00:11:22.660If you knock something over, I would just love you for it.
00:11:24.760And so one day for no apparent reason, he hanged the family dog. He just killed the dog. So he's
00:11:32.720just like this, like you're living this uncertainty, this, this is the situation she's
00:11:36.900growing up in. And to Mary, the irrational nature of this act, like murdering the dog just made it
00:11:43.960even more horrific. Like nothing was predictable. Nothing was understandable. When she rebelled to
00:11:49.300her mother she also like specifically found it especially distressing how her mother would punish
00:11:54.840her randomly like she'd do the same thing more than once and one time her mother would like give
00:11:58.860her horrible punishment and one time she wouldn't like it just it's just like what are the rules0.94
00:12:02.220there are none it's just chaos he also assaulted elizabeth constantly he would rape her the mother
00:12:10.800and they're in the small house like all the kids can hear it he would beat her so much um she
00:12:15.440couldn't like stifle her screams. So Mary could hear this from her room in this small house
00:12:22.420happening constantly. And actually when Mary got a bit older at this point, she's about six years
00:12:26.600old. When she was like, I don't know, 10 or 12, 16, she tried to defend her mother. Like she would
00:12:33.280set up camp outside her mother's door, waiting for the father to come home so she could stop him
00:12:37.220from crossing the threshold to like protect her mother. This is her sense of like righteousness
00:12:41.920and justice. And especially, we see this a lot. I'm mentioning some sort of childhood because it
00:12:47.320really explains so much of her strongly held beliefs as an adult later on. Anyway, she's
00:12:53.880trying to protect her mother, but her mother knew that would just make the father more mad.
00:12:57.660Her father would just push her out of the way. Elizabeth would accuse Mary of just making the0.96
00:13:02.020father even more upset, but Mary did not stop trying. Night after night, she took this post
00:13:06.460as like bodyguard to her mom. So the next move that they made was they went to an expansive
00:13:14.080estate near Barking, a market town eight miles east of London. And this was, Mary liked this,
00:13:20.580it was even better than Epping. So it's like, it sounds so idyllic. There's like meadows with
00:13:24.800sheep and cattle and gentle hills. And so again, she could just wander alone for hours. She was
00:13:31.720incredibly lonely as well but she would have invisible imaginary friends she would hang out
00:13:36.820with in the fields and this is this is kind of where she lived like this was I'm not mentioning
00:13:40.680anything about her going to school or learning because in this era for people of her class like
00:13:46.000you were just taught by your parents and her parents you probably can get the sense of didn't
00:13:50.620put much value on that so she was not getting an education from school or from her parents but just
00:13:56.160from like living life like this she found that this brought her peace anyway so eventually her
00:14:01.040dad's money gave out and like he wasn't making money from any of his get rich quick schemes or
00:14:05.920from like cosplaying being a farmer he just had inherited it from his from his father who died
00:14:11.520and eventually that money ran out so to avoid paying the landlord he fled with his family they
00:14:17.420fled north of england to a tiny village called walkington which was like a bit cheaper like
00:14:22.260cheaper rent there and so he kept trying to be a farmer but he was bad at it and also the weather
00:14:28.780was bad we've talked in previous last all last season the 18th century in england in i think
00:14:37.000most of the world but specifically we talked about england and france the weather was horrible for
00:14:42.840farmers they were in the little ice age it was called like not climate change like we have now
00:14:48.040that's like caused by fossil fuels and stuff but it was just kind of like the weather was horrible
00:14:51.940it's pretty terrible time to be a farmer even if he knew how to be a farmer and he didn't know how
00:14:55.260to be a farmer so like the crops failed the sheep sickened um and he the more he felt despair
00:15:03.300because remember he edward was a guy who really felt he deserved a better life than he had um it
00:15:08.300just made him drink even more and so that made him even more scary abusive to everybody and they
00:15:15.180were living in this small cottage so it's hard for the children to get away from him because it's
00:15:20.300it's just a small space they were living in. In the summer of 1770, so this is when Mary is like
00:15:26.640nine, 10 years old, Elizabeth had one more baby, which is a boy called Charles. Edward was like,
00:15:32.880okay, this is not working out. So he gave up the Walkington Farm and moved to nearby Beverly.
