540 And mother as, like, I started reading this book, Made Into Mother. 0.96

00:32:01.960 How synchronicitous.

00:32:03.620 Wouldn't that be the case, okay?

00:32:06.400 It's exactly what I just picked up and opened the book to.

00:32:09.260 Yeah.

00:32:09.540 But anyway, I started reading this book called Made Into Mother.

00:32:12.300 It was like, instead of someone like the child, things happen to, becoming the mother, things happen through.

00:32:20.900 Ooh. 1.00

00:32:21.780 Fuck. 1.00

00:32:22.460 actually 1.00

00:32:23.840 it was

00:32:25.980 it was something

00:32:27.500 and I'm not sure I'm ready

00:32:30.080 reading it? God, I'm sore

00:32:33.740 dude, I'm sore from the GYM

00:32:36.040 really?

00:32:36.800 yeah, carving the shoulders 0.99

00:32:38.300 ass, sore 0.99

00:32:40.440 what is this term, flossing? 0.98

00:32:42.100 you gotta floss the muscles

00:32:44.040 or whatever, you gotta floss

00:32:45.020 no

00:32:48.860 that is something I've been

00:32:50.180 noting, I fell off the workout

00:32:52.540 You wouldn't know.

00:32:53.140 I have to fight my way back in. 0.99

00:32:54.080 Thoughts on parasites.

00:32:54.860 Are we concerned?

00:32:56.020 No.

00:32:56.320 I feel like every six months I go, 0.98

00:32:57.820 uh-oh, parasites. 0.92

00:32:59.140 No, I saw something. 1.00

00:33:00.460 Someone fed me some shit on Instagram. 0.99

00:33:02.140 It's like, if you eat salmon, 1.00

00:33:03.420 you have to see this.

00:33:04.180 I eat salmon at least once a week.

00:33:07.040 Sometimes, twice, sometimes.

00:33:08.380 Don't worry about any of that.

00:33:09.500 Okay, great.

00:33:10.180 Just love to hear that.

00:33:11.120 Okay, if you get violently sick

00:33:12.600 and you're in the hospital

00:33:13.300 and after seven misdiagnosis,

00:33:15.340 they finally find your way.

00:33:17.060 You have to go to the house.

00:33:18.240 That's when you open your mind to that.

00:33:19.780 Okay, great.

00:33:20.240 I've let sun hit my decolletage

00:33:23.000 more this summer

00:33:23.720 than any other summer in my life

00:33:25.220 talk about maiden to mother

00:33:27.780 but I had to

00:33:29.700 I was in Italy

00:33:30.180 I had to

00:33:30.880 wearing tank tops

00:33:32.160 at 2pm in Los Angeles

00:33:34.500 letting the sun beat down

00:33:36.160 again

00:33:36.460 I have sunscreen on

00:33:37.740 sure

00:33:38.020 but still

00:33:39.060 we've learned

00:33:40.300 yeah

00:33:40.560 I'm turning to the journal

00:33:43.480 you know

00:33:44.980 my mood has been bad for months

00:33:46.540 as you've noticed

00:33:48.100 we've all noticed

00:33:49.600 You seem good today.

00:33:52.500 Because you're back home in California where you're safe and warm.

00:33:55.820 Safe and warm.

00:33:57.060 What was that?

00:33:57.880 California, you're safe and warm here.

00:33:59.540 That should be when you land at LAX.

00:34:01.160 We landed at LAX and I pointed at palm trees through the window and I was like, thank God.

00:34:06.300 The palm trees are so insane.

00:34:08.080 It's like the most romantic image.

00:34:09.520 For me, the coldness, the cold depression of morning, okay?

00:34:13.600 To just stumble out and get warmed by the sun.

00:34:17.960 Huge.

00:34:18.360 Like, it's genuine.

00:34:22.320 Yeah.

00:34:23.080 Thank God.

00:34:24.020 When I left town, I left almost like a salt circle to keep out demons or something like that.

00:34:29.660 I did it with Diacotomous Earth or whatever, because remember I saw that roach?

00:34:34.260 Oh, yeah.

00:34:34.860 And so I was like, I'm not leaving this place unguarded.

00:34:37.880 And so I laid the powder down like a line across all the doorways.

00:34:45.020 I did see one dead roach.

00:34:46.920 So I guess it worked.

00:34:47.760 Whoa.

00:34:48.360 Although that might have been because I asked the apartment to give it a spray.

00:34:51.800 But the real thing is I just need to seal up the cracks.

00:34:54.440 And that's next. 0.98

00:34:55.540 It is, I need to seal up every crack because they like, they like the palmetto bug.

