Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - June 27, 2023


Where's the Thinker？

Topics
going to Rome back of the plane perceptions FedEx being closed on Sunday
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Length

55 minutes

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173.87

Word count

9,706

Sentence count

842

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29

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Toxicity

116

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00:02:39.380 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.
00:02:40.880 I'm Jacqueline Novak.
00:02:42.000 And this is Poog, an ongoing conversation about wellness
00:02:45.040 between two obsessive friends.
00:02:46.680 Two untamable intellects.
00:02:48.560 This is our hobby. 0.97
00:02:49.360 This is our hell.
00:02:50.220 This is our naked desire for free products.
00:02:52.520 This is Boog.
00:02:53.900 Today's topic, loosely speaking,
00:02:55.720 just every, inconsolable, poetry in motion.
00:03:03.260 Ding dong, darling, ding dong.
00:03:07.720 So I have no trouble saying,
00:03:09.480 I have no trouble coming to the eavesdroppers
00:03:12.480 with full vulnerability and say,
00:03:14.700 I was hysterically sobbing on FaceTime video with you, Jacqueline, an hour ago?
00:03:20.420 Mere minutes ago.
00:03:21.760 And look at me now. Be honest. How'd you feel about that?
00:03:26.340 With the sobbing?
00:03:27.660 Yeah.
00:03:28.220 I loved it.
00:03:31.420 I'm in the middle of waiting. The phone might ring in here. I'm still at the Bowery and I
00:03:35.600 talked to the manager. I said, I had a personal meltdown this morning. Can I please have an
00:03:39.860 extra hour in my room?
00:03:41.480 You're hysterical.
00:03:43.240 You know, well, it's funny because like I was trying to say, like, you could all say I'm recording my podcast right now in which I'm promoting the hotel.
00:03:51.860 I know.
00:03:52.580 I know.
00:03:52.940 That's another.
00:03:53.320 That's another.
00:03:54.120 We're going a little over because I just can't get over how good the bedsheets are and telling them.
00:03:58.540 It's really interesting.
00:04:00.700 We continue to be humbled in this life by emotions in a way.
00:04:05.760 But it's nice to know that even an hour ago, I was inconsolable.
00:04:10.800 and now you're alive i could imagine getting lunch right i have this memory i used to doubt
00:04:18.720 or worry that because if there was a moment where depression i wouldn't even say lifted okay but
00:04:25.740 sort of shifted that like if there was a moment in the day where i didn't think i was like you
00:04:30.620 know i was almost like do i need to call the doctor and be like i'm a fraud you know what i
00:04:34.800 mean like yeah like i'm not depressed and i feel like it was always almost like you know like because
00:04:38.900 And then the television show comes back from commercial.
00:04:43.200 I'm like, whip my head and I'm watching.
00:04:47.160 It's like the baby, you know, the baby mind, the attention.
00:04:53.620 Yeah.
00:04:55.140 Which is something where I've utilized the ADD to slip out of.
00:05:01.760 I've given myself the
00:05:03.860 permission
00:05:04.800 to not stay
00:05:08.140 on task with the suffering should it
00:05:10.320 alleviate lift
00:05:11.860 it's like
00:05:13.700 no roll with it don't worry she'll be back
00:05:16.260 you know what I mean
00:05:17.000 totally totally yeah
00:05:18.860 dear God
00:05:20.860 I loved it obviously
00:05:22.580 I love to be there for you
00:05:24.920 it really helps to call a friend I gotta say
00:05:26.900 cause I was sitting here and I was like
00:05:28.580 I'm not gonna put this on anyone
00:05:30.520 you know
00:05:31.020 and then I thought I need help
00:05:33.540 I thought I actually need help
00:05:36.940 I don't find that remotely
00:05:39.040 no I know you could take it
00:05:41.660 it's interesting to know
00:05:43.400 what one can take or not
00:05:45.120 it's just such a thrill there's a cat out there
00:05:47.480 who I know you know a neighbor cat
00:05:49.460 who's just relaxing the grass
00:05:51.580 and to see a cat in repose
00:05:53.740 just to let one's eyes
00:05:55.660 fall upon it
00:05:56.400 you know Freud I think said
00:05:58.480 I can never remember 1.00
00:05:59.480 I feel like it's true
00:06:01.100 he was obsessed with cats
00:06:02.120 time spent
00:06:03.060 with a cat
00:06:04.020 is never wasted
00:06:04.840 there it is
00:06:05.900 actually helped me
00:06:06.920 during the depression years
00:06:07.640 I was like
00:06:08.000 well this is just
00:06:09.300 years spent
00:06:10.220 in the presence of cats
00:06:11.700 so
00:06:12.000 yeah
00:06:12.480 wait take me back
00:06:13.400 well first of all
00:06:14.320 about your suffering
00:06:14.740 yeah but suffering
00:06:16.400 go on
00:06:16.880 my armpits are burning 0.98
00:06:18.020 because I
00:06:18.420 I found a deodorant
00:06:20.880 that really works
00:06:21.680 but it gives me a rash
00:06:22.940 but I don't care
00:06:23.580 so
00:06:25.320 it's
00:06:25.960 it was advertised to me
00:06:27.920 on
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00:06:29.080 ow it's called c-u-r-i-e it's like a spray it's like kind of natural i think or it's like
00:06:36.360 not fully like natural but you know it's like pretty good so i bought it it arrived i sprayed
00:06:44.460 in the morning boom went on a you know i was traveling all day airplane whatever end of the
00:06:48.680 day get home fresh as a rose as they say i guess it's a daisy yeah and i've been using it it's been
00:06:55.760 hot here in new york i'm running around all day i'm great you know but it does produce a red
00:07:01.040 kind of not in the center of the pit but like they can't have it all around yeah and i'm kind
00:07:07.920 of like all right and it goes away okay it's like red for maybe 20 minutes and then it's gone
00:07:12.180 right now i'm having some burning though the fact that you're having some burning my top's off can 0.96
00:07:18.140 this leak good sure good you were pixelated as hell they're just tits ever heard of them i'm not 1.00
00:07:25.620 gaping. 1.00
00:07:30.900 But wait,
00:07:32.140 so the red rash,
00:07:33.060 do you have the product with you?
00:07:34.740 Yeah.
00:07:35.400 I want to know the ingredients.
00:07:36.620 By the way,
00:07:37.080 last night in Whole Foods,
00:07:38.680 I scoffed.
00:07:39.680 I scoffed.
00:07:40.600 I picked up,
00:07:41.360 you know,
00:07:42.340 an energy drink of some kind
00:07:43.700 and,
00:07:44.820 you know,
00:07:45.500 what does it say?
00:07:45.940 No scary ingredients.
00:07:47.840 Okay,
00:07:47.960 this whole thing,
00:07:48.860 this whole marketing ploy
00:07:49.800 that we've,
00:07:50.440 nothing,
00:07:51.200 nothing.
00:07:52.340 I mean,
00:07:52.660 these are the wellness cliches
00:07:54.000 of the last 10 years.
00:07:54.840 Nothing grandma.
00:07:55.620 wouldn't have put in her apple pie.
00:07:57.540 I wish.
00:07:57.840 That's almost like a 90s.
00:07:59.240 There's a big one.
00:08:00.100 If you can't pronounce it,
00:08:01.540 why would you?
00:08:02.060 Right, right, right.
00:08:03.180 And it's like,
00:08:04.200 well,
00:08:04.740 I also can't pronounce
00:08:05.980 like one of the main amino acids
00:08:07.960 that runs through my body. 1.00
00:08:08.960 So fuck you. 1.00
00:08:10.260 Yeah. 1.00
00:08:10.720 I can't pronounce
00:08:11.980 most of the cities in Rome.
00:08:13.700 Yeah.
00:08:14.500 You know what I'm trying to say?
00:08:15.940 Most of the neighborhoods.
00:08:17.100 And I'm still going tonight.
00:08:18.480 Trastevere.
00:08:19.300 Trastevere.
00:08:20.020 Can you believe that tonight?
00:08:21.660 Going to Rome.
00:08:22.300 Where are you staying?
