There Are No Girls on the Internet - December 14, 2022


Cuties Movie QAnon Controversy Explains Our Current Moment

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00:01:21.600 Welcome to another episode of Internet Hate Machine.
00:01:24.420 I am so excited to be joined with my producer, Sophie.
00:01:27.160 Sophie, thank you for being here.
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00:01:38.080 I, it's one of those things that I talk at my friends about, and they're like, we get
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00:02:18.380 So if you were on the Internet at all in 2020,
00:02:21.480 you probably remember the backlash against the film Cuties.
00:02:24.920 It was all over social media and the internet,
00:02:27.780 in part because it kind of got glommed in
00:02:30.360 with the whole Save the Children thing
00:02:34.160 and the whole QAnon conspiracy thing
00:02:36.420 that, as y'all probably know,
00:02:38.020 have really plagued our online discourse
00:02:40.280 and are still with us today.
00:02:42.000 They really haven't gone anywhere,
00:02:43.400 even though they might be out of the headlines.
00:02:46.280 Yeah, I've done a whole couple of shows about that.
00:02:51.480 Yeah, you know all about it, the ways that it can be so insidious and the ways that things can really be taken out of context to become evidence of this grand conspiracy around QAnon and child predators.
00:03:06.420 So I really think the situation around the movie Cuties is kind of a case study of all the different ways that online rhetoric can become weaponized because it has so many of the textbook hallmarks of bad actors hijacking a conversation.
00:03:20.160 And I think it reveals a lot about how messed up our online discourse has gotten and the ways that it can be weaponized against marginalized people specifically to undermine and exploit the very thing that it is supposedly championing, in this case, protecting children.
00:03:35.000 Something to keep in mind is that a common tactic of bad actors is to hijack a sensitive conversation,
00:03:40.840 you know, one that takes a little bit of nuance or thoughtfulness to discuss properly
00:03:45.200 and create an uproar around it that conveniently aligns with some kind of preconceived political grievance.
00:03:52.240 And that is exactly what happened with the movie Cuties.
00:03:56.320 I also think it's one of those things where, you know, I guess I would be willing to bet
00:04:01.360 that the majority of people raising an issue about the film
00:04:04.800 have not actually even sat down and watched it
00:04:08.340 to know exactly what they're raising an objection over.
00:04:12.000 Well, yeah.
00:04:13.140 I mean, bad actors never do their research.
00:04:16.120 Oh, never.
00:04:16.720 And I think they rely on other people,
00:04:20.080 like, not doing their research
00:04:21.820 or, like, being a cat, like, low information folks
00:04:25.080 where it's like, I've not seen the movie,
00:04:26.980 but you're telling me that this movie is, you know, 0.58
00:04:29.940 the work of a child predator.
00:04:31.360 So I guess I'll believe that.
00:04:32.620 You know, I think that they're counting on people doing that.
00:04:34.420 Do you remember that phase of Twitter when they were like, do you want to read the article before you share it?
00:04:42.840 I will say I remember when Twitter rolled that out.
00:04:45.980 And it did get me a few times where I'm like, damn, I probably should read it, right?
00:04:49.300 Like, even as somebody who makes content about mis and disinformation, I am not immune to sharing something quickly before I've really given it a read through.
00:04:59.540 And so it's a good reminder that we could we could all be a little bit better about the source material before commenting on the source material that we're that we're responding to.
00:05:09.080 Absolutely.
00:05:10.560 But that is exactly what that wrote me.
00:05:12.240 I'm like, did you did you did you read that?
00:05:14.060 Do you want to read that before you share it?
00:05:15.580 And it's like, you know, like, fair enough, robot.
00:05:19.420 I'll get right on that.
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00:05:22.440 Fair enough, robot.
00:05:23.520 So the movie Cuties is, I should say, very much in line with my own personal interests.
00:05:30.880 I am a movie person.
00:05:32.240 I love movies.
00:05:33.440 I love French cinema specifically and specifically French Senegalese cinema.
00:05:38.080 I have a thing for, I am a sucker for any kind of coming of age film about girlhood.
00:05:43.600 You know, your Crooklands, your fish tanks, your 13, love them all.
00:05:48.240 If it's a movie about a young girl figuring out girlhood or young adulthood, I am in.
00:05:55.540 And I also grew up doing dance squads and dance teams, which I have to say, growing up in the South, sometimes those dance squads were a little bit questionable.
00:06:05.380 I can admit that.
00:06:06.800 And so when Cuties premiered, which is a movie about a young French Senegalese girl coming of age who was involved in dance, I was super, super excited to see it.
00:06:16.340 I saw it immediately.
00:06:17.540 Before it was on Netflix, I had already seen it.
00:06:20.120 And so this is not meant to be like a review of the movie.
00:06:23.840 There are some spoilers.
00:06:25.520 I will try to warn folks beforehand if you're planning on watching Cuties, which I think that you should because I do think it's a worthwhile movie.
00:06:31.520 But I want to get into the conversation about what exactly happened with the uproar and backlash around this film.
00:06:39.960 Cuties is a French film by director Mimona Dussere.
00:06:43.300 it tells the story of a coming-of-age story of Amy, a Muslim Senegalese 11-year-old in France.
00:06:49.540 It opened at the 2020 Sundance Festival to rave reviews, accolades, and awards before being
00:06:54.680 acquired by Netflix. The plot revolves around an 11-year-old girl named Amy. Amy's mom and aunt
00:07:00.560 want her to be sort of chaste and modest and girlish, but she ends up meeting this group of
00:07:06.080 cool girls who are all on a dance team together. So Amy finds herself kind of caught between these
00:07:11.240 two worlds. The traditional, chaste world, represented by her mother and aunt and Islam, 0.98
00:07:17.340 and this cool, secular, grown-up world, represented by these cool girls on the dance
00:07:22.840 team at her new school. So Cuties explores these common themes that most coming-of-age films deal
00:07:29.240 with. You know, family drama, feeling alienated from your family, wanting to fit in and be cool
00:07:34.280 and grown up, your first period, vying for likes on social media and sexuality. This was the director
00:07:40.940 Ducere's first film. And she said that she saw a bunch of young girls dancing on stage in Paris,
00:07:47.200 scantily clad and revealing clothing, who were dancing in front of a crowd. And it got her
00:07:51.160 curious about the way that society confronts and deals with the budding sexuality of girls.
