00:00:00.000classes in session. Hey, what's up? Welcome to unlearn 16 classes in session. Today you just
00:00:09.300get me. You get me, but you're going to get a bit of a rant. I don't know which direction this is
00:00:15.200going to go into because I'm all like frustrated, emotional, a little sad. But if I don't get it
00:00:22.520out, you know, guys, it just sticks in my head and keeps me up at night. So here we are. A lot
00:00:27.740of you guys have been following the fact that, you know, my mom had bladder cancer and she went
00:00:33.300through the hospital system, had her bladder out and had not a great experience. Now, that was at
00:00:40.980the height of COVID, okay? And so, obviously, we were trying to take into account all of the
00:00:47.180different things that were going on at the time, all the ways in which these people were overworked
00:00:52.400and everything like that. But my mom's also been a nurse. She was a nurse for like 45, 50 years0.58
00:00:58.900before she had this surgery. And it broke her heart, the way that she was treated. And in
00:01:06.460retrospect, it was pretty horrible. And what it came down to was an economic bottom line. And
00:01:12.480that's important for the story I'm about to tell you when it comes to my grandma Ruby. So everything
00:01:18.480mattered because they have a timeline. When you come into the hospital, and this is in Ontario,
00:01:23.820Canada, for those who are listening, and I know those from the States like to listen
00:01:28.080to the fact that even though we have socialized medicine up here and it's covered, and I am
00:01:32.980incredibly grateful for that, do not think for a minute that there aren't forces chipping away
00:01:39.580at that system until it resembles and until it's fractured beyond repair, so we have to go private.
00:01:47.180And I feel like that's where we are right now. And I need to have this conversation. So my mom went in, 72 years old, had her bladder out, had a hysterectomy, major, major, major surgery, got C-diff when she was in the hospital. She was super sick. They didn't catch it right away. And then they sent her home. And then they sent her home. And I was too, like I wanted her home. She wanted to be home. I couldn't go see her. I was too inexperienced.
00:02:14.020I was too frazzled and emotional to know how to advocate for my mom and recognize my mom was a
00:02:21.040nurse forever. She tried to advocate for herself. They ignored it. I have been around hospitals0.99
00:02:26.140forever. I consider myself relatively intelligent. I didn't know how to advocate until I learned.
00:02:32.780And then eventually she came home way too sick to be home. We sent her back. And as we sent her back,
00:02:39.580this amazing guy, his name was Adam, actually, I did a TikTok about him a long time ago,
00:02:44.260helped her back in the hospital and said, listen, 70% of people are coming right back in because
00:02:49.140they're sending them out too sick too soon because they either need the bed or it's about money.
00:02:55.500Now, needing the bed is one thing, okay? Needing the bed means we don't have enough care. And
00:03:00.300during COVID, I get it because it was, well, it was debilitating. But I think it's more about the
00:03:07.740money. And I think it's more about the money we have siphoned out of our medical system,
00:03:13.360out of nursing, out of nursing assistants, of RNs, of PSWs, out of all of that. We've siphoned
00:03:22.360it out to give the bare, bare minimum, and then just assume that family members are going to come
00:03:28.860pick them up and give them actual care, medical care. So when my mom came home, I couldn't do it.
00:21:40.300But for example, people that have, you know, aren't very mobile or people that can't wash
00:21:47.200themselves or people that can't get up in the morning and all of those kinds of things.
00:21:50.700These services are very sort of concrete and time driven, which I understand.
00:21:56.700But that's not how a 97 year old can work.
00:21:59.980it's just not and so there's no flexibility there and when they come to do something with
00:22:06.780my grandma at 11 o'clock in the morning my grandma can't get up because she feels horrible at 11
00:22:10.620o'clock in the morning because her body hurts because she's 97 she has horrible arthritis
00:22:14.620they say okay well we won't do it today so now what so does the family have to do it how do we
00:22:21.020get her out of bed how do we get her safely into the tub how do we how do we how do we how do we
00:22:24.940and they want you to keep their your um family members at home because they don't want the
00:22:33.040system to have to pay because it's an incredible expense well watch what happens guys and i can't
00:22:40.460let this happen to my mom which is why i you know i can't do all of these things my mom's 73 gone
00:22:46.740through that huge you know cancer bladder everything out immunotherapy and now just on the0.97
00:22:54.120mend hopefully on the way up if she then became responsible to physically take care of my grandma1.00
00:23:01.320what she needs my mom physically can't do anymore she's not strong enough she's not capable enough1.00
00:23:06.360she has a stoma like she has a a bag that she has to change and has to keep she has a lot on her own1.00
00:23:12.780how how are we supposed to have all those balls in the air who the hell's keeping track of that
00:23:17.520nobody oh she's at home cool we'll be fine then and when you're in the hospital i need to have
00:23:25.680a delineated sense of what healthy looks like i want to know because i feel as though guys
00:23:36.400i feel as though they're erring way on the side of well it's been four days it's been five days
00:23:41.520that's long enough she's kind of okay we're gonna send her home if she gets better cool if she has
00:23:45.440to come back okay? Are we rolling that dice? Because that's what you did with my mom. And0.87
00:23:51.380that's sure as hell what you're trying to do with my grandma. I was like, I'll let you.
