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00:01:06.760Do you feel like you are in control of your life or do you feel like shopping is running you?
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00:01:24.640I'm Bridget Todd, and this is There Are No Girls on the Internet.
00:01:30.100So I love TikTok, but lately it kind of feels like the vibes are off.
00:01:35.740What I've always liked about TikTok was that it feels like watching kind of user-generated Netflix.
00:01:41.240Regular people telling interesting stories or doing interesting things in ways that feel genuinely captivating.
00:01:46.660As opposed to Instagram, where eventually for me, it kind of came to feel like, you know, good-looking people, pretty polished people selling me something.
00:01:56.540Like those are the people that I felt like were taking up the most space on Instagram.
00:02:00.600Comparatively on TikTok, it didn't feel like I had to wade through a ton of intrusive ads to use the platform.
00:02:06.920When you did encounter an ad, it just said sponsored at the bottom, you swiped up, and that was that.
00:02:12.260But lately, I feel that that has changed.
00:02:14.820Now you scroll alongside regular ads, but near those, you also get these TikToks that
00:02:21.220look kind of like normal TikToks, but they say eligible for commission on the bottom.
00:02:26.320They're not exactly ads ads, but the person in them who was talking to you like a friend
00:02:31.300does just happen to be telling you about a product that they maybe get a cut on if you
00:08:10.920I don't want to say that shopping is part of my identity because that sounds so sad,
00:08:15.920but it's something I really like to do. I really enjoy doing. And I would say that beauty and
00:08:20.460fashion are parts of my identity. That being said, I have all of these financial goals that
00:08:27.300I'd like to reach. And by participating in my hobbies, I'm immediately taking away from my
00:08:33.400ability to reach those. And so making the content is hard because I think of that for other people
00:08:39.660as well. If I'm telling you this sweater from Ralph Lauren is amazing quality, I think it'll
00:08:47.580last you. The design is amazing. At the end of the day, you don't need this sweater. And if
00:08:52.320people go and buy this sweater, nine times out of 10, I'm not getting a kickback out of anything
00:08:57.500I'm selling, quote unquote selling. I'm just sharing what I like. And so if I'm just sharing
00:09:03.560what I like, they're buying it when they're maybe not in a position to buy it. I'm not making money.
00:09:09.220They're not making money. They're losing money. It's like, who really won at the end of the day?
00:09:13.240Just Ralph Lauren. And I love Ralph Lauren. No, no shade to Ralph Lauren. But it's a tough,
00:09:19.200weird space to be in because I do want people to make smart choices. I want to make smart choices.
00:09:24.000I've been very honest on the platform about my own struggles with overconsumption,
00:09:29.320where I'm in a weird space where being personal finance obsessed, I am not in any trouble with
00:09:37.340money. I'm on track for retirement. I have my emergency savings. Like I'm right where I should
00:09:42.060be. But at the same time, my shopping can feel out of control. And so I've been very honest in talks
00:09:48.940on the platform with my followers around the emotional aspect of shopping and it being about
00:09:56.980more than just what you can afford. It's like, do you feel like you are in control of your life
00:10:03.500Or do you feel like shopping is running you?
00:10:05.960Yeah, that's something I've had to really get honest with myself about, that when it comes to shopping, the mix of shopping with social media consumption, they're two things, they're like, you know, two evils in my life that have now been like merged, where I feel like with social media, it really encourages me to compare my life to others.
00:10:27.760and then shopping is like, oh, you feel insecure in this way? Here's the solution. Buy this thing.
00:10:34.460This will make you feel better. Yeah. You feel insecure. You feel sad. You feel lonely.
00:10:40.800You know, like any of these negative feelings, like shopping is there to fill the void.
00:10:46.060It's not any different than binge eating, you know, any sort of thing that's just
00:10:51.220tamping down your emotions. And at the same time, shopping is essential in a very similar way to
00:10:58.960eating is essential, right? You're not going to stop shopping altogether. You will need new clothes
00:11:03.800at a certain point. You will need a water bottle at a certain point. You may not need 40 Stanley
00:11:09.420tumblers, but like you are going to have to make decisions about your shopping. So like me, have
00:11:15.680you seen these like TikTok shop videos taking over your FYP? Oh, it's been astronomical. There
00:11:23.040are so many every time I swipe through and I almost feel like I'm not in a position to be
00:11:28.820able to critique them, even though I'm so tired of them because I've made like two or three. I made
00:11:34.300two. I was supposed to make three because how it works is that TikTok gives you a certain amount
00:11:41.480of credit to spend in the TikTok shop. So you can get free credit. I got two lip glosses and
00:11:47.860a cream blush for free. And I think I got $60 worth of credit. And then you have to make videos
00:11:55.300about whatever you bought through TikTok shop. And so I made one video, didn't do great,
00:12:01.680made another one, did do great. And I was like, I don't even want to make the third one. Like
00:12:06.800the lip gloss I got is fine it's not amazing this color the first one I got was like a nice color
00:12:12.040this color doesn't look as good on me I was like I don't want to make this content but you have to
00:12:16.040and I didn't make it so I have like a mark against my account so I feel for I feel for the people
00:12:23.220who are making their required videos the people that are making like video after video after video
00:12:31.500and they don't have the requirement, they bug me. But I get them because I get them.
