Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - You’re… Really Pretty

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00:02:39.300 Hi, I'm Kate Berlant.

00:02:40.780 I'm Jacqueline Novak.

00:02:41.900 And this is Poogh, an ongoing conversation about wellness between two obsessive friends.

00:02:46.600 Two untamable intellects.

00:02:48.400 This is our hobby. 0.97

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00:02:50.100 This is our naked desire for free products.

00:02:52.140 This is Hoog.

00:02:53.780 Today's topic, loosely speaking, remote viewing, POA, actors are real.

00:03:02.920 Hello?

00:03:04.020 Hey, it's me.

00:03:05.180 I just found out I had a major COVID exposure.

00:03:08.840 Oh, really?

00:03:09.900 Yeah.

00:03:10.680 Are you feeling it descend upon you?

00:03:12.720 No.

00:03:13.200 Instantly?

00:03:13.900 Are you like, I feel it?

00:03:15.600 No, I'm immediately doing the thing where I go,

00:03:18.020 because the person

00:03:20.120 who has COVID

00:03:20.880 it seems like

00:03:22.340 they probably contracted

00:03:23.120 the day before I saw them

00:03:24.360 but we were in like

00:03:25.080 an airless room

00:03:25.840 for two and a half hours

00:03:27.020 talking

00:03:27.680 and

00:03:28.840 sounds like a joy

00:03:30.560 yeah

00:03:31.760 yeah

00:03:32.240 and so 0.86

00:03:34.960 I don't fucking know 0.96

00:03:36.280 but what can you do 0.99

00:03:37.180 you know

00:03:38.040 I'll tell you this though

00:03:38.840 I did have the pleasure

00:03:39.820 where I had dinner plans

00:03:41.440 tonight

00:03:41.820 and I hate to say it

00:03:43.640 got to cancel

00:03:45.420 yeah

00:03:47.600 It's the greatest.

00:03:51.240 I was looking forward to it, too.

00:03:52.820 It's funny, though,

00:03:53.620 always something like that.

00:03:54.140 You better say that

00:03:55.020 for when they're listening.

00:03:56.320 I know.

00:03:58.220 I just can't overstate

00:04:00.360 the importance of the microbiome.

00:04:04.480 And we're in.

00:04:05.600 Okay.

00:04:05.780 Okay.

00:04:07.060 My internet-based research

00:04:10.760 has gone to a doctorate level, okay?

00:04:14.560 Yeah, totally.

00:04:15.140 I'm listening to one podcast nightly.

00:04:17.640 No, but actually, I'm watching it, if you can imagine.

00:04:20.820 Video. 1.00

00:04:21.620 That's what we're going to do with Poog. 1.00

00:04:22.680 We're going to make them watch this shit. 1.00

00:04:24.340 Make them watch. 1.00

00:04:25.960 And I'm watching this guy, Rich Roll.

00:04:30.080 These guys, every...

00:04:31.760 Yeah.

00:04:33.540 And love him.

00:04:35.160 His follow-ups are astonishing.

00:04:37.780 There's this other guy.

00:04:38.680 I can't remember his name right now. 1.00

00:04:40.720 But it makes me laugh, actually, imagining them listening to Poog, okay? 0.90

00:04:44.360 because obviously

00:04:45.580 it's a different model.

00:04:47.440 You know what I mean?

00:04:48.060 Yeah.

00:04:48.900 I had a...

00:04:49.940 All right.

00:04:51.500 Yes.

00:04:51.720 I have a story

00:04:52.840 I want to tell you

00:04:53.680 or a thing that happened

00:04:54.740 but it involves

00:04:56.100 and we've gotten into this

00:04:57.320 it involves a

00:04:58.420 it involves

00:04:59.600 a physical description

00:05:00.680 of someone

00:05:01.260 that

00:05:02.180 where part of it

00:05:03.620 has to be

00:05:04.240 not allowed

00:05:05.020 can't be done.

00:05:06.100 Right.

00:05:06.280 Yeah, exactly.

00:05:07.380 People can't be ugly anymore.

00:05:09.200 Yeah.

00:05:09.780 But um...

00:05:11.440 Right, which we've talked about this

00:05:12.820 the fact that like

00:05:13.840 don't say that about them or even it it's heightening the it's saying that it's the

00:05:19.980 worst thing you could say about someone which is therefore heightening completely you're revealing

00:05:24.800 that you think unattractiveness is no greater illegal yeah exactly and it almost has something

00:05:32.720 to do you're actually suggesting if someone is saying that they're almost suggesting that

00:05:37.980 the outside does reflect the inside that it's it's like admonishing someone that's like

00:05:43.220 do you know what I mean like it's a personal failing or something like don't say like don't

00:05:49.380 oh no right don't it's like don't draw attention to them to their failing like it's rude to call

00:05:55.400 people out for their failings right so so so right it's like or even just whatever happened

00:06:01.460 born this way yeah yeah um that's great um like like if someone was like lgbtqiaugly

00:06:12.220 god that's funny okay so by the way this this girl was not ugly okay just listen okay listen

00:06:21.200 to this picture me this is a couple nights ago dolled up okay at a party um leaving the leaving

00:06:28.780 the party in the kind of the valet area people are kind of crowded right waiting for the cars

00:06:32.840 and this woman and i'll just say like she turned around and looked at me and then she kind of

00:06:41.020 We were all kind of crowded together and she kind of smiled at me in this way.

00:06:43.720 And then in this tone that I found, I didn't like it.

00:06:47.800 It's kind of very earnest, kind of weird, nice tone.

00:06:50.980 She said, sorry, you're just, okay, I want to get it exactly right.

00:06:54.800 She went, she looked at me and she went, and she kind of smiled and said, sorry, but God, you're just so pretty.

00:07:01.500 And I went.

00:07:03.100 Okay, hold on, wait.

00:07:04.080 Okay, hold on, hold on.

00:07:05.240 Okay, let me just take it in.

00:07:06.680 Now you're satisfied with your impression, right?

00:07:08.400 because to me it was no like really strong of something like I was like no no it was this

00:07:14.080 really I just want you to be fully dead on sorry I yeah and almost like pretending to kind of like

00:07:19.480 sorry I just you're really pretty like and I interpreted this immediately as someone who's

00:07:27.720 ugly seeing that someone else is ugly but it's trying not to be ugly and be like it's like it's

00:07:33.280 only something you say to someone who's kind of busted like i think she's almost looking at me 0.93

00:07:38.580 going here and by the way i'm gonna i'm gonna but like here's an unconventional looking woman 1.00

00:07:44.580 who's dressed up clearly trying to appear attractive i'm gonna give her what she wants 1.00

00:07:48.600 and i'm going to because you know what you don't say to someone who is strikingly beautiful

00:07:53.680 objectively i mean i guess some men do this like can i just tell you that you're beautiful what

00:08:00.180 No, no, Kate.

00:08:02.200 You see what I'm saying, right?

00:08:03.500 I had a joke about this.

00:08:04.460 I mean, I was laughing.

00:08:05.740 I had a joke about this.

00:08:07.420 I was like, that's what you say to someone with— 1.00

00:08:08.440 And I couldn't do it.

00:08:09.620 It couldn't be done.

00:08:10.220 Really?

00:08:10.580 Okay?

00:08:11.040 It was too loaded.

00:08:13.000 Okay?

00:08:14.280 It was too loaded.

00:08:15.020 I knew that I had to bring you this.

00:08:16.740 Okay, because—

00:08:17.740 And we'll see if I can even pull it off here.

00:08:21.020 Please, please, please.

00:08:21.940 But, I mean, to put it simply,

00:08:25.400 the experience of getting ready to go out

00:08:29.340 okay with a bunch of girlfriends okay let's just say distinct difference between the response I get

00:08:37.220 when I come out in my outfit 30 pounds heavier you know or or not right okay so here's what it is

00:08:46.560 okay okay so let's just say whatever okay normal to them me whatever come out

00:08:55.220 mm-hmm they'll give you real feedback okay because they believe so okay okay here it is

00:09:02.620 okay so it'd be like i think that belt is cutting you weird at the waist okay or something right

00:09:08.180 totally okay like great or they're like that skirt okay let's just say 15 pounds higher than

00:09:15.080 that i come out eyes glazed over okay yeah here she is miss america okay it's literally like

00:09:24.240 totally you don't think yeah yeah small of course not you know like yeah it's like yeah and what's

00:09:31.180 so sick that they they think you're beyond notes they think you're unhelpable yeah exactly exactly

00:09:38.240 where where when they see you as whatever they accept right as whatever they go i can take her

00:09:46.500 from a 90 to a 99.

00:09:48.460 Yep.

00:09:49.020 Totally.

00:09:49.820 Percentile?

00:09:50.560 No, no. 0.50

00:09:51.340 The way she...

00:09:54.020 Oh.

00:09:55.260 You just look really pretty.

00:09:56.740 And like...

00:09:57.440 Okay, this is incredible.

00:09:58.720 Wait.

00:09:59.480 Never...

00:10:00.080 We're talking about this

00:10:00.660 for a really long time.

00:10:01.660 No, no, thank you.

00:10:02.320 I knew this would be rich for you.

00:10:03.600 And keep doing it.

00:10:04.360 I was like,

00:10:04.980 that is what you say to someone

00:10:06.600 who has elephantitis

00:10:08.400 and is in a ball gown.

00:10:10.760 Do you know what I mean?

00:10:11.460 Okay. 1.00

00:10:11.840 We talked about this early poog, okay? 1.00

00:10:13.760 Can we say elephantitis anymore? 1.00

00:10:15.740 Yeah.

00:10:16.400 Yes, okay.

00:10:17.200 No, but I just mean like,

00:10:18.580 it's like-

00:10:19.860 Bringing in the tiara.

