There Are No Girls on the Internet - September 23, 2021


Gabby Petito and the search for ethical true crime

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00:02:12.800 When I was 21, a good friend of mine went missing.
00:02:16.480 I'm not sure it's something I ever completely got over.
00:02:19.960 And I still kind of think of my adult life as divided between before her disappearance and after her disappearance.
00:02:26.400 That's how much the experience changed me.
00:02:29.200 Watching my friend's story be picked apart on Nancy Grace's true crime television show
00:02:33.540 was one of the most surreal experiences of my life. 0.59
00:02:37.200 I just remember how foreign the person that she was describing seemed to me.
00:02:41.220 I didn't recognize my cool, funny friend at all.
00:02:44.600 By the time they found her body, I had stopped watching programming about her case altogether.
00:02:49.480 I just couldn't keep listening to people trying to tell her story without her in it.
00:02:54.460 This week, authorities found the remains of Gabby Petito,
00:02:57.660 the 22-year-old woman who was documenting her travels
00:03:00.160 to national parks with her fiancé in a van.
00:03:02.940 Now, this story is heartbreaking,
00:03:04.880 and it also feels really familiar to me.
00:03:08.100 Gabby's tragic story ignited social media.
00:03:11.120 Now, many people were just legitimately trying
00:03:13.220 to get the word out about Gabby's disappearance.
00:03:15.700 But I was also really troubled by the kind of content
00:03:18.300 that other folks on social media were making
00:03:20.260 that included everything from baseless conspiracy theories
00:03:23.740 to psychics claiming to have information
00:03:26.160 about her whereabouts.
00:03:28.180 Now, these weren't just random one-off videos
00:03:30.300 that maybe got a handful of views here or there.
00:03:32.860 They were going viral on platforms
00:03:35.140 like Twitter and TikTok.
00:03:36.920 And I just really didn't like it.
00:03:39.740 It felt like some people were gleefully
00:03:41.440 picking apart this tragedy
00:03:42.840 with no regard for whether or not
00:03:44.620 it was actually helpful, ethical, or respectful.
00:03:47.960 And I think that's because when it comes to the genre
00:03:49.900 that we know as true crime
00:03:51.240 in the kind of online conversation that it sparks,
00:03:53.740 it can be easy to forget that they're actual people and actual tragedies.
00:03:59.100 So what happens when the darkest moments of a stranger's life are turned into content?
00:04:04.520 Jessica Dean, also known as Bloodbath and Beyond,
00:04:07.320 has been making videos on TikTok about some of the less ethical aspects of the true crime community for months. 0.65
00:04:13.680 You might remember her from our episode debunking viral myths around sex trafficking.
00:04:18.180 Fed up with the ways that content creators talk about tragedy like it's a puzzle or just an interesting story,
00:04:23.740 She's been using her platform to urge for more careful, respectful, and thoughtful conversations around crime.
00:04:30.180 I want to say right up front that this is a tough conversation and I do not have all the answers.
00:04:35.860 But I spoke to Jessica about what happens when true crime sparks a frenzy of internet sleuths and viral conspiracy theories,
00:04:42.240 and how we can all work to create ethical conversations about crime that can lead to actual systemic change.
00:04:48.240 So my name is Jessica Dean.
00:04:50.580 I go by Bloodbath and Beyond primarily on TikTok, which is my largest platform.
00:04:55.520 And I've actually been on the podcast before.
00:04:57.080 I'm excited to be back.
00:04:57.940 I'm so grateful that you invited me back.
00:05:00.120 And I guess today we're talking about true crime.
00:05:03.520 Yes, we're so glad to have you back as a friend of the show, because I honestly can't think
00:05:07.900 of a better person to help me unpack all of these feelings I've been having about true
00:05:11.460 crime content.
00:05:12.640 You know, I'm not really a big consumer of true crime content myself.
00:05:16.780 And I know that you've been really vocal about some of the problems with the genre on TikTok.
00:05:21.340 And I guess I just feel like it exploits a very real anxiety that women have that tragedy is lurking around every corner.
00:05:29.200 And I always really take issue with content that exploits and plays on our anxieties when it can also spark real-world behavior like amplifying conspiracy theories or mobilizing internet sleuths who try to solve crimes without necessarily stopping to ask if it's actually a useful precedent.
00:05:44.020 So I guess my first question is, what are your thoughts on all of this? What are your thoughts on true crime and why do you make videos trying to amplify the ways that true crime can be really unethical?
00:05:54.000 Yeah, so I think it's important, like right off the bat, to save myself a little bit of headache later, that I want to be clear that not all true crime content is the same, especially on TikTok.
00:06:03.860 There are some creators of true crime content that I find make at least what I would consider more palatable and what I think is more genuine content.
00:06:12.120 But a lot of my videos I had made in the past were kind of hyper fixating and really shining a light on some of the rougher stuff that you can definitely find out there.
00:06:22.040 And so like with that out of the way, I think it's probably important we talk about some of the more problematic, popular stuff that definitely goes viral.
00:06:31.780 I find things ranging from true crime accounts that are dedicated to like frosting cookies.
00:06:37.180 Like, I think they're a professional baker and they'll be frosting cookies while they talk about some poor woman that was brutally murdered by her boyfriend.
00:06:43.560 And they kind of make it I don't want to say lighthearted, but it definitely has a very lighthearted atmosphere about it.
00:06:48.440 Like, oh, look at me decorating this cute little cookie of a puppy.
00:06:51.400 And it feels to really take away from the seriousness of the situation.
00:06:54.500 I've also found accounts that are dedicated to somebody you can find on Amazon.
00:06:59.180 Somebody published like a coloring book all dedicated to different types of serial killers.
