Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - March 19, 2024


Ugly Duckling

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00:02:39.320 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant. I'm Jacqueline Novak. And this is POOG, an ongoing conversation about
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00:02:54.860 speaking pram first impression rose backless did you hear what i said about the new yorker
00:03:05.060 that was coming in say it again they come too fast too furious i don't subscribe to the new
00:03:09.940 i don't know how anymore anyone is keeping up with this i love the new yorker okay obviously
00:03:14.780 but i don't have what do you mean like you're getting constant emails or what do you mean
00:03:19.440 I don't understand.
00:03:20.000 No, print weekly, they appear.
00:03:22.820 Oh, no, no, you can't do that.
00:03:24.200 I used to, I mean, you have to,
00:03:25.280 we have to buy print media.
00:03:27.140 But well, that is what The New Yorker has become
00:03:31.040 is furniture.
00:03:32.380 It is kind of an emblem of intellectualism
00:03:36.500 in the home is the high stack of New Yorkers.
00:03:38.940 I used to subscribe, I would get them
00:03:42.140 and it was wonderful.
00:03:43.140 And it is, by the way, it's, you know,
00:03:45.580 I always had that vision of myself.
00:03:47.080 Sundays. Read the New Yorker
00:03:49.160 every week. I'm going to have coffee.
00:03:50.680 You go through it over the week and it
00:03:52.880 enriches your life, no doubt. But it's true. They pile
00:03:55.020 up. It's wild.
00:03:56.720 It's like, damn, are they producing that thing fast? 0.99
00:03:59.860 It's unbelievable. 0.99
00:04:02.060 It's quite admirable.
00:04:03.020 The covers.
00:04:04.260 It does feel good.
00:04:06.380 It's how I really feel.
00:04:08.560 Me just being like, I mean, it's admirable what they do. It's incredible.
00:04:10.980 But it is true.
00:04:12.560 Of course.
00:04:13.900 Am I going to pretend to be someone I'm not? Of course I worship the New Yorker.
00:04:17.080 Um, I had a morning of, I did something which I rarely do, which is left the house early
00:04:23.320 for a walk.
00:04:24.640 Didn't go on the kind of nature walk I usually do.
00:04:26.820 I did city walk.
00:04:27.980 So I'm walking, I'm strutting down Sunset Boulevard.
00:04:30.860 Oh.
00:04:31.660 Ran into two people.
00:04:32.660 And this is when I go community, ran into two people.
00:04:36.320 What?
00:04:36.800 Who I don't really see ever.
00:04:38.540 Right.
00:04:39.440 This, the one, this guy's friendly, you know, Oh, I actually live up the street.
00:04:43.320 You're kidding.
00:04:44.140 We exchanged phone numbers.
00:04:45.020 Oh, we're practically neighbors.
00:04:45.840 We should get coffee.
00:04:46.480 Can you believe this? 1.00
00:04:47.080 then professional acquaintance oh my god hi wow you know and then literally literally she's like
00:04:52.500 let's do this meeting about the thing like a professional moment happened yeah
00:04:56.840 holy shit something huge and then keep walking nature i guess i mean completely and then i walk
00:05:03.600 jobs aren't out there i'll tell you that much oh well there's no job there are no jobs 0.98
00:05:08.380 no a rock is working on nothing a rock can get you financed even less
00:05:14.860 then popped into a store
00:05:18.480 oh I don't usually go here right
00:05:20.620 got a juice
00:05:21.860 the juice of another store
00:05:23.620 interesting
00:05:24.760 and then trotting back
00:05:26.840 picture this
00:05:28.180 I'm in Aesop
00:05:29.340 yes it's not Aesop
00:05:30.780 it's Aesop
00:05:31.300 oh I know
00:05:32.100 I'm in there
00:05:33.480 to get my
00:05:35.100 one of my luxury items
00:05:36.660 my splurges
00:05:37.420 is their mouthwash
00:05:38.320 are you serious
00:05:39.820 oh yeah
00:05:41.400 are there essential oils
00:05:42.660 in the mouthwash
00:05:43.780 no i don't think there are oils but it's just it's like divine are you sure yep no essential
00:05:50.700 oils are the cornerstone of their products maybe it's in there i mean it's the most
00:05:54.740 refreshment you can you ingest them is the question some you can i would assume you can
00:05:59.860 due to a big mouthwash and i trust them but i'm in there this woman goes can i offer you some tea
00:06:05.060 ordinarily i go i don't know about that i go sure she comes over a little bowl a little bowl of
00:06:09.740 herbal tea it is so good i'm moaning i go what is it she goes oh it's you know it's peppermint
00:06:14.760 we put some um some uh here we go licorice root in there something it was like and of course then
00:06:21.420 i'm spiraling i should do this at home i could have my own loose leaf it's you know but so so
00:06:27.400 suddenly it's 10 45 a.m i'm drinking loose leaf tea having a chat about fragrance she's talking
00:06:34.680 to me about the different fragrances i'm elevated i'm lifted i'm out of the mire of the every day
00:06:38.820 i'm connecting i leave i'm shredding no caffeine well i already had caffeine at home with my
00:06:44.820 bambino so i had two shots of espresso in me but i wasn't sailing in a yeah overly caffeinated way
00:06:51.440 yeah i was just curious but i start but then i just i was like well that's a whole different
00:06:55.500 kind of walk i always think nature but what about commerce what about strutting down sunset
00:07:01.360 boulevard with the yeah of course you know there's the fumes of the car and everything
00:07:05.460 It's a totally different.
00:07:06.620 Yeah.
00:07:07.280 The enlivening nature of city.
00:07:12.140 Yeah.
00:07:12.660 If you had to do a walk one night, one at night, one in the day,
00:07:17.800 and one was to be nature and one was to be...
00:07:20.540 City at night, nature in day.
00:07:22.180 City.
00:07:22.740 I mean, clearly it's got to be that.
00:07:24.440 Yeah, it's got to be that.
00:07:25.240 That seems like the answer, but then you go, wait.
00:07:27.780 I know, wait.
00:07:28.440 Wait a second.
00:07:28.740 No, I know, it's true.
00:07:29.580 Woods at night, and then in the bustle in the day.
00:07:33.900 The bustle of the day is really elevating, I have to say.
00:07:40.700 This is, again, why the death of brick and mortar has such huge catastrophic health ramifications for all of us.
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00:09:50.360 From the container store
00:09:51.800 Two sliding drawers like from under the bed
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00:09:55.200 no like you install the tracks in a closet on a shelf two tracks and then you rest a basket on it
00:10:03.320 and the basket pulls out okay got it like i'm installing a basket that pulls out on a track
00:10:08.660 and goes back in but it's bolted in there and i purchased the baskets that were next to it and
00:10:17.020 looked like the correct sizes that lined up with it and they're not oh so i have two baskets
00:10:22.500 and two sets of gliders
00:10:25.800 and they don't seem to fit each other
00:10:28.000 and I have no answers.
00:10:29.840 I mean, that's enough to drive you
00:10:31.260 straight to the asylum. 1.00
00:10:32.800 And so I just put them under the fucking bed 1.00
00:10:34.720 just like to be dealt with. 1.00
00:10:36.620 Yeah.
00:10:37.720 I mean, I'm looking at chaos.
00:10:39.380 I have the sorted out organizers coming.
00:10:43.940 Oh, right.
00:10:45.000 The way you've used them several times
00:10:46.720 and I continue to have not...
00:10:49.140 You know they're there.
00:10:50.180 You know they're there for you.
00:10:51.620 Yeah.
00:10:51.880 I saw a cat in a pram today
00:10:56.600 Gave me joy
00:10:57.380 I think it was elderly 0.85
00:10:59.420 In a pram
00:11:00.720 I don't know that word
00:11:04.180 A pram is a
00:11:07.120 Cradle that is on wheels
00:11:13.420 What's the other word for that?