00:15:38.500So Beverly, is that still a place in England? Let me know. It was at this point, so Mary had
00:15:43.300lived in like the slums, like she lived in London, but all she ever saw was just this neighborhood
00:15:46.580she was in then these kind of like little villages and now she's in beverly and she's like oh my god
00:15:51.660cosmopolitan like i've never seen anything so glamorous beverly there's like shops here
00:15:57.000streets at this point her older brother ned good riddance um he left to go back to london to
00:16:03.340apprentice he had been given schooling i mentioned she didn't get school but the only one in the
00:16:07.780family at this point who was sent to school was ned so he could get educated so he could become
00:16:12.940a lawyer, I think was the plan. And so Elizabeth was ill, depressed, not up to the task of raising
00:16:21.180her other five children. So this kind of left Mary to step in to sort of parent, even though
00:16:27.400the children, like her siblings were not that much younger than she was. So they're in Beverly,
00:16:31.220the big city. And they were actually able to go to school because there was a school,
00:16:36.660but it was like a boy's school and a girl's school. And so her brothers went to the boy's
00:16:40.220school and they were learning history, mathematics, and Latin. So she had two sisters, Eliza and
00:16:46.880Evelina, who were younger than her. So the girls' school, they taught them needlework and simple
00:16:52.260addition. Mary was not down for this. She felt that it was really unfair. She writes about this
00:16:58.300later in her life, but just seeing like, she was such a curious, intelligent person. She wanted to
00:17:03.040go to school and it wasn't provided for her and that made her really mad. And also everybody made
00:17:06.540fun of her because she was kind of like gawky and like you might imagine weird. But she did make one0.95
00:17:13.200very dear friend whose name was Jane Arden. So Jane Arden was a year older than Mary. And Mary
00:17:20.440was just like, oh my God, this is the coolest girl I've ever met. Just like kind of overwhelmed
00:17:23.820her with affection. And Jane was like, okay, we'll be friends. That's fine. Mary would write
00:17:27.280her these like really intense letters, just being like, you're not allowed to be friends with anybody
00:17:31.880else, only with me. And like, it's like, okay, like Mary is somebody who is doing the best she
00:17:38.460can in the situation she's in. And she would have really benefited from talk therapy, but that
00:17:43.020wasn't a thing at that time. We see this time and time again in her life. Like she just finds a
00:17:47.140person and just like is convinced that person loving her is going to be the solution to all
00:17:51.980her problems. But luckily Jane Arden was nice and she let Mary come and hang out with her at her0.90
00:17:58.240house and her father was sort of like a this is like the enlightenment era where it was seen as
00:18:05.740sort of respectable and cool and interesting for men to be interested in learning and science
00:18:11.800and her father was like that and he saw that mary was like desperate for education and so he
00:18:18.460like he'd been giving his kids sort of lessons at home as well as the school they're going to and
00:18:23.040so mary got to sit in on those lessons and she started learning stuff she just like devoured
00:18:26.580every book he had in his library. But then, of course, they had to move again because that is
00:18:31.940what her whole life is like. When she was 15 years old, her father had found a fresh business
00:18:37.680opportunity. I mean, some sort of grift in a place called Hoxton. Don't know what it's like there now.
00:18:44.700At this time, it was a depressing village north of London, notorious for its three0.98
00:18:48.780lunatic asylums. And they moved there in the winter, which is kind of like the most depressing1.00
00:18:54.080time to move to a kind of depressing place. Although her living there and seeing the people
00:18:58.800from these lunatic asylums really gave her some strongly held beliefs about how the insane should
00:19:04.020be treated more humanely. But anyway, she's 15. Hormones are coursing through her body. She's had
00:19:09.580this nightmare life up to this point. She's not near nature, so she can't reset all her systems.
