There Are No Girls on the Internet - June 21, 2022


Danielle Moodie is Woke AF and creating a better media ecosystem through podcasting

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00:02:12.380 I'm Bridget Todd, and this is There Are No Girls on the Internet.
00:02:17.640 So we talk a lot about media on this podcast, the good, the bad, and the ugly.
00:02:22.120 And it's really important to me because I think that everyone deserves access to thoughtful, accurate media that tells them the truth.
00:02:29.800 And when people are not nourished by good stories, it creates a gap that grifters and bad actors are more than happy to fill with lies and junk.
00:02:39.100 And this is especially bad for people that are already marginalized, like women and communities of color.
00:02:45.620 It's a real problem, and it's something that Danielle Moody has spent her entire life trying
00:02:50.620 to combat through creating digital content that meaningfully centers the kinds of people
00:02:55.020 who are traditionally left out in ways that are thoughtful, nuanced, and most importantly,
00:03:00.180 honest. I am Danielle Moody. I am the host of Woke AF and co-host of Democracy-ish,
00:03:08.160 both our political podcasts. One is daily and one is weekly that I do with a co-host.
00:03:12.880 I'm also a columnist for Zora Magazine, which is a property of medium and a political commentator
00:03:21.480 using the, I don't know, the internet to try and make some sense out of nonsense.
00:03:27.740 I like how you put that.
00:03:30.320 I mean, that's actually a great place to start.
00:03:32.160 You know, I'm so familiar with your work just as a dynamic person who has interesting
00:03:38.900 opinions, particularly about politics.
00:03:41.160 And I guess I wonder, what has the intersection of technology and the Internet and politics looked like for you?
00:03:48.440 Like, I know that you're someone who, both on your podcast and on social media, really do a lot of the work of breaking down, making sense of the world and the people who are making decisions around it on the Internet.
00:03:59.980 What does that look like for you?
00:04:01.120 You know, it's really interesting because I think that I have had a different vantage point into politics by virtue of my age and when I came into doing the work that I was doing.
00:04:13.960 And, you know, it was before we used to just have, you know, three news sites, three news stations, right, that the world was paying attention to ABC, CBS and NBC.
00:04:27.340 And you had these reputable or at the time we thought neutral, reputable, you know, white men that were delivering the news to us.
00:04:35.980 And, you know, the advent of the Internet and creating an entire social universe, creating the, you know, the metaverse allowed for us to take, you know, the power away from these institutions and actually create a more democratic understanding and makeup of who is reporting on politics and what kind of analysis that they're offering.
00:05:03.280 It democratized politics in a lot of ways that I think I have seen through my origination of my first podcast, which was in the early 2000s to now.
00:05:17.060 um it's it's incredible the amount of people the amount of diverse voices and the the amount of
00:05:23.940 eyewitness reporting that we that we use and we use firsthand accounts as opposed to just putting
00:05:30.420 all of our um all of our belief system into these institutions that have kind of been the gatekeepers
00:05:38.060 the gates have been able to open up wider for people that look like me because and look like
00:05:45.200 us because of the internet yeah that's something that i've really seen a lot of and i think
00:05:51.760 you know you and i are probably very much aligned on this but when you see people
00:05:56.440 typically white men who are saying things like oh you know it you know these days you can't say
00:06:02.280 anything cancel culture all of that nonsense i i've always thought that what they're actually
00:06:07.780 responding to is this new paradigm where actually marginalized people can have platforms that they
00:06:15.120 build themselves, actually marginalized people can put their ideas and their opinions and their
00:06:19.080 perspectives out into the world. And those perspectives will, you know, people will have
00:06:24.280 to contend with those perspectives. I think that, you know, traditionally marginalized folks have
00:06:28.700 always had, we've always had our perspectives, but because of the internet, those perspectives
00:06:34.640 are, you're able to have a platform that you built yourself or, you know, or have the conditions
00:06:42.300 where like folks have to take
00:06:44.040 what you're saying seriously
00:06:45.160 or there has to be some repercussions
00:06:46.620 for what you're saying
00:06:47.340 as opposed to just being ignored.
00:06:48.860 And so I think that when people respond to,
00:06:52.160 you know, oh, these days,
00:06:54.940 you can't say anything without being canceled.
00:06:57.320 What they're actually responding to is like,
00:06:59.300 no, just more voices are part of the conversation
00:07:01.820 and that's new.