00:11:16.760 The only thing coming to mind is carousel
00:11:18.140 And I know that's not it
00:11:19.000 Cradle, no
00:11:20.160 pram I don't know that word
00:11:21.940 stroller
00:11:22.380 so a stroller is kind of a pram
00:11:25.060 pram really seems like a word you would know
00:11:27.300 I know I don't know I've never heard it
00:11:29.200 can you believe that
00:11:30.580 I heard an expression on F1
00:11:33.000 throwing toys out of the pram
00:11:35.220 and I was like
00:11:37.580 oh cute 1.00
00:11:38.220 clearly an expression for a baby bitching 1.00
00:11:41.360 kind of 1.00
00:11:42.020 they're like that one of the toys flying out of the pram
00:11:45.160 this morning
00:11:45.680 pram is brand new
00:11:47.460 pram pram pram pram
00:11:49.120 trying to decide
00:11:53.180 whether to find meaning
00:11:54.180 in the year's passage
00:11:55.440 you know
00:11:57.020 March 12th
00:11:58.020 to me I start to go
00:11:59.400 yeah
00:12:00.020 okay
00:12:00.480 yeah March
00:12:01.220 you're officially in the year
00:12:02.700 mid-March
00:12:03.380 oh yeah we're in now
00:12:04.720 starting the summer
00:12:05.260 yeah sure
00:12:06.420 January whatever
00:12:07.880 February going
00:12:09.660 all right I'm a little behind
00:12:10.840 but March
00:12:11.840 you don't
00:12:12.580 you're not allowed to really
00:12:13.680 talk about it anymore
00:12:14.660 I guess because Q1
00:12:16.420 is almost over
00:12:17.380 right
00:12:18.240 But I don't live according to that.
00:12:21.040 Time expands and contracts according to my emotions.
00:12:24.460 And that's why, you know, as we decided last week, life fallow.
00:12:28.900 If a year lies fallow, if 10 years lie fallow, you're still alive.
00:12:32.180 Yeah, you're still fine.
00:12:33.400 You were alive the whole time.
00:12:35.220 I haven't been able to tilt my neck in weeks.
00:12:38.060 Why?
00:12:38.520 It can go left, but it just happens to me every couple of years.
00:12:42.480 I sort of pull like a muscle, like if I've been working at the computer in a certain way and my right hand is, and so look, I have limited range of motion to the right as far as I can really go comfortably.
00:12:56.020 And I just want to know what's going on in there.
00:12:58.540 I want to know exactly what's going on in there.
00:13:00.720 I know you always want to bifurcate.
00:13:01.780 I hate it.
00:13:03.140 Bifurcate and see inside.
00:13:05.500 Here's a right turn.
00:13:06.360 I did something that was making me laugh really hard.
00:13:10.680 and this is a potential
00:13:12.080 I don't know if this will work
00:13:14.160 but
00:13:14.440 and I can already feel
00:13:15.760 as I'm saying
00:13:16.160 Kate you're really trying
00:13:17.980 to dig up
00:13:19.020 a little funny thing
00:13:19.720 that happened last week
00:13:20.560 and putting it into
00:13:21.140 a POOG episode
00:13:21.760 Jesus Christ 0.82
00:13:23.200 I'm not going to say it
00:13:24.840 actually I decided
00:13:25.400 not to embarrass you
00:13:26.020 I can never remember
00:13:26.900 things that happened
00:13:27.600 during a week
00:13:28.240 never once remembered
00:13:29.640 like this week
00:13:30.600 I mean
00:13:31.640 that's also because
00:13:32.880 the weekend serves me not
00:13:34.540 I cannot be part
00:13:36.260 of the culture
00:13:36.780 of weekend
00:13:37.740 versus weekday
00:13:38.300 of course
00:13:38.660 it's too much
00:13:40.320 You're outside of it.
00:13:41.200 You already are outside of it.
00:13:42.080 I can't be on that cycle.
00:13:43.220 Yeah.
00:13:43.560 Yeah.
00:13:44.260 So that means that Saturday and Sunday morning, I better be getting up and doing the same 1.00
00:13:47.780 shit. 0.99
00:13:48.340 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:13:48.780 Routine must.
00:13:50.080 Yeah.
00:13:50.540 I think the routine must hold.
00:13:52.580 I mean, you know.
00:13:54.120 It won't for me, but yeah.
00:13:56.260 Really?
00:13:56.820 No, I don't have a routine.
00:13:58.060 Why, brunching on Saturdays?
00:13:59.380 Oh, well.
00:13:59.980 I mean, whatever the lifestyle is.
00:14:02.340 Yeah, but I don't have that.
00:14:03.380 You work out every day.
00:14:04.320 I don't.
00:14:05.840 I didn't always.
00:14:07.820 It's important to remember that. 1.00
00:14:08.960 by the way bitch this is exciting yeah and i just this can't just turn into a tracy anderson 1.00
00:14:14.940 podcast and we talk about it every fucking week but i did call today to schedule a free not a 0.95
00:14:21.280 free not free not free keywords i did call a schedule a private beginner hell yeah they're 0.93
00:14:28.700 gonna reach out with times because i want to get serious and don't you think i can meet you i can
00:14:33.120 catch up and find you where you are of course you can imagine oh my god i want the community i want
00:14:38.460 to be sweating in the group yeah it's it's um anyway that's it we're gonna leave it at that
00:14:42.360 but i'm i have to why is my voice down here i need to get high up in the energy zone i need
00:14:47.160 to go up here hey oh wow you know what i was thinking about about animals but what it's like
00:14:53.580 because i was thinking about telling you about how boo the the courtyard cat um comes running
00:14:59.800 now when he hears the door unlock just the lock cute and i was thinking about how one of the great
00:15:05.640 things about animals is the way they, you know, in their engagements with us, the way
00:15:10.260 they come running, okay, is actually huge.
00:15:13.900 I mean, they walk too, but the fact that they are willing to sort of slip into a jog or
00:15:22.640 even bound towards you, like adults don't do it.
00:15:29.220 You know what I'm saying?
00:15:30.180 I'm just saying they mobilize the hips, like boing.
00:15:34.120 okay boing run run run run run yeah and there's something well it helps to be on all fours
00:15:41.000 you think absolutely why from standing position as a human if you just lurch forward you
00:15:47.180 potentially fall if you've got all fours you're launching with the back legs and then you've got
00:15:51.560 the front the front legs right there i just think relative to our own bodies our startup time is
00:15:59.820 similar interesting because we stay upright when we run i mean i look i'm not saying i'm as fast
00:16:05.380 i'm not saying i'm as fast as a cheetah folks sounds like you are careful it's a slippery slope
00:16:11.440 you're going down oh i love when a laugh gets to that or it gets to that just air popping in the
00:16:20.500 back that's a good one that's a good feeling when was the last time you laughed this morning i laugh
00:16:25.880 constantly
00:16:26.380 you laugh all the time
00:16:27.560 me too
00:16:28.480 thank god
00:16:28.880 I just thought it would be funny
00:16:29.660 to play to be 0.96
00:16:30.660 play to be a lady 1.00
00:16:31.740 who 0.99
00:16:32.080 never laughed
00:16:33.640 or remembers a time
00:16:35.620 where she did
00:16:36.220 people don't laugh
00:16:38.100 really
00:16:38.740 and it causes
00:16:39.300 massive inflammation
00:16:40.820 in the body
00:16:41.240 yeah
00:16:41.480 no people don't laugh
00:16:42.460 I think
00:16:42.860 I mean the sadness out there
00:16:45.200 it's absolutely deafening
00:16:46.580 this is writer strong and i have a new podcast called the red weather it was many and many a
00:17:01.540 year ago in a kingdom by the sea in 1995 my neighbor and a trainer disappeared from a commune
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00:17:32.080 out what actually happened isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods
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00:18:02.080 that puts women right in the center of their own stories.
00:18:06.200 I'm back with more one-off interviews 1.00
00:18:08.320 with some truly kick-ass women on The Girlfriend's Spotlight. 1.00
00:18:13.260 I want to introduce you to Sylvia. 0.97
00:18:15.760 I'm going to climb this.
00:18:18.120 And then there's Vaisaka.
00:18:20.240 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.
00:18:24.340 Leila dared to ask the question.
00:18:26.820 Is badness hereditary?
00:18:28.860 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.
00:18:30.980 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,
00:18:33.820 she wouldn't have died on that fatal night.
00:18:36.740 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,
00:18:38.460 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.
00:18:41.500 I'm not too intimidated by her.
00:18:42.900 What are you talking about? 1.00
00:18:45.840 Listen to the Girlfriend Spotlight on the iHeartRadio app, 1.00
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00:18:57.260 Crook and Chase Nashville chats with the true-life adventures
00:19:00.280 of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook.
00:19:02.220 Early in his career, he shocked his mum more than once,
00:19:05.320 and we even shocked him on what we had to do to get to visit with him.
00:19:10.080 I've seen some people do some crazy things, but nothing like that.
00:19:12.960 Plus, what Hudson almost had in common with Billy Bob Thornton.
00:19:16.860 Crook and Chase Nashville Chats with Hudson Westbrook.
00:19:19.460 Listen and subscribe on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
00:19:25.740 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?
00:19:29.740 Welcome to Boys and Girls, the podcast where dating isn't dating.
00:19:33.360 It's a full-on love triathlon.
00:19:36.260 A morning what-if, an evening maybe,
00:19:39.340 and a 3pm chai with a could-this-please-be-the-one.
