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00:02:52.740 is Coug. Today's topic, loosely speaking, silver nail, barking in the streets, yogurt for men.

00:03:03.300 Hi. Hi. Nice hair. Just got a thank you. Just got a text from my doctor. Yeah. Hmm. Doesn't

00:03:10.020 look like ringworm. Let's just watch it for a minute. Monitor any symptoms or changes in size.

00:03:14.660 i've had a weird little circle on my face for maybe five days like it's not red with a it's

00:03:23.980 not hole in the middle like a ring it's like i took a picture it's like not it's it's very subtle

00:03:28.240 it's not red it's tiny like ew i can't show that on that red yeah like look at my pores

00:03:35.000 but like red stripe i was like oh yeah that's sorry because to be clear everyone on my phone

00:03:42.420 I did a red circle it's it's subtle it's like you could almost miss it but I'm like huh because I

00:03:49.880 was like oh is it like the hydrofacial wand did it leave a mark on me for a few days no and so

00:03:55.560 of course I woke up I was like well it's still not gone so I texted my doctor so it was my lifeline

00:04:01.660 I feel like I wouldn't notice I wouldn't notice anything I barely know my own form I think you

00:04:09.420 I think you would notice but it's it's small enough but I was like I googled I was like

00:04:13.820 it's not ring work it's not itching there's no other I don't have any other symptoms

00:04:17.180 anyway the resi app doesn't work and I'd like to get into that because every time I have something

00:04:25.740 to say restaurant reservation apps open table resi they are fucking locked behind I'm like

00:04:32.960 is this bank of America every time I have to re-enter my phone and get the thing and pass 0.66

00:04:38.500 It's like, so that's not happening for me.

00:04:40.800 Why?

00:04:41.280 I wonder.

00:04:42.080 Really?

00:04:42.640 Like, I'm pretty sure like when I'm opening my app, I'm just in it.

00:04:46.600 Well, the Rezzy app is.

00:04:48.380 What I don't appreciate is having to remember.

00:04:49.820 They have a serious problem.

00:04:50.980 Who's on who?

00:04:51.900 Where you have to go, oh, right.

00:04:52.840 Oh, I know.

00:04:53.320 This one's not on this one.

00:04:54.640 And let me guess.

00:04:55.480 They own each other.

00:04:57.660 That being said.

00:04:58.740 Right. 0.99

00:04:59.380 Rezzy would be very wise to hire us for ads.

00:05:04.060 Oh, wow.

00:05:05.780 You want wisdom.

00:05:06.480 And I'm not angry.

00:05:07.880 I know I sound angry, but they do have a serious issue with that.

00:05:10.980 It's a very, whoever, they need to fire whoever's doing it.

00:05:14.460 I'm sorry.

00:05:14.840 I don't want to endorse a firing.

00:05:16.080 Okay.

00:05:16.400 They need to figure it out.

00:05:17.560 They need to keep the person there, have a sit down and have them reorient.

00:05:20.980 Cause it's, it is really confusing.

00:05:23.500 It's really hard and it's not user-friendly folks.

00:05:27.440 Okay.

00:05:28.840 Um, something, oh, I texted you about this.

00:05:31.300 I was like, I want to beg for an electric toothbrush.

00:05:34.560 It's time folks.

00:05:36.240 write in about your favorite

00:05:38.640 electric toothbrush.

00:05:39.660 I mean, I don't know, but...

00:05:41.600 I want the Proclaim

00:05:42.520 that molds to your own mouth

00:05:44.100 and shoots liquid between each teeth.

00:05:46.800 It's technically a flosser,

00:05:47.900 a water flosser,

00:05:48.500 but it molds to your teeth

00:05:51.600 and then shoots water

00:05:53.180 between them all,

00:05:54.240 all in one gust.

00:05:55.320 It's a dream come true of cuddliness.

00:05:56.760 It sounds really stressful to me.

00:05:58.540 Oh, it sounds heavenly.

00:05:59.780 Well, if you don't water floss.

00:06:01.200 I don't.

00:06:02.520 You don't have to put it in.

00:06:03.760 You just bite on it, like, kind of.

00:06:05.460 people aren't flossing people who are out there going i'm hygienic they're not flossing i'm gonna

00:06:11.460 say and i've talked about this before flossing did you talk for heart health key for brain

00:06:16.360 i don't think you brought this up on really you brought this up privately to me i go this is

00:06:19.860 yeah they should be going oh like dementia stuff like plaque like it's it's serious you have to be

00:06:26.180 flossing and so not to mention it's just like absolutely fucking disgusting not to but i think

00:06:31.680 yeah the water flosser 0.87

00:06:34.500 isn't really for me

00:06:36.800 also I just can't handle

00:06:37.880 the real thing is

00:06:38.740 they say you need both

00:06:39.580 by the way

00:06:40.100 both?

00:06:40.640 I mean if you're gonna

00:06:41.520 really do it

00:06:42.240 you do both

00:06:43.120 because there's a different

00:06:45.040 effect to

00:06:46.020 you know one is kind of

00:06:47.880 I think manual is okay

00:06:48.200 hosing

00:06:49.100 oh no no no

00:06:50.140 I think manual is okay

00:06:51.320 I mean it all depends

00:06:52.620 okay

00:06:53.060 manual first

00:06:54.080 on the content of your saliva

00:06:55.400 and how it mineralizes

00:06:56.500 and the whole thing

00:06:57.160 yeah

00:06:57.660 but

00:06:57.960 I do like hosing

00:07:00.060 with a water flosser.

00:07:01.800 It feels great.

00:07:02.520 But then you're not getting friction.

00:07:04.820 What about counter space?

00:07:06.680 Like another appliance?

00:07:08.000 Well, as you know,

00:07:08.680 I don't have a counter.

00:07:09.640 Okay.

00:07:09.800 I have a literal pedestal sink

00:07:11.260 that's shaped,

00:07:12.980 you know,

00:07:13.240 like it's not even flat.

00:07:14.480 It's like curved.

00:07:16.120 And I just make it happen.

00:07:19.280 You got to.

00:07:20.380 Tim Gunnett.

00:07:21.380 Tim Gunnett.

00:07:21.900 Oh, yeah, yeah.

00:07:23.000 What does he say?

00:07:23.800 Make it work.

00:07:24.320 Make it work.

00:07:25.120 Okay.

00:07:25.360 um i well i'm ready for an electric toothbrush um have you never used one yes i've had them in

00:07:36.000 the past i had like an oral b from 1904 and it yeah you know that would be becomes a trophy of

00:07:42.060 bacteria you know it's like when it's like you're holding it and then all the the saliva and the

00:07:47.680 toothpaste is cascading down your hand and on the thing you just have to really keep it clean and

00:07:52.460 And then I one time turned it over, like just the part that was on the counter.

00:07:57.160 Yeah.

00:07:57.480 And I was like, oh, cool.

00:07:59.040 So I'm like, base maintenance alone.

00:08:02.280 Base is a shoe.

00:08:03.480 Yeah, yeah.

00:08:04.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:08:05.140 So, okay.

00:08:08.280 So yeah.

00:08:09.120 Well, yeah.

00:08:10.820 What?

00:08:11.320 Okay.

00:08:11.540 Well, my life's changed because I have a dishwasher in my new home.

00:08:17.420 And I didn't grow up with dishwasher culture.

00:08:20.940 Wait, I'm having a moment.

00:08:21.960 Can't remember your old home.

00:08:23.520 Oh, right.

00:08:23.900 Got it.

00:08:24.580 Oh, my God.

00:08:24.940 Unbelievable.

00:08:25.700 By the way, there was a dishwasher there, but when I moved in, it was like—

00:08:28.720 I sensed this.

00:08:29.360 It wasn't hooked up, and I just was like, I can't handle it.

00:08:33.120 Lived there for like eight years.

00:08:34.560 Right.

00:08:35.060 Did you use it as storage?

00:08:36.680 Yep.

00:08:38.200 Sure did.

00:08:38.760 What did you store in there?

00:08:39.320 Pots?

00:08:39.920 No, I stored like, you know, aluminum foil, which you won't find in my house anymore,

00:08:44.320 but parchment paper, you know.

00:08:46.640 Oh, yeah.

00:08:47.360 And, but this, this, so dishwasher, I was raised with the dishwasher, but my dad always washed the dishes and it was like his thing that he would do. And so it was like, he was the dishwasher and the dishwasher was only used maybe at, you know, holidays when there's tons of people over.

00:09:06.880 Oh, he always hand washed, you're saying?

00:09:08.300 He always hand washed. Yeah. I never saw him load it. He hand washed it. He was into it. He liked, he always was like, I like washing dishes.

00:09:14.880 and so i wasn't raised with that again culture and um my partner also wasn't raised with it so 0.70

00:09:25.480 we both you know move into this place there's a dishwasher let's fire it up oh my god it's

00:09:31.520 fucking incredible the amount of time my god and all of a sudden i'm like i understand now what

00:09:37.320 like like you just put dishes into a cabinet you mean and they come out clean 0.98

00:09:41.740 and it's like, I'm discovering the dishwasher in 2024.

00:09:46.060 And I, like just today, I looked in the sink.

00:09:48.860 There are a ton of dishes, but I go, I'll do these.

00:09:51.080 I go, I can load up the dishwasher. 1.00

00:09:55.060 Holy fucking shit. 1.00

00:09:56.940 And then throughout the day, you can continue to load it 1.00

00:09:59.060 and then run it at night.

00:10:00.800 Oh.

00:10:01.900 Had this, because were you thinking I had to load it up?

00:10:03.940 And it's not like the microwave.

00:10:05.060 You put something in and cook it, you know?

00:10:06.860 It's like, that's why the classic Kate is like, you know,

00:10:11.300 Are the dishes dirty in the dishwasher?

00:10:14.140 Oh, my God.

00:10:14.900 Right, right, right.

00:10:15.560 Has the dishwasher been run?

00:10:17.540 Oh, I understand that now.

00:10:18.400 Are these dirty or clean in the dishwasher?

00:10:20.400 Okay.

00:10:21.220 Dirty. 0.98

00:10:21.840 Okay. 0.99

00:10:22.260 Here I go.

00:10:22.900 Adding something to it.

00:10:24.220 That's so cool.

00:10:25.520 And then, dude.

00:10:26.560 I purchased it.

00:10:27.600 I paid out of pocket for Blue Land dishwasher tablets.

00:10:31.860 I'd love Blue Land to send more material.

00:10:34.580 Blue Land.

00:10:34.900 We've been using them as well.