00:07:03.620 Yeah, I think that they're responding to,
00:07:05.700 you know, something crazy called accountability,
00:07:08.400 that there are actually going to be people
00:07:09.920 that are going to push back against the things that you're saying. And that while we have become
00:07:15.140 so accustomed and so ingrained with centering whiteness in the way that we see the world,
00:07:20.500 that when you have diverse voices that are here, we have a totally different articulated narrative
00:07:26.120 right than the one that has been force fed to us. And I think that in this state where we are right
00:07:32.520 now, you know, I've heard white men say like, oh, I'm just scared. And I'm like, you have no reason
00:07:37.480 to be scared if you're not, if you're not a creep, you have no reason to be scared. If you're not a
00:07:41.940 racist, if you're not a misogynist, you know, like you should, you should not be worried. You
00:07:46.960 should have wanted things like this, um, to exist. And the fact that people are being held
00:07:51.440 accountable for the things that come out of their mouths. Um, it is not risk-free, right. To, to
00:07:57.080 offer up your opinions. And I think that people need to be aware of that. And just because you
00:08:01.820 are cis and white uh and straight does not mean that you are neutral and i think that we are
00:08:08.060 finally at a place where we're moving a moving away from that perceived uh that perceived norm
00:08:15.060 like oh if because i'm a black lesbian then that means that like i can't be neutral and i'm like
00:08:20.980 neutral neutrality is false no one is neutral right and so that's that's the thing that we
00:08:26.180 need to understand from the jump and then we can have real honest conversations about cancel
00:08:31.180 culture and accountability oh my god this comes up on the show i'm time and time again time again
00:08:37.740 this idea of the the lie that we tell ourselves particularly in journalism but i think across
00:08:43.880 media that new that that anybody is neutral and i think that neutrality is really just code for
00:08:50.900 like a white male cis heterosexual perspective and so anybody who falls outside of that and i
00:08:57.640 But I also say like middle class, able bodied, like that like that is considered to be, quote, neutral.
00:09:03.640 And anybody who happens to fall out of that perspective there, the idea is that they can't write about their own experiences or their own communities because they're going to be biased when, in fact, there is no such thing as neutrality.
00:09:16.080 We have just coded the idea along these incredibly racialized, gendered lines and had that dictate who gets to have a voice for a very long time in our media. 0.82
00:09:28.660 Yeah, and I think that it's problematic because, again, what we are saying is that they're the default, right? 0.60
00:09:35.140 That white, cis men are the default and everyone else falls outside of the quote unquote norm.
00:09:41.500 And it's like, why do we have this understanding of what is normal and what is not? Why is it that when you're seeing, you know, you're listening to broadcasters and you're watching shows and they're talking about, oh, a man was shot today. But you know that by virtue of how they said that, that it was a white man. Right. Because they don't say white. Right. So but if it was a black man or an Asian man or a Latino man, they would articulate that fact.
00:10:08.540 And so we have to move. And we saw this and I think saw it in a really disheartening way. But we saw out loud what black people have known for so long and people of color have known. As the war in Ukraine broke, you had journalists on a multitude of stations and networks saying, oh, my God, you know, we've never seen something like this in, you know, in Europe. 0.99
00:10:35.020 This is so heartbreaking. I mean, they have Starbucks and Instagram. It's not like this is Syria or Afghanistan. And you're just like, so your assumption is that the people in the countries that you just named shouldn't have safety, right?
00:10:53.440 That we should have expectations of violence in these areas, yet Europe, who was the perpetuator of violence around the globe, colonization and chattel slavery, which originated in these places and the Hundred Year War and all of these things, like somehow the fleeing of blonde hair and blue eyed people should invoke more empathy than the fleeing of brown hair and brown eyed people in various parts of the world.
00:11:22.100 And it just, it was that moment where it's just like, you need to be really careful about the language that you use and what you are saying, right? With saying what you said and with not, right? Like we're used to and have been sensitized to violence in certain areas of the world because we sell it that way, right? 0.73
00:11:41.380 And I think that that is incredibly problematic. And that's why I like, I'm so grateful to be a part of this kind of wave of, you know, podcasting and technology and how technology mixes with media to move outside of the quote unquote mainstream.
00:11:58.800 Yeah, I'm so glad that you brought that up. And a lot of my work, both in the podcast and in my nine to five, focuses around things like media accountability and media trust. And I think you just really nailed it. Right. I think that there are so like it pains me when I see people who fall prey to things like conspiracy theories or disinformation or misinformation online.
00:12:22.040 But the reality is people, particularly black and brown folks, have legitimate reasons to be very skeptical of some of our media, media that constantly otherizes us, media that constantly, you know, shows us every day that the Ukraine example that you just gave about the way that they were speaking about, you know, how folks in Ukraine have Starbucks and they're, quote, just like us and how that was different than, you know, sets up this dynamic where it's different than other countries. 0.80
00:12:49.160 It's like very clear to me what they're trying to say. I think that we have not fully contended with how deeply unserved so many traditionally marginalized communities are by institutions like traditional media.
00:13:04.540 And that because that is true, because these institutions fail us every day, it sets folks up to be susceptible to disinformation, conspiracy theories, bad actors, people who are selling them, you know, nonsense, because it feels like that our only other option is also not serving us in a meaningful way, not centering us in a meaningful way.
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00:14:32.760 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:14:39.120 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files.