00:19:43.100 Because in the arranged marriage universe,
00:19:45.000 you're basically on a sushi conveyor belt.
00:19:47.260 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.
00:19:50.880 And the wild part?
00:19:52.360 You're not just looking for someone you like.
00:19:54.200 You're casting for a mythical hero your entire family approves of.
00:19:57.880 A saint, a demigod, a unicorn.
00:20:00.220 I know because years ago, I sacrificed myself to this chaotic, soul-crushing tradition, hoping to find love the correct way. 1.00
00:20:08.700 Boys and Girls is our absurd, cringy, heartfelt ride through the highs and lows of the Indian arranged marriage, 1.00
00:20:14.880 finally giving you the validation and healing you deserve. 0.94
00:20:19.200 Listen to Boys and Girls starting February 19th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:20:31.060 Speaking of routine, I got back into watching The Bachelor for the first time in years.
00:20:35.140 And now it's really fun.
00:20:36.240 Last night I was panicking because it was like, I want to watch it live. 0.99
00:20:38.580 God fucking damn it. 0.99
00:20:39.620 And I couldn't. 0.99
00:20:40.060 And then I, you know, FUBU, it's like, you know, a million years ago, I did a free trial
00:20:44.640 at FUBU to get like ABC streaming live, you know, and I went to the whole thing, was cursing
00:20:49.900 profoundly, got the free trial and then they won't let you project it, I guess.
00:20:54.240 What?
00:20:54.900 Well, they think they think I'm going to go, I have a business.
00:20:58.020 I'm going to download FUBU and I'm going to project ABC onto the back wall of the restaurant
00:21:02.600 and everyone's going to get free ABC. 0.98
00:21:04.840 It's like so pathetic and cruel. 0.94
00:21:06.740 So yes, I was watching this right from the laptop, but still had fun. 0.98
00:21:10.240 It is fun to feel part of, you know, just sports, right?
00:21:13.960 Get excited.
00:21:15.700 This is a good season.
00:21:17.140 It's been many years since I've watched.
00:21:19.140 What?
00:21:19.680 If you could get into F1.
00:21:21.300 Oh, that's right.
00:21:21.920 I'm really enjoying Dateline in the evenings at this moment.
00:21:25.200 What happens on there?
00:21:26.420 Is it all murders and stuff?
00:21:27.700 Or is it?
00:21:28.580 Wow.
00:21:28.940 Yeah.
00:21:29.500 I wanted to watch because here's television, ABC Live last night.
00:21:32.920 And then it's Oprah going, I'm doing a one hour special.
00:21:35.600 It's like called like shame, something and something else.
00:21:38.880 And it's all about her basically being like, I will not be, you know, ridiculed for loving
00:21:43.040 Ozempic or something.
00:21:44.560 For loving Ozempic?
00:21:45.460 Is that what you said?
00:21:46.060 Yeah.
00:21:46.560 Yeah.
00:21:47.720 Interesting.
00:21:48.280 Yeah.
00:21:48.840 An hour special. 0.98
00:21:49.780 Skinny Nation, rise up. 0.66
00:21:51.220 Yeah. 0.98
00:21:51.700 And I was like, well, I want to watch that.
00:21:53.420 Yeah.
00:21:53.940 I definitely want to watch that.
00:21:55.040 I really am curious if your read on that is what they want people to take away from it
00:22:01.440 I'm pretty positive that's what it is
00:22:03.920 Yeah
00:22:04.360 It's so funny too because being like I'm sick of the shame about Ozempic
00:22:07.460 It's like that's strictly a you know A-list kind of top 2% income level concern
00:22:15.120 The world is not like we have to destigmatize Ozempic use 0.74
00:22:19.580 It's like that is purely it's like you lost your mind
00:22:22.740 Relax
00:22:24.340 well I don't know is it sweeping is it is it sweeping the country like like no people who 1.00
00:22:28.840 actually need it like can't get it because it's all people who are already like is that true
00:22:33.480 wanting it yeah oh yeah I have a friend who actually wanted to take it for actual health
00:22:38.900 reasons like like yeah oh and they were like I can't get it it's too expensive like my insurance
00:22:44.180 won't cover it or like people who actually need it for medical reasons yeah you know it's it's
00:22:49.160 so expensive but then you know rich people who want to drop a few before awards season or whatever
00:22:53.780 the fuck i might have to start ordering my meds from canada it's really sad i went through a whole 0.99
00:22:58.400 thing with my meds today i felt like a champion because i was on the phone with fucking cvs i 1.00
00:23:03.500 should do my uh i'm looking at my migraine injection they hang up and you live on cvs i 0.98
00:23:07.980 don't know if you've experienced this literally pick up and hang up well they pick up and hang
00:23:11.900 up okay they're like okay that's amazing okay and as i'm going through this it's a whole thing
00:23:17.100 and my insurance isn't covering my meds and i had a thing i was going in every two days paying
00:23:22.120 $90 a pill okay
00:23:23.700 and then like they
00:23:26.100 finally put through some random coupon
00:23:28.020 that like my doctor's like person
00:23:30.320 I don't know and then
00:23:32.180 it's $10 instead of $2,500
00:23:33.980 it's really
00:23:35.200 I'll just say this quickly
00:23:37.600 I have for my Amovig shot it's like out of
00:23:40.240 pocket it's like $900 and I have this coupon
00:23:42.000 enrolled in this coupon system where it's $5
00:23:44.280 and I called to get my
00:23:46.200 thing and they were like so our coupon
00:23:48.160 system across CVS wide
00:23:50.200 is down and I go
00:23:52.160 okay, when will it be back up?
00:23:53.360 Because I have to do the injection every 30 days.
00:23:54.920 And they're like, well, it's been two weeks
00:23:56.780 and we're not sure.
00:23:58.060 And I went, so you're telling me
00:23:59.780 that I have to pay the price
00:24:02.880 if I want to get it this month, basically?
00:24:06.300 Are you hearing this?
00:24:07.240 Well, yes.
00:24:07.740 The coupon system is down.
00:24:09.340 The CVS, it was like, you guys get it together.
00:24:12.840 They also said, I'm like,
00:24:14.200 so tomorrow if the insurance goes through,
00:24:16.300 can I come back?
00:24:17.140 Because I was buying a couple of pills at a time.
00:24:19.060 Can I come back and get them reimbursed?
00:24:21.600 you know for the no oh yeah of course not just no okay got it so it was it was um it was
00:24:28.380 hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of dollars I come in I get two at a time I was just there
00:24:34.440 going like and and to like go in and be like say my birthday and my name again and the whole thing
00:24:39.060 and be like I just like coming in like it's Wellbutrin girl I'm like hey it's me I'm the
00:24:44.600 girl that buys Wellbutrin every two days here um still waiting on the prior authorization to go
00:24:49.240 through uh and and and then like i talked to my doctor's office they're like yeah like you could
00:24:57.260 try doing every other day with generic and it's just like it's so it's so they're like my friend
00:25:05.400 calls canada here you should try that and then i don't know it's um it's rough out there and then
00:25:10.620 and then my pharmacist or you know one of the people working the store nearly impossible to
00:25:16.800 hear live in person it became a joke so like like literally like whispering i had that recently with
00:25:24.280 someone where somebody was speaking so quietly and he has to go i'm so sorry i can't hear you
00:25:29.620 yeah no i do i'm so sorry because you take it upon yourself because it's hard to comment on
00:25:34.600 someone else's physical it's a physical act right speaking so like commenting on it and saying i
00:25:40.960 can't hear you is to sort of say you just sort of failed at doing the thing and so we blame it on
00:25:45.440 our own ears i'm sorry i just and then how did they get louder not really a lot of times kind of
00:25:53.760 a little bit it was like wait it was like it was like this it was like it was like what's your name
00:25:59.040 you know like oh no it was like birthday and also like there's a sense of urgency like hey so like
00:26:07.040 i'm back i guess i'm gonna have to pay for another 400 you know if the thing has gone through and
00:26:12.060 unbelievable it was and and and and there's this thing called complementary schismogenesis
00:26:23.480 that it's like a thing in communication like or that's how it was referenced but i remember
00:26:29.220 learning it was like so someone's really quiet so you start talking like louder at them in order
00:26:33.400 to try to like right get them to talk louder back to you but it actually has the opposite effect
00:26:37.900 And then they actually get quieter because it's like they're trying to manage you.
00:26:42.240 So whatever the behavior is, it's complimentary schismogenesis.
00:26:46.680 So the genesis of two things going in the opposite direction, like complimentary really.
00:26:52.060 And I think about it all the time.