00:35:00.940 It likes to come in from outside.

00:35:02.260 Okay.

00:35:02.860 So they said, so I just got to be sealed off.

00:35:07.180 I moved furniture.

00:35:08.320 What else did I do?

00:35:08.920 My TV, it's on the floor right now.

00:35:13.300 I don't know how to explain to you.

00:35:15.000 Oh, it got rid of a lot of clothes.

00:35:19.920 Really?

00:35:20.640 Wait, did I tell you about the roach in the closet?

00:35:22.820 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:35:23.760 I think we talked about that.

00:35:24.640 On Pug.

00:35:25.760 I don't know if it was on or off.

00:35:26.200 Me chasing it down.

00:35:27.220 Yeah. 0.98

00:35:27.680 Spraying a kills on contact.

00:35:30.140 Me spraying it for 65 seconds and it in no way dying on contact.

00:35:34.980 Oh, no.

00:35:36.580 Oh, no.

00:35:37.260 And it just scampering is horrifying.

00:35:40.460 Yeah.

00:35:42.080 I have returned to the journal.

00:35:43.880 Okay.

00:35:44.560 Oh.

00:35:44.780 And I opened up my Hobonichi cousin that I spent weeks, you know, getting into the lifestyle and then months have gone past. 1.00

00:35:53.220 With the pens and everything. 0.90

00:35:54.240 A dated calendar.

00:35:54.980 It's a dated calendar.

00:35:56.000 Oh, wow.

00:35:56.840 So, you know, page a day, months of blank dates.

00:35:59.380 Yep, yep.

00:36:00.440 I used to have a dated calendar.

00:36:02.200 I was religious with it.

00:36:03.760 Wait, what?

00:36:05.420 Oh, you know what?

00:36:06.180 I saw a book about ADD called A Hunter in a World of Farmers.

00:36:11.740 Huh.

00:36:13.200 Okay.

00:36:14.780 Shitty title.

00:36:16.580 No, it was saying,

00:36:17.480 no, you're absolutely wrong.

00:36:19.480 Quite the opposite.

00:36:20.620 Okay.

00:36:20.980 The title freed me alone.

00:36:22.740 How about the hunter and the farmer?

00:36:24.180 That's better.

00:36:25.040 No.

00:36:26.660 Because that doesn't,

00:36:27.760 you don't know which one you are.

00:36:29.240 When they say like AD,

00:36:31.460 I'm sure there was a subtitle,

00:36:32.460 like, you know, being ADD,

00:36:34.620 you know, like whatever,

00:36:35.940 like a hunter in a world of farmers,

00:36:38.460 you know what I mean?

00:36:39.060 Okay.

00:36:39.780 So nothing's triggering for you.

00:36:42.140 For me, the entire book laid out for me instantly

00:36:44.520 and I was healed.

00:36:45.320 Because we're hunters,

00:36:46.440 you're saying.

00:36:47.900 Yeah,

00:36:48.260 in the world of farmers,

00:36:49.240 you know,

00:36:49.480 planting the seed,

00:36:50.780 the whole thing.

00:36:51.440 No,

00:36:52.000 that makes sense.

00:36:52.620 That makes sense.

00:36:53.340 Okay,

00:36:53.540 but it was talking about

00:36:54.400 the evolutionary adaptive thing

00:36:57.100 of why maybe X percent ADD,

00:37:01.380 okay,

00:37:01.640 in the population.

00:37:02.660 It was like their eyes scanning,

00:37:04.420 picking up information,

00:37:05.520 like things that we associate

00:37:07.240 as negatives

00:37:07.820 in our world of farmers,

00:37:09.480 okay?

00:37:10.720 For the...

00:37:11.380 Are like,

00:37:12.460 are adaptive to hunt.

00:37:14.140 yeah yeah i mean to think of yourself mentally as a hunter helps i think that helps i'll send

00:37:22.200 you more clips but it's like it's i mean like you know screen grabs but it's like yeah your eyes 0.89

00:37:26.780 scanning picking up a little information seeing the fucking rabbit's paw okay and like hyper focus 0.77

00:37:32.240 and um you know what spikes the dopamine the whole thing i was really pumped about it i can't wait to 0.80

00:37:40.400 bringing here so wait i want to hear more i really do let me give you one quick oh i see that was a

00:37:47.720 but i want to hear more can we come on later because i do have to i have my meeting sorry

00:37:53.220 the title is slightly better yeah adhd a hunter in a farmer's world yeah that's way better 0.99

00:37:58.900 what'd you say a hunter oh in a world of farmers in a world of farmers you bitch 0.99

00:38:04.840 so wait wait wait 1.00

00:38:07.680 you gotta go but we'll continue the episode

00:38:09.660 shortly after the break

00:38:10.700 okay bye

00:38:11.540 hello it's me Anna Sinfield

00:38:24.060 from The Girlfriends

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00:38:45.840 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.

