Under the Influence (with Jo Piazza) - March 26, 2026


Gossip is Good For You! Dissecting Taylor Frankie Paul and the Justin Timberlake DUI Video

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00:00:00.000 Hey y'all, Joe here, and you are listening to Under the Influence.
00:00:08.940 Have you ordered your copy of The Parisian Heist yet?
00:00:12.080 Ocean's Eleven, but make it feminist meets the goldfinch.
00:00:15.840 Of course you have, because you're amazing, and I appreciate you so much.
00:00:21.180 Today's guest is a longtime friend of mine, and I love him so, so much.
00:00:25.480 We lived together in the celebrity magazine trenches for a very long time.
00:00:28.860 In fact, he was the person who first hired me at a celebrity magazine.
00:00:32.580 And, you know, I don't think he ended up regretting it.
00:00:35.200 Dan Wakeford is one of the most knowledgeable people I know about entertainment journalism.
00:00:39.120 And he also covers it really smartly.
00:00:41.920 He covers it in a way that I think a lot of us want to consume it.
00:00:45.020 We want to know what's happening. 0.99
00:00:46.400 We don't want any bullshit. 0.97
00:00:47.480 We want the truth. 0.98
00:00:48.240 And we also want a good analysis.
00:00:49.700 We want to know what to take back to the water cooler with us.
00:00:53.180 He recently left the world of celebrity magazines to launch a newsletter called Celebrity Intelligence.
00:00:58.860 I'll let Dan tell you what it's all about. But today, we are going to dive headfirst into the
00:01:04.480 Taylor-Frankie-Paul bachelorette scandal. Dan's got a great take on it. But also into the recent
00:01:10.260 footage that was leaked of Justin Timberlake's DUI arrest. Frankly, both Dan and I, although we
00:01:16.700 do not condone drinking and driving, think that the video makes him a lot more relatable and a lot
00:01:22.100 more human. Hello, Dan Wigford, one of my oldest and most handsome friends.
00:01:33.820 Less of the old, more of the handsome. Thank you, Gio.
00:01:36.480 So, so handsome. So handsome. We have worked together. Again, both of us are young and spry
00:01:42.760 and really in the prime of our lives. But we we've worked together for for years in the journalism
00:01:50.200 space, in the celebrity and entertainment space. You were my mentor for a long time. You taught me
00:01:55.660 pretty much, you know, everything I know about celebrity magazines. So I should thank you for
00:02:01.340 that. And also you kept me there longer, longer than I would have been there otherwise.
00:02:08.140 I mean, you were prolific. You'd be getting gossip on the phone in meetings whilst writing a book
00:02:13.560 concurrently, seeing somebody who can multitask. So that capability was so inspiring.
00:02:19.560 Secretly, but not so secretly, writing a book in my office at the magazine.
00:02:24.880 Well, and now you're my go-to person, my go-to person for like, what should I even be looking at or caring about when it comes to celebrity?
00:02:34.120 Because even though I was immersed in this world for so long, I'm not anymore.
00:02:39.000 I don't know who to follow, who to pay attention to.
00:02:42.540 I don't know which Kardashian-Jenner is which anymore.
00:02:45.960 and you are now striking out on your own and you're delivering this to people in a newsletter
00:02:52.660 and right now you are going to be our celebrity expert on under the influence tell everyone where
00:02:57.880 they can find more of you and then tell me what i should be thinking about and talking about
00:03:01.920 in the world of celebrity this week um well thank you joe that introduction was very sweet um i
00:03:09.540 I have started a platform called Celebrity Intelligence.
00:03:15.200 It is a newsletter once a week and with breaking news blasts as well.
00:03:19.300 It is on the Beehive platform.
00:03:21.920 We can put the link in bio.
00:03:24.000 Yeah, it'll be.
00:03:25.620 And the basic premise of this is that celebrity culture is everywhere.
00:03:31.180 We know that. 1.00
00:03:31.880 But a lot of it is such garbage. 0.99
00:03:33.980 There's a lot of AI slop, unverified rumors, breathless takes on stories that actually never happened. 0.99
00:03:40.040 And with me, you've got somebody who has worked in this arena for nearly three decades.
00:03:45.920 It's 29 years.
00:03:46.780 Which is impossible because you are only 29 years old. 0.96
00:03:49.360 So you just started this immediately out of the womb.
00:03:52.120 I did.
00:03:53.180 I was an entertainment reporter at birth.