00:10:20.780 She's gorgeous. 1.00

00:10:21.940 You said it early, Pook, okay? 0.98

00:10:24.060 What was it? 0.91

00:10:24.680 Oh, yeah.

00:10:25.280 Like laying the tiara- 0.94

00:10:27.760 Lipstick on a pig.

00:10:28.540 On a coma patient, okay? 0.96

00:10:29.900 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:10:31.080 Who's just woken up without a nose. 0.98

00:10:33.580 Today's a hundred days in a coma for her.

00:10:35.720 Her nose is gone. 0.97

00:10:36.180 Let's put on her a hundred day tiara. 0.50

00:10:38.820 Okay.

00:10:39.580 I mean, truly.

00:10:40.240 It was weird because the way she said it to me too,

00:10:43.800 I'm really interested in this

00:10:45.020 because I was kind of like,

00:10:49.780 oh, because by the way,

00:10:51.100 it's a weird thing to say

00:10:52.800 because here's what makes complete sense. 0.96

00:10:54.480 And I would say this to a woman or anyone.

00:10:56.300 I think it's really nice 0.58

00:10:57.940 when you actually think someone looks great.

00:11:00.180 Like, I think it's cool to say something like,

00:11:02.220 or I have no trouble be like,

00:11:03.680 God, I love what you're wearing, you know?

00:11:05.680 Or like, whoa, you have amazing hair.

00:11:08.900 I love what you did with your makeup.

00:11:11.320 Looks so cool. 0.99

00:11:12.280 What the fuck ever it is. 0.95

00:11:13.600 when it's real and it's genuine oh yeah it sounds just different right and then there's something 0.98

00:11:18.960 v-specific but her kind of two strangers like by the way i'm not kidding you could almost be

00:11:24.840 talking to someone and then mid-conversation go sorry can i just say this you're gorgeous

00:11:29.340 or something i don't know like that's okay i think but to turn to say to a stranger and this

00:11:36.440 is a c there are actresses around there are like objective you know pieces and by the way

00:11:41.240 You and I both 1.00

00:11:42.720 Hot pieces of ass 1.00

00:11:43.840 I remember one time 1.00

00:11:44.580 Texting you something

00:11:45.260 And you were like 1.00

00:11:45.800 I think I'm a hot piece of ass 1.00

00:11:46.960 I was like 1.00

00:11:47.220 Such a cool thing to say

00:11:48.520 I love that term

00:11:49.500 No I think 1.00

00:11:50.520 Or not hot piece of ass 1.00

00:11:51.600 Just piece of ass 1.00

00:11:52.420 Duh 1.00

00:11:53.140 No it was different

00:11:54.140 It was like Chris says 1.00

00:11:55.200 I'm a piece of ass 1.00

00:11:56.120 Yeah yeah yeah 1.00

00:11:56.980 POA 0.96

00:11:57.560 Well I should fucking hope so 0.96

00:11:58.700 I'm sorry but this is the truth 0.92

00:11:59.760 If the person you're not with

00:12:00.920 Is not constantly

00:12:01.820 Reminding you of that

00:12:02.880 It was a huge problem

00:12:03.580 But um

00:12:04.240 Yeah

00:12:05.560 But you

00:12:06.280 POA

00:12:06.840 It's really funny

00:12:07.620 POA

00:12:08.260 Yeah

00:12:08.700 But like

00:12:10.540 saying the way she said it to me and then here's what's strange and I didn't do this but almost

00:12:17.740 puts this weird thing of so am I supposed to say duh you I mean Kate no you and by the way

00:12:25.160 you look gorgeous tonight girl like what is this so I of course did a I did a way over correction

00:12:32.180 and did a kind of me the old hat I did a kind of oh my god wow well thank you I had to do a big

00:12:38.560 because to me it felt so false by the way i of course felt completely good about myself fine

00:12:45.340 about myself i wasn't there like like it almost put me it made me feel almost like do i look like

00:12:50.300 first day of school clinging on to my books walking into the cafeteria looking around with

00:12:54.660 with uh braces uh you know a back brace yeah glasses with the like my dress you know what

00:13:01.340 i'm saying like it's almost like scoliosis yeah yeah frock yeah orthopedic shoe on your hand

00:13:08.360 Exactly. Two orthopedic shoes on each hand. Like you're really pretty, like, or something.

00:13:15.460 It was just a retainer stabilizing the ankle. Yeah. You've got all the devices, but they're

00:13:20.720 all, they're all being misused. That's okay. Father, father at the scrap yard behind the

00:13:27.140 medical facility. Going to make his daughter beautiful. He's going to make her beautiful

00:13:34.820 yeah so i just i was like take me back i just loved it i was like this is no not done

00:13:49.860 yeah not move on yeah don't you dare move on okay okay hold on so your impression to me is so

00:13:57.320 perfect like thank you i'm experiencing exactly what you're describing when you do it

00:14:02.640 and it's a little bit of like um yeah like i if i were there standing next to you

00:14:08.620 i i could just feel like it'd be like how dare you you know it's like just call me ugly

00:14:14.640 it was so it was just odd it was just like really awkward and by the way i almost because i was

00:14:22.940 talking about i was like i almost there's part of me that goes is there a world where

00:14:27.720 is there a world where

00:14:29.340 she likes my comedy 1.00

00:14:31.080 she's a hag 1.00

00:14:32.680 and she's decided on the worst approach 1.00

00:14:36.640 but I really felt like

00:14:37.740 there's no way

00:14:38.940 because I immediately felt like

00:14:40.300 oh god am I going to tell Jacqueline

00:14:41.900 because I need to tell Jacqueline about this

00:14:43.280 and I was like

00:14:43.840 imagine the world where she's listening

00:14:45.820 but I just really don't think so

00:14:48.400 I was just some mangled

00:14:51.340 piece of terror

00:14:53.460 because you know what you don't do

00:14:55.320 I'm trying to imagine

00:14:57.020 let's say

00:14:59.460 no wait give me more

00:15:02.460 did you say you're waiting for valet

00:15:04.920 yeah

00:15:05.540 sounds like a good party

00:15:08.240 okay by the way

00:15:09.360 okay now I'm going full truth

00:15:11.240 I was concealing one detail to throw in case

00:15:13.320 she heard

00:15:14.420 let me guess a premiere

00:15:15.540 no no we were at a bar

00:15:16.800 crowded bar waiting to get a drink

00:15:19.520 does it change the context at all

00:15:21.280 oh you tried to conceal the detail just to

00:15:23.420 throw people off of the scent

00:15:25.280 in my nightmare that she hears this

00:15:27.200 she thinks she's

00:15:29.420 the other girl who told you you were pretty 0.90

00:15:31.300 right

00:15:32.380 no I mean literally I don't think that's even

00:15:35.120 but let's just say she's

00:15:37.320 a dream okay

00:15:38.480 which she very well might be yeah

00:15:40.840 right 0.82

00:15:41.340 backpedaling I'm saying

00:15:45.040 I'm trying to

00:15:46.300 I'm trying to say it's fine because even if she's

00:15:49.420 like the greatest okay

00:15:50.620 and she knows she didn't mean it that way then she just

00:15:53.320 knows it came out weird and it's funny and next time she sees you i'm the one no but i just meant

00:15:59.340 i guess because part of it is although i've been part of it is that oh i wasn't talking to

00:16:04.000 i wasn't super yeah exactly exactly yeah because by the way let's just say i mean and how would 1.00

00:16:10.720 that be let's switch it up if she were strikingly beautiful top model like top model level and she 1.00

00:16:18.340 turned to me and said that yeah it actually would feel better if she were like can i yeah well it'd

00:16:25.040 be really weird well then then there's a story of well then it's like she well by like it's still

00:16:30.480 like being big dicked by someone or something it's still someone being like i'll tell you exactly

00:16:35.660 what you are i see you like there's something about it that's dominant there's something about

00:16:40.280 it's dominating and there's something about it that's like it's a weird move because it's not

00:16:45.280 because again it was it didn't feel like this is a kind of authentic compliment of like

00:16:51.480 this is like something else this is something else and it made me feel a woman sidles up to

00:16:59.440 you at a bar and says i'm sorry can i just say you're really pretty it wasn't even that so what

00:17:05.220 here's what i mean i'm trying to reduce the story to if i had no nuance and hadn't heard the

00:17:09.140 impression okay okay as an experiment but part of it is i think we're all crammed there it's not

00:17:14.640 like she came up to me to say that it was like we were at we were at the it was like we're all

00:17:19.160 facing forward crowded bar right she turns to me kind of to like move around looks at me looks

00:17:26.520 forward and then comes back to me to say can I just say but she didn't say can I just say

00:17:30.220 she just said it like do it for me again now like it was like it was like oh you're so pretty

00:17:37.300 something like that it was like you're I wish I knew exactly the wording it was like you're

00:17:41.980 she didn't say can i just say it was just like oh i you're so pretty something like that it's like

00:17:48.680 going away but it was really it was this real like good like like this earnest like you know

00:17:57.180 what like you know it's like oh it was weird it was weird and maybe it was and you know what it

00:18:04.120 feels you know what it could be a social anxiety response and i send her love we're all scared out

00:18:10.340 there do you think they're like maybe she wasn't on one mg yeah maybe yeah well i was literally on

00:18:17.460 one mg yeah i know that's why i'm saying it i mean i figured you would be given what you were

00:18:21.960 saying about how like socially it makes you sore it does it does socially make me sore you know

00:18:27.760 when you feel because i felt i have felt some like social tightness lately where i'm like i

00:18:32.940 haven't wanted to go to like parties i haven't wanted to like i'm like i want one-on-one i want