00:19:15.500And she was on, she burnt out. She had a teenage breakdown. She had stopped eating. She stopped
00:19:23.720washing her hair like she clearly it's like it's described sometimes as a breakdown I see it as
00:19:29.960kind of like just a depressive episode which she also has throughout her life and so she stopped
00:19:35.020eating she stopped washing her hair she suffered from headaches fevers and nervous fits like her
00:19:40.360girl is just she's not okay she also was not sleeping she stayed up most of the night brooding
00:19:44.420so during the day she was exhausted like this is similar I think to how her father would have been
00:19:51.800at this age maybe too and he eventually just turned to drinking to deal with this with this
00:19:57.540depression with these feelings of just like the world is not right and I can see it but I don't
00:20:03.480know how to fix it and she turned to education and reading that's what she did with with this
00:20:09.900kind of energy and she was able to so because so one of her neighbors mr and mrs claire so mrs
00:20:16.720Claire just saw this like brooding girl who was like not okay and invited her over for tea and
00:20:23.220she found that Mary was just like interesting and just like starving for books and education
00:20:28.160and knowledge and so her husband the Reverend Henry Claire had a whole bunch of libraries and
00:20:33.420so Mary was able to to read his books they actually invited her to come stay with them
00:20:38.020for weeks at a time and so she just stayed there and she just like read books and learned stuff
00:20:42.060one of these times when she's staying with them they went to a nearby village to visit
00:20:45.860friend, they're friends of the family, a family with the excellent last name Blood, good for a
00:20:51.000Halloween episode. Like this is their family friends, Mr. and Mrs. Blood and their kids,
00:20:56.220but their oldest daughter was Fanny Blood. So she's like Mary, the oldest sister of a large0.92
00:21:01.760brood of children. She's 18. Mary is what, 15 at this point. And Mr. Blood, like Mary's dad,
00:21:07.800was an alcoholic and a gambler. He was not violent, but he could not earn a living.
00:21:12.760So the way this family supported themselves was Mrs. Blood took in small sewing jobs.
00:21:17.500But really, the thing that really got them through was Fanny herself was a really talented artist.
00:21:22.440So she'd been hired by a botanist to draw wildflower specimens, like illustrations for this book that he was making, this two-volume series.0.77
00:21:30.600So this is the first time Mary Wollstonecraft saw women having jobs.1.00
00:21:36.120The power of female resourcefulness, like women finding ways to earn money.0.98
00:21:40.480to like she just didn't know this was possible you know it's like there's some of the things
00:21:43.720when you don't until you know someone who does it you don't know that anyone could do it and also
00:21:48.340she was like really entranced by fanny she was like this like she's not with jane ardent anymore
00:21:56.080and she's just like oh my god this girl is the coolest person i've ever seen in my life
00:21:59.520there are some speculations that they that she was in love with her i think that's not
00:22:05.080an exaggeration she had like such a crush on fanny blood and i was gonna say you know like
00:22:13.420there's so many stories in history where it's like oh well this was a time where like it was
00:22:16.140really fashionable for women to write really romantic letters to each other and it was
00:22:19.360so there's that who knows how mary would describe her sexuality at this point but i will say well
00:22:26.800in 2025 i mean but in whatever we're in 17 whatever she would not have described her
00:22:32.520sexuality. And I know that because she wrote a lot about this later and she really didn't,
00:22:38.140she was not interested in sex stuff for quite a while, but she was just like, she loved
00:22:44.260Fanny Blood. She loved being with her. Like it's, it's like a soulmate type connection,
00:22:48.620I think is what she feels. So they lived in separate villages, so they couldn't be together
00:22:52.680all the time, but they got permission to become pen pals. And Mary began to dream of a new future.
00:22:58.040She was just like, this is how I'm going to escape my shitty life. I want to break away0.89
00:23:01.560with my family, but I don't want to get married because men are abusive assholes. That's all I've1.00
00:23:05.740ever seen men do and be. But she's like, what I want to do is set up a household, me and Fanny,
00:23:10.580like just me and her, just two gal pals, these gals being pals, set up a household together
00:23:16.320where they could just have lots of books and read and study without interruption and live as equals.
