00:06:19.100whatever whatever you want to talk about I am willing to talk about oh my goodness so we're
00:06:26.920talking about Hatshepsut and I just want to establish now and this is when we first mentioned
00:06:32.400it you were like I'm going to call her hat and so I just call her hat now too so we're calling her
00:06:36.780hat just so everyone knows yes otherwise we will be tongue-tied for the entirety of this podcast
00:06:43.340but also I feel like I've been thinking about her so much I feel like she's my close personal
00:06:48.540friend hat you know that's what i'd call her if i knew her it is you know when you're reading about
00:06:54.700these individuals it's so easy to just get consumed by it and you know just like literally
00:07:01.380start picturing yourself sitting right next to them in the throne room or walking with them
00:07:06.240along the halls of the palace it's just it's just so easy to do i i'm right there with you on that
00:07:12.080yeah and that's what i love about just something that we have in common in terms of history
00:07:17.400there are other people who really see them as just like queen Hatshepsut like we just look at
00:07:22.700her from a distance she's a historical figure but I and I think you were just like this is a person
00:07:28.500like what was she like as a person and exactly just sitting next to her imagining what she was
00:07:33.100like what before I'd invited you to do this podcast what or how much did you know about
00:07:39.260Hatshepsut had you ever read about her before you know um funny thing is when I first learned about
00:07:45.660her, and it was a number of years ago, I read a few of the initial assessments of her done by,
00:07:55.920let's just face it, European males. And their initial assessment of her was she was this,
00:08:03.840that, and the other. And you know what this, that, and the other usually entails when it comes to
00:08:08.860women. And so since that was the only thing I had ever read about her, you think, okay, well,
00:08:16.000you know, these are the people that studied her. This must have been what she was. And then over
00:08:21.720the years, I started seeing other things about her. And I'm like, well, this is a little different.
00:08:28.360And then a couple of years ago, I read a book by Kara Cooney that just painted her in a completely
00:08:36.940different light than anything I had ever read about her. And I'll be honest, I reread the book
00:08:42.520before this podcast because it's so interesting. And so it's like, you know, like you said,
00:08:49.340there are people that will just look at her and say, this was this person at this time period.
00:08:55.920This is what we assume about them because these are the things that we've been taught to assume
00:09:01.860about these people from the past and since you know and I've mentioned this before you're not
00:09:08.100reading Latin where they're able to detail out things that happened and they will detail out
00:09:14.680what people thought because they wrote down what they thought all the time in Latin they did not
00:09:20.120do that in Egypt it's all hieroglyphs so you have very specific like factual things because they had
00:09:28.780limited space to write. I mean, granted, some of those monuments were huge, but still you could
00:09:34.840only fit so much on there. So they were just going by just the fact of the hieroglyph that they saw.
00:09:42.420And that was what in turn they told us. So my initial assessment of her was their initial
00:09:48.760assessment of her. And that was all I knew. And for a number of years, that's all I thought about
00:09:52.920her because that's all I knew. And then I started studying other people. As everyone knows, I've
00:10:00.420studied Nefertiti. And obviously I had my first initial thought of her based off the first initial
00:10:05.860thing I read. But then I started reading other things and realizing, wait, she might not have
00:10:10.260been what I thought she was. And that's when I started kind of looking back into her because I
00:10:16.040was like, well, maybe they did that with her too, because they've done it with pretty much every
00:10:20.400woman in history and so i didn't have a ton of information on her until power lack the last
00:10:27.380three years and that's when she became so much more interesting to me the thing with hat and i
00:10:34.140had never i only i never read up about her and honestly now i'm just like i don't remember why
00:10:39.900did you suggest her i forget why i was even like i'm gonna do this with gina you know i probably
00:10:44.480mentioned her at some time and um and oh and it's probably you know I'm always sending you those
00:10:51.040renderings of yeah different people from the past and I think it was probably the combination of
00:10:56.340those two people were two things that you were like hmm I wonder who this person is yeah like
00:11:01.200I feel like the only things because I read the same book you read the Kara Cooney the woman who
00:11:05.520would be king which I really appreciate that book like I'm glad that that was my first exposure to
00:11:10.920her because Kara Kuni talks in that about kind of here's how people thought she was, but here's
00:11:15.380kind of the research she did and how she's interpreting it. So I'm glad that that was
00:11:19.740my first impression. But really, all that I'd heard about her was I knew I'd heard that Hatshepsut
00:11:24.300was a king. And we're going to talk about that. And that some of the imagery of her was like a
00:11:31.840woman, but wearing the king accoutrements, like, like a beard, you know, was kind of like a crown
00:11:39.800for them so I just kind of knew that but I didn't I did not know and now this week like I was
00:11:45.080messaging you like I don't when I'm recording with somebody I like to wait until the recording0.65
00:11:49.800to really get into it but I was just like Gina oh my god I can't I can't handle those women I'm
00:11:56.920obsessed but also and you've been like like ancient Egypt ancient Rome like these are things that you
00:12:03.620like to think about but ancient Egypt I was just like wait a minute let me just look at like when
00:12:08.200this was all happening. And that's part of what I told you. And I just want to talk about that
00:12:11.140and just to situate this for everybody. So for instance, going back in time. So Cleopatra,
00:12:19.240for instance, like very famous Egyptian queen. So she was born around like 69 BCE. We're going
00:12:27.820back in time. So Nefertiti, who you and I talked about, that's like 1370 BCE, 1300 years before.