00:08:23.380 Where are you staying?
00:08:24.100 I said like I know.
00:08:24.960 Trastevere.
00:08:25.620 I've spent a week there.
00:08:26.720 Literally.
00:08:26.980 Are you in?
00:08:27.480 Literally.
00:08:27.920 Trustevere.
00:08:28.520 Trustevere.
00:08:29.740 Okay, great.
00:08:30.420 Yeah.
00:08:30.840 Well, I locked it down for you now.
00:08:32.720 At least I had to ask Matteo Lane, who was my guide for Rome.
00:08:38.760 Oh, wow.
00:08:39.180 Should I go to Rome or Paris?
00:08:40.580 Comedian Matteo Lane, a doll friend.
00:08:41.860 And he said Rome.
00:08:43.700 Cool.
00:08:44.340 I almost think I should play it.
00:08:46.220 What?
00:08:46.780 It's marvelous.
00:08:47.960 It'll really get you pumped.
00:08:49.660 Him explaining.
00:08:50.840 Sure.
00:08:51.340 Okay.
00:08:52.320 Oh, my God.
00:08:52.720 So it was just, you know, I mean, talk about certainty.
00:08:54.420 talk about mushrooms the whole time.
00:08:55.960 I'm in Scotland going,
00:08:58.580 I'm going to go somewhere.
00:08:59.400 We're going to go somewhere.
00:09:00.320 We're in international waters here.
00:09:02.760 Let's go somewhere.
00:09:04.180 And it was like,
00:09:04.980 do we go to,
00:09:05.340 I've never been to Paris.
00:09:06.140 I've never been to Rome.
00:09:06.880 I know little Jacqueline Novak
00:09:08.240 had only been to Russia.
00:09:09.640 Yeah.
00:09:10.600 It's so funny.
00:09:11.840 Okay, I'm scrolling through
00:09:12.900 and I'm going just all of a sudden,
00:09:14.980 you know, 0.99
00:09:15.180 I haven't texted him in a fucking year, 0.99
00:09:17.240 whatever. 0.99
00:09:17.520 And then just,
00:09:18.320 I just,
00:09:18.620 you know how I like to do it.
00:09:19.580 I don't like saying hello.
00:09:20.740 Who needs it?
00:09:21.180 Yeah.
00:09:21.680 How you been?
00:09:22.820 Yeah.
00:09:23.000 If Chris and I were to pop off to Italy, parenthesis, never been, say Rome, open to where I write and enjoy good food.
00:09:31.060 Literally, is there a neighborhood slash area also open to other cities?
00:09:35.040 Truly just typing Rome into Airbnb, also considering Paris.
00:09:39.480 Okay.
00:09:40.480 Yeah.
00:09:41.140 Save this message.
00:09:42.340 Click keep.
00:09:43.320 And then I'll send you after I just woke up so I can't type.
00:09:47.620 You're going to go to Rome.
00:09:49.260 You're going to stay in the neighborhood Campo di Fiori.
00:09:53.000 uh a great hotel is called g roof which sounds like a gay bar i've heard about that place
00:09:59.220 um you want to stay sort of near piazza di navona and i think you should go to rome
00:10:07.160 it's just i mean it's the most incredible city there's no you have to go to rome and i'll give
00:10:14.440 you a list of places to go for gelato for pasta um i can hook you up with other italian comedians
00:10:20.960 who speak English
00:10:21.780 if you want to get dinner
00:10:22.580 with them
00:10:23.200 you need to go to Rome
00:10:24.360 and then
00:10:25.500 the links
00:10:26.420 are you starving
00:10:27.520 for them
00:10:27.840 okay will you send them to me
00:10:28.460 yeah
00:10:28.880 so then it's a series of links
00:10:30.840 I think it's good
00:10:32.360 you panicked when he said
00:10:33.500 places in Rome
00:10:34.100 are just tickety tack 1.00
00:10:35.960 the Romans 1.00
00:10:36.960 the Italians have created
00:10:38.280 some of the best
00:10:39.020 art in the world
00:10:40.420 when it comes down
00:10:41.240 to hotel design
00:10:42.160 they'll just put a chair 0.92
00:10:43.160 in the middle of the room 0.94
00:10:43.860 be like
00:10:44.160 look elegante
00:10:45.420 great
00:10:47.280 Jacqueline
00:10:48.300 can you believe me
00:10:49.080 I was able to
00:10:50.220 I couldn't even enjoy the comedy this morning
00:10:52.160 because I was so swept up.
00:10:54.220 Sometimes you have to wait till later.
00:10:55.440 Well, no, because I was,
00:10:56.200 here I am waking up,
00:10:57.340 imagine this,
00:10:58.240 waking up in the,
00:10:59.020 in the Bowery Hotel.
00:11:01.100 Yeah.
00:11:01.420 You know, slept through the night, right?
00:11:03.380 Waking up,
00:11:04.600 going to Rome that night.
00:11:06.200 So you are going tonight.
00:11:07.200 This is clear.
00:11:07.800 This is happening tonight.
00:11:08.540 It's tonight.
00:11:08.860 Oh my God.
00:11:09.220 Oh my God.
00:11:09.580 Oh my God.
00:11:09.700 We've got Rome going tonight
00:11:10.740 and I'm hysterically sobbing,
00:11:13.920 hyperventilating.
00:11:17.380 You know?
00:11:18.640 And arguably just about nothing.
00:11:22.000 I mean, you know what I'm saying, right?
00:11:23.160 No, I should say. 0.96
00:11:24.040 Nothing fucked up happened. 0.87
00:11:26.240 Everything's okay. 0.95
00:11:26.780 No, I mean, it's just life is hard and endlessly painful and round and round.
00:11:30.780 Emotion.
00:11:31.560 Yeah.
00:11:32.120 Emotion.
00:11:32.440 The essential indignity of, you know, there it is.
00:11:36.460 I've said it.
00:11:37.100 Emotion.
00:11:37.620 The essential indignity of being a human.
00:11:39.660 Yeah.
00:11:40.260 It's unacceptable.
00:11:41.000 I hate it.
00:11:41.600 Having emotions, having relationships is, should be illegal. 1.00
00:11:48.060 So I just got a text from my dear friend, Liz Pong, and I'm going, should I try Bader?
00:11:53.700 Oh my God.
00:11:54.820 Yeah.
00:11:55.100 What do you say to that?
00:11:56.300 I know.
00:11:56.940 I knew you'd be interested.
00:11:58.200 So she just goes, do you use slash love Augustinus Bader?
00:12:02.840 I'm contemplating trying it.
00:12:04.700 And I wrote, people love it.
00:12:06.020 My mother included.
00:12:07.560 I always think when actives are buried in a cream, it's sort of a waste.
00:12:11.140 God, you're good.
00:12:11.760 So I almost suggest using the serum and then applying any thick cream on top to hold it in. 0.99
00:12:19.380 Damn. 0.97
00:12:20.060 The question is, what are your goals? 0.99
00:12:23.500 Okay, this is what I start to say when people bring up like ask like a skincare question because it's like, and then I realize like.
00:12:29.960 Genius.
00:12:30.200 Oh, yeah. This is why that is the language of transactional beauty commerce because it's not like, all right, let me see your face and I'll figure out what's fucked and what we need to fix. You know what I mean? It's like, what are your goals? 1.00
00:12:44.460 She wrote, I don't know. Look younger. Try harder.
00:12:49.760 And I can give you a regimen for the overall. And then she's like, I have a good rich cream that I like. So maybe I'll try the beta serum. And then I said.
00:12:57.480 Hi, I'm about to record Pug, but I was just going to say, let's get you, if you're not using any serums right now, I wouldn't start with Bader because like, then you're going to have the results of using a serum and you're going to be like, I need this for life.
00:13:14.440 And it's like $300.
00:13:16.000 So it's like, I feel like we should get you on more affordable serum first that like could have huge benefits and see how that does you.