00:03:55.800 and that's why I want it to exist because I want to help the consumer navigate away from these
00:04:04.360 stories and away from areas that feel icky and bring a little bit of meaningfulness here I want
00:04:09.940 to be like your smartest friend who happens to know a lot about entertainment and and everything
00:04:15.660 bringing everything that where there is truth I have a lot of trusted relationships I'm not
00:04:21.400 spending my time with speculation. There's no BS, no badly sourced nonsense that comes with a lot
00:04:28.520 of entertainment and celebrity stories. I'm also a big believer that you should not be ashamed in
00:04:32.940 this. I think there's a lot of misogyny around entertainment and gossip because it's seen as a
00:04:38.640 women's field. And I believe the higher your IQ, you're greater your need for celebrity stories 1.00
00:04:43.220 because you can learn from them. It's self-care. The world is hard. Come and read these stories
00:04:49.140 in a place where everything is true, where it has some actual meaningful takeaway whilst also
00:04:56.460 having the enjoyment of this delicious world of celebrity and entertainment.
00:05:00.600 Totally, because you deserve it. This is what you deserve in this dumpster fire of a world.
00:05:05.940 So Dan, tell me, what are the stories I should be paying attention to this week? Because I also
00:05:10.700 have stopped doom scrolling. And since I've stopped doom scrolling the news, a lot of the
00:05:15.380 celebrity stuff gets blocked out too. So I'm not getting anything at this point,
00:05:20.140 except for videos of otters holding hands. I mean, to me, there has been only one story
00:05:25.800 since the quiet week. It's a quiet week after the Oscars. So things generally go quiet and
00:05:29.640 there's not much to break through. And somebody like me who works in entertainment, it's hard
00:05:33.260 to work when nothing's happening. But one story has dominated the headlines and that's the
00:05:37.260 cancellation of the next season of ABC's Bachelorette, which is interesting on so many levels.
00:05:43.200 You've got the intricacies of this reality star and what is going on in her life with legal issues.
00:05:48.440 But it also speaks to bigger issues in the world and the entertainment industry and society.
00:05:54.640 Like this decision to cancel the show on Skull's kind of high stakes reckoning regarding brand safety, the acceptability of reality stars and the decline of traditional television audiences and what you need to do to try and help that.
00:06:08.820 And also in a positive light, it shows us that society has such a low tolerance for domestic abuse in a good way.
00:06:16.780 Yes, yes. All of those things.
00:06:18.880 I mean, this story, like you said, it tells us a lot of things.
00:06:22.420 You and I are bachelor, bachelorette veterans.
00:06:25.980 I was the second season. I arrived in America in 2002.
00:06:31.320 I interviewed Trista Wren, who was the then bachelorette, and the magazine I was working for at the moment, put them on the cover.
00:06:37.780 And it was the first time they'd ever been on the Bachelor franchise had been on the cover of the Celebrity Weekly.
00:06:43.640 Well, because in the beginning of reality television, a lot of skeptics and a lot of people in the world of celebrity were like, reality television is a blip.
00:06:52.360 These aren't real celebrities.
00:06:54.080 And when we were working at the magazines, we ultimately got to a point where our Bachelor covers did gangbusters, right?
00:07:03.280 They did.
00:07:03.820 They were the best elements.
00:07:05.180 When you're watching something in your living room and you're relating to somebody's real life, there's deeper engagement.
00:07:11.380 You care about these people.
00:07:13.100 Whereas if I'm watching a television show, a scripted show, it's harder to translate that passion and that fan base into magazine sales and engagement in digital stories.
00:07:25.280 These people feel like you're friends is the thing.
00:07:27.520 And so you're you're deeply, deeply invested in their storylines, which truly are storylines, because we know better than anyone that there are producers shaping these shows.
00:07:38.060 In the beginning, in the early days, did you ever think the Bachelor franchise would go on this long?
00:07:43.840 I personally didn't. I'm British. I probably lean more towards the trashy drama and the excitement.
00:07:53.260 i watched the first season because i really wanted to know what america was about and i
00:07:57.300 thought so this is core americana and a big big show um but for me as a viewer i did not find it
00:08:04.000 compelling because i found it very um formulaic and very set up and then after a few seasons the
00:08:11.480 cut you'd see the couples break up and so the engagement and the high stakes didn't feel real
00:08:16.540 to me but it still was real to my audience so i would always assign people who are mad fans to
00:08:21.660 this and I would approach the show very much in a sense of like do I find this interesting from a
00:08:27.180 human story perspective not as a fan who watches the show every week and that would be my barometer
00:08:32.160 to how whether this story is interesting is there actually a story there for somebody who doesn't
00:08:37.300 watch the show well and I think that that is what always made you I'm just going to toot your horn
00:08:41.720 for one second like a really great editor-in-chief of a celebrity magazine and I used to say too that
00:08:47.900 this felt like what set me apart often as a reporter and a news director, because I wasn't
00:08:54.520 as invested in celebrity culture as a lot of our fans were. I thought these were interesting human
00:08:59.460 stories, right? And that celebrities had, you know, often interesting, sometimes a trainwreck
00:09:05.760 story to share with humanity. And we wanted to find the nugget that would appeal to so many
00:09:11.700 people. But we had a staff of reporters who were rabid fans and who were so good at getting close
00:09:18.840 to The Bachelor and Bachelorette candidates and just getting them to spill everything before the
00:09:24.800 show was ready to reveal it. I mean, I have so much to say on all of that. I totally concur with you.