00:12:38.200like gosh what would that be for us now that's like a thousand years oh my math is bad you're an
00:12:45.200accountant um you'd be going back to um if you equate it to england you'd be looking at you know
00:12:56.380where they were still walking around in mud and everything was wood and cold and nothing was
00:13:04.440established so just in terms of how deep like how long ago the ancient ancient history goes so like
00:13:11.540the difference between cleopatra and nefertiti that would be the difference between us in 2024
00:13:16.240and the year 724 like that's how long ago those two things were and then when we're going from
00:13:24.780nefertiti back to hat so hat she's born probably around 1504 bce so this is like
00:13:33.300again i want to get this math right you're an accountant i want to look cool i'm not a calculator
00:13:39.980you use a calculator um i'm using a calculator so that's like 134 years between them
00:13:47.120so this is it so that's again like 134 think about it this way 134 years however with the
00:13:53.860lifespans that they were back then that could be six or so generations or more because their
00:14:02.700lifespan was max usually about 30 years 35 years this was in the book too um I just really like
00:14:10.280the way that Kara Cooney again like she really wrote this book for people like me who are just
00:14:13.920like teach me all the things I'm not coming in with any knowledge but it's like because this is
00:14:18.160so incredibly long ago it's like every disease was there because no one like they were so
00:14:25.940sophisticated and they're such a as a culture um it was easy for me to forget but they were facing
00:14:33.580like every disease in the world so it's like you know they had measles they had the bubonic plague
00:14:39.860they had like typhoid lice they had like so like of course you know like if somebody was able to
00:14:46.920live a long life good for them but in general every disease imaginable was there and people
00:14:55.180we're getting it because it's because it's 1500 BCE this is like so long ago and then I was like
00:15:02.920oh my gosh this is again I'm sure you thought through all this when you were like a young child
00:15:07.700but I was just like wait so I was looking up I'm just like when did ancient Egypt start they're
00:15:13.740still debating that one because every time I read something new they go back even further yeah yeah
00:15:20.320so it's saying like um i'm just looking at wikipedia just for a quick answer here but like
00:15:25.420for instance like the dynasties of egypt perhaps started around 3150 bce so that's that's 1500
00:15:33.280years the dynasties for hat like it's such a i don't i don't know like honestly like to me i'm
00:15:40.760such a basic like i studied modern history usually so i don't usually look back so to me before i was
00:15:46.840looking into all this and part of why i was just like talking this through to myself because to me
00:15:50.600it's like dinosaurs cavemen ancient egypt i'm like where like where does i don't know so i just i'm
00:15:59.740like i didn't realize the people that long ago and the stuff that is in this book like like the
00:16:07.040history that exists it's like yeah they their society had been around for thousands of years
00:16:12.380They were like they had records. They had a language. They had a 24 hour clock.
00:16:17.000They were like, did. And think about it this way.
00:16:19.540So we all know that the pyramids today are old as God.
00:16:27.900But just think about when when she was ruling, the pyramids were already considered to be ancient.
00:16:37.280Yeah. I mean, that's how old they were by the time she came along.