00:10:36.200 We've re-upped in some of their products that they sent us.

00:10:38.480 I love that.

00:10:39.140 No, we got to go clean.

00:10:40.360 you got to go clean in the home clorox is bleach green no bleach is like pure toxic right bleach

00:10:47.520 in a green home i know what you're saying um it's a little bit not sure actually i can't remember i

00:10:55.920 know people say like i don't want bleach around my kids you know so hence the push of vinegar

00:11:01.480 and whatever and then you know and then the great fear of my life that thing i resist cleaning is 0.99

00:11:06.560 It's like the ammonia plus bleach or whatever that'll knock you on your ass. 0.99

00:11:09.880 Yeah, it's terrifying. 1.00

00:11:10.800 Dead as a door.

00:11:13.920 But wait, I want to talk more about the dishwasher.

00:11:16.340 Hold on.

00:11:17.080 So one of the greatest feelings in the world, okay,

00:11:21.480 is turning on the dishwasher at night, okay?

00:11:25.740 So you've cleaned up the kitchen.

00:11:26.940 Everything's loaded in there.

00:11:27.960 You go, okay, you look around, you know, and you go, yep, everything is in there.

00:11:32.300 Okay, you flip it on and it's like, you know, it's like,

00:11:35.120 white noise

00:11:40.680 of the night

00:11:42.140 and the feeling

00:11:43.020 of the kitchen

00:11:43.680 has been

00:11:44.380 the kitchen is done

00:11:47.020 like the kitchen's done

00:11:48.440 in this way

00:11:48.920 that now we leave

00:11:50.000 and the kitchen

00:11:50.540 works on itself

00:11:51.280 yeah

00:11:52.020 that's cool

00:11:53.460 and then going to bed

00:11:54.360 and hearing the dishwasher

00:11:55.840 is like

00:11:56.580 I have a question

00:11:56.960 safety

00:11:57.660 cause the other night

00:11:58.600 we were in bed

00:11:59.440 and I heard

00:12:00.080 the dishwasher was like

00:12:02.020 I'm done

00:12:02.460 and I was like

00:12:03.160 is she gonna be screaming

00:12:03.880 all night 1.00

00:12:04.380 there should be one

00:12:06.540 and stop

00:12:08.260 and then it's up to the adults in the house 0.51

00:12:10.300 I don't think she's going to be screaming all night

00:12:12.440 but I think it depends

00:12:14.520 you heard it a couple more times

00:12:16.260 I had to say hey why don't you go take care of that

00:12:19.040 right you were forced

00:12:23.060 to make a request

00:12:24.520 I mean really depends on

00:12:28.440 depends on the model

00:12:31.460 Lima's out of battery

00:12:33.840 Yeah, I got to keep that thing charged.

00:12:36.040 I got to get it back on the devices.

00:12:37.380 I haven't limited months.

00:12:38.560 I mean, it's just, you know, you go,

00:12:40.500 Oh, I got to get way back.

00:12:41.160 This is a long-term effect.

00:12:42.540 I got to get way back.

00:12:44.480 Am I back to zero?

00:12:45.940 No, we're never back to zero.

00:12:47.640 Oh, look, someone's delivering a package. 1.00

00:12:49.160 I wonder if it's poo-related. 0.99

00:12:50.400 I always wonder.

00:12:51.480 They see me.

00:12:52.540 Here I am with my recording.

00:12:54.220 Once again, you're always, well, yeah.

00:12:56.500 The fear of being seen podcasting is always...

00:13:00.420 I walked because there is a window in my house for it.

00:13:03.300 It's a little bit of the fishbowl effect.

00:13:05.440 And I walked basically nude.

00:13:08.840 It was the thing where, and I had my Dennis Gross LED mask on my face.

00:13:14.700 Your commitment to that product.

00:13:16.220 I'm blown away by how often you use it.

00:13:18.020 I do use it a lot.

00:13:19.160 Although, do you wash it?

00:13:20.340 Do you sanitize it, Kate?

00:13:22.480 Every use?

00:13:23.260 Sanitize.

00:13:23.760 Alcohol?

00:13:23.820 Not after every use, no. 1.00

00:13:25.140 But they say wipe it down with a damn cloth. 0.99

00:13:27.420 Like, you're fine. 0.99

00:13:28.180 I mean, are you?

00:13:30.800 I have alcohol spray.

00:13:34.020 You know what I'm saying, right?

00:13:35.600 Yeah, of course.

00:13:36.120 You want to clean it.

00:13:36.880 Laying a piece of the same plastic that you've only wiped down the thing on your cloth.

00:13:40.060 I mean, as someone who...

00:13:41.180 But I also have alcohol.

00:13:43.780 Yeah.

00:13:44.400 It doesn't feel dirty to me.

00:13:45.560 And I only use it on like clean skin.

00:13:47.740 Yeah.

00:13:48.140 I don't know why I'm trying to seed fear.

00:13:50.300 No, but I understand.

00:13:51.160 But I'm enjoying it.

00:13:52.320 Like I'm enjoying it.

00:13:53.020 I'm like getting pleasure out of like trying to seed fear.

00:13:55.660 I guess it's because like I don't use that thing regularly enough and I'm jealous.

00:13:59.360 And so I'm trying to like, like tell myself that, you know, I haven't missed out.

00:14:04.700 Yeah, totally.

00:14:06.480 I mean, I'll just say, fine.

00:14:08.960 I get it.

00:14:10.260 Pure lift.

00:14:11.000 You're not going to send us one.

00:14:12.920 I have to, you know, how many times have I been years?

00:14:16.360 It's been years.

00:14:17.140 By the way, this is my last time I'll debase myself.

00:14:19.220 I want the pure lift. 0.95

00:14:20.660 Jacqueline paid for it. 0.99

00:14:21.800 She lost it.

00:14:22.960 Do the right thing.

00:14:23.960 Send to.

00:14:24.600 Yeah.

00:14:25.340 Do the right thing.

00:14:27.400 Pure lift.

00:14:29.360 I mean, it comes to a point where you go, no, it's just, it comes to a point where you go, it's not funny or avant-garde or anything for Pure Lift to be like, it's funny if we reject them.

00:14:43.500 It's funny if we refuse.

00:14:44.600 It's funny if we, whatever. 0.96

00:14:46.580 It's like, let us be the clowns. 0.97

00:14:49.580 You send the product. 0.94

00:14:50.740 Send the Pure Lift.

00:14:52.260 It'll pay for itself.

00:14:54.940 I mean, literally.

00:14:58.160 Because I want to commit to the pure lift.

00:15:00.300 I want to go, I want to be sculpting daily.

00:15:03.020 I need it.

00:15:03.600 And then, yeah.

00:15:04.740 So just do the right thing.

00:15:05.580 Stimulating those muscles on the deep level.

00:15:08.120 Okay.

00:15:08.640 Also, Nira did bless us.

00:15:10.660 You're moving on.

00:15:11.780 Nira blessed us.

00:15:12.540 And what all we got today?

00:15:13.160 No, Nira blessed us.

00:15:14.620 Lima blessed us.

00:15:15.840 Nira blessed us hardcore.

00:15:17.860 Yeah. 0.76

00:15:18.340 Nira sent like two lasers.

00:15:20.200 Thank you.

00:15:20.680 And every time I walk past them on the shelf, I go,

00:15:24.000 I just grab a few.

00:15:26.340 Yeah.

00:15:26.700 Oh, fine.

00:15:27.080 and go beeping away?

00:15:28.660 Just like a little bit, like passing through.

00:15:31.520 Pee and get a little zip zip.

00:15:41.220 This is Ryder Strong,

00:15:42.680 and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

00:15:45.280 It was many and many a year ago

00:15:48.220 in a kingdom by the sea.

00:15:50.540 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor,

00:15:53.160 disappeared from a commune.

00:15:54.440 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:15:55.620 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:15:59.440 No, I am not your guru.

00:16:03.200 And back then, I lied to my parents.

00:16:05.800 I lied to police.

00:16:07.080 I lied to everybody.

00:16:08.080 There were years right where I could not say your name.

00:16:11.060 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,

00:16:13.740 interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists,

00:16:16.560 whomever I can to try to find out what actually happened.

00:16:19.880 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods

00:16:22.820 and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:16:24.220 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.92

00:16:27.420 I'll teach you sons of a** to come around here and my wife. 0.90

00:16:30.420 Boom, boom. 0.97

00:16:31.760 This is The Red Weather.

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00:16:42.440 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,

00:16:45.860 the number one hit true crime show that puts women right in the center of their own stories.

00:16:52.320 I'm back with more one-off interviews 0.97

00:16:54.440 with some truly kick-ass women on The Girlfriend's Spotlight. 1.00

00:16:59.360 I want to introduce you to Sylvia. 0.97

00:17:01.880 I'm going to climb this.

00:17:04.240 And then there's Vaisaka.

00:17:06.360 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.

00:17:10.480 Leila dared to ask the question.

00:17:12.940 Is badness hereditary?

00:17:14.980 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.

00:17:16.800 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,

00:17:19.720 She wouldn't have died on that fatal night.

00:17:22.980 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,

00:17:24.580 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.

00:17:27.640 I'm not too intimidated by her.

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00:17:51.580 We recap iconic episodes, then talk to the stars who lived them.

00:17:55.360 Like the legendary Matthew Lillard, who will never forget his time on SVU.

00:17:59.560 I do remember the mustache.

00:18:01.740 I would get a meme of that mustache like every like six days.

00:18:07.280 I'd be like, what was this?

00:18:11.100 Each week we cover the crimes, analyze the plot holes and insult the outfits.

00:18:15.900 Benson goes to talk to Kelly to like tell her the news,

00:18:18.840 but is wearing a beret. 0.98

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00:19:06.460 we've oh so my my my current so the add okay it's it's all about open bins now for me

00:19:22.640 just open bins versus what drawers anything of the nature okay there's that for one so that's

00:19:29.880 huge that's why right now i have makeup in here that i actually grabbed and said i'm gonna bring

00:19:35.040 it up to the episode this is kind of interesting something was sent to us what is this tulip tent

00:19:38.980 by bloom effects bloom effect this which by the way did they know them so i really wanted to try

00:19:45.620 their sunscreen serum but that's not what they said they sent a sunscreen stick yeah which is

00:19:52.320 fabulous but i which i did use yesterday we want the sunscreen serum all right well that's great

00:19:59.080 And you've just given them an ad extraordinaire.

00:20:02.100 So there we go.

00:20:05.640 But the multi-stick really is nice.

