Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - Sip the Wind

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00:01:14.660 Arranged marriage is basically a reality show.

00:01:17.600 And you're auditioning for your soulmate.

00:01:19.820 And who's judging?

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00:01:22.780 I sacrificed myself to this ancient tradition,

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00:02:11.660 in 1995 my neighbor and a trainer disappeared from a commune there's nature and trees and praying

00:02:18.560 I'm in drugs.

00:02:19.780 No, I am not your guru.

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00:02:39.380 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.

00:02:40.880 I'm Jacqueline Novak.

00:02:42.000 And this is POOG,

00:02:43.120 an ongoing conversation about wellness

00:02:45.040 between two obsessive friends.

00:02:46.660 Two untamable intellects.

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00:02:49.360 This is our hell.

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00:03:03.160 We wanted to start this episode with an exciting launch.

00:03:07.740 Oh my God.

00:03:08.200 An exciting detail.

00:03:09.940 It's not a detail.

00:03:11.100 It's more exciting than that.

00:03:12.120 Okay.

00:03:12.240 poog has collaborated with rose delights to create a low dose thc edible gummy it's a

00:03:22.300 collaboration with jar there it is i repeat a little collaboration with the restaurant jar

00:03:28.140 this is a lychee martini lychee martini gummy one milligram with italian nipple lemon that

00:03:38.080 are literally called feminello feminello okay yeah this is an unbelievably and we're gonna

00:03:44.000 obviously go to the go to the gram we'll post it it's a beautiful beautiful box let's get the

00:03:49.960 lighting and i want to tell you i personally swear by these gummies i fell in love with the

00:03:56.080 one milligram rose delight gummies one milligram you're not out of control but you're able to have

00:04:02.440 a conversation without panicking. That's what it's done for me. So fun. I'd say one, one,

00:04:08.420 one of these, one cocktail. You could sell a house. You could be so convincing. You could

00:04:13.940 sell someone a house. They're so beautiful. And we collaborated with Suzanne Track, the chef of

00:04:21.320 Jar. She is on board. This is the Jar Lychee Martini Gummy. You can buy these. You're going

00:04:28.980 to be able to buy these they're launching today when you listen to this episode you'll buy them

00:04:33.360 forever let's get very clear limited batch these took like six months to create one batch so you're

00:04:39.380 going to want to go in there and get them you believe this is what this is why i want to let

00:04:43.220 people know so beautiful product drops because we have to honor them we are getting our mailing

00:04:48.740 list in shape you're going to have to sign up you're going to have to reconfirm it's a whole

00:04:52.280 thing it's a whole thing but we know that go on instagram to figure that out this is poog.com

00:04:57.320 We're figuring it out.

00:04:58.020 We're trying to launch a business.

00:04:59.120 It's taken years. 1.00

00:05:00.560 But these are the gummies.

00:05:02.220 We hope you enjoy them as much as we enjoyed making them.

00:05:05.360 This is pretty important.

00:05:06.700 This is our first collab,

00:05:08.240 and it's probably the most elegant thing we could have done. 0.95

00:05:10.720 It's absolutely fucking beautiful. 0.56

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00:05:16.940 Exactly.

00:05:17.660 Oh, my God, it's beautiful.

00:05:20.220 Anyway, I mean, that's, you know,

00:05:21.720 we knew we had to start the episode with that,

00:05:23.480 with the product lunch.

00:05:24.580 Well, because I was worried that the people would hear it,

00:05:26.520 And then, um, or what if they saved the episode to meet it out or the meet out the punishment?

00:05:34.400 No, but to, to ration throughout the week and wait to the end of the week.

00:05:38.160 Cause they love poop so much.

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00:05:40.940 The delights are sold out.

00:05:42.380 Can you imagine?

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00:05:46.280 I'm sorry, but you're, you're holding this box in your hand. 0.92

00:05:48.460 It's fucking gorgeous. 0.95

00:05:49.800 And I mean, you know, it's a crowded market edibles. 0.99

00:05:53.380 Yeah.

00:05:54.040 These are the best you'll ever receive.

00:05:55.820 it's a sativa leaning hybrid artisanal that's what it says and by the way thc one milligram

00:06:03.300 cbd less than one milligram and notably it says contains naturally occurring cannabinoids derived

00:06:11.460 from hemp i believe that's why they can sell them anywhere ship nationwide oh interesting and maybe

00:06:18.740 elsewhere that's a that's a key fact non-gmo they're vegan and gluten-free no horses were

00:06:24.820 murdered in the making of them presumably hence them being vegan but get to your delights they're

00:06:30.820 gonna sell out it's a limited batch rose delights get on the mailing list this is very important

00:06:35.460 get on the mailing list that's going to be a primary mode of communication in 2029 okay the

00:06:41.500 podcast could disappear and that's our only chance to say meet us in a field so just like to remind

00:06:46.920 people oh my god emails are where it's at um okay great so how are you what do you got for me today

00:06:54.580 um i have nothing ah hello i got tons okay great i mean i was in department store today

00:07:04.800 which one brick and mortar continues to fail us two in a row neiman's straight into bloomingdales

00:07:10.540 and it was just get me out of here unbelievable why is it so dark in there is it yeah and then

00:07:18.960 have like these gowns like on the sale rack that are just dragging on the floor it's so funny

00:07:24.960 i'm talking about hundred dollars it's like yeah or like it's like thirteen hundred dollars marked

00:07:30.440 down from twenty six hundred sequins weighing it down beads yeah heavy hanging from the shoulder

00:07:37.960 strap you know what i mean like hanging from one and it's like threads poking out if you're going

00:07:42.500 to an event where you're trying to get a thousand dollar plus gown yeah are you really gonna feel

00:07:48.780 joy plucking plucking it off that rack unbelievable it's like so there was that um and I was like once

00:07:57.520 again I can't come into these places without and then you know you come down the stairs and there's

00:08:03.680 the women are at the makeup tables and that whole area they're they're made up in a very strange way 0.66

00:08:09.720 and they're standing there and it's the perfume.

00:08:11.920 I know.

00:08:12.240 They're spraying Tom Ford perfume into your mouth.

00:08:16.340 It's like, what?

00:08:17.880 This is dead and dying.

00:08:19.260 I know.

00:08:19.820 And they know it.

00:08:20.620 Dead and dying.

00:08:21.380 Like people still have,

00:08:23.640 there's still people down there who are gifted salespeople

00:08:26.000 and they're there to have a beautiful time,

00:08:29.220 but so many of them.