00:16:41.420so it's just like you don't really i mean you you hear names of people from the past
00:16:49.220and you think oh wow you know that was a long time ago but you have to really stop and try to
00:16:56.320wrap your head around just how long ago that was because it's not just a name it was it was a name
00:17:03.900from that long ago but you still hear that name yeah after all these years oh and we're gonna get
00:17:10.920into it despite the fact that various people were chiseling that name off of various walls we still
00:17:16.680know it um yeah so first of all I was just trying to wrap my head around it and part of what was
00:17:22.140throwing me and this is just like my own like I did a history undergraduate degree and stuff and
00:17:28.160I remember I had this class that was called like the history of western civilization and my teacher
00:17:32.960was like my teacher was like I hate that I have to teach this this is a really shitty way like
00:17:38.380western civilization is not the only civilization but it was like that was the curriculum and she
00:17:42.120had to teach this class but and i was like oh it's not and that was the first time little like
00:17:46.30018 year old ann was like oh there's a broader world that's interesting because i had always
00:17:50.920been taught in history it's just kind of like you know greeks romans british like this is the
00:17:56.520trajectory but that's because i know now that like british people like european people wanted
00:18:03.560to show themselves like oh we're the natural heirs of you know all this wonderful civilization
00:18:09.780but meanwhile like while hat was doing what she was doing in this very organized civilization
00:18:16.860that had been around for thousands of years up in england what are they doing they're like oh
00:18:21.260like farming that's cool let's like let's baby let's do farms like we can actually grow things
00:18:28.400in this mud let's let's try that well it's just it's such a sophisticated world and like when i
00:18:33.440I don't know so it's it just I guess it's the same with like this is so long ago but also in
00:18:40.520terms of this like classical era you know like ancient Rome was also really sophisticated and
00:18:44.300that was really long ago and at that point England again they're just like throwing mud at each other
00:18:49.260but this is so long ago and the story feels so similar to stories that I've covered on this
00:18:56.760podcast from like 1600 like this is like but this is so long ago and it's just like people are still
00:19:04.980just people like and that's what just it gets me that they were and and i don't even want to use
00:19:12.560the word civilized because their their society was what it was not comparing themselves to anyone
00:19:20.500their society was what it was. But they were so far advanced compared to pretty much anyone and
00:19:30.660everyone around them that we know about. Maybe the Aztecs were kind of on the same level as them
00:19:39.320at the time. We don't know. We don't really have a whole lot of history about them. And I haven't
00:19:43.880dug into that one, but that's another one we could probably talk about sometime. But they
00:19:47.860just, they functioned the way they functioned because that was their life. That was their
00:19:53.180reality. That was the speed in which they progressed in their society. For another
00:20:00.460society to come in that was catching up at that time to where Egypt had been 2,000 years before
00:20:09.520them and called them the barbarians and say that they weren't civilized. It's like, really? Um,
00:20:17.780okay. Not sure how you came to that conclusion, except that you're just full of yourself, but
00:20:24.280okay. It just, that one, I would say that it just baffles me, but that one actually just pisses me
00:20:29.760off because it just, why? How, why do you think that you're just so much more superior than a
00:20:38.500civilization that was still outdoing you what you're currently at 2000 years ago yeah and i
00:20:45.960think part of where my mind was just like having to like develop new neural pathways to understand
00:20:51.200the story i know was entirely because so much of like you know i've done so much like self-guided
00:20:56.440history learning as as an adult but just like my school life growing up in canada was just very
00:21:04.080much like here's what history is it's like the history of like the british people and how they
00:21:09.560you know and so in order for that to make sense you have to be like well they were the most
00:21:13.760civilized they were the most and they were bringing civilization to all these places
00:21:17.500so i've had to like unlearn that and wrap my head around like no they were colonizers and they were
00:21:24.860just being horrible and they thought they were like you said like they were so full of themselves
00:21:28.900they thought they were better but these ancient civilizations so just to read about the fact that
00:21:33.920ancient egypt was like functioning and had been for like you said like the pyramids were ancient