00:13:23.840 mm-hmm so it was really sweet actually because i got to see my friend my dear friend liz pong
00:13:29.780 meet you after the special i know that was really cool to me and she you know it was just
00:13:35.060 it was god that was a good feeling i mean that is the wedding feeling right yeah yeah like no
00:13:39.180 that is the wedding people gathered it's really nice and then i have these moments sometimes in
00:13:43.400 those scenarios where it feels like the afterlife like yeah like this sort of the people i don't
00:13:50.260 know it's so weird interesting god that poem on the subway i know i reference it like once every
00:13:55.180 62 episodes but like which one the chicken one no i know you love the roast chicken and red wine
00:14:00.600 one i'm sorry i love to believe that you and me are the only ones you and me are the only one like
00:14:06.120 it's not true we're obviously not the only ones but i enjoy thinking um i'm just looking it up
00:14:10.460 heaven poem um poetry in motion right that's what they called it like you and me deeply taken
00:14:18.740 with the poetry in motion yeah oh here it is are you ready yeah i mean to be in the subway
00:14:24.540 i mean because here's what i'll say it's like you're down there and you're reading i mean i 0.84
00:14:29.600 mean i'm reading every ad are you not reading every fucking ad by the way i had a kind of 0.86
00:14:34.200 weird existential crisis or i don't know if it's existential but i was standing in a crowded subway 0.97
00:14:39.620 train um car looking at a advertisement and the eye contact with the people in the advertisement
00:14:46.820 oh moved with you really threw me okay they were looking at me they were at this level
00:14:51.400 where somehow i was like they're really seeing me yeah it was it was an image again it was just a
00:14:57.760 photo and but they were looking at me in this way that almost caused me to like turn my head like
00:15:04.320 stop like it was so invasive and i felt that they were really seeing me and then i moved down i
00:15:10.520 moved down right out of their gaze and guess what still they're still looking at me and then that
00:15:15.540 is what really confused me.
00:15:17.140 And I went to the moon.
00:15:17.620 So they're looking at me here
00:15:18.660 and when I'm over there?
00:15:20.160 How?
00:15:21.100 Okay, I'll tell you.
00:15:22.100 How?
00:15:22.340 I think.
00:15:23.060 This is my understanding.
00:15:24.240 And it certainly doesn't happen all the time.
00:15:26.180 But there is something about,
00:15:27.540 I think,
00:15:28.080 if they are somehow managed
00:15:29.820 to dead center
00:15:30.820 into that lens,
00:15:33.160 the true center.
00:15:34.240 Okay.
00:15:34.900 If you think about those cones,
00:15:36.760 those triangles
00:15:37.480 of the way light
00:15:38.800 goes into a triangle
00:15:40.060 and then reflects,
00:15:41.280 it's like,
00:15:42.440 then wherever you are
00:15:44.860 if you're looking at the image
00:15:47.240 I don't know it's like it's not
00:15:49.340 I don't know but
00:15:52.620 here's what I will say
00:15:54.160 eye contact okay I know I've brought it up before 0.99
00:15:57.160 what the fuck 0.98
00:15:59.240 is happening there 0.99
00:16:00.580 do you not experience eye contact okay for one
00:16:03.460 as like
00:16:05.060 first of all you know the second you've got it
00:16:07.100 that's weird
00:16:07.880 think about that the second you've
00:16:11.180 landed on eye contact it's like you're
00:16:13.120 locking into a force field like your eyes have landed on the track you can feel them settle into 0.58
00:16:17.780 the track of the eye contact you fucking know right yeah and it it feels like something's 0.51
00:16:22.440 actually happening but all that's happening is one set of eyeballs is perceiving another set 0.67
00:16:28.100 of eyeballs yeah okay what and then sending signals back to both brains that's weird like
00:16:34.200 if you looked into a telescope or not a telescope just a binoculars right there's a lens there's a
00:16:40.420 glass lens yeah okay this is huge are you ready this is what i'm trying to say you're looking at
00:16:45.380 and you think there's me then there's this tube a piece of glass that's magnifying and then there's
00:16:51.960 the thing right nothing's between you there's a clear window between you is my point yeah okay
00:16:57.320 the eyeball is not a clear window to the brain right you are not behind a glass window 0.98
00:17:04.060 seeing things oh god it's closed bitch it's closed yeah it just happens to be a computer 0.99
00:17:11.020 that happens to be sitting on the front of your face so yeah yeah it's not open it's not open 0.96
00:17:16.920 space right right right and you think like your irises are like are like a cloudy stained glass
00:17:23.160 that you're seeing through or something yeah no i mean and then and then all senses being
00:17:28.100 processed through your brain is where where you just go so i'm i'm seeing nothing i'm feeling
00:17:32.100 nothing i am absolutely and then you go well consciousness is primary well jesus yeah 0.97
00:17:39.280 all right sorry but eyes are yeah it's not a window fuck i think that's huge yeah and window 0.90
00:17:47.440 to the soul while a metaphorical sort of literary concept i think people are walking around i don't 0.92
00:17:53.380 know maybe i'm not maybe they're not don't you think of your eyes as as me doesn't it feel like
00:17:58.000 their clear thing though that you're like don't don't they feel like a window there's you inside
00:18:02.960 and there's you out and those are two windows oh god it's okay if it doesn't it's almost making
00:18:06.900 me anxious it's freaking me out believe it no it's fine but just the idea that where am i we
00:18:11.940 talk about this where am i in the body where are we in the body of course because guess what try
00:18:16.540 to find yourself in the thoughts let's just say in the synapses who is experiencing the synapses
00:18:20.800 lord help me i better not be in the thoughts yeah like you could point to a thought sparking in the
00:18:26.460 brain where's the thinker oh no like if you looked at a machine with a bunch of synapses
00:18:34.440 I know computer and then you look at a brain with a bunch of synapses yeah but who makes
00:18:37.340 that happen one of them one of them is being experienced like the human brain there's 0.97
00:18:43.800 someone experiencing those computers there's no thinker so it's like damn you know the 0.93
00:18:51.160 the horror of like 0.95
00:18:52.500 or the wonder
00:18:54.260 of
00:18:55.280 sorry
00:18:57.220 I just became self-conscious
00:18:58.220 because
00:18:58.620 my cousin like
00:18:59.860 they'll say this thing
00:19:00.640 like they're like
00:19:01.320 you know it's real
00:19:02.040 it's so rude
00:19:03.000 they're like
00:19:03.300 they apologize for like
00:19:05.640 these kinds of thoughts
00:19:06.540 and they'll be like
00:19:07.180 sorry this is really like
00:19:08.000 NYU freshman like
00:19:09.080 like late night at a party
00:19:11.240 being like
00:19:11.800 are you seeing the same thing
00:19:13.160 I'm seeing
00:19:13.580 but these are the questions
00:19:15.440 these are the questions
00:19:16.280 I know
00:19:16.680 I know
00:19:17.220 these are the questions
00:19:18.120 it's true
00:19:18.720 So all to say, what serum am I going to recommend to Liz? 0.89
00:19:24.860 I think it's a fermented serum in the realm of the classic Lauder, but duped Time Revolution Misha Essence. 0.88
00:19:32.480 I think that's where it begins. 0.92
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00:23:19.840 So I have like a day here in New York.
00:23:22.200 I'm going to be running some errands. 0.99
00:23:23.900 So you're essentially taking a, what, a fucking red eye? 0.99
00:23:26.740 What are you taking? 0.99
00:23:27.340 Kind of close to it, which I'm usually anti.
00:23:29.280 So I'm going to put on my Ilia Skin Serum to walk around all day, SPF, whatever.
00:23:35.300 Getting on the plane, you don't want to do an eight-hour flight.
00:23:38.900 In pigment?
00:23:39.480 You know what's coming, right?
00:23:40.420 So when I get to the airport, do I Neutrogena, makeup wife, off the makeup,
00:23:46.580 and then put on, yeah, that is what I do.
00:23:49.540 And then I put on a moisturizer for the plane.
00:23:51.840 The way you just affirmed the Neutrogena wipe casually is going to be huge for people as they pass through CVS.
00:23:58.080 Oh, well, guess what?
00:23:59.560 The Blue Original Neutrogena Makeup Remover Wipe is the one.
00:24:05.520 And I've tried others and that's the one I returned to.
00:24:08.100 Okay, sorry.