00:14:42.820 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear saying, shut up, don't say anything.
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00:16:23.540 you get your podcasts. See you between the pages. And we're back. We already know that bad actors
00:16:36.140 and provocateurs intentionally weaponize and spread lies online and in media to stoke and
00:16:41.760 inflame tensions. But what's sometimes harder to see are the ways that traditional media outlets,
00:16:46.620 the kind of places that you would expect to be better, add fuel to the fire by spreading and
00:16:51.920 normalizing, inaccurate, and inflammatory narratives as well. For instance, you probably
00:16:57.180 might have heard that, according to a judge, Tucker Carlson's show on Fox News doesn't actually
00:17:02.500 have to include any actual, you know, news. The judge's opinion said that the general tenor of
00:17:09.060 the show should inform a viewer that Carlson is not, quote, stating actual facts about the topics
00:17:14.640 he discusses and is instead engaging in, quote, exaggeration and non-literal commentary. Danielle
00:17:21.600 says that making our own media like she does can be a means of creating more authentic,
00:17:26.100 not to mention truthful, information ecosystem. I would argue that, and I've said many times on
00:17:32.900 my own show, that we have an FCC, right? We have an FCC that is supposed to regulate
00:17:40.720 the airwaves and supposed to regulate television and radio. And yet you have outlets like Fox News
00:17:49.740 who outwardly promote lies, right?
00:17:54.060 And while we want to put up notations on Netflix
00:17:59.720 and on Amazon and on Hulu that says nudity, violence,
00:18:03.720 smoking, all of these things, age 13 and up,
00:18:07.540 we don't put the same notifiers on news outlets
00:18:11.080 that are spreading dangerous lies
00:18:13.560 that have cost people their lives, right?
00:18:16.100 And so it isn't just like looking at mainstream
00:18:19.360 and saying, oh, my God, they're bad. But the people that are supposed to be in charge of regulating
00:18:23.940 them have decided not to. And then they hide behind the Constitution and saying that, oh,
00:18:29.280 it's freedom of speech. And it's just like, I'm not saying not to say what you're saying,
00:18:34.020 but I'm saying that there should be a warning sign that comes with Tupper Carlson.
00:18:37.760 There should be a warning sign that comes with Laura Ingraham. There should be a moment before
00:18:43.080 their shows go on and midway through. And when they close out, that says that it is dangerous,
00:18:48.460 that says that this is for entertainment purposes only, that it is not to be perceived as education,
00:18:54.840 right? And so by virtue of how we have allowed these entities to survive, it's the reason why
00:19:02.540 podcasting in all of its form, talking about a range of themes has become so popular because
00:19:08.960 you can't rely on mainstream media anymore to provide you with the information that you need.
00:19:13.920 And we saw that readily apparent during the beginning of COVID, right?
00:19:19.800 Like you have all of these outlets saying, chirping and parroting what Donald Trump was
00:19:26.060 saying, that it was a hoax.
00:19:28.820 Hundreds of thousands of lives were lost because of that lie.
00:19:32.340 And not once, again, was there any lawsuit against Fox News, OAN, any of these places
00:19:39.300 to say that what they were saying was violent and costing people their lives and that they
00:19:43.900 were a national threat. Nothing. So I love the rise of kind of this form of media because it's
00:19:54.580 necessary. And I think that you're going to see more and more of it as people just move away from
00:19:59.560 television altogether, right? Because you're getting your information, you're streaming it
00:20:04.940 in so many different ways. I know that you are a longtime podcaster, a longtime person who's been
00:20:11.280 using the internet to build platforms that can really tell a different story. I feel the same
00:20:15.300 way. You know, I've worked in podcasting in some capacity behind the mic, in front of the mic
00:20:20.920 since like 2009, right? And so I was doing it back in the day when we didn't know what the
00:20:26.840 heck we were doing. Like it was like the wild, wild west. I was like learning everything that
00:20:32.020 I was doing on my, like as I was doing it. And I think it's so interesting now to look around the
00:20:38.400 space and just see a different, a different, a different vibe, right? Like it's, it's, I guess
00:20:44.900 that's one of the reasons why I love podcasting and the internet as a place to build your own
00:20:49.700 media platforms and tell a different kind of like media story, because it does feel very inclusive.