00:12:38.820You have all these followers. You probably don't make that much money at your job because who does
00:12:45.000these days? You have a platform that you can monetize. It's easy to do. TikTok is boosting
00:12:51.540some of those videos with the algorithm. Why wouldn't you do it? This is why I love you and
00:12:57.060I love your content because I feel like I can trust you. You keep it so fucking real. I didn't0.78
00:13:04.220know any of what you just said, but it makes so much sense. Is being an influencer, somebody who
00:13:10.820is trying to get people to buy things at odds with being somebody who is fundamentally honest
00:13:15.720and critical? Because I see you as both. How does that work? I mean, how it works is that I don't
00:13:21.220make very much money. You're like, I have another job. Yeah, I have a full time job. And I've gone
00:13:28.880through some of the economics of being a TikTok influencer before on my account, where there's
00:13:38.180essentially three different ways you can make money. It's probably more income streams that
00:13:44.600are available to certain people. But these are the three ways that are available for me. One,
00:13:49.940you can do an ad with, um, an outside company, right? So you'll create a Tik TOK. They'll pay
00:13:56.400you for it. I've done one ad before. You can also do affiliate links. So you show something on
00:14:05.740Tik TOK. You have a platform like, like to know it, or like shop my, I have a shop my page
00:14:11.740personally. And so they go and they click through on the page and they can click through what you
00:14:16.260were talking about and if they buy through your link then you'll get a kickback from that you'll
00:14:21.280get commission same with the amazon storefront it's the same exact idea except for the platform
00:14:25.920is amazon so through my shop my page i've made under a hundred dollars through my amazon storefront
00:14:34.180i made a couple thousand because i was um i had made a video about a walking pad
00:14:40.740i'm the incline walking pad i'm i'm possibly about to pull the trigger because of you on
00:14:48.220that walking pad by the way i still recommend it especially as the weather's getting colder and you
00:14:52.340don't want to do your walks outside but because that's a more high dollar amount item i was able
00:14:57.640to get a bigger commission back which is why i've made a couple thousand through amazon which is
00:15:02.160that was just a short period of time that's definitely slowed and then the third way you
00:15:06.460make money is the creativity program so there's the creators fund and then there's a creativity
00:15:11.380program beta and I think they're kind of trying to move people to the beta but if you make a video
00:15:17.640over one minute long then it's eligible for a kickback based on how many people view the video
00:15:26.320so and that is I mean it depends I guess how many views you're getting people that are have like
00:15:32.180way, way, way high views all the time are going to make, can make so much money. But I mean,
00:15:37.380I have like 40,000 followers. I probably have like one or two viral videos a month. And that
00:15:44.340comes out to a couple hundred dollars. It is much harder to be honest when there are a bunch of
00:15:49.220brands knocking down your door. I did a empties video. For those who don't know, an empties video
00:15:56.700is your skincare, makeup, empties, things you finished.
00:16:00.340You go through and you talk about them,
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00:29:27.200This is Prose Society, the weekly podcast that's part book club, part group chat for thought daughters,
00:29:33.340pop culture obsessives, and anyone who thinks Pride and Prejudice and Love Island deserve the same level of discourse.
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00:30:29.680So also with how quickly TikTok has rolled this out, it feels like moderation
00:30:34.800is kind of becoming an issue. NBC News' Kat Tenbarge found last month that young people,
00:30:41.860like minors are cashing in on selling stuff on this newly rolled out TikTok shop. In a statement
00:30:49.140responding to questions about the presence of teens on TikTok shop, a TikTok representative said,
00:30:55.200as TikTok shop rolls out in the US, we continue to evolve our safeguards and are taking steps to
00:31:00.600address this issue. TikTok asks users for their age when they sign up for an account, but there's
00:31:05.880an obvious like easy to evade loophole, which is like people can just lie about their age and
00:31:11.380pretend to be older than they are. There's also this big issue of counterfeit products. Now,
00:31:18.040you and I both know TikTok is big on dupes. Like they love being like, oh, you want this product
00:31:25.040that's really pricey? Here's a dupe where they show a similar product for less money. But this
00:31:30.400could also include products that are illegal counterfeits. TikTok says they ban, quote,
00:31:37.060the advertising and sale of all counterfeit products.
00:31:41.020By ensuring the safety and authenticity of products sold on our platform,
00:31:45.080we create a positive shopping experience that users can have confidence in, the policy ads.