00:09:29.820 Celebrities are just the leading protagonists in the world. And so they're the most interesting
00:09:33.920 people to tell stories because everybody cares about them. Everybody knows them. And so it's
00:09:38.800 just modern day shakespeare it's just very interesting stories and it's the takeaway take
00:09:44.220 away the celebrity's names is this interesting is that that's what makes a compelling story
00:09:48.220 but back to that i mean back in the days when celebrity weeklies had a lot of money
00:09:52.960 we would send we i remember we sent we used to have money that was crazy it was really
00:09:58.240 really insane reporters would follow them on honeymoon i remember some man i think geordie
00:10:05.280 went to Bali, one of our reporters. Jordi went so many places. Yes. They lived a great life. And
00:10:11.660 then you get into your 30s and you want to be at home and watch television and not be traveling
00:10:16.480 around the world. But yeah, we intensely followed these folks. Also, sometimes we'd work with ABC
00:10:23.640 and other times you would try and get your own reporting as well. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So
00:10:30.040 In the past five years, the Bachelor franchise has not been doing as well as it was previously.
00:10:38.040 Maybe, I mean, maybe even longer than that.
00:10:40.280 I truly see the selection of Taylor, Frankie Paul, who became so famous as an influencer.
00:10:47.600 And this, as you said, this story is about the wider world of celebrity that we live in.
00:10:52.400 Influencers are in so many ways the new breed of celebrity.
00:10:56.560 and so taylor rose to prominence on mom talk and then obviously on the hulu show the secret lives 0.72
00:11:03.380 of mormon wives this was a very calculated decision on the bachelorette's part to cast her
00:11:09.940 what do you think about that i mean they had had a case study just the year before which is extremely
00:11:16.840 successful dancing with the stars brought on um taylor frankie pool's co-stars jen affleck and
00:11:22.680 whitney levitt um for an appearance and that made the show the most watched series of that decade
00:11:30.040 that is a huge fact when you're dealing with declining network ratings and you achieve that
00:11:35.480 success that is wonderful because you're bringing the eyeballs from social media and from another
00:11:42.240 platform hulu of this hit show onto um a more tired legacy show and it really brings the buzz
00:11:50.400 you're getting more audience and buzz on social media because these folks are on social media and
00:11:54.820 huge on social media and it was hugely successful so the new producer of the bachelorette i think
00:12:00.420 wanted to replicate this and brought taylor who was the biggest star of that show but the issue is
00:12:07.520 this is a different type of show and taylor is a different personality to these people
00:12:12.960 the bachelorette is a puritanical show based in fantasy and projection and based on the belief
00:12:19.280 that you can still fall in love and there's a fairy tale here.
00:12:23.840 And then Taylor had a complicated history, which had been well documented.
00:12:29.640 So well documented.
00:12:30.540 And I do think that that is what was lost a little bit.
00:12:34.380 The Bachelor is a different kind of beast.
00:12:36.680 It is very, even though so many of the viewers know that a lot of this is highly produced,
00:12:43.680 highly staged, there is always the hope that true love is real, that true love is possible.
00:12:48.340 I mean, it is a very aspirational show in a lot of ways.
00:12:52.180 And knowing Taylor's backstory, knowing her complicated history with Dakota, knowing the fact that she might not even be single while she's on this show, that there may be a lot going on with her ex in the background, that was going to puncture the fairy tale from the very start.
00:13:10.180 And the executives knew exactly who she was going into this.
00:13:13.960 There was no surprise here.
00:13:15.540 If anything, Taylor really does put it all out there.
00:13:19.900 I mean, and the courts had done and it had been reported on and the show, it was on the show.
00:13:25.460 There was footage of this incident.
00:13:27.680 So basically TMZ revealed a video of her previous legal entanglement with her ex where she is video where she's captured throwing chairs at his face in front of their child.
00:13:42.880 And this is what sparked the cancellation because they wanted to give the family time and to look after the family, ABC said.
00:13:53.180 But like the issue is everything that was on this video had been reported.