00:26:54.420 I'm always trying to make sure I don't accidentally kick off complimentary schismogenesis.
00:27:00.860 A quick thing, just back to Bachelor real quick.
00:27:04.040 Because when you see someone, there's this one girl that's just so sad.
00:27:07.380 it's like all right but then you're like oh they're 26 like this girl it's like she's like
00:27:10.580 no one's ever been so nice to me as joey and all this stuff and it's like oh my god you know they're
00:27:15.920 like he cares you know and then you see them this girl they go on this date right they're diving
00:27:21.580 into water they dive into the water they come up right and they start talking about like clearly
00:27:26.580 he's like are you okay something's wrong right like she hurt herself right and she's like i'm
00:27:31.040 fine i'm fine like doing this whole thing which is like as someone i just that is not in any way
00:27:36.020 my composition to not my disposition my like and so then they come out of the water it seems like 0.94
00:27:42.800 her fucking jaw is broken she's like talking crazy she can barely open her mouth she's like 0.97
00:27:47.440 she's like no no no and he's like are you sure like and they bring the doctor over in the doctor 1.00
00:27:51.460 and she's like i can i'm just like i'm just myself like i'm gonna need more but continue
00:27:59.200 but i'm gonna have to take you back because i'm gonna need more on this no no go ahead okay hold
00:28:02.580 okay what kind of water ocean flat water no they're like in yeah like like a like a tropical
00:28:09.960 kind of oasis like a cool okay like a bachelor water yeah yeah like they're like jumping in
00:28:15.400 and so there's like rock formations under there fake rock formations no i think it's real they're
00:28:20.260 in oh but but but dive in there's stuff under the water that she could hit against she didn't hit
00:28:25.240 her she hit her face on the surface of the water i think like just literally slapped it in a weird
00:28:29.180 way they dove in from a height a great height they're diving in from a higher how high are we
00:28:33.520 talking like one of those like spring break everyone screams i'm not sure like i think
00:28:38.120 pretty high what about i don't know holding your nose i really struggle i feel bad for people who
00:28:43.240 who you know hold their nose like jump in the pool and hold their nose with their actual fingers
00:28:48.140 because that's no way to get protection right it's a disaster the the way is you blow air out
00:28:55.220 of your nose breathe out okay like there's no protection with the physical squeeze no if you
00:29:01.780 could maintain it like you jump from a great height these people are doing it it's like
00:29:06.820 if they don't if you don't know how to breathe out like water is going to get in there right
00:29:10.520 like you're you're it's like it'd be like if you were trying to hold your breath by
00:29:15.220 opening your mouth and putting your hand over your mouth it's like yeah it'll hold it in there
00:29:20.560 but it's not yeah right right i just want to take anyone who does that and just teach them just like
00:29:25.900 blow out and slowly go down under the water i just want to teach them like
00:29:29.220 like you could hands free not suffer right right um but wait i want to know more because i'm
00:29:37.320 watching her the jump i'm watching her and i'm going if i jumped in i would go are you okay i
00:29:43.040 go airlift me now to cedars do you trust the idea always the idea of being like no no i'm fine i'm 0.74
00:29:52.220 fine like unimaginable for me and thank god thank fucking god and this girl that joey heartbreaking 0.70
00:29:59.520 she's like she's like yeah everyone i've been with has cheated on me and it's like and you 1.00
00:30:03.220 signed up for the bachelor i mean people just run back punch me again hit me again didn't hit me 0.98
00:30:09.160 harder last time let's try it again it's fucking crazy i mean are people seeking love on their gate 0.98
00:30:16.120 yes jacqueline yeah i remember i remember i haven't watched it in like 15 years okay and i feel like 0.94
00:30:23.680 when i was tuning in the stakes felt like real jacqueline the stakes are so high and this again
00:30:29.180 i haven't watched it in years but this bachelor honestly bless him he wants it and he's crying
00:30:33.800 he's like he's literally like crying he's like i don't know what it's like it's this thing of like
00:30:39.000 amazing acting. It's not acting, but you go, what a performance. It's like when you're actually
00:30:42.900 watching someone actually break down and you're like, God, that was good. But it's real. And
00:30:47.240 you're like, acting is so bizarre. Do it again. Pretend. Yeah. But he's really doing it. And he
00:30:53.340 really is like in a very sweet way, like deeply just kind of dumb, like frying pan to the head, 0.99
00:30:57.360 but it's sweet. And that's enough for someone. Okay. Don't say that about someone. Why? He could 0.98
00:31:02.000 listen and what a horrible thing for him to hear you believe about him. You know nothing of his
00:31:05.620 interior a little something no he's fine i think it's sweet yeah well you know where i hear people
00:31:15.760 act sorry just real quick where i hear the common man actually act what dateline murderers wait
00:31:21.900 they're acting like i'm not a murderer well yeah like when they call 9-1-1-1 when they go something's
00:31:26.840 wrong she fell down the thing and i'm so upset about it because i love her if something's wrong
00:31:32.660 oh fell down a thing yeah exactly
00:31:34.440 she was not moving
00:31:36.120 oh no oh no
00:31:38.020 Carol no
00:31:38.960 and then they're like
00:31:42.240 are you doing
00:31:43.860 you know is he breathing
00:31:46.280 no I can't tell you gotta send
00:31:48.640 someone now or like last night
00:31:50.440 we're out by route
00:31:51.700 about 30 minutes from the nearest thing
00:31:54.860 hurry
00:31:55.660 so wild
00:31:57.220 and
00:31:58.140 you watch and you go
00:32:01.220 like last night
00:32:02.420 I was staring at this guy
00:32:03.340 going
00:32:03.680 he's gotta have done it
00:32:05.540 he just
00:32:06.080 he looks
00:32:06.680 I'm like
00:32:07.120 can I tell
00:32:07.860 in this guy's eyes
00:32:09.300 like
00:32:09.640 or soul
00:32:10.380 emerging
00:32:10.640 can you see in the eyes
00:32:12.160 the truth 1.00
00:32:12.520 can you fucking 0.99
00:32:13.220 can the eyes 1.00
00:32:14.180 see
00:32:14.880 give the truth
00:32:15.760 and I'm going
00:32:16.540 I'm going like
00:32:17.600 if I met this guy 0.98
00:32:18.840 would I know he's a murderer 0.82
00:32:20.020 the whole thing
00:32:20.640 okay
00:32:20.940 and I'm watching like
00:32:22.120 you know
00:32:22.440 a long take
00:32:23.500 on him
00:32:24.100 you know
00:32:24.620 like responding to questions
00:32:25.900 or whatever
00:32:26.260 and then like
00:32:27.220 10 minutes later
00:32:27.940 in the episode
00:32:28.340 I'm like
00:32:28.640 oh it's not him
00:32:29.300 he's a doll 0.86
00:32:29.980 oh my god
00:32:30.660 Isn't that amazing?
00:32:31.620 Well, here's what it is.
00:32:32.300 You have experienced this in life because I'm constantly reminded of this.
00:32:35.600 I feel my own.
00:32:37.020 You know, when you're in a social situation, you meet someone for whatever reason, you
00:32:40.260 go, I don't like them because you think they don't like you.
00:32:43.340 Or like if someone's cold, here's what I'm trying to say.
00:32:45.580 Yeah.
00:32:45.780 You're in a social situation.
00:32:46.720 Imagine this.
00:32:47.420 You step into a group.
00:32:48.300 There's five people.
00:32:48.900 Oh, the second they warm up.
00:32:49.580 Hi, hi, hi.
00:32:51.020 Someone, maybe there's a slight thing.
00:32:52.720 They just, because I'm defensive internally, right?
00:32:55.300 Where someone, there's just a slight thing.
00:32:56.940 You go, they hate me.