00:07:57.400 So she spent a year researching and interviewing preteen girls about their experiences
00:08:01.320 and how they felt in society. And that became the movie Cuties. She wrote a version of herself as
00:08:07.460 an 11-year-old, to be a kind of stand-in for the main character, Amy. The film premiered at Sundance
00:08:13.740 in 2020 with zero controversy until it was acquired by Netflix. Before Cuties was even
00:08:21.260 released for American streaming audiences on Netflix, Cuties first generated controversy
00:08:26.200 when Netflix put out a poster for the film. So something to keep in mind is that it is a textbook
00:08:31.320 staple of things like conspiracy theories or malinformation where it will be based on an
00:08:39.660 actual nugget of truth. And so what is absolutely true here is that Netflix made a very, very bad
00:08:47.520 decision about the poster for the film Cuties. The poster that they released shows the girls
00:08:53.000 who are all like 11 or 12 posing provocatively in their very skimpy dance team outfits.
00:08:59.720 And honestly, like that image is not even really representative of the entirety of like what the film is about.
00:09:07.480 And it needs to be said that the poster that Netflix used is very different from the one that was used when it first premiered at Sundance before being bought by Netflix.
00:09:17.500 So Bridget has a screenshot of the two different film posters.
00:09:21.780 I thought you were showing me two different movies.
00:09:23.900 Like I thought they were two different films. 0.97
00:09:25.900 um they look you you they're not even there's no correlation exactly right and so the french
00:09:34.520 version that that they used when the movie first came out on sundance has these girls they're
00:09:40.060 shopping they're like wearing age-appropriate regular clothes and they're like they look like
00:09:45.340 little girls right like it's like it's like yeah an age-appropriate cover one one reads like fun
00:09:51.620 coming of age and one reads like dance moms toddlers and tiaras yes and I think like the
00:10:01.060 the Netflix poster the girls who are quite young are in these provocative poses it's very dance
00:10:08.540 moms like as I said I mean for better for for whatever it's worth growing up doing dance team
00:10:17.540 and dance groups these are outfits that we would have worn like i'm not i'm not gonna act like
00:10:22.720 this is like beyond the pale for what little girls will will sometimes wear in dance teams or
00:10:28.480 pageants whether or not it's like good or bad or right or wrong like that it's it's fairly common
00:10:34.160 it's not something that is totally beyond the pale in our culture no absolutely not but the freeze
00:10:38.560 frame uh of of the dance moves that i think they're doing they're like like they're mid move
00:10:45.180 The poses are very mature, is what I'll say.
00:10:49.800 Yeah, very mature.
00:10:51.840 And so right away, people had the exact same response that you just had.
00:10:56.260 And they seized on this film that wasn't even out yet because of this pretty gross poster that was not really representative of the film.
00:11:04.420 I believe that had Netflix not made such a big error in how they promoted and marketed this movie, we wouldn't even be making this episode, I don't think.
00:11:12.740 Like, I don't think that if they had used the original French movie that's like, girls coming of age, like totally normal, that we would even have seen the kind of controversy that accompanied the film.
00:11:24.600 So Netflix apologized for the poster and, importantly, to the filmmaker.
00:11:28.900 And I actually have to give Netflix the tiniest bit of credit here.
00:11:33.080 Amidst the backlash around the poster, Netflix made it clear that that poster was entirely their bad.
00:11:40.340 You know, they could have made a big show of cutting ties with the filmmaker publicly and, like, blaming her. 0.96
00:11:47.360 We've seen, we've certainly seen brands do that before where they're just like, oh, controversy, better blame this black woman. 0.98
00:11:53.580 But they didn't do that.
00:11:54.380 I will give them that.
00:11:56.120 Shout out, bare minimum.
00:11:58.480 Bare minimum, like, way to, like, do a little.
00:12:01.740 Netflix co-CEO Ted Saradonis.
00:12:05.260 I'm probably saying that wrong.
00:12:06.240 Ted.
00:12:06.580 It's okay.
00:12:08.000 Okay.
00:12:08.300 Yeah.
00:12:08.740 Netflix co-CEO Ted Sardonis was said to have personally called Ducere to apologize
00:12:14.840 and to talk to her about, you know, potential new projects on Netflix that she could do.
00:12:20.980 And the filmmaker said that she felt like that was genuine.
00:12:24.340 Like, she responded very gracefully, and she was like,
00:12:27.660 I think that they genuinely felt bad and that they were giving me, like, a genuine apology.
00:12:32.460 But the damage was already done.
00:12:34.980 Yeah, too little, too late.
00:12:36.600 So Cuties is a film that I believe is trying to present like a complex portrait of the pressures that young girls feel around facing their own kind of budding sexuality.
00:12:50.180 But because of that poster, the internet hate machine fueled by a combination of right-wing grifters, shitty elected officials, and Instagram QAnon influencers that target women, that whole thing that Ducere was trying to do was completely lost. 0.83
00:13:05.960 And instead, the film was branded as Netflix's attempt to groom children, normalize pedophilia, and in some cases said that the film was actually child sexual abuse material or like child pornography. 0.95
00:13:19.560 And people weren't just saying that Netflix was harming children.
00:13:22.740 They blamed the filmmaker personally.
00:13:24.980 Like if you Google the filmmaker's name, some of the first things that like autocomplete are like, did she go to jail?
00:13:32.320 Was she arrested?
00:13:33.220 And I think that gives you a sense of how personalized this particular smear that she harmed children with this movie became.
00:13:42.380 What's really sad is that this director had nothing to do with that poster.
00:13:48.100 She told Deadline,
00:13:49.300 I discovered the poster at the same time as the American public.
00:13:52.880 I didn't understand what was going on.
00:13:55.200 That was when I went and saw what the poster looked like.
00:13:57.520 I received numerous attacks on my character from people who had not seen the film, who thought I was actually making a film that was apologetic about hypersexualization of children.
00:14:06.700 I received numerous death threats.
