00:03:01.640I'm really excited to have you on today.
00:03:03.640Because I want to talk about boob jobs, nose jobs, Botox, fillers, and plastic surgery TikTok.
00:03:11.020Because I am served so many plastic surgery before and after videos right now.
00:03:16.080And I just, I don't know if my phone is listening when I contemplate getting a boob job or not.
00:03:23.860But it's everywhere, all over my feed.
00:03:27.140Are you seeing more and more of this on social media?
00:03:29.340I am definitely seeing, and I'm going to be upfront with you. I am not a TikTok guy. I'm a little bit older, so I'm still stuck in the Instagram age, but it's all sort of adjacent. This is one thing versus the other.
00:03:44.100So TikTok is not my specialty, but I am definitely getting a sense that the ethos, you know, is predicting what I'm thinking.
00:03:55.720It's not even it's not even what I'm saying anymore and my phone picking up on it.
00:04:00.800And my phone has targeted ads for what I'm thinking because it's taking any cues you can get for my search queries and it's predicting what I want next.
00:04:09.660And it's terrifying and convenient all at the same time.
00:04:37.360I think everybody sees something on social media and assumes it's possible,
00:04:41.520which puts a tremendous onus on the plastic surgeon community because now we have to sort
00:04:47.660of compete with what is unobtainable. Well, and I think that we're now obsessed with things that
00:04:54.280are unobtainable, right? Also because we see so many filters on social media and people can
00:05:00.040face and body tune all of their images. Are we now a culture that is obsessed with things that
00:05:07.220are just not possible or maybe not possible without a gazillion dollars? Again, these are
00:05:13.840very, very good questions. I think we've become fascinated with what we can manipulate and not
00:05:19.420necessarily what's achievable. And so because of that, and we've been able to manipulate images
00:05:24.840for 10 years, but it's getting so sophisticated that it's hard to discern between reality and
00:05:30.940what it's fake. So now the rarer thing is not looking perfect. Anybody can look perfect.
00:05:35.980The rarer thing is being authentic. And I think authenticity is becoming this really hard to reach gem, this diamond in the rough that we're all searching for, because how can we be authentic and perfect?
00:05:48.780authentic and yet also perfect. I mean, I think about this so much because
00:05:55.060I see myself on camera a lot. I do a lot of television interviews and there are certain
00:06:03.320ways that I want my face to look. I, full confession, and my audience knows this,
00:06:08.200I had a nose job. God, it had to have been 15 years ago, maybe. I don't even remember what
00:06:14.120year it was, but I've been married for 10 and it was well before that. And I love my face with my
00:06:19.020nose job. Maybe I would have loved my face without my nose job. And now I'm considering a boob job
00:06:24.640because, you know, after nursing three babies, I'm just, they're just sun-dried tomatoes over here.
00:06:31.660Okay. That's all I'm going to say about them. And at the same time, there's a part of me that's like,
00:06:38.360why not go full crone? Why not age authentically? Why do you even care about this? But I guess
00:06:44.100guess if people if all people felt that way you'd be out of business right yeah and yes and i do
00:06:49.300think for the rest part i mean you're you're sort of walking down a different pathway you're saying
00:06:53.520i don't feel sexy anymore i want to do something for myself that the world may or may not be aware
00:06:58.740of this is true this is true because my husband could care less too like he's just like what what
00:07:05.960what would you even do to them and i'm like it is not for you it is for me mister and so if it's for
00:07:10.680you, I think it's out of the discussion of today. I don't think AI can even compete in terms of
00:07:14.860making you feel good about yourself. Now, if you're an influencer and you feel like you look
00:07:19.160unsexy in dresses and you can't Photoshop cleavage and you want something to make you
00:07:23.480look naturally enhanced, then that's going to open up the doors of, you know, is this going to be an
00:07:28.320AI press augmentation versus a real augmentation? Right, exactly. And I think just like you said,
00:07:35.060you hit the nail right on the head. AI augmentations on screen are now better than ever
00:07:41.180before. I think even in the past three months, they've gotten better than ever before. So do
00:07:47.500you ever have to say to people, no, this is just not a thing that is possible for you?
00:07:52.440I do it all the time. I did it just yesterday. I had a lovely lady. She's probably
00:07:57.080approaching 80 years old. I did her facelift a few years ago. And now she's coming in
00:08:03.000and she says, I want an hourglass figure.
00:08:06.320You know, I want my body to match my face.0.99
00:08:08.420And I'm looking at a woman who's relatively thin0.99
00:16:43.100And you know what? My practice is very face-forward. I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon. I do plastic surgery on the face, breast, body, and even hand from time to time. But my practice is face-forward. So you're right up my alley with this question.
00:16:57.240I think from a facial standpoint, we are looking at deep, plain facelifts, custom-made facial implants, lip lifts. Blepharoplasty has regained its popularity.