00:32:57.680 And you go, well, you know what? 1.00
00:32:59.040 Fuck you. 1.00
00:33:00.660 right yeah yeah and then five minutes pass they're your best friend right i know and i whenever this 1.00
00:33:05.340 happens i go kate never forget don't be defended against this idea that someone because it's
00:33:10.320 shocking because you know first impression i mean it's talk about the first impression rose i mean
00:33:16.040 but it's and then and then you think about well i'm doing that to people all the time of course
00:33:19.440 it's unconscious like totally you know you're in a group right someone that totally like it's just
00:33:26.320 you can't tell
00:33:28.280 so the murderer
00:33:28.960 yeah we don't know
00:33:30.720 you just
00:33:31.340 no I remember one time
00:33:32.360 watching a reality show
00:33:33.480 people were forced
00:33:35.340 to start like a
00:33:36.360 it was called like
00:33:38.180 utopia or something
00:33:38.980 I don't know
00:33:39.380 but you know
00:33:40.240 thrown on a
00:33:40.860 that sounds familiar
00:33:41.540 it sounds familiar
00:33:42.380 or like thrown on a piece of land
00:33:43.920 and they have to like
00:33:44.960 build a society
00:33:45.900 amongst themselves
00:33:46.560 it was
00:33:47.060 and there was this one guy
00:33:48.720 and I got
00:33:49.460 so mad at him
00:33:50.780 okay
00:33:51.020 and I was like
00:33:51.680 he is like 0.98
00:33:52.700 everything I hate 0.60
00:33:54.260 yeah yeah totally 0.98
00:33:55.300 whatever like I was like this piece of shit like I was really and then like end of episode I was 0.95
00:34:01.800 like oh wait he's the only one I trust oh my god yeah okay and like no it's powerful and and I know 0.97
00:34:08.720 that it's like and I do not care like whatever yes editing whatever like I'm like you know yeah
00:34:13.400 I was manipulated whatever like but I'm like you know what editing is a personality people are
00:34:18.020 editing right but yeah like when I turn when I when it when it turns and you're like I had to
00:34:24.320 I had to talk myself through
00:34:26.260 thinking that
00:34:27.960 someone was like
00:34:30.100 I don't know
00:34:31.440 pissed about where my mat was
00:34:32.880 or something
00:34:33.260 or
00:34:33.640 there was something
00:34:35.300 and Chris was like
00:34:36.700 when you're working out
00:34:37.520 you're in pain
00:34:38.260 you know like 1.00
00:34:39.340 you're fucking sweating 0.99
00:34:40.060 you're tired 1.00
00:34:40.600 like your faces
00:34:41.860 are not all there
00:34:42.740 to be able to be like
00:34:44.260 I just like decided
00:34:46.300 someone was judging me
00:34:47.520 yeah of course
00:34:47.960 of course
00:34:48.360 which like
00:34:49.300 as we often do
00:34:49.900 which like first of all
00:34:50.560 they are
00:34:51.160 yeah yeah sure
00:34:51.820 right like you know what I mean
00:34:52.800 like it's one way
00:34:53.500 and they're not
00:34:54.060 you know sometimes like you know that uh sometimes you know that uh someone looks like someone in 1.00
00:35:02.140 your past or something like that like you're like why do I think this like woman's a bitch and then 0.98
00:35:06.780 you're like oh because she looks like that person that you know and and then you're like you know it 0.99
00:35:12.900 but it still doesn't lose the effect oh my god I had close-up magic near days after no yes and I
00:35:22.400 was card magic and i was absolutely floored where at a party okay okay a man comes up that's fun
00:35:30.480 what was really interesting was after the fact and have you watched the prestige yet 0.77
00:35:33.780 no fuck you watch it tonight all right okay all right he comes up now what's weird is this is 0.85
00:35:40.780 part of the mentalist i can't remember so he had me think of a card we had just been talking and i 0.99
00:35:46.600 was like you know about this and so i was like i'm gonna go with a club okay not a heart or a diamond 0.69
00:35:51.720 like some bitch yeah totally okay so i'm like whatever i'm like seven of clubs or something 0.58
00:35:56.220 in my mind and now i can't remember if he asked me to tell the group and he turned around or if 0.98
00:36:01.240 it came straight out of my mind i can't remember now that interesting i'm like that's almost the 0.65
00:36:06.600 thing and then all i know is he's pulling my card out of a deck what the fuck and then he's giving
00:36:11.960 a guy's address you know of his of his house and no and oh and he like just all sorts of stuff 0.94
00:36:19.180 and I got his card
00:36:20.540 hell yeah
00:36:21.900 because suddenly
00:36:22.480 I'm convinced
00:36:23.000 I have parties
00:36:24.020 it'll be fun
00:36:24.660 in my mind
00:36:25.220 I have parties
00:36:25.680 and need to have
00:36:26.580 a good magician on hand
00:36:27.920 because how much
00:36:28.580 does that cost
00:36:29.260 I go you're wonderful
00:36:30.380 you go
00:36:30.680 you go
00:36:30.720 you go
00:36:30.760 you go
00:36:30.780 you go
00:36:31.060 you go
00:36:31.680 come over for an hour
00:36:33.040 right
00:36:33.560 imagine this
00:36:35.300 imagine a small
00:36:36.640 I used to think
00:36:38.040 this wouldn't be
00:36:38.420 what I would want
00:36:38.980 a magician walks in
00:36:40.160 oh god 0.99
00:36:40.660 here we fucking go 0.98
00:36:41.420 now I'm going 0.98
00:36:42.340 it sounds fun
00:36:42.940 imagine having cocktails
00:36:44.120 with a group of
00:36:44.820 I'm not kidding
00:36:45.460 six people
00:36:46.080 seven under ten
00:36:46.940 magician comes in
00:36:48.060 for some close up magic
00:36:48.960 for an hour
00:36:49.700 they probably have
00:36:50.500 a three hour minimum
00:36:51.140 who knows
00:36:53.220 well
00:36:53.700 they deserve to charge
00:36:55.080 for the time
00:36:55.660 it takes them
00:36:56.380 to get over there
00:36:57.000 oh here's what
00:36:57.600 they deserve to charge for
00:36:58.660 it's not about
00:36:58.960 the time you work 0.97
00:36:59.580 here's what they deserve
00:37:00.200 to charge for
00:37:00.800 the 20 years
00:37:02.680 exactly
00:37:03.100 that people don't understand
00:37:03.980 they go
00:37:04.620 oh I'll pay you
00:37:05.580 for one night
00:37:06.040 you're paying us
00:37:07.280 for our lives
00:37:08.480 yeah
00:37:09.480 you're paying us
00:37:10.340 for not having children
00:37:11.440 and instead
00:37:12.120 doing stand up
00:37:13.740 pivoting to
00:37:14.780 I came to that
00:37:15.840 realization during my
00:37:16.600 workout today
00:37:17.080 about something
00:37:18.260 about that
00:37:18.920 You're paying for the daughter I didn't have at 32.
00:37:22.300 Yeah. 1.00
00:37:22.680 Bitch. 1.00
00:37:24.520 Who I didn't want. 1.00
00:37:34.120 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.
00:37:38.200 It was many and many a year ago in a kingdom by the sea.
00:37:43.380 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor, disappeared from a commune.
00:37:47.300 It was hard to wrap your head around.
00:37:48.580 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.
00:37:52.360 No, I am not your guru.
00:37:56.120 And back then, I lied to my parents.
00:37:58.740 I lied to police.
00:38:00.020 I lied to everybody.
00:38:01.020 There were years right where I could not say your name.
00:38:03.780 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California, interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists, whomever I can, to try to find out what actually happened.
00:38:12.840 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend?
00:38:17.160 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.95
00:38:20.360 I'll teach you sons of a** to come around here and my wife. 0.90
00:38:23.360 Boom, boom. 0.97
00:38:24.700 This is The Red Weather.
00:38:27.620 Listen to The Red Weather on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:38:35.380 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield, from The Girlfriends,
00:38:38.800 the number one hit true crime show that puts women right in the center of their own stories.
00:38:45.260 I'm back with more one-off interviews 0.97
00:38:47.380 with some truly kick-ass women on The Girlfriend's Spotlight. 1.00
00:38:52.300 I want to introduce you to Sylvia. 0.97
00:38:54.820 I'm going to climb this.
00:38:57.180 And then there's Vaisaka.
00:38:59.300 Let's see how we can stop killing and save lives.
00:39:03.420 Leila dared to ask the question.
00:39:05.880 Is badness hereditary?
00:39:07.920 And finally, we'll meet Rosamund.
00:39:09.720 If it wasn't for the year where Ella lived,
00:39:12.660 She wouldn't have died on that fatal night.
00:39:15.800 You'll even get to meet my mum in that one,
00:39:17.520 who I can always count on to keep my feet on the ground.
00:39:20.580 I'm not too intimidated by her.
00:39:21.980 What are you talking about? 1.00
00:39:24.900 Listen to The Girlfriend Spotlight
00:39:26.740 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
00:39:29.280 or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:39:36.360 Crook and Chase Nashville chats
00:39:37.940 with the true-life adventures
00:39:39.340 of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook.
00:39:41.260 Early in his career, he shocked his mom more than once, and we even shocked him on what we had to do to get to visit with him.
00:39:49.080 I've seen some people do some crazy things, but nothing like that.
00:39:52.020 Plus, what Hudson almost had in common with Billy Bob Thornton.
00:39:55.920 Crook and Chase Nashville Chats with Hudson Westbrook.
00:39:58.520 Listen and subscribe on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
00:40:04.820 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?