00:07:03.100 and I think they tried to advertise it as some sort of like educational material because I think
00:07:08.100 it gives like a little blurb of each serial killer on every page but it's also still a coloring book
00:07:13.080 so it feels a little morbid and oftentimes these people who are making these videos they'll have
00:07:20.080 themselves talking over these videos and it the attitude about it just seems very off they've got
00:07:25.340 this very light-hearted almost fun haha crazy how this happened 10 years ago kind of attitude about
00:07:31.620 it. And it's always been driving me really crazy because not to get into too many specifics about
00:07:35.960 it, but as somebody who is actually pretty close to a very high profile case, if I saw somebody
00:07:42.280 making content about that specific high profile case, I could not be disgusted. So I can't imagine
00:07:48.800 that people who had an even closer connection to these high profile cases they're covering
00:07:53.040 might come across this content and how they might react or how that might make them feel.
00:07:57.840 and it's truly unfortunate
00:08:00.340 because I often hear kind of as a reaction to that
00:08:02.560 is like, oh, they wouldn't see it.
00:08:04.380 Well, I saw, I've seen several videos
00:08:07.060 related to the case that I have a connection to
00:08:09.140 and they don't make me feel great.
00:08:11.340 And I think it's really important that we remember that,
00:08:13.200 especially if a lot of true crime content creators
00:08:16.580 will come at with an attitude of respecting the victims
00:08:20.200 and trying to bring awareness to situations,
00:08:22.620 especially if they're potentially ongoing.
00:08:24.020 but that's kind of hard to, that's a hard pill to swallow when you also look at their content
00:08:29.320 and you're like, if I were the person affected by the situation, I would not feel comfortable
00:08:33.300 with how you're covering your, or the attitude you have, or just the atmosphere of the content
00:08:37.080 in general. So that was the big driving factor for me to highlight some of the more nefarious
00:08:42.040 parts of the true crime community. And I, I always want to make sure that people understand
00:08:46.760 that, like I said, not all true crime, not all true crime content is the same. And it's really
00:08:52.380 important that we help uplift the content that is more ethical and is speaking more politely
00:08:57.520 about it. But one of the biggest factors in that is highlighting the worst parts and
00:09:04.000 the kind of instances we want to be avoiding. Absolutely. And I'm so glad that you brought
00:09:09.600 that up. I think that it's so important for people to remember that you're talking about
00:09:16.500 actual people and like their trauma and the and like their community members who are left behind
00:09:23.340 to like pick up the pieces and you know I think I think there was like a really frankly tasteless
00:09:30.200 shirt or something about uh Jeffrey Dahmer and I think it was your TikTok where it was like
00:09:35.880 that wasn't that long ago you know his the family members of his victims are very much still alive
00:09:42.340 and like you think they don't have social media you think that it's so far-fetched that they would
00:09:46.040 see you know tasteless crass shirts that people are selling with like cutesy little slogans on
00:09:51.780 them i think it can be i think when i see true crime content that clearly does not take into
00:09:57.920 effect the account that you're talking about real people who some of whom can you know as yourself
00:10:03.720 as you said like will see the way that you're talking about their loved ones who are no longer
00:10:08.420 here and like the worst most dark parts of their experiences and just sort of being so callous
00:10:14.900 about that really doesn't sit well with me absolutely that was kind of my tipping point
00:10:19.340 and uh not to like get too much of my own personal life but uh the reason that the jeffrey dommer
00:10:26.240 shirt really stuck out to me is because i actually currently live in milwaukee and the jeffrey dommer
00:10:31.460 was from milwaukee so it i don't know if it was the proximity to the crime that kind of made me
00:10:35.520 feel this way but seeing shirts that made uh very lewd sexual and very uh humorous jokes about it
00:10:42.500 I was like, why, why, why, when are you comfortable selling this?
00:10:45.780 Like the excuse of, oh, it's just dark humor.
00:10:48.920 Learn to take a joke.
00:10:49.740 It can only carry you so far.
00:10:51.920 And you can sell that shirt.
00:10:54.540 I'm not going to stop you.
00:10:56.000 But I am going to remind you that these people were human beings and that Jeffrey Dahmer 0.98
00:11:01.340 predominantly targeted gay black men and he killed and sexually violently sexually assaulted 0.99
00:11:06.760 children. 1.00
00:11:07.980 I'm going to remind you of that.
00:11:09.320 And you kind of have to live with how that makes you feel because that's just reality.
00:11:13.520 And I think that helps snap a lot of people back into like, oh, this might not have been
00:11:18.220 great, but there are people who are inevitably going to just use the it's dark humor, get
00:11:21.920 over it excuse regardless.
00:11:23.660 And we just kind of have to live with that.
00:11:25.980 But I mean, if reminding people helps, I'm not going to be upset by it.
00:11:31.000 Yeah.