00:21:38.780to her like it was and also just to say i um so everybody knows like how and why did egypt reach
00:21:47.960this point and it's entirely because this is some of the first like cities that stayed in one place
00:21:53.380and that was because of the nile because they were able to have and once you have a civilization with
00:21:57.860a stable farming landscape people stay put otherwise like other parts of the world people
00:22:04.920England people just kind of like wandering around you know there's not a reason to stay but once you
00:22:09.560stay put then you're like oh you know what it would be good if I had a thing to keep my animals
00:22:13.560in place and then you invent the fence and then like once you have enough farms you're like oh
00:22:17.720this is kind of like a little city let's you know figure out some roads or whatever like that's how
00:22:23.860cities and civilizations develop because people are staying all in one place. And Egypt, just0.92
00:22:29.000because of the land, was kind of one of the first places where that happened. Well, I mean, it's the0.99
00:22:35.820desert. So if you find some place that you can survive and survive well, you're gonna plant your
00:22:43.560behind right there and survive. Because everything else around them is the desert. What are you
00:22:51.580accomplishing there nothing but dying so stay where you can survive and that's obviously the
00:22:59.780more people that stay there the um the city just continues to grow because you have people coming
00:23:05.960from other places plus you just have the people that just established it where i mean this natural
00:23:10.840course of life you everyone starts popping out babies and your civilization just keeps growing
00:23:15.420and growing so yeah it's and that's how it works if you think about ancient rome and greece and
00:23:23.020everything else right they found a place that they they discovered they could survive and they just
00:23:29.900built around that but it took europeans a lot longer to find the places that they could survive
00:23:38.300than it did the egyptians yeah yeah i'm not saying that europeans didn't exist at the same time as
00:23:43.920europeans because people existed all at the same time that's just how it works but the grasp of
00:23:51.000what was going on around you they had a egyptians had a little bit better grasp of it than other
00:23:57.660cultures and then also the desert aspect of it is part of why we know so much because it was really
00:24:04.480dry like in other places where it's more wet the it's it's harder to look at the records they left
00:24:11.400You know, like ancient Egypt, we have like papyrus scrolls and things that like these are still around, like the carvings on the wall, like the pyramids are there because it didn't turn into mud because it's sand because it's the desert.
00:24:21.560Like so part of like a gift that we have to be able to look back at all this stuff is the just the dryness of it that sustained a lot of this history.
00:24:32.400And think about how we even know it's there. Because, I mean, if you look at, I mean, just where I live, there's just a lot of sand and wind that covers things. And so you had, where the civilization there, where the population there started to dwindle and they started to go further, different places and whatnot. All of that stuff got covered over by sand.
00:24:59.780so it took years to even dig all of that stuff out for us to be able to even see it and they're
00:25:09.480still digging stuff out I mean you hear about discoveries all the time unfortunately you can
00:25:15.080only dig at certain times because otherwise you're going to die because it's just too hot to keep
00:25:19.220digging but all that stuff got covered by sand so it was just completely forgotten for probably a
00:25:27.200couple of centuries, all this amazing, great stuff was forgotten. And someone finally saw
00:25:35.420maybe the tip of an obelisk and was like, hmm, I wonder what this is. Started digging, realized
00:25:40.820it kept going further and further. And I mean, the sheer number of years it took to uncover all
00:25:47.020of that stuff that's over there. It's just, it's mind blowing because that just shows how long we
00:25:54.100had been there to get that covered because they're not small monuments it took a while to cover all
00:25:59.660that stuff with that much sand so it's just like oh just you know time is a weird thing and and we
00:26:09.300can't our minds can't grasp um infinity you know our minds can't grasp really I mean how I have
00:26:17.720trouble remembering what happened last week so you know how are we gonna think all the way back then
00:26:23.720to what existed then, how long it was covered, how long it took to uncover it,
00:26:30.660how long it took to decipher what they were reading.
00:26:33.540I mean, that's years and years and years of just that.
00:26:38.040It's kind of hard to even imagine how long that took.
00:26:41.480So just for them to have existed the way that they did that long ago,
00:26:47.880it's just, I'll probably never really have the appreciation I should have for it.