00:38:49.940 Leila dared to ask the question.

00:38:52.400 Is badness hereditary?

00:38:54.440 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.

00:38:56.260 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,

00:38:59.380 she wouldn't have died on that fatal night.

00:39:02.340 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,

00:39:04.040 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.

00:39:07.100 I'm not too intimidated by her.

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00:39:43.220 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.

00:39:46.860 And the wild part? You're not just looking for someone you like.

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00:40:22.000 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

00:40:26.220 It was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea.

00:40:31.100 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune.

00:40:35.120 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:40:36.440 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:40:40.060 So no, I am not your guru.

00:40:43.860 And back then, I lied to my parents.

00:40:46.480 I lied to police.

00:40:47.760 I lied to everybody.

00:40:48.480 There were years right where I could not say your name.

00:40:51.800 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,

00:40:54.160 to interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists, whomever I can to try to find out

00:40:59.140 what actually happened. Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods

00:41:03.480 and not the obvious boyfriend? They have had this case for 30 years. I'll teach you sons of

00:41:09.140 to come around here and my wife. Boom, boom. This is The Red Weather. Listen to The Red Weather 1.00

00:41:16.620 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

00:41:20.660 the more you listen to your kids the closer you'll be so we asked kids what do you want

00:41:28.600 your parents to hear i feel sometimes that i'm not listened to i would just want you to listen

00:41:33.600 to me more often and evaluate situations with me and lead me towards success listening is a form

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00:41:46.100 sounditouttogether.org. That's sounditouttogether.org. Brought to you by the Ad

00:41:51.180 Council and Pivotal. I'm back. Since then, went to Erewhon. Since then, went to the cock-sucking

00:42:02.000 hardware store. My fire alarm has been waking me up 2 a.m., 3 a.m. Being awoken. Fire. Fire. 0.99

00:42:07.820 Automated woman. Terrifying. There is no fire. Stops. What? Chirping. The point is, I went to 1.00

00:42:14.060 the hardware store picture me and i'm in a dress and heels walking in the hardware store all the

00:42:20.080 men start sucking each other off they see me no i get there the point is got the batteries came

00:42:27.680 home fix the fire alarm my alarm system battery issue the adt battery earlier the adt battery 0.96

00:42:33.820 issue has been an issue for weeks and i said this earlier in the episode talk to the woman customer

00:42:39.380 service she was a doll gave me the wrong information still a doll she'll still be

00:42:43.040 receiving 10 stars even though i was greatly inconvenienced you didn't uh stand on the hold

00:42:48.140 on the line for the the survey and no i'm gonna do the online survey i'm gonna do the online survey

00:42:52.960 for wendy um no her name's karen and then i freaking so i'm also out an extra 16 because

00:42:59.700 i got the wrong batteries and i cannot return them but the point is i just fixed the thing

00:43:05.220 got the stepladder climbed out on top felt around and i am sailing now as a result and i'm powered

00:43:12.000 by matcha i'm also powered by i think this is a protein bar that's definitely toxic keto think bar

00:43:19.820 has chicory root fiber in it which i'm told is a liver inflammatory agent i wanted to know if

00:43:27.000 you'd ever use that bar given that you are in the keto world you're talking on a level of

00:43:32.260 no i haven't had that because i think i like it i just nuts nuts nuts nuts for sure well maybe

00:43:37.580 it's satisfying to me

00:43:39.040 I enjoy it

00:43:39.960 it's not too sweet

00:43:40.840 I like it

00:43:41.920 genuinely

00:43:42.820 like do you genuinely worry about these

00:43:46.220 these ingredients

00:43:47.060 here's what I worry about

00:43:48.820 having

00:43:49.720 a keto think bar

00:43:51.540 here and there

00:43:52.700 that's fine

00:43:53.260 I'm more concerned with the ingredients

00:43:54.940 of whatever it is

00:43:55.560 I'm ingesting on a daily basis

00:43:56.940 sure

00:43:57.400 right

00:43:57.620 so it's like for me

00:43:59.060 I'm going to spend the extra money

00:44:00.700 or I'm going to take the extra effort

00:44:02.140 to make a nut milk

00:44:02.920 to avoid

00:44:03.620 the quire crumbs

00:44:05.060 and such

00:44:05.920 am I going to eat

00:44:07.380 a think bar.