00:20:07.080 It's sheer.

00:20:07.580 It feels good on the face, folks.

00:20:09.200 We have to re-append throughout the day.

00:20:14.080 Okay, I've got that.

00:20:16.360 What else?

00:20:18.200 And then I think I've brought these things up,

00:20:20.060 but I don't know how to express how big these things are for me right now.

00:20:24.800 Nails in the wall.

00:20:26.940 Tap, tap, tap.

00:20:28.040 Life changed.

00:20:29.080 Okay.

00:20:29.560 Hanging.

00:20:31.140 Hanging.

00:20:31.860 Okay.

00:20:32.020 So right now,

00:20:32.580 so I have like four.

00:20:34.540 Yeah.

00:20:35.020 Okay.

00:20:35.220 Because the ADD book said like,

00:20:37.840 you know,

00:20:38.420 you can go down this path

00:20:39.460 with the storage

00:20:40.080 and getting the best hooks

00:20:41.100 and the whole thing.

00:20:41.980 Okay.

00:20:42.200 But that becomes its own project 0.99

00:20:43.640 and choosing the prettiest hook. 0.92

00:20:45.780 Yeah. 0.99

00:20:46.200 She's like, 0.96

00:20:46.760 she's like nail on the wall 1.00

00:20:48.220 works plenty good. 1.00

00:20:49.700 Okay.

00:20:50.140 And the thing is,

00:20:51.540 a nail,

00:20:52.560 a nail is attractive.

00:20:54.420 A rustic charm.

00:20:55.340 Like a thick nail.

00:20:56.760 Mm-hmm.

00:20:57.340 And even like,

00:20:58.180 it doesn't even have to be like farm rustic yeah it's a modern clean shape and it's sort of

00:21:06.220 invisible yeah you know a silver nail just sticking out of the wall so right now so I have

00:21:10.600 all these like tote bags right well this is the thing so I've got several huge tote bags I've got

00:21:16.180 my by George from Gus Esselstyn okay you know Esselstyn lifestyle diet etc beautiful tote that

00:21:25.560 is currently hanging. It's huge. I've got a Paris Review tote that was sent to us. Also huge.

00:21:30.440 I love that tote. Yeah. I've got the Pacific totes. Blue. Huge. Oh, yeah. Beautiful. Okay.

00:21:42.320 I've got that one. That comes with me to the gym daily. Okay. So I'm going to call Tracy for now.

00:21:48.040 Just like not confuse people. Just like, yeah, I go to the gym. So I've got the big totes. One

00:21:55.020 goes to the gym right one goes outside out back when i'm gonna work like my like work materials

00:22:02.640 essentially okay and there's another ad thing keep the stuff with the stuff that that it works

00:22:07.360 with so in your closet instead of bathing suit over here flip-flops over here whatever beach bag

00:22:12.760 yep totally it's all in there okay doubles is a huge concept in this book it's like it's like

00:22:19.460 Yeah, have doubles, have triples.

00:22:22.180 Of what?

00:22:23.120 Well, anything that is like used in one room,

00:22:25.600 like leave it there.

00:22:27.240 So it would almost be like,

00:22:28.540 have your hammer that you use in here,

00:22:30.680 not where to leave the hammer.

00:22:32.400 You know what I mean?

00:22:32.980 That was not a specific example,

00:22:34.280 but it's one for me, okay?

00:22:36.080 So you know what I've been considering?

00:22:38.420 We were sent, shout out Shark Ninja, okay?

00:22:41.180 We were sent things from Shark Ninja,

00:22:42.600 including, or one of the things I begged for

00:22:44.920 was this like tiny handheld, you know,

00:22:47.440 little like dust buster-y type thing.

00:22:48.940 I got that too.

00:22:49.500 It's amazing.

00:22:50.660 I love it.

00:22:50.760 Okay, it's like elegante.

00:22:52.200 I have to say the Shark Ninja, I have to say the handheld vacuum, floor vacuum that I bought.

00:22:56.660 It's like completely inoffensive.

00:22:57.760 I feel no need to hide it.

00:22:58.740 If anything, I'm proudly displaying it.

00:23:00.400 It looks like a technology.

00:23:01.820 Just grab that thing.

00:23:02.840 But the normal vacuum, I was vacuuming this morning as I was drinking coffee.

00:23:08.080 Think about that because it's so simple.

00:23:10.800 Oh, wait, you got a normal vacuum from them.

00:23:13.300 I have to beg.

00:23:14.760 I mean, I have a Dyson, but, you know.

00:23:18.200 what year is it you know you don't need it but like no I don't but

00:23:24.480 and then there's the creamy we haven't talked about it I know we're gonna I mean we talked

00:23:30.600 about a little bit I actually started actually began and well I did like a sloppy version

00:23:38.860 like I just but it was interesting I mean to me preparing a day in advance which is what you have

00:23:44.960 to do tough that's really a lot so it's gonna have to become like meal prep level yeah like

00:23:51.120 at the beginning of the week i mix up my batches i get extra pints yeah and then they're waiting

00:23:56.560 in there and then every night you know or every morning one goes in the in the brewer yeah but

00:24:02.600 whatever i'm into it but like for example the idea would be if i had a little handheld vacuum in

00:24:08.380 every room that just sat there okay when i'm in that room i can just grab it yeah okay just back

00:24:14.380 No, it's only, it's just prohibitive cost wise.

00:24:17.920 Well, is it though?

00:24:18.780 This is the thing.

00:24:19.500 Like, I mean, I forget what that dust buster costs, but there are like cheapo ones that

00:24:25.140 are like 30 bucks.

00:24:28.120 And if you're just grabbed, like that might be life changing.

00:24:31.880 You know what I'm saying?

00:24:33.900 It's hard.

00:24:34.200 Like a little one in the bathroom, a little one in the bathroom.

00:24:36.540 Okay.

00:24:38.540 You go in there, you pee and you just grab it and you're like, get a little hair.

00:24:43.120 Right.

00:24:44.380 It's a lifestyle.

00:24:46.900 So it's like doubling where, I mean, the book does encourage like things that you might have internalized as wasteful, but would actually work for you in your life. 1.00

00:24:58.420 Fuck it. 0.98

00:24:59.440 You know, like there's other areas where you're going to be not wasteful. 1.00

00:25:04.060 Right, a vacuum in every room.

00:25:07.200 And a full vacuum, a little one.

00:25:08.860 You know what I think about the thing about ADD people are like likely to die sooner?

00:25:12.600 well i woke you in the night with that well yeah i told you that the book 80 2.0 because they're 0.97

00:25:20.280 like yeah literally accidents hitting your head accidents like 80 people like bonks to kill

00:25:26.360 aren't paying attention whatever walk into the road last night i almost or yesterday i like

00:25:32.760 walking out of a store and they had the gate halfway down and i was like screaming about like

00:25:39.260 bit like you know like doing a tap dancing out and like almost knocked my head again

00:25:45.740 yeah yeah and well that's a perfect example well my so I I text the doctor about ADD stuff I'm

00:25:55.560 like we need to try something else I'm like let's try Vyvanse I know I tried it like years ago

00:26:00.580 and like my brain went silent and like I immediately stopped you know but maybe that's

00:26:06.480 just the thing I need yeah like I tried it for like two days okay and she goes you were on it

00:26:13.780 for two years I was gonna say I thought you were on that for a while well she goes she's like I

00:26:23.520 have it here at like 2015 and 2016 or something and I'm like am I thinking of a different ADD med

00:26:30.380 like that I'm confusing with that like I don't I don't know but it was it was kind of disturbing

00:26:37.660 for one I mean to me though like I mean she was like it was on an as-needed basis and I'm like

00:26:43.420 yeah I still think I have that second bottle I think I just didn't showing up monthly to get

00:26:49.380 a certain script is like a huge part of my life so I just don't feel like it was part of that

00:26:54.140 mm-hmm i don't know i don't know i mean where does it all i mean i i actually grasped possibly

00:27:00.620 for the first time in my life i actually felt that life goes by very quickly i felt like i

00:27:07.100 suddenly saw it i was on set sorry but i was like oh my god by the way it's impossible to relay it's

00:27:17.120 it's ineffable i just suddenly was like oh it's not that i felt old it was that i suddenly realized

00:27:22.320 oh my god it wasn't even scary it wasn't it wasn't dark it was just was like the fact of life

00:27:29.520 I was like I see it now I see how fast it is now

00:27:32.100 yeah I've had a bit of that and um you know I was thinking about it recently that

00:27:42.140 time is one of my inherent you know struggles okay yeah and laughably by like new year's

00:27:48.440 resolution, if I may, or the thing I wrote down in the Hobonichi that I, you know, did for two

00:27:53.220 weeks and is empty yet again. And by the way, I got two versions of that journal so that I could

00:27:58.020 two because I was like, one won't be enough. I need multiple, whatever. So I've got two empties

00:28:03.500 and dated empties and mourning the past habit. Literally I wrote down it and I was like, this

00:28:13.900 year, I'm going to make peace with the finite nature of time. Yeah. And that was what I was

00:28:18.360 going to do in the journal, like in the calendar, the journal, like I'm going to actually use this

00:28:25.500 because like I don't, because I don't want to face the fact that there's only so many hours

00:28:29.140 in the day and whatever. I don't want to like, it's like, it's like the same as not wanting to

00:28:33.380 look at the bank account balance because like, I don't, I'm unable to live according to it. I mean,

00:28:39.080 once again like what like it's a vague sense of like do I have enough money or not for whatever

00:28:44.900 like whatever mood management is my attempt at the day yeah a vague sense of there being a pot

00:28:52.700 or not and like god completely I mean the day today I woke up and I was like oh and I was

00:29:00.740 feeling like okay it's 8 30 like you know by 10 o'clock I'm gonna have done this and this

00:29:05.420 nope couldn't do it i had oh my god actually had i wish i could post this but i can't because i

00:29:11.880 would be kicked off the internet but a dear friend of poog sent me an incredible video

00:29:19.320 of a couple literally just fucking in the street in front of his apartment in new york city 0.63

00:29:28.140 you know what i want to do play just a second of it because i think i think this is okay we could 0.82

00:29:33.280 Why would you be kicked off the internet?

00:29:34.800 They did it in the street.

00:29:35.940 No, no, no.

00:29:36.480 But I'm like, is it okay?

00:29:37.460 It goes against Instagram's guidelines.

00:29:42.160 But this is amazing.

00:29:43.920 This is outside his apartment in Greenpoint.

00:29:46.040 The video doesn't have to go on.