00:20:54.300 There are queer folks, black folks, brown folks, women, people with disabilities, you know, trans
00:20:59.020 folks. Thanks to the internet and technology, I believe we've been able to really build these
00:21:03.740 platforms that center ourselves and just allow us to be seen in different lights. And that's so
00:21:09.580 important because we deserve, you know, thoughtful depictions of ourselves in media. We deserve
00:21:15.280 media that meaningfully centers and serves our communities. You know, I had a really interesting
00:21:21.820 conversation over, you know, a couple of weeks ago with friends of mine because they were talking
00:21:27.640 about how their jobs are using the metaverse, right? That they are having the, what are they,
00:21:35.640 the Oculus, the, you know, the Oculus eyewear, and that they are, their organizations and their
00:21:43.000 companies have created alternate universes within and camp and digital campuses to create community
00:21:50.500 because they have gone virtual, that they were still roughly 25% of workers in the United States
00:21:56.600 are still virtual and will remain that way because of, because of COVID and how it has
00:22:02.100 just transformed the way that we work. And I thought to myself, wow, that, that is really
00:22:06.580 fascinating. Also terrifying, right? Because you, I'm like, you know, the thing about,
00:22:11.860 you know, television and the thing about like not being so like being in social media,
00:22:18.720 which you are addicted to your phone and you're swiping and the democratization of it all is that
00:22:23.580 we actually don't, we actually carry the transphobia, the ableism, the racism into all of
00:22:31.200 these spaces. So while we have seen an expansion of representation in terms of who is holding the
00:22:37.760 mic, what we are seeing though, as technology develops and we become more immersed with having
00:22:44.300 our, you know, quote unquote, in real life, but then having our avatar, having this other
00:22:50.700 alternative metaverse, that what we're realizing is how those issues are just being reimagined in
00:22:59.140 different spaces. And so it's like, how do we have a conversation that is about the excitement around
00:23:05.560 how inclusive technology can be, but if we are not mindful about how it is being used and who
00:23:14.880 is using it, that all we're doing is changing spaces, but not actually changing hearts and
00:23:20.500 minds.
00:23:21.660 Oh, absolutely.
00:23:22.560 I mean, I completely agree.
00:23:24.700 And I think, you know, it doesn't matter if you're talking about the podcast space, the
00:23:31.140 metaverse, Web3.
00:23:33.480 If you are not intentional and if you are not really mindful from the very beginning,
00:23:39.140 it doesn't matter what revolutionary technology or revolutionary thing that you have that's
00:23:43.940 the democratized tech or democratized media, you will just be reinventing those same isms,
00:23:54.720 racism, sexism, all of them in this new space, unless you are intentional from the very beginning.
00:24:00.540 And that's, I think that it's, I will always be like a tech optimist. I will always be
00:24:05.660 excited and hopeful about the promises that new technology will bring. But I'm also a realist
00:24:12.320 Because I do know that people can get so starry-eyed and excited about new technology, and they think, you know, oh, we won't need to have, like, these considerations won't be a problem in this new realm, in the metaverse or in Web3.
00:24:26.740 But then I know that is not true, because racism, like, that train is never late.
00:24:32.580 It shows up forever.
00:24:34.620 That train is never late.
00:24:35.680 It's always on time.
00:24:36.760 It's always on time.
00:24:39.240 My God, it's never run off schedule.
00:24:41.460 But it's totally true. And I think, you know, I had watched the documentary Coded Bias a while back and it blew my mind. I was just like, my God, not even can we think about relieving ourselves of racism?
00:24:59.100 No, it's present in algorithms.
00:25:01.420 And I'm like, Jesus Christ, you know?
00:25:03.780 So it's like, if you're not tackling these issues,
00:25:06.000 if you're not talking about them,
00:25:07.460 if you're not trying to reach
00:25:09.140 and break through the noise,
00:25:11.320 which is what I try and do on a day-to-day basis
00:25:14.240 with Woke AF, it's like,
00:25:16.500 if you're not trying to reach these people,
00:25:18.320 we're just transferring, right?
00:25:20.280 We're not changing anything.
00:25:22.320 And so, you know, we watched it
00:25:23.880 with the whole debacle around Spotify and Joe Rogan
00:25:27.480 and the fact that, oh, okay,
00:25:29.100 Well, Spotify decides, OK, they get called out for supporting racism by virtue of supporting him.
00:25:35.340 And then they say, oh, well, we're going to give 50 black people 100 million.
00:25:40.780 Like they're going to get to share the pot of 100 million dollars that we're going to distribute that we have given one white cis man. 0.59
00:25:49.940 And I said, who the hell was doing your PR and thought that that was going to be a good look? 0.58
00:25:56.780 that basically you said that every podcaster of color, right, is worth one white man. 0.97
00:26:07.180 Ugh. I hated that. That really, yeah.
00:26:12.000 Yeah, it was just, it was just disgusting. But you, you know, you listen, you know, when we see
00:26:18.540 TikTok and we see Black creators on TikTok, you know, pushing back and saying, okay, 0.88
00:26:24.760 So now these white creators come in, they bite our videos, they bite our work, they slap on their name to it, and then all of a sudden they got millions of followers and millions of dollars worth of endorsements, right? 0.99
00:26:37.580 And so it's like, yes, we have all of these platforms that we can readily access, but it's like who's able to monetize, who's able to break through? 0.82
00:26:47.620 They're still the gatekeepers that are largely white men that get to say yay and nay. 0.80
00:26:54.760 That's such a good point. And I think it goes back to, I mean, something that a mentor once told me is that you should always be really careful building your house on someone else's land. 0.99
00:27:04.460 And I guess when I think about the platforms that I think of as platforms that I have built myself, and in a lot of ways I have, but the powers that be at Apple could decide that I don't belong there and kick me off tomorrow.