00:11:31.160 I mean, how would you, if you were wearing, happen to be wearing one of those like awful
00:11:35.520 tasteless shirts making like making a joke about jeffrey dommer's crimes imagine like bumping into
00:11:42.820 one like a family member of one of the victims like you better be like like what i wonder if
00:11:47.980 these people would be how they would feel about explaining oh it's just a joke it's just dark
00:11:52.000 humor to their face that they actually came in contact with these folks i think that like
00:11:56.160 perhaps it can feel like you're so removed from these people like they don't even necessarily
00:12:01.000 seem like real people whose feelings or whose perspectives you even need to take into account
00:12:05.220 it really just rubs me the wrong way yeah there was actually a i believe it was a bar i don't
00:12:10.980 want to say it was a restaurant i think it was just a bar in milwaukee that um it's a really
00:12:14.980 historical building uh it's very iconic and they actually gotten a lot of controversy a few years
00:12:21.140 ago uh they were running like a jeffrey dahmer cannibal themed tour in the city of milwaukee
00:12:25.940 and somebody had mapped out that they were only maybe like three or four miles away from uh
00:12:32.220 Dahmer's old apartment. It's since been demolished, but they were like a stone's
00:12:36.840 throw away from it. And it took so much public pressure to be like, the family members are still
00:12:42.640 in this city. They probably drive past your bar. Why would you do this? And the amount of public
00:12:48.740 pressure it took is pretty sad, but eventually they caved and it kind of really helped the
00:12:53.820 city in Milwaukee reel back and be like, okay, maybe we shouldn't have Jeffrey Dahmer themed
00:12:57.000 food and drink and tours and make all these board games and all these things like it it really helped
00:13:02.780 kind of put that into perspective so i hate when you kind of have to lambast or you have to 0.84
00:13:08.360 put one figure on a like on a pike to be like look at this terrible thing because like this
00:13:14.780 is a business i still i don't want these people to go jobless but in an instance like that sometimes
00:13:19.420 it does take publicly shaming one large group of people to get the rest of the people to realize
00:13:24.960 like hey maybe this isn't cool yeah so that's so interesting i mean i want to i want to switch
00:13:31.100 gears a bit and talk a bit about the case that i feel like is really just taking off on tiktok
00:13:37.620 um the tragic situation happening with gabby petito um by the time this comes out you know
00:13:43.120 i know the last update that i saw was that uh they had found remains and they they were consistent
00:13:49.520 with her, but it wasn't clear if it was or not. I want to say right off the top of that
00:13:57.100 conversation that what happened to her is a tragedy. I don't know the specifics of what
00:14:06.120 has happened, but it's tragic and horrifying. And my heart goes out to her family and to her
00:14:13.020 community and I guess I wonder you know I'm sure you've seen them too all of these very
00:14:20.160 it almost seems like every time there was a new update I was seeing new tiktoks on my for you page
00:14:27.940 some of them were just sort of like by the book like here's what's going on you know just like
00:14:33.080 news update I and like I didn't really have a problem with those but then I would see these
00:14:38.480 other videos that almost seemed kind of gleeful or like excited I can't even really describe it
00:14:45.340 it would be like you would think they were talking about like a new episode of a show they like but
00:14:51.400 they're actually talking about like the like disappearance of a young woman who is a real
00:14:58.320 person and I can't really explain the why I I just like really was surprised to see this and I was
00:15:06.860 surprised to see how much it took hold you know i'm a bit older than you so i remember when natalie
00:15:12.840 holloway went missing i was in college and it was like the around the clock coverage of her
00:15:18.200 disappearance people were like oh well it's because she is a like pretty white girl and you
00:15:22.700 know there are so many different you know indigenous black and brown women who have gone 0.63
00:15:27.160 missing in the same area that certainly have not gotten the same level of of you know attention
00:15:33.360 that this case has gotten.
00:15:34.680 And that's not to take away from the fact
00:15:36.340 that I'm happy that people are, you know,
00:15:39.200 really motivated to find her
00:15:41.460 and that they're talking about her case.
00:15:45.300 But I can't help but wonder, like,
00:15:47.080 is there a way that people can talk about this situation
00:15:51.120 that just seems kind of ghoulish to me?
00:15:57.260 Absolutely.
00:15:58.560 You're hitting on all of the points
00:16:01.160 that I've been trying to get across on my TikTok.
00:16:03.360 So, like you said, just to make sure that we're all clear, like we are very happy that Gabby was able to get the social media attention that she did get.
00:16:11.820 And I think it can, to an extent, it can highlight the power of social media because there were so many posts out there being like, hey, this young girl is missing.
00:16:21.060 Here is her name. Here is her face. Here's a couple of identifying markers. And this is where she was last seen.
00:16:25.780 That's such critical information, especially if you're in that area.
00:16:28.860 this is a little bit more unique because it kind of had like a transnational, like it was
00:16:32.800 two states very far away from each other. But especially if you're local, that can be really
00:16:37.860 useful. Somebody who happens to see a TikTok about this girl, who happens to see a piece
00:16:42.060 of critical evidence, like how we actually experienced with this case, that is so crucial.
00:16:46.420 And it's so important. I never want to downplay how important that is. But at the same time,
00:16:52.000 it has this, it's such an intense boomerang effect that it starts to come back around.
00:16:56.060 And we did see so many videos of people with just outright the wrong attitude, very, like
00:17:05.000 you said, gleeful, almost giddy, very excited whenever they could be the first one to break
00:17:09.160 the next piece of information, which was usually just purely speculation with nothing to back
00:17:13.920 it up.
00:17:15.020 And it's frustrating to see that kind of content because you're always going to have that on
00:17:19.000 the internet, no matter what you're talking about.
00:17:20.620 There's always going to be people when you have the entire world at your fingers who
00:17:23.640 take things the wrong way.
00:17:24.860 but these videos were going viral and i think that's one of the biggest criticisms i've got
00:17:31.000 and one of the biggest pieces of backlash i've got is why are you fixating on these total rando
00:17:35.540 crazies who have no followers and that's not the case uh i'm highlighting videos that have had
00:17:41.600 hundreds of thousands if not millions of views yet somehow it seems like nobody's calling out the
00:17:46.620 tone and i think it really speaks to the larger point of tiktok is a platform you can go viral
00:17:53.500 on very easily. It is very easy to make content. The bar for entry is set incredibly low. And so
00:17:59.620 you have people who are by far, far from professional journalists making this kind of
00:18:04.800 content. But then at the end of the day, they want to be put in the same category as journalists.
00:18:11.280 And they're like, I'm just breaking the news. I'm just trying to spread awareness. Be like,
00:18:14.560 okay, now you're starting to march in this territory of professional journalism,
00:18:17.780 yet you're not holding yourself and nobody's holding you to remotely what could be considered
00:18:22.840 journalistic standards. And like any journalist who puts out a story that's absolutely crass and
00:18:28.560 inappropriate, they're going to receive backlash. If these TikTokers want to be held in the same 1.00
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00:20:46.180 When I was 14 years old,
00:20:48.480 I was kidnapped and held captive for nine months.