00:44:08.620 Yeah.

00:44:09.060 Am I going to eat a think bar every day?

00:44:10.440 You heard a thumbs down once somewhere.

00:44:12.740 Yeah.

00:44:12.980 Out of the corner of my eye, 1.00

00:44:14.260 I saw some absolute imbecile on Instagram 1.00

00:44:16.980 tell me it's poison 1.00

00:44:17.880 and now I can't pick it up.

00:44:19.580 No, but I do think there,

00:44:20.600 I do tend to prefer

00:44:23.740 to integrate those whole ingredients,

00:44:25.980 those whole foods.

00:44:26.720 So I don't really do

00:44:28.140 a protein powder every day.

00:44:30.940 I prefer just,

00:44:31.940 let's use a nut butter.

00:44:32.760 Let's use a hemp seed.

00:44:33.740 Let's, you know, let's do that.

00:44:35.160 But some of the protein powders now though

00:44:36.660 are just pure they're only a protein powder in the sense that they've dried something out and

00:44:41.660 powdered it you know what i mean you mean that it's not good no like bone broth protein powder

00:44:48.040 that is pure bone broth well that's what i like that's what i'll do that i mean i guess it's not

00:44:53.680 a whole food no that no but that's good to me that that's fine my jaw has been locked closed

00:44:59.420 on poog for two years six months well i did notice just now but watch it your facial movements are 0.57

00:45:04.980 You're constricted because you have frownies on.

00:45:08.120 I threw some COSRX snail hydrogel

00:45:10.620 that was just sitting here next to the thing.

00:45:13.320 And I thought, I want to get a little...

00:45:15.640 Oh, you know what?

00:45:16.340 Who honored us? 0.69

00:45:17.040 One skin. 0.79

00:45:17.920 I know. 0.99

00:45:18.760 It's here.

00:45:19.420 I'm going to take it with me overseas.

00:45:21.360 Yeah.

00:45:22.300 Excited to understand the peptide.

00:45:24.620 They're like, we are scientists.

00:45:26.400 And, you know, I'm listening.

00:45:28.540 I'm absolutely listening.

00:45:29.420 I'm going to be using that.

00:45:30.080 I've been enjoying the goop peptide serum

00:45:32.020 that we were generously gifted.

00:45:33.440 Oh, yeah.

00:45:33.900 So I'm going to use that.

00:45:34.980 with the one skin i want to try their um shampoo who has a shampoo which excites me

00:45:40.960 yeah and they have the lima thing i'm almost out of my deuce skin big tube i'll take the rest of

00:45:47.780 that is it is it the angel one yeah yeah instant angel or something yeah instant angel um i'm

00:45:54.360 gonna take my zip i've decided i worked out by the way i too have done things we've done so much

00:45:59.040 You did Tracy?

00:46:00.060 I did Staff and Puck, which is the big stick. 0.99

00:46:03.000 Holy shit. 0.99

00:46:04.160 Inside the puck. 1.00

00:46:04.920 The moves I was doing were like fucking cool, man. 0.99

00:46:08.540 That's cool. 0.99

00:46:09.560 That is fucking cool. 0.98

00:46:10.020 You should have seen me. 0.98

00:46:11.080 I mean, I've seen some of the images.

00:46:13.120 Oh, I am getting a piano.

00:46:14.460 I mean, we'll see.

00:46:15.860 Free.

00:46:16.460 What?

00:46:16.900 I mean, like I'm, well, I'll take one.

00:46:18.780 I mean, I didn't mean that, but I do put the word out to Steinway.

00:46:24.280 You're being gifted?

00:46:25.620 No.

00:46:25.900 Well, now I'm saying that as a whatever.

00:46:28.800 What I meant was I'm looking at free ones on OfferUp.

00:46:31.620 Oh, I hear you.

00:46:32.380 And get one of those in there because I signed up for an app.

00:46:34.800 I already said Flowkey.

00:46:36.480 And I did the thing where I went for the $150 a year.

00:46:40.680 And I was like, I'll try it for seven days and cancel before that clicks in.

00:46:43.840 Now it's clicked in.

00:46:44.640 Now you need a piano.

00:46:45.980 I mean, I'm proud of you.

00:46:47.020 I think integrating music at that level is going to be huge.

00:46:50.880 I avoided the stuff for years.

00:46:52.760 Yeah.

00:46:53.100 Couldn't take it emotionally.

00:46:54.180 Yeah.

00:46:54.340 Cut music out, which, you know.