00:29:47.460 I think audio is safe.

00:29:48.780 This is amazing.

00:29:54.980 Wait.

00:29:58.000 Wait for it.

00:30:01.440 Wait.

00:30:02.440 Okay, they paused.

00:30:03.280 Because a car goes by.

00:30:04.320 Wait. 0.99

00:30:05.620 This guy's fucking her against her car. 1.00

00:30:08.640 From behind. 1.00

00:30:10.320 Wait.

00:30:11.200 He's literally pants down.

00:30:16.040 I'm sorry, everyone.

00:30:17.460 In New York City.

00:30:18.340 Just wait for one more scream. 1.00

00:30:19.100 No. 0.96

00:30:19.540 Wait.

00:30:20.060 Wait.

00:30:20.400 We're waiting.

00:30:20.960 Wait.

00:30:33.280 you think this is real

00:30:35.100 what do you mean is it real

00:30:38.200 I'm looking at the video

00:30:39.280 no I mean is it a stunt

00:30:42.160 is it improv everywhere

00:30:43.520 absolutely not they stop

00:30:45.480 a car goes by and they stop

00:30:47.440 I hate improv everywhere sorry I hate improv everywhere

00:30:49.500 of course you're not 0.75

00:30:51.180 742 0.99

00:30:52.760 but it fucking 0.99

00:30:55.380 they stop when a car goes by 0.99

00:30:57.300 and they go oh

00:31:00.300 and they start up again

00:31:01.760 and it's unbelievable.

00:31:02.240 Was it at night?

00:31:03.180 11 p.m.

00:31:04.700 Again.

00:31:05.260 And where in New York City?

00:31:06.460 Manhattan?

00:31:07.560 Greenpoint, Brooklyn.

00:31:08.660 I wish it were Manhattan.

00:31:09.820 It'd be so like cool.

00:31:10.680 But it's Greenpoint, Brooklyn.

00:31:12.100 There are cars.

00:31:12.620 Yeah.

00:31:12.980 Literally like a bike just goes by

00:31:15.020 and they pause for a Saturday night.

00:31:16.780 Screaming, barking.

00:31:17.900 Last night.

00:31:18.520 So Monday night.

00:31:19.340 Tuesday night.

00:31:20.540 Screaming, barking in the street.

00:31:22.860 Last night was Wednesday.

00:31:24.420 Unbelievable.

00:31:24.720 But anyway, yeah.

00:31:27.680 And it's like,

00:31:28.700 it's just unbelievable.

00:31:31.760 that's wild I wonder how many other people took video I mean I remember living in New York

00:31:37.440 my an old apartment where it was incredible I got to I saw directly into these two people 0.99

00:31:42.380 fucking like with I was like with a couple of friends on my roof and it was like holy shit 0.98

00:31:47.580 it was like fully like kind of like a hot like straight couple like banging like having athletic 0.99

00:31:56.000 sex and i was like this rules oh my god well the anonymity of what new york apartment buildings 0.50

00:32:06.760 okay because here's my feeling about that that's my wait what i'm like a step above like putting 0.90

00:32:11.720 cameras in the walls like i'm one of those people it's like if i had like just a screw a little

00:32:15.080 loose i'd have a hotel and have a camera

00:32:17.100 like if i just had you would you would have a little of the wrong chemical you'd be a proprietor

00:32:25.000 you'd have you'd be a proprietor and then i'd be like behind bars yeah yeah i'm behind the counter

00:32:30.100 and i don't want to see i mean maybe obviously i'm playing it up for fun of course if people can't

00:32:38.140 you know people can't the mellow dramatic tragic comedy okay then we got bigger problems

00:32:44.640 how amazing

00:32:46.460 but wait wait I want to explore this

00:32:47.700 no but wait wait here's my

00:32:48.780 to put an advisory warning on this episode

00:32:51.400 are we allowed to have 0.99

00:32:54.880 fucking on the show 0.99

00:32:56.840 yeah it's just audio 0.99

00:32:58.000 it could be fake 1.00

00:33:00.120 oh fuck 0.99

00:33:03.060 right 0.99

00:33:03.560 that's what I'm saying

00:33:06.680 please

00:33:08.020 oh yeah so the anonymity

00:33:10.360 of

00:33:11.660 being someone in a window

00:33:14.600 in New York City, right?

00:33:16.100 In an apartment building.

00:33:16.300 You're watching someone?

00:33:17.300 Or the anonymity?

00:33:18.440 Just the experience.

00:33:20.100 Like, you don't know who they are.

00:33:21.180 You don't know who they are.

00:33:21.800 Whatever, right?

00:33:22.860 Now, there's a special anonymity

00:33:24.680 that's specific because...

00:33:27.320 And this is what I think is...

00:33:28.940 Sorry, I'm laughing.

00:33:30.420 I'm literally at the sex.

00:33:32.200 Her barking in the street.

00:33:34.300 Sorry.

00:33:34.940 It's just so funny.

00:33:37.060 It's so gross.

00:33:38.440 Okay, keep going.

00:33:39.720 I mean, you have to believe

00:33:40.860 there's some

00:33:41.660 that that's part

00:33:43.160 of the

00:33:43.640 kink there right 0.97

00:33:45.040 oh of course 0.99

00:33:45.520 it's like

00:33:46.200 they have dinner

00:33:46.900 around the corner

00:33:47.540 this is not a deserted

00:33:48.920 this is a

00:33:49.620 dense

00:33:50.680 residential

00:33:52.220 block

00:33:53.380 were there other people

00:33:55.520 in their windows

00:33:55.980 with cameras

00:33:56.560 that you could see

00:33:57.140 I'm sure

00:33:57.880 I mean I couldn't see

00:33:58.840 I mean I have to be

00:33:59.660 like

00:34:00.760 my friend and his boyfriend

00:34:02.040 are like laughing

00:34:02.620 there's something funny about

00:34:02.640 peering out

00:34:03.080 making eye contact

00:34:03.900 with another neighbor

00:34:05.720 and you just

00:34:06.300 both are holding your cameras

00:34:07.620 and you're just making

00:34:08.720 eye contact

00:34:09.000 like

00:34:09.360 like

00:34:09.640 I would

00:34:10.540 Imagine all the shadows in the windows.

00:34:12.240 I know.

00:34:13.360 So here it is.

00:34:14.340 Are you ready?

00:34:14.780 So particularly with a big apartment building, okay?

00:34:18.060 The anonymity is that you do not see them go into their door like you do a house.

00:34:22.480 You don't know where they are.

00:34:23.440 So you don't know who they are.

00:34:25.140 You don't know which one.

00:34:25.900 People can come streaming out of the apartment down on the floor out of the lobby of these big buildings.

00:34:32.120 I mean, you might be able to recognize them from the thing, but there's an inherent anonymity of being one of the apartment dwellers.

00:34:38.220 yeah like there's something like cool about that like totally you know there'd be like

00:34:42.260 and like we like you know i remember we had this neighbor that were just like across the way

00:34:45.880 and like it was like oh the blogger like we just it was like she was the blogger okay because like

00:34:51.560 there was just a desk in a window where this woman was all the time typing and to us it was

00:34:57.660 just she's a she's a blogger and it's just yeah but never saw on the street wouldn't be able to

00:35:02.920 recognize her as just the shadow of blogger there's a no it's it's um it's what we lose when we leave

00:35:08.980 new york this is writer strong and i have a new podcast called the red weather it was many and

00:35:24.000 many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea in 1995 my neighbor anna trainer disappeared from a commune

00:35:31.360 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:35:32.760 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:35:36.380 So no, I am not your guru.

00:35:40.160 And back then, I lied to my parents.

00:35:42.780 I lied to police.

00:35:44.060 I lied to everybody.

00:35:45.060 There were years right where I could not say your name.

00:35:48.020 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,

00:35:50.700 interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists,

00:35:53.380 whomever I can to try to find out what actually happened.

00:35:56.920 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods

00:35:59.780 and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:36:01.360 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.98

00:36:04.380 I'll teach you sons of **** to come around here and my wife. 0.97

00:36:07.380 Boom, boom. 0.99

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00:37:52.860 Benson goes to talk to Kelly to like tell her the news,

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00:37:57.620 Not the time for a silly hat, Benson. 0.97

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00:38:21.340 Early in his career,

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00:38:49.940 I had a yogurt that was clearly marketed for men.

00:38:52.720 i had um right accidentally i was at my sports yogurt yeah and accidentally it's very much i

00:39:01.120 would say like gym rat like guy and it was called like where they're like fermentation they're like

00:39:07.840 no no no no no no this is oikos like danon like not organic like triple what was it called triple

00:39:17.340 cream because it was literally for guys and by the way i was like because i was like i'm hungry 0.83

00:39:23.400 do you like have anything and i was like i kind of have nothing like this it was fucking good

00:39:28.620 oh really and it was like you know low sugar like i'm sure it's like poison whatever or it goes 0.67

00:39:34.620 triple zero high protein no yogurt yeah i think i've had that and it's it's like i think i had

00:39:42.060 that as a low sugar and yes they should be marketing these guys who want yeah i've had that 0.98

00:39:46.440 It fucking kind of ruled. 0.98

00:39:48.440 Yeah. 0.99

00:39:49.040 I was like, ooh.

00:39:49.600 Was it, did it have that like whipped quality or was it the super thick?

00:39:55.960 There's like this kind of like aerated and thick at the same time.

00:39:58.720 It was like stevia.

00:39:59.960 So here's what's in it.

00:40:01.180 Yeah.

00:40:01.520 Culture grade, a nonfat milk.

00:40:03.840 It's like, you know, it's hard with dairy.

00:40:05.580 You really do want it to be organic, folks.

00:40:07.440 Natural flavors.

00:40:08.220 Uh-oh.

00:40:09.080 Tapioca starch, stevia leaf, lemon juice concentrate, sea salt, vitamin D3.

00:40:14.060 Interesting.

00:40:14.420 I mean, it seems fine.

00:40:17.400 Yeah.

00:40:18.000 What are you worried about?

00:40:18.860 Tapioca starch?

00:40:20.060 No, no, no.

00:40:20.740 I guess natural flavors.

00:40:21.820 I think that's fine.

00:40:22.520 If dairy, you kind of really don't want to be doing it.

00:40:24.480 You really want to kind of force it to be organic.

00:40:26.660 Yeah. 0.98

00:40:26.880 But Dan, I have to say, moaning like a little pig in hell for it was good. 0.99

00:40:32.660 But it's just such a, yeah, it was just yogurt for men. 0.96

00:40:38.100 It was interesting.