00:14:08.700 And so, you know, I've seen this film.
00:14:10.780 I actually, like, enjoyed it.
00:14:12.160 But whether or not you like this film or whether or not you think it accomplishes its goals of exploring the dangers of the hypersexualization of children and girls, I think it's pretty clear what she was trying to do with this film.
00:14:25.840 Maybe you think she didn't accomplish that. Maybe you think it didn't meet its goals. Fine. But, like, to say that she was making this film to exploit and harm girls is just not correct.
00:14:37.640 No, it's just another example of, like, the worst people on the Internet pointing the finger and putting blame on a black woman. 0.90
00:14:47.600 Exactly.
00:14:48.500 Like, I don't, I guess we'll never know, but I don't think had she been a white woman from Ohio, that there would have been the same level of scrutiny and controversy from this movie.
00:15:01.220 Like, I think that something about her was inherently other and made it really easy for folks to jump on the bandwagon of, you know, attacking her for being somebody who puts children at risk.
00:15:12.640 So she published a piece in The Washington Post about the film, and she writes,
00:15:17.260 the stories that the girls that I spoke to that they shared with me were remarkably similar.
00:15:21.840 They saw that the sexier a woman is on Instagram or TikTok, the more likes she gets. 0.51
00:15:25.980 They tried to imitate that sexuality in the beliefs that it would make them more popular. 0.55
00:15:30.340 Spend an hour on social media, and you'll see preteens, often in makeup,
00:15:34.100 pouting their lips, strutting their stuff as if they were grown women.
00:15:37.220 The problem, of course, is they are not grown women, and they don't realize what they're doing. 0.98
00:15:41.300 They construct their self-esteem based on social media likes and the number of followers they have.
00:15:46.640 Some people have found certain scenes in my film uncomfortable to watch.
00:15:50.220 But if one really listens to 11-year-old girls, their lives are uncomfortable.
00:15:55.540 Here's the director talking about it for a segment called Why I Made Cuties from Netflix. 0.99
00:16:00.640 Our girls see that the more a woman is overly sexualized on social media, the more she is successful. 0.99
00:16:08.220 And the children just imitate what they see, 0.91
00:16:10.820 trying to achieve the same result without understanding the meaning.
00:16:15.780 And yeah, it's dangerous. 0.93
00:16:19.420 Can I just say this woman is it? 0.93
00:16:22.060 She's gorgeous. 0.98
00:16:23.360 She's gorgeous.
00:16:24.820 And like, she's just, ah, such a cool person.
00:16:29.620 I'll get into this in the end, but luckily this did not, like,
00:16:33.820 her career is going to be fine.
00:16:35.340 Like, this is not, we have not heard the last of her.
00:16:37.200 She's fantastic. So I think there is definitely a conversation to be had about whether or not
00:16:43.520 the film accomplishes the goal of really showing the pitfalls and dangers of sexualizing young
00:16:49.340 girls. I love the film. I think it does a great job. I think it hits close to home. However,
00:16:53.780 we didn't really get to have the conversation about the film, its merits, whether or not it
00:16:58.280 achieves its goals. What actually happened instead is where it was like a Voltron of bad actors from
00:17:05.760 various backgrounds coming together for one goal. You know, it was your typical right-wing
00:17:10.180 grifters, Save the Children influencers, and elected officials all coming together to say
00:17:15.160 that this film was evidence of the elite, in quotes, grooming kids and supporting pedophilia.
00:17:22.560 This then turned into the claim that the film itself was child pornography made by a French 1.00
00:17:29.640 black pervert. Lifestyle influencer and QAnon conspiracy theorist Rebecca Pfeiffer, or better 1.00
00:17:36.020 known as Love Beck, who at the time had 160,000 Instagram followers before her account was deleted,
00:17:41.980 posted, don't believe pedophilia is a rampant problem and don't believe the elite support it?
00:17:47.840 How the hell does a show like this make it to a major streaming network? Formerly, one of the
00:17:52.240 biggest QAnon accounts on Instagram, Little Miss Patriot, posted that Cuties proves that Netflix 0.80
00:17:57.800 promotes pedophilia and she posted this in like that kind of pretty pastel instagrammy kind of
00:18:07.300 carousel grid post and i have to say as a side note it really calls into question those instagram
00:18:12.900 accounts that will use like a pretty great carousel grid post on instagram to educate you
00:18:19.420 because let's keep it real like anybody can get a canva subscription and say whatever they want
00:18:23.680 just because it's a pastel, pretty Instagram carousel post
00:18:28.040 doesn't mean they're actually saying something that is correct and true.
00:18:32.220 So conspiracy theorists started pushing the hashtag Cancel Cuties campaign,
00:18:36.080 telling their followers to boycott Netflix by pulling their subscriptions.
00:18:40.040 And it seemed like it actually had an impact.
00:18:42.920 Antenna, which is a data analytics firm that tracks Netflix subscribers,
00:18:46.660 reported a, quote, meaningful spike in the rate of people cutting subscriptions.
00:18:51.440 shortly after the hashtag canceled Netflix went viral.
00:18:54.500 And another analytics firm, Yip It Data,
00:18:57.140 also reported that in mid-September,
00:18:59.700 the churn rate, which is just the rate of people
00:19:01.600 who cancel subscriptions in the United States,
00:19:04.880 rose materially as the result of the cuties' backlash.
00:19:08.580 Days after the hashtag went viral,
00:19:10.180 Yip It Data said that unsubscribes
00:19:12.280 were running at nearly eight times
00:19:13.860 the daily levels observed in August
00:19:15.540 and reached a multi-year high.
00:19:17.800 And I gotta say, like,
00:19:19.900 Even though Netflix publicly did stick by douce array when this was all happening,
00:19:25.060 there are reports that they suppressed the film on their own platform as a result of this controversy.
00:19:31.600 According to an interesting report by The Verge,
00:19:34.080 Netflix removed cuties from its coming soon and popular searches categories
00:19:37.960 and that it was excluded from searches that include the words cute.
00:19:41.460 This is actually probably a responsible tweak that they made to their algorithm.