00:31:50.200But a report by The Guardian back in April suggests that maybe the rules are not being
00:31:55.620super effectively enforced, with illicit beauty products routinely being promoted to users
00:32:01.000via their content feeds and search results.
00:32:04.020Since TikTok takes a cut, they're kind of essentially profiting off of the sale of counterfeit goods.
00:32:09.400The Guardian report reads, nine out of the first 12 results shown to people searching, quote, perfume in the TikTok shop section of the app appeared to be counterfeit.
00:32:19.360The products included variations of Dior's Sauvage Perfume, I'm probably mispronouncing
00:32:25.680that, Sauvage Perfume, with names such as Suave or Savage, and a copy of Victor and
00:32:32.520Rolf's Flower Bomb Perfume, which looks the same at first glance, but was actually called
00:34:34.240The kind of thing that I think that Elon Musk is hoping to turn Twitter or X into.
00:34:40.040But so far, I do think it might be a bit of an abrupt cultural shift to bring that kind of app to the United States.
00:34:46.600Facebook and Instagram both tried out live shopping functionality, only to later face them out.
00:34:51.780In Indonesia, one of the countries where TikTok first rolled out TikTok shop, TikTok shop has now been banned and shut down after the country banned commerce on social media platforms.
00:35:01.940According to the New York Times, the rules essentially mandate the separation of e-commerce
00:35:05.860and social media, and they're meant to protect local merchants, prevent algorithms from dominating
00:35:10.880the market, and stop the use of personal data for business purposes.
00:35:15.200So to be clear here, I am not trying to demonize people who make content on TikTok shop to
00:35:22.300make money, because on the one hand, I kind of respect it.
00:35:26.000Making money from platforms like TikTok is difficult as a creator, especially considering
00:35:30.340what you said that like TikTok is kind of shying away from their creator platform, you know,
00:35:36.100this billion dollar pot of money that was meant to be doled out to people who make viral TikToks
00:35:40.160and such. Like I understand that people need to make money. I've also heard reports of small
00:35:44.800businesses saying that they really find success from TikTok and like it will blow up their
00:35:51.280businesses. And I think that's great. So I don't want to demonize the people who are,
00:35:55.580you know, making money, get your check. I I'm with you. However, I do think that it's fair
00:36:02.360to be critical of the way that Tik TOK shop is being rolled out and how it's impacting the
00:36:06.880platform. You know, if we're seeing more and more ads on Tik TOK and it's feeling like
00:36:11.480walking around a scammy flea market, it is a problem. Maybe it's one of those, like,
00:36:18.520hate the, don't hate the player, hate the game kind of things where it's like,
00:36:21.940yeah, don't demonize individual creators, but do ask questions about why and how one of the
00:36:29.760biggest social media platforms in the world, why their end game is ultimately to become this like
00:36:35.080massive e-commerce app, you know? And I also just think it's like tiresome that like all we can
00:36:42.300expect from our digital experiences is being told to buy more stuff. I can understand why people
00:36:48.700feel this is like almost dystopian. You know, a teenager taking breaks in between classes to tell
00:36:54.960me, a grown woman, what kind of bathroom scrubber to buy does feel fundamentally kind of bleak.
00:37:01.880And I think especially in this moment in time that we're in right now, that feels like genuine,
00:37:07.780you know, social and political upheaval, having our largest communications platforms
00:37:15.460turning toward feeling more like digital scammy flea markets rather than places to find
00:37:21.800information, connection, and community does feel weird. I feel like I would rather open TikTok
00:37:27.960right now and find information about what's going on in the world, not like, hey, buy this
00:37:33.820whatever. It might fall apart in three days when you open it. I get why people are expressing that
00:37:42.260it feels dystopian or weird. And I also think it feels like a fundamental lack of imagination that
00:37:49.120we can't have better because I do fundamentally think that we can have, I mean, I think that you
00:37:56.240embody this, that like we can have consumerism, we can buy things that we like, we can save for
00:38:02.080things, we can make smart financial decisions and make intentional choices about where and how we
00:38:07.020spend our money and also be critical about consumerism, be critical about how we spend
00:38:11.820our money, where we put our money, where the platforms that we make purchases on, like
00:38:16.620their practices, I think it's possible that we can do both, like have there be buying
00:38:22.940things that we like while also being critical of the system in which we buy them.
00:38:36.900These platforms take up a ton of our time and our attention and now a bunch of our money.
00:38:45.180And I think it's important to be really reflective and really critical of why you're shopping, where you're shopping, who you're shopping from, and if you're shopping is putting you in a good financial position.
00:39:01.340Yeah, I mean, the over-consumerism part, I think, is so important that you bring up.
00:39:06.260On TikTok, things move so quickly, including trends.
00:43:13.460I'm Elizabeth Smart, and these are The Survivor Files.
00:43:17.060Every week, I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable, abducted, stalked, controlled, and nearly silenced.
00:43:24.600These are stories about what it takes to make it out alive.
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