00:24:08.580 I got excited about that.
00:24:09.500 So here's what I see it as. 0.96
00:24:11.320 I see it as, I mean, unless you're a real sicko, a real Charlotte Tilbury, okay? 1.00
00:24:17.500 Why the fuck do you need pigment? 1.00
00:24:19.440 Do you need coverage, et cetera? 0.99
00:24:21.080 on a flight, okay?
00:24:22.740 Oh, exactly.
00:24:23.220 I never wore makeup on a flight.
00:24:24.780 So it's about cocooning the skin.
00:24:28.900 Like to me, it is...
00:24:30.260 Yeah, it's an intense...
00:24:32.460 It is clean the skin.
00:24:33.820 So the answer is that's what I do.
00:24:35.000 And then layer on hydration.
00:24:36.460 Okay.
00:24:37.000 And then...
00:24:37.860 Washing my face in the sink.
00:24:40.840 Oh.
00:24:41.100 No, no.
00:24:41.740 I'm not suggesting that.
00:24:42.660 I figured it out.
00:24:43.180 I'm going to wash my face here.
00:24:44.460 I'll tell you exactly what you're going to do.
00:24:46.020 Okay, tell me how.
00:24:47.020 I think you should wash your face.
00:24:48.920 This is just my...
00:24:49.740 At the Bowery.
00:24:50.560 Yeah, wash your face is about right.
00:24:51.760 In a public sink, though.
00:24:53.380 Okay, I would almost, this is like my,
00:24:56.400 I don't even know how to explain why this is like,
00:24:58.740 to me, it's about washing the face and hydrating it now
00:25:02.940 with a mist, with an essence, with a watery serum.
00:25:06.580 So you get those going.
00:25:07.760 I would almost be misting your whole way to the airport, okay?
00:25:10.880 Drink, drink, drink.
00:25:11.480 But don't forget, I'm going tonight.
00:25:13.000 Oh, I see.
00:25:14.020 You're leaving the hotel now
00:25:15.060 and you're free floating in the New York City air.
00:25:17.320 Yeah.
00:25:17.700 Until night.
00:25:18.400 Yeah, I have to take off the day.
00:25:21.000 Well, if you want to go pro, you wash it in the airport. 1.00
00:25:23.980 You go in the bathroom and you wash it in the fucking airport. 0.99
00:25:26.260 No, I'm going to change out of my jeans here back at the hotel in the bathroom and I'll wash my face. 1.00
00:25:33.440 I'll go into my track pants, I'll wash my face and I'll board the flight.
00:25:37.600 It's going to be brutal.
00:25:38.860 John and I are flying together back of the plane.
00:25:42.160 Yeah.
00:25:42.880 There's no way around it.
00:25:44.020 It's not going to be pretty.
00:25:45.180 It'll be fine.
00:25:45.660 the back of the plane thing
00:25:47.380 like
00:25:48.420 first of all
00:25:49.460 it's a dream
00:25:49.820 when you're getting on
00:25:50.480 it's like
00:25:52.180 just sailing to the back
00:25:53.300 I don't know
00:25:53.660 it's kind of nice
00:25:54.100 why is it a dream
00:25:54.700 getting on
00:25:55.240 sailing to the back
00:25:56.160 okay
00:25:57.020 I'm trying to figure out why
00:25:58.240 I think it's because
00:25:59.920 if you're flying
00:26:01.640 with status
00:26:02.400 you're boarding
00:26:03.580 a little bit earlier
00:26:04.440 like if you're flying
00:26:05.780 like I am
00:26:06.440 when I fly delta
00:26:07.200 sky priority
00:26:08.620 okay
00:26:09.140 getting on a little early 1.00
00:26:10.840 a lot of those bastards 1.00
00:26:11.960 are not in the back 1.00
00:26:12.780 okay
00:26:13.340 so maybe that's why
00:26:14.440 it's like empty back there
00:26:15.300 Here's a crucial question
00:26:18.340 Here's a crucial question
00:26:19.600 I could be potentially in a situation
00:26:22.640 Where I would get an upgrade
00:26:23.600 But I will not be abandoning John
00:26:25.660 Well what time is this flight?
00:26:27.900 And that's friendship 10.30pm
00:26:30.440 Can you believe that?
00:26:31.900 So this is a sleeper potentially
00:26:33.340 How long is the flight? Like 7 hours?
00:26:36.380 It's 8 hours
00:26:37.400 So it's a sleeper
00:26:38.160 And you arrive the next morning
00:26:40.160 As everyone knows I don't do pills
00:26:41.980 but I was thinking about popping half a Klonopin.
00:26:45.920 I mean, you guys are going to try to sleep, no?
00:26:48.140 Because that would be the answer.
00:26:50.140 Then you'd wake up eight hours later in Rome.
00:26:52.600 Eight hours, 40 minutes.
00:26:54.320 You land at Rome, it's 1 p.m.
00:26:56.360 Exactly.
00:26:56.920 So I got news for you.
00:26:58.260 You get the thing, you're going.
00:26:59.880 You're going to be trying to sleep.
00:27:00.960 What do you mean you get the thing, you're going? 0.90
00:27:01.960 You head right the fuck up to first.
00:27:03.920 If I get an upgrade, it's not going to happen.
00:27:05.740 You mean you wouldn't do it?
00:27:06.820 And abandon John?
00:27:07.820 It's not about abandoning John.
00:27:09.400 It's about you.
00:27:10.620 You're both going to be sleeping.
00:27:11.980 Okay. But you being more pleasant company for the whole fucking trip as a result of a night's sleep. 0.99
00:27:18.580 I mean, have you discussed it with John? 0.98
00:27:20.720 No, but I already don't think I'm going to get the upgrade and I already don't think...
00:27:25.440 But we're talking about philosophically if you do.
00:27:27.500 Yeah, it's about philosophical.
00:27:28.740 I always want to answer the question.
00:27:30.280 Yeah, what do you do?
00:27:30.980 If it were a day flight, it'd be a different matter.
00:27:33.320 Very true.
00:27:33.760 If you're both truly planning on sleeping, which I think you are, I just think...
00:27:37.920 I guess it depends if you know whether you can...
00:27:40.180 If you're capable of sleeping on a flight. 0.98
00:27:41.380 Well, this is what's hard for me, and this is why I do think I should fucking pop a Klon, because I don't sleep well on planes at all. 0.89
00:27:53.000 So you could get an upgrade because you have a status? 1.00
00:27:57.780 Correct.
00:27:59.060 Although I'm trying to even...
00:28:00.420 I mean, ask John this.
00:28:01.600 Would you rather hang out with me tomorrow after I've gotten a night's sleep, John?
00:28:05.160 I know.
00:28:06.020 That's what you say.
00:28:07.400 I know. 0.99
00:28:07.820 I mean, then one of you is stronger, you know, up to the task in the morning, getting your ass out of Fumancino or whatever. 0.99
00:28:16.240 Yeah. 0.93
00:28:16.940 I think that's the airport.
00:28:18.260 I just had a moderate anxiety here, which is that I'm looking here.
00:28:22.200 It's asking me to check in.
00:28:23.860 I booked the flight with my old passport.
00:28:26.360 So now my new passport is a different number. 0.99
00:28:28.660 Am I fucked? 0.92
00:28:29.480 No, I think you just have to update it in your information. 0.99
00:28:32.740 Right.
00:28:33.340 Well, here's what's really interesting.
00:28:34.540 It won't let me.
00:28:36.200 You might have to do that with a gate.
00:28:37.820 Okay.
00:28:38.060 Or not a gate agent with a, you might have to do it there.
00:28:41.200 These people with their gate agents.
00:28:49.060 Oh, Jacqueline.
00:28:49.800 I would, you booked it with your old passport.
00:28:53.260 Was your passport expired at the time you booked it?
00:28:55.440 No.
00:28:55.760 No, but it was.
00:28:56.940 I think you're fine.
00:28:57.760 Yeah, I'm fine.
00:28:58.300 As long as you're holding an up-to-date passport in the hand.
00:29:01.780 I had to expedite this thing.
00:29:03.080 It wasn't cheap.