00:19:44.860 The Verge report also says that Netflix adjusted its algorithm so that search queries such as steamy or sexual movies did not surface any children's films and that Netflix also made sure that problematic search terms such as pedo did not surface cuties because their algorithm actually takes into account behavioral data.
00:20:05.080 So if you're somebody who was like, I want to watch this movie that everyone is saying is like a pedophile movie, if you type in pedo, ordinarily it would have brought up the movie that everyone is typing in pedo and then clicking cuties for, but that they tweaked their algorithm so that wasn't the case.
00:20:20.720 So in that instance, I actually feel like that might have been a responsible choice.
00:20:24.760 But it does seem clear from this report, though, that Netflix did seek to suppress promotion and related search queries for cuties.
00:20:33.520 And I just feel like it's pretty shitty for this first-time filmmaker that her debut film was suppressed on the platform that acquired it for reasons that were entirely not her fault.
00:20:45.100 Like a whole campaign around her film that she had nothing to do with.
00:20:49.720 And I think that her and this project seem like they both personally took the fall for Netflix's bad marketing with that poster.
00:20:58.420 And this completely disingenuous campaign built on a lot of lies and half-truths about her and her film.
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00:23:16.620 So I actually have a really hard time believing that anybody who was making claims about the film being, you know, exploitative to children actually watched it all the way through.
00:23:28.420 Because much of what is floating around the Internet about the film are either outright just lies or completely out of context.
00:23:36.540 So I want to talk about what actually does go down in this movie versus how that was represented online.
00:23:43.800 So there's going to be a spoiler here.
00:23:45.800 So if you are planning on watching this movie and you don't want it spoiled, there's a spoiler here.
00:23:51.640 So social media accounts with pretty big followings posted like parents warnings and parents guides that got a lot of traction online that contain lies or that take some of the scenes out of context.
00:24:03.900 For instance, one viral parent's guide that I think Dinesh D'Souza reposted says the film contains nudity of a minor, and that is just not correct.
00:24:15.060 The only nudity in this film is a very brief scene of a bare breast, and it's the bare breast of someone who is meant to be an opposing dance team member as she's getting changed.
00:24:25.320 Within the universe of the film, my sense is that the audience is, like, meant to understand this particular woman whose bare breast is shown as a bit older.
00:24:36.000 Like, it's not like she is meant to be a very young, like, an obviously very young character.
00:24:42.400 There's a scene where, like, someone is changing and they see part of her bare breast and it's meant to be, like, a cool older girl, not a child.
00:24:49.660 And the actor herself was 18 at the time the movie was filmed.
00:24:54.240 And so it's just a lie. The actor whose bare breast is shown for a second in that movie, not only is she in the film meant to be older, she herself, the actor, is also of age.
00:25:07.680 And so there is no child nudity in this film of any kind. I saw so many viral posts online suggesting otherwise.
00:25:16.420 Another pretty obvious misrepresentation in the film is that in A Parent's Guide,
00:25:21.820 they say there's this salacious scene in the film that an 11-year-old girl in tight leather pants 0.97
00:25:27.060 has her pants pulled down and the camera zooms in on her butt. 0.83
00:25:31.740 And so this is a really interesting one because it really shows how bad actors will take 0.96
00:25:37.460 this nugget of truth and completely explode it and take it out of context.
00:25:43.720 What actually happened is my question, because I just know they're out here.
00:25:48.240 Full cap.
00:25:49.460 Full cap.
00:25:49.680 I can tell you.
00:25:50.540 Full cap.
00:25:51.100 Okay, so again, spoiler. 0.82
00:25:52.620 So in the movie, Amy is shown as being less financially well-off than the rest of her friends.
00:25:57.920 And so there's a scene where she's trying to look older than she is by borrowing her friend's, like, very cool leather pants.
00:26:05.480 While she's wearing these pants—
00:26:06.920 Can I just say, like, it's so unbelievably normal.
00:26:10.640 Totally. 1.00
00:26:11.220 Like, didn't you do that shit when you were a kid? 1.00
00:26:12.900 Fuck, yeah. I mean, everyone. 1.00
00:26:16.060 Everyone.
00:26:17.160 And it's so infuriating that that's what they're...
00:26:19.780 Okay.
00:26:21.020 So in the movie, she gets into a fight at school, 0.67
00:26:24.060 and her leather pants are accidentally yanked off of her. 0.96
00:26:28.980 And when the pants are yanked off of her,
00:26:31.060 it exposes that she's wearing, underneath these cool leather pants, 0.91
00:26:34.580 she's wearing these childish, ratty, oversized underpants 0.99
00:26:39.740 that have, like, obvious signs of wear and tear.
00:26:42.900 And so the scene is obviously meant to be embarrassing, right?
00:26:48.580 It is not a sexy scene.
00:26:50.460 It is clear.
00:26:51.040 Like, she leaves the cafeteria in tears and, like, doesn't come to school the next day or whatever because she's so embarrassed.
00:26:58.180 But that parent's guide would have you believe that it's meant to be, like, a sexy scene or a sensual scene.
00:27:04.980 Like, she takes down her leather pants.
00:27:06.760 but it is a misrepresentation of a scene
00:27:09.600 that actually does kind of occur in the movie
00:27:12.260 but it's clearly made to sound worse than it is
00:27:15.120 and that misrepresentation went completely viral
00:27:18.620 like big accounts posted it
00:27:20.500 and it got so much traction online
00:27:22.540 and I honestly think that here is like
00:27:24.300 people who haven't seen the movie
00:27:26.200 but like are like oh well
00:27:27.580 I'm you know don't want to see children be exploited in film
00:27:33.320 like that's bad
00:27:34.260 when you read the salacious misrepresentation,
00:27:37.760 it makes it seem like there's got to be some truth to it.
00:27:41.040 And like, I can see why people shared that
00:27:42.880 without like having seen the movie,
00:27:44.680 but it totally takes the truth out of context
00:27:47.620 to fit a wider agenda.
00:27:49.580 Yeah, I mean, I got pantsed in the sixth grade.
00:27:52.560 I was wearing some not great undies too.
00:27:55.240 Not, not, I relate.