00:27:17.900 You know, if you have lots and lots of Instagram followers or TikTok followers, it's like, it can feel like something that you have ownership over. But while our tech platforms and internet platforms are all so, you know, in the hands of, you know, powerful tech leaders who all kind of happen to be white men, you really don't own as much as you think, I guess I would say.
00:27:42.560 And so I've always tried to be very mindful of that, that like as cool as it is to try to build your own platforms, to tell your own stories yourself, it is a good reminder that while so much of the owning class is, you know, white, straight tech leaders and tech bros and all of that, you know, what can you what can you really own?
00:28:03.540 What can you really have that's yours?
00:28:04.860 You know, and that's and that's one of the reasons, you know, why I became independent.
00:28:11.660 Right.
00:28:11.860 Like for the longest time I was doing the tap dance and the jig for networks for, you know, to see me, see me, see me and like show my work by virtue of how many hits on television that I could get. Right. How many people were calling into my show when it was still on Sirius XM. Right.
00:28:31.420 And so one of the reasons why it was important as a Black queer woman to go to a podcast company that is run by Black people, right, was because, one, I did not want to have my voice shrunken, right?
00:28:50.940 I didn't want to have to shrink myself to fit into other people's ideas of me, but then realizing that even in being independent, I still need the Apples and the Spotify's and, you know, the Stitcher's and all of those places to put my independent work on, right?
00:29:09.060 So it goes back to what your mentor said about building your house on other people's land, because it's like, yes, I built this house. Right. But I still have to put it someplace. And I don't get like by, you know, unfortunately, don't own the the the the apples and the and the Spotify's and those places.
00:29:29.520 So you're still going to be beholden to those people who get to determine your worth and your value.
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00:32:41.280 Let's get right back into it.
00:32:44.080 I really identify with what you just said about going independent.
00:32:47.880 And there was a time in my life where, this was several years ago, where I thought the path for me, the path to be where I wanted to be in my career and in my life was sort of, quote, being seen by a big traditional media outlet.
00:33:02.180 And I worked for a big news network whose name you definitely have heard of, but I'm not going to say here.
00:33:07.780 And so much of that-
00:33:09.220 You know that I remember you from there.
00:33:11.120 Yeah, I'm sure.
00:33:11.880 I don't know it.
00:33:13.660 It's a no big secret.
00:33:14.680 I know where you were.
00:33:16.600 It's no big secret.
00:33:17.560 And no shade to them. I have no shade to them at all. But I thought I had really bought into this idea that the path forward was somebody at that network liking me or seeing me. And so I was sort of always auditioning, even for a job I already had.
00:33:36.400 And when I look back at all of the work I had to do to sort of not just let go of that job and let go of that mindset, but do a lot of like internal work of saying, you know, I know that I have value.
00:33:50.400 I know that I have something to say.
00:33:51.700 I know that I have a perspective.
00:33:52.940 It doesn't matter how many views, how many clicks my content or my piece makes for somebody else.
00:34:00.260 My worth is not tied to that.
00:34:01.940 And really, you know, you described it as like doing the dance.
00:34:04.500 that was all I was doing in that part of my life and it didn't get me anywhere and I look back and
00:34:10.000 I think all of these things that would have been that would have been for me like the height of
00:34:14.900 success I don't even need them anymore let alone like want them I don't even need them anymore
00:34:19.420 the height of success to me is is having a platform to say what I want to say and feeling
00:34:24.200 good about it and and not having to have the pressure of like oh I hope they like it I hope
00:34:28.780 it goes viral. I hope this, I hope that, you know, how exhausting that was and how much of myself I
00:34:34.400 spent on that, on that dance. I guess I really identify with what you just said. Bridget, I was
00:34:39.940 like, you know, it, I felt like I was on a hamster wheel for like 10 years, right? Just, you know,
00:34:48.300 my entree into media was around, uh, same-sex marriage was in, you know, the, you know, the
00:34:56.000 2010s. And doing everything for those outlets, just trying to get on television, chasing the
00:35:05.780 producers, chasing these things, making sure that my social media was just right because I didn't
00:35:13.060 want to be too offensive and too this and too that and too much. And then finally realizing that
00:35:19.460 what the hell am I doing? I have contorted myself into a watered down version of myself
00:35:25.800 so that I would make myself digestible to the white sea sweet. And I just decided I don't want
00:35:33.360 this, right? What I want is to share my thoughts and my message unfiltered, right? And if you don't
00:35:39.540 like that unfilteredness, if you need your politics with more sugar, then I am not the one,
00:35:46.160 Right. Because I'm going to give it to you straight. So it was, you know, the recognition for me. And again, this came really through the pandemic of looking around and realizing that everything was shifting, everything that you thought was was no longer and saying that this was an opportunity for those of us in a privileged space.