00:40:07.380 Welcome to Boys and Girls, the podcast where dating isn't dating.
00:40:12.680 It's a full-on love triathlon.
00:40:15.280 A morning what-if, an evening maybe, and a 3pm chai with a could-this-please-be-the-one.
00:40:22.180 Because in the arranged marriage universe, you're basically on a sushi conveyor belt.
00:40:26.280 And like raw fish, you've got a shelf life.
00:40:29.940 And the wild part? You're not just looking for someone you like.
00:40:33.120 You're casting for a mythical hero your entire family approves of.
00:40:36.800 a saint, a demigod, a unicorn.
00:40:39.960 I know because years ago I sacrificed myself
00:40:42.600 to this chaotic, soul-crushing tradition
00:40:44.800 hoping to find love the correct way.
00:40:47.780 Boys and Girls is our absurd, cringy, heartfelt ride 1.00
00:40:51.000 through the highs and lows of the Indian arranged marriage, 0.96
00:40:53.960 finally giving you the validation and healing you deserve.
00:40:58.280 Listen to Boys and Girls starting February 19th
00:41:00.940 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts
00:41:03.360 or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:41:06.800 i'm really tired of trying to wrestle an eyebrow out of my face with makeup i want
00:41:15.440 i don't know what i want i want them fixed and i want them what is that food on your face
00:41:19.980 no i took a bite of food i was saying i was pointing at my mouth because i ate food
00:41:24.040 what about a vegamore um
00:41:26.160 now why are we laughing
00:41:34.580 we should let the listener know
00:41:36.220 to me it's just
00:41:37.780 we're laughing
00:41:38.440 because Vegamore
00:41:39.200 is an official POOG sponsor
00:41:40.480 by the way
00:41:40.780 they sent a beautiful box
00:41:41.820 it's true of products
00:41:42.700 but I noticed Jacqueline 1.00
00:41:43.960 they have an eyebrow serum 1.00
00:41:45.120 to put on your eyebrows
00:41:46.600 I noticed that too
00:41:47.300 was it eyebrow or lash
00:41:48.420 I think there's both
00:41:49.320 now usually it's one and the same
00:41:50.040 I think there's both
00:41:50.820 yeah
00:41:51.080 do we have the strength
00:41:53.220 to try it on one side
00:41:54.720 and see if it does anything
00:41:56.220 No, you got to go both.
00:41:57.720 You got to, right?
00:41:58.700 You got to go both.
00:42:00.700 I.
00:42:02.460 Oh, you know what I'm excited for?
00:42:03.740 I just.
00:42:04.400 Sorry, keep going.
00:42:05.800 Me, of course.
00:42:06.400 Magic mind.
00:42:06.620 I'm hyper fixated on the fact that we have a jar reservation that we're going.
00:42:09.900 You're so funny.
00:42:10.580 You're like, you and me, the 22nd.
00:42:12.840 It's us.
00:42:13.640 It's done or whatever.
00:42:14.780 And then it was like, oh, actually, it's the 19th.
00:42:17.280 I don't know.
00:42:19.120 I can't explain it.
00:42:20.540 But.
00:42:21.320 Well, we're going.
00:42:22.140 I can't wait.
00:42:22.840 And I texted Suzanne, the chef.
00:42:24.620 She knows we're coming.
00:42:25.300 As long as you've already made the res, I guess we're safe
00:42:27.500 Made the res, I'm so excited
00:42:29.120 What, a lychee martini?
00:42:30.100 I haven't been in a while
00:42:30.980 Yeah, lychee, go
00:42:32.080 I'm picking you up, catching a buzz on a lychee martini 1.00
00:42:35.760 Screaming in the corner 0.87
00:42:37.060 Can't fucking wait, I haven't been to jar in a while 0.98
00:42:39.340 You and I haven't been to jar in like over a year 0.98
00:42:41.540 In a backless red dress
00:42:42.780 Maybe I should get a dress for dinner
00:42:44.220 Oh, should we dress up?
00:42:46.160 By the way, yeah, we're dressing up
00:42:48.060 If we can
00:42:48.520 What do you mean if we can?
00:42:50.140 I mean like if it doesn't happen in that day
00:42:52.320 I don't have the right thing
00:42:53.440 By the way, we don't have to do ball gowns.
00:42:54.700 Then I won't be held hostage.
00:42:56.320 We don't have to go backless, but it's jar.
00:42:59.120 There's something about being backless, though, at dinner that is kind of cool.
00:43:02.520 Oh, yeah.
00:43:03.120 Because actually, it's one of the few places where the back gets some viewing.
00:43:07.960 I know.
00:43:08.740 I put on a backless.
00:43:09.760 Like, you're seen from behind.
00:43:11.740 It's really vulnerable.
00:43:14.280 Backless?
00:43:15.040 Yeah, backless.
00:43:17.500 Interesting.
00:43:18.120 Because also, people are then touching your back.
00:43:20.280 You feel their hands on the small of your back.
00:43:22.340 That's disgusting. 0.97
00:43:23.140 oh yeah 0.87
00:43:23.960 they touch
00:43:24.860 because they expect
00:43:26.060 there to be a shirt there
00:43:26.840 ew
00:43:27.100 you're just like
00:43:27.900 excuse me
00:43:28.600 that's a high touch surface
00:43:29.600 you might not want to touch that
00:43:30.640 people have been touching it all night
00:43:31.700 oh my god
00:43:32.060 it's a dream city back there
00:43:33.640 what do you feel about
00:43:35.140 when someone talks to you
00:43:36.140 and their spit goes directly
00:43:37.460 in your cornea 1.00
00:43:38.060 pfft
00:43:39.760 direct launch
00:43:40.940 directly into the cornea
00:43:42.000 better than what
00:43:42.240 better
00:43:42.500 because it is the cornea
00:43:43.800 it is the cornea
00:43:44.720 well here's the question
00:43:46.440 do you blink
00:43:46.980 because I don't
00:43:48.140 you just let them
00:43:49.240 yeah yeah
00:43:50.020 I hold it
00:43:50.780 I like
00:43:51.180 for their comfort
00:43:51.680 yeah
00:43:52.240 yeah yeah
00:43:52.920 you don't want to yeah I mean I try to make it like it didn't happen for them although
00:43:58.360 yeah I'm really thinking about it I'm like yeah just the cold the shocking coldness of
00:44:08.920 someone's saliva is really yeah where the grotesquerie comes in I get a little I'm not
00:44:14.240 germaphobic but I don't I just have to say it I don't love kissing people on the lips
00:44:19.260 to say hello
00:44:20.200 I just don't love that
00:44:22.020 well first of all
00:44:23.500 I mean
00:44:23.960 where the hell
00:44:25.840 is that occurring 1.00
00:44:26.400 are you French
00:44:27.900 I mean like
00:44:28.500 yeah
00:44:28.660 no
00:44:29.080 and they don't even do that
00:44:29.840 by the way I love 0.94
00:44:30.540 kiss on the cheek
00:44:31.420 I go
00:44:32.040 I love that 0.90
00:44:33.480 who the hell is kissing you 0.80
00:44:34.780 on the lips hello 0.98
00:44:35.560 these people are
00:44:36.540 trying to get a little 1.00
00:44:37.500 they come for the lips 0.96
00:44:38.640 they're trying to
00:44:39.440 and a couple times
00:44:40.420 they're trying to
00:44:40.860 sip a little
00:44:41.500 a couple times recently
00:44:42.240 I've had to
00:44:42.700 sip a little berlant
00:44:43.500 I've had to a little bit
00:44:44.540 move the head
00:44:45.440 oh I'm not doing the lips
00:44:46.900 for ya 0.99
00:44:47.360 are you fucking serious 1.00
00:44:48.620 lips 1.00
00:44:49.140 Forefrontal coming 1.00
00:44:50.460 What the fuck 1.00
00:44:52.720 Who are these people 0.99
00:44:53.560 I mean it's definitely
00:44:54.340 You know
00:44:54.860 You know
00:44:55.580 It's kind of like
00:44:56.300 It's a fun
00:44:57.280 Sweet
00:44:57.780 You know
00:44:58.320 Oh you know
00:44:59.360 They want the lips 0.96
00:45:01.240 I think it's
00:45:01.880 I just don't want the lips
00:45:03.300 I'm sorry
00:45:04.420 I'll say it again
00:45:05.120 They're trying to sip a little
00:45:06.340 Okay
00:45:06.880 They're trying to get a little sip of you
00:45:09.320 To hold on to
00:45:11.620 In the dark of night
00:45:13.100 Okay
00:45:13.940 In the cold of night
00:45:14.820 I love when you talk about people coming for me
00:45:17.300 It's completely
00:45:19.040 inappropriate look at this product
00:45:21.280 Chanel
00:45:22.660 look at this
00:45:23.840 bronzing cream 0.99
00:45:26.080 holy shit 0.99
00:45:28.660 paid out of pocket 0.99
00:45:29.680 there is as we talk about
00:45:33.160 how erotic it is to overpay
00:45:35.100 and there is something about
00:45:37.160 that like if you want
00:45:39.120 to talk about a brand that has just