00:29:04.600 You know what I've been thinking about?
00:29:06.660 And Chris was sort of like, really?
00:29:09.000 You're going to go there? 0.78
00:29:09.980 But the food is so goddamn delicious in these lounges, okay? 0.94
00:29:13.500 Yeah. 0.90
00:29:14.580 Exceptional.
00:29:15.180 I had the same meal three.
00:29:17.300 There were stops.
00:29:18.400 What'd you eat?
00:29:19.200 So there was a day where I was in three lounges.
00:29:23.380 I think it was two, okay?
00:29:26.000 And it was the same menu.
00:29:29.680 Have I spoken about the smoked salmon creamy salad?
00:29:35.340 and then the olive tapenade that was plentiful.
00:29:38.960 If there was a small jar of olive tapenade,
00:29:40.680 it was like a massive, like for days, 0.99
00:29:44.640 like it was goddamn pickled onions, I believe. 0.98
00:29:47.440 I mean, it was insane. 0.99
00:29:48.840 And I was like, I'm about to go out there
00:29:51.720 and reckon with, you know,
00:29:53.680 the absolute hell of the snack box.
00:29:57.420 The, hey, want to pay $12 for a whole,
00:30:00.940 you know, the snack box.
00:30:01.720 I'm like, there's going to be no food in this thing.
00:30:03.340 There's a delicious meal here.
00:30:04.500 I was like, do I get travel food containers and load up my meal in the lounge and then I can bring it on the plane?
00:30:16.720 I mean, a gorgeous salad.
00:30:18.580 I've made gorgeous salads, proteins of all kinds.
00:30:22.560 Yeah.
00:30:23.100 You know what I mean?
00:30:23.820 Great.
00:30:24.880 But what I've noticed, they don't even have a travel cup lid in there for the coffee.
00:30:31.020 So they are discouraging.
00:30:33.200 Take away. 1.00
00:30:34.080 Oh, shit. 1.00
00:30:35.020 You know what I mean? 1.00
00:30:35.820 I was like, is there a...
00:30:37.540 I'm like, just grab some coffee in here.
00:30:39.420 Oh, by the way, I remember I was in a lounge.
00:30:42.240 This was peak COVID.
00:30:44.120 And I wanted a bottle of water in the lounge.
00:30:46.220 And they said, we have water in a glass.
00:30:48.260 Right.
00:30:48.880 And I thought, well, not only is that... 0.51
00:30:51.220 Filthy.
00:30:52.360 A COVID nightmare, right?
00:30:54.380 But exactly, they're discouraging you grabbing a bottle of water and hitting the road.
00:30:58.700 Yeah, I mean...
00:31:00.220 Rude.
00:31:01.180 Yeah, I sort of pulled it off once. 0.91
00:31:03.200 I forget what the situation was, but it's just the food's really fucking good in there.
00:31:09.580 I can't believe it's too hot.
00:31:11.200 I've never had like an exciting food experience in a lounge.
00:31:14.620 I mean, what lounges are you in?
00:31:17.200 Delta?
00:31:17.900 I'm barely in the lounge.
00:31:19.160 Yeah.
00:31:19.640 Didn't you not realize you had access? 0.97
00:31:21.020 I can hardly talk about, yes, I was fucking silver and I didn't know. 0.98
00:31:26.360 I know. 0.96
00:31:26.900 When I think about-
00:31:27.900 Yeah, I'm gold or something.
00:31:29.300 No, it makes me laugh.
00:31:29.980 Whatever it was, but you know-
00:31:31.060 I was silver, Jacqueline.
00:31:32.320 I didn't know that I could get free upgrades.
00:31:34.400 I wasn't adding myself to the upgrade list.
00:31:36.840 Are you hearing this?
00:31:37.680 Are you hearing this?
00:31:38.480 God.
00:31:38.940 No one taught me how to live.
00:31:40.900 You should see Emma's face.
00:31:42.220 I was scrounging.
00:31:44.360 I was down there in the gutter with silver medallion status. 0.98
00:31:48.540 Emma's like a scam artist of the Delta.
00:31:51.140 Emma managed to like make 2K or something straight up by like saying like,
00:31:56.660 I'll get on the next flight.
00:31:57.660 And then like it happening again.
00:31:58.640 My friend made 5K apparently during that the day.
00:32:02.320 Can you believe that?
00:32:03.760 No, but sometimes I'll arrive and I'm not hungry
00:32:06.640 and I'm just sitting there in front of this plenty going,
00:32:10.240 so do I eat it just because it's free and it's here and it's delicious?
00:32:13.540 Like, even though I'm not hungry, you know, it's just-
00:32:15.460 I'm going to eat, you know what I'm realizing?
00:32:17.060 Late flight like that.
00:32:17.860 I'm going to have a big old dinner
00:32:19.020 and then you get on the plane, you go to sleep.
00:32:21.180 Oh, yeah.
00:32:21.680 You treat that like night, right?
00:32:23.520 Hard to resist the food.
00:32:24.860 Yeah, but don't eat on the flight is what I'm saying.
00:32:26.740 Just go to bed.
00:32:27.720 You mean don't let them wake you for food?
00:32:29.700 Yeah.
00:32:29.940 I feel like they kind of don't wake you for food when it's like the night flight.
00:32:33.300 No.
00:32:33.780 God, it's so weird to be like put to bed when they put you to bed.
00:32:38.080 Like the lights go out in the plane and it's like a bunch of adults.
00:32:41.180 It's like nap time.
00:32:42.040 I know.
00:32:42.920 It's very weird to sleep.
00:32:44.800 I think I'm on the aisle.
00:32:45.980 To think there's someone between John and I is really hard.
00:32:48.760 There is, I believe.
00:32:49.980 What?
00:32:50.620 Yeah.
00:32:50.980 So then, Kate, I got news for you.
00:32:52.860 What?
00:32:53.420 Off you go to first if you get the upgrade, okay?
00:32:55.740 Wait, I'm looking.
00:32:56.400 Wait, I'm not going to get the upgrade.
00:32:57.680 You're not even next to each other?
00:32:58.660 We are.
00:32:59.300 but there's someone
00:32:59.860 wait Kate let me look
00:33:00.660 if there's someone between us
00:33:01.480 you're not next to each other
00:33:02.480 do you know what it means
00:33:03.120 to be seated next to someone
00:33:04.360 okay
00:33:04.880 I don't know how to tell you this
00:33:05.820 I'm middle actually
00:33:06.660 good news
00:33:08.820 good news
00:33:09.300 we're in a two seater
00:33:10.660 I forgot
00:33:11.280 well there it is
00:33:12.420 Chris and I refer to that
00:33:13.740 as our own private
00:33:14.640 first class
00:33:15.900 okay
00:33:16.180 because
00:33:16.960 because you can
00:33:18.080 do anything
00:33:18.940 I'm pretty positive
00:33:19.820 you're free
00:33:20.520 if you're in a tour
00:33:22.560 I'm almost positive
00:33:24.400 because I
00:33:24.940 booked this
00:33:25.800 oh my god
00:33:26.360 I think I got audio
00:33:27.540 I was on a flight
00:33:28.440 where I was somehow sandwiched inside of a child's soccer team.
00:33:33.280 Oh, my God.
00:33:34.220 Oh, my God.
00:33:35.520 And it was deranged.
00:33:37.420 We're in a two-seater.
00:33:38.440 I love you.
00:33:39.000 We're free.
00:33:39.480 Free at last.
00:33:40.260 Okay.
00:33:40.660 Were they all screaming their heads off the whole time?
00:33:43.240 Screaming their heads off and coughing like a fountain,
00:33:46.800 you know, like a stone fountain of a little boy spitting.
00:33:50.420 Yeah.
00:33:51.300 It was like that.
00:33:52.220 But it was like, let's see how far and wide my cough can go.
00:33:55.160 like you know these like thing like like like children they're like that they're like
00:33:59.660 yeah yeah they love it yeah yeah totally yeah yeah they're they're proud they're hard i don't
00:34:07.040 know i don't even know what it is but oh my god i'm so relieved that john and i aren't in a tour
00:34:11.380 now everything is fine i can finally finally relax and we're actually in the middle not the
00:34:17.340 back we're in the back of the plane on the way back from rome and that's gonna be brutal because
00:34:21.240 we have a four-hour layover at the Paris airport.