00:18:37.640 like three people i don't i don't and sometimes i really am you know you pull energy from the

00:18:42.920 bigger groups right or whoring out walking around you know walking a room walking the perimeter

00:18:48.060 seeing who's around you know when you feel yourself i like to stand dead center and i

00:18:53.480 simply turn on an axis no i like the perimeter and i like i like it all i like elbowing past

00:19:02.020 and then elbowing past in the other direction and leaving what do you think it's actually a good

00:19:05.860 social anxiety trick okay to act like you're headed to something yeah but it's just that's

00:19:10.640 good that's just how you're making your way through the room you're like i'm headed that way

00:19:14.380 praying to be stopped yeah pretending to look around have you been at a part i've been at a

00:19:18.260 party like chris and i are standing there we literally like standing some other people i go

00:19:21.540 hi i'm jacqueline you know so nice and like they like they won't take it not that happily offer 0.99

00:19:28.360 their names and then like silence it's like amazing come on motherfuckers like are you kidding 0.96

00:19:33.180 that's crazy that's crazy it's like hello yeah it just seems like not cool you know not cool but 0.98

00:19:42.200 wait wait i'm not done with this hold on i'm not done with this thing yeah it feels a little

00:19:46.800 i mean what it also has the tone of like a ya you know it was very drama it was very belittling

00:19:58.100 because it was like

00:20:00.100 if you

00:20:01.180 because by the way

00:20:02.960 did she feel age proximal to you

00:20:05.680 younger

00:20:06.220 maybe I'm bad at that though

00:20:09.380 I really don't know

00:20:10.460 I constantly think people are older than me

00:20:13.200 and they're younger than me

00:20:14.160 I don't know about the age

00:20:20.540 but

00:20:20.720 no I was just curious

00:20:22.740 I'm just trying to

00:20:24.500 And did she think

00:20:27.360 Have any friends with her

00:20:28.400 Okay that's a really good detail

00:20:30.280 I didn't quite clock it

00:20:32.760 I think maybe she was alone at the bar 0.88

00:20:35.160 Well maybe like she's at the bar to get the drink 0.98

00:20:37.440 No she wasn't

00:20:38.220 Yeah yeah yeah

00:20:39.040 Well by the way I don't think

00:20:40.660 I don't think there's a role in when she was alone

00:20:42.600 Because it just was like

00:20:44.460 What did she order?

00:20:45.460 A Mai Tai?

00:20:46.220 Yeah it didn't get that far

00:20:48.100 It's a weird drink and you don't mention it

00:20:50.360 Like and it reveals it all

00:20:51.700 Yeah I don't know

00:20:54.200 It was, here's what I'll just say.

00:20:57.820 It didn't make me feel good.

00:21:00.280 And that's what's interesting.

00:21:02.060 I think what it feels like is she was embodying the quarterback who notices the bookworm girl.

00:21:14.980 Yep.

00:21:15.600 Completely.

00:21:16.480 And it's like, I see you.

00:21:19.500 Well, completely.

00:21:20.680 Completely.

00:21:21.060 And, and, and therefore elevating you, like you don't know your, like, she probably thinks she's a dog and, or something.

00:21:29.820 Exactly.

00:21:30.120 I don't know.

00:21:30.380 No, no, no.

00:21:30.960 I mean, I'm embellishing on your read of it.

00:21:34.260 No, this is.

00:21:35.080 She could have a horrible voice.

00:21:37.960 Like she could just have a, like, and then if she turned and was like, I.

00:21:42.520 It was the tone. 0.78

00:21:43.920 That the education on the Holocaust.

00:21:46.400 You know what I mean? 0.82

00:21:47.160 Like it.

00:21:48.140 Wait, what?

00:21:48.740 Like she could just always sound that way.

00:21:50.420 No, no. It was the tone. It felt belittling. It just was like, because I'm just trying to think,

00:21:56.120 I'm sorry, but tell me I'm wrong. You're standing there. There's an unbelievably

00:22:01.380 attractive person. You say to them, sorry, you're just gorgeous. I fucking don't think so.

00:22:12.000 Oh, here it is. Yeah. Okay. Here it is. Yeah. If someone looks like they're a fucking supermodel, 0.99

00:22:16.600 right yeah you don't say shit because you're like it's almost embarrassing to say to the 1.00

00:22:20.900 supermodel of course i'm sorry but you're so pretty you say because you think you're making 0.97

00:22:26.100 someone's day she told me like she was making my little day and by the way let's just say i'm at 0.97

00:22:31.680 the grocery store in like you know your hair pulled back and someone goes god like sorry 0.70

00:22:37.040 you go shit okay or something but when you're trying when i have makeup when i put primer on 0.84

00:22:45.080 that night before the foundation 0.99

00:22:47.120 and I've been blending.

00:22:49.420 You know, when someone's made the effort

00:22:50.960 then to say... Do you think she

00:22:52.980 thought she was caught

00:22:55.300 staring at you? No.

00:22:57.300 And then felt she needed to explain? No.

00:23:00.840 And again,

00:23:01.340 who knows what happened? I don't think...

00:23:03.220 But... I mean,

00:23:04.960 I also am not convinced.

00:23:07.380 I still think it's possible that it's

00:23:09.120 just... I mean,

00:23:11.020 you are stunning. Oh, Jacqueline.

00:23:14.260 Okay.

00:23:15.080 But I actually, I see, and I worry that I'm coming off as like a-

00:23:18.080 Maybe they think a girl with curly hair-

00:23:19.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:23:20.740 Is doubting herself.

00:23:21.820 Totally.

00:23:22.800 A visibly Jewish woman. 0.88

00:23:23.820 They perceive curly hair as-

00:23:25.260 Yeah.

00:23:25.640 I don't know.

00:23:26.640 And I don't want to seem callous in my retelling like, oh-

00:23:31.720 No, you don't.

00:23:32.360 Do you know what I mean?

00:23:33.020 But it just, it was, it was interesting.

00:23:35.240 There was a lot, there was a lot held in that encounter.

00:23:39.220 And-

00:23:39.780 Oh, yeah.

00:23:40.920 Almost because the crowd was quite young.

00:23:43.340 I feel like there were a lot of gorgeous 27-year-olds running around, you know? 0.54

00:23:50.920 They were like, you still got it, old lady.

00:23:53.680 You're like, I'm your age practically.

00:23:55.860 Totally.

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00:26:23.500 I do remember the mustache.

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00:27:30.000 I wonder if your social anxiety

00:27:38.220 Sorry, your social tightness

00:27:40.260 The first thing I thought when you said it

00:27:41.760 I go, it's the microbiome, okay?

00:27:43.340 It's not that 0.99

00:27:44.140 Bitch, you're like 99.9% microbiome 1.00

00:27:50.160 I know, serotonin in the gut 1.00

00:27:51.980 yeah oh my god no but you're taking the factoids that are less impressive i too held those okay

00:27:58.120 what's the good to me give it to me down like it's way worse did you hear what i just said

00:28:02.640 now i've got the numbers wrong slightly your pure microbiome so everywhere okay like it okay

00:28:10.720 like 99 of the dna in your body is bacteria dna okay okay like you're only it's almost like you're

00:28:20.560 one percent human you're a super organism okay it's a nightmare okay okay but it's invisible so

00:28:27.320 it could be abstract okay so it's not disturbing but like let me just look this up so like last

00:28:31.880 night i was watching an interview on rich roll with dr b his book is called fiber fueled you

00:28:39.020 may recall i texted you you text me something about like healing i said like we're gonna heal

00:28:44.060 your microbiome yeah okay and wait where is it dr b fiber um uh microbiome dna

00:28:57.040 it's too hard to find i can't damn it all right i'll just take it back but the point is

00:29:03.820 the answer plant diversity okay tell me phyto phytonutrients or whatever polyphenols

00:29:13.200 Okay.

00:29:14.380 Who cares?

00:29:15.720 You know, everything, everything.

00:29:17.620 Answer is the same.

00:29:19.860 Diversity of vegetables and plants.

00:29:23.140 I love it.

00:29:23.520 I believe it.

00:29:24.080 It's literally all about.

00:29:27.120 So Dr. B is like, you can play this with your kids.

00:29:29.920 Like add up the plant points and see who wins.

00:29:32.140 Like who has the most.

00:29:33.300 Yeah, that'll go over real well with the kids.

00:29:35.560 Different.

00:29:36.380 No, he says it does.

00:29:37.440 I have the most plant diverse.

00:29:39.060 Yeah.

00:29:39.600 I mean, these are.

00:29:40.900 No, they don't say plant diverse.

00:29:41.980 and by the way kids do okay go like like you provide a competition like i don't know if that 0.85

00:29:49.020 really does that really work with them i think it fucking does dog i feel like it works with them 0.69

00:29:53.940 if it's like jelly beans and eyeshadow but i'm like i don't think it no but no but it's like 0.85

00:30:00.000 i mean i don't know what age but i know there's an age that if you go whoever has the most lines

00:30:06.800 in the leather 0.99

00:30:07.660 on the fucking seat 1.00

00:30:08.820 on the pleather 1.00

00:30:09.560 wins

00:30:10.320 okay

00:30:10.620 it's like

00:30:11.100 it's like

00:30:12.000 we're playing

00:30:12.560 we're playing

00:30:13.380 you know

00:30:14.160 plant whatever

00:30:14.820 he's not

00:30:16.520 like

00:30:17.380 artistically

00:30:19.380 I'm with you

00:30:19.900 you have to know that

00:30:21.180 okay

00:30:22.060 of course

00:30:22.700 like

00:30:23.800 always

00:30:24.120 my reaction is the same

00:30:25.440 but when he said it

00:30:26.160 I thought about it

00:30:26.700 I was like

00:30:27.040 you know

00:30:30.420 I mean

00:30:30.940 punch bug

00:30:32.120 was a fun game

00:30:33.040 throughout life

00:30:34.660 and all that is

00:30:35.560 is

00:30:35.840 yelling out

00:30:36.740 I mean, that's different because it's reaction time.