00:46:55.900 If you have the courage to do

00:46:57.240 If you have the courage to go cold turkey

00:46:59.800 On tunes

00:47:01.280 Cutting music out

00:47:03.180 I mean no one's ever done it

00:47:04.640 I did it for two weeks actually

00:47:06.600 If you're in a lot of emotional anguish sometimes

00:47:08.840 It's good

00:47:10.420 I did a two week no music

00:47:11.900 I just straight to the dome

00:47:14.260 Took in a lot of interviews

00:47:15.320 A lot of Terry Gross interviews

00:47:16.660 Because I didn't want the music to unleash

00:47:19.520 An emotionality I couldn't return from

00:47:21.660 You need to bulk up the dome

00:47:23.220 Yeah 1.00

00:47:25.900 energy healer that I work with.

00:47:28.760 I don't actually know

00:47:29.640 if she goes by that right now.

00:47:30.760 I mean, I don't...

00:47:31.460 Yeah.

00:47:33.600 You can say her first name.

00:47:34.780 Well, you know,

00:47:35.900 like keep some things, whatever.

00:47:37.500 Sure, sure.

00:47:38.160 I just can't have the entire 1.00

00:47:39.620 poo community knowing the name 0.68

00:47:40.740 of my energy healer at this time.

00:47:42.340 We can be per name.

00:47:43.200 We'll be per name.

00:47:43.800 That's fun. 0.96

00:47:44.900 I've seen s*** too. 0.82

00:47:46.600 Yeah. 0.95

00:47:46.980 A few times.

00:47:47.640 And at some point

00:47:49.720 when she's, you know,

00:47:51.140 open to it, 1.00

00:47:51.740 we'll promote the motherf***ing 1.00

00:47:52.980 s*** out of her. 0.99

00:47:54.520 I love s***. 0.97

00:47:55.140 But right now, 0.95

00:47:55.620 Let's get the client list.

00:47:56.720 Yeah.

00:47:57.460 List small.

00:47:58.460 Yeah.

00:48:00.100 Like desperation.

00:48:01.740 Like it was like,

00:48:02.500 couldn't get an appointment until like,

00:48:04.600 like a week from now.

00:48:05.580 I was like,

00:48:06.480 if I lay down and beg for healing from the angels,

00:48:09.000 if I just lay down and beg for healing from,

00:48:13.060 you know,

00:48:14.140 everyone,

00:48:14.620 everyone on the other side.

00:48:15.660 You can beg them for sure.

00:48:17.280 I mean,

00:48:17.560 of course you can,

00:48:18.440 right?

00:48:18.700 Nothing is more laughable than the idea that I think I need a priest

00:48:21.380 between me and whatever.

00:48:22.640 God,

00:48:22.900 yeah.

00:48:23.200 But yeah,

00:48:24.700 there's something,

00:48:25.620 you know no some of them have access yeah and and the doula has something's going on there so 0.74

00:48:32.060 hey my other healer who i fucking swear by who i've had a couple of friends go to her 0.83

00:48:39.760 she changes their lives right right right i forget this is one where you got on the table and you 0.92

00:48:45.640 yeah yeah you were like you you were you were like you had almost were like stop i almost yelled

00:48:50.460 stop because i felt all she did was doing was holding my ankles in her hands right i felt

00:48:55.580 myself levitating off the table my eyes were closed and i almost yelled out stop because it

00:49:00.240 was too much but i was like don't don't stop it and you're on the table so you're not being 0.91

00:49:05.540 levitated right but she fucking rules she's like totally into like kabbalistic i gotta drive 0.97

00:49:12.820 she's like she's like muttering hebrew under her breath it freaking rules um yeah you gotta drive 0.99

00:49:19.240 to her okay it's not that far though you drive me i'll drive you girl i can be a little baby 0.93

00:49:24.980 you could be my little baby i'll be your little i could be your mom you can my daughter drop you

00:49:28.480 off you're here at the healer come back with a snack the cheeseburgers mmm yum want to hear

00:49:35.100 about my lunch yeah chicken tenders the coconut flour encrusted chicken tenders from erewan

00:49:41.700 with the nothing of them avocado kale salad fantastic coconut flour i mean i'm not shocked

00:49:47.820 by the recipe, of course. I've been dabbling

00:49:49.880 in those kinds of flours. I believe it's coconut

00:49:51.880 flour. Fried goods at home,

00:49:53.600 but I didn't know they were on off of there.

00:49:55.820 Now, is it coconut flour plus? There might be a nut. I don't

00:49:57.780 know. No, I'm worried about the nut. I'm worried about it.

00:49:59.720 It's like wheat flour

00:50:01.340 and then they're throwing a bone.

00:50:04.180 No, sweetie.