00:20:52.000 I survived, and I've spent my life exploring
00:20:54.700 how other people survive what should have destroyed them.
00:20:58.280 I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are the Survivor Files.
00:21:01.920 I just remember this low, taunting voice next to my ear
00:21:06.800 saying shut up don't say anything every week i'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable
00:21:13.920 i knew if he woke up without a doubt he was going to hurt me i started feeling that there was
00:21:21.760 someone at the end of my bed and i just started screaming they are abducted stalked controlled
00:21:29.240 and nearly silenced but these aren't stories about what's taken from them they're stories
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00:21:45.780 and we're back yeah i saw one of the videos where um somebody was uh referencing ell woods you know
00:21:57.220 that scene at the end of legally blonde where ell is able to be like oh because of her you know her
00:22:03.540 perm she couldn't have been in the shower because her curls are intact and it was in reference to a 1.00
00:22:08.260 instagram picture of gabby with uh blonde hair with like her her roots had been done so her 0.78
00:22:14.260 roots were not dark and again i think that referencing i i love legally blonde i think
00:22:21.540 like referencing yourself as an l woods type or any reference to that to like a comedy when we're
00:22:28.080 talking about a missing person i think is just not good it's just not it's just in bad taste
00:22:35.020 you know exactly and i think like i remember back during the boston bombing at that time i was like
00:22:42.140 very active on reddit and redditors were so convinced they had found they had like solved
00:22:47.540 the boston bombing uh they thought it was this guy who had gone who had gone missing his family
00:22:53.400 was looking for him and they were like oh the pictures are the same and it turns out it was
00:22:57.220 not true like it was just they got the wrong guy this family who was already suffering from their
00:23:03.320 you know their family member being missing had to go through this process of being like he's not the
00:23:09.100 boston bomber he is missing but he's not the boston bomber and it was just a case of like they got the
00:23:14.380 wrong person they they you know internet sleuths just didn't know what they were doing and so
00:23:19.000 part of me i mean this is where it gets kind of complicated and i don't necessarily have this is
00:23:24.540 is my opinion and i don't necessarily have the like right answer i'm just i just have a lot of
00:23:30.080 questions i saw on twitter someone saying like oh well there's too much emphasis on some of the
00:23:37.460 unsavory aspects of the true crime tiktok community but they're over they're they're glossing over the
00:23:43.060 fact that like gen z tiktoker like young women and girls broke this case open and you know that 0.51
00:23:50.040 You know, they really cracked this case. And part of me is thinking like, A, I'm not sure if that's true. B, when you glorify Internet sleuths, you also have to take into account that Internet sleuths have like ruined people's lives, got the wrong person, you know, just gotten it wrong because they're not actual, you know, investigators.
00:24:13.200 There's people on social media or on the internet.
00:24:16.940 And I also, I mean, I don't know how I felt about that.
00:24:21.880 She basically said that the reason why people are being so hard on these TikTokers is because they're mostly women, young women and girls, and that we don't like young women and girls.
00:24:32.340 And so it's just sexist.
00:24:34.080 And I thought it was an interesting sort of devil's advocate position.
00:24:38.280 I'm just not sure I agree. 1.00
00:24:39.680 I just think that, like, it's unsavory, and I don't find it unsavory because it's women and girls doing it. 1.00
00:24:44.380 I find it unsavory because it's not a good thing to be doing, I guess. 0.99
00:24:48.460 That was a pretty big reaction that I've been seeing online, is TikTok cracked this case.
00:24:52.880 These internet sleuths were the ones who did it. 0.96
00:24:55.240 It had a very similar air to, I hate to be referencing a Netflix show in this specific situation, but it's terrifyingly accurate, is the show Don't Fuck With Cats.
00:25:05.460 It was this case of this woman who had zero experience, had no idea really what she was doing, but fell down this rabbit hole and ended up actually solving a very complicated, pretty much dead end series of murders.
00:25:19.200 And that was very impressive. And it's kind of scary because even that woman has come out and said like, hey, this was purely coincidental.
00:25:27.660 Please don't try to mimic what I was doing. Like, I didn't know what I was doing. I could have gotten really hurt. I could have accused the wrong person.
00:25:33.900 This just happened to work out perfectly.
00:25:36.040 And so it's really frustrating to see the people on TikTok who are now, I don't want
00:25:40.820 to say taking credit, but are definitely patting themselves on the back for having cracked
00:25:44.340 this case in which, as far as I understand, at least when we're recording right now, what
00:25:49.440 the case was is that the biggest piece of evidence they received to help find this poor
00:25:54.360 girl's remains a few days ago, just yesterday.
00:25:57.620 Wow.
00:25:58.000 Time is, time is weird.
00:25:59.340 It was just yesterday that she, there were some like van life YouTubers who made very similar content to Gabby who had seen all these stories online about how Gabby was missing and then realized they happened to be in the same national park as her at roughly the same time.
00:26:16.680 And they had a bunch of unedited raw footage from their trip that they were going to put up on YouTube.
00:26:21.020 So they scrubbed through all this unedited footage and realized that they actually found like a clear shot of what was Gabby's van.
00:26:27.360 And they sent that to the FBI. They had posted online about it, too. The FBI followed up on that, went back to the same exact spot. And that's how they ended up finding her remains. So that's one of those instances of like the the story being on social media and blowing up as big as it did truly did help in that specific instance.