00:23:54.540Nor all the other people that are in her corner trying to make sure she's taken care of.
00:23:58.480And thank God we're there all the time. Thank God trying to make her eat, trying to get something
00:24:03.000else, trying to get water in her. She can't hold her own water because her hands shake.
00:24:08.320Now I understand. I'm going in circles sometimes. Nurses can't sit there and help my grandma drink
00:24:14.860water i get it i get it but we need to figure out somebody to do it
00:24:23.500we don't need more beds if i hear doug ford talk about more beds in a hospital one more time i am
00:24:29.340going to lose my ever-loving mind we need more nurses and whatever form that takes nurses nursing
00:24:36.460assistants psws i however that looks we need a lot more bodies doing a lot more jobs to make
00:24:44.700sure people are getting better in hospitals then you won't have infection rates the way you do
00:24:50.700then you won't have um you know people coming back within days of leaving the hospital because
00:24:56.940they weren't good enough to leave in the first place and you wouldn't have people like me saying
00:25:03.100well she's going to rehab because i know i have to play the system because if i don't see she's
00:25:06.220going to rehab you're going to send her home sick and hope that i take care of her and hope for the
00:25:10.300best but if she's going to rehab you know rehab has high expectations so she has to be much better0.74
00:25:16.860than if she were to go home with me with no medical knowledge whatsoever0.97
00:25:21.420and as soon as they knew my grandma was going to assisted living and it's like oh yeah sure0.59
00:25:25.260she can go she can go she can go no she can't we need to have much better standards i need to know0.97
00:25:33.660what health care looks like because taking care of our elderly damn it is health care0.99
00:25:40.700it's not elderly care it's not long-term care none of this bull crap i feel as though0.98
00:25:46.940they've separated the language so that the elderly aren't taken care of the way that they should be
00:25:55.900and it's separated out to now these private long-term care facilities that maybe the
00:26:00.540government is paying for or that the people are paying for so that the government and then it can
00:26:09.740say well not on us not on us does that mean more taxes yeah yeah it does let me say it again it0.97
00:26:19.500means taxes and it also means we don't get stupid you know what those stickers cost ontario out of0.99
00:26:27.660the budget 1.3 billion that's with the b dollars how dare whoever voted for that how dare you1.00
00:26:38.620how dare you be that selfish and doug ford how dare you siphon money out of the system
00:26:44.780that is ready to break how dare you and if you think this is a rally cry if you think this is0.99
00:26:52.380step one you're absolutely right you're absolutely right
00:27:00.780because we can't just sit around and watch this crumble
00:27:03.820until it's your grandfather your mom your sister
00:27:07.740that isn't being taken care of because the conservatives have decided
00:27:12.060that a rebate of 136 dollars was more important to buy votes
00:27:19.500We are not going to sit by anymore to allow a conservative government, and I am saying conservative because I swear to God, is figuring out ways, slowly but surely, figuring out ways to privatize the health care system in this province.
00:27:36.820every day he chips away every day every single day he opens up new land for development that
00:27:47.300his friends make a bunch of money on gives people rebates and buys their votes and by the way i
00:27:52.800blame you the 17 absolutely absolutely i blame you how dare we ever be convinced that 130 in
00:28:04.580our pocket every year is somehow not going to affect the system as a whole
00:28:11.940you weren't convinced of that you chose to ignore it because you like the money in your pocket1.00
00:28:18.660we'll wait till it bites you in the ass just wait wait till you're old i'm sitting here thinking1.00
00:28:24.340about what the hell happens when i'm that age how expensive is it going to be you plan for retirement1.00
00:28:31.940You don't plan to be sick and cost thousands and thousands of dollars from a health care system that you've put money into for your entire life.
00:28:43.300To be left in a bed, nobody washing you, nobody taking care of you, unless you have family who is able to do shift work to make sure they're taking care of you the way that you're supposed to be taken care of.