00:13:57.440 They just hadn't seen the video.
00:13:59.500 And so that is where this gray area and this strange element exists.
00:14:04.520 Should they really have greenlit somebody who had had these charges against them and pleaded guilty to these charges?
00:14:13.620 And just because the fact that the video came out is the reason why the show got cancelled.
00:14:20.300 Right. And I also think that there is something there about the fact that there was a child in the video.
00:14:26.580 And the worst thing you can be in America is a quote unquote bad mother. 0.99
00:14:31.960 Had we just seen her throwing these benches again, you know, culturally, America does not love an angry woman. 0.99
00:14:39.640 But I think they could get past that more than, you know, moving forward from someone who is being incredibly violent in front of a child.
00:14:49.040 Particularly for ABC and Disney, Disney who pride themselves as a family for having a family friendly image.
00:14:57.100 So that contradiction there was a huge contradiction between ABC's need to get these Gen Z ratings and like Disney's non-negotiable brand safety in this environment.
00:15:09.800 So cancellation wasn't just like a moral choice.
00:15:14.420 It was a corporate risk mitigating strategy.
00:15:17.360 When the message drama crossed the line and it involved a child, it was very important.
00:15:23.280 And so I'm sure you're right. The idea of a woman possibly harming her child, it is so against Disney's ethics and beliefs, and it could bring down the whole franchise if it escalated. 0.54
00:15:42.400 Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So in some ways, this did feel like a knee jerk reaction. And in other ways, it is also just such it shows how interconnected all of these media companies have become.
00:15:58.840 The fact that ABC is in the Disney umbrella, but then so is Hulu, right?
00:16:04.700 And so these decisions become a lot more complicated when you're trying to be a very family-friendly, family-forward brand.
00:16:13.400 But then you also want to capture the eyeballs of Gen Z who want this more salacious content.
00:16:22.060 I mean, reality TV has got messier and messier and it's got bigger and bigger and more popular and kind of cooler.
00:16:27.540 like now there's no shame to watching reality tv when we first started reporting on this
00:16:32.200 in the 2000s reality tv was a dirty little secret you didn't brand so dirty now yeah you didn't
00:16:38.740 brand something reality tv now people are proud to be fans of reality tv um and it's and it aligns
00:16:46.840 and it has just as much impact as other culture and it's kind of cool but so it has got messier
00:16:53.940 And so to deliver that, like what's happened here for Bravo would provide a whole season's
00:17:00.860 worth of content in the Housewives.
00:17:02.560 But because of the Disney element and because of the bigger picture here and because the
00:17:08.700 CEO happened on the new CEO's second date, they need to be short-footed.
00:17:13.260 They need to seem confident in their decision making.
00:17:16.900 Yeah, absolutely.
00:17:17.940 OK, let's take a quick break.
00:17:19.100 And when we get back, I want to talk a little bit about what happens next.
00:17:22.400 What is in the future for Taylor Frankie Paul?
00:17:32.960 OK, we are back talking about the I mean, what else is there?
00:17:37.800 There's no other celebrity news out there right now.
00:17:39.840 I mean, I will ask you if there's anything else under the sun.
00:17:42.140 But what is next for Taylor Frankie Paul? 1.00
00:17:44.740 I frankly think this just makes her even more famous. 0.98
00:17:47.900 I mean, I think it's going to make her infamous whether it can make can it bring 0.99
00:17:52.140 um um more fame and more tv deals and and more success is going to be up for debate at the
00:18:00.420 moment the secret lives of mormon wives is on pause um and and there's reporting that a lot
00:18:07.300 of the other cast members do not want to film with her and we all know from watching housewives
00:18:10.780 when you don't want to film with somebody you can't really be on the show um it just sets up
00:18:16.900 a second narrative that doesn't really work and then whether the show will be get shown
00:18:22.880 um anywhere else it's all going to be dependent on what happens with this um the court case related
00:18:28.520 to the february incident which is takes place on april the 7th so that will be the first time we
00:18:34.420 get a tailored side of the story and at the moment she has not spoken and she hasn't been able to
00:18:38.800 speak and speak and so this is a lot of speculation and we do not know exactly what happened obviously
00:18:45.020 there's a lot of animosity between her and Dakota here. So I think what happens next is going to be
00:18:52.440 very much dependent on that date. Yeah, yeah, absolutely. And she has lost
00:18:58.600 some brand endorsement deals and people have gotten very nervous about this situation. But
00:19:06.000 we've seen people come back from scandals like this before. Again, I do think it is very tricky
00:19:13.880 that you had a mother in a situation where she was endangering her children. We don't see that
00:19:20.800 as often. And I think that that is, I really truly think that's the main thing that is making
00:19:25.660 brands as skittish as they are right now. That said, even if cast members say they don't want
00:19:31.980 to work with her, we've seen this in the Bravo franchises, people often end up getting their
00:19:36.720 own show, sometimes even on a network that is a little less nervous about things like this.