00:08:30.980 I had, oh yeah, I was texting you

00:08:32.300 because I had an alarming, incredible community building moment 0.85

00:08:35.880 with a butcher. 0.99

00:08:37.680 Actually, a cheesemonger.

00:08:39.740 Wait, what?

00:08:40.460 I thought it was at the post office.

00:08:41.920 I had that too, where I went to the post office.

00:08:44.100 And it was like, you know, he was like, what are you doing today?

00:08:46.280 I was like, oh, you know, just running errands.

00:08:47.480 He's like, oh.

00:08:48.400 And I was like, what do you got going on?

00:08:49.680 He's like, oh, you know, family barbecue.

00:08:51.280 It's like the sweetest thing that's ever.

00:08:53.560 And then I'm on my way out.

00:08:54.660 The little door chime.

00:08:56.260 The door chimes on the way out.

00:08:57.800 He goes, good luck with your errands.

00:09:00.340 The smile on my face as I walk to my car.

00:09:03.440 But I had a thing that happened today just now, which I didn't.

00:09:06.560 I'm gullible.

00:09:07.460 like I believe what people tell me

00:09:09.500 as do I

00:09:10.060 because we have open minds

00:09:11.980 and are not shocked

00:09:13.260 exactly

00:09:13.920 because we're believers

00:09:14.980 yeah

00:09:16.100 so I'm a believer

00:09:18.100 and so

00:09:18.540 I went into this

00:09:19.620 this store

00:09:20.820 and it's like

00:09:21.520 it's a furniture store

00:09:22.440 and

00:09:22.680 and

00:09:23.580 and I would almost feel

00:09:25.240 I would actually almost feel

00:09:26.640 okay if he heard this

00:09:28.140 and went wow

00:09:28.740 maybe I shouldn't have done that

00:09:29.940 really

00:09:30.700 it's a furniture store

00:09:31.720 yeah

00:09:32.420 okay

00:09:32.900 we've gone in there several times

00:09:34.400 and there's like two guys

00:09:35.500 that work there

00:09:35.980 one guy

00:09:36.480 dealt with more i don't know very friendly what's your name you know we've like gone in several

00:09:41.140 times weekend kind of stroll going today the tall there's a tall guy and a shorter guy tall guy's

00:09:46.260 not there i buy a coffee table and i'm chatting with him and i go and what give me what was your

00:09:51.220 name again you just said you buy a coffee table yeah this is huge news do you remember when we

00:09:58.220 talked about four years long of being in a general search for a coffee table being unable to find the

00:10:03.280 the whole thing by the way i'm looking at it right now and i go is it changed yeah changed but i mean

00:10:07.680 you know i like to live in things but to purchase a coffee table is such a big is anything a bigger

00:10:15.500 part of your life than your coffee table in a way i know i know and by the tv watchers it sure is

00:10:20.620 yeah no no it's um but i'm looking at the old coffee table going what was so bad about that

00:10:25.160 one but this one anyway but the point is i go small yeah but we're checking out and i go no

00:10:31.360 like oh give me your name okay hi yeah um what's your your colleague's name he goes oh um whatever

00:10:38.260 his name is I forgot I actually remember but I'm protecting his privacy I don't know why

00:10:42.100 and I and he goes um I go okay and he goes yeah he's um not with us anymore and I went oh I said

00:10:49.240 classic and then he and then he immediately goes yeah he passed away I have my sunglasses on I go

00:10:54.240 oh my god oh my god you're kidding I take off my sunglasses out of respect to meet him eye to eye

00:11:00.500 and I go that's so tragic I'm so sorry he goes oh I'm kidding he lets me dwell in the apology

00:11:10.000 in the genuine shock of like your friend is dead I have my sunglasses off I'm looking at him

00:11:15.640 and he doesn't even he's like oh and then he goes like a bad joke not okay I mean I reacted in a

00:11:23.820 very real human way and then he let me stay in that for oh my god and i'm so sorry eyes sunglasses

00:11:31.400 off i that's so tragic i he i'm doing all of this for him i go how about a discount after he's not

00:11:38.620 breaking in he didn't break in and then yeah the way he goes oh oh bad joke i go huh what is this

00:11:47.600 here. Had you already actually had the credit card been swiped? Yes. You know what? We're done

00:11:57.120 here. Well, that's what I'm saying. And I go, and then by the way, embarrassing me, I go so gullible

00:12:02.400 and definitely not a fan going for a sort of certain kind of comedy that this is the angle

00:12:07.460 I'm pushing. Sure. Maybe, but no excuse. Yeah. It's like, it's like I don't enjoy being made fun

00:12:14.160 of i don't enjoy tell i don't enjoy someone telling me i don't think they even mind being

00:12:19.880 made fun of i think they're not dead i think you i don't like that i feel off do you feel off

00:12:27.080 no oh my god is that my first time debuting my true hiccup on poog

00:12:35.620 it sounds it sounds that's my hair to me yeah because you've known each other for a long time

00:12:41.540 It's an absolute, but it is, I think I also recall the shock.

00:12:47.280 My dad used to always say that I should put it in my act.

00:12:50.220 Yeah.

00:12:50.380 That I should start and end my act with that.

00:12:52.680 I was like, I don't think that's...

00:12:53.600 So it's been that since you were a child, I guess.

00:12:56.000 I think it's been for a long time.

00:12:57.840 It came out of nowhere.

00:12:58.460 I didn't sense it coming.

00:12:59.740 I mean, it's so unusual that I can only blame

00:13:04.920 Rosie's creating a constriction in the throat.

00:13:10.000 Like, I'm like, I'm like, okay, why would Kate Verlant have a hiccup that seems to go instead of hiccup?

00:13:18.540 Instead of going hiccup.

00:13:20.720 Yeah, hiccup.

00:13:21.780 I wonder if, I have to imagine, let's just say I were at tea with the queen, right?

00:13:27.540 Could I suppress it?

00:13:28.680 Like, I'm like, is it a level of being comfortable right now?

00:13:31.540 Poo?

00:13:32.260 I don't know, but I am being reported as we know. 0.99

00:13:34.480 You cannot suppress a hiccup, in my opinion.

00:13:36.460 I'm going to see if it comes back.

00:13:37.380 A diaphragmatic.

00:13:38.220 a diaphragmatic

00:13:40.300 constriction

00:13:41.200 pop

00:13:41.740 yeah

00:13:42.380 a diaphragmatic

00:13:43.680 release and constriction

00:13:45.040 yeah

00:13:45.340 this is writer strong

00:13:55.740 and i have a new podcast

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00:13:57.920 it was many

00:13:59.760 and many

00:14:00.500 a year ago

00:14:01.400 in a kingdom

00:14:02.220 by the sea

00:14:03.080 in 1995

00:14:04.420 my neighbor

00:14:05.400 and a trainer

00:14:06.100 disappeared from a commune

00:14:07.580 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:14:08.960 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:14:12.580 So no, I am not your guru.