00:30:38.520 You yell and then you have to hit someone or something?

00:30:40.460 Well, you don't have to, but if you see a beetle, you...

00:30:44.740 Oh, that's right.

00:30:45.860 ...yell punch bug.

00:30:46.800 Made by a big Volkswagen.

00:30:47.960 The first person just thought so long car ride.

00:30:49.920 Yeah.

00:30:50.440 You're scanning, rabidly scanning.

00:30:53.700 Well, guess what I'm...

00:30:54.520 Okay.

00:30:55.300 Sorry, now I'm jumping ahead to a car desire I have.

00:30:59.440 We keep going.

00:31:00.100 Let's hear it.

00:31:01.260 I want a sexy car.

00:31:02.160 And to be clear, not expensive and not new.

00:31:05.280 it can be cheap just safe enough to take to dinner you want like the dream which is like

00:31:11.500 you want to find the like vintage dress that's somehow cheap yeah exactly and like there you

00:31:17.740 are with like a champagne sob exactly like well i'm convinced that's gonna run perfectly i'm

00:31:23.600 convinced that there are tons of cars that are sitting basically unused in the elderly's car

00:31:30.080 airports. Yeah. And so this is my formal call out. If anyone in Los Angeles, by the way. 0.80

00:31:36.140 How about you call for two? The vague, you want one too?

00:31:39.560 Yeah. I mean, we're a single family household. I mean, a single car household. It'd be nice to

00:31:45.080 have two. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, a date car. I mean, you think just because you said,

00:31:53.820 I want a car first on poop that like you're worried like, well, you can't split a car.

00:31:59.880 So I'm only going to ask for one.

00:32:01.400 I mean, I'm just saying like, if someone's got one, yeah, sure.

00:32:05.400 Oh, we'll take two.

00:32:06.080 You called it first.

00:32:06.460 We'll take two.

00:32:06.880 Okay.

00:32:07.080 I'll take a house.

00:32:08.000 How's that, Kate?

00:32:08.580 I'll take a house and get one for Kate too.

00:32:12.020 Okay.

00:32:12.420 Now the first person that offers us a house goes to me.

00:32:15.300 Okay.

00:32:15.580 Okay.

00:32:16.160 That's fair.

00:32:17.040 Okay.

00:32:17.760 Okay. 1.00

00:32:18.040 So I'm not a fucking asshole. 1.00

00:32:20.080 All right. 1.00

00:32:20.260 Obviously you'd get, if there was only one, you'd get it.

00:32:22.680 All right.

00:32:23.280 Yeah.

00:32:23.820 Oh, that reminds me.

00:32:25.280 That reminds me.

00:32:26.020 But yeah, I'm just saying,

00:32:27.760 if someone's got a garage full of their grandfather collected.

00:32:33.020 Throw a couple of grandpapa's cars this way.

00:32:35.500 You know what I'm looking for? 1.00

00:32:36.500 Japanese.

00:32:37.060 In the listener community.

00:32:38.220 What?

00:32:39.160 I may have said this before.

00:32:40.300 I keep writing it down and then forgetting.

00:32:42.740 A patent expert slash technical drawing artist.

00:32:47.260 Okay?

00:32:48.000 Okay.

00:32:48.320 Because my file folder is full of product and invention ideas.

00:32:52.760 Overflow.

00:32:53.820 if someone really knows that world

00:32:56.700 if someone's like patent guy

00:32:58.660 and knows how to search

00:33:00.820 I mean I'm not saying I couldn't learn or do it

00:33:03.020 I don't have the time

00:33:04.520 okay

00:33:05.880 you're deep in the microbiome you don't have time for this 1.00

00:33:08.980 shit okay the amount 0.99

00:33:10.440 I'm telling you they're good they're quality 0.99

00:33:13.160 they

00:33:14.280 I just if someone just devoted

00:33:16.980 their

00:33:17.460 do you have one you can tease us with just for fun

00:33:20.880 no I refuse

00:33:22.260 they're all that good 1.00

00:33:23.120 what a stupid question 1.00

00:33:24.000 of course 1.00

00:33:24.540 I mean some

00:33:25.240 but they're

00:33:25.720 they're throughout my day

00:33:26.880 I

00:33:27.980 you know

00:33:29.080 it's like

00:33:29.420 whatever I'm doing

00:33:30.240 I see another way

00:33:31.340 that it could be done

00:33:32.120 I know

00:33:32.780 you always do

00:33:34.200 you always have

00:33:35.200 you can really

00:33:36.320 you can make money

00:33:38.200 and I think

00:33:39.020 it's interesting

00:33:40.020 like

00:33:40.340 you can make a lot of money

00:33:42.060 like I think we knew

00:33:43.000 the guy

00:33:43.520 Slank It

00:33:44.500 you knew Slank It?

00:33:46.040 Slank It

00:33:46.520 wait you know

00:33:47.800 what Slank It is?

00:33:49.600 oh wait I don't

00:33:50.500 sorry

00:33:51.000 a sleeve blanket

00:33:52.200 A.K.A.

00:33:53.420 What was going on?

00:33:54.040 It was a Huggies.

00:33:55.260 Oh, Snuggie.

00:33:56.040 A Snuggies, Kate.

00:33:57.240 Huggies or diapers.

00:33:58.140 Oh, yeah.

00:33:58.400 Okay.

00:33:58.600 Snuggies was stolen from Slanket?

00:34:00.560 Yes.

00:34:01.340 But I'm pretty sure Slanket, that's the thing.

00:34:03.900 I'm pretty sure Slanket still made real cash.

00:34:07.280 I see.

00:34:07.840 Even though.

00:34:08.380 I bet.

00:34:09.040 So it's sort of like, it's like, whatever.

00:34:12.340 But the point is, if someone, if I rolled off a hundred of my little ideas and solutions

00:34:17.880 and this person knows the catalogs

00:34:20.400 or goes, well, I actually know

00:34:22.420 a lot about, you know, pet

00:34:24.180 products.

00:34:26.800 Okay. I got

00:34:28.360 a few of those.

00:34:29.780 Like, I know that market, whatever.

00:34:32.840 I just think there's someone who could

00:34:34.420 and, you know, could

00:34:35.340 take percentage. We'll maximize

00:34:38.220 Poog first and then we'll start filming

00:34:40.280 Poog in person

00:34:41.160 and then you can enter the

00:34:43.620 pet invention industry.

00:34:46.120 Rich role. Rich role.

00:34:47.880 They're, like, in blackness with, like, two, like, green neon chairs, you know, like, floating.

00:34:54.700 That sounds cool.

00:34:57.120 Oh, I wonder.

00:34:58.080 Do you know implicitly?

00:34:59.200 Do you understand sun, moon, earth?

00:35:02.060 You know what's revolving around what?

00:35:03.540 You just have that down?

00:35:06.480 Because I encountered some real confusion in myself.

00:35:10.460 Not in the way.

00:35:12.160 Like, I think, okay, I think a lot of people, I don't know this, okay, for sure.

00:35:16.480 but I think there's a lot of people out there who could produce the correct

00:35:19.080 answers and not actually be able to visualize it.

00:35:21.860 Okay.

00:35:21.960 Can I try and you tell me if I'm right?

00:35:23.320 Cause I really don't know.

00:35:25.440 Okay.

00:35:25.840 Well,

00:35:26.060 it takes me a second cause I picture it.

00:35:28.460 Okay.

00:35:28.600 Hang on.

00:35:29.320 So in my,

00:35:30.260 and I,

00:35:30.620 and this is really vulnerable cause I might be way off.

00:35:33.120 No,

00:35:33.380 I know.

00:35:33.700 And you can cut it if you hate it.

00:35:35.500 Okay.

00:35:36.080 Let me just try.

00:35:36.760 I'm going to try to.

00:35:37.560 I'm going to try.

00:35:38.180 Hang on.

00:35:38.540 Sun.

00:35:39.120 Okay.

00:35:39.340 Hold on.

00:35:40.040 So let's start with the sun.

00:35:41.200 Okay.

00:35:41.800 Let's each do our individual.

00:35:43.920 Yeah.

00:35:44.500 Okay.

00:35:44.700 Hang on.

00:35:45.080 Hang on.

00:35:45.360 All right.

00:35:46.480 I'm saying start with the sun.

00:35:47.660 Okay, but I don't know why I said that.

00:35:49.360 Okay.

00:35:49.720 Actually, I do know why, but we'll talk about it after.

00:35:53.900 Okay. 1.00

00:35:55.020 Oh, fuck. 1.00

00:35:55.760 I'm already lost again. 1.00

00:35:57.860 And I think this also shows how confused I am.

00:36:03.540 Okay.

00:36:05.260 And then...

00:36:07.100 Okay, wait.

00:36:10.200 This is going to be fun.

00:36:11.000 What I thought was, this is the sun, right?

00:36:14.320 Wait, wait, wait.

00:36:14.900 It's blurry.

00:36:15.520 Hold on.