00:26:53.720no and that's and i'm like at the beginning of where you are in terms of appreciating it i'm
00:26:58.740just like wait what wait i was looking at like timelines i'm just like wait what how long ago
00:27:03.740is this because in terms of this podcast the longest ago person i've ever talked about this
00:27:08.420podcast was with you when we did nefertiti and now we're going like 200 years before that so
00:27:14.000we're just going back and back and back but like you said like part of the story of hat which we
00:27:18.740are gonna get into eventually um but like she was very well educated and part of her education was
00:27:25.740she learned like the ancient hieroglyphic language like by the time she was around there was it's
00:27:31.560like people now go to school and they learn latin or they learn ancient greek like her like egyptian
00:27:37.260civilization had been around for so long that she was learning this ancient egyptian language that
00:27:42.620to her was ancient like it had been so long and but she's so long ago from us i'm just like
00:27:48.740oh my God, this is, I didn't appreciate how long the ancient Egyptian culture was a thing. I didn't
00:27:54.960until now. Like I didn't know. A big thing. We're talking like thousands and thousands, like
00:27:59.60010,000 years or something. Like it's, did not realize, did not appreciate. And now I'm just
00:28:06.120like, oh my gosh, my little brain is blown. I think that's a big part of the excitement for me
00:28:13.000about studying history is really just seeing that. Wow. I mean, think about where we are right now.
00:28:21.580Yeah. You know, we've got AI and this and that and the other, we still don't have our flying
00:28:25.240cars. When I was a kid, I just knew we were going to have flying cars by now. So I'm a little
00:28:29.760disappointed in that, but it's like the excitement for me is to think about how they functioned the
00:28:37.660way they did that long ago I mean they still they did things back then that we still can't
00:28:43.660replicate today I mean and even though we have the big machinery that we have imagine the machinery
00:28:49.800you would have to to build to be able to do the things that they did 10,000 years ago you know
00:28:57.400it's just like that that's part of the excitement of studying history to me is to see that you know
00:29:04.340people have always been smart and honestly i think they were probably smarter back then
00:29:09.800than we are now to be able to come up with that in in a desert i mean think about that you're in
00:29:15.700a desert and you came up with this stuff how how i i can't i can't no it just it reminds me of a bit
00:29:26.240ago I was um doing an episode about or actually coming up listeners I will be doing episodes about
00:29:34.900some um American Indian history like indigenous people and or I think it was when I was researching
00:29:41.600like the Aztecs and it was just what I was reading was saying like because you know what happened
00:29:46.900back then was like they had a certain level of technology and then the Spanish came and they had
00:29:53.140a more advanced technology and so but what this book I was reading was saying was like
00:29:58.360it doesn't mean that one group was smarter than the other it just meant that one group had more
00:30:04.860technology than the other like people are people like people are still smart like whatever situation
00:30:10.240you're in and you still see that today like whether you're born in you know America or if
00:30:16.520you're born in like Haiti or whatever it's just like what you have around you people just kind of
00:30:22.600like adapt to that so it doesn't mean that people in older centuries weren't were less smart it's
00:30:30.720not the people I agree with you I think they're actually more smart I think there's a lot of0.68
00:30:35.400stupidity right now but um it's just the the how much technology do you have access to and that we0.96
00:30:42.700have things like you know medications that can help with diseases and stuff and that helps with0.99
00:30:46.420people if people live longer than maybe people get different or new ideas because they they have
00:30:52.460more time to think but people were just as smart no matter where they were it's just the access to
00:30:58.880technology is where you talk about like this society you know quote-unquote advanced how
00:31:04.320advanced was it it doesn't people are exactly the same no matter what society they're in it's just
00:31:09.580what do they have access to right and i mean i've i've talked to others about this where you know
00:31:16.200the spanish came in and they weren't necessarily smarter they had a technology guns that the the
00:31:23.040locals didn't have and they didn't have it because they didn't need it you know the spanish and the
00:31:30.340english and they they all thought they needed to have that that was the progression of their society
00:31:35.940was guns that wasn't needed in in the the new world that they they came in and took so naturally0.89
00:31:45.240to them they're thinking oh yeah we're this we're that we're we're the other they're the barbarians
00:31:49.680because they don't have the technology that we have no they have what they needed for what was
00:31:54.620going on around them like you said yeah exactly so you're right it's it's not about any anyone's
00:32:03.080well they were probably smarter but it's not about people necessarily being smarter it's just about
00:32:08.680they they were at the level they needed to be for their surroundings and all the places that