00:14:16.360 And back then, I lied to my parents.

00:14:19.000 I lied to police.

00:14:20.260 I lied to everybody.

00:14:21.040 There were years, Ryder, where I could not say your name.

00:14:24.240 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,

00:14:26.900 interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists,

00:14:29.720 whomever I can to try to find out what actually happened.

00:14:33.080 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods

00:14:36.000 and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:14:37.580 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.92

00:14:40.600 I'll teach you sons of a** to come around here and my wife. 0.90

00:14:43.600 Boom, boom. 0.97

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00:14:55.620 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,

00:14:59.040 the number one hit true crime show that puts women right in the center of their own stories.

00:15:05.500 I'm back with more one-off interviews 0.97

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00:15:12.540 I want to introduce you to Sylvia. 0.97

00:15:15.060 I'm going to climb this.

00:15:17.420 And then there's Vaisaka.

00:15:19.540 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.

00:15:23.660 Leila dared to ask the question.

00:15:26.140 Is badness hereditary?

00:15:28.160 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.

00:15:30.300 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,

00:15:32.920 she wouldn't have died on that fatal night.

00:15:36.040 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,

00:15:37.780 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.

00:15:40.820 I'm not too intimidated by her.

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00:16:25.080 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?

00:16:27.620 Welcome to Boys and Girls, the podcast where dating isn't dating.

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00:16:35.520 A morning what-if, an evening maybe, and a 3pm chai with a could-this-please-be-the-one.

00:16:42.420 Because in the arranged marriage universe, you're basically on a sushi conveyor belt.

00:16:46.520 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.

00:16:50.180 And the wild part? You're not just looking for someone you like.

00:16:53.380 You're casting for a mythical hero your entire family approves of.

00:16:57.060 a saint, a demigod, a unicorn.

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00:17:27.060 I had a facial, I had a facial, and then the next week I had another facial.

00:17:33.600 I've had six facials, nine probably, in the time in which I've had none.

00:17:38.140 It's exhausting. I need to be included.

00:17:40.540 I know your person doesn't take them on, but if every time you booked a facial—

00:17:44.860 No, honey, this is a new person. My old person's gone.

00:17:47.740 Lori's been retired for years. I haven't gone to her in literal years.

00:17:50.960 Same facility?

00:17:52.400 No, completely different.

00:17:53.920 I went to Carousel.

00:17:55.220 Near me?

00:17:56.040 In West Hollywood.

00:17:57.060 I got a microcurrent facial.

00:18:00.600 You know, who knows? 0.96

00:18:01.560 But then I got, I'm fucking serious. 0.80

00:18:04.300 The hydrofacial is real. 0.96

00:18:05.880 I got another, I got a hydrofacial.

00:18:07.800 I think I was saying the last couple,

00:18:10.240 the last few months have been, you know,

00:18:11.380 so intense emotionally, whatever.

00:18:12.780 More crying than usual.

00:18:14.300 And more expressions of worry, angst, and pain.

00:18:18.440 New lines formed.

00:18:20.320 And by the way, freezing my eggs

00:18:21.720 literally gave me a new line on my forehead

00:18:23.640 because I was going, ow.

00:18:25.140 I was going, what's that?

00:18:26.560 Yeah.

00:18:26.740 And I was going bracing myself for injections and stuff.

00:18:29.960 New forehead wrinkles that you told me were like, they're superficial, they're easy.

00:18:32.740 As we all know, vertical lines, harder to get out.

00:18:35.840 Horizontal lines, easier to wash off the face, whatnot.

00:18:39.820 I'm not so sure about that.

00:18:41.060 No, that's true. 0.83

00:18:41.800 That's just the dermis.

00:18:42.700 It's just the truth of dermis.

00:18:44.120 I'm not convinced that the truth of dermis, when you consider that dermis does not face up and down, right?

00:18:50.200 Oh, my God.

00:18:51.480 You know what I mean, right?

00:18:52.480 Well, I guess you could say, I'm not saying it's not true.

00:18:59.100 It could be.

00:19:00.080 But I do not have that yet independently confirmed with my own personal research.

00:19:04.580 So I'm holding space before you lock that in for life.

00:19:08.140 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:19:10.140 Well, I paid out of pocket for a new SkinCeuticals serum called P-Tox, I think.

00:19:17.200 It's supposed to help with superficial or constriction lines.

00:19:22.480 And the woman who does my hydrafacial, who I love, told me, this stuff kind of works.

00:19:27.620 I go, how about this? 0.72

00:19:29.800 I'm buying it.

00:19:32.080 Oh, this is actually fun.

00:19:33.760 Wait, Jocelyn, we're burying the lead here.

00:19:35.980 And it's so fun because we've never talked about it.

00:19:39.320 My birthday dinner at Nobu Malibu.

00:19:47.840 Oh, my God.

00:19:48.800 We did it.

00:19:49.280 You finally got me.

00:19:50.100 Well, I just want to say this.

00:19:51.200 one of the best nights of my life

00:19:53.000 the next morning

00:19:54.460 and this is no exaggeration

00:19:55.780 the worst hangover

00:19:58.320 of my entire life

00:20:00.120 to the point where it was almost fun

00:20:01.480 because I felt like I was 21

00:20:02.660 I have two things to say

00:20:04.360 there's a lot to unpack 0.98

00:20:05.460 there's a lot to fucking unpack here 0.99

00:20:07.020 how irresponsible not to 0.99

00:20:08.820 because you know

00:20:11.000 it's so easily preventable

00:20:12.700 well here's what happened

00:20:14.560 electrolytes before bed

00:20:16.000 you know we've got them 1.00

00:20:16.880 or how about fucking water 0.99

00:20:18.380 so here's what happened 0.99

00:20:19.300 yeah

00:20:19.840 it's not even that the volume of cocktails consumed they have a strong cocktail oh my god

00:20:24.680 i'm overwhelmed there's so much to talk about first of all i know you want to return sending

00:20:27.780 it back okay so first of all first of all table for four unbelievable by the ocean okay gorgeous 0.79

00:20:32.940 the whores are out it's beautiful it's a dream no boo like six o'clock gorgeous over the ocean 0.95

00:20:40.380 four top we're sitting down low in the sky yeah and yeah but knowing it'll be gone soon 1.00