00:36:05.340 This was an opportunity to reinvent and to say, you know what? I'm dropping all of the precursors. I'm dropping all of the caveats. I'm actually just going to say what the fuck I want to say and how I want to say it. And if you want me on air, book me. If you don't, I ain't chasing you and I'm good, right? Because I'm going to say what I want to say, how I want to say it and miss me, you know, with everybody else's interpretation of how it should be.
00:36:29.280 oh I'm so I love how you put that and I think I had the same thing and for me it went back to
00:36:35.040 this idea of stopping this dance of trying to be everything for everybody and just realizing that
00:36:42.980 like what I have to say is not going to hit with everybody and that's okay and that actually is
00:36:47.420 helpful because it allows me to spend time really leaning into my people and like who I am for and
00:36:54.580 so rather than spending all that energy trying to be you know exactly the right curated version
00:36:59.200 of myself, I'm just going to be who I actually am. And the people who are with that, that will
00:37:04.460 resonate with them. And the people who are not with that, who cares? I'm not for them. I'm not
00:37:08.580 for everybody. I am who I'm for. And that's who I should be concerned about. People who I'm not
00:37:12.860 for, it's not really my business what they think about me. You know, one of the things that I still
00:37:17.340 do a bit of, and this is only for, you know, organizations who align with my value set and
00:37:24.540 my missions is that I do media trainings and executive coaching for underrepresented CEOs
00:37:30.120 and executive directors. And I remember that when I started doing media trainings many years ago,
00:37:36.760 you know, it was always about trying to present people's best version of themselves, right? But
00:37:42.440 it was also about making them palpable, watering them down. What about thinking about what will
00:37:48.340 margin middle America think right like what will this person think now when I do media trainings I
00:37:54.980 say tell the truth what is what is the truth that you want to be offering up to you know to the to
00:38:00.780 the people do you understand your audience do you know where they are right and then we can craft
00:38:05.600 whatever message that you want but at the end of the day this is about telling the truth this is
00:38:09.740 not about watering things down we are past the watered down version um of of of America and what
00:38:16.660 we need to be seeing and doing. People need to be activated. And I think that, you know,
00:38:21.020 one of the purposes of mainstream media is pacification, because if they actually wanted
00:38:26.400 people to be, you know, riled up, to be knowledgeable, then we wouldn't see the kind
00:38:32.320 of news that we see, right? Like there, it wouldn't just be, you know, the three stories
00:38:37.000 that all of the networks are going to cover for a week, and that's going to be it, right? There
00:38:41.500 would be more substance that is there. And so, you know, we also have to recognize that we're
00:38:46.300 not going to be able to get our education through the people who are trying to actually
00:38:50.980 remain in power and continue to oppress people.
00:38:54.320 What was it, Audre Lorde, that says the master's tools are not going to dismantle the master's
00:38:59.220 house.
00:38:59.840 Then that is like, to me, how I look at mainstream media versus, you know, podcasting and the
00:39:06.260 new age of technology and media is that we are using different tools to still try and
00:39:12.220 dismantle this house.
00:39:13.300 but then recognizing that the house that we have built is still on somebody else's land.
00:39:17.700 And so what is the next step? What does the next iteration of that look like?
00:39:23.360 Well, I guess I have to send that question back to you. I mean, for you,
00:39:26.580 what does that look like? What does the next step look like in your mind?
00:39:30.280 You know, I just, I realized for me just recently, I went on TikTok, right?
00:39:37.500 I saw that you just joined.
00:39:38.880 I literally just joined TikTok like a month ago. And I was totally against it because I'm like, I ain't going on this children's site, right? Like, it's in my head. That's why I was like, I'm not going on this children's site. And then I started to realize that, you know, it used to be that to be considered credible, you needed to write, right?
00:39:58.680 Then we realized people don't actually like to read. Then it was, oh, well, then go on television. And then you realize like, oh, well, people's attention span has actually shrunk. Now I need to figure out a way that I'm shrinking down my 40 minute show that I do daily into just one minute, just 60 seconds of content, because that's how people are getting their information.
00:40:25.720 So I couldn't just poo poo like this, this medium that felt uncomfortable to me because I wasn't the age target demographic for it. But then recognize that like, we as content creators need to be adapting to where people are getting their content and how they're consuming that content.
00:40:44.240 So for me, the next iteration is just meeting people where they are and making sure that I am as nimble as possible and that there is no no, right?
00:40:54.720 Like, no, I don't want to do this. No, it doesn't feel right. If it doesn't feel right, great.
00:40:58.940 But I don't want to close myself out of different ways to communicate with people because that is always going to evolve.
