00:00:49.980If your bookshelf and your For You page are equally important to your personality, welcome home.
00:00:55.400Pro Society is a weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse.
00:01:04.060Each week, we're connecting the dots between books, the internet, and pop culture with your favorite writers, book talk creators, and plenty of overthought opinions.
00:03:44.860Now in AOC's Instagram Live, she recounted hearing somebody bang on her office door,
00:03:49.380come into her office and say, where is she?
00:03:51.940At the time, she was afraid that rioters had found her.
00:03:54.620But she later realized this person was a Capitol Police officer who was there to help her.
00:03:59.480Now, after this, we saw really ugly trends on Twitter like hashtag AOC lied and hashtag Alexandria Ocasio Smollett comparing her to Jussie Smollett to suggest that she was making up her account, despite it being corroborated by multiple people like Representative Katie Porter and Bernie Sanders aide Ari Rabin.
00:04:16.700So this is actually a really good example of how disinformation works in real time.
00:04:21.440This complete distortion of what AOC said has become part of the public dialogue, despite it being based on lies.
00:20:57.980and anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice
00:20:59.660and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse.
00:21:02.380I'm Eli Rallo, and every week we're connecting the dots between books, the internet, and the conversations everyone can't stop having.
00:21:09.800I'm going to have to look up this story. I'm obsessed. I'm obsessed.
00:21:13.380From best-selling authors and your favorite book talk creators to the latest pop culture moments, nothing is off the table.
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00:35:45.760when i was 14 years old i was kidnapped and held captive for nine months i survived and i've spent
00:35:53.620my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them i'm elizabeth smart
00:35:59.640and these are the survivor files i just remember this low taunting voice next to my ear saying
00:36:07.300shut up don't say anything every week i'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable
00:36:14.780I knew if he woke up, without a doubt, he was going to hurt me.0.89
00:36:19.240I started feeling that there was someone at the end of my bed, and I just started screaming.
00:36:26.860They are abducted, stalked, controlled, and nearly silenced.
00:36:30.780But these aren't stories about what's taken from them.
00:36:34.220They're stories about what it takes to make it out alive.
00:36:37.340Listen to The Survivor Files with Elizabeth Smart on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
00:36:46.300If your bookshelf and your For You page are equally important to your personality, welcome home.
00:36:52.220This is Prose Society, the weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for thought daughters, pop culture obsessives, and anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse.
00:37:04.680I'm Eli Rallo, and every week we're connecting the dots between books,
00:37:08.400the internet, and the conversations everyone can't stop having.
00:37:11.820I'm going to have to look up this story.
00:38:16.080If you, if you, it will be very easy to fix, to stop it.
00:38:19.260It wouldn't it be great if you did not have to individually dedicate brain space to managing
00:38:24.640how you were going to deal with this just to show up and do your job, live your life the way that
00:38:30.340you want to live it online? Yeah, I mean, it would be amazing. I mean, we have protocols in our house
00:38:35.920when the attacks really get bad. My phone gets taken away from me. Everybody knows to text my
00:38:42.860husband if they need me because I won't have it on me anymore. I mean, these are coping mechanisms
00:38:48.300just to protect my own mental health when these things happen. And I know, I mean, the reason why
00:38:54.460I have those protocols because I learned them from other black women who were like, OK, here's how you can deal with it.0.99
00:38:59.620Or here's, you know, when I step away. And yeah, I mean, that's the insidiousness of white supremacy.0.99
00:39:05.440Right. Is that the onus is on those of us that are under its boot to create situations or to create systems just to help us survive.
00:39:15.460And our white counterparts just don't have to deal with that.0.61
00:39:20.120They do not have to reckon with the possibility of simply speaking your truth, meaning you're going to have to deal with a whole list of stuff that have nothing to do with your initial purpose for interacting online.0.51
00:39:36.600And, you know, we do a lot of our work in digital spaces, so it's not a place that I can step away from.
00:39:42.140I also, you know, center a lot of my work around direct giving and I move a lot of money
00:39:46.820directly, especially to black women and femmes through social media.0.88
00:39:50.960So for me, it's not a place that I'm really willing to leave because the resources are
00:50:01.220And AOC looked at her and said, I hope I get to be a mom.
00:50:05.300And I just, I want people to hear that this is a young woman who has
00:50:12.380a huge platform. She takes it very seriously. She does diligent and amazing work, but she's
00:50:22.980still a young woman who shouldn't be made to feel like this just for doing her job.
00:50:28.740And I don't know what it's going to take. And I think that's what's really been scaring me the
00:50:35.100most in this last few years is that I have a sinking suspicion that it's going to take something
00:50:43.300so violent that, yeah, I'm just really actually afraid for the physical safety of so many of
00:50:54.040these elected officials right now. And I don't know what to do with that fear. I can only imagine
00:51:01.840how they are all feeling um this has been just a like I'm reaching out to you know my St. Louis
00:51:08.800crew like what who's watching Corey like I'm obsessed about it literally I I find myself
00:51:14.280just constantly being concerned um some of them I don't worry about because like Ayanna I know
00:51:19.960she's she's she's got a very strong uh you know um protective system around her but I just worry
00:51:27.140I just worry as we're watching, continuing to watch these conspiracy theorists and white supremacists continue to take up space, continue to not be challenged.
00:51:41.300It was really disturbing to watch the hearing yesterday.
00:51:43.940I was so triggered to hear the GOP representatives one after the other get up and make equivocation for MTG's behavior and these false equivalencies that they kept throwing up.
00:51:59.980But I was really buoyed by the Democrats that got up and really were specific about the harms that were done, about who these were targeted against and why we can't stand for it any longer.
00:52:12.680I have not heard the Democrats speak in such large collective voice about this yet.
00:52:18.600And it's sad that it took someone like Marjorie Taylor Greene to get them to do it, because
00:52:25.760had they been doing this all along, perhaps there wouldn't be a Marjorie Taylor Greene
00:52:40.780Absolutely. And and it needs to be said that these moments always come at the expense of women of color.
00:52:50.600And I think that it plays into our disposability and in this notion that, well, we can just take it and this notion that we're really just here to serve as an example for other people to to learn from.
00:53:10.780And that's a hard reality that we actually live with every single day, that our lives themselves
00:53:17.080are an example. We really just want to live. I say this all the time. I don't know an organizer
00:53:25.080that would not rather be doing something else. We are organizers because we are called and because
00:53:31.420we have to be. I'd love to just go to Paris and go to pastry school and bake all day if I had a
00:53:40.580choice. But that's not the world that I live in. And it demands more of me because I want my nieces
00:53:47.320to have a better world. And I want my nephews to not be raised in a world that would have them
00:53:53.540become misogynist. And I feel called to support people that are in need. And so the ways in which
00:54:03.820we are dehumanized in digital spaces, that we become these two-dimensional, flattened
00:54:10.560out personalities in ways that our white counterparts are always seen as three-dimensional.
00:54:15.980It's always about the nuance of their experience. And for us, everything is black and white. And
00:54:22.460it's a while to watch your sisters just become a lesson for people to learn, their pain be a
00:54:33.520lesson for people to learn from. And I want that to stop as well. I want better for us all.