00:20:47.580 they go and I was jacqueline was already soothing me because I was going this is good to come here

00:20:52.060 at this time because you want we're actually it's psychotic and I was doing are you always

00:20:59.540 this crazy I mean you're and I realized it's because usually we're just in a cone of conversation

00:21:05.140 right so there's nothing to assess if we've made the right choice really other than what we're

00:21:11.620 talking about i guess but i was like wait are you always like this in where it's we're doing a thing

00:21:18.660 and you've arranged it right so it's on you a little bit and whether you've made the right

00:21:23.680 choice that kind of thing well because they were like hard to get a table to it's like 1982

00:21:28.800 and like it was crazy um they're like 6 30 or 8 oh yeah you're like 6 30 or 8 15 like 6 30 8 15

00:21:37.060 i went with 6 30 that way you get two experiences you get two experiences you get sun and night

00:21:40.960 actually you said that to soothe me oh right oh right right oh right because we sat down i go

00:21:45.300 it's nice right to kind of be out here so you have the sun out still have the ocean because

00:21:48.800 suddenly i went ways are not sexy enough right or i just was like oh i had a great time i wasn't

00:21:53.580 actually spiraling i just needed the choice of firm to be clear it's my own work i want to be

00:21:58.180 clear this was on a these were waves on the surface of a deep pleasure i'm just analyzing

00:22:03.460 that because it's where you know the fun of course okay i'm not saying i think you're psychotic

00:22:07.640 Like by which I mean, but I was going, but I go, I go, oh yeah.

00:22:10.840 I mean, you get two experiences.

00:22:11.780 You get, you get the sunset and you get evening.

00:22:13.980 And then I go, to be clear, like you can never make a wrong decision with me.

00:22:17.640 I was like, I was like, to be clear, if you had done the 8.15, I'd be saying, I mean,

00:22:21.120 this is a place you go for a night.

00:22:23.100 You go for a night.

00:22:24.120 A dinner out for a birthday is a night experience.

00:22:26.560 You know, you don't want to be sitting there with the sun.

00:22:28.500 I'd be, you know, I can, I can make it the, make it the mushrooms always.

00:22:33.480 No, no, I know.

00:22:34.000 I knew I was safe with you.

00:22:34.940 and then i was feeling really euphoric i had um the gabriette mac lip palette that was purchased

00:22:43.260 for me by my partner so i had my gabriette lips on and we're there and round of drinks by the way

00:22:51.400 and i was excited because i haven't i hadn't had a cocktail like over a month at this point because

00:22:55.460 of the eggs and all this shit feeling good um and then she's like oh here's like the prize winning 0.83

00:23:03.680 cocktail ever what does she say she's like all of no boo the grand cordon the grand cordon everyone's 0.97

00:23:09.380 actually we still don't know and actually i think i gotta know now so the question was we see this

00:23:14.000 thing in a box and it says grand cordon okay which just she points it out just on the menu

00:23:19.300 yeah it's the top cocktail and it has a square around it okay yeah and grand cordon cocktail

00:23:26.400 it's like a mezcal ginger or something and we go we'll be crazy not to try that it's it's the

00:23:31.920 Number one cocktail.

00:23:32.840 Wow, I'm like trying to look this up.

00:23:33.920 This is the exact one I'm talking about straight to Facebook.

00:23:36.240 Okay, hold on.

00:23:37.580 Okay, introducing the Grand Cordon cocktail for October, November.

00:23:41.780 Congratulations to Luby Desonor of Melbourne, Miami for winning first place.

00:23:49.100 No, but they must do this every once in a while.

00:23:51.260 This is just an example.

00:23:52.180 But anyway, the cocktail, we get the cocktail.

00:23:54.600 We go, let's get three out of four of us get the Grand cocktail, right?

00:23:59.380 It arrives.

00:24:00.860 Take one sip.

00:24:01.920 carnival level sweetness funnel cake Saturday night in deep Appalachia okay it's like 0.98

00:24:10.840 fucking sweet and I was ready because I go because you know sweet cocktail gives me instant 0.99

00:24:17.160 migraine whatever I go it's my birthday dinner no boo I'm gonna have whatever the fuck I want you 0.99

00:24:20.600 know but I go it's actually sweet like I'm not enjoying it like it's making me sick and Jacqueline 0.92

00:24:25.060 you take a sip and you go it's very sweet and then you and I and instantly John is like I'm fine

00:24:31.120 with it and it's like I think quickly you said who brought courage me you did I was like no I

00:24:39.180 was like I would send it back and then it was like you know what this is going to be an insanely

00:24:44.120 expensive meal we're and I always go to we're not assholes we're not going to send it back in some 0.77

00:24:48.660 fucking huff we're just going to be like god is there any way but I felt and I was really happy 0.97

00:24:52.480 because you really took it over it being my birthday dinner you really drove and she came 0.98

00:24:57.080 back and Jacqueline you're perfect you were like sorry this is hell you said you were like this is

00:25:01.060 No, no, I go.

00:25:02.280 No, no, you know what I was saying?

00:25:03.200 Is it a nightmare?

00:25:04.360 What?

00:25:04.700 No, I go.

00:25:05.760 I just go, not even like sorry or any lead in.

00:25:08.060 I just turned her and I go, this is humiliating.

00:25:10.800 Oh, you said that.

00:25:11.580 That's what I led with.

00:25:12.560 Okay, great.

00:25:13.420 By the way, she was incredible.

00:25:14.340 I said either this is humiliating or this is a humiliation,

00:25:17.720 but it was absolutely one of those, truly.

00:25:20.200 But it's like, this is a perfect example of the kind of thing

00:25:23.000 where I just want to slow down and I'm like,

00:25:24.580 we're missing everything.

00:25:25.460 Like there's so much to uncover here.

00:25:27.380 It's almost like a legal level.

00:25:29.300 like I want to be like okay now can I give my account you know what I mean like okay go yeah

00:25:33.560 give yours so like you stare off and it's like what's going on and it's oh you're rehearsing

00:25:40.700 in your head and yeah I'm knowing I had already rehearsed if their table wasn't outside but I was

00:25:47.640 gonna say to the to the host oh right right right like days before which let me guess birthday I

00:25:53.760 I work nights.

00:25:55.100 I work nights.

00:25:55.960 I have a daughter.

00:25:57.760 No, no, no, no.

00:25:58.880 I left out.

00:25:59.760 There's a detail here.

00:26:00.540 There's a detail here.

00:26:01.600 To be clear, I call. 0.99

00:26:03.480 We had to literally go through a famous friend to get this fucking table. 0.98

00:26:07.500 They were like, there's a 28-person wait list. 1.00

00:26:09.500 I was like, this is fucking insane.