00:40:39.300 Yeah.

00:40:40.040 Well, it's almost like if that is a brand of Danon, it's like Danon trying to go.

00:40:44.260 we're gonna do we're gonna do greek we need to like no one thinks we can do greek we're gonna

00:40:48.960 do greek oikos yeah like an os yeah whatever else and then like lock in on the low sugar that's what

00:40:55.240 i mean about like like the dudes like almost like you know fermentation like whatever like

00:41:00.980 no yeah meat raw organs beef liver prayer all that um i had a waiter that i was considering

00:41:11.640 sending in an email to the restaurant.

00:41:13.680 Like, I'm writing an email about him, you know?

00:41:16.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:41:16.600 Okay.

00:41:17.440 Just all it was was this.

00:41:18.800 It's like, so I have a nut allergy,

00:41:21.780 like top of the order.

00:41:24.120 Interrupts.

00:41:24.620 We'll prepare everything separately.

00:41:26.480 And then you're safe.

00:41:28.160 Yeah.

00:41:29.180 You know what I'm saying?

00:41:30.240 It was, and it wasn't,

00:41:32.220 I don't even,

00:41:32.700 I'm not even quite doing the tone right.

00:41:34.980 It just blows me away when, when.

00:41:39.700 I'm taking care of, folks.

00:41:41.280 It's almost at this point

00:41:43.440 Like customer service

00:41:45.420 Etc. Right? Hospitality

00:41:47.120 It needs to be treated like

00:41:48.980 The way we talk about actors

00:41:50.580 Like you either got it or you don't

00:41:53.340 No, it's a vocation. It's a fucking touch 1.00

00:41:55.080 You have it 1.00

00:41:56.900 You have the gift

00:41:57.720 And people

00:42:01.620 You know it's the thing

00:42:03.200 It's like the thing of like more is more

00:42:04.960 The thing that people confuse with like

00:42:07.340 Hospitality or something where it's like

00:42:09.320 Be right in their face

00:42:10.960 What can I get you?

00:42:11.840 You know what I mean?

00:42:12.280 Or something.

00:42:12.800 It's like, no, like, yeah, it's a vocation.

00:42:16.240 It really is.

00:42:17.220 And it's a way of being with people.

00:42:18.480 I mean, it's like they're animal trainers, servers.

00:42:20.740 They're dealing with animals, people.

00:42:22.900 Yeah, who want.

00:42:23.660 And they have, I mean, it's really delicate art.

00:42:26.420 Yeah.

00:42:27.720 And, you know, adjusting in real time for different.

00:42:31.040 Beyond.

00:42:32.200 I mean, the intuitive that's required.

00:42:34.960 How many times have you ever left your phone number for a server?

00:42:39.240 I have 0.99

00:42:40.840 had sex 0.98

00:42:43.640 are you serious 0.98

00:42:44.960 the sex episode

00:42:46.120 yeah

00:42:47.260 now was the service

00:42:50.520 was the service

00:42:52.460 was that what

00:42:54.780 was it focused on the service

00:42:57.120 well that's what I'm saying

00:42:59.500 that's what I'm asking

00:43:00.480 what was

00:43:01.820 what was

00:43:03.840 what was the key

00:43:05.740 him being hot

00:43:07.520 I wasn't

00:43:09.700 this was 10 years ago

00:43:10.920 this is probably

00:43:11.940 actually more than

00:43:12.840 10 years ago

00:43:13.520 and it happened

00:43:15.640 I can't believe it

00:43:16.360 I've never heard of this

00:43:17.180 actually you know

00:43:17.740 what the hot waiter did

00:43:19.360 what

00:43:19.820 went in a few times

00:43:21.100 yes

00:43:22.600 huh

00:43:22.900 he left his number

00:43:24.800 for me

00:43:25.540 wait

00:43:26.140 later you mean 0.99

00:43:27.000 and we had sex 0.55

00:43:29.180 once 0.84

00:43:30.620 wait wait

00:43:32.040 you said

00:43:32.600 have you ever left

00:43:33.560 did you leave it

00:43:34.620 or did he

00:43:35.040 I can't talk about this

00:43:36.280 on my podcast

00:43:37.260 Keep going

00:43:39.300 Who cares

00:43:40.400 I'm over it

00:43:41.420 Yeah who cares

00:43:42.100 Oh I can't talk 0.99

00:43:42.960 We have high octane fucking on this episode 0.99

00:43:46.300 All bets are off 0.99

00:43:47.420 Yeah

00:43:48.460 Oh you mean that freed you

00:43:51.300 Playing the video

00:43:53.940 I'm screaming I can feel it

00:43:56.860 But

00:43:58.180 Okay yeah what

00:43:59.840 Did you leave the number or did he leave the number

00:44:03.080 No he did

00:44:03.840 Sorry sorry sorry 0.93

00:44:05.260 okay the lives are piling up he was like a hot like wb like whoa which of course you know just

00:44:12.040 archetypal man like wow look at that hot man you know that kind of a thing wb you mean channel 11

00:44:17.440 yeah i guess warner brothers okay aging myself perpetually in hell like a teen or whatever teen

00:44:23.780 sort of comedy yeah felicity era like a gorgeous like definitely an actor what and i later found

00:44:29.800 out like wanting to be an actor you know waiter in LA wait this was in Los Angeles this is in

00:44:36.260 Los Angeles in Venice Beach sweetheart I just placed it in New York if you're hot we were

00:44:41.080 talking oh yeah Venice Beach actor waiter pure how did I not hear about this we were friends

00:44:48.860 then work what's going on I know I don't know I was coming back to LA a lot certainly not

00:44:55.220 i feel like it did i feel like you would remember if i told you some details it actually was crazy

00:45:00.320 and i feel it's the thing of like what am i doing protecting his dignity he's never going to hear

00:45:03.700 this everything didn't end poorly in any way but he did ask to wrap for me in bed

00:45:09.220 and i let him no and he wrapped yeah originals yeah a white wrap yep

00:45:18.640 in total darkness oh my god he was completely hairless

00:45:25.060 anyway it was weird it was one time how long what did what did he go go what the rap it was endless

00:45:32.340 i remember being like thank god we're in pitch blackness i remember staring at the ceiling

00:45:35.480 going oh my god this is happening were you dead silent during it or were you like great i was

00:45:40.060 dead silent not because what are you gonna do go like it was dead silent and i just went

00:45:47.940 i didn't do anything at the end you said like awesome i was like amazing i have no idea what

00:45:54.240 I said, I was, you know, shocked.

00:45:57.420 He was a nice guy.

00:45:59.520 We ran into each other, you know, like literally on the street.

00:46:02.860 Oh, hi.

00:46:03.980 He did the very sweet, I love this.

00:46:06.060 I love this from a man.

00:46:08.460 Hey, can we get coffee?

00:46:10.580 Yeah.

00:46:11.580 I'm not looking for a relationship right now.

00:46:14.520 Sweetie, it's okay.

00:46:16.220 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:46:17.880 But, you know.

00:46:18.600 Wait, hold on.

00:46:19.460 You got coffee and he sat you down to tell you he's not looking for a relationship right now?

00:46:24.240 yeah now when did you and was it spontaneous coffee it wasn't run into run into him and get

00:46:30.940 coffee no no no it was like it was like went on this date whatever and then it was like

00:46:34.760 hey like do I get coffee and I was like um sure like wait is this all part of the same story

00:46:41.920 yes phone okay sorry the phone number situation the first was a phone number to a date I kind

00:46:48.520 of pictured it like sorry that night leaving dinner left his phone number right no it wasn't

00:46:52.920 that night. He's like, why don't you

00:46:54.740 call me? And I was like... You text, hey,

00:46:57.100 hey, it's me. Hey, met up.

00:46:59.000 And he goes, which table were you at?

00:47:02.280 Yeah, exactly.

00:47:03.200 I know, really. He was

00:47:04.920 probably... I was just a notch in his belt,

00:47:06.940 honey. I thought you'd enjoy that idea.

00:47:09.640 I wasn't trying to take you down.

00:47:11.140 No, I didn't feel takedown. I just feel

00:47:12.720 suddenly... Shy? Nude in the

00:47:14.880 street. Yeah.

00:47:16.840 I mean, who cares? 0.99

00:47:18.640 Who fucking cares? I mean, 0.99

00:47:21.180 you didn't say anything bad about the same thing.

00:47:22.640 Or 10 years ago.

00:47:24.220 So there's that.

00:47:24.980 Well, because I'm a gentleman.

00:47:26.580 Yeah.

00:47:28.560 Not scoring highly.

00:47:30.500 You'll artist.

00:47:31.520 Wait, what?

00:47:32.780 I said not scoring highly.

00:47:34.060 You know what's interesting? 0.99

00:47:34.860 I realize I have a really, really disproportionate understanding of what a big dick technically is. 0.98

00:47:42.440 And I had no idea. 0.99

00:47:43.620 Took out the ruler the other day.

00:47:45.000 It was deep on Reddit threads going, wait, what do people like?

00:47:48.840 You mean metaphorically you took out the ruler?

00:47:50.400 No, I took out a ruler in my house.

00:47:53.620 Oh, to measure.

00:47:55.160 Okay.

00:47:56.120 Yeah, just to be like hypothetically.

00:47:58.340 And I was like, wait, what?