00:32:16.880guns were used to take over they didn't need guns there that's why they didn't have them
00:32:21.640they didn't have them in africa they didn't have them in mexico south america they didn't have them
00:32:27.240here they didn't need them and when you read about ancient egyptians they had their slingshots they
00:32:35.620had their swords they had all that kind of their catapults whatever they didn't have anything like
00:32:41.240a gun because they didn't need it they had other ways of conquering their enemies you know hand
00:32:48.440to hand combat has been the thing for everyone since the beginning of time hand to hand combat
00:32:53.880then they started deciding to come up with weapons you know because then you started having
00:32:58.640the bronze age and all that of making their weapons it's just all about where society is
00:33:04.020at that time that society is where they need to be for where they are can't say that they're above
00:33:11.220or beyond or below they're just they are where they need to be exactly and i think that that's
00:33:16.720what i just i want to make sure everyone knows where you and i are coming from with this which
00:33:20.500is i guess where i'm coming from i can't speak for you but just like the concept that people in0.98
00:33:25.520history were stupider like that it's like no everyone is just has been just as smart or stupid0.95
00:33:32.360in all different societies it just depends what technology you have access to and where i was just1.00
00:33:38.300astonished was the amount of just what ancient egypt had going on like the fact that they were
00:33:45.300like people scribes were like writing down every little thing and that they had every like it's
00:33:52.120like okay we're gonna go to school and you're gonna learn these things and i'm just like i
00:33:55.580didn't know that there was societies like that, you know, 6,000 years ago. And there were societies
00:34:03.620like that 10,000 years ago. And those societies were in Egypt. And that, so it's, so again,
00:34:08.360it's not just like the people there were smarter. It's just like the culture had developed because
00:34:12.560they had been in one place for longer. And this is what was going on.
00:34:16.460Then you also had the different levels of society too. And we've talked about this before where,
00:34:21.120you know, the farmer, they didn't know how to read and write. They didn't care. They didn't
00:34:24.420need to know how to read and write. They needed to know how to grow their food so their family
00:34:29.060could survive. Whereas it was different in the palace where the royal children, they were taught
00:34:34.960to read and write. But then not all of them were taught to read and write, depending on what their
00:34:39.880status was within the royal hierarchy. Some of them were taught to read and write, but others
00:34:45.660were taught like hat was to read and write the ancient script whereas a kid born of a lesser
00:34:54.880wife or just someone in the harem they would have maybe been taught the basics of reading and
00:35:00.140writing so just in case for some reason one of you needed to be elevated because everyone else
00:35:05.060died off at least you'd have some sort of basics of reading and writing we'll teach you the rest
00:35:08.720of it later if you need to so you know it was about society but it was also about your part
00:35:15.020your place in society on what you knew and what you didn't know that's really important
00:35:19.020distinction thank you because yeah like we're talking about hat who is like as high up as you
00:35:23.460could get in society so her experience is very different from like the daughter of a farmer
00:35:26.840but again it's just like that doesn't mean the daughter of the farmer wouldn't have also been
00:35:31.020a kick-ass ruler of the country it's just like hat was in a situation to do that and i mean
00:35:36.320spoilers she was an amazing ruler of the country yes she was so hat so this is i just have this
00:35:44.840kind of like little encyclopedia entry that i'm going to be referring to just to kind of like
00:35:49.240so i don't forget any you know major life event of hers but please jump in you know this but like
00:35:56.740please so i mean hat was born her whole life was kind of um not by coincidence but it was during
00:36:04.440a time when egypt was thriving it was doing really well and i mean when she later took on
00:36:08.820it's it's not like oh it's doing well what a coincidence like no she made it do well but like
00:36:13.880this is part of where it's notable about her she's one of the first women to take control0.98
00:36:20.840in Egypt she's the first she's not the first female like quote-unquote pharaoh in Egypt but
00:36:27.940she's the first person to take on that role when Egypt was not in crisis like there was some other
00:36:33.320women who had taken on for a couple years because there was some sort of crisis but things were
00:36:38.480stable so this is part of what's notable about her taking on the role she would later take on
00:36:44.180because you know at one time I did read that it was assumed that for up until her at least the
00:36:50.840past 70 years before her there were a number of women that were considered to be in charge
00:36:57.260but like you said it was because someone had to step in as a regent or someone had to step in1.00
00:37:03.260until someone was found for them to be a regent for. It was always a dire reason why they had to
00:37:10.300do it up until her. And I mean, you could probably consider her situation slightly dire,
00:37:16.440but not quite what it would have been for the women that came before her.