00:26:11.820 By the way, when we arrived there, there's like two of the Tesla trucks, 0.98

00:26:14.880 like the disgusting, what are they called?

00:26:17.200 Minecraft trucks.

00:26:18.940 Trash cans, whatever.

00:26:20.480 Yeah.

00:26:21.260 Anyway, but the point is, I called days in advance, panicked.

00:26:24.140 The table wouldn't be outside. 0.99

00:26:25.360 I go, what's the fucking point? 0.99

00:26:26.440 No, Malibu, you want to be on the beach? 0.99

00:26:27.400 It's almost like, why did they even have inside?

00:26:29.400 No, truly.

00:26:30.540 And then I said, I was worried maybe we hadn't secured an outdoor table.

00:26:36.140 And she's like, I can't guarantee it, but I'm going to put it here in the notes.

00:26:39.600 And I went, okay, yeah, because we're celebrating a lot.

00:26:42.980 And she goes, yes, I see here, Kate's birthday.

00:26:45.060 I pretended not to be Kate.

00:26:46.580 I go, yeah.

00:26:47.500 And then I was about to say, because my plan was, do I have to go into Emmy nominations?

00:26:52.960 Jacqueline and John both being Emmy nominated.

00:26:54.780 So I was like, I have that in the chamber.

00:26:56.820 And I go, yeah, we're celebrating a lot.

00:26:58.860 And then I opened my mouth to say like, and a couple Emmy nominations. 0.99

00:27:02.420 And then I was like, Kate, fucking relax. 0.97

00:27:04.660 So I didn't do that. 0.99

00:27:05.900 But I had that in my back pocket.

00:27:09.560 And so, but then we get there, honestly, exquisite table.

00:27:13.320 And I'm burying the lead.

00:27:14.140 I'm just going to say this, and this is not the way to conduct yourself at a restaurant, but we did hold the table for, we got there, the reservation was 6.30, we arrived 6.10, they seat us immediately, we left and we were at 11.45, but we weren't at the table that whole time, we went to the bar after for drinks, we were at the table for over two hours though, I have to say.

00:27:36.840 What did we say to the waiter?

00:27:38.900 Okay.

00:27:39.280 At a reasonable sort of three quarter mark, we go, we get it.

00:27:43.340 We're ready to, you know, we will ditch it anytime.

00:27:46.820 We'll just sit here and keep adding stuff.

00:27:48.500 I didn't tell you.

00:27:50.080 We go, we go, we order unbelievable.

00:27:52.860 We're doing the Wagyu beef hot stone, which by the way, the marbleization of the beef.

00:27:56.340 That night when I'm tanked on two and a half drinks, looking at the ocean waves going,

00:28:01.020 the marbleization of the Wagyu beef is exactly mirrored in the texture of the ocean.

00:28:04.620 The marbleization in the ocean is the beef.

00:28:06.240 I was like fixated on the marbleization being on mother nature's ocean being as

00:28:10.600 same as the,

00:28:11.760 I had such a great time.

00:28:15.900 Okay.

00:28:16.380 And I even,

00:28:17.140 I made the mistake of,

00:28:18.160 I swung by the hostess desk tanked.

00:28:20.520 I was,

00:28:20.820 of course you could not tell I was tanked,

00:28:22.600 but I go,

00:28:23.660 God,

00:28:23.900 I know we had a table.

00:28:24.560 We just ordered more popcorn shrimp.

00:28:27.740 Telling them,

00:28:28.460 I go,

00:28:28.760 we just can't stop ordering. 0.96

00:28:29.840 And she's like,

00:28:30.480 when did that happen?

00:28:33.660 No one was rude to me.

00:28:35.180 I privately did it.

00:28:36.240 Because we did the

00:28:37.680 We ordered everything

00:28:39.320 Apps 1.00

00:28:40.120 We're getting nigiri 0.55

00:28:41.400 We're getting everything right 1.00

00:28:42.480 And then

00:28:43.020 And then the thing that we did

00:28:44.580 Which is what created the hangover

00:28:45.800 I think

00:28:46.220 Is that

00:28:46.640 Oh my god

00:28:47.660 I know there's so much to unpack

00:28:48.500 But the point is

00:28:49.100 We got like

00:28:50.780 Popcorn shrimp

00:28:51.720 Tempura shrimp

00:28:53.480 After the full meal

00:28:55.020 Before dessert

00:28:55.960 As like a little buffer

00:28:57.280 Which really was a delight

00:28:59.760 Was it not fun

00:29:01.400 Me searing the Wagyu beef

00:29:02.900 On the hot stone

00:29:03.600 Well alright

00:29:04.180 Hold on

00:29:04.600 Let me just say a couple things

00:29:05.500 So one

00:29:06.000 I'm just going to go back to the cocktail for a second.

00:29:08.600 So when you send back a cocktail, okay,

00:29:11.820 and you have to replace it with something.

00:29:14.680 Now, what do you do?

00:29:19.000 Take a gamble on another?

00:29:20.640 Because now we know we've located sweetness as the issue.

00:29:23.380 Okay.

00:29:23.820 And was it you or someone had remarked how Kim Kardashian loves the lichitini?

00:29:28.320 I have no boo.

00:29:28.740 And I go, well, obviously we'll be getting the lichitini.

00:29:30.360 It was me.

00:29:31.260 I read it in a Google search, like not even inside of an article.

00:29:36.000 but still on the various search results completely different from the jar i mean the jar lychiatini

00:29:41.580 is an adult drink the lychiatini that you know that's a martini this is not lychiatini this is

00:29:47.760 like a i mean it's like and this was not their lychiatini this wasn't even their lychiatini

00:29:52.340 okay the grand no the one that we sent back yes okay we actually do need a lawyer okay to keep 0.89

00:29:58.700 us on track we need a stenographer or whatever the fuck okay you sent it back beautifully then

00:30:04.740 the question is what are we asking for instead okay i go let's get because i've had it before 0.93

00:30:09.500 there i had to skinny margarita let's get the skinny margs yeah i was like they're gorgeous

00:30:13.360 skinny margarita you and i took a sip we look at each other we go it's a strong cocktail you

00:30:18.260 turned to me and said this is a strong cocktail i agreed yeah but nothing about that cocktail

00:30:23.080 was like i was like thank god you know like it wasn't messed up yeah because i also went

00:30:29.220 through a period of like being like i'll have fresh lime juice you know like fresh lime juice

00:30:34.420 tequila and

00:30:36.400 salt on the rim please

00:30:38.480 you know like just like down to that

00:30:40.200 which I think is a daiquiri now I'm forgetting

00:30:42.160 the whole thing but it doesn't matter

00:30:43.540 but it feels like

00:30:46.380 and I love to try different cocktails on the menu

00:30:48.120 but it feels like if I went for it

00:30:50.580 and got like the umbrella

00:30:51.560 blue you know what I mean

00:30:53.540 and it arrives and it's too sweet

00:30:56.020 it's on me 100% we declared

00:30:58.460 it's too sweet and then we even said

00:31:00.240 the leechatini and she goes oh well that's sweet

00:31:02.000 we go okay we got the skinny marks

00:31:04.360 Skinny markets come, they're perfect. 0.98

00:31:06.100 I had about half of that thing, and I go, 0.99

00:31:08.340 I'm going to take my top off.