00:36:15.840 hold on don't move okay yeah okay sun here's earth yeah uh-huh moon and where's it going

00:36:23.080 goes around the earth no wait you said earth earth oh moon goes around the earth sorry you

00:36:28.640 broke up okay okay am i correct here sun moon here's earth moon goes around the earth and then 0.97

00:36:34.120 the and then the earth and the moon are traveling around the sun yes fuck yeah i got it wait i'm

00:36:41.480 pretty sure i mean but but i think instead of thinking of it as like the moon and the earth 0.59

00:36:46.100 going around the sun it's more like the earth goes around the sun and the moon goes around the earth

00:36:53.140 you know what i mean yeah it's the same thing it's the same thing in the way your mind's working okay

00:36:59.040 because here's what i got confused i didn't draw the i was like sun yeah and then earth and that

00:37:06.660 goes around that and then earth oh oh don't forget see this is this is the thing don't forget the

00:37:12.900 earth is rotating because here's the thing daily see see and this is what's crazy because i constantly

00:37:18.720 go and you feel it when you're driving right the moon follows you always moving around that guy is

00:37:25.360 constantly moving in a way that i almost don't understand yeah like i was looking out my window

00:37:30.520 gorgeous full moon I went oh my god then I got excited I went does this mean when the moon is

00:37:37.360 full I'll always see it here well the full moon always not a bad question thank you okay will

00:37:44.260 the moon always be full so is it like we got a great great view of the full moon out the front

00:37:48.780 window do you know what I'm saying right or it's gonna be in the backyard one day no right right

00:37:54.320 right or is that where the full moon lives

00:37:56.540 it's great

00:37:56.980 so like

00:38:00.520 to be clear my instinct

00:38:02.760 is like there's a lot of

00:38:04.700 variables and so it's going to show up in different places

00:38:06.720 okay like it's not

00:38:08.380 that's my instinct now if I really

00:38:10.520 go for it and try to figure out that question

00:38:12.520 right you know

00:38:14.020 like I'm like is it always

00:38:16.740 there and

00:38:18.020 like I don't know okay I

00:38:20.460 so just I don't know right

00:38:22.440 I can't answer it I'm confused okay

00:38:23.960 Now, and by the way, like, I will defend at all costs the fact that it's confusing when all motion is relative here.

00:38:36.460 You know what I'm saying?

00:38:37.120 Yeah.

00:38:37.360 Oh, yeah. 0.57

00:38:37.780 So, it's like, it's all fucking moving. 0.92

00:38:40.160 So, there's that. 0.89

00:38:43.200 But remember you discovered, there was something you discovered on Pooh, we were talking about, like, oh, that the moon rises and falls?

00:38:53.960 well there's that

00:38:56.460 sounds familiar

00:38:57.040 right

00:38:57.320 I always get confused

00:38:59.400 I mean the fact

00:39:00.360 because I forget

00:39:01.020 but I think

00:39:01.700 the moon has no atmosphere

00:39:03.080 right

00:39:04.520 what

00:39:05.480 so when they're standing

00:39:06.780 on the moon

00:39:07.400 oh you mean

00:39:07.920 it looks like

00:39:08.420 they're standing on a rock in space

00:39:09.920 I think

00:39:10.560 that's what those photos look like

00:39:12.580 god they look cool

00:39:13.540 yeah

00:39:14.180 still seems a little unlikely

00:39:15.300 you gotta think about that

00:39:15.840 yeah

00:39:16.080 so like

00:39:17.400 the atmosphere is really

00:39:20.540 kind of tricking us here

00:39:23.520 See what I'm saying?

00:39:26.280 Wait.

00:39:27.480 Help me.

00:39:29.060 Let me just double check that the moon has no atmosphere.

00:39:33.320 By atmosphere, you're talking about gas?

00:39:34.900 I'm talking about ambiance.

00:39:37.820 You're talking about good lighting.

00:39:39.100 Yeah, yeah.

00:39:41.880 Yeah, okay.

00:39:43.220 Oh, right, right, right.

00:39:44.320 So you know how the moon has less gravity?

00:39:46.660 That's why they're bouncing around.

00:39:48.240 Yeah, yeah.

00:39:48.680 So Earth has more gravity because it's a bigger object.

00:39:51.980 That's the whole thing

00:39:53.540 That's why we age

00:39:54.680 Yeah

00:39:55.640 Do you age on the moon?

00:39:58.600 So

00:39:58.860 God

00:39:59.960 Here we go

00:40:00.960 Back to Interstellar

00:40:02.360 So

00:40:04.080 I'll never forget

00:40:05.180 Yeah

00:40:05.840 When he realizes

00:40:07.480 That his kids are old

00:40:09.040 Because he was gone for like a day

00:40:11.660 But it meant he was gone for 50 years

00:40:13.500 I'm confused because they knew that in 19

00:40:14.780 It wasn't that long

00:40:15.640 Like

00:40:16.160 It really is all happening at once

00:40:19.100 Einstein

00:40:19.540 Wait when

00:40:20.420 Oh no

00:40:21.300 I guess that took place in.

00:40:22.560 I need to find this book.

00:40:24.120 Sorry,

00:40:24.520 the ADD is blasting today.

00:40:25.940 I need to find this physics book that I read years ago that changed my life.

00:40:31.280 And of course I don't,

00:40:32.020 it's like,

00:40:32.380 you would love it.

00:40:32.920 You would die.

00:40:33.400 It's,

00:40:33.660 it's such a small book.

00:40:34.480 It's like seven lessons on physics.

00:40:36.540 It's like written in Italian. 0.95

00:40:37.720 It's an Italian guy. 1.00

00:40:38.960 It fucking rules. 1.00

00:40:40.120 I remember reading out on the beach, 1.00

00:40:41.640 tears streaming down my face,

00:40:43.800 grasping basic physics.

00:40:46.320 No. 0.98

00:40:47.420 He makes it so fucking clear. 0.98

00:40:50.060 Yes. 0.92

00:40:50.360 and it was like the it was pure poetry talking about i understood the connection between

00:40:56.140 temperature and time i was like soaring oh like i need to go back reading reading mandatory

00:41:02.500 mandatory reading mandatory phone band two liters of water a day reapplying sunscreen 0.92

00:41:08.420 yeah which i don't do book by the way i was experiencing so much i was feeling so fucking 0.89

00:41:14.160 tired and then i realized you're not drinking water and i hate i hate saying it because when 0.89

00:41:19.360 you when you're not drinking water you don't want to yeah well literally just water not feeling

00:41:25.460 better with water says five things a day healthful drinks a day so i mean i'm getting my hibiscus

00:41:32.040 obviously um i'm thinking of adding i have a question how long can the hibiscus be soaking

00:41:38.420 before you have to like throw it out like does it get bad or can i have it for days soaking

00:41:42.020 huge question well first of all you better be finishing that court within the day because you

00:41:46.760 want three a day spaced out i'm just saying i forgot like i made up so is it good today

00:41:52.480 no clue and i too am paralyzed by like some of the lack of information really yeah like what's

00:42:00.660 it's got to be fine i'm not sure i mean but like is a dry flower rotting in water

00:42:05.840 i'm all over no it's dry is a dry flower rotting in water rotting in water or

00:42:12.400 is it just

00:42:14.380 let me just try this

00:42:15.520 you know

00:42:15.960 can

00:42:16.520 loose

00:42:17.620 leaf

00:42:18.660 it's not

00:42:20.360 can loose leaf

00:42:21.100 see these are the questions

00:42:22.240 that exhaust me right

00:42:23.280 yeah

00:42:23.580 it's not that

00:42:24.240 can loose leaf tea

00:42:25.100 go bad

00:42:25.840 okay

00:42:26.520 it's

00:42:27.700 can

00:42:28.480 like when you have to google

00:42:29.920 and it's like

00:42:30.540 you know

00:42:31.240 it's like

00:42:31.940 these linguistic challenges

00:42:33.520 like

00:42:34.680 soaked

00:42:36.960 you know

00:42:38.480 tea

00:42:39.260 yeah

00:42:42.400 sometimes I have to do the thing 1.00

00:42:46.940 where I pretend I'm like the idiot 1.00

00:42:48.640 you know how 1.00

00:42:50.480 people write in

00:42:52.280 you see it at least people also ask

00:42:55.180 and it's like they write these full sentences

00:42:57.180 into Google

00:42:57.780 I just did blah blah blah

00:43:00.860 and blah blah blah right

00:43:01.780 sometimes it helps

00:43:03.440 to get straight to the reddit

00:43:07.140 if you write in

00:43:08.120 I cold brewed

00:43:10.460 hibiscus three days ago.

00:43:14.060 Can I drink it?

00:43:14.760 Yeah.

00:43:15.220 Yeah.

00:43:16.700 My colonis is...

00:43:18.200 Wait, this is huge.

00:43:18.860 Okay, I got a cold-brewed tea and forgot.

00:43:20.760 As you're searching.

00:43:21.780 And then there you go.

00:43:22.740 Oh.

00:43:22.980 If you forget and leave the tea bags

00:43:24.280 and iced tea for several days.

00:43:26.240 Yeah, what does it say?

00:43:26.740 What does it say?

00:43:28.080 I'm just seeing which one's the best

00:43:29.460 because overnight tea,

00:43:30.580 the good, the bad, and the ugly.

00:43:32.480 Cold-brewed tea can be kept for a longer time.

00:43:36.080 Wait, while you're searching...

00:43:37.500 Found the answer?

00:43:38.380 Have you read...

00:43:39.140 No, I'm breaking with...

00:43:40.440 a new topic. Have you read

00:43:42.280 Journey of Souls?

00:43:43.920 Because my colonicist gave it to me.

00:43:46.500 No, right. I was looking at that and I

00:43:48.300 was... Because to say no,

00:43:50.320 it would be horrifying to me.

00:43:52.160 Because I've obviously...

00:43:53.940 I read all of Monroe's

00:43:56.660 works. I haven't read any of these

00:43:58.420 kinds of books. And Many Lives,

00:44:00.440 Many Masters, Brian L. Weiss'

00:44:02.720 works. Classic. I've meant

00:44:04.380 to. Yeah, you've meant to for nine

00:44:06.260 years. For nine years. You'll instantly...