00:26:46.020 at least bring that tip to the proper authorities who were then able to look into it and identify
00:26:50.660 what had actually happened. But that doesn't negate the insane amount of problems that come
00:26:59.060 with those same exact internet sleuths. And it's truly frustrating to see the same people
00:27:03.020 that two days ago were conspiring that Gabby was actually a serial killer and that she was
00:27:09.640 murdering other people and is now on the run. Or another conspiracy I'd seen is that she was just
00:27:14.700 doing this all for attention are now very quick to jump in the pool of people who magically cracked
00:27:20.920 this case yes and that's so ungodly frustrating i i cannot put into words how angry that makes me
00:27:30.620 that the same exact people who were claiming she was doing it for attention are ready to say that
00:27:35.240 they're the ones who found her remains that's i mean i can only imagine how frustrating that is
00:27:42.260 And yeah, the short list of completely baseless conspiracy theories, I saw people saying on TikTok, doing it for attention.
00:27:50.840 She was killing people.
00:27:52.800 Her, I guess, fiance or partner had to be guilty because he liked Fight Club.
00:27:58.860 Another serial killer who, another serial killer might have been responsible.
00:28:04.240 Like, I don't know that there's any kind of like link.
00:28:05.780 They were just like, oh, there's another, you know, another couple was murdered around there.
00:28:09.000 Maybe, maybe it's the same person.
00:28:10.320 And, you know, just I feel like when you traffic in just like baseless conjecture to then be doing a bit of a victory lap, it just seems very incongruous to me.
00:28:25.980 Like, I've seen the same thing that you're talking about where people are now kind of like, I don't want to say taking credit, but really being like, wow, my video is just wildly speculating.
00:28:38.140 They really helped.
00:28:39.060 And I'm not I'm not sure if that's the right takeaway here.
00:28:42.160 Exactly. There's I don't want to name drop anybody on a podcast because I don't want this person receiving a ton of hate.
00:28:48.380 But there was one individual on TikTok who had made over 40 videos about Gabby in less than six days and was very quick to boost any of these random theories.
00:29:01.960 Anytime anybody threw speculation her way, she would immediately boost it, make a video about it.
00:29:06.600 And a lot of her videos were getting hundreds of thousands of views.
00:29:09.060 and she is now, the impression I'm getting is she's like, we did it, guys. We got Gabby Justice.
00:29:16.060 Now let's go after the next person. Like, let's just keep going down the list of missing persons.
00:29:19.920 And I was like, this is not a healthy way to go about, like, helping. Like, there's nothing wrong
00:29:25.280 with being like, I want to help bring awareness to missing persons, especially kind of circling
00:29:28.760 back how you said there were a lot of Black, Brown, and Indigenous people that do not get the
00:29:31.840 same level of attention. That can be a really well-intentioned attitude about how you present
00:29:37.920 yourself online. But you were very lucky about how this Gabby situation played out. Because like you
00:29:45.260 said, with the Reddit situation, all these Boston bomber conspiracy theories that they had going on,
00:29:50.100 it did not end well. And it's not unreasonable to assume that we could have a very similar
00:29:56.120 situation on our hands if the internet through mob justice, vigilante justice, whatever you want
00:30:01.980 to call it, starts to all jointly come to the conclusion that somebody who's potentially
00:30:06.520 innocent in a situation is then so aggressively harassed online that they're possibly driven to
00:30:12.140 do something unthinkable. It's, it's rough to think about that that could happen and how ready
00:30:17.440 and how excited people, especially on TikTok are right now to do exactly that. Yeah, that's a really
00:30:23.140 good reminder. And I think part of me, like the part of me that's interested in why humans do the
00:30:29.200 things they do. I can understand why people almost seem excited to piece together what happened in
00:30:39.800 this situation. It almost seems like it's like a puzzle or a game. And I can understand why it
00:30:46.340 makes people feel very validated to be like, oh, we are crusading for justice for this young woman
00:30:54.440 who is not here to fight for herself,
00:30:56.040 like, all of that feels very noble.
00:30:58.340 So, like, I want to be clear
00:30:59.340 that I can really understand
00:31:01.640 the reasoning behind
00:31:03.860 why people get,
00:31:06.260 why people act the way they do
00:31:07.560 when it comes to this kind of thing.
00:31:08.680 I really can.
00:31:09.780 But I think that
00:31:10.640 those kinds of feelings
00:31:12.780 can be sort of intoxicating.
00:31:14.480 And when you're intoxicated on a feeling,
00:31:16.620 when you feel like you are,
00:31:18.640 you know, crusading for justice,
00:31:21.820 I think that sometimes
00:31:23.640 you know the bigger picture can get missed and you can sort of like miss exactly what you're
00:31:29.340 talking about what happens if somebody's wrongly accused what happens if you're actually making
00:31:32.880 you know an investigation work like what if you're actually impeding an investigation by
00:31:38.100 whipping up so much social media frenzy so i'm happy that in this case it seems like
00:31:43.940 it might have gone okay but i don't want that to make it seem like oh it's it's good to have a
00:31:51.780 social media fueled, you know, mob justice style, internet sleuth frenzy, it's always going to end
00:31:58.260 up okay. I feel like that's a really dangerous precedent. Exactly. And especially talking about
00:32:05.080 just like the possible implications of something going this viral, like the OJ Simpson case,
00:32:11.060 that was one of like the most iconic high profile cases. And because it was covered on literally
00:32:17.580 every inch of the news, every magazine, every newspaper. It was absolutely everywhere.
00:32:24.000 That actually dramatically impacted how the courtroom played out, because how can you find
00:32:29.360 a jury of impartial jurors when every single person has heard about this story and every
00:32:35.020 single person has come to their own conclusion? So I can imagine that if I pray that Gabby finds
00:32:42.160 justice and we figure out exactly what happened, and this potentially leads to somebody being
00:32:45.600 tried in court. The more viral this story is, and the more conspiracies that are popular,
00:32:52.100 the harder it's going to be to find a group of 12 people that don't already have their own opinions.