00:50:05.800 It's not wheat flour. It's just Erwan.

00:50:08.220 Well. No, I know.

00:50:09.840 You never know. Every once in a while.

00:50:11.740 We absolutely never know.

00:50:13.700 But then I, even since then, I got,

00:50:15.780 I was still hungry. I had a huge

00:50:17.560 jar of, I made a matcha with Armra, the Will Cole Marine Collagen.

00:50:24.460 Oh, we got our visps. 0.99

00:50:25.600 We got our fucking visps, everyone. 0.99

00:50:28.040 Those are the bottles with the visps in them. 1.00

00:50:29.780 I'm looking at my visp right now.

00:50:31.960 I haven't used it yet.

00:50:32.700 Did you get cream?

00:50:33.000 No, no, you got green.

00:50:34.040 I got green because you got green.

00:50:35.560 I went forward first and I got cream and then you followed up with a different...

00:50:40.560 Pretty.

00:50:40.860 And I was like, interesting.

00:50:42.300 Yeah, I went green somehow.

00:50:43.680 I was actually considering it bringing it with me to London, but then I decided against it.

00:50:47.560 and I won't speak further on that are you bringing Armra to London I've yeah I've gotten more people

00:50:52.240 on Armra and and they did reach out by the way oh yeah Armra fucking hurt us this is huge

00:50:56.300 well guess what I'm so addicted to Armra and so convinced of it I have the 30-day packets but now 0.76

00:51:02.320 I've upped my dose to two scoops a day two a day yeah it's not three and so now I'm in a place

00:51:07.520 where I'm like do I take 30 packets isn't enough for five weeks so do I just take the big jar

00:51:14.060 the jar yeah god you have no idea hearing you say that hearing you say that just sent

00:51:19.140 shockwaves of comfort through my body it's not like the jar is is even like heavy or something

00:51:24.680 it's a lightweight no no it's not you know it's not glass yeah and um i brought it with me east

00:51:31.140 yeah and um the jar is the jar unflavored i mean i know mine is is it do they have a flavored jar

00:51:37.760 option i don't think i don't know what you use unflavored yeah right you like it straight from

00:51:43.200 the nipple you don't need the blood orange or the um i just laughed that was a real wheeze

00:51:51.700 i was thinking of the pigs laughing the whiskey laughs in the end of um 1984 i think yeah i think

00:52:00.740 i was thinking about rereading 1984 can you believe that but it is actually essential

00:52:05.520 four legs good two legs bad right that's them right no isn't that animal farm oh of course

00:52:12.020 Yeah, I'm in Animal Farm the whole time

00:52:13.280 when I was talking about the pig's whiskey. 1.00

00:52:14.880 Oh, of course, wouldn't asshole. 1.00

00:52:17.100 Yeah, those two. 1.00

00:52:18.960 Wait, are they both Orwell?

00:52:21.580 Yeah.

00:52:22.860 Here I go.

00:52:23.780 It's Animal Farm.

00:52:27.060 That guy was obsessed with the world.

00:52:30.840 Yes, of course, Orwell. 1.00

00:52:32.260 Jesus fucking Christ. 0.99

00:52:34.440 We got to bring back Orwell. 1.00

00:52:36.640 I've been thinking a lot about neoliberalism

00:52:39.560 and poog through a neoliberal lens

00:52:41.980 the obliteration of the sacred

00:52:45.160 in the face of constant optimization

00:52:47.100 poog wouldn't exist without neoliberalism

00:52:50.020 and you know

00:52:53.280 is there a difference between liberalism and neoliberalism

00:52:55.540 ultimately no 0.99

00:52:56.340 and fucking come for me 1.00

00:52:57.800 come at me 1.00

00:52:59.120 find me

00:53:01.100 at Erwan we'll talk about it

00:53:02.640 and I'll say about two sentences

00:53:04.240 wait is it about

00:53:05.960 what are you saying about the

00:53:09.300 sacred what just the current you know this idea of self-optimization oh is it well right right

00:53:18.480 yeah interesting yeah and sure sure sure sure sure sure we've gone the other way attacks the

00:53:22.780 psyche comfort the people unlike 19th century modes by saying we know what you're secretly

00:53:26.880 doing at home yeah yeah i don't know what we do why must there be a justification for what we do 0.56

00:53:32.080 no i won't justify what we do what we do i'm a clown yeah of course don't come here for the news