00:44:08.280 I own it. I actually

00:44:10.160 You'll instantly realize that...

00:44:12.940 I'm going to microdose flow dose again.

00:44:16.820 Go to outer space.

00:44:18.560 Read many lives, many masters.

00:44:21.040 Actually, I'm curious.

00:44:22.020 I'm going to write in psilocybin

00:44:24.420 and I'm going to try astral projection

00:44:26.860 and see if there's any benefits.

00:44:28.320 Because once you start leaving the body...

00:44:30.360 Okay?

00:44:31.600 Once you start leaving the body...

00:44:34.080 You start getting in trouble.

00:44:35.320 You have to buy silver cord, of course.

00:44:36.560 can you get into this

00:44:39.800 other realm where

00:44:41.400 psychedelics and out of body experience

00:44:43.920 and then

00:44:46.100 but let me just look at Journey of Souls

00:44:48.220 but this guy Robert

00:44:49.460 I think his name was Robert Monroe

00:44:51.000 after a projection

00:44:52.900 oh right

00:44:55.340 he was Journeys Out of the Body

00:44:56.620 and you know

00:44:58.300 I die for it

00:44:59.820 wait I can't find you

00:45:00.560 you're in a tab somewhere

00:45:01.920 Trapped in a tab

00:45:05.100 if you can imagine

00:45:05.940 isn't that interesting

00:45:06.800 you think about the universe

00:45:08.380 some stuff's trapped

00:45:09.480 in a tab somewhere

00:45:10.400 all reality is

00:45:12.660 happening at once

00:45:13.660 there's a tab

00:45:14.480 happening somewhere else

00:45:15.440 where you

00:45:16.040 have a different life 1.00

00:45:17.940 I'm fucking 1.00

00:45:19.940 saying stupid shit 1.00

00:45:21.240 cut me off 1.00

00:45:22.100 but Robert Monroe

00:45:25.020 this is like the only

00:45:26.220 like

00:45:26.700 way I can

00:45:28.440 like

00:45:28.860 force myself into

00:45:30.440 sort of

00:45:31.740 relaxation exercise

00:45:33.580 like

00:45:33.900 is to be like

00:45:35.640 to like be like maybe i'll astral project i mean we talked about this like day one of poog like

00:45:43.440 this has been one of my goals for a long time now you got to be careful where you're trying to go

00:45:46.700 some you know you don't want to be in there's kind of the astral plane that's sort of just

00:45:50.400 you know unsavory characters and kind of not the highest energies yeah you got to get make sure you

00:45:57.060 blast up among the angels yeah for sure that checks out um but his book like i just love

00:46:04.220 the stories of normal person normal life and then something happened those are also some of

00:46:09.100 the most terrifying stories you'll ever encounter we've talked about we talked about mary steenburgen

00:46:14.420 right no okay i mean jacqueline jacqueline jacqueline jacqueline jacqueline jacqueline

00:46:19.520 jacqueline jacqueline jacqueline listen to this you're not i i can't if i get to break this to

00:46:25.680 you mary steenburgen beloved actress she's fine by the way sorry i just want to say okay

00:46:33.220 she's fine sorry I'm so sorry I'm so sorry I look so scared listen she's fine she I mean by the way

00:46:41.380 I'll look up the story later so it might be slightly butchered but here's the general what

00:46:44.660 it is yeah she had surgery I think it was like knee it was something not crazy but she had to 0.97

00:46:49.640 be put under she comes out the woman can out of nowhere speak a different language she's hearing

00:46:56.840 music she's seeing music she's like I can understand music now she's writing she has a 0.96

00:47:01.760 fucking second career as a quite prolific composer she came out of surgery and she described it she

00:47:08.580 was like i can't describe it i could just see the notes in the air i could hear them i could feel 0.98

00:47:12.020 them like music was all around me she just out of coming from i believe she had no previous previous 0.95

00:47:17.020 music experience she came out of it and she could fucking compose compose music look it up folks 0.99

00:47:25.840 she has another career now she's composed and they're like she has like a fucking grammy or 0.98

00:47:31.060 something from like composing or something the unthinkable has happened i'm speechless yeah yeah 0.91

00:47:35.820 yeah okay i don't know if people understand this is okay i sit down i've since i was a child okay

00:47:42.780 okay i sit down at the piano and try to let previous lives knowledge in where maybe i exactly

00:47:49.640 exactly okay i do this all the time okay i sit there and i go you know you know how to play yeah

00:47:54.920 totally okay and i mean i can play a little but you know what i mean yes of course

00:48:00.020 can you believe

00:48:01.900 what I'm telling you

00:48:02.920 she's speechless guys

00:48:05.740 yeah

00:48:06.580 no I just

00:48:08.840 I just

00:48:09.420 I mean I read these things

00:48:10.740 and they're the very stuff

00:48:12.720 that gets me out of bed

00:48:13.760 in the morning

00:48:14.180 okay

00:48:14.600 and I mean

00:48:16.360 that one

00:48:17.300 yeah

00:48:17.620 like I enjoy

00:48:18.820 almost like paranormal

00:48:20.420 for paranormal sake

00:48:21.440 like

00:48:21.800 that is

00:48:23.720 I know

00:48:26.300 I know

00:48:28.440 I mean

00:48:30.240 I've never seen her like this

00:48:31.440 yeah

00:48:31.860 I'm like

00:48:37.220 well the stuff about

00:48:39.360 the sort of

00:48:40.200 beautiful

00:48:42.700 strange

00:48:44.860 spiritual

00:48:45.540 happenings

00:48:47.620 you know

00:48:48.540 in the hospital setting

00:48:49.620 are

00:48:50.340 another favorite

00:48:51.700 another pet topic for me

00:48:53.300 what angels running

00:48:54.680 in the halls

00:48:55.180 of hospital screaming

00:48:56.120 yes

00:48:56.380 yeah

00:48:57.020 Yeah. And the, you know, there's all sorts of shit. People see all sorts of things when the veil is thin. 1.00

00:49:27.020 1895, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune.

00:49:30.480 It was hard to wrap your head around.

00:49:31.800 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

00:49:35.440 No, I am not your guru.

00:49:39.220 And back then, I lied to my parents.

00:49:41.840 I lied to police.

00:49:43.120 I lied to everybody.

00:49:44.100 There were years, right, where I could not say your name.

00:49:47.060 I've decided to go back to my hometown in Northern California,

00:49:49.760 interview my friends, family, talk to police, journalists,

00:49:52.440 whomever I can to try to find out what actually happened.

00:49:55.780 Isn't it a little bit weird that they obsess over hippies in the woods and not the obvious boyfriend?

00:50:00.520 They have had this case for 30 years. 0.95

00:50:03.440 I'll teach you sons of a** to come around here and my wife. 0.90

00:50:06.460 Boom, boom. 0.97

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00:52:44.780 we talked about the good doctor right a terrifying movie that's unbelievable the good nurse

00:52:53.220 we talked about it right yeah of course okay extensively past no i say because we we raved 0.99

00:52:59.960 and raved but i'll i'll say yeah eddie in that over the big opening credits i go he's a fucking 0.61

00:53:07.260 master yeah this guy anderson's acting yeah he's made he's done some wild stuff we'll leave it at 0.96

00:53:13.320 that but damn sure and i mean can you blame an actor for getting a little caught up and being

00:53:19.720 an actor never would i ever blame an actor for being an actor for all of it it's like truck and 0.61

00:53:25.740 like what are you supposed to just have a i always wanted to do a campaign spotless rec like

00:53:31.100 what about a shirt that says believe actors i always thought that was interesting but no one's

00:53:36.240 ever responded to it no i mean it's it's very funny but i think by the way you know why it's

00:53:41.960 bad right you know why it's oh bully victims it seems like i'm making a joke on that but i'm not

00:53:48.240 yeah right right no i'm literally talking about actors yeah it's not a reaction so so it's so

00:53:53.180 it's like the yeah it's right right of course it seems like i'm yeah you need you we want that

00:53:59.100 same language or a different language to express that same thing it would be like

00:54:03.020 it would almost be like have you listened to an actress today trust actors or like trust actors

00:54:08.740 yeah actors are real yeah why don't you yeah yeah actors are real is good actors are real is good

00:54:14.920 actors are real actors are real ours underlined yeah um um by the way we have had requests and i

00:54:24.600 think it's brilliant for torn basil merch oh yeah torn basil restaurant remember come on we're

00:54:30.020 leaving millions on the table with that one millions not to mention the torn the inevitable

00:54:34.120 Torn Basil pop-up in 2027

00:54:36.040 once we get the podcast figured out.

00:54:38.980 Torn Basil.

00:54:40.980 Okay.

00:54:43.100 A lot of people,

00:54:44.380 by the way,

00:54:45.460 are confused.

00:54:47.240 And we'll talk about it

00:54:48.180 for understandable reason.

00:54:50.080 In the press,

00:54:51.840 Kate Berlant and I,

00:54:53.860 Jacqueline Novak,

00:54:54.700 spell poo,

00:54:55.440 capital P,

00:54:56.560 lowercase O-O-G.

00:54:58.220 Yeah.

00:54:58.940 Now, people are confused

00:55:00.280 because the logo

00:55:01.220 is capitalized.

00:55:02.540 is, well, it's not even technically

00:55:05.380 capitalized. It's an infinity

00:55:07.440 sign.

00:55:09.500 That's right. 0.75

00:55:11.140 There actually aren't two O's in POOG. 0.72

00:55:13.140 Exactly. There's infinity in POOG.

00:55:15.040 It's POG.

00:55:16.840 Okay. So then you have that

00:55:19.100 and then because people will say it's

00:55:21.200 goop backwards and goop is, of course,

00:55:23.160 all caps.