00:37:20.420Yeah. And I think that that is probably to her benefit in a way that there had in recent history
00:37:25.300been these powerful women who are serving as regents. So it wasn't because I mean,
00:37:30.400this egyptian society and this is also where i'm just like this is the earliest society i've ever
00:37:36.380read about hats world but so it's easy i'm trying to not be like yeah the patriarchy whatever it's0.98
00:37:44.380like no like egypt had its own thing going on and it wasn't like men are great women are shitty
00:37:50.500like it wasn't that but it was there was gender the way that gender was portrayed and the way0.63
00:37:56.800that it was understood in their religion.
00:37:58.080And you know much more about this than I do.
00:38:23.840that they pretty much do the same thing.0.98
00:38:26.800But you have to have that balance of the male and the female. And they had to have that in a society as well, where there has to always be that balance. Because if, I mean, everything, their souls, their minds, everything had to be in balance.
00:38:41.300If they felt it was out of balance, then that's when they felt that's when the droughts came and when more plagues came because something was out of balance.0.66
00:38:53.680And so that's why you would never have a male ruling without a female.
00:38:59.600Even if he didn't like that woman, he still had to have that woman there because they had to have balance no matter what.
00:39:05.940And the thing about ancient Egypt is it wasn't about personal feelings with them.
00:39:10.220That their society did not run off of that. It was completely based on the the ideas of of their society took precedence over anyone's personal feelings.
00:39:24.560didn't matter what your feelings your desires none of that mattered no matter how ranking
00:39:30.840high ranking you were high ranking priest king it didn't matter what you think what you want
00:39:38.240does not matter it all is based on this is the idea that we have set forth on what this is how
00:39:44.220our society is supposed to function and this is how it's going to go so everyone women more than
00:39:51.820man, but everyone had to jump through a number of hoops to make sure that they were going along
00:39:56.560with the idea of how that society was supposed to function. Because like I said, if it didn't
00:40:02.940work that way, then, and there was, the Nile just didn't raise as high as it normally did,
00:40:07.860then that's your fault because you tried to put your personal feelings in there instead of putting
00:40:11.520the idea of what our society should be in place. So that was a major, major thing. It was the
00:40:18.240balance it was the idea of what they felt egypt was supposed to be on all levels and that could
00:40:25.540be stifling at times i would think because you almost are made to think that you can't think
00:40:31.080outside of the box but we're going to get into thinking outside of the box what that really can
00:40:36.100do for you but it just they were very very stuck in that and that was probably um it was probably
00:40:43.280a good and bad thing for them honestly and that yeah no and that's that the culture is really
00:40:49.200i think crucial and understanding when we're talking about hat story again where a lot of
00:40:54.460the stories i've done in this podcast like because i do early modern history a lot of it
00:40:57.900there's this a familiar sort of thing where it's like this is if you think about medieval
00:41:02.860europe or renaissance europe it's like there's the family and there's the princess and we're
00:41:08.000going to marry the princess to this other thing to make an alliance and she has no say in it
00:41:12.420And so it's like that to me is a familiar trope, like that's a familiar thing. But in Egypt, it was, but you see in medieval, you see in Renaissance, there's like young women who don't like that. They run away with their lover or whatever, you know, there's like this sense of independence that is kind of romantic.
00:41:30.160But in ancient Egypt, the culture was so tied in with the religious belief. And we see with Hat, she was incredibly spiritual and religious. And really, that was so important to her. And that sort of helped guide her for what she did.
00:41:44.660But yeah, so when we're looking at, and I appreciate again in this, but Kara Cooney is saying like, every time I come in with a preconception, she's like, just so you know, like this was not considered weird back then.
00:41:57.220Like that an eight year old girl would be married to a statue and learn about sex acts.
00:42:03.140Like that's like, take away your preconceptions of what you think things are like, where it's like marriages are not about falling in love.
00:42:11.520It's just about like, what is going to pay tribute to the gods?
00:42:14.960What is going to create balance in the world?