00:17:10.420What is that? What is that? Blepharoplasty is a fancy term for eyelid lift. And it's either
00:17:18.080upper eyelids or lower eyelids or both, but that is becoming super popular as well.
00:17:23.340Huh. What does that do to your face? It does quite a bit. It is one of the
00:17:28.760longest run, shortest run for the longest slide or low hanging fruit or whatever,
00:17:34.560whatever analogy you want to use for it, type operations. When we look at a person, when one
00:17:39.720person gazes at another. They really look between their eyes and their nose and the mouth. There's
00:17:46.140sort of a triangle, if you will, between the eyes, nose, and mouth that are high yield facial
00:17:52.220recognition areas. So we can do the best facelift in the world, but if we don't touch your eyes or
00:17:58.340we don't touch your lips, you might find that you don't look that much different. So I think
00:18:03.140whether or not we recognize it, society who is starting to, I guess, understand that the more
00:18:10.120you can do with your upper eyelids, especially high yield, low risk, low expense operations,
00:18:15.920the better. And cutting off skin from the upper eyelid and tightening it can change your appearance
00:18:20.360drastically in as little as half an hour and oftentimes awake. Fascinating. That is something
00:18:26.060that I have never even heard about, really.0.75
00:21:36.440It sounds fun. But the reality is, as much as I hate having deep wrinkles on my forehead, I hate even more having brows that fall into my eyeball holes and looking like I'm a pretty scary looking dude, I guess. I mean, I'm just an intense looking man. And to have low brows makes my dry East Coast humor that much more accentuated, I think, in the West Coast here where everybody's like, oh, hey, what's going on?
00:22:01.860Oh, sweetie, that is why I had to leave the West Coast, okay? Because, like, I drop an F-bomb every other sentence. I'm sarcastic. Like, they just could not handle me out there.
00:23:49.420Okay, good. People are just lying to me all the time.
00:23:51.880People aren't lying to you. I mean, look, a breast lift is a lot. It takes more time
00:23:57.220than a breast augmentation. But what is invasive? I mean, so if invasive means how long it takes on
00:24:04.260the table, then yes, a breast lift takes three times as much time as a breast augmentation.
00:24:09.180But a breast augmentation, especially if you're deflated, I don't know if your surgeon's going to go under the muscle or above the muscle, but you, even a short operation, are dissecting down between the muscles of your chest wall and the ribs.
00:24:23.400And that's way more invasive than a breast lift, which is skin and fat only.
00:24:27.160So if you're talking about depth of surgery, a breast lift is not as invasive as a breast augmentation.
00:24:33.420If you're talking about the time it takes to recover, a breast lift is not as invasive as a breast augmentation because when you're releasing muscle, it hurts.
00:24:44.680But if you're talking about pure operative time, like I'm going to be under anesthesia for longer, sure, you can argue that a breast lift is more invasive.
00:26:47.200I think that people are, like, being sold something by these plastic surgery influencers that is a little bit crazy these days, just so these people can get attention.
00:27:08.080I want to talk about influencers, not just TikTok, but Instagram influencers, the plastic surgery influencers, because I think that they are selling people.
00:27:20.000We talked earlier about the fantasy, but they're definitely showing things that are that are not possible, that are not real just to game the algorithm.
00:27:27.720Are you seeing more and more influencers in this space than ever before?
00:27:31.200I'm seeing fewer influencers and I'm seeing more A-list celebrities in this space.
00:27:40.060Oh, interesting. Like Kylie Jenner just talked about her boob job, right?
00:28:13.660I can only fall back on the same concept of the value of authenticity.
00:28:22.300Everything in this world is supply and demand.
00:28:25.640You know, the supply of looking superhuman is much easier to obtain now than ever.
00:28:33.240But the supply of proving it, of being authentic, is diminishing.
00:28:38.300So the demand for that is getting so much higher.
00:28:40.680So perhaps on some spiritual cosmic level, celebrities are weighing out the risks and benefits of saying too much and being authentic.
00:28:49.720So one of the possibilities is that by coming out about surgery that you've had, you are going to gain wealth in authenticity, and that will be rewarded some way or the other.
00:29:42.640So like the surgeon as the status symbol these days.
00:29:46.240Yeah. I mean, I don't want to talk about influencers or celebrities by name, but like Garth Fisher is a plastic surgeon that, you know, was recently announced as doing a breast augmentation on an A-list celebrity or a socialite. And I'll tell you what, Garth Fisher is an amazing brand. He is very well known for his breast surgery. He's been doing it for a long time. And he's one of those plastic surgeons that has not been fraught with controversy.