00:34:25.900 Okay, so therefore, wait, that's not why it's going to be brutal.
00:34:28.960 This is what I was going to say.
00:34:30.160 Here's the thing about the back of a plane.
00:34:31.700 It's like this feeling like it's bad, but then it's like, why?
00:34:35.400 Okay, it's a perception issue because here's the thing.
00:34:38.560 It's only bad if you think when you land and you hear like that,
00:34:42.460 whatever the sound of bing, like the door is open
00:34:45.560 and people are starting to plane,
00:34:47.260 the feeling like you should be getting off the plane right then.
00:34:49.720 Then it's hell.
00:34:50.440 So that's not what the back is for me.
00:34:52.340 The back for me is that I remember once like reading in the 80s that it's like all the
00:34:56.160 like exhaust, like that's like the most toxic part of the plane is the back of the plane.
00:34:59.580 That doesn't make any sense.
00:35:00.840 Right?
00:35:01.240 It's a closed tube of filtered air.
00:35:03.880 Yeah.
00:35:04.440 HEPA.
00:35:04.900 Is that a smell a little extra gassy back there?
00:35:06.800 Like gasoline?
00:35:07.760 You know what I mean?
00:35:08.760 It's a little extra like toxic back there.
00:35:09.640 I don't, I've not noticed that.
00:35:11.540 I've not noticed that.
00:35:12.660 I think that maybe that was true in the 70s.
00:35:15.180 Okay.
00:35:15.640 Yeah.
00:35:16.360 Maybe that's actually a vestige of the 70s.
00:35:18.440 Maybe it was true when they were smoking.
00:35:19.140 When people were smoking.
00:35:19.900 Weren't people still smoking on planes in the 90s?
00:35:22.360 I don't think so.
00:35:23.640 I think the like...
00:35:24.880 80s?
00:35:25.360 I mean, I don't think so.
00:35:26.600 So I have a memory of flying Southwest as a child repeatedly with my mother.
00:35:32.300 And I remember hearing...
00:35:33.580 I think I've said this on Pook.
00:35:35.020 It's not a fabrication.
00:35:36.300 I remember the flight attendant saying,
00:35:38.680 ladies, if you wouldn't mind wiping your lipstick off your glass, 0.97
00:35:42.820 your plastic glass, 1.00
00:35:43.800 before you give them back to the people.
00:35:47.100 They were plastic glasses that were given back?
00:35:49.900 I remember
00:35:50.680 and I'm gonna look this up
00:35:51.780 is this like
00:35:52.300 Nelson Mandela effect 0.99
00:35:53.320 or whatever the fuck 0.99
00:35:54.020 yeah 0.99
00:35:54.260 I remember them saying
00:35:55.740 wipe your lipstick off
00:35:57.420 I'm looking it up
00:35:58.640 no that makes sense to me
00:36:00.320 the wipe your lipstick off
00:36:01.460 really
00:36:01.740 but
00:36:02.180 there's no glassware
00:36:03.660 on a
00:36:04.040 on a regular plane
00:36:05.060 that's what I'm
00:36:06.480 do you understand
00:36:07.020 wait
00:36:07.300 in first class 0.99
00:36:08.200 it's trash 0.98
00:36:09.800 unless you were flying 0.99
00:36:11.580 first
00:36:12.140 or maybe they give you stuff
00:36:13.480 in
00:36:13.720 no this was not first
00:36:14.760 this was plastic
00:36:15.680 right that's why I'm confused
00:36:17.040 I know
00:36:17.460 I thought I would just go
00:36:18.100 straight in the landfill
00:36:19.860 Write in if you have the memory. 1.00
00:36:21.480 Ladies, if you wouldn't mind wiping.
00:36:23.620 Ladies, if you wouldn't mind wiping off your lipstick. 1.00
00:36:25.940 Here's your basket of kisses. 1.00
00:36:27.800 I know.
00:36:28.580 Bad men.
00:36:29.200 Oh, yeah, of course.
00:36:30.600 I realize she had it.
00:36:31.600 She had it.
00:36:32.020 She's a copywriter. 0.93
00:36:34.200 Imagine just being in that smoke-filled plane.
00:36:37.160 I know.
00:36:38.220 God, though, imagine the delight of just taking out a smoke and lighting it up.
00:36:43.680 Where are they ash?
00:36:44.440 I can't picture.
00:36:45.200 Oh, no, right.
00:36:45.760 Those were those little ashtrays.
00:36:47.360 Oh, yeah.
00:36:47.780 There were little ashtrays in the handle.
00:36:49.180 I had those.
00:36:50.420 That's how you know.
00:36:51.660 Remember that?
00:36:52.560 We still had the ashtrays.
00:36:54.240 Yeah.
00:36:54.540 We had the ashtrays in the armrests.
00:36:55.680 Yeah, and they were like gum in there.
00:36:56.880 Yeah.
00:36:57.120 Yeah.
00:36:57.780 That was the whole thing.
00:36:59.400 These kids today.
00:37:01.300 They don't know.
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00:39:43.640 Ever feel like you're being chased by the marriage police?
00:39:47.640 Welcome to Boys and Girls,
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00:40:49.960 I have a question, Yerba Mate
00:40:51.800 Yerba Mate
00:40:53.660 You have a question about Yerba Mate?
00:40:55.260 Yeah, I mean, isn't it supposed to be better than coffee?
00:40:59.200 Better than coffee?
00:41:00.240 Not convinced.
00:41:01.640 Well, yeah.
00:41:02.520 But like a cleaner, hi.
00:41:04.460 I'm sure.
00:41:05.140 Have you seen this thing advertised that's like to pair with your amphetamine salts?
00:41:11.640 By the way, have you ever been prescribed that?
00:41:14.860 It's like the generic of Adderall or the generic of Ritalin or something like that.
00:41:19.740 Amphetamine salts.
00:41:20.320 Yeah, you just get amphetamine salts.
00:41:22.160 Like they hand you this thing.
00:41:23.640 That's amazing.
00:41:24.120 And it's like, they're staring at you like, is this like 1912?
00:41:28.120 Like you just wave these under your nose.
00:41:31.500 It's how they wake up corpses.
00:41:34.020 That is familiar.
00:41:35.060 So they get the last breath of a corpse.
00:41:35.840 What do you do? 1.00
00:41:36.360 10 bucks a day tip for the housekeeper? 1.00
00:41:40.080 10 bucks a day in a hotel?
00:41:42.280 Interesting.
00:41:42.800 I hadn't heard the per day kind of concept as a way to...
00:41:47.640 I don't have them come into my room every day.
00:41:50.960 So is it what?
00:41:51.580 Every time they come in, you tip them?
00:41:53.660 You know what I mean?
00:41:54.760 Or kind of end of the trip.
00:41:56.400 Here you go.
00:41:57.180 Right.
00:41:57.400 I mean, the end of the trip thing is like...
00:41:58.940 A hot light on the end of the bed.
00:42:01.100 The end of the trip thing.
00:42:02.360 I think people are...
00:42:03.140 By the way, people are running around.
00:42:04.440 They're not tipping the housekeeper.
00:42:05.920 I've learned that.
00:42:06.460 I'm sure they are.
00:42:07.120 It's that same like...
00:42:07.880 People aren't doing that.
00:42:08.900 Not learned how to...
00:42:10.380 Although I'm quite confident I've forgotten.
00:42:13.160 Yeah.
00:42:13.600 If I may be transparent.
00:42:15.700 I'm sure I have too.
00:42:17.100 But the thing that sort of is confusing about the like on the way out, the last day move
00:42:21.620 is that that's not necessarily the same person.
00:42:24.600 Yeah, that's who's getting it.
00:42:25.160 I know, that's what's hard.
00:42:26.680 Because some places they go
00:42:28.000 and they'll say the name of your housekeeper.
00:42:31.640 Right, right.
00:42:32.460 So you can be like, okay, this is all for them.
00:42:36.940 But I know it's scary.