00:42:17.600So it's not like, oh no, she had to, even like hundreds of years later when Cleopatra
00:42:23.520is on the scene and that's a whole different thing, right?0.64
00:42:25.920Because she was Macedonian and they'd come in and they sort of took on the Egyptian culture,
00:42:36.100And Cleopatra was like, fuck this.1.00
00:42:38.300I'm going to kill my brother and run off with Mark Antony.1.00
00:42:41.520Like Cleopatra to me, I'm like, that's a narrative that I'm like, okay, yeah, I get that. Like an independent woman, like, you know, who's not into what society wants, but where Hat was living, that's not the vibe. Like the vibe is very much just like, this is what the world is. And she respected that. And everyone around her respected that.0.95
00:43:01.500And so that's where, when we're telling the story, it's not like their society was so advanced in so many ways. And then where it's different from what, how I imagine an advanced society, I have to remind myself where it's like they did, this is pre-Christianity, right?
00:43:17.320this is like 3 000 years pre a concept of like monogamy and you know women should be modest and0.51
00:43:27.460like sexuality should be hidden like that's not what's going on here at all and the gods should
00:43:34.740never be sexual the egyptian gods are very sexual and it took me a minute to be like very sexual yes
00:43:42.380Right. And there wasn't a shame around that. So it's right. Because this is like pre-Christianity.0.58
00:43:47.680I mean, look at the story of how everything exists. If you really look at that story, it is 100% sexual. That is how everything was created according to their culture. Whereas, you know, in Christianity, it's just this being decided all of a sudden one day I'm bored, I'm going to make something.0.90
00:44:12.380Here, let's throw some little peasant people on there and watch them run around and be dumb.0.99
00:44:17.320You know, that's not what it was in ancient Egypt.1.00
00:44:20.360It was a complete sexual act that created the universe, that created the gods and goddesses, that helped create the people.0.62
00:44:38.460And that is probably one of the things that once they started, the Egyptologists, once they started digging in and seeing what these hieroglyphs were saying, they were like, oh, God, no.
00:44:51.940Yeah, they weren't cool people because it went against what they believed.
00:44:58.100Exactly. And that's where people, I think, like the European Egyptologists would be like, oh, this was a backward society, quote unquote.0.62
00:45:05.200they were like savage or whatever and it's like no it's because so when we're telling the story
00:45:10.220it's just like the concept of sex is very different in the story from anything I've ever read before
00:45:15.420but because it was whatever 1500 years ago or 1500 2000 years ago like this is like
00:45:24.620yeah society was different it was different and that's not bad that's not good that's not bad
00:45:30.960that's just what it was like and this is what hats the world was like and I just want to fairly
00:45:34.240represent what was going on in her world you know age was different um because we mentioned earlier
00:45:43.500the um the lifespan was different you know now people are expected to at least get into the 80s
00:45:49.840at the very least you can get a lot accomplished in 80 years people if you got out of childhood
00:45:55.900back then you were expected to get to 25 30 years old max and if you got to there you were considered0.97
00:46:02.800to be an old ass person. So everything had to start earlier in life. You know, your understanding0.56
00:46:10.060of adulthood, your actions of adulthood had to start earlier in life because you just didn't
00:46:18.200have a whole lot of time to work with there. And, you know, even though you might've gotten to age
00:46:23.10013, there was no guarantee you were going to get to 14 because you could get hit by any kind of
00:46:28.500plague any kind of disease any kind of anything you know or you could be too close to the river
00:46:33.860at some time and a crocodile comes and snatches you out you never know I mean just so you when
00:46:42.540we're talking about things and we're throwing out ages people please don't be freaked out because
00:46:46.800just that's just how it was back then yeah exactly exactly and actually I was thinking
00:46:54.060about this when we were talking about guns a bit ago like in this story at some points like the
00:46:58.120pharaohs various people they go like hunting for hippopotamus and a hippopotamus is i think one of
00:47:03.100the most deadly animals on earth you know like when i learned that i was like oh but they're so
00:47:07.920like cute and like a disney cartoon it's like no those jaws will snap you in half and they were
00:47:12.680going hunting hippopotamus in a pre-gun society like these people were fearless and they're huge
00:47:19.900so you don't really you think oh they're huge they can't move fast those suckers can move yeah
00:47:34.320So in the story, and again, like I really appreciate what Cara Cooney has done in her book.
00:47:37.900She really dove deep and like was really interpreting things.
00:47:41.660But also there's so much stuff for like, because the Pharaoh, like the man, the king would have several different sexual partners and they would, because they wanted to have as many children as possible because child mortality rates were so high.
00:47:54.040so the fact where it's just like so the names of children weren't carved on things until they knew
00:47:59.640that this person was like gonna make it so like