00:48:00.740 I was like, people, by the way, because men. 1.00

00:48:03.900 Oh, then also I heard that gay men statistically have bigger dicks than straight men. 1.00

00:48:10.020 Party on. 1.00

00:48:13.840 And then I heard, this is really the blue app. 0.99

00:48:17.320 um and then i heard so i heard that and then i was like something about like a big dick and i was 0.99

00:48:23.000 and and um basically i thought like an average you're about to admit like like a piece of 0.96

00:48:33.520 like anyway go on there's a tone like i thought decided i just basically didn't risk that someone 0.99

00:48:40.920 someone was like said nine inch dick and i went nine inch dick like let me actually look at nine 0.99

00:48:46.520 inches on a ruler i was like oh my god you know like that is fucking brutal and then and then i 0.99

00:48:53.320 was like oh i literally then i was like six inches i was like oh wait i thought six inches was like 0.91

00:48:58.460 big it's like six inches is like normal and like below five is like apparently like really shame

00:49:03.960 it's like you know that's when you get into the danger territory of of like what your life is

00:49:08.800 ruined or whatever yeah yeah like on the reddit threads everyone's like oh wait we talked about

00:49:15.080 this i completely forgot do you remember this i read on reddit once someone's like i have a

00:49:19.800 micropenis ask me anything right oh yeah and then people did how you doing okay yeah and yeah oh and

00:49:27.860 and he linked to a picture okay and okay i went i was i was on this thread for like 45 minutes i

00:49:34.040 feel like i just went down i'm reading everything it was like really compelling right yeah i never

00:49:38.300 actually went to the picture beautiful like i really only realized later like isn't it almost

00:49:43.600 am I deranged

00:49:46.600 you know what I mean like

00:49:47.580 no you're sweet you're sweet

00:49:48.760 like I was so compelled by the text

00:49:51.480 I think

00:49:52.040 I would imagine

00:49:54.200 and he also said that he found a woman

00:49:56.300 you know it was like this like every pot has its lid

00:49:58.820 or whatever you know

00:50:00.300 it was like my wife has a tiny 1.00

00:50:02.800 or whatever shallow 1.00

00:50:04.280 or someone just like I don't want

00:50:06.360 to deal with that yeah

00:50:08.440 no there's a

00:50:09.700 but it was just nice to hear

00:50:12.160 i mean it was just nice to hear it was nice to hear the confidence it was nice to hear the

00:50:17.340 men you know or like the the kind of obligatory like the straight guy who's like freaked out 0.97

00:50:23.900 about his dick not being big i'll just oh i always want to say i always want to say i've 0.98

00:50:28.720 never said it before my i have a friend i remember her calling me she was starting to date this guy 0.99

00:50:33.980 really liked him like oh my god he's great calls me crying i go what's wrong what's wrong she's 0.99

00:50:39.960 like he has a big dick she's crying amazing because his dick was like big and she was so bummed 0.99

00:50:47.800 and i'm like that's an amazing thing literally crying though crying because she was like i mean 1.00

00:50:55.180 this i want to like marry him but like what am i gonna do like he has a big dick 0.99

00:50:59.080 isn't that amazing i mean it's it's i have so many didn't work out i gotta say it didn't work out 0.99

00:51:06.700 so don't go out there

00:51:08.840 getting so sad boys

00:51:10.340 well yeah

00:51:13.740 I mean the other thing

00:51:15.100 is obviously

00:51:15.620 the

00:51:15.900 I know

00:51:16.820 but the

00:51:17.680 oh god

00:51:19.500 I'm off the rails

00:51:21.040 confidence is everything

00:51:22.080 but honestly like

00:51:22.940 the guy just being like

00:51:24.280 swag

00:51:24.520 you're born with swag

00:51:25.660 or you're not

00:51:26.260 is the truth

00:51:27.000 there it is

00:51:27.660 and it's like 0.98

00:51:28.340 that's all it fucking is 0.97

00:51:29.640 well like 0.98

00:51:30.540 I was obsessed with this story

00:51:31.780 and like

00:51:32.620 in

00:51:34.060 I think it was

00:51:34.920 The Art of Seduction

00:51:35.700 you know one of those books

00:51:36.520 or the 48 Laws of Power,

00:51:38.220 but it was the one about seduction, whatever.

00:51:40.060 Dense Reed, and they're talking about this guy,

00:51:41.600 Duke de Nunzio,

00:51:43.480 back in, I don't know when,

00:51:45.420 like in 1400 or something.

00:51:47.140 And he was a hideous man. 0.73

00:51:48.620 He was hideous and all 0.97

00:51:50.140 self-described and by others, 0.82

00:51:52.920 whatever.

00:51:54.600 But his voice

00:51:56.020 was so good.

00:51:59.420 He could have anybody. 0.99

00:52:01.040 I fucking believe it too. 0.98

00:52:03.100 And there were two nuns who were sisters 0.99

00:52:04.680 and he played them both off each other. 0.99

00:52:07.580 He had them both.

00:52:08.240 He ruined their lives.

00:52:09.360 They turned against each other.

00:52:10.540 They fought over him.

00:52:11.800 Wait, what?

00:52:12.680 And then he left them.

00:52:13.820 I mean, this is how I remember it.

00:52:14.860 But like, I've never forgotten the Duke Denunzio.

00:52:17.760 Where did you hear about this?

00:52:18.400 What's his name?

00:52:19.420 In, you know, you know, you know, the book, you know, 48 Laws of Power.

00:52:23.320 It's like thick.

00:52:24.280 And then there's like The Art of Seduction is another one.

00:52:26.480 It's that one I've heard of.

00:52:27.520 It's like, I remember I was standing in borders.

00:52:30.280 I was standing in borders.

00:52:34.680 I don't know 2006 I don't know I don't know and I was like thumbing through like the 48 laws of

00:52:42.000 power or whatever and like some man's like that's a devil's book you know he's like you read that

00:52:49.100 and I was I was like you know because my intellect is awake when I'm in borders sort of right so it's

00:52:54.360 like I like respond to something like like I'm not afraid of information like I'm not afraid of

00:53:00.860 that if like my eyes pass over like something like that will immediately be implanted into me

00:53:07.240 and then coming out of me as my own thought. Yeah. Yeah. Totally. And, um, you know, I think

00:53:11.760 it's interesting. It's all the power of the voice. I mean, it was just, it was, uh, it goes a long

00:53:20.080 way. It's real. I mean, the other thing is like, you know, to, to be down on yourself about

00:53:25.720 something and then imagine this, you're down on yourself about something, you let it like block

00:53:29.980 you in all these ways right and then you come across someone who for the last 30 years has

00:53:34.960 been fucking killing it with that same thing that you made a limitation for yourself so i'm saying 0.78

00:53:40.540 you mean how horrible that would be like to go it didn't you you're like you know like oh my god it 0.98

00:53:47.400 it i could have lived free yeah i didn't have to bear that burden i mean that's why i don't know

00:53:54.760 what i'm trying to pronounce but it's like it's it's like that that now i forget but like literally

00:54:00.320 that throw thing like we read on public a million years ago but like you know cling like cling and

00:54:06.320 claim to your own you know individual thought or impulse or art or whatever like you know so that

00:54:12.440 one day your own idea doesn't come back to you like return with an alienated majesty or whatever

00:54:17.280 and like where you're forced to take your opinion from another man when like it was your opinion

00:54:23.340 years ago and you didn't have the courage to own it and now you're forced to be like yeah i'm

00:54:26.660 remembering that yeah and and that whole thing basically like claim now what claim now maybe

00:54:32.660 it's like claim now what if someone else claimed and it was like celebrated you'd be jealous

00:54:38.640 you know what i mean like almost like oh god i've been hiding this thing what if i saw someone else

00:54:43.700 owning it and be like i didn't know i could own it yeah totally i didn't know i could own a prison

00:54:49.920 of my own making.

00:54:50.980 Yeah.

00:54:51.880 Yeah.

00:54:55.380 I'm convinced

00:54:56.160 I can still save the day.

00:54:58.380 I have to do some work.

00:55:00.140 I have to do some errands.

00:55:01.440 I have to tell myself

00:55:02.300 that I can do a lot

00:55:03.800 in two hours.

00:55:06.080 And of course I can.

00:55:07.040 We could do the game again.

00:55:08.500 We could do the game again.

00:55:09.580 What I have to do is go,

00:55:11.180 I have to mail something.

00:55:12.680 It's like,

00:55:13.220 you know how this is where

00:55:14.200 like forms,

00:55:15.220 it's like the bank

00:55:16.340 and they're calling me.

00:55:17.060 They're like,

00:55:17.420 hey, we sent you the forms.

00:55:18.600 I'm like, I know.

00:55:19.920 I just can't get it together.

00:55:22.220 I'll sell, I'll print them out.

00:55:23.980 I have to send in the forms.

00:55:26.020 The frustration that these kinds of tasks can bring in me,

00:55:29.420 I go, is this as frustrating for other people?

00:55:31.700 And how are people not just wringing the necks of everyone?

00:55:35.060 They are.

00:55:35.780 I mean, there's so much violence and anger,

00:55:37.920 but it's just like, it's kind of amazing.

00:55:40.740 Some people cling to the forms, I think.

00:55:42.680 Some people, the forms keep them safe.

00:55:46.340 Mentally, it's like, oh, just fill out the form.

00:55:48.480 I'm like, you know, like, I fill out the form.

00:55:51.020 I'm a person, you know, like, I think some people are clinging to them like, God, you know, perhaps.

00:55:55.980 I like to believe that, I think, because that helps me understand it, like, whatever.

00:56:00.360 But, I mean, Chris and I once went into the bank.

00:56:03.820 I had, like, cash, and I was going to deposit it in a machine.

00:56:09.340 The machine, like, panicked.

00:56:12.500 You had cash money.

00:56:14.160 Cash money, like, all this cash from, like, maybe it was, like, from merch on the road.

00:56:18.480 or like being paid in cash, something.

00:56:20.520 Yeah, you put it in the thing, yeah.

00:56:22.020 But like, I think like it could have been like,

00:56:23.560 I mean, it was at least like several hundred dollars.

00:56:26.120 It might have been like $2,000 or something.

00:56:28.680 I don't know.

00:56:29.900 Like, I'm going to deposit this stuff, right?

00:56:31.660 Oh, no.

00:56:32.840 Machine just like takes the money, freaks out.

00:56:36.440 And then just immediately the machine has no record

00:56:38.840 of me having just put the thing,

00:56:40.320 walk up to the teller.

00:56:42.420 Like, and I can't remember like if it got solved,

00:56:46.100 but it was like, it was like.

00:56:47.700 Oh, no.

00:56:48.380 I know.

00:56:49.260 It was like.

00:56:49.880 It's so scary.

00:56:51.840 I, you know, like it's.

00:56:54.820 Hey, I get it.

00:56:55.900 This is like, I'm too paranoid to put, they go, oh, put the stack of checks into the ATM. 0.99

00:57:00.700 I go, I think I'm fucking crazy. 0.96

00:57:02.400 One at a time. 0.99

00:57:03.320 One at a time.

00:57:04.640 Right.

00:57:04.920 I mean, it's no, no, no.

00:57:05.920 I'm going to the teller.

00:57:07.660 I'm talking to the teller.

00:57:10.040 Occasionally, I don't trust the teller.

00:57:12.340 I mean, occasionally you trust the machine over the teller.

00:57:15.080 I go teller.