00:42:37.460 I had a friend who was moving out of their place
00:42:39.340 and they'd lived there a long time 1.00
00:42:41.440 and they had so much shit in there 0.99
00:42:42.340 and they were like not going to clear the place. 1.00
00:42:44.580 Okay, like they were like,
00:42:45.840 they were not going to get it all out.
00:42:48.940 They were like, I got to cut and run.
00:42:51.620 okay yeah oh god this is one of my absolute recurring dreams okay like it is an ongoing
00:42:58.060 years and years and years long thing and when i'm in the dream like all right this okay like
00:43:04.380 it's that my freshman year in college i never cleaned out my my dorm room yeah and i haven't
00:43:10.680 secured housing for the next year again i know that i'm sort of gonna be in trouble and that 0.89
00:43:16.180 there's like thousands racking up like in fines and that there's this room with all this shit so 0.97
00:43:20.740 anyway 0.95
00:43:22.520 so my friend's move
00:43:24.400 was 0.99
00:43:25.480 leave a bunch of shit there 1.00
00:43:27.920 and then sprinkle 1.00
00:43:29.540 dollar bills throughout
00:43:31.600 like everywhere
00:43:33.320 okay
00:43:36.580 they were just like
00:43:37.720 amidst stuff
00:43:38.880 it wasn't just like a tip on the table
00:43:40.540 it was like
00:43:41.220 it was like
00:43:42.560 isn't it like
00:43:45.400 thrilling when you finally
00:43:46.940 like when you hear someone
00:43:48.260 tell you about something
00:43:49.600 they do
00:43:50.740 That you haven't heard before?
00:43:52.160 Yeah, that's a new one.
00:43:53.440 So you're saying they're moving out of their house
00:43:55.120 and they just, there's like piles of books
00:43:57.320 and like appliances they can't figure out.
00:43:59.300 So they just spray money off.
00:44:01.380 I went into my sweep of the place
00:44:03.660 after he left.
00:44:06.760 Picking through his stuff.
00:44:09.500 Yeah, no.
00:44:10.300 I would love to pick through someone's.
00:44:12.280 Yeah.
00:44:12.740 Oh my God.
00:44:13.640 And then, and I saw the dollars.
00:44:17.560 Like you opened.
00:44:20.740 You open a closet and it's like, I'm trying to figure out what, like he explained it to me, like in this way, like, I don't know, just people's own logic of how things work.
00:44:33.060 The other one was like, I think the other thing he like taught me, like, because he'll teach me things like, this is my friend, Paul.
00:44:39.320 Okay.
00:44:39.720 He'll teach me things like, oh, that's an old, that's a classic.
00:44:43.600 Like, you know what I mean?
00:44:44.260 Like, and it'll be like stubbing out a bunch of cigarettes in front of the like house or the apartment that you want to buy.
00:44:50.740 to try to discourage.
00:44:53.960 That's amazing.
00:44:55.220 It's amazing.
00:44:56.340 He's like,
00:44:56.820 you don't know that one?
00:44:58.000 Like he was like,
00:44:58.660 we're like leaving
00:44:59.220 an apartment.
00:45:00.140 We're like pretty like sure
00:45:01.140 like I want
00:45:01.840 or something like that.
00:45:03.020 And he's like 0.98
00:45:03.620 discarding trash.
00:45:07.600 That's really funny.
00:45:09.560 That's good.
00:45:10.720 He also said something
00:45:11.480 really comforting
00:45:12.160 about spending money
00:45:13.100 in New York.
00:45:13.780 Like when I was like,
00:45:15.120 I've run out of money already.
00:45:16.620 Like,
00:45:16.780 and he's like,
00:45:18.560 you can't light a cigarette
00:45:19.620 for $10,000 in New York City
00:45:21.820 or something.
00:45:22.340 Yeah.
00:45:22.680 I love you can't light a cigarette for.
00:45:26.120 That's a good one.
00:45:26.980 What about, you know,
00:45:27.620 my family,
00:45:28.200 my cousin's kind of into
00:45:29.280 To the Tune Of.
00:45:30.460 Oh, yeah.
00:45:31.000 To the Tune Of is great.
00:45:31.940 To the Tune Of 900.
00:45:34.640 That's good.
00:45:35.800 I kind of had a misfire
00:45:37.060 with a server at a restaurant
00:45:38.600 last night where,
00:45:40.300 what was it?
00:45:41.820 We're talking about,
00:45:42.860 we're having fun.
00:45:45.920 Dessert conversations come up.
00:45:47.780 Yeah.
00:45:48.000 Something,
00:45:48.260 and he starts talking
00:45:48.980 about this dessert
00:45:49.660 and I go
00:45:50.160 Jesus does it come 1.00
00:45:51.120 with a blowjob too 0.99
00:45:52.120 and he kind of 0.99
00:45:56.340 didn't love it
00:45:57.440 or was it because
00:45:58.680 it's like this
00:45:59.920 that this
00:46:00.620 and that
00:46:01.280 right
00:46:01.900 and I go
00:46:02.740 does it come 0.99
00:46:03.220 with a blowjob too 0.99
00:46:03.920 and then he kind of goes 0.99
00:46:05.380 he kind of laughs
00:46:06.500 and I go
00:46:07.080 you know
00:46:07.960 the actual way
00:46:08.960 to do that
00:46:09.560 I was like
00:46:10.160 that is a fun one
00:46:11.360 but what it really is
00:46:12.320 is if you're noting
00:46:13.640 that something's really
00:46:14.280 you said this to him
00:46:14.620 yeah I go
00:46:15.220 you said sorry
00:46:15.720 the actual way
00:46:16.500 to do this
00:46:16.980 the best way
00:46:17.500 to do that joke
00:46:18.080 is actually if you're with a friend
00:46:20.280 and you see the price of something.
00:46:21.720 So it's like, oh, you know,
00:46:23.260 the salmon is going to cost $40. 0.99
00:46:25.220 You go, Jesus, does it come with a blowjob too? 0.99
00:46:27.160 Exactly. 0.99
00:46:27.540 That's the way.
00:46:28.240 That's a classic.
00:46:29.020 That's the classic.
00:46:30.020 But I prefer yours.
00:46:30.960 You just let the misfire land.
00:46:32.740 I actually think now that I'm saying-
00:46:34.220 I never forget when I was going to that restaurant
00:46:36.620 so many times via Corotta in a week
00:46:39.040 and they would present the special.
00:46:40.560 And I knew the special because I was there last night.
00:46:42.380 Yeah.
00:46:42.940 They were slowly shaving truffles off.
00:46:45.300 You know, they have this truffle
00:46:46.220 and they're slowly shaving it off onto pasta
00:46:47.940 over the course of the week oh you know it's like so it's a special for the week and they go and we
00:46:52.680 have a pasta with a butter and truffle okay and it's by like night three literally they go and we
00:46:59.500 have uh pasta with a truffle I go for 42 no no that's hilarious okay I go for 42 like like we 0.99
00:47:08.440 know and uh wait what what were we just talking about oh yeah no waiter the misfire fuck he might 0.96
00:47:15.660 have also like was it he yep might have also sort of just panicked not quite because the joke wasn't 0.98
00:47:23.900 in that i think he reacted fine i think i think i just felt that it was inappropriate
00:47:28.680 no i don't know it was fine but you didn't get the laugh you felt you deserved
00:47:34.060 that's for sure but i was laughing i loved my quip
00:47:37.840 um where were you eating casino beautiful lighting really kind of sexy restaurant 0.99
00:47:47.200 downtown oh wait i want to just shout out the fucking sconces we were sent because they've 0.98
00:47:52.580 arrived the candle sconces great it was so fabulous so we were talking about sconces and 0.98
00:47:58.660 live burning candles and the whole question and peter dolkis wrote an email that said
00:48:04.820 doth protest too much.
00:48:06.160 Because remember?
00:48:06.660 Wait.
00:48:07.300 Remember the question of whether candles,
00:48:09.140 burning candles at your dinner party,
00:48:11.240 hanging on the wall?
00:48:11.860 Oh, right.