00:55:24.860 So I think people... Goop's all

00:55:27.180 caps. Really?

00:55:29.520 Mm-hmm. Yeah.

00:55:31.240 So people are... I think so.

00:55:32.540 What's all lowercase?

00:55:35.260 Goop

00:55:35.480 Oh, okay, interesting

00:55:35.960 Okay, okay, great

00:55:37.220 We've been corrected

00:55:39.200 Breaking news

00:55:40.040 It is all lowercase

00:55:41.540 It is not all uppercase

00:55:42.760 However, in the article I read about us

00:55:44.940 Okay

00:55:45.400 Or whatever

00:55:46.160 Yeah

00:55:46.560 The many articles

00:55:47.840 They kept all caps, both

00:55:49.200 Now, but Robert Monroe

00:55:51.440 I just want to say

00:55:52.320 Who's that, a food guy?

00:55:53.160 Laid down on his couch

00:55:54.200 Oh, that's the soul guy?

00:55:55.240 No

00:55:55.400 Yeah

00:55:56.260 Laid down on his couch

00:55:57.960 For a nap

00:55:59.280 I believe it was Sunday afternoon

00:56:00.940 and suddenly felt his entire body vibrating

00:56:04.720 and this vibration moving up and down

00:56:06.740 and up and down from bottom of the toes

00:56:08.900 to the top of the hip, et cetera, et cetera.

00:56:10.960 And out he goes.

00:56:13.100 Out he goes where?

00:56:15.940 Out of his body.

00:56:17.440 Oh, where does he go? 0.88

00:56:18.460 Flying around wherever he damn well pleases. 0.85

00:56:21.260 Okay.

00:56:21.680 Miami at dawn, baby.

00:56:23.340 Straight there.

00:56:24.920 And then you go up.

00:56:26.060 A lot of them, they zip up into space.

00:56:28.200 i mean do you have the dreams where you're flying above the city and navigating it oh my god oh my

00:56:34.900 god flying up and down oh my god something amazing last night as i was falling asleep

00:56:39.820 it's coming see i've been way off my dream i also told myself i don't deserve therapy till i learned

00:56:44.920 how to submit the super bill i told you this i had add freeze yesterday on the phone for 45 minutes

00:56:49.980 still she goes i know it's really hard she was like they make it really hard um anyway so but

00:56:55.600 I'm not scheduling a new appointment until I get the super bill,

00:56:59.160 but until I figure out how to submit it and whatever.

00:57:01.980 The point is, I've been off my dream stuff.

00:57:05.220 Last night, Jacqueline, I'm drifting off.

00:57:07.740 I completely forgot about this.

00:57:09.520 And you know what every now and then that happens?

00:57:11.460 Have you had that where you're in some mid space between waking and sleeping

00:57:16.720 and on the back of your eyes, you see full faces, people, like a scene unfolding?

00:57:22.140 Do you have that?

00:57:23.400 You have that?

00:57:24.220 well my dad used to talk about having that oh my god i'm seeing yeah no but i'm seeing and i'm

00:57:29.800 going deeper i'm seeing as though my eyes are open and i'm seeing but it's always black and

00:57:33.700 white like negative like a negative okay that's very interesting yeah it's a negative and i'm

00:57:38.060 seeing people i don't know and i'm seeing faces and i as i was falling asleep i went oh right like

00:57:44.660 and i i was lucid enough to go like of course like this is this is that thing i always do

00:57:50.480 Huh?

00:57:51.440 Sorry.

00:57:52.440 You know what?

00:57:52.800 No, I was interrupting going, are you recognizing, oh, right, this, like, this is a thing I do?

00:57:56.700 No, no, I was recognizing, I knew, like, oh, I've done this, but I was like, oh, right, this is, like, I knew that I was seeing, like, the universe or something.

00:58:06.340 I don't know how to describe it.

00:58:07.560 And I was like, oh, these are people.

00:58:09.020 Like, I was like, oh, right, it's that dense with stuff, with, like, faces and objects and things turning into other things.

00:58:17.240 Like, it's very, and then I'm asleep, and it's over.

00:58:19.000 Right, when it's dense, not blurry.

00:58:19.560 when it's or like when it's um yeah when it's when there's when it's more detail than like

00:58:25.200 right now if I just picture vaguely like a room and people in it like I have to actively populate

00:58:31.580 it with details or they're not there or it's kind of impressionistic right like if I'm just

00:58:36.680 like people in a restaurant like what does your brain do right so it's like so when I'm when my

00:58:41.140 eyes are closed and I'm like suddenly like in that stage and suddenly I'm seeing like clearly

00:58:45.920 a movie I'm like oh my god

00:58:48.880 like how is it feels like it's not

00:58:50.960 your own brain exactly

00:58:52.560 because

00:58:53.880 how am I producing

00:58:56.080 and receiving

00:58:58.500 the information

00:59:00.040 simultaneously

00:59:01.300 I don't be like how

00:59:04.220 so it feels like no I'm

00:59:06.480 perceiving something

00:59:07.380 but maybe you're remote

00:59:10.460 viewing I mean it could be all sorts of things

00:59:12.700 putting a name on it's a little

00:59:14.280 Which I love as a term.

00:59:15.720 I've never heard that in this context.

00:59:18.440 It feels like that.

00:59:19.340 Well, yeah.

00:59:19.600 Because it feels like I'm watching something unfold.

00:59:23.060 Some people think that as for projection,

00:59:28.180 like some people are like, it's remote viewing.

00:59:31.140 Like, no, it sort of becomes like it's just like remote viewing is,

00:59:35.820 you know, and they had like the men who stare at goats.

00:59:38.040 Remember that movie?

00:59:38.880 It was like back in the day they were trying to.

00:59:40.720 Oh, yeah.

00:59:42.180 Wait, what is that?

00:59:42.820 Like it was.

00:59:44.280 In war, Kate, in war, they were training people in remote viewing.

00:59:48.900 Like, they basically were like, hell yeah.

00:59:50.720 I'll look it up really quick.

00:59:52.960 I mean, that's, yeah, I mean. 0.95

00:59:56.160 To see, like, where the weapons are or whatever the fuck? 0.97

00:59:59.360 Yeah, so, yeah, a unit of psychic soldiers who've been, this is what the movie is, can walk through walls and kill goats by fixed gazes. 0.96

01:00:09.960 um but the real true story non-fiction book concerning the u.s army's exploration of new

01:00:21.820 age concepts and the potential military applications of the paranormal refers to

01:00:26.460 the attempts to kill goats by staring at them and stopping their hearts so okay remote viewing yeah 0.99

01:00:32.320 sit there meditate um and you know view the shit behind the wall whatever okay yeah 0.99

01:00:39.940 But some people talk about that, 0.99

01:00:42.840 but then the other people who talk about astral projection

01:00:44.880 are like experiencing an astral body usually.

01:00:47.880 Like they leave their body, they look down,

01:00:50.580 they see themselves, and a lot of times there's a silver cord

01:00:53.000 connecting the astral body and the physical body.

01:00:58.980 And the silver cord stretches the farther they go.

01:01:02.620 It gets thinner.

01:01:04.520 I'm down.

01:01:05.480 But if you get lost, you got to just pull your way back via the cord.

01:01:09.320 And then you're right back in bed?

01:01:10.560 Yeah.

01:01:11.180 A lot of them describe it as a slamming.

01:01:13.340 I read like 15 books on astral projection in a row.

01:01:15.900 Slamming back into bed?

01:01:17.200 Yeah.

01:01:18.720 Boom. 0.99

01:01:20.520 But I really got to get my shit together. 0.99

01:01:24.000 I mean, I want to do it so bad. 0.59

01:01:26.240 But anyway, so some people say that astral projection is just remote viewing.

01:01:30.880 Now you go, what's the difference?

01:01:33.180 One is a perception of, you know, it's like, oh, you're just projecting.

01:01:38.780 I don't know. It's too annoying. It's too annoying. It's too annoying. I'm sorry to describe,

01:01:43.020 but whatever. It's interesting. Okay. Wow.

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01:02:03.180 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Trainor, disappeared from a commune.

01:02:07.100 It was hard to wrap your head around. It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

01:02:12.180 No, I am not your guru.

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01:05:26.600 So I'm looking at a kabocha squash I have on my counter.

01:05:29.380 Thoughts?

01:05:29.860 Okay, so are you wondering about the benefits of kabocha?

01:05:32.340 No, I'm thinking I should.

01:05:33.260 Oh, you're thinking you mean the boja sweet. 0.90

01:05:35.200 No, what's that? 1.00

01:05:35.920 Oh, no, actually.

01:05:36.860 I just was thinking like, have you been into kabocha squash? 1.00

01:05:41.640 You did what I did because of the chuh. 1.00

01:05:43.720 I've never cooked it in my home. 1.00

01:05:45.120 Chuh.

01:05:45.520 I've never cooked it in my home.

01:05:46.460 Well, what about squash delicata?

01:05:48.180 Delicious.

01:05:49.320 Because?

01:05:50.500 By the way, it's summer.

01:05:51.300 Obviously, these are not seasonal items.

01:05:53.580 What about all the articles that are like, trying to get rid of your summer squash?