00:27:56.960 Like these are, again, 0.98
00:27:57.800 these are just like fucking normal things 0.99
00:27:59.860 in childhood that happened. 0.99
00:28:01.600 And it's just, come on, people.
00:28:05.540 Yeah.
00:28:05.920 And I do think it speaks to, like, a larger discomfort that people have around coming-of-age stories for women and girls.
00:28:15.220 Yeah.
00:28:16.140 I think that people are really uncomfortable around that.
00:28:20.660 And, like, these things, like, there are things in the movie that ring so true to me.
00:28:24.500 If you had gotten pantsed in elementary school or, like, middle school, someone saying, like, oh, that was, like, a sexually charged moment.
00:28:31.300 you're like actually it was really embarrassing exactly you're like you're no i was come on people
00:28:38.360 like it's no i was pe class i was in the sixth grade um i was wearing the wrong day of the week
00:28:46.500 underwear and clearly clearly still still embarrassed by that part yeah like it's like
00:28:56.000 there's another scene in the movie where she finds a condom on the ground and she doesn't
00:29:00.120 know what it is and she blows it up like a balloon and again normal yeah so normal describing that
00:29:07.560 as like a sexually charged scene like i would argue that like that's actually the weird thing
00:29:12.580 to be like oh little kids exploring these things they don't totally understand like that's normal
00:29:19.760 and showing that on screen is probably normal and good and fine adding some sort of nefarious 0.98
00:29:24.940 intent to it to something that most little kids go through that i think is a little bit fucked up 0.97
00:29:30.100 Yeah. So I think that a lot of the sharing of inaccurate content about cuties online really came from like low information folks who haven't seen the film but are interested in standing up against material that harms kids.
00:29:43.320 something about those posts is that they always make it seem like no reasonable person would not
00:29:49.620 agree that this is exploitation of minors. Right. And so they say, like, obviously having showing a
00:29:56.480 child naked in a Netflix movie is not good. And most people would say, like, oh, I agree. That's 1.00
00:30:02.780 not good. But the fact of the matter is they didn't do that. And so they just traffic in these
00:30:07.720 inaccurate or misconstrued out-of-context statements when that just isn't the case.
00:30:12.980 And in reality, Duceret says that a trained counselor was present on set during the filming
00:30:18.880 of the movie, and that the project was approved by the French government's child protection
00:30:22.880 authorities, and that the actors, they had their parents on set too.
00:30:26.820 And the film does contain a few scenes of young girls, like, twerking and dancing in
00:30:34.400 skimpy outfits.
00:30:36.100 Another spoiler, like, the scene that probably generated the most conversation and controversy
00:30:41.460 and the one that is depicted on the poster is the movie's big, climactic ending. 0.87
00:30:47.080 The girls have their big dance contest.
00:30:49.340 They've been practicing for the whole film.
00:30:51.480 And they get on stage, and they do this very age-inappropriate dance.
00:30:56.040 They're grinding, they're twerking, and they're wearing their skimpy outfits.
00:30:59.220 But the entire point of the film is the crowd that is watching them dance in the movie,
00:31:05.420 and I guess also us as the audience at home, is horrified.
00:31:08.820 The crowd is audibly booing.
00:31:11.060 They're covering their kids' eyes so they can't see it.
00:31:14.340 Some of them turn to leave in disgust.
00:31:16.520 And it's clear that the girls do not have the maturity or the context to understand
00:31:20.740 why the way they're dancing isn't okay and why it's not being well-received
00:31:25.060 by the audience they're dancing for.
00:31:26.940 You know, the main character, Amy, when the audience has this negative reaction, she runs away crying. And at the end of the movie, she has clearly decided that this this world of like dancing is not for her. At the end of the movie, she's living a much more modest life and like playing age appropriate games.
00:31:45.620 And it's clear that like, oh, I had this little interlude with dancing and it was not great for me and now I'm not doing it anymore.
00:31:52.280 And so it's interesting that people say that this movie, like, how can I put this?
00:31:59.820 There are plenty of legitimate criticisms to be made about this film and the way that it handles girlhood sexuality.
00:32:05.620 Like, I've seen criticisms that say that the dancing scenes with the girls are gratuitous.
00:32:10.380 I've seen some arguments that seem to be suggesting that the film, which is pretty clearly making an argument against the sexualization of children, is actually attempting to do that by engaging in the very thing it is critiquing.
00:32:21.840 Like if you've seen the movie Kids, when Kids first came out, it was accused of the exact same thing, right?
00:32:28.060 That like, oh, it's a movie that's supposed to be critiquing child drug use by showing child drug use.
00:32:34.200 So this is like a well-worn film criticism.
00:32:37.880 Those are all, you know, fair arguments, but they're very different than accusing this filmmaker of breaking the law and being a child pornographer, which is exactly what happened.
00:32:51.000 And so Cuties became this, like, very popular thing to bash online.
00:32:56.260 I saw a few big-name people standing up for the filmmaker, 0.84
00:32:59.760 but I really recall there was a climate that this French Black woman
00:33:03.980 made this racy film involving children,
00:33:06.240 and people just did not want to take the risk of wading into that controversy.
00:33:11.480 This is actually a tactic called a reputational smear,
00:33:14.260 where people make your personal brand so toxic
00:33:17.680 that other people don't want to take any kind of risk in being associated with you.
00:33:21.940 And I think Ducere being a Black woman and also Senegalese and also French 0.52
00:33:27.500 probably is part of why that kind of attack was so effective. 0.99
00:33:33.680 Because I think when you're a Black woman and you're visible, I just think it's different. 0.95
00:33:38.220 People are going to be less likely to stick their neck out and defend you
00:33:43.140 when you're being attacked in this, like, very, very inflammatory way.
00:33:49.280 And it's funny.
00:33:50.400 I actually recall when this was all happening in 2020,
00:33:52.860 being nervous about making a podcast episode about it.
00:33:56.220 I was like, the climate is so, the climate was so, like, tense and, you know, against her.
00:34:04.540 I mean, it wasn't a great, I was like, it wasn't a great time for most people.
00:34:10.040 It absolutely was not a great time.
00:34:12.480 And, you know, I think it really contributed to this climate of silence where people who see what's going on and they see like, oh, this person is being hung out to dry are also afraid to speak up.