00:32:57.440 Absolutely. I have to show you something that so I don't know what your Facebook feeds look like,
00:33:04.140 but I know that mine has just been any little update on this case, a new story. And so I'm
00:33:10.000 i'm in washington dc right um i'm not anywhere near where this happened on my local fox affiliate
00:33:16.520 fox 5 dc i'm going to show you this picture i don't know if you can see it through the camera
00:33:20.460 and the rainbow yeah and the headline says rainbow appears where authorities discovered
00:33:26.360 body believed to be gabby petito a rainbow appeared in the area where authorities earlier
00:33:30.300 sunday discovered what they believe to be the body of gabby petito in the grand teton national park
00:33:35.020 And part of me just thought, like, it's very clear to me that any new angle, they are going to get as much eyeballs and they're going to use this story to get as much eyeballs and clicks as possible.
00:33:49.240 Like, if it's an actual update on the case or an actual update in her disappearance or, you know, something like that, sure.
00:33:56.220 But part of me was like, you're writing an article about a rainbow appearing, making it... I just really had a problem with that story. And I was like, wow, they really are any new angle. They are wasting no time to make sure that gets in our feeds because it's almost like they're... It felt like they were feeding this frenzy or this appetite for new content about this case.
00:34:22.740 And it didn't matter if it was actually a breaking update. It didn't matter if it was actually like relevant to the case. Personally, I don't think a rainbow appearing in the sky is necessarily going to be relevant to this case or even like timely local information from my local news source here in D.C.
00:34:38.000 but the fact that they were like surfacing this to me I was like well they really
00:34:41.200 are just trying to have a steady stream of content related to this what not not just
00:34:47.520 important breaking you know information about it but just like anything like oh here's what
00:34:52.760 the weather was like when they found her body yeah that's that's a rough one and then even
00:34:58.160 marches kind of back into the territory of a lot of people who say how are these online internet
00:35:02.700 sleuths who just report every five seconds on the newest update whether it's true or not
00:35:06.820 any different than local news stations. And there is an argument to be had for like,
00:35:12.820 news stations tend to have this problem too. They tend to milk stories for everything they're
00:35:17.180 absolutely worth. But that criticism of them is out there and public. And maybe it's not getting
00:35:23.840 enough attention and it's not getting enough people talking about it as it deserves. But that
00:35:27.900 doesn't make the people online who don't even have remotely any professional experience in this
00:35:33.520 free from that same amount of criticism. To say like, oh, he did it too, is not get out of jail
00:35:40.440 free card from you also being held liable for some of the content some random person on the
00:35:44.820 street might make. And I tend to get a lot of criticism in the game of like, hey, this isn't
00:35:51.200 my day job. I'm just making random videos on the internet. Why are you mad at me? And I totally get
00:35:56.820 that. I'm somebody who makes random videos on the internet too. I didn't plan on having a quarter
00:36:01.280 million followers uh i still have a day job and it's i i get it but if you're gonna keep that
00:36:09.180 platform prepare for the criticism that's just that's what's gonna come with it yeah right that's
00:36:15.560 such a good point and i think like it reminds me of something else i learned from your video from
00:36:18.940 your um tiktok about this is that like sometimes particularly on youtube but i do know on tiktok
00:36:24.160 as well you know your tiktok can be monetized your youtube can certainly be monetized part of
00:36:29.160 was like is this just people kind of like making money off of someone else's trauma and someone
00:36:35.880 else's pain and someone else's tragedy like you know i can understand the incentive to like
00:36:40.960 report on every little thing be the first time to report on a breaking thing no matter if it's true
00:36:45.440 you know every little speculation make a new video about it if you are trying to you know
00:36:51.020 gamify that to get more eyeballs because it leads to more money i mean that's definitely
00:36:56.460 we know that is how some of these platforms work. Absolutely. And comparing, not to do this for a
00:37:04.300 second, but to compare the amount of money that you can get between platforms, TikTok is one of
00:37:07.900 the lowest paid social media platforms. So as far as like raking in the cash, TikTok's not necessarily
00:37:15.500 the best way to do it. But that doesn't mean that you can't make money on TikTok. I am no longer
00:37:22.260 monetizing my content. But when I did have monetized content, anytime I broke a million
00:37:28.560 views on a video, I could get anywhere from like 50 to 200 bucks, depending on how many comments,
00:37:33.040 how many likes, how many times it got shared. So if you go back to like what I was saying,
00:37:37.220 there was a girl with over 40 videos and all of them had hundreds of thousands of views. You start
00:37:40.740 doing the math that can add up really quickly. And that's not to say that people's content doesn't
00:37:45.320 have value and you shouldn't be paid for your work. But especially if you are being paid for
00:37:51.460 your work, you should be held to higher criticism. Because now, hey, you're making money off of this.
00:37:58.340 If you want to just report on exactly what happened, I can't fault you for doing that.
00:38:03.520 And I'm not necessarily mad that you're making money. But as soon as you start getting into
00:38:07.760 the conspiratorial, the speculative, the outright wrong information, then, hey, I'm going to remind
00:38:13.540 you you're making money on this. You should probably try to be ethical about it. There was
00:38:17.240 one girl in particular who she's since taken her video down and she has apologized. So we'll give
00:38:21.100 her credit for that there the girl who popularized the theory that uh gabby was actually a serial
00:38:26.520 killer uh that's horrifying and i cannot imagine her family seeing that i feel bad even mentioning
00:38:32.840 it on a podcast but that that happened they spread that conspiracy theory and she took her video down
00:38:38.500 but it's still all over twitter it got millions of views she probably made a decent amount of money
00:38:45.340 on that and it's like okay i understand you're sorry in hindsight you feel bad especially after
00:38:50.280 they found her remains, but you still made money on that. It'd be kind of nice if you donated it.