00:31:09.660 Okay, I was already feeling free.

00:31:11.840 Free and wild.

00:31:13.060 By the way, we're screaming laughing.

00:31:14.980 Yeah.

00:31:15.440 Jack was screaming laughing.

00:31:16.780 Other people was looking over at us, truly, I noticed.

00:31:18.920 But actually looking over, not annoyed.

00:31:20.460 Looking over, going, that's joy.

00:31:22.300 Wow.

00:31:22.620 Okay.

00:31:23.480 We were having so much fun.

00:31:26.400 Incredible.

00:31:27.940 We start ordering cocktails.

00:31:30.680 This is what gave me the hangover.

00:31:32.980 Cocktails for the table.

00:31:34.060 so everyone could have a sip, which is really fun.

00:31:36.120 This was huge.

00:31:37.160 We ordered our passion fruit.

00:31:39.680 We'd seen this people with this passion fruit thing.

00:31:41.460 It was tasteless of us, frankly.

00:31:42.380 And that's what was so great about it.

00:31:43.700 Yeah, I know.

00:31:44.480 We ordered it like a stack of flapjacks,

00:31:47.680 which I've said six times since.

00:31:49.300 Yeah. 1.00

00:31:50.400 Flapjacks?

00:31:51.220 You know, a stack of flapjacks for the table.

00:31:53.420 People are getting their own breakfast.

00:31:54.540 For the table, yeah.

00:31:55.620 We're like passion fruit martini for the table.

00:31:57.720 We're passing around, everyone gets some sips.

00:31:59.700 I was moaning in ecstasy.

00:32:01.560 Leachetani for the table, everyone.

00:32:02.700 espresso martini for the table oh yeah but i also feel like this is classic but the group drink

00:32:08.540 like i'm not controlling myself so i feel like it's like i'm just fully i'm like i know i took

00:32:13.680 more sips i just i was drinking like like it was my i think i took the most sips really i think i

00:32:18.040 took the most sips actually yeah okay interesting and what was that again got passion fruit and

00:32:22.380 then we got the lychee teeny and we got the espresso martini are you serious because i have

00:32:25.700 no recollection of those last two well by the way i have a video that i'm sorry i have that i have

00:32:30.940 the video of you that's one of my favorite videos of all time is Jacqueline in the backseat trying

00:32:35.140 not to puke as we drive home at 12 45. I didn't know you took video. I didn't know that you even

00:32:42.280 knew I wasn't feeling well back there. Well, I'm going to put the video. You are cracking the

00:32:47.400 window. Classic drunk fashion. It was trying to get air. Yeah, you were trying to get air because

00:32:56.320 we went to the bar after and got another round. What did we drink there at the bar?

00:33:00.940 what kind of cocktail a hibiscus marg oh yeah okay so i just remember going oh no okay in the

00:33:10.720 car going where you really because there's a loneliness to the moment that you realize you're

00:33:15.260 nauseous right yeah of course you go i'm about to take this group down yeah and i was like no no no 0.90

00:33:23.380 and it seems like like you know like oh no and this feeling of like I fucked up you know like 0.91

00:33:32.320 where others did not I did you know and and and so I was like cracked the window and then I was 0.90

00:33:38.560 like oh god like how far are we we're far you know what I mean like starting to go like we're almost

00:33:44.160 there no we're not yeah you know and I was like all right here we go and I was like first of all

00:33:50.100 Like, yeah, I could ask them to pull over if need be.

00:33:53.480 But, like, I'm going to crack the window and I'm going to stick my head out the window.

00:33:57.320 Basically, that was what I was aiming for.

00:33:58.700 And I'm going to sip the wind.

00:34:00.280 Yeah.

00:34:00.960 And I was like, I'm going to inhale the wind and exhale the wind and inhale the wind and exhale the wind.

00:34:06.440 Oh, genius.

00:34:07.100 And, like, my body is my, you know, is my own, like.

00:34:11.780 Yeah.

00:34:12.320 I can tell it what to do.

00:34:13.520 Totally.

00:34:13.980 And then I remember seeing something that was, like, evidence that I was not that far from my place.

00:34:18.720 i feel like i like perked up and was like yeah i was like we're almost there or something you

00:34:24.060 know what i mean like i saw a landmark yeah yeah yeah and then did i drink electrolytes i don't

00:34:30.420 know i woke up and took care at least took care of it then went dumped electrolytes in glass of

00:34:36.260 water guzzle it and then you just feel the brain swell back up to not swell but rehydrate yeah not

00:34:46.400 just like a husk

00:34:47.340 rattling around inside?

00:34:49.520 Because I had

00:34:50.340 like little glasses

00:34:51.880 of the water

00:34:53.060 came refilled the water.

00:34:54.760 Yeah.

00:34:55.720 Didn't do a good job

00:34:56.660 with that.

00:34:57.080 And then I'm like

00:34:57.620 after the meal

00:34:58.700 that other

00:34:59.660 that

00:34:59.960 that other cocktail

00:35:01.940 at the bar

00:35:03.380 I'm screaming about

00:35:04.560 the Wagyu marbleization

00:35:05.720 mirroring the ocean.

00:35:06.880 Yeah.

00:35:07.480 Hibiscus and it wasn't sweet.

00:35:08.640 It was really not

00:35:09.180 a sweet cocktail.

00:35:10.220 We're out there screaming.

00:35:11.880 It's so fun.

00:35:13.540 And by the way

00:35:13.940 I have two videos.

00:35:15.040 I like

00:35:15.640 It's honestly poo grid is you in the back of the car

00:35:18.320 trying not to barf and me the next day

00:35:20.380 more hungover than I've ever been.

00:35:22.040 No, that is premium content.

00:35:23.680 We have to give it to the people.