00:57:18.020 I find myself going out of the way

00:57:20.480 to go to the businesses I prefer

00:57:21.760 like I have my packing place

00:57:23.520 I love my shipping guys

00:57:25.340 where I feel community

00:57:27.080 I go in there and chat

00:57:27.840 I just trust them

00:57:28.500 it's great

00:57:28.880 and you know I just

00:57:29.720 I love it in there

00:57:30.500 me and the guys

00:57:31.260 there's a packing place

00:57:33.100 like way closer to me

00:57:34.300 so it's like the difference between

00:57:35.480 you know

00:57:35.900 it's the difference between

00:57:36.580 a 12 minute drive

00:57:37.980 and say a 3 minute drive 0.99

00:57:39.280 holy shit 0.99

00:57:39.920 isn't that crazy 0.99

00:57:40.900 because you would have been driving anyway

00:57:42.340 yeah

00:57:42.620 in an emergency

00:57:43.160 if it were walkable versus

00:57:44.400 if it were walkable versus not walkable

00:57:47.020 That would be a different thing.

00:57:48.180 Walkable changes everything for me.

00:57:51.020 Yeah.

00:57:53.440 I sent back a cocktail last night.

00:57:55.900 Wait, really?

00:57:56.500 Tell me everything.

00:57:57.600 Hello?

00:57:58.400 Where were you?

00:57:59.400 Tell me everything.

00:58:00.120 Set the scene.

00:58:00.800 Crossroads.

00:58:02.040 Which I still want to go to with you.

00:58:03.680 I want to go to Planta with you.

00:58:06.320 I went late.

00:58:07.560 I went late.

00:58:08.960 Really?

00:58:09.280 Like on a spree, on a whim to like, you know, whatever.

00:58:14.500 What time?

00:58:15.260 What's late?

00:58:15.600 like 10 or something or no it was probably like 9 30 or something for food or just for a drink

00:58:20.960 food hadn't eaten dinner whatever it was like oh i'm hungry for dinner should i order in

00:58:27.680 something i don't feel like cooking anything and then like actually just pop up pop up to

00:58:33.160 so i really like the atmosphere in there whatever i ordered like a skinny margarita essentially 0.80

00:58:39.420 i hate to use that term i hate it too that's what they fucking call it and so every time me going 0.94

00:58:44.500 And then I get a margarita, but with no, you know, sweetener, blah, blah. 0.97

00:58:48.640 It's just like, and they're like, one skinny margarita coming up.

00:58:51.200 So it's like me refusing to.

00:58:52.540 They don't care.

00:58:53.200 I'm always apologizing.

00:58:54.320 Hate to say this. 0.84

00:58:55.500 Skinny marg. 0.97

00:58:56.300 Yeah. 0.96

00:58:57.020 Yeah.

00:59:00.240 Order it.

00:59:00.980 It's great.

00:59:01.720 At some point, would you like another?

00:59:03.840 Sure would.

00:59:05.940 And then it arrives.

00:59:08.220 This one's sweet.

00:59:09.180 Sweet as hell.

00:59:10.140 Okay.

00:59:10.400 Well, there you go.

00:59:10.980 That's a pretty easy send back.

00:59:12.060 Oh, and by the way, she said, would you like another go?

00:59:13.680 Yep.

00:59:13.840 another skinny because the waiter had changed over and so i'm like oh wondering if oh making

00:59:18.740 sure that the second the second one was skinny too which like another they see some margarita

00:59:22.340 and i go skinny and they go yep it arrives it's not right and then so they're staring into chris's

00:59:29.380 eyes okay and i'm like i'm gonna do it okay yeah i'm like i'm gonna do it totally totally because

00:59:35.620 it's totally fine i'm gonna have a sugar bomb i want it i want dessert you know if i'm doing it

00:59:41.180 Like, so, and then Chris is like, should I make eye contact?

00:59:44.460 Should I flag him down?

00:59:45.360 Like, kind of like, and I just staring at Chris's eyes and I see his eyes like float

00:59:49.500 upward, like, and I'm like, he's getting eye contact, like it's happening.

00:59:54.240 Anyway, she comes over and I'm, and I go, because we had this conversation all about

00:59:59.260 this, right?

01:00:00.180 Instead of drawing deeply on the well of like, like an actor, like, like, you know, a fully

01:00:04.940 like, like I did with you, which was just like, I'm going to go deep and I'm going to

01:00:08.900 let absolute authenticity emerge. And that's what led to like, this is humiliating. This time I

01:00:13.540 decided to sort of push a kind of hack like reference across. Like I go, I go like play

01:00:20.320 character essentially. I was like, it'll be less emotional load. Okay. I go, I hate to be this

01:00:25.520 douchebag. Okay. I hate to be this douchebag, but which, you know, an outsider might not see the 0.99

01:00:32.940 difference between that and me going like, this is a humiliation. I understand the acting because 0.96

01:00:38.360 to me that's such a clean send back right i would almost be like because normally i'd be the one

01:00:43.000 14 top hats going whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa making a big show of it yeah but for this i'd go

01:00:47.520 hey oh so sorry my um it was a skinny margarita but this one's right i would almost feel no need 0.96

01:00:52.520 to even do a i know i'm the asshole no right because it's not my face it's not a flavor

01:00:58.300 it's not like i don't like the flavor like like the whole thing where we it's not us not liking 0.94

01:01:02.620 grand cardone yeah totally it's not but i was like but there was a cleanliness to you know

01:01:09.000 over apologizing like basically like not dancing right but doing a clean easy over

01:01:16.280 flashing this little card i hate to be the sewage bag but it's skinny and also because it's about

01:01:21.360 skinniness versus not yeah but sugar versus not there is a little bit of wanting to tap dance

01:01:26.280 you know what i mean like how to go of course because it's like i'm sorry i'm tasting sugar

01:01:29.600 and i can't have that no no i know i know it's so i was like hey i think um i think this isn't

01:01:36.180 skinny or whatever you know i do this i think this isn't skinny or i think it's pretty sweet

01:01:40.940 whatever and she's like i'll check or i was like do we think maybe he didn't make it this one's

01:01:44.980 whatever she comes back she's like he said he'd made it skinny-ish and i was like and i was like

01:01:53.000 yeah yeah i need it like you because you love the other one yeah i just want it i just want zero i

01:01:58.560 technically want zero sweetness and i'm like supplement with lime juice because by the way

01:02:04.460 lime juice like to me um tequila a bunch of fresh lime juice if they're willing to spare it

01:02:10.440 that alone oh of course salt on the on the rim but then there was no salt on the rim and i didn't

01:02:15.500 have it in me to bring it up at that point you know sometimes you gotta just you know you know

01:02:20.540 it's pretty great ordered food and then they come around and they're clearing up plates and they go

01:02:24.660 you know I think I want to order more food and we did you know like a true is it time for dinner

01:02:31.660 you know what we'd actually like the vegan sausage and it's just like you know if there's

01:02:40.360 time if the kitchen's still open whatever and I saw a couple people there that were there last

01:02:44.660 time and I go okay here we go new lifestyle of course well that makes total sense yeah I'll go

01:02:50.940 with you this is rider strong and i have a new podcast called the red weather it was many and

01:03:05.660 many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea in 1995 my neighbor and a trainer disappeared from a

01:03:12.600 commune it was hard to wrap your head around it was nature and trees and praying and drugs

01:03:17.740 no i am not your guru and back then i lied to my parents i lied to police i lied to everybody

01:03:26.540 there were years right where i could not say your name i've decided to go back to my hometown in

01:03:31.400 northern california interview my friends family talk to police journalists whomever i can to try

01:03:36.500 to find out what actually happened isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies

01:03:41.020 in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend they have had this case for 30 years i'll teach you

01:03:46.780 Sons of **** come round here and my wife.

01:03:49.080 Boom, boom. 0.97

01:03:50.400 This is The Red Weather.

01:03:53.360 Listen to The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app,

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01:04:01.120 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,

01:04:04.200 the number one hit true crime show

01:04:06.840 that puts women right in the center of their own stories.

01:04:11.060 I'm back with more one-off interviews 1.00

01:04:13.100 with some truly kick-ass women 0.98

01:04:15.400 on The Girlfriend's Spotlight. 1.00

01:04:18.060 I want to introduce you to Sylvia.

01:04:20.520 I'm going to climb this.

01:04:22.920 And then there's Vaisaka.

01:04:25.000 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.

01:04:29.120 Leila dared to ask the question.

01:04:31.600 Is badness hereditary?

01:04:33.640 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.

01:04:35.780 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,

01:04:38.580 she wouldn't have died on that fatal night.

01:04:41.500 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,

01:04:43.120 who I can always count on

01:04:44.640 to keep my feet on the ground.

01:04:46.280 I'm not too intimidated by her.

01:04:47.680 What are you talking about? 1.00

01:04:50.600 Listen to The Girlfriend Spotlight 1.00

01:04:52.440 on the iHeartRadio app,

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01:05:00.960 Hi, I'm Lisa Trager.

01:05:03.260 And I'm Cara Clank.

01:05:04.320 We're comedians

01:05:05.020 and your favorite

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01:05:20.380 I will get a meme of that mustache

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01:05:34.540 Benson goes to talk to Kelly to like tell her the news,

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01:05:58.040 Crook and Chase Nashville chats with the true-life adventures of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook.

01:06:03.000 Early in his career, he shocked his mom more than once.

01:06:06.220 And we even shocked him on what we had to do to get to visit with him.

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01:06:31.460 Well, finally, someone has acknowledged that Poob is about cinema.

01:06:37.560 That we are devoted to cinema.

01:06:40.700 And that we are devoted to, of course, a cinematic experience, going to theaters.

01:06:45.220 The first, right?

01:06:46.300 The first to recognize us, technically speaking.

01:06:48.540 And we are thrilled to be talking about this film, Skin Care, which, by the way.

01:06:55.020 Elizabeth Banks, by the way.

01:06:57.260 Sweaty summer movie. 0.61

01:06:58.640 Sweaty, grimy, L.A., Hollywood Boulevard.

01:07:01.680 This movie, I have to say.

01:07:02.840 Well, this is what I wanted to talk about.

01:07:05.020 Crossroads of the World.

01:07:06.660 Yep.

01:07:06.860 Hollywood Boulevard.

01:07:08.160 You know, I used to live on Hollywood Boulevard.

01:07:10.700 I mean.

01:07:11.180 It's unbelievable.

01:07:12.360 So that was big.

01:07:13.740 We all have in a way.

01:07:15.080 And this movie is well done.

01:07:17.300 I'm here to report.

01:07:18.140 Looks like a shot on film.

01:07:19.240 I don't know what they do.

01:07:19.880 I'm not a film.

01:07:20.460 I don't know.