00:19:42.200 yeah so i mean we don't there's no such thing as a cancellation anymore it's just a postponement
00:19:48.220 and so i think there will be somewhere for her um it i it won't be um on call abc i would imagine
00:19:58.320 they're going to be shell-shocked from this um i think they're going to one need to be seen to
00:20:03.660 be confident but it all depends what happens if there is there if there is a legal um issue against
00:20:09.640 her she could end up in jail joe like like this what happens in utah and what has happened with
00:20:16.200 this previous case is she has taken a guilty plea for the 2023 felony charges of aggregated
00:20:24.740 assault which we've seen from that video she's already pled guilty to those and she was given
00:20:29.640 probation on something which is called a plea absence and she which is basically a guilty plea
00:20:35.640 in a drawer. And because of that, she's not allowed to have any other legal issues. If she gets
00:20:40.540 charged with legal issues now, this means that she is then asked to serve the sentence related
00:20:46.680 to a previous conviction, which could actually be up to five years in prison. So that, again,
00:20:53.680 could make her more appealing with her celebrity. But it all depends on what happens with these new
00:21:00.320 equal issues in court on it for the 7th. Right. Exactly. Exactly. Taylor also does have
00:21:05.980 her digital audience to fall back on. And moving forward, I think it could be really interesting
00:21:14.560 remaining digital only striking out on her own could end up being even more lucrative for her.
00:21:22.520 Again, I'm saying this without judgment of the right and the wrong here and really just in terms
00:21:29.100 the business of what the landscape of celebrity looks like now and how someone like bethany
00:21:34.380 frankel has already proved that it's exact case study that you're describing that she has left
00:21:39.260 an established show set out on her own as earning more money and having a wider audience and more
00:21:45.280 successful than um than than her other co-stars yeah exactly exactly oh so much more so much more
00:21:54.240 Well, you'll have to come back on in April when the story develops.
00:21:58.280 Tell me what else.
00:21:59.100 What else is happening in the world of celebrity right now, post-Oscars?
00:22:02.960 I mean, something interesting I wrote about this week was Justin Timberlake.
00:22:08.420 And I just saw this last night right before I fell asleep.
00:22:12.120 Yes.
00:22:12.340 Tell me.
00:22:12.660 Tell me all about that.
00:22:14.420 So Justin pled guilty last year to a DUI charge and has spent a lot of legal fees and a lot
00:22:22.420 time trying to restrict um the um footage from being released it was sorry it was june 2024 it
00:22:30.300 was two years ago um and and saying that it would cause irreparable damage and embarrassment to his
00:22:36.800 reputation um the he failed the footage came and like obviously this man did something wrong here
00:22:44.760 he has admitted he did something wrong drinking and driving no argument this is terrible but this
00:22:50.000 This was out in the Hamptons, right?
00:22:51.760 Right before his world tour was kicking off.
00:22:54.500 And I controversially think this footage being released was a good thing for him.
00:23:01.180 This makes him so much better than before.
00:23:03.580 I think before this, his image was a little bit of a tired golden boy of pop.
00:23:07.520 He was a little bit moany and a bit of a brat. 0.93
00:23:09.380 And he failed to attend hearings in person. 1.00
00:23:12.260 This footage makes him look like a nice guy.
00:23:15.040 much better than most celebrities
00:23:16.900 when they've been caught and been arrested
00:23:19.280 and police footage comes out.
00:23:20.700 Do you remember?
00:23:21.720 Did you immediately think about Reese?
00:23:23.720 About Reese Witherspoon?
00:23:24.720 Yeah.
00:23:25.820 You used to make a point.
00:23:26.840 Reese wasn't driving.
00:23:28.240 She got arrested for something else.
00:23:32.440 But he was polite.
00:23:36.040 He was a nice guy.
00:23:37.860 He was kind of funny.
00:23:39.220 He was kind of funny.
00:23:40.560 It was like, these tests are really hard.
00:23:43.760 and talking about how he's on the world.
00:23:47.240 So the footage shows him actually really polite and a nice guy.
00:23:51.640 And there's some humour to it that makes you have an affection for him
00:23:54.960 because he's talking about how nervous he is.
00:23:57.640 I'm a little nervous. My heart's racing.
00:23:59.400 And then he's trying to explain who he is.