00:53:37.400 don't come here 0.79

00:53:38.080 for that

00:53:38.660 don't you dare

00:53:39.380 don't you dare come here

00:53:41.320 for anything other than

00:53:42.540 laughs 0.99

00:53:43.420 what the fuck 0.99

00:53:44.040 you get out of it 1.00

00:53:44.840 keep up

00:53:46.360 stay out

00:53:46.980 remember when I

00:53:48.000 insulted the listener

00:53:49.080 I was like 1.00

00:53:50.800 fuck the listener 1.00

00:53:51.640 you know 1.00

00:53:52.020 like

00:53:52.700 what do they do for us

00:53:54.200 and I was imagining

00:53:55.420 we give you our ears

00:53:56.900 we give us everything

00:53:57.720 yeah

00:53:58.040 we love you

00:53:59.380 I think it's funny

00:54:00.320 because I'm obviously like

00:54:01.360 nice

00:54:01.900 I'm obviously a peach

00:54:02.540 of course

00:54:03.180 that it's funny

00:54:04.380 for me

00:54:05.780 to occasionally be rude

00:54:06.820 to the listener

00:54:07.340 I think it's actively funny

00:54:08.920 what that is

00:54:09.680 you being rude to the listener

00:54:11.040 is a deep sign of

00:54:12.700 intense love and intimacy

00:54:13.880 the way that we can

00:54:14.760 only yell at our mothers

00:54:15.700 but not our dads

00:54:16.460 because we know our dads 0.99

00:54:17.180 ultimately don't give a shit 0.99

00:54:18.220 whereas the moms 1.00

00:54:19.580 you know

00:54:20.020 who really care

00:54:20.840 you've changed your theory

00:54:21.660 no because you once said

00:54:23.000 something like

00:54:23.680 we can't laugh at our fathers

00:54:25.120 or the mother always

00:54:26.340 accepts the abuse

00:54:27.000 I forget

00:54:27.540 the mother accepts the abuse

00:54:29.140 we abuse 1.00

00:54:29.800 their mom 1.00

00:54:30.240 shut up bitch 1.00

00:54:31.180 right get out 1.00

00:54:32.240 fuck you 1.00

00:54:33.020 some don't 1.00

00:54:33.900 and

00:54:34.280 no of course

00:54:35.120 I remember hearing people

00:54:36.440 be like

00:54:37.340 Wow, I can't believe. 1.00

00:54:38.120 Oh no, it was a mother who only had sons.

00:54:40.520 Sorry, Jacqueline, your face is covered in tape. 0.84

00:54:43.260 You've been applying it more and more.

00:54:44.380 No, it's not tape.

00:54:45.100 It's snail hydrogel on your eye thing.

00:54:46.880 It's so funny because it's everywhere. 1.00

00:54:48.560 Wait, but a woman who only had sons being like, 1.00

00:54:52.160 I can't believe the way she talks to you, 1.00

00:54:53.880 like to my mother.

00:54:54.560 And it's like, yeah,

00:54:55.640 that's because your worshipful sons.

00:54:57.580 Don't actually see you. 0.98

00:55:00.020 It's like, shut it.

00:55:01.340 Me and my mother are fine.

00:55:02.440 Of course, beyond.

00:55:03.840 How dare you speak from the outside, anybody. 1.00

00:55:05.300 No, but you raging against the listener and being like, fuck you, is really in kind of a mocking way or in a faux anger. 1.00

00:55:14.600 Really just pronounces the love and the safety. 1.00

00:55:17.940 Well, you're right.

00:55:19.820 The listener knows my heart.

00:55:21.700 No, the listener knows your heart.

00:55:22.440 If the listener doesn't know my heart at this point, you know.

00:55:24.500 Now we can't hear it all.

00:55:25.400 Just imagine if someone comes in, someone comes in.

00:55:27.400 The tape is completely covered.

00:55:28.740 It's a video.

00:55:29.580 Yeah.

00:55:29.780 And they're just like, I've forgotten when we're talking about other things.

00:55:33.480 and it's just sort of like

00:55:36.000 you start looking back deep into the feed

00:55:38.080 to wonder what's caused this.

00:55:41.000 All right, slipping off.

00:55:44.140 Having some lower back pain

00:55:45.440 considering getting on the ice.

00:55:47.440 What's this about how ice is like,

00:55:49.360 it's not about ice anymore?

00:55:50.920 I was doing some deadlifts yesterday.

00:55:52.900 Yeah, almost no weights.

00:55:54.240 It's not about ice anymore?

00:55:55.660 No, okay, thank God that wasn't you.

00:55:57.220 Somebody said to me like,

00:55:58.720 oh yeah, ice is like a no-no.

00:56:00.380 I was like, what?