00:35:25.120 That is premium content.

00:35:26.140 That is $5 a pop.

00:35:27.960 Yeah, that is premium content.

00:35:29.860 Yeah, you can Venmo.

00:35:31.160 We'll make an account you can Venmo

00:35:32.260 and we'll text you the video.

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00:39:17.060 I got home, to be clear, I wasn't like drunk.

00:39:20.820 I was like, I'm home, I'm fine, having a great time.

00:39:24.640 I was definitely drunk, but I wasn't, you know, I don't get messy.

00:39:28.240 I wasn't obnoxious by any means.

00:39:29.940 But woke up in the morning and I go, oh, wow.

00:39:34.240 And I felt, I go, yeah, I didn't have water when I got home. 1.00

00:39:37.460 That was stupid. 1.00

00:39:38.920 I had a facial. 1.00

00:39:41.060 I had a hydrofacial at 11.15, no, 10.10.

00:39:44.620 I woke up at like 7 a.m.

00:39:45.920 I went, uh-oh, had a sip of water, go to bed, wake up.

00:39:50.160 I go, this is bad.

00:39:51.820 and I'm like kind of enjoying it

00:39:53.860 because it was such a fun night

00:39:54.740 I go this is fun 0.92

00:39:55.620 like I'm never fucking you know 0.95

00:39:57.240 I don't like get drunk 0.98

00:39:58.460 like why not

00:39:59.600 maybe you know I'm young

00:40:00.880 even though actually no

00:40:02.280 it's that you're old

00:40:03.000 but anyway

00:40:03.480 so I am too hung over to drive

00:40:07.540 I have to get a lift

00:40:08.780 because I go I can't drive

00:40:10.100 I'm like doubled over in the corner

00:40:12.780 but I don't have a migraine

00:40:14.560 I go thank God

00:40:15.280 but I'm starting to feel nauseous

00:40:17.240 I call the lift

00:40:18.300 the lift picks me up

00:40:20.220 I may be a block away from my house

00:40:22.260 and I'm going, you have to turn back

00:40:23.580 because the nausea, I'm like, I'm going to barf.

00:40:26.700 And I start sipping the wind.

00:40:28.260 I have the air down.

00:40:29.840 I had, by the way, we ordered my favorite breakfast burrito

00:40:33.200 from wake and late to the house.

00:40:37.000 I have a breakfast burrito.

00:40:38.080 It arrived.

00:40:38.740 I looked at it.

00:40:39.400 I was like, I'm going to throw up.

00:40:40.500 I can't even look at the food.

00:40:42.840 I couldn't even drink coffee, Jacqueline.

00:40:46.260 I had water.

00:40:47.080 I was like, I'm going to put the burrito in my purse.

00:40:50.220 i'm in the lift i go turn back now sorry i go you can pull over a burrito in her purse like

00:40:57.080 and i mean like i don't mean like it's revealing itself like oh what a look oh it's a weird look

00:41:03.060 but like almost it being completely obscured but you knowing it's in there there's something like

00:41:07.860 yeah like if you just like if you were like look at that woman and now there's a burrito

00:41:12.820 in there it's like interesting anyway go on it's well well here's what happened i opened my purse

00:41:19.480 a little waft of the burrito came out

00:41:21.940 and I was like I'm gonna hurl

00:41:23.800 I wonder if she felt that way as well

00:41:26.320 you're a male driver

00:41:27.760 I looked like something was going on

00:41:30.160 but I was you know hi

00:41:31.260 doing like my little like everything's fine

00:41:33.900 so I'm sitting there

00:41:35.540 I go turn back turn back turn back

00:41:36.860 I go no you're fine you're fine you're fine

00:41:38.220 it's a 15 minute drive you're gonna make it

00:41:39.620 I get there I stagger upstairs

00:41:42.160 I was 15 minutes late I'm never late

00:41:44.500 anywhere I had called ahead I'm gonna be late

00:41:46.840 I get there

00:41:48.420 thank god it's my it's my it's the woman the wonderful Becca who always gives you my

00:41:53.400 hydro facials I see her I go I'm safe I'm safe because I go anyone else I'm gonna go I'm so

00:41:56.880 sorry yeah I'm not feeling well or something I go no one wants a sick person in their office like

00:42:01.080 but then sorry I'm late I'm hungover it's like horrifying yeah so I get in there and I go

00:42:05.560 I'm gonna have to tell you I have the worst hangover in my life and she was wonderful about

00:42:09.380 it she was like laughing I lay down I'm like it's actually amazing she's putting like a cold

00:42:15.280 mask on my face i'm like sitting there it actually helps i thought for a second i was dying because

00:42:22.220 i'm so hungover i'm under the the light is so bright in the office i go is that am i is that

00:42:28.620 the white light no am i going toward the light like it was like you were getting alcohol poison 0.96

00:42:33.840 delirious like like no but i just i'm i just like i'm like a pussy drunk i was not still drunk but 0.98

00:42:41.180 what it was when i was getting a migraine i go oh fuck yeah yeah do the do the facial and what 0.98

00:42:47.500 did you get during hydrafacial what else canceled my day hydrafacial that's it just a hydrafacial 0.79

00:42:52.960 and that's fast and they clean they clean the they clean the pores that way and then they

00:42:56.740 infuse they do like a hydration thing too right okay yeah okay like suck it out fill it in yeah

00:43:02.480 yeah exactly i i get in the car i'm staggering home once again try not to puke in the car i go 0.83

00:43:07.180 holy shit I get back to my house oh my god I ended up with a pillow on the floor just on the floor

00:43:17.380 for some reason couldn't make it to the couch like I just was like this is where I live now 0.98

00:43:22.960 it's here on the floor a couple times I go over to the toilet I go am I gonna barf can't do it 0.95

00:43:28.480 okay and there's nothing I haven't had coffee or food and I can't fucking bring myself to 0.92