00:41:05.100 And for a content creator and somebody that wants to wake people up, needing to evolve with where people are.
00:41:11.320 that's such a smart way to think about it like that's why that's why I started out as a podcaster
00:41:16.640 because it was like an emerging this is you know back in the day it was like an emerging new medium
00:41:21.300 and I was just like I'm so excited to see what people do with this and people were doing like
00:41:25.520 weird out off the wall stuff with it and so I think like being willing to be nimble and saying
00:41:31.480 yes to new places where it feels right for your voice to be where it feels like like there's
00:41:36.200 alignment, I think it's really is really key. Yeah, because I'm not trying to fit where I don't
00:41:41.180 but you know, I'm not trying to make and I think that that to just going back really quickly to
00:41:45.920 to mainstream media, that was the thing is that I was trying to fit myself into a space that did
00:41:52.600 not want me and actually was very clear about the fact that they did not want me right but I kept
00:41:57.780 trying to fit in fit in. And I think that you know, by virtue of just having been in this podcasting
00:42:03.560 space, been in this new media space for, you know, a decade now, um, it is, it's really interesting
00:42:11.380 to decide to, to follow your own beat, right. To create your own, like to figure out what works for
00:42:20.260 you and then just keep pushing it out. Right. And, you know, and people will bite like they do,
00:42:26.660 you know, people, people will bite, but you have to be really steadfast in what it is that you're
00:42:31.540 creating and delivering um and then figure out where to put it yeah and it's like i've definitely
00:42:37.400 gotten to a place again over years of internal work and sort of like figuring out what my
00:42:43.860 perspective i don't want to be in any rooms where it's clear that i am not welcomed i don't want to
00:42:48.500 be anywhere where my presence is not a gift a value you know people don't yeah like i just
00:42:55.640 have no interest i maybe it comes with getting older but yeah but it's the truth but it's the
00:43:01.380 truth it's just like you know and i think it's because the generations that came before us
00:43:05.640 fought so hard to get into those rooms right they fought so hard to get a seat at the table 0.98
00:43:11.620 and i think that the generations that are coming now are just like yeah fuck that room i don't need 0.96
00:43:18.400 it like i'll create literally i will create my own space like i'm good you know you continue to do 0.96
00:43:24.860 you over there and I'm going to create something over here. And, you know, that, that is what gives
00:43:31.100 me hope about, about new media, about these, the, the ways in which we're all adapting to these
00:43:38.520 different spaces is that it's an opportunity for us to show up as our most authentic selves,
00:43:44.380 right? It's the opportunity to say like, no, I'm not going to do, you know, I remember when I
00:43:49.360 locked my hair, right? This is, you know, 20 years ago, I locked my hair and people were just like,
00:43:55.260 and you're going to work in politics. I don't think that that's a good idea, right? Because
00:44:00.000 unless I was going to present some Eurocentric form version of myself, some permed pressed form
00:44:06.320 version of myself, then apparently what was going to come out of my mouth didn't matter,
00:44:10.240 right? So I think that we are still in a place, I mean, we just passed the crown act,
00:44:15.400 Like, we're still in a place where, like, we're still having to justify how we look, how we sound. But I think that it's a better place to be in when we're the ones that are owning and creating the spaces and deciding where and when and how we want to be involved. Right? And, like, how and where and when we want to show up. It's a different form of power.
00:44:36.580 I love that. And think about this, like, I never thought I'd see the day where we have Judge Jackson about to make history as first black woman on the Supreme Court with braids. I never thought I'd see the day and here we are.
00:44:50.260 So I think it goes to show you that, you know, we've come to a different place where I think that we have, we're setting the standard for how we want to show up. And I think that standard is being dictated by us and not external forces. And I love that for us. I hope that we all, I hope that this is like a new normal where we just accept that we are going to show up as ourselves, our most authentic selves.
00:45:18.240 and folks can accept that or not accept that.
00:45:21.480 You know, one of the funniest things that came out,
00:45:24.100 the funniest memes that I saw
00:45:25.620 that came out of the Oscars, you know, debacle was, 0.99
00:45:30.140 this is now fuck around and find out, right? 0.98
00:45:33.140 So like, so it's like, you know, 0.99
00:45:36.440 you can, like, that's what it is.
00:45:38.460 Like it is, you know,
00:45:39.680 and you can take that any which way you want.
00:45:41.960 You can be like, you know,
00:45:43.780 you're not going to disrupt my piece 1.00
00:45:45.440 because you're going to fuck around and find out, right? 1.00
00:45:47.460 Like I'm going to continue telling the truth or you're going to fuck around and find out. 0.99
00:45:51.100 Like, I think that whatever that means for you, but it is it's saying like, yeah, I'm not trying to fit myself into your standards. 0.98
00:45:59.680 Right. I'm going to make my own. And the more like that you try and place people into boxes, the more that you're going to see people want to burst out of them.