00:34:25.440 I think that's part of the way that these attacks work.
00:34:28.040 And I recall a lot of bad actors making and spreading content based on lies and misrepresentations that made it seem like calling this movie a crime, calling this movie child pornography was reasonable, even for folks who had not seen it for themselves.
00:34:45.340 And it created the condition for a climate where elected officials were condemning this movie and also urging for the government to take action against it.
00:34:53.920 But here's a brief roundup of all the different electeds that came out against this movie.
00:34:59.140 U.S. Senator Mike Lee sent a letter directly to Netflix's CEO, Reed Hastings, asking for, quote,
00:35:05.660 an explanation on Hastings's views as to whether or not the potential exploitation of minors in the film constitutes criminal behavior.
00:35:14.920 Cool. Mr. Anti-Democracy himself, Mike Lee. Got it.
00:35:19.740 Cool. Cool. Who's next?
00:35:21.740 failed presidential candidate
00:35:23.940 Tulsi Gabbard
00:35:24.660 ah yes
00:35:25.760 oh Tulsi
00:35:27.160 I could 1.00
00:35:28.200 I would love to never
00:35:29.440 think about her again
00:35:30.360 I know
00:35:31.580 me too
00:35:32.360 she explicitly
00:35:34.060 called the movie
00:35:35.140 quote child porn
00:35:36.280 and said that it would 0.81
00:35:37.400 whet the appetite
00:35:38.240 of pedophiles 0.88
00:35:39.140 and help fueled 0.99
00:35:40.500 the child sex
00:35:41.800 trafficking trade
00:35:43.120 like 1.00
00:35:43.440 oh girl 0.99
00:35:44.200 come on 1.00
00:35:44.940 yeah like come on
00:35:46.460 Jesus Christ
00:35:47.660 Ted Cruz
00:35:49.440 oh there he is
00:35:50.300 knew he was coming
00:35:51.240 You knew he was coming.
00:35:53.200 He sent a letter to the Department of Justice to, quote, investigate whether Netflix, its executive or the filmmakers violated any federal laws against the production and distribution of child pornography.
00:36:05.320 Tom Cotton and Representative Jim Banks also called for the DOJ to take legal action against Netflix.
00:36:11.360 Cotton explicitly accused Netflix and Deuxerre of a crime, saying, quote,
00:36:16.440 There's no excuse for the sexualization of children.
00:36:19.180 And Netflix's decision to promote the film Cuties is disgusting at best and a serious crime at worst.
00:36:25.680 None of these people watch the movie. Continue.
00:36:28.040 Oh, absolutely fucking. 1.00
00:36:29.120 You think fucking Ted Cruz is sitting through a two-hour movie about fucking French Senegalese girlhood? 1.00
00:36:36.040 No, he was probably on a plane to Cancun. 1.00
00:36:38.960 representatives ken buck and andy biggs of arizona called for the doj to investigate
00:36:47.540 and the state attorneys general by the way i didn't know that the pluralization of attorney
00:36:52.340 general is attorneys general so that is it's gonna it sounds incorrect but it is correct
00:36:57.600 the state attorney i was like good to know noted um cool yeah if you ever have to pluralize
00:37:05.300 attorney general it's state attorneys general state attorneys general state i don't like it
00:37:10.460 very ghoulish continue it sounds it sounds i'm like i support you um don't love it i don't like
00:37:15.500 it i don't like it uh but the attorneys general of ohio florida louisiana and texas also asked
00:37:21.440 for netflix to remove the film also isn't it funny how nobody talked about like free speech cancel
00:37:28.180 culture these things that that people on the right are supposed to be so aggrieved by didn't
00:37:33.960 even come up government officials asking for netflix to take down a film didn't need free
00:37:38.840 speech didn't even free speech who we don't know her it didn't even come up in true truly incredible
00:37:45.060 what they what they think is important exactly so like you said i would be willing to bet my
00:37:53.780 entire life savings that that whole list that i read of election officials responding did not 0.87
00:38:00.260 watch the film not a single one bet my fucking life savings on it and eventually this you know 0.93
00:38:08.060 went from i guess like grandstanding and puffery to a grand jury in tyler texas indicting netflix 0.98
00:38:16.760 on the charge of promoting lewd visual material depicting a child the indictment claims that cuties
00:38:23.720 holds no serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value.
00:38:28.880 And what is wild is that this attempt of an indictment is still going on.
00:38:34.620 In November, a federal judge issued an injunction that blocks that Texas prosecutor
00:38:39.220 from bringing child pornography charges against Netflix for distributing the film.
00:38:44.620 And just two days ago, December 5th, the prosecutor, Tyler County District Attorney Lucas Babin,
00:38:50.040 filed a notice indicating that he will appeal the ruling to the Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals.
00:38:55.900 And so this guy is like, no, I'm not dropping this. I am going to continue to pursue charges
00:39:03.600 against this film. And what's interesting to me is that most of the elected officials who,
00:39:10.960 you know, had a problem with this film and tried to pursue the Department of Justice to look into
00:39:16.160 it, they've mostly all dropped this, right? And part of me wonders, why is it that someone like
00:39:25.980 Ted Cruz can be so loud and vocal about attacking a film that I bet he hasn't seen, but then it can
00:39:35.100 just be quietly dropped, right? I think it's a mark against the way that right-wing elected
00:39:43.240 officials use these cultural flashpoints as like little stunts where they want to like speak up
00:39:50.500 about them and then they just drop it like i would be curious to know like do you still think that
00:39:54.540 this movie is child pornography do you still think the doj should investigate do you still believe
00:39:59.340 that was an effective use of your time in terms of you know your duty to your reference your your
00:40:04.740 the people that got you in office like the way that no i i'm confident in saying they forgot they
00:40:09.880 They tweeted about it and have moved on to bullying some other marginalized group of people. 0.74
00:40:15.980 Yeah, I would be I would totally agree.
00:40:18.240 And the way that they're able to evoke these things loudly and just move on doesn't sit right with me because there's real people on the other end of them.
00:40:26.960 And, like, Deuce Ray is a real person with a real career that she's trying to build.