00:43:33.640 I fell asleep on the floor 0.87

00:43:36.900 Woke up

00:43:37.940 With a horrible migraine

00:43:41.040 Shocking nausea

00:43:43.460 And by the way

00:43:44.320 It's not interesting

00:43:45.420 There's like no story here

00:43:46.600 Well I've never required a story 0.99

00:43:48.720 I think people who do are fools 0.98

00:43:50.280 Okay 1.00

00:43:50.760 And assholes 0.99

00:43:52.480 So 1.00

00:43:54.200 But I

00:43:55.260 Have you ever heard of a painting

00:43:56.080 You know

00:43:56.520 Alright

00:43:57.000 The point is I barfed

00:43:59.920 Which was like shocking to me 0.61

00:44:01.500 You make it

00:44:02.240 I texted

00:44:02.580 You make it to the 0.99

00:44:03.480 I think I had sex with you 0.99

00:44:04.380 bathroom or did you 1.00

00:44:05.200 oh of course

00:44:05.860 of course

00:44:06.360 I barfed

00:44:08.480 I couldn't believe it

00:44:09.720 did feel a little bit better

00:44:10.980 the point is

00:44:11.620 I was hungover until 10pm

00:44:12.920 at 10pm

00:44:13.520 I started to feel

00:44:14.180 a little bit better

00:44:14.940 and then it was time for bed

00:44:16.480 I had the only thing

00:44:17.580 I could eat 0.98

00:44:17.980 Naomi God bless them 1.00

00:44:19.100 made me mashed potatoes

00:44:20.580 because I was like

00:44:21.400 I can't eat anything

00:44:23.500 it's all gonna make me barf

00:44:25.060 mashed potatoes

00:44:26.440 delicious

00:44:27.740 by the way

00:44:28.200 extraordinary mashed potatoes

00:44:29.360 electrolytes went to bed

00:44:31.320 woke up fine

00:44:32.640 woke up

00:44:33.180 with the euphoria of no longer being that hungover and was like it felt like a brush with death

00:44:38.760 it's really interesting because you but no regrets i kept saying no regrets of course i kept saying

00:44:44.460 to them over and over again no regrets because i didn't have regret oh yeah yeah i regretted

00:44:48.660 something along the lines of i didn't regret you know of course i regret nothing you know whatever

00:44:53.000 and john was like because john was hungover and john was like i'm hungover which means you must

00:44:57.020 be insanely hungover i was like yeah and i was a little bit and not even a high volume of alcohol

00:45:02.280 consumed it's like i had two cocktails it's also not i mean not that like you know bread soaks up

00:45:07.920 cocktails but it's not a it's it's like it's not a heavy meal i mean it's on italian dinner no it's

00:45:14.800 sushi no you're exactly right no it's a sex meal yeah it's not yeah it's the food is not like some

00:45:21.320 white rice like like yeah the food is not helping soak anything up completely it's very yeah it's 0.99

00:45:27.960 like completely different weird though to see kids at nobu i go the fuck god are your kids with 0.93

00:45:34.080 their ipads oh two inches from their face their parents not talking to each other we remarked on 0.97

00:45:38.280 that we're like like that is just bizarre you don't bring a child to your child is gonna eat

00:45:45.720 this food well also i mean right it's well understand it i guess it's a level of wealth

00:45:50.640 It's just beyond.

00:45:52.500 I think, yeah, I mean, it's that and then it becomes also the brand become the brand changes.

00:46:01.460 Like once you've got the restaurant in every city, every big city, right, then you have to have something to retain.

00:46:10.400 And I feel like the ocean is what holds that one still high.

00:46:14.760 I believe it's the flagship.

00:46:16.960 It's the flagship.

00:46:17.940 No, but I believe that they went to New York, then London. 0.99

00:46:20.460 And then they sprouted fucking everywhere. 0.99

00:46:22.760 Was every dish great? 1.00

00:46:24.100 No.

00:46:25.320 But some were.

00:46:26.840 What more can you ask for than some were, I guess?

00:46:33.980 There's also a video that I haven't sent of you guys all singing me happy birthday

00:46:37.860 and everyone seems drunk.

00:46:39.540 Or you and John and me, the three of us. 1.00

00:46:42.280 In fact, I almost want, oh shit. 0.92

00:46:43.860 I kind of want to play the audio because you guys, it's like really? 0.97

00:46:47.940 it's like that thing where you don't realize what's happening.

00:46:51.600 God.

00:46:52.080 Yeah.

00:46:52.340 Who you've become.

00:46:53.200 Wait,

00:46:53.380 where is it?

00:46:54.100 Hang on.

00:46:56.380 Okay.

00:46:56.640 Wait.

00:46:56.980 Okay.

00:46:57.260 Okay.

00:46:57.460 I've got the video here of the happy birthday song,

00:46:59.320 which I think you can,

00:47:00.200 you'll be able to hear.

00:47:01.200 Okay.

00:47:01.900 Let's try it.

00:47:02.400 We are in fact drunk.

00:47:04.400 I don't know it yet.

00:47:07.340 Sorry.

00:47:07.700 I got this.

00:47:11.680 Happy birthday.

00:47:14.820 To you.

00:47:16.920 Happy birthday.

00:47:17.940 I was leading into it many more

00:47:22.800 And I was also trying to make a joke about harmonies

00:47:25.740 So fun

00:47:26.660 You gotta party when you can

00:47:28.360 And you don't have to use substances

00:47:30.420 Okay guys

00:47:31.140 Yeah

00:47:31.680 Anyway

00:47:35.380 Sorry to talk about a hangover 0.99

00:47:37.420 Like I'm the first person to have ever had a fucking hangover 0.99

00:47:40.100 But it really humbled me 0.99

00:47:41.200 It was humbling to be barfing

00:47:43.460 And to be on the ground

00:47:44.340 And also to go

00:47:45.700 It was worth it

00:47:47.100 I mean, it was sick, and I was like, when will I ever be able to drink again?

00:47:50.920 Amazing, I made it home.

00:47:52.440 The next day you texted, I made it home somehow.

00:47:57.020 I know.

00:47:57.580 Incredible.

00:47:58.740 And then you texted me hungover, and then I texted you for my 10 a.m. workout.

00:48:02.860 Unimaginable, as I was trying not to heave.

00:48:06.120 It's really, I believe the electrolytes, which I didn't drink before bed, but early, early in the morning, I really believe it's the answer.

00:48:12.300 Which electrolytes? Which brand?

00:48:13.460 I toss Superior in. I have like a chug of them. A chug.

00:48:17.100 a jug

00:48:17.600 I've been doing superior

00:48:18.800 I've been back on element 0.99

00:48:19.820 because I fucking love 0.97

00:48:20.800 that salty salty 0.98

00:48:22.020 by the way

00:48:22.440 I could use some more

00:48:23.280 if they want to send 0.96

00:48:23.900 more folks

00:48:24.540 yeah sure could

00:48:25.540 yeah

00:48:25.820 okay well

00:48:26.720 well it was a blast

00:48:29.340 to have dinner

00:48:29.800 we'll do it again soon

00:48:30.720 it's great to see you

00:48:32.220 um

00:48:32.620 back in the

00:48:34.100 square

00:48:34.680 yeah

00:48:35.500 I'll see you soon

00:48:37.180 I love you

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