00:45:41.440 Chanel you see
00:45:43.080 that and you go
00:45:43.800 uh oh I'm horny now
00:45:46.440 it does something
00:45:47.760 something about that brand on black lacquer
00:45:50.760 when I was 15
00:45:52.440 this girl I knew 1.00
00:45:53.640 who was rich 0.92
00:45:55.140 imagine this 15 she had a Chanel 0.99
00:45:58.420 face wash 0.98
00:45:59.300 and I was like are you fucking kidding me 0.99
00:46:02.420 I would go over to her house to sleep over 1.00
00:46:03.560 beg to use it or she would just be like 0.99
00:46:05.760 and I would be like
00:46:08.120 with ceremony
00:46:10.040 using this
00:46:11.420 the way other people's things
00:46:14.020 you cannot give a 15 year old Chanel 0.85
00:46:15.700 cleanser guys 1.00
00:46:17.580 you're fucking with them 0.99
00:46:19.640 they are now never 1.00
00:46:21.700 normal again 1.00
00:46:22.920 if you are 15 with Chanel cleanser you're fucked 1.00
00:46:25.640 it's over 1.00
00:46:26.980 I mean I'm trying to tell a story
00:46:29.860 like these rich people
00:46:31.580 this is Los Angeles because that's where you grew up
00:46:33.700 so I'm imagining it came in a gift
00:46:35.920 bag that like
00:46:37.540 the absent mother didn't want
00:46:39.080 okay that's interesting 1.00
00:46:40.060 but what mother doesn't want the Chanel cleanser 1.00
00:46:44.380 well
00:46:46.180 I wouldn't trust Chanel instantly as a cleanser
00:46:49.280 I would assume that it's going to be 0.63
00:46:50.780 Perfumed
00:46:51.320 Oh it was too
00:46:53.000 God it smells good
00:46:54.440 Suddenly I used a product
00:46:57.180 Fancy product the other day
00:46:58.600 I go God this smells good
00:47:00.180 And that's not a good sign
00:47:01.560 It's fully fragrance in it 0.99
00:47:03.280 It's like a fucking expensive 0.99
00:47:04.380 Again it was a gift 0.99
00:47:05.500 I'm not going to say it because I'm disparaging them
00:47:06.980 I'm not joking $175 serum thing
00:47:09.880 And I go well I'm still going to use it 1.00
00:47:12.340 But fuck 0.99
00:47:14.160 I've been 1.00
00:47:15.320 Jacqueline
00:47:15.740 I've been saving
00:47:16.520 I don't need a scent
00:47:18.500 what are you saving
00:47:19.580 I'm saving for a rainy day
00:47:21.560 and I think I just need
00:47:22.100 to start using it
00:47:22.680 the Dr. Diamond
00:47:23.720 sent us stuff
00:47:24.480 and Lima serum
00:47:25.820 and moisturizer
00:47:26.420 yes I'm saving for a rainy day
00:47:26.880 the time is now
00:47:27.880 but it's one
00:47:28.640 what do you think
00:47:29.140 I should start with
00:47:29.700 Lima
00:47:30.020 well I finished my Lima
00:47:31.840 and therefore
00:47:33.360 you know
00:47:34.620 now I'm slipping backwards
00:47:36.300 where is the one skin 1.00
00:47:37.440 I emailed them 1.00
00:47:38.340 now I'm mad
00:47:39.100 I want more of the
00:47:40.260 one skin serum 0.73
00:47:40.960 listen to me right here
00:47:42.140 I think they
00:47:42.380 praising one skin 0.98
00:47:43.360 they said it was coming 1.00
00:47:44.000 I'm reaching back in
00:47:45.360 because I'm addicted
00:47:46.000 you can't pay for this kind of advertising
00:47:48.180 remember you were like
00:47:49.300 I'm interested in the blah blah 0.97
00:47:50.280 and I was like 0.98
00:47:50.700 I'm interested in the whole line
00:47:52.060 and you had to write back
00:47:53.220 and be like
00:47:53.540 I'm also interested in the whole line
00:47:55.280 I mean I learned that from you
00:47:58.620 I've been making
00:48:00.540 I've been making kelp noodles
00:48:01.720 oh listen to you
00:48:03.180 and
00:48:03.700 because you know
00:48:05.580 not to be confused in a miracle
00:48:07.080 yeah
00:48:07.740 for 1999 0.98
00:48:08.840 god damn 0.96
00:48:09.880 is it really 1999 for a bag 0.98
00:48:11.340 okay you're joking
00:48:12.660 no
00:48:13.040 oh no no I'm saying I've had it
00:48:15.360 I've had the prepared ones at Erwan
00:48:17.320 you go okay this is interesting
00:48:19.540 oh yeah the garlic ones
00:48:20.780 and then you go okay actually
00:48:23.140 now I'm gonna make it home
00:48:25.640 and I got the tamari
00:48:27.500 and I got the minos
00:48:28.800 and I got the green onion
00:48:30.860 and sesame seeds
00:48:33.420 talk to me I need it now
00:48:35.020 delicious and what else did I put
00:48:37.540 in there little fish sauce
00:48:39.220 and
00:48:40.560 to soften them you know what you do
00:48:43.480 So you drop the kelp noodle thing into water, warm water,
00:48:47.440 lemon juice and baking soda.
00:48:48.900 You're kidding.
00:48:49.660 And it just softens.
00:48:50.780 Where'd you hear that?
00:48:51.500 The internet or does it say on the package?
00:48:53.580 No, the internet.
00:48:54.440 I mean, the package just says warm water
00:48:55.900 because they don't want to freak you out.
00:48:57.020 They don't want to be like,
00:48:58.420 you really actually need juice of half of a lemon.
00:49:01.760 And baking soda?
00:49:02.840 And I do think it kind of works anyway.
00:49:04.900 Yeah.
00:49:05.660 And then you rinse it, but the baking soda is not going to.
00:49:09.700 I'm not worried about the baking soda.
00:49:10.980 I'm doing that.
00:49:11.400 So I've been doing that.
00:49:12.880 Okay, it's been delicious.
00:49:14.280 Okay, and then tahini.
00:49:17.360 I'm trying to work with tahini.
00:49:18.860 By the way, I want to formally ask Soom to send more tahini. 0.99
00:49:22.220 I'm fucking addicted. 0.97
00:49:23.840 I'm going through the jars. 1.00
00:49:25.540 I'm out.
00:49:26.440 I've probably gone through five jars.
00:49:29.500 It's the premier.
00:49:31.200 I used to think artesana was my favorite tahini.
00:49:36.560 I go in there soon.
00:49:37.540 And if they're interested in, you know, having a taste test,
00:49:40.560 please
00:49:42.360 okay we need someone
00:49:43.180 to reach out to Zoom
00:49:43.940 and say you're getting
00:49:44.520 huge on air
00:49:45.360 yeah yeah
00:49:46.800 yeah
00:49:47.220 Jacqueline
00:49:48.440 don't you remember 1.00
00:49:48.900 the Zoom women 0.99
00:49:49.820 the co-founders 1.00
00:49:50.580 were at fucking 0.98
00:49:51.420 Poog Live in New York 0.99
00:49:52.320 oh 1.00
00:49:53.240 that was them
00:49:54.040 yeah
00:49:54.840 I woke up in the night
00:49:57.100 wait
00:49:57.620 I want to go back
00:49:58.380 to the noodles
00:49:58.880 because I'm really
00:49:59.520 not done with them
00:50:00.040 okay
00:50:00.260 but I woke up
00:50:00.860 in the night
00:50:01.200 going
00:50:01.620 Kaperland
00:50:03.540 thinks she doesn't
00:50:05.160 look good
00:50:05.460 with her hair up 1.00
00:50:06.180 oh my god
00:50:07.600 Jacqueline
00:50:08.600 okay
00:50:08.900 and I go
00:50:09.500 she
00:50:10.840 is so wrong
00:50:13.240 I actually could cry
00:50:15.340 I woke up remembering
00:50:17.060 your dinner party in New York
00:50:19.900 like 10 years ago
00:50:20.920 small dinner party
00:50:22.440 your birthday where I said you can't rot in this town forever
00:50:24.820 go to Los Angeles
00:50:26.860 where your hair was briefly up
00:50:28.720 and I was like it looks stunning
00:50:29.680 and it's like you have some
00:50:33.180 belief
00:50:33.720 like that
00:50:36.020 I don't know you need to frame your face with your hair
00:50:39.140 yeah that I'm a dog
00:50:40.120 it's
00:50:41.240 that the hair
00:50:42.380 raw face isn't enough
00:50:43.680 that you need to
00:50:44.640 yeah
00:50:45.120 and
00:50:45.760 I'm gonna do it up
00:50:46.700 I was like
00:50:47.080 you're
00:50:48.260 I love you
00:50:49.160 I swear I thought this in the night
00:50:51.040 like I was like
00:50:51.540 oh my god
00:50:52.200 I think she still thinks that
00:50:53.260 because
00:50:55.480 you're right
00:50:56.540 I'm like
00:50:57.540 you get hair done
00:50:58.860 different styles
00:50:59.560 whatever all the time
00:51:00.440 no I don't
00:51:00.820 different styles
00:51:01.620 it's just down
00:51:02.360 never having a different style
00:51:04.140 I mean you have
00:51:05.060 glam opportunities
00:51:06.220 oh I know
00:51:06.880 I know
00:51:07.940 let's do it up
00:51:08.880 Okay, why isn't it a severe, you know, anything, okay?