00:40:31.020 That they can just evoke her name and her work, misrepresent it and lie about it and vocally accuse her of a crime and then just move on really does not sit right with me.
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00:42:53.600 Something that I think is kind of interesting here is like, you might be thinking, why would all of these right-wing shitheads be interested in attacking Netflix and this like kind of obscure French film?
00:43:05.420 And I think it has a lot to do with the fact that culture is by and large seen as the domain of the left.
00:43:12.180 And so these right-wing extremists, they have to attack purveyors of culture, right?
00:43:18.020 These attacks are highly politically charged.
00:43:20.880 So on Tucker Carlson's segment about the film and the controversy around it, first, he framed it as an attack on what he calls, quote, the media elite.
00:43:30.920 Listen to this.
00:43:31.700 I'll begin this segment with a warning, something we never do, but the footage we're about to show you comes from a film that was released yesterday on the streaming service Netflix.
00:43:40.000 It's called Cuties.
00:43:41.180 we've edited it to obscure the most sexual parts because we have no choice, but it's still over
00:43:46.120 the top and disturbing. As you watch it, remember that our media class, the gatekeepers of
00:43:51.320 entertainment, have no problem with it. In fact, they love it, a sure sign the civilization is in
00:43:58.380 trouble. The New Yorker magazine, which after almost 100 years has become truly a garbage 0.98
00:44:02.200 publication, unfortunately, called this film, quote, extraordinary and said that only evangelicals 0.98
00:44:08.000 don't like it. The Telegraph newspaper said it's an important film, quote, in an age terrified of
00:44:13.680 child sexuality. Late Rome, for real. We're not going to show you a portion of what...
00:44:20.100 Okay, you can stop it there. So it's interesting how Tucker Carlson frames this film,
00:44:28.080 the controversy around it as an attack on the New Yorker, the media elite, the Telegraph, right?
00:44:34.180 It's so weird. I think it really reveals how these attacks are just kind of proxy wars for this larger culture wars, highly politicized thing that they're trying to wage here.
00:44:48.720 And it doesn't matter that a first-time filmmaker gets sort of like caught in the crossfire.
00:44:54.060 Again, here's – later into that segment, here's how his guest talks about the people that she says are, quote, staying silent and allowing this film to exploit children.
00:45:06.620 And yet curiously silent, Tucker, are the Obamas, Susan Rice, who's involved also, she's on the Netflix board, Obama is, the deal with Harry and Meghan, Harry of England and Meghan Markle, they are, they've got like an over, reportedly a $100 million deal with Netflix, a word from any of these people could stop this in its tracks.
00:45:30.680 Such a good point.
00:45:31.220 And they should, they should say something.
00:45:33.260 Okay, you can stop it there.
00:45:34.360 Can I just say that in a court of law, Fox won a lawsuit by saying that they couldn't they couldn't imagine anybody to take Tucker Carlson seriously as an actual news person, because clearly he's doing a character that that first of all. Second of all. Yeah. These people are such fucking ghouls. None of you watch the movie. All of you are just ridiculous. Yeah. Let's ask Harry and Meghan. It's like any chance to pick on Meghan Markle.
00:46:03.780 um cool um exactly like the way that they effectively like pull make this an attack on
00:46:11.440 megan markle they're like oh my god another black person i can point the finger at um oh cool like
00:46:19.380 let's take let's take the opportunity for to blame them for a movie we have not seen
00:46:24.220 exactly and so yeah they they use this film to take aim at the obamas the obamas at the time
00:46:31.680 had a high profile deal with Netflix to produce documentaries, Fox News' Rachel Campos Duffy
00:46:36.560 wrote in a piece for The Federalists called Michelle Obama is complicit in Netflix child 0.95
00:46:42.540 porn film Cuties. She writes, quote, at a time when the left has declared that silence is violence,
00:46:48.360 Michelle Obama's silence on the Netflix's controversial movie Cuties has not gone
00:46:53.300 unnoticed. And again, it's such a disingenuous way to use this film to attack people that they
00:47:02.100 clearly already have a pre-established grievance against. And so it's interesting how culture
00:47:07.640 becomes a stand-in for these political grievances that clearly, it's like they're barely
00:47:13.160 able to mask it when they talk about it. It's embarrassing for them.
00:47:19.560 it should be embarrassing and i guess all of this is to say that like the sad part to me about this
00:47:27.900 is the way that bad actors are so good at you know a good part of it is that like it all comes
00:47:36.940 back to this grain of truth and the reality is is that we actually do live in a world where
00:47:43.080 far too many young people are survivors and victims of sexual abuse and violence and things
00:47:48.100 like grooming. And we don't have a society that offers those folks a ton of support. And bad
00:47:54.300 actors, they seize on this heartbreaking reality. And in lieu of support, they offer dangerous
00:48:00.320 conspiracy theories and the smearing of regular people as predators and threats to children.
00:48:06.360 And my real question is like, because all of those elected officials were too busy
00:48:11.040 drumming up these attacks
00:48:12.580 on the movie Cuties,
00:48:14.000 that was time not spent
00:48:16.640 actually scrutinizing
00:48:18.300 the online platforms
00:48:19.580 that we know are actual purveyors
00:48:22.860 of child sexual abuse material.
00:48:25.300 Platforms like Facebook.
00:48:26.640 Facebook is the number one platform
00:48:28.720 responsible for sexually explicit material
00:48:31.980 involving the abuse of children.
00:48:33.480 That's just a fact.
00:48:34.560 And so isn't it interesting
00:48:36.220 that all these elected officials
00:48:37.500 came out against this movie Cuties,
00:48:39.760 But next time, they could have been actually speaking to what we know actually pose real threats to children.
00:48:47.320 And I think turning something as important as protecting the survivors of childhood sexual abuse into just another way of scoring cheap political points is a symptom of the fact that our society really has a problem.
00:49:02.000 Like, we're not talking about anything that can actually be of use to vulnerable people.
00:49:07.740 were only interested in partisan attacks 0.99
00:49:11.580 and fucking grandstanding and stunts. 1.00
00:49:13.840 And it makes me sick. 1.00
00:49:15.120 And I think the same way that the grooming of children
00:49:19.060 is like a real, very serious issue.