00:24:01.740 I'm Justin Timberlake. That's my job kind of thing.
00:24:04.240 And I'm on a world tour and trying to explain what a world tour is
00:24:07.880 to the police officer.
00:24:09.980 And just saying, these tests are really hard.
00:24:12.960 i thought he came up as a nice guy who made a huge mistake and um i think it humanized him it
00:24:20.000 made him feel like just like us and it i think it shows that sometimes um in times of trouble just
00:24:26.720 be transparent and own your issues and and don't try and hide them yeah i i totally agree i mean
00:24:33.440 it i haven't thought that much about justin timberlake lately uh but this yeah but the
00:24:39.300 video actually made me like him like him i was like hey i'm like you are you know to quote us
00:24:43.980 weekly stars they're just like us and you know i'm like well what would i be like if i got pulled
00:24:48.580 over i'm like i think i'd kind of be we would turn into karen's we would be a little charity
00:24:54.840 be a little charity um but yeah like i i on one hand i get that his team you know celebrity teams
00:25:02.300 they want to they want to shut down as much as possible right like i get why they tried to keep
00:25:07.140 this footage from going public in the wake of the world tour. But frankly, I don't think this
00:25:11.380 did anything to hurt his brand. I think it made him a little bit, I mean, obviously you drove
00:25:16.120 drunk. Bad idea, bro. Okay. But his reaction and the way that he interacted with the cops just
00:25:23.220 made him a little bit more human, which I think is good in this, in this, the current age of
00:25:29.900 celebrity that we're in. So yeah, I don't see a downside for Justin to this video being released
00:25:36.560 And, you know, I think they probably spent so much money on legal fees to to keep this under wraps.
00:25:43.780 But alas, I mean, nothing I think I think it's pretty impossible to keep the majority of videos of footage under wraps these days.
00:25:51.800 Something is always going to get out there.
00:25:54.840 I mean, yeah, in the days of citizen journalism and everything being recorded, it's hard.
00:26:01.200 I think celebrity publicists, when we first started out, could train their celebrities and own the narrative and there would be like 10 pesky outlets who could reveal stuff.
00:26:10.700 Now everybody has a phone. You can't hide anything. You have to train celebrities to try and live their life in a more sensible way and be aware of the pitfalls that can happen.
00:26:19.900 Yeah, well, and also I do think that, you know, when there used to be so fewer outlets reporting, especially in the early 2000s, it was less likely for something to be leaked or to be released because then the police station is like, oh, who do we even talk to to release this thing?
00:26:39.920 Now you can just put it on Instagram. You could just put it on TikTok. Like, it's very easy to stream anything at this point. Like you said, everyone is a citizen journalist.
00:26:49.900 Exactly. I think because of that, the money has gone out of media. And so there used to be a more monetary in the tabloid world, a more monetary motive to somebody to put that out in the world.
00:27:03.540 As a citizen, I might not put something horrible about somebody out in the world on my own, but I think some people would be like, oh, I can earn some money by going to the National Enquirer. Now the National Enquirer probably has not got enough money to make that worth somebody, somebody worth selling something scandalous on a celebrity. So there's two different ways of looking at that.
00:27:22.820 Yeah, it is. I've thought about that a lot as as just first as a celebrity journalist and then also as a citizen, because I've seen I've seen some bad behavior.
00:27:31.460 We've all seen some some bad behavior and even in recent years.
00:27:35.500 And I thought, I'm like, oh, my gosh, I'm like, should I tell someone about this?
00:27:37.740 And I'm like, I don't care anymore.
00:27:40.000 What what what what is the point of sharing this thing that I just saw and putting it out there?
00:27:45.780 But I do think, you know, when we live in a world of like the algorithm and getting famous digitally, that can also be an incentive. And celebrities just need to remember that. And we talked about this all the time. Like, you know, you are constantly on a stage for better or worse. That might not be fair.