00:38:56.380 I don't know. That's just me. More after a quick break.
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00:42:14.860 I'm on this kick lately of like, if you have a platform, even if it's a platform where you're not expecting to go viral, maybe you don't have that many followers and you just you say something and you're like, oh, now I've gone viral.
00:42:24.980 platforms come with responsibility and like it is your responsibility to be a good steward of
00:42:30.940 your platform and not just use it to spread baseless conspiracy theories particularly that
00:42:37.100 are that harmful to the family of someone who has gone missing like i just like it's just
00:42:43.100 completely irresponsible exactly and it's it's really sad and it kind of ties back into before
00:42:49.280 this whole gabby situation happened because i don't want to linger on that too much because
00:42:52.640 is kind of a larger conversation about true crime.
00:42:54.660 But I was making a couple of videos that, like you had said,
00:42:59.840 before this had all happened a few months ago,
00:43:01.820 talking about like just some terrible things
00:43:04.840 in the true crime community I was finding on the internet.
00:43:07.540 And kind of going back to like, oh, the Jeffrey Dahmer t-shirts
00:43:10.820 or like the serial killer merchandise, these coloring books.
00:43:15.280 These people are outright making money off of people's tragedies.
00:43:18.780 And I think that's a lot more black and white, ethically irresponsible than somebody who's making content that kind of just talks about an active case in an active situation.
00:43:30.560 So I like criticizing them for how they make their money more because it's a lot more like, hey, maybe we shouldn't make a coloring book of a child predator. 1.00
00:43:38.960 Yeah, I mean, I am just going to say, if you're making coloring books glorifying a child predator, you're an asshole. Like, I'm not going to say it should be illegal, but you're an asshole. Like, the jury is not still out. If you're selling shirts that say cutesy little slogans about Jeffrey Dahmer, you're not my kind of people. 1.00
00:44:01.960 So completely agree with you there. And I do think it is much clearer. Like if you are using your platform to make content about true crime and you're monetizing them. OK, like I have questions, but all right. But it's so clear when you're like, oh, yeah, I mass produce coloring books. I produce T-shirts. It's such a clearer. I'm glad that you compared the two because it's such a clearer example of like harm, I guess, like making money off of someone else's tragedy.
00:44:30.120 so in your take you know if you are someone who wants to make true crime content or like just
00:44:37.560 generally like content that raises awareness how can you be sure that you're doing that in a way
00:44:42.580 that is respectful and ethical so i think that was a question i had for myself for the longest time
00:44:49.560 especially because when i started putting out criticisms it wasn't necessarily like the most
00:44:53.480 poignant criticisms it was honestly kind of me rambling like this is kind of messed up uh why
00:44:59.300 does this exist? And then I had a lot of people asking me like, oh, well, if this isn't ethical,
00:45:04.680 what do you consider to be ethical? Is there a way to ethically consumer produce true crime content?
00:45:10.580 So I've spent a ton of time mulling that over. And it's actually been kind of helpful because
00:45:16.180 there have been various true crime creators who have reached out to me and been like, hey,
00:45:20.160 I've seen your content. I 110% agree with you. I don't like that kind of stuff either.
00:45:24.040 I'm trying to change it. Can I get your support? And I've been very hesitant to boost any one
00:45:31.520 specific true crime content creator on my own platform. But I have seen people who I think are
00:45:37.520 doing it in a slightly better way. I've seen a lot of like the most common form of true crime content
00:45:42.740 is through a podcast. We've got things like My Favorite Murder, Last Podcast and Left, all those
00:45:46.420 incredibly popular podcasts. And there's a lot of smaller ones out there that right now they're
00:45:50.780 really trying to break through that focus entirely on victim advocacy. They talk about police reform,
00:45:57.460 they talk about prison reform, like they're truly not just talking about like, hey, it's crazy how
00:46:01.560 Jeffrey Dahmer like murdered a bunch of people a couple decades ago. That's not the entire episode
00:46:06.660 they're talking about. Hey, Jeffrey Dahmer did murder a lot of people a few decades ago. Let's
00:46:11.800 talk about why that happened, what failings happened with the police and why none of that
00:46:18.080 has changed yet and why Milwaukee really needs to get their stuff together. And I think that angle
00:46:23.500 of the content of what systemically allowed this to happen, what created this environment where
00:46:29.720 these things occurred and what is still occurring in our society today and how can we fundamentally
00:46:35.580 change things so that these things do not continue, I think is some of the best true crime
00:46:40.180 content out there. And I think it does have a genuine aim to produce change. So I genuinely
00:46:47.580 love that kind of content. And I have overwhelmingly seen that that content is predominantly produced
00:46:53.120 by people of color because they have that much more detailed in-depth perspective. So pretty
00:46:59.320 much any true crime content creator within reason who is a person of color, I've immediately felt 0.99
00:47:05.360 a stronger attraction to the content they make because they tend to have that heavier focus on
00:47:09.220 that aspect. I am so glad that you said that because, you know, in thinking about it, I know
00:47:14.180 that I'm not a huge consumer of true crime, but the content that I do consume, I think it's got
00:47:19.520 to be content that is comfortable critiquing systems and particularly systems of power and
00:47:24.060 asking questions about how these systems fail victims and survivors. I know that so many true
00:47:29.180 crime podcasts will just repeat what police officers say or just repeat police reports
00:47:34.020 verbatim. And it can kind of become this kind of copaganda where they're just like, oh, well,
00:47:38.400 the police said this, so that's got to be true. And I think good true crime content really has
00:47:44.100 this opportunity to not just take the police at their word, not just take these systems at their
00:47:49.560 word, but instead critique these systems and ask questions about how they really do fail victims
00:47:54.780 and survivors every day. And so I want to be asking questions like, what systems works to fail Gabby
00:48:01.560 and all the other missing and murdered women and girls out there? Like, how are we supporting
00:48:06.160 victims and survivors of domestic abuse and violence? How are we making sure that they're
00:48:09.980 protected and actually do have support? Are we creating a climate that leads to folks like this
00:48:14.840 to be more vulnerable in these kinds of situations? Like, I want to know, what systems
00:48:19.860 failed these victims and survivors of violence and crime so that it's not repeated and we can
00:48:24.680 actually learn something to make systemic change that leads to less tragedy and less harm overall?