00:23:21.840And like each of them could like learn from each other to like get new personality traits and
00:23:26.400whatever. But you know, this is Mary's dream. Something getting in the way is the fact that0.99
00:23:32.580Fanny was in fact engaged to be married to a man whose name was Hugh Skays. So he'd courted her for
00:23:39.020more than a year. And then she agreed to marry him. And then he's like, great, peace out. I'm
00:23:43.720going to Portugal. So they're engaged, but he's in Portugal. Like he gave her a portrait of himself
00:23:48.440and then went off to supervise his business concerns. He said, I'm going to like, I'll marry
00:23:53.200you once i'm certain of my financial future and this is apparently going to take years so she's
00:23:57.860engaged but it's like is she really but the thing is that kind of of all the men in this story and
00:24:04.500there will be some okay ones later but hugh it's like at least he was like i want to i don't want
00:24:09.380to marry you i don't want to like nail you down to this until i can promise that i can actually
00:24:13.540support you which is like more than mary's dad ever did but also mary knew she could not offer
00:24:18.660fanny this kind of economic support she was not a man she couldn't run a business the only0.97
00:24:22.920employment possibilities for people like her who are technically like she was not low class she was
00:24:30.040not high class she was truly like middle class like working class and she didn't have a talent
00:24:35.340like fanny or she didn't know she did yet so the only thing she could really do were just like0.65
00:24:39.640low paying positions it's like teacher governess ladies companion and none of those appealed to her0.96
00:24:45.260because you might have gotten the sense that mary was like really hated authority figures and was1.00
00:24:50.060kind of an asshole. And I say that as someone who is an asshole who doesn't really deal well1.00
00:24:54.320with authority figures. Like, yeah, if I had to be a lady's companion, I don't know if I could1.00
00:24:59.260hack that either. Anyway, but she's like, this is what the options are. So let's do it. How can I1.00
00:25:04.340make an income so I can live my life dream of living with my best friend forever? So she got
00:25:09.960a job being a paid companion to an older widow named Mrs. Dawson who lived in Bath. So by this
00:25:16.480point, we're getting up into like 17, what are we like? 1770s, I think. So Bath is like
00:25:23.500a hopping town. Like all the rich people like to go there. It's the spa town where you go
00:25:29.080to take the waters, which we've talked about on the podcast before, which means to like
00:25:33.220soak in like mineral salt waters, but also like to drink mineral salt waters. So lots
00:25:38.660of rich people were there. And so Mary went there and she's just like, fuck this. Cause1.00
00:25:46.480is what's happening. So everybody's wearing the like the poof hairstyles, like Mrs. Dawson made1.00
00:25:51.480Mary powder her hair for the record. This is yet another person on this podcast who's described as
00:25:58.120having like reddish gold hair. This isn't a video so you can't see me, but just like listeners know
00:26:02.880I have reddish gold hair and I'm not intentionally choosing to talk about people in the podcast who
00:26:07.360look like me, but a lot of them do because I look like a really typical British person.1.00
00:26:12.420anyway so she's just like these bitches with their like poof hairstyles like if you picture1.00
00:26:18.980the ostentatious queen charlotte what she wears on bridgerton like the big wide skirts the really1.00
00:26:26.620ornate stuff and mary's just like fuck this fuck rich people down with the one percent i hate it0.99
00:26:31.460here so she's not thriving being a lady's companion i don't know if this is the companionship mrs1.00
00:26:38.500Dawson wanted but anyway ultimately her sisters wrote to her being like our mom is sick you need0.56
00:26:44.700to come home please and so she did so her mother Elizabeth was now effectively bedridden with
00:26:52.440edema I think it's the issue where you just like the fluid gathers in your body like her mother
00:26:57.680needed round-the-clock care and so Mary came home to provide that even though she hated her mother
00:27:02.560and she did this for the next two years until her mother died. Two days after the mother died,
00:27:08.760her father came home with his new wife, Lydia, who had been his mistress for a while apparently.
00:27:15.400And six months later, in a situation that still happens today, where a young woman just really
00:27:22.020wants to escape an abusive household, they just get run off and get married because at least they
00:27:26.880can leave that's a way to get some sort of freedom so her 19 year old sister eliza six months after
00:27:33.400the mother died eliza got married to a shipbuilder named meredith bishop bear in mind meredith is a
00:27:39.320man's name at this time and she had a daughter pretty much right away like within the year
00:27:44.220eliza had a daughter who she called mary after her sister and so she had the daughter and i think
00:27:51.960August, three months later, Meredith, the man, wrote a letter to Mary just being like,
00:27:58.860can you come check on your sister? She has gone insane. And the vibes of this are very like
00:28:04.040crimson peak adjacent where it's just like, oh, I married this person and now she's gone insane.
00:28:09.740I totally didn't do anything to her. Like she's just insane now. So Mary went to check on her0.99
00:28:15.820sister and she saw that Eliza was like not okay. She, I mean, obviously she's a 19 year old who
00:28:20.900just had a baby nobody knows at this point like postpartum like people didn't know that there's
00:28:25.160like baby blues like sometimes often after somebody has a baby there's a period of depression but
00:28:30.320eliza was like not well it was very extreme what she's going through her various symptoms it's just
00:28:36.760like what's what's going on with her so um and in this situation in england and 17 whatever
00:29:24.840And so she's like, well, I couldn't save my mother from our abusive father, but I'm going to God damn save my sister.0.98
00:29:29.520So with the same energy of a teenage Mary standing bodyguards at her mother's room, she's like, I'm going to liberate my sister from this shitty situation.0.95
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