00:28:05.660 but you're also often being paid a premium to live your life this way to live your life in the
00:28:12.040 spotlight and I mean there's truly just no escape from it at this point literally anyone can report
00:28:17.900 on you now I mean I've thought about this a lot in my 29 years of doing this and I'm contemplating
00:28:25.580 writing about this in the coming weeks which is how to be famous in 2026 and you see a lot of
00:28:31.500 people struggling with this chapel rhone is the biggest case study at the moment recent two
00:28:36.720 incidents where she filmed um herself telling the paparazzi to get the hell out and then there's
00:28:42.740 been an incident with jude law's daughter who the security a security team went and recommended a
00:28:49.600 young girl who just walked past her table and so it's just like how do you deal with that and then
00:28:54.280 you have boy george who's telling her that like she should just get with the program and be happy
00:28:58.580 to be famous there's different ways approaching and people need boundaries um and and being
00:29:03.700 famous is incredibly successful but there are things you can do acting more like a normal
00:29:09.740 person i'm walking through the world is actually a way of not getting noticed i've spoken to a-list
00:29:14.060 celebrities who told me their tricks and walking fast is a way that nobody notices you putting
00:29:20.140 baseball caps on going to don't go to the awful celebrity places that celebrities go to go to
00:29:25.720 normal places. There's reasons why Julia Roberts and Paul Rudd and other celebrities live a normal
00:29:33.000 life and don't get captured. They're not wandering around in limousines wearing dark glasses
00:29:38.000 and being conspicuous. Yeah, no, I mean, and when people ask me this question, I always
00:29:44.160 kind of give the example of Ben Affleck and Matt Damon. And I'm like, can you even name Matt Damon's
00:29:49.660 kids? Most people can't, right? He has been very good at protecting his family, protecting his
00:29:55.160 privacy. Because as a celebrity, you really can. You can. I mean, there are some places you go
00:30:00.280 where you are definitely getting recognized. But I often feel like the celebrities who we see all
00:30:05.680 the time are the ones who want to be seen all of the time, who are putting themselves out there,
00:30:10.620 who are going to the celebrity hotspots where they freaking know the paparazzi are going to be.
00:30:15.300 And we know this very well because oftentimes when we were working at the magazines,
00:30:19.820 we would be called by the celebrity publicists themselves and say,
00:30:24.580 hey, this person is going to this location.
00:30:27.600 You might want to send a reporter.
00:30:30.380 Yeah, it was a symbiotic relationship for sure.
00:30:33.600 Yeah, absolutely.
00:30:34.420 OK, let's take one last break.
00:30:35.900 And then I want to talk about something that I think you talk about really smartly,
00:30:38.920 which is how gossip and consuming celebrity news
00:30:42.880 can actually be good for you and good for society as a whole.
00:30:49.820 Okay, we're back.
00:30:55.240 You have this whole theory that gossip can be good for us.
00:30:58.940 It can be good culturally.
00:31:00.420 I want you to unpack that a little bit because I also truly believe it.
00:31:03.940 There are so many different factors for this.
00:31:07.420 I mean, in a way, firstly, it's a connection.
00:31:10.460 Like, it brings people together.
00:31:12.160 It's a community.
00:31:13.200 We're talking.
00:31:14.300 I just believe that being interested in celebrity is about being interested in people.
00:31:19.540 it's been about interested in life if you're not interested in these people then it's just
00:31:24.320 snobbism these folks are telling interesting stories that you can learn from and so you
00:31:30.080 shouldn't feel guilty about them celebrities also they use their platforms for good and you can look
00:31:37.320 at a celebrity's life and you can learn from them and i find that really interesting and i i as i 0.82
00:31:45.600 said earlier i think there's a lot of snobbism against this field because it's seen as women's
00:31:50.880 interest and the word gossip actually came from 15th century england and it was a very positive
00:31:59.460 word it came from goskin which was about women supporting each other through childbirth and
00:32:06.240 talking to each other and communicating and then in the 16th century the church became big and they
00:32:12.840 outlawed women talking to each other because they were fearful of the power of that and they
00:32:18.940 demonized the word and it had negative connotations so i think there's a lot of negativity around it
00:32:24.560 and misogyny around it but this is just about being interested in life you can learn from it
00:32:30.020 it's escapism the world is so hard right now like if you if you sing on the bath on us weekly's
00:32:36.660 instagram or reading people.com or like even reading an old magazine or enjoying these
00:32:42.300 reality shows don't be ashamed of it there's a lot to learn from it it's just it's just
00:32:48.120 anthropology it's being interested in people i think it is anthropology um i remember i had an
00:32:54.560 ob-gyn uh back in the mid-2000s when we were working together and i told her what i did and
00:33:01.300 she grabbed my arm and she almost teared up and she's like thank you she's like the other day
00:33:06.360 I delivered 10 babies. One of the births almost went really wrong. And I had a hard day. The baby
00:33:14.480 ended up being fine. She's like, but I needed an escape. And then I came home and I got in the
00:33:19.780 bath and I read one of your magazines and it just got me out of my head. And that's what I needed.
00:33:26.020 And it was so sweet. I remember that to this day. It was so long ago, right? 20 years ago.
00:33:30.940 But I think that. I do think that these stories tell us so much about human beings and where we're at as a culture, too. I mean, you know this. I switched a lot between covering celebrities and politics. I mean, I literally just boomeranged between the two because they're also so similar.