00:48:12.440 I was saying maybe doth protest too much. 1.00
00:48:13.980 You're like, there's sex in that house.
00:48:15.280 And I'm like, where is there? 0.90
00:48:16.380 Right, right.
00:48:17.040 So you just wrote, Peter Dolkis wrote,
00:48:18.880 doth protest too much.
00:48:20.120 And I just wrote, I know you're not fully committed,
00:48:21.760 but would you like some candle sconces?
00:48:24.060 Wow.
00:48:24.460 And they were sent and they're beautiful.
00:48:25.840 And I'm sourcing battery operated ones.
00:48:30.120 I'm looking at this.
00:48:30.840 He sent us the hurricane candle sconce.
00:48:32.760 Great.
00:48:33.040 PeterDulkas, D-O-L-K-A-S, PeterDulkas.com.
00:48:36.640 They're stunning.
00:48:37.980 But now the question, of course.
00:48:39.720 Of course.
00:48:40.100 Now the new prison, where to put them?
00:48:41.940 Of course.
00:48:43.420 Of course.
00:48:44.240 I'm worried about my flight.
00:48:45.640 I am.
00:48:46.240 I'm thinking about my flight.
00:48:48.120 Yep.
00:48:49.080 You're just slipping into, of course, matching my rhythms.
00:48:54.300 I don't mind.
00:48:55.820 We do have to go.
00:48:57.360 Also, because I have a half an hour to, again, of course, going.
00:49:01.400 I have a huge
00:49:02.860 you release me of this
00:49:04.780 going to Rome with a huge carry-on
00:49:07.680 I mean sorry a huge checked bag 0.99
00:49:09.460 fuck it right 1.00
00:49:10.640 who cares 1.00
00:49:11.540 I can always buy an extra suitcase
00:49:13.620 if I want to load up on clothing
00:49:16.780 well yeah but there's the question that it's too big
00:49:19.120 then why would buying the extra
00:49:20.640 this is like the joke you just told the waiter
00:49:23.720 the classic is
00:49:24.860 should I bring a big suitcase
00:49:27.440 because like
00:49:28.740 do you release me
00:49:29.800 from worrying about
00:49:30.320 bringing me too big
00:49:31.520 should I lighten my load
00:49:32.420 I over packed
00:49:33.000 I mean this is really
00:49:34.080 this is really
00:49:35.020 I had this fantasy of
00:49:36.680 I'm gonna ship stuff
00:49:38.140 back to LA
00:49:39.420 now before you leave
00:49:40.420 it's Sunday
00:49:40.960 I can't go to
00:49:41.840 F
00:49:42.060 whoa I'm having a stroke
00:49:43.840 I can't go to FedEx
00:49:44.860 they're closed
00:49:46.580 right
00:49:46.960 by the way 0.99
00:49:47.340 are you fucking kidding me 0.99
00:49:48.660 you're closed on Sunday 0.99
00:49:49.460 what is this
00:49:50.100 church
00:49:50.700 when the hell
00:49:51.580 are people supposed to
00:49:52.680 I think church is open
00:49:54.320 on Sunday
00:49:54.720 you did it again
00:49:55.640 you did it again
00:49:57.860 you're like
00:49:58.220 You're like, you're at three now.
00:50:01.380 Like three, like you're like trying to pretend to be human.
00:50:04.380 Yeah, complete.
00:50:05.380 You're like, what is this?
00:50:06.340 Closed on Sundays at church?
00:50:07.780 It's like, you knew there was something true about Sundays at church.
00:50:12.780 But don't you agree?
00:50:17.420 FedEx being closed on Sunday is bizarre.
00:50:20.200 Well, everything that's only open during working hours.
00:50:23.020 We're at work.
00:50:28.220 Yeah.
00:50:28.740 I mean, this is the classic, like, shopping.
00:50:31.960 Yeah.
00:50:32.180 Give me the night mall, you know?
00:50:34.220 Yeah, I know.
00:50:35.160 How the hell are people supposed to shop at 1130 on a Thursday?
00:50:38.700 Totally.
00:50:39.660 Totally.
00:50:41.340 Also, you know, it was big for me, a night salon.
00:50:43.820 Oh, yeah, totally.
00:50:44.820 I, like, thought this was a genius Monday salon was, like, my concept, okay?
00:50:48.780 Because I think Monday is when salons are all off.
00:50:51.860 But I would always find myself, and so this concept was the Monday salon.
00:50:55.780 And then, you know, hairdressers from other places could come use a chair.
00:51:01.860 That's good.
00:51:02.780 The Monday salon if they wanted a chair. 1.00
00:51:06.500 Or in a chair.
00:51:08.220 You've been gone for five minutes.
00:51:09.780 You're gone.
00:51:10.540 Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:51:11.520 It's okay.
00:51:11.980 I'm also the hunger actually setting in.
00:51:13.640 Yeah.
00:51:14.580 The hunger, the exhaustion.
00:51:18.760 We can call it.
00:51:22.900 We can call it.
00:51:23.880 I am going to.
00:51:25.460 Yeah.
00:51:25.780 thanks again for taking my call earlier
00:51:28.660 when I was hysterical
00:51:29.820 actually even better
00:51:32.500 you texted me
00:51:33.360 you called me
00:51:34.220 I was like can you talk
00:51:35.320 I went FaceTime
00:51:35.800 yeah
00:51:36.300 face to face
00:51:37.540 yeah
00:51:38.400 that's how it's done
00:51:39.360 I was trying to fly into fix it mode
00:51:41.920 but
00:51:42.260 then I remembered surrender is all we have
00:51:44.600 oh no
00:51:45.540 bye 0.99
00:51:48.020 I never got to the fucking poem 0.99
00:51:51.680 read the poem now 0.99
00:51:52.460 read the poem now
00:51:53.160 I'm reading the poem
00:51:54.120 I'm reading the poem
00:51:55.020 it's four lines.
00:51:56.000 Are you ready?
00:51:56.960 Because I was saying
00:51:57.440 about that feeling.
00:51:58.620 I've brought it up before
00:51:59.400 in Pooh
00:51:59.740 if it deserves being brought up
00:52:01.120 and it appears to be written
00:52:02.040 by Patrick Phillips.
00:52:03.300 Okay.
00:52:04.080 1970.
00:52:05.600 Heaven
00:52:06.000 it will be the past
00:52:08.460 and we'll live there together
00:52:09.640 not as it was to live
00:52:11.700 but as it is remembered.
00:52:13.280 Oh God.
00:52:14.500 It will be the past
00:52:15.360 we'll all go back together
00:52:16.560 everyone we ever loved
00:52:17.980 and lost
00:52:18.400 and must remember
00:52:19.100 it will be the past
00:52:20.860 and it will last forever.
00:52:23.500 Oh.
00:52:23.900 as it is remembered
00:52:25.820 now
00:52:26.620 don't you dare scoff
00:52:29.260 at the
00:52:29.600 general language
00:52:31.220 you know
00:52:32.460 because actually
00:52:33.560 yeah
00:52:34.040 it's all there
00:52:35.440 yeah
00:52:35.780 it is
00:52:36.400 there is precision there
00:52:37.460 yeah
00:52:37.800 you could sort of not
00:52:39.200 not hear it
00:52:39.760 just be like
00:52:40.140 oh the past
00:52:40.820 heaven
00:52:41.200 it sounds kind of broad
00:52:42.160 no
00:52:42.460 not as it was to live
00:52:44.140 but as it is remembered
00:52:45.100 yeah
00:52:46.160 it's haunting
00:52:46.960 oh
00:52:48.380 I survived Jacqueline
00:52:50.140 yeah
00:52:50.820 I knew you would
00:52:52.040 it's still so hard
00:52:53.280 you know
00:52:53.620 you can I mean you're you have you're able to shift into things you know it's kind of interesting 0.67
00:52:59.760 which suggests you know you're not completely mentally ill
00:53:04.660 like emotions come and go and you know what I mean yeah I mean yeah I'm still cancel a week
00:53:13.140 no no no I don't mean the emotions are gone no no it's true okay I gotta go pack up all 0.97
00:53:20.340 this fucking shit all right love you love you bye 0.99
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