00:30:10.540he's been a popular brand in plastic surgery for decades and so yeah i mean if i had a breast
00:30:16.780augmentation i'd want to be like oh yeah this is a garth fisher breast aug he's hard to get i got
00:30:21.360him so that's a possibility i haven't even heard of him but i also don't live in this world so it's
00:30:26.520just like don't go to me i'm not i'm not putting i'm going if i do this i'm going i'm flying there
00:30:30.920and i'm going to you okay great great job all right great very very close handholding i love
00:30:36.200this also i need all the handholding um but i just think that's like that's funny to me like
00:30:39.860i've got a garth fisher breast augmentation like you're wearing i've got the prada i've got the
00:30:45.560prada of augmentation exactly and there was a guy you know there's a guy who i respect tremendously
00:30:50.660in new york named andrew jacona who years ago was the was the go-to guy for facelifts and i think
00:30:56.140something may have happened i just haven't heard his name as much maybe that's by his design who
00:31:00.120knows maybe he doesn't want to be in the limelight but for whatever reason maybe his star is fading
00:31:04.720a little bit and somebody else comes up the guy who did chris jenner's facelift for example
00:31:09.160is the next name that would come up. Do you think that when people are looking to spend a lot of
00:31:16.280money on things like this, are they Googling who did Kris Jenner's facelift? Absolutely. I think
00:31:22.020if you hear enough that Kris Jenner had her facelift by this young up-and-coming plastic
00:31:28.660surgeon in New York City, facelifts are scary. I mean, unlike breast augmentations where you can
00:31:33.160just kind of revise it under the hood. Facelifts are in your face. In this selfie slash social
00:31:39.920media slash Zoom forward culture, you know, facelifts are one thing that you can't get
00:31:45.800wrong. And so going to a name brand has a lot more value than going, for example, to a foreign
00:31:51.360country. Although a lot of people are still doing it, going to Turkey and other countries
00:31:55.400because it's less expensive. I think people still place a tremendous value on a recognized name.
00:32:02.120And if Kris Jenner looks this good and she had her facelift with this surgeon, then the odds of me getting a result that good are higher with that surgeon.
00:32:12.540I think it's very reasonable to think that, but that logic is unfortunately very flawed.
00:32:57.760And I, I, I am personally really bad at it. And you're going to say, oh no, you're so natural on
00:33:02.840the, on the microphone. How can you be bad at it? I am really, really bad at it. And I hate it.
00:33:09.600And that's a strong word. I don't even let my kids use the H word in my house. I don't like
00:33:14.200that social media is necessary, but it absolutely is. You can't hang in New York. You can't hang
00:33:21.020in california if you don't have a social media presence so yes i'm i am i'm grateful to be on
00:33:28.960your podcast i am grateful to have a youtube channel but beyond that it's really hard to
00:33:35.540gain popularity without being tiktok famous or having a viral result dude don't i know it okay
00:33:42.720like i don't don't like to use the h word either but i also kind of hate being on social media
00:33:50.660I'm perfectly good at it, and especially for being an author where this doesn't necessarily come naturally. But it is the only way to sell books these days. It is the only way to make sure my podcast is out there by making myself a kind of social brand and putting myself out there on a daily basis.
00:40:30.860who puts their face out there in the world because there are male trolls that tell me I am ugly and0.98
00:40:36.280homely on a daily basis. And some women, some nasty women. And I just think if this is a thing1.00
00:40:42.980that makes you feel confident, you go for it, girl. I think that's what it comes down to.
00:40:48.040In this world of unpredictability and instability and all of these things, whatever it takes to make
00:40:55.220you feel good, as long as it's safe and it doesn't hurt you, should be taken seriously. And I know
00:41:00.460plastic surgery. It sucks to have trained for so long and to jump over the highest yardsticks to
00:41:09.460get where I am now, only to be the kind of doctor that nobody needs. But the reality is we do make
00:41:15.600people feel better about themselves. And sometimes even if the physical change isn't there, that
00:41:21.320mindset, that confidence, that strut is what we're selling as plastic surgeons.
00:41:26.420I agree. I agree. I mean, I think that confidence, even though I mean, is it necessarily philosophically right that it does come from our outward appearance? It often does. OK. And anything that makes anyone feel good. Yeah. Like I said, I am here for it. Dr. Zalkin, please tell people where they can find you on the Internet. That terrible place where we have to live.
00:41:49.220the internet's dying is the internet even is that even a thing anymore what is seo why am i paying
00:41:54.680for seo what is that oh i don't know why you would pay for seo anymore my internet worldwide website
00:42:00.040is www.zelkenmd.com and my instagram handle is at jonathan zelken md i i don't really know if i
00:42:12.980have a TikTok channel. I think I might. And my YouTube channel is also at Jonathan Zelkin, MD.
00:42:20.400Wonderful. I love that. I love that. Thank you so much for being on today, my dear.
00:42:25.220It's been my pleasure. Thank you, Joe.