00:56:01.740 You've got to be kidding me. 0.95

00:56:02.840 it's not fucking true who the hell said that to me regarding what like like muscle sprain someone 0.96

00:56:08.340 was like oh yeah now it's like ice is not the thing to do yeah i guess well a muscle thing 0.97

00:56:14.500 might be heat but that's not well i'm all i know is i'm recording fucking hurts jacqueline i did 0.76

00:56:20.520 something lower back from the gym from the gym i need to foam roll get on the ice well that's the 0.87

00:56:28.620 one thing that everyone says is over foam rolling yeah you're kidding what do you mean over what do

00:56:33.800 you mean just just what are you doing you know flattening it against it it just feels good here's

00:56:40.160 here's the the here's the issue feels good don't do good well you can go too hard that's for sure

00:56:45.620 you can no I don't even think about about going too hard I mean it's like remember when I had

00:56:49.820 the discovery like massaging my neck to the point where there's that like pain that feels like surely

00:56:57.020 this pain you know the sweet ache they push for oh yeah um you're like surely this is a healing

00:57:02.940 kind of pain because it like feels so right like when someone gets on the knot and they're pressing

00:57:07.200 yeah but you have to be careful that's where people really do harm and they're like yeah it's

00:57:13.540 not doing anything oh no like it's just not it's not doing anything it's not releasing anything

00:57:18.100 well i've said this before and i'll say it again okay because i'm i'm not happy about it either

00:57:22.500 yeah i want to lay on a spike and have it release me right like those things that release you

00:57:29.260 they're like the issue is you need to strengthen the muscle not stretch it oh wow yeah so here we

00:57:38.820 are the resistance bands listening was trying to lift up the serratus minor or whatever

00:57:43.280 trying to correct for rounded posture always rounded posture with you well you see yourself

00:57:50.600 and photograph once

00:57:52.320 it'll be about

00:57:53.080 you know

00:57:53.440 you don't do it

00:57:54.700 you

00:57:54.840 you know

00:57:55.880 I don't know what you do

00:57:57.800 actually

00:57:58.200 you're flitting around

00:57:59.680 dancing all the time

00:58:00.560 you don't get stuck

00:58:03.160 at the laptop

00:58:04.140 okay

00:58:05.840 you get maybe stuck

00:58:06.740 on your phone

00:58:07.100 but you're outstretched

00:58:08.080 like hanging backwards 0.73

00:58:09.360 yeah I'm nude

00:58:10.120 in butterfly pose

00:58:11.080 scrolling

00:58:11.680 spread eternally

00:58:15.480 I see

00:58:16.020 this is what I do

00:58:16.620 I put these things on

00:58:17.420 and I start taking them off

00:58:18.360 it's

00:58:19.360 It's compulsive action.

00:58:21.240 The snail hydrogels are now coming off and they have not dried out.

00:58:24.260 By the way, you know what I did earlier in an episode?

00:58:26.560 Like a child applied 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13 stickers to my desk like a child.

00:58:35.940 Now, I will acknowledge they're washi-based jewels and gems.

00:58:40.120 They're washi-based. 1.00

00:58:41.900 And so they will come off. 1.00

00:58:43.460 Oh, that's fun.

00:58:44.520 Oh, I never got to tell you.

00:58:45.480 Well, next time maybe we'll talk about the hunter and the land of farmers.

00:58:48.780 Yeah, let's talk about that.

00:58:49.360 on the next episode

00:58:50.760 on the next episode

00:58:51.440 we got to get out of here

00:58:52.300 I also want to do a last

00:58:53.360 just I know that we've

00:58:54.240 talked about them

00:58:54.820 over the years

00:58:55.340 but I just really want

00:58:56.140 to shout out Fend

00:58:56.900 and now you know

00:58:58.620 COVID numbers are going up

00:59:00.100 you head out to travel

00:59:01.120 I'm going to be Fending

00:59:01.800 three times

00:59:02.480 Fending up a storm

00:59:03.200 a day

00:59:03.720 I have like 19 Fends

00:59:05.440 I feel naked without it now

00:59:06.800 I stockpile Fend

00:59:07.960 I remember texting that to you 0.74

00:59:09.240 I feel naked

00:59:09.700 when I don't Fend

00:59:10.420 and you were like yeah

00:59:11.280 F-E-N-D

00:59:12.640 again they're not

00:59:13.400 an official POOG sponsor

00:59:14.620 or anything

00:59:15.060 we just love them

00:59:16.000 and so we want to thank them

00:59:17.640 just again

00:59:18.920 it's a mist you breathe it in who knows what the science is someone at harvard did it it's all i

00:59:23.800 need to know it's all this june needs to hear okay love you love you that was poog if you enjoyed

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Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - August 29, 2023

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