00:51:13.800 And I remember when you put your hair up
00:51:15.400 and I took gorgeous photos of you
00:51:16.840 because it's not that your hair has to be up, you know,
00:51:20.160 and I think it's superior, any of that stuff.
00:51:22.440 It's an option.
00:51:23.180 But the fun of sometimes putting your hair up.
00:51:24.520 Sounds so fun.
00:51:25.380 Are you kidding?
00:51:25.920 You reveal different, but you reveal the back of the jaw,
00:51:28.260 like where the jaw meets the ear.
00:51:29.200 I would love to do that.
00:51:30.040 Like in the babysitter's club 0.96
00:51:30.980 when Marianne cut her hair short
00:51:32.240 and it revealed her jawline, okay?
00:51:34.460 Like, I remember that in a book.
00:51:35.720 It was like a big deal.
00:51:37.280 I really-
00:51:37.740 Anyway, the point is, I woke up going, oh my God, she really, she has this belief and I'm going to cure her of it.
00:51:44.420 Thank you.
00:51:45.620 No, you're right.
00:51:46.500 You're really right.
00:51:47.100 Give me more.
00:51:47.680 I was like.
00:51:48.280 It'd be so formal.
00:51:49.280 It'd be so cool to put my hair up.
00:51:50.360 I was like, she doesn't know.
00:51:52.100 I was like, I think she doesn't know how beautiful she is.
00:51:55.120 Oh my God.
00:51:57.680 I don't.
00:51:58.800 I really like.
00:51:59.700 You don't.
00:52:00.340 I really was like, like you think that if you slicked it back, like, I don't know.
00:52:07.080 Yeah.
00:52:07.220 I'd be revealed to be heinous
00:52:09.480 God, no it's true, thank you
00:52:11.500 It's really sweet, I'm going to put it up
00:52:13.260 Every year I go, this year I'm going to do it, I'm going to get brave
00:52:15.460 It's incredible
00:52:16.140 It's a personal challenge
00:52:18.040 I'm going to do
00:52:19.460 It's literally stunning
00:52:22.220 You should let me do it
00:52:25.660 We should video it
00:52:26.380 It'll be like you in front of the mirror crying
00:52:28.100 I'll lift it up and be like
00:52:30.120 Look, do you see her?
00:52:31.640 That would be fun
00:52:32.300 You can spin me around in the chair
00:52:36.080 yeah spin around I've never liked to spin around I had a deep by the way I had a deep
00:52:41.780 I know spin around is scary I had a deep um I uncovered a memory deep um with my partner the
00:52:47.660 other day and actually it's funny because I went I never told anyone and then I told them and I'm
00:52:51.740 telling the whole world I had a memory I had a memory of a of a man of a older man yeah telling
00:52:59.840 me i was an ugly duckling oh when i was like 12 and it did permanent damage uh of course it did
00:53:07.800 here's what it was i remember i remember the exact dress i was wearing i was wearing it's
00:53:10.480 like purple floral dress something and this older man in my life so you're older man my life was
00:53:15.040 like look at you you look beautiful like you look great or something like you're always ugly duckling
00:53:19.960 and i literally was like oh i didn't know i've been ugly the whole time sure i haven't been 0.90
00:53:24.480 thrilled but i'm a certified psychopath can you believe that and then my whole life an artist yes
00:53:30.980 well i know that i know that i know that your your family there's artists so i'm like picturing
00:53:38.420 some and by the way here's what i remember i was a child i remember seeing in his eyes he saw oh
00:53:46.040 no i shouldn't have said that because i was a kid i think he saw i couldn't hide that it was
00:53:50.380 affecting me yeah and i saw him kind of try to double back and be like no no not and it was too 0.98
00:53:56.080 late motherfucker you've just altered the course of my life permanently bitch no it's i'm i'm silent 0.99
00:54:04.460 with just like i it's a key to my psychology like like my silence is how do i go back in time 1.00
00:54:15.960 like
00:54:16.720 my heart
00:54:19.460 and it is fine
00:54:20.940 because
00:54:21.760 it's like
00:54:23.840 I'm 0.98
00:54:26.340 I'm fucking silenced 0.99
00:54:31.780 I'm silenced 0.99
00:54:33.660 and stunned and going how do I
00:54:35.380 lift you 1.00
00:54:37.940 out I'm picturing your fucking face 1.00
00:54:39.560 because like so sad 1.00
00:54:41.640 I mean the other thing that's annoying about ugly duckling
00:54:43.920 is that everyone I'm like
00:54:45.720 they're like 0.99
00:54:46.460 an ugly duckling 0.99
00:54:47.140 that became a beautiful swan
00:54:48.680 yeah exactly
00:54:49.340 and as I've brought this up
00:54:50.500 I'm like Pugo 3 0.98
00:54:51.660 no
00:54:52.720 I believe the original story
00:54:54.280 is actually
00:54:54.680 you have a baby swan
00:54:55.940 who's raised among ducks
00:54:58.160 and therefore believes
00:54:59.520 it's ugly
00:55:00.000 because it doesn't look like
00:55:01.060 it's siblings
00:55:01.840 uh huh
00:55:02.720 oh
00:55:04.500 and then
00:55:05.020 oh actually it's a swan
00:55:06.840 that's like
00:55:07.860 I believe
00:55:08.640 the real story
00:55:09.500 oh funny
00:55:10.160 okay yeah
00:55:10.580 I lost that entirely
00:55:11.560 in the folklore history
00:55:13.440 yeah
00:55:13.900 and what it
00:55:15.140 it's actually holds great meaning because like people have made it you were ugly and now you're
00:55:20.460 pretty right right when the exact story is that no the standards you were always you were being
00:55:25.180 judged on the wrong standards wow oh i love you maybe i'll put my so kelp noodles okay so so i
00:55:35.060 try a prepared good the most expensive item of airwarn prepared food what was it what was it
00:55:39.440 and then i learned it if i like it and i'm going so next up i'm moving on to the cauliflower
00:55:44.000 cauliflower that is like the fried cauliflower turmeric yeah no oh it's like it's like bright
00:55:50.240 yellow with turmeric and like ginger and whatever and i'm like i'm gonna make that part of my life
00:55:57.420 great i'm gonna start making it home i'm i completely agree and i'm gonna go i want to do
00:56:03.820 the kelp noodles now i've been doing the miracle noodles but i'm gonna move on to kelp give it a
00:56:06.560 try is it a big bag that's kind of like green because like a color yeah that's the one comes
00:56:11.540 Comes on the shelf.
00:56:12.280 Yep, comes on the shelf.
00:56:13.460 Okay, I'm going to do it.
00:56:14.140 Yeah, it's getting a little bit of water.
00:56:15.080 I'm going to do it.
00:56:15.980 Yeah.
00:56:16.980 Yeah, it's delicious.
00:56:18.200 Oh my God.
00:56:18.740 By the way, this time next week,
00:56:20.080 I'll be able to say,
00:56:21.000 this is me truly,
00:56:23.140 no, this time next week,
00:56:23.960 I'll be able to say,
00:56:24.680 see you tomorrow.
00:56:27.580 But it is fun.
00:56:28.360 The passage of time, unbelievable.
00:56:31.220 Okay.
00:56:32.160 Okay.
00:56:32.580 I'll see you next week.
00:56:33.180 I love you.
00:56:33.760 All right, love you.
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