01:07:21.040 I don't know what the boys do when they get back there.

01:07:22.740 But something was going on where it looks gritty.

01:07:26.200 Very much of a time and a place in Los Angeles.

01:07:30.020 What does it take place in?

01:07:31.300 2013?

01:07:32.280 Yeah.

01:07:32.980 I believe.

01:07:34.160 I believe so.

01:07:35.100 It's based on a true story, which is quite incredible,

01:07:38.200 which is a woman who um a facialist well what we see in the film is is Elizabeth Banks playing

01:07:45.860 a facialist Hope Goldman facialist to the star is booming business rival facialist opens up and

01:07:52.540 there's some really funny stuff going on with the parking and the reserve you know it's like a very

01:07:56.140 like facialist turf someone encroaching on her turf to me it's in that um it's like where regular

01:08:03.560 people like turn and their life sort of twists into a thriller like almost like yeah how close

01:08:10.400 we are at any moment to to turning to violence to unravel to fear and suspicion to revenge

01:08:20.200 it has a and the score score is really yeah yeah it's it's like it's the it's propulsive

01:08:27.400 yeah propulsive score grimes j paul you know fun tracks i actually i was so into the score

01:08:37.920 i went to spotify type in skincare is it there soundtrack it's not there yet so they've got

01:08:43.980 probably waiting so they've got to get on that um i liked being able to sink my teeth into

01:08:49.880 Just pure Banks

01:08:51.580 Okay 0.99

01:08:52.560 She's really fucking good 0.99

01:08:54.240 Dead center 0.99

01:08:54.760 She's been a long time

01:08:56.600 She's been a good

01:08:57.300 A long time

01:08:57.780 Comedic

01:08:58.980 Icon

01:08:59.480 Oh yeah

01:08:59.940 Yeah yeah

01:09:00.880 Serious chops

01:09:01.540 The Baxter

01:09:01.880 I mean

01:09:02.860 What had American Summer

01:09:03.580 You're absolutely joking me

01:09:04.720 Yeah 0.98

01:09:05.160 She's absolutely gorgeous 1.00

01:09:06.240 By the way 1.00

01:09:06.700 Speaking of skincare 0.97

01:09:07.580 She looks great

01:09:08.500 She looks beautiful

01:09:10.100 Yeah

01:09:10.840 And

01:09:11.340 You know

01:09:12.580 A lot of

01:09:13.060 They're doing a lot of

01:09:13.740 Close-ups on her

01:09:14.520 And her little

01:09:15.160 Micro-movements 0.77

01:09:15.980 She's just

01:09:16.740 Well I

01:09:18.080 I

01:09:18.760 I

01:09:19.180 you know they invite us to see this movie we were going to go to the premiere make no mistake 1.00

01:09:24.980 talk about it it's devastated we were invited i wanted to get jocelyn alone get her get her in

01:09:30.120 glam primping and go to the movie okay together the whole thing but you had to work i had to work

01:09:36.720 that's okay because at the end of the day we're not podcasters okay

01:09:40.360 but you know make no mistake go see it in theaters though yeah go see it in theaters you know

01:09:48.240 with a hag or not,

01:09:50.000 I stand by going to movies alone. 0.95

01:09:52.480 It's one of the great pleasures.

01:09:55.360 It's almost all we have left.

01:09:57.440 It's the only way to meet oneself.

01:10:00.540 Go see skincare alone

01:10:01.700 and you're not alone.

01:10:02.920 You're having a subtextual conversation with us.

01:10:05.280 Exactly.

01:10:05.760 I mean, you really are.

01:10:06.520 Wow, that's potent.

01:10:08.500 You really are, so.

01:10:11.360 We were thrilled to be approached by this film.

01:10:13.460 Finally, someone understands

01:10:14.620 that Poog is about cinema

01:10:16.740 And also, the movie is well-moved, folks.

01:10:19.620 Go see it in theaters.

01:10:21.060 Have fun.

01:10:21.540 It is—you're instantly going to relax, I have to say.

01:10:25.420 You're going to instantly—opening frames.

01:10:27.120 Opening shot.

01:10:27.620 You're going to go, okay, I'm being taken care of.

01:10:28.520 Two frames in.

01:10:29.240 Score is there.

01:10:30.140 Performances are there.

01:10:31.840 But to be sent a screener, oh my God.

01:10:34.260 The dream, the Hollywood dream.

01:10:34.940 And I have to say, again, what more do you need to know?

01:10:37.760 It's about a facialist standoff.

01:10:40.520 It's about a facialist, a star celebrity facialist

01:10:43.380 who gets her turf encroached on

01:10:45.800 by another facialist.

01:10:47.420 And that's all we're going to say.

01:10:48.420 And it's based on Trubin's. 0.67

01:10:49.720 Say no more.

01:10:50.680 And the human emotions turn absurd.

01:10:54.180 Oh, oh.

01:10:55.600 We have to acknowledge.

01:10:56.640 We have to acknowledge.

01:10:57.940 The reception to Rose Delights.

01:11:00.300 Rose Delights collab.

01:11:01.700 X.

01:11:02.500 Poog. 0.93

01:11:03.300 X.

01:11:04.280 The Hags.

01:11:04.740 Jar. 0.93

01:11:05.500 The Hags responded in a beautiful way.

01:11:08.260 I have to tell you. 0.99

01:11:09.040 They're flying off the shelves.

01:11:10.880 I have a gummy.

01:11:11.400 If there still are any left.

01:11:12.560 the joy of having that gummy yesterday popped a gummy went on a walk with john early we popped

01:11:20.720 the gummies having a blast we go let's go to quarter sheets we go to quarter sheets have an

01:11:25.260 incredible meal i had the best slice of pie i've ever had in my life oh and you'll love this

01:11:29.780 this unbelievable like stone fruit strawberry pie fucking crazy okay and there's like a vanilla 0.53

01:11:38.180 ice cream on top, but it has this flavor. I'm like, why is this the most transcendent vanilla 0.83

01:11:43.600 ice cream I've ever had? Almost an almond flavor. I ask, they go, oh yeah, she cuts open the pits

01:11:49.840 from stone fruit. And there's something in there that is not almond, but tastes like almond. So

01:11:54.180 people who are allergic to nuts can have it. And it's like a rich almond flavor. It's from the

01:11:59.520 inside of a fucking fruit pit. I don't know. Because stone fruit refers to like plums, 1.00

01:12:05.920 Peaches, right?

01:12:06.760 I think a peach.

01:12:08.000 I think a peach.

01:12:08.460 Okay, interesting.

01:12:09.300 Because I've got some.

01:12:11.180 Unbelievable.

01:12:11.820 Incredible pizza.

01:12:13.160 Eating peaches at night.

01:12:14.420 Best atmosphere.

01:12:15.340 Just great.

01:12:16.340 Oh, you know what I ate last night?

01:12:17.480 A mango.

01:12:18.240 You know, just, I sit there with a knife.

01:12:19.500 I cut it. 1.00

01:12:20.120 Drag, drag.

01:12:21.320 Then I pick up the second piece.

01:12:22.460 Drag, drag.

01:12:23.120 I finish all of it.

01:12:24.020 Then I take up the pieces again.

01:12:24.940 See if I can drag more flesh with my teeth.

01:12:26.840 Yeah.

01:12:27.540 Off the mango skin.

01:12:28.580 Ecstasy.

01:12:29.620 While watching Unsolved Mysteries, the new eps.

01:12:33.340 although the first one was like about jack the ripper i skipped it i was like

01:12:37.240 i was like guys yeah i'm behind i'm presumed innocent anyway but i just want to say yeah

01:12:43.200 we'll talk about that too but i just want to say working on the mailing list folks

01:12:47.020 the name servers just just hold on tight just hold on thank you for your patience it will

01:12:53.840 come as you know we struggle it's 0.98

01:12:57.360 coming my white whale at this point and i'm not bad at that shit i'm good at that shit 0.98

01:13:03.560 we'll figure it out people might think i'm not anyway whatever it doesn't matter point is um 0.97

01:13:08.700 the response to rose delays has been huge so thank you keep buying them up i hope i hope

01:13:13.700 they're not all gone they're gonna sell out folks get them now it was huge okay well that's all for

01:13:19.960 me. That's all for me. Love you. Love you.

01:13:49.960 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

01:14:02.400 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune.

01:14:06.320 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

01:14:10.140 No, I am not your guru.

01:14:13.780 Back then, I lied to everybody.

01:14:16.080 They have had this case for 30 years.

01:14:18.660 I'm going back to my hometown to uncover the truth.

01:14:22.580 Listen to The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app,

01:14:25.160 Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

01:14:29.080 You know Roald Dahl.

01:14:30.460 He thought up Willy Wonka and the BFG.

01:14:33.120 But did you know he was a spy?

01:14:35.400 In the new podcast, The Secret World of Roald Dahl,

01:14:38.360 I'll tell you that story and much, much more.

01:14:41.200 What?

01:14:42.120 You probably won't believe it either.

01:14:43.840 Was this before he wrote his stories?

01:14:45.540 It must have been.

01:14:46.820 Okay, I don't think that's true.

01:14:48.660 I'm telling you, I was a spy.

01:14:51.820 Listen to The Secret World of Roald Dahl

01:14:53.800 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

01:14:56.520 or wherever you get your podcasts.

01:14:59.540 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield,

01:15:01.940 the host of The Girlfriends.

01:15:03.520 I'm back with more one-off interviews 0.98

01:15:05.780 with some truly kick-ass women 0.98

01:15:08.080 on The Girlfriends Spotlight.

01:15:10.960 I'm going to climb this.

01:15:13.300 It's badness, hereditary.

01:15:15.280 Let's see how we can stop killing. 1.00

01:15:17.860 I'm not too intimidated by her.

01:15:19.600 What are you talking about? 1.00

01:15:23.720 Listen to the Girlfriend Spotlight on the iHeartRadio app, 1.00

01:15:27.200 Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

01:15:33.700 Crook and Chase Nashville chats with the true-life adventures

01:15:36.720 of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook.

01:15:38.660 Early in his career, he shocked his mom more than once,

01:15:41.880 and we even shocked him on what we had to do to get to visit with him.

01:15:46.340 I've seen some people do some crazy things, but nothing like that.

01:15:49.400 Plus, what Hudson almost had in common with Billy Bob Thornton.

01:15:53.300 Crook and Chase Nashville Chats with Hudson Westbrook.

01:15:55.900 Listen and subscribe on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

01:16:02.060 This is an iHeart Podcast.

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