01:05:58.740 because you know

01:05:59.680 like zucchini grows

01:06:00.560 like rabbits

01:06:01.900 oh yeah

01:06:02.280 right

01:06:03.200 um

01:06:04.060 what a problem to have

01:06:05.760 squash infestation

01:06:08.340 been dreaming of

01:06:09.360 saw a couple ants

01:06:10.280 in the other room

01:06:11.020 never good

01:06:11.780 yeah

01:06:12.780 don't worry

01:06:13.560 I'm not really worried

01:06:14.840 make no grand assumption

01:06:16.120 11 ants

01:06:17.040 we're fine

01:06:17.520 you gotta

01:06:18.800 you gotta just

01:06:19.560 connect

01:06:20.020 you gotta be part of nature

01:06:21.040 summer

01:06:21.600 they're hot

01:06:22.280 yeah indoor-outdoor

01:06:23.080 it is crazy

01:06:24.600 indoor-outdoor lifestyle

01:06:25.860 it's crazy

01:06:26.540 you turn the hose on

01:06:27.260 the ants go crazy

01:06:28.000 it's like

01:06:28.360 oh they're dying of thirst

01:06:29.700 they just want water

01:06:30.880 oh really

01:06:31.160 they come out dancing

01:06:32.140 screaming

01:06:32.600 they want water

01:06:33.400 ew

01:06:33.580 yeah

01:06:34.480 they do

01:06:34.860 oh my god

01:06:36.140 they don't know how to find it

01:06:36.560 in the soil

01:06:37.060 turn it on the hose

01:06:38.360 you know

01:06:39.440 because I'm figuring out

01:06:40.540 you know

01:06:40.760 letting the grass die

01:06:41.720 I'm going to do native plants

01:06:42.720 all of that

01:06:43.400 right

01:06:44.320 it's kind of sad

01:06:44.960 letting grass

01:06:45.420 even though it's like

01:06:46.060 you know

01:06:46.260 it's for the best

01:06:46.900 just watching someone

01:06:47.780 that was alive die

01:06:48.800 just doesn't sit right with me

01:06:50.260 but um

01:06:51.620 life cycle

01:06:52.600 yeah

01:06:53.160 just completely

01:06:53.740 just beat it in

01:06:55.540 that it only

01:06:56.320 it only transforms

01:06:57.980 This decay just feeds the soil and produces the new,

01:07:01.680 although you'll be covering it with cacti.

01:07:05.680 It's not going to be cacti.

01:07:06.920 Oh, yeah, I know.

01:07:07.500 It's going to be a low-water star grass or whatever.

01:07:10.920 Yeah, we're going to do some carbon stars maybe,

01:07:13.040 but then also, yeah, again.

01:07:13.880 You know what I ordered?

01:07:15.240 I'm struggling because I'm deciding, again,

01:07:17.640 if I'm a night worker for real.

01:07:19.340 I almost want to go back to creative work at night.

01:07:23.020 I have a friend like that.

01:07:24.060 He's like, I can't really start until like six.

01:07:26.120 Yeah.

01:07:26.380 And like

01:07:27.340 Prolific

01:07:27.940 I kind of

01:07:29.440 Generator

01:07:29.860 That might be

01:07:31.400 The truth for me

01:07:32.580 Because there's a settling down

01:07:34.700 Of the mind

01:07:35.280 It's ADD

01:07:36.400 When tired

01:07:37.000 You do better

01:07:37.600 The whole thing

01:07:38.300 During the day

01:07:39.760 I'm like

01:07:40.240 It's like

01:07:41.780 I'm too alive

01:07:42.860 Yeah

01:07:43.260 I don't know

01:07:43.660 Makes sense

01:07:44.280 So I'm just thinking

01:07:44.960 During the day

01:07:45.480 Should just be rabid 0.94

01:07:46.700 Sort of psychotic 0.98

01:07:48.260 Hanging out with me

01:07:49.900 Yeah

01:07:50.560 And then at night

01:07:51.500 Okay

01:07:51.820 Settle in 0.79

01:07:52.700 But the mosquitoes

01:07:54.520 At

01:07:55.340 twilight oh it's a real issue

01:07:57.920 have been coming out

01:07:59.060 so I ordered a net

01:08:01.320 okay because just as I'm

01:08:03.880 getting started out there at this lovely hour

01:08:05.960 out they come I see one

01:08:08.080 a light on my ankle

01:08:09.860 you know and it's like

01:08:11.780 and so I ordered one of those

01:08:13.600 those nets that hangs from above

01:08:15.680 and I'm going to drape it I'm getting my outdoor

01:08:17.760 desk going again on the patio

01:08:19.340 dragged my kitchen table out there

01:08:21.820 and then have 0.92

01:08:23.860 the net over it

01:08:24.740 and the net is going

01:08:25.780 to go over it

01:08:26.340 and I'm going to sit there

01:08:27.080 and I'm also thinking

01:08:28.120 of getting some kind

01:08:28.820 of fire feature

01:08:29.600 you know

01:08:30.520 like a little tabletop

01:08:31.620 little glass

01:08:33.080 rectangle

01:08:34.000 with nine stones

01:08:35.100 in it

01:08:35.520 and flames

01:08:36.100 oh wow

01:08:36.680 you mean actual flames

01:08:37.780 yeah

01:08:38.480 your desk is a fire pit

01:08:40.100 you know what I'm talking about

01:08:40.120 right

01:08:40.380 they're like tabletop 0.93

01:08:42.160 but yeah

01:08:43.080 the spirit is

01:08:44.320 I don't think

01:08:47.740 I could pull off

01:08:48.780 well actually

01:08:49.480 some of the neighbors do

01:08:51.300 I was like

01:08:51.840 fire

01:08:52.680 they do it

01:08:53.680 and I enjoy it on Friday night

01:08:54.900 so I smell it.

01:08:57.760 I can't believe.

01:08:59.220 Anyway, I'm really excited

01:09:00.200 about my mosquito net.

01:09:01.980 Send us a picture of the setup.

01:09:04.760 Out there sipping hibiscus.

01:09:10.680 Just think if there's any begging

01:09:12.080 you want to do.

01:09:13.740 Like any distinct begging.

01:09:16.040 I mean, listen.

01:09:16.800 I am looking for an Instapot.

01:09:19.280 That's real.

01:09:19.980 I know we brought it up before

01:09:20.680 but I'm serious.

01:09:21.700 We want that.

01:09:22.300 I have to say

01:09:23.100 every week that passes

01:09:24.260 I go

01:09:24.680 do I cave

01:09:26.140 do I buy the Pure Lift

01:09:27.140 where are you Pure Lift

01:09:28.700 they are some of the

01:09:30.620 they are tough to get on the phone

01:09:32.540 tight wads

01:09:33.200 of the industry

01:09:34.800 so far

01:09:35.620 I need them

01:09:36.580 I mean

01:09:36.920 Sturm caved before they did

01:09:38.460 cough us up

01:09:39.960 a couple pros

01:09:41.540 please

01:09:42.780 yeah

01:09:43.280 I'll settle for a discount

01:09:45.600 did I tell you I got started

01:09:46.680 oh how is it

01:09:48.460 look at that big mouth

01:09:49.700 wow

01:09:50.540 show us what you're doing

01:09:51.500 with the Nira

01:09:51.920 I hear it

01:09:55.580 and what's it doing Jacqueline

01:10:00.760 yeah I'm working the neck

01:10:02.480 what's it doing

01:10:03.600 you mean what am I feeling or what is it doing

01:10:07.000 oh what's it doing

01:10:07.860 look at her

01:10:08.940 look at her

01:10:12.780 something about

01:10:16.020 you don't know what it's doing

01:10:17.460 what do you mean

01:10:18.500 It's

01:10:19.660 Lasering the skin

01:10:22.560 Stimulating new collagen or whatever

01:10:25.160 I love that

01:10:26.080 Gotta stimulate collagen

01:10:27.920 I'm back on

01:10:28.780 Back on gua sha

01:10:31.160 Fell way off 0.99

01:10:33.820 I

01:10:34.140 I'm back on incorporating

01:10:38.060 Cheek squats

01:10:39.900 Alright well

01:10:42.480 Keep watch for

01:10:46.260 Torn basil merch because it's time

01:10:47.920 Keep watch, it's time

01:10:49.440 Okay, bye, love you

01:10:50.940 Love you very much

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01:11:27.800 Girl.

01:11:29.320 Okay.

01:11:32.200 So confusing.

01:11:34.480 This is Ryder Strong, and I have a new podcast called The Red Weather.

01:11:38.580 In 1995, my neighbor, Anna Traynor, disappeared from a commune.

01:11:42.520 It was nature and trees and praying and drugs.

01:11:46.280 No, I am not your guru.

01:11:49.960 Back then, I lied to everybody.

01:11:52.280 They have had this case for 30 years.

01:11:55.220 I'm going back to my hometown to uncover the truth.

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01:12:05.300 You know Roald Dahl. He thought up Willy Wonka and the BFG.

01:12:09.320 But did you know he was a spy?

01:12:11.640 In the new podcast, The Secret World of Roald Dahl, I'll tell you that story.

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01:12:17.380 What?

01:12:18.300 You probably won't believe it either.

01:12:20.040 Was this before he wrote his stories?

01:12:21.740 It must have been.

01:12:23.100 Okay, I don't think that's true.

01:12:25.100 I'm telling you.

01:12:26.480 I was a spy.

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01:12:35.820 Hello, it's me, Anna Sinfield,

01:12:38.120 the host of The Girlfriends.

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01:12:44.300 on The Girlfriend's Spotlight. 0.55

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01:12:49.540 Is badness hereditary?

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01:12:55.760 What are you talking about? 1.00

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01:13:12.920 of hot new country star Hudson Westbrook.

01:13:14.860 Early in his career, he shocked his mom more than once,

01:13:17.960 and we even shocked him on what we had to do

01:13:21.300 to get to visit with him.

01:13:22.700 I've seen some people do some crazy things,

01:13:24.560 but nothing like that.

01:13:25.580 Plus, what Hudson almost had in common

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Poog with Kate Berlant and Jacqueline Novak - July 09, 2024

You’re… Really Pretty

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