00:46:10.980 And I think that if we can embrace, you know, this new season of life and expectations that we have for ourselves, right, and the brands that we are building and creating, then, you know, it will be a new dawn, right?
00:46:28.080 And I think that every day is the beginning of a new dawn.
00:46:31.400 Every season offers us an opportunity to try to be better, do things that are bolder, right?
00:46:38.660 And I think that that's what podcasting allows us to really do is to be bold, to be big and to exist outside of the box.
00:46:47.580 I love that. Danielle, I have one last question for you, a little bit of a curveball question.
00:46:52.500 So one of your podcasts is called Woke AF.
00:46:56.180 What do you and it's fantastic. People should definitely listen to it as well as democracy ish.
00:47:00.460 But what is it like, you know, this idea of being woke, you know, definitely started in Black vernacular, like that was our term. And now I feel that it's almost become a dog whistle, right? Like, you know, speaking of Judge Jackson, I remember before, even before she was named as a Supreme Court nominee and Biden was just like, oh, I'm planning on picking a Black woman.
00:47:22.860 And one of the arguments I heard about this hypothetical Black woman who wasn't even named yet was that she was going to be the woke choice for the Supreme Court.
00:47:31.280 How did we get to this place where the term woke is now almost like a just like a coded dog whistle for Black?
00:47:40.080 And what do you what do you make of that as someone who, you know, has a show that that is, you know, the word that you use to describe your own, you know, your own politics and ideology?
00:47:51.660 I mean, for me, being woke is about being conscious and aware of the world around you, right? What does it mean to live consciously, right? Not as ostriches that are burying our heads in the sand and waiting for the tide to turn, right?
00:48:06.600 And I think that, you know, what the what progressives and folks on the left have allowed once again is for the right to co-opt the language and turn it into turn something that is very positive, which is about, you know, what what is what is the opposite of being woke?
00:48:22.700 And that's the thing that I say to folks, like, why is there no pushback when they're like, oh, they're going to be the woke guy?
00:48:28.640 So what is your preference for somebody to be asleep? What is your what is your preference for us to be unconscious? Right.
00:48:34.740 And because what does that allow you to do if the rest of us are in slumber, right? It allows for you to run roughshod and have no accountability and no responsibility for the things that you do because ain't nobody paying attention. So like, I think that, you know, you, we have to reclaim words that we allow the radical right to take over. And then what, but what people do, like what, you know, white moderates want to do and Democrats want to do is that they want to run from it.
00:49:01.360 Oh, we're not woke. You know, we're just like everybody else. No, I'm not. No, I am not. And that is OK. Right. Like, I don't want to go through my life asleep and neither should you, because I don't know what good comes to anybody when they don't live their lives consciously and on their own terms.
00:49:18.060 So I think that there needs to be consistent pushback to that, to the negative connotation that folks have allowed white supremacists on the right to attribute to a word that was birthed out of Black people deciding, right, and recognizing that, like, you know, we live consciously.
00:49:40.660 So what about the rest of you? Because while the rest of you get to walk around and pretend that, like, ain't nothing going on, we're the ones that have to look around and make sure that, like, we're as safe as we can possibly be. If Black people were to walk around their lives in a slumber, we would all be dead. Right? Like, so let us, you know, I think that it's important to push back against those negative connotations.
00:50:05.220 And you do it every week and every day with both of your shows. And I'm so grateful for your work
00:50:12.140 and grateful for your voice. Danielle, where can folks keep up with all of the amazing stuff that
00:50:17.200 you've got going on? Thank you. Yes, folks can keep up with me. Woke AF is Monday through Friday.
00:50:23.940 You can get that on anywhere that you get your podcast, whether it is on Apple, Spotify, Stitcher.
00:50:29.720 If you want the video version of that daily show, you can get that at Patreon.com slash Woke AF, where the video show is up every single day.
00:50:40.480 And then you can follow me on Twitter where I am extraordinarily active at D2Cents, D-E-E-T-W-O-C-E-N-T-S.
00:50:48.560 And newly to TikTok, Danielle Moody underscore.
00:50:52.360 So you can check me out there, too, where I am getting very, very lit.
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00:53:18.020 I'm Nick Turturro.
00:53:19.140 You probably know me from NYPD Blue, The Longest Yard, or Spike Lee's Black Klansman.
00:53:24.220 And on my new podcast, Delivering Happiness with Nick Turturro, I deliver pizza to a new guest.
00:53:29.280 I've shared a slice with everyone, from Seth Rollins.
00:53:31.940 What are you doing with my belt?
00:53:33.180 To Bill Burr.
00:53:34.080 I don't think I've ever met somebody so exactly out of their mind as I am.
00:53:39.180 And now, we even have more great guests coming up, including the great John Turturro.
00:53:43.840 It's called happiness.
00:53:44.900 Delivering happiness.
00:53:45.960 And many, many more.
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