00:49:22.040 But if you turn that into a way to attack LGBTQ people
00:49:25.940 or drag queens or whatever,
00:49:28.700 the people who are actually grooming kids,
00:49:31.340 they can just go unexamined.
00:49:32.700 It's like, okay, well, please continue to say 1.00
00:49:35.460 that drag queens are the threat to kids and I'll just be over here continuing my business of 1.00
00:49:41.100 actually endangering children. And so the reason why this is such an important thing to me is that 1.00
00:49:46.220 we have to figure out a way to have the real conversation and not allow extremists and bad
00:49:53.340 actors and grifters to distract us with, you know, the shiny object of this film is the threat to
00:50:01.080 children when the real threat to threats to children go unexamined 150 please stop worrying
00:50:07.880 about movies you have not seen that do not do not cover what you think they cover please stop 0.99
00:50:13.360 worrying about drag queen reading story time at libraries you dumb people i cannot stand you 0.99
00:50:20.940 i could go on a rant i will not feel like disastrous incompetence and the negligence 0.99
00:50:29.400 to do their jobs is baffling and damaging to so many people, specifically marginalized
00:50:38.720 people.
00:50:39.980 Exactly. 1.00
00:50:40.960 And I hate you all.
00:50:42.160 I can't believe that you are allowed to decide things for anybody. 0.87
00:50:47.840 Yeah.
00:50:48.320 And I mean, this is like a like a tried and true thing that we see when it comes to disinformation
00:50:52.920 and conspiracy theories.
00:50:53.880 They just take all the air and the oxygen out of the room.
00:50:57.060 And so we don't really have the space to have a real conversation about the actual threats to the people and to kids because so much room is taken out of it.
00:51:08.660 Like, when was the last time you saw an article, a news article about an actual threat to children?
00:51:14.220 It's all these days. It's all completely made up threats, right?
00:51:18.940 And what's really scary to me is how baselessly accusing someone of being a child predator or a pedophile or a child pornographer or a groomer or a threat to children has made this real comeback as a solid way to attack somebody that you don't like, just like what happened to the filmmaker Deuce Array.
00:51:37.460 It is dangerous.
00:51:38.800 It can lead to real-world violence.
00:51:40.460 And in fact, we know it already has.
00:51:42.620 I would be remiss to not mention the fact that just last week, 0.94
00:51:45.440 Elon Musk smeared Yoel Roth, Twitter's former head of trust and safety, who is gay, 0.98
00:51:50.920 baselessly insinuating that he is a child predator. 0.93
00:51:53.840 And of course, a few days later, CNN reported that Roth had to flee his home for his own safety.
00:51:59.900 We should really be afraid that baselessly attacking anybody that you don't like as a child predator
00:52:04.240 is now a go-to strategy for extremists.
00:52:07.340 And so that's my big thing is like when we have a culture where made up threats based on conspiracy theories, lies and attacks on people's identity are able to take up a lot of room.
00:52:19.760 It endangers us all because we're not able to make room for the conversation about how we keep people safe that we need to be having.
00:52:27.500 And so, yeah, this is my this is my plea to be better.
00:52:31.660 We can't have that.
00:52:32.560 Like like maybe focus on the sex trafficking of indigenous girls.
00:52:37.140 not on a not on a movie that you haven't seen again like i can't emphasize this enough they
00:52:43.780 have not seen the movie and they have formed opinions off of some tweet like i said uh do
00:52:51.140 you want to read the article before you share it literally this is exactly that exactly and like
00:52:57.000 i could talk all day about this but like there are so many ways that children and young people
00:53:04.560 are being endangered and exploited in the United States. 0.99
00:53:08.360 And if you actually gave a shit about that, 0.98
00:53:11.680 there are things that you could do. 0.99
00:53:13.220 Some of them are big systemic things,
00:53:15.020 but some of them are like pretty easy to accomplish.
00:53:18.320 We don't even have that conversation
00:53:20.040 and instead we're given a conversation 1.00
00:53:21.600 about fucking nonsense. 0.99
00:53:23.260 And so I would like to posit that we need to stop, 1.00
00:53:27.540 like we cannot allow for the nonsense to proliferate
00:53:30.940 and take all the air out of the room
00:53:32.520 because that is exactly what they're counting on.
00:53:34.560 people like Ted Cruz don't have actual solutions to offer people.
00:53:38.680 All they have is stunts and grandstanding.
00:53:40.740 And so I think the more that we can peel back the curtain
00:53:44.380 and show that that's all they have to offer us,
00:53:47.120 the better we all will be.
00:53:49.540 I think that's where we end it.
00:53:51.480 That's all I got.
00:53:53.040 Sophie, thank you so much for being down to have this conversation with me.
00:53:57.600 I get a little ragey, but there is no one I'm in rather.
00:54:00.540 No, it's cool because I too love a dinner party
00:54:02.860 And I, too, love ranting about things and then making it into a podcast.
00:54:06.420 So I'm glad that we're on the same page here.
00:54:09.760 Yes.
00:54:09.980 If you would like me to come to your dinner party and scream about cuties, just let me know.
00:54:15.060 I'm happy to.
00:54:16.460 Yeah.
00:54:16.740 And if you don't, what's wrong with you?
00:54:18.320 It's so interesting.
00:54:19.720 Bridget, thank you so much for having me on.
00:54:21.840 Where can people follow you?
00:54:23.300 Well, you can follow me on Twitter at Bridget Marie.
00:54:26.160 Yeah, I'm still there tweeting away.
00:54:28.160 You can follow me on Instagram at Bridget Marie in D.C. 0.77
00:54:30.180 And as always, check out the whole slate of Cool Zone media shows because they're fucking awesome and you should be listening. 0.60
00:54:37.560 I have no bias there.
00:54:38.500 And I completely agree.
00:54:39.820 I also think that they are wonderful.
00:54:43.820 Thank you so much for having me on the show that I produce.
00:54:49.920 We'll be back probably with some kind of a bonus thing or another episode.
00:54:55.560 Just look out for it.
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00:55:00.180 Okay, bye.
00:55:01.660 Bye.
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