00:33:52.060 Being a celebrity journalist made me a really good political reporter because I was just such a quick study of humans and also an amazing lie detector and truth at that point. Right.
00:34:06.760 Political operatives and celebrity publicists and personal publicists are very, very similar.
00:34:14.140 They're very, very similar. Exactly. Exactly. Well, and now, I mean, the line is ridiculously blurry.
00:34:19.840 Who is a celebrity? Who is a politician? Yeah, all of it. All of it. But yeah, I think that if aliens were to come here or if people were to uncover our artifacts hundreds of years, hence they would learn a lot of the story of humanity through how we related to celebrity culture and also who we elevated as celebrities, which has changed so much over the years.
00:34:46.100 When we started our careers, it was movie stars.
00:34:49.320 TV stars were the ones who were at a bit of a lower level.
00:34:52.560 And then it was reality stars who were the lowest rung on the ladder.
00:34:57.700 And now we have influencers creeping into the world.
00:35:01.360 I mean, it has changed completely in the 29 years that I've covered this.
00:35:05.980 The diffraction of media and how disparate it is means that the shows I'm watching are not the shows you're watching.
00:35:13.960 My celebrities are not your celebrities.
00:35:15.420 The people I'm watching on my screen are not the same people.
00:35:18.500 And so the big A-listers are still the same people.
00:35:22.320 They're like the Julias, the Beyonce's.
00:35:24.440 These are the people when we started our career, they were the most famous.
00:35:26.780 And they still are those A-listers.
00:35:28.680 They have not been replaced.
00:35:30.300 Maybe Zendaya, maybe Timothee Chalamet are edging up into being an A-lister.
00:35:35.860 But there have not been very many new young A-listers.
00:35:41.620 But we all have micro-celebrities now.
00:35:43.720 we have influencers who we love and I'd be more excited to see than a big celebrity at times
00:35:50.380 because they mean more to me on my phone and when I'm watching them. Well, exactly, because they
00:35:56.800 are, I mean, reality television stars, like I said, they felt like people's friends in the early
00:36:01.920 days, mostly because, you know, they were much more similar to people. I remember going to
00:36:08.880 auditions for American Idol in the early days and just like 10,000 people there, all of whom
00:36:14.720 felt like people that I knew that I like went to grade school with. And influencers are a step
00:36:22.180 even closer because they literally come with you everywhere. You're walking around with them like
00:36:27.260 on your screen, in your pocket all the time, which does create some unhealthy parasocial
00:36:33.680 relationships but i think makes for a closer celebrity connection especially when it comes to
00:36:39.520 being influenced to buying things from them uh then you then you had with movie or tv stars one
00:36:46.120 of the one of the it was authentic it doesn't feel like so direct that george clooney's being
00:36:51.620 paid by an espresso to promote the soul will buy it that it feels authentic um obviously it's not
00:36:58.420 obviously it's not but but it feels that way it feels that way i mean i remember something that
00:37:03.720 i learned when i was reporting celebrity inc in the early days which was one of those books i
00:37:07.980 was writing uh while i locked myself in in my office that was next to your office and it was
00:37:13.700 that tv stars often did better for brands than movie stars because they were someone that came
00:37:20.880 into us into your home on a small screen uh and and i've thought that ever since ever since i
00:37:26.600 started covering influencers as well it's just a smaller more portable screen yeah it's a difficult
00:37:32.320 thing for celebrities or particularly actors because their job is to play somebody else and
00:37:38.880 not push themselves someone like leonardo dicaprio who i would say is one of the biggest actors of
00:37:43.420 his generation does this particularly well he doesn't talk about his life so it makes him a
00:37:48.960 great actor so when i'm watching leonardo dicaprio on a movie screen i see the mad scientist in don't
00:37:54.540 look up i don't see leonardo capric with j-lo i always see j-lo it's hard every time so i understand
00:38:02.100 that balance of hiding yourself completely but but there's costs to that with leo because he
00:38:09.640 doesn't give many interviews and you don't know much about him things you do know about him are
00:38:13.480 sometimes negative and he dates young girls and these things so so it it's an interesting um
00:38:20.440 proposition for celebrities to look at now that influences have risen and that sharing everything
00:38:27.060 is something that the audience responds to yeah i mean it's a it's a whole different playbook it's
00:38:34.160 different case studies i i would love to see a book on how to be famous today i think you should
00:38:39.600 write that book i would love to read that book well maybe i will maybe you will maybe you don't
00:38:44.240 you will uh well dan thank you so much for coming on today remind everyone about your newsletter and
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00:39:04.800 here, Dan. Thank you for having me.
00:39:19.400 Thank you.
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