00:48:30.140 Exactly. And I think another aspect from the racial issue that I think doesn't get highlighted
00:48:34.920 enough, at least in the white spaces that I tend to find myself in a lot, is that content creators
00:48:42.540 that tend to have an incredibly heavy focus on white victims is something that needs to be
00:48:49.000 seriously re-evaluated, especially when we're talking about national news coverage. I know that
00:48:53.900 a lot of people will make the argument that in Gabby's situation, she was a social media influencer,
00:48:57.540 so that had a bit of an effect on how discussed her situation was. But we cannot ignore the fact
00:49:03.640 that people of color, men, or LGBT individuals do not get this kind of coverage. People who
00:49:09.480 aren't conventionally attractive do not get this kind of coverage. And podcasts that go out of
00:49:14.820 their way to highlight instances like that, or just not necessarily podcasts, but content in
00:49:19.700 general, that goes out of the way to highlight those who are less likely to get coverage in the
00:49:24.260 first place. I hate to say it, but just about everybody knows about Jeffrey Dahmer. Just about
00:49:28.600 everybody knows about Ted Bundy. They may not know the finer specifics, but is it necessarily worth
00:49:32.620 your time to go into that kind of content over a 10 part series when you could be spending that
00:49:39.020 time possibly talking about an active missing person who could really use a bolster in voice
00:49:44.960 and a fresh reminder to their local police department that people still care and people
00:49:49.020 are still watching and just giving the facts of what's up making sure that people are aware like
00:49:53.980 hey this is the individual looks like this is where they were last seen it'd be really awesome
00:49:57.580 if people didn't forget that this is still a problem
00:49:59.860 because those marginalized individuals
00:50:02.660 never get that kind of attention.
00:50:04.420 Oh, absolutely.
00:50:05.420 And actually, you know, I've seen recently
00:50:07.660 folks making that criticism of the Gabby Petito case.
00:50:12.440 And so I've seen a lot of true crime content creators
00:50:14.780 sort of, I will say like trying to respond to that.
00:50:20.580 So they'll be talking about Gabby's case
00:50:22.880 and then be like, oh, that's similar to this other case
00:50:25.800 that involved a person of color.
00:50:27.580 or a you know a non-white victim or an lgbtq person and i i'm i'm here for it like i'm like
00:50:34.380 if you have a platform and that you can use to get the word out about these cases that are not
00:50:39.320 getting as much attention i think that's great but i can't help but wonder like why weren't we
00:50:44.200 doing it all along like why did it take that nudge of like you know there are there were 710
00:50:50.100 you know missing and missing and murdered indigenous women and girls in that same area
00:50:55.260 talk about them as well like i'm happy that folks are boosting this because i think i think you know
00:51:00.700 it could it could really like revive interest you know but i just have to ask like why did it
00:51:06.560 perhaps we should be interrogating why it took a nudge why it took that that kind of that kind of
00:51:13.480 line being sort of like in the consciousness of how we how we're talking about this case
00:51:17.500 to make that to have folks that are making true crime content start generating awareness about
00:51:23.780 these other kinds of cases. Exactly. And I do very pessimistically kind of fully expect that
00:51:30.560 once the coverage of Gabby kind of dies down, that this conversation might die. And anybody
00:51:35.720 who's willing to keep that conversation going and not letting people forget, well, I think that is
00:51:40.720 the biggest uphill battle I think is absolutely noble. I hate that a woman had to be put in that 1.00
00:51:48.980 situation and had to get the national coverage she did to get people to talk about it again.
00:51:53.780 But there have been people of color talking about this the whole time and nobody was ever 0.99
00:51:59.060 listening to them. 1.00
00:51:59.760 And it's so frustrating that the only time they get the microphone, even if it's for
00:52:04.400 a short period of time, is when something tragic and horrific happens to a white woman.
00:52:10.140 Like nobody, nobody deserves to happen. 0.84
00:52:12.540 Nobody deserves to have happened to them what happened to Gabby.
00:52:16.500 And it's frustrating that the consequence of that is this is the only time that people
00:52:20.460 who've been focusing on that issue this whole time finally get to speak because they
00:52:23.760 will be immediately shot down as a why are you making this about race and it's like i it's it's
00:52:29.380 been about race this whole time uh i've been talking about it this whole time a white woman
00:52:33.560 passing away tragically doesn't change what i've been saying jessica i thank you so much for your
00:52:39.140 work and your perspective like i wasn't really sure what to expect from our conversation because
00:52:44.660 i just had a lot of thoughts and like feelings and having trouble just even like processing them
00:52:49.960 But, you know, I find that your work really helps me articulate my own thoughts and helps me process, you know, in highly charged times, helps me like process and reconnect to like what I'm actually thinking.
00:53:01.520 So thank you for your work.
00:53:03.100 Where can folks follow you and what are you working on these days?
00:53:06.880 So right now I have a hodgepodge of content.
00:53:10.060 I still do make a lot of trafficking awareness videos and I talk a lot about trafficking misinformation.
00:53:14.760 That is on my TikTok at Bloodbath and Beyond.
00:53:17.480 and then that is my handle
00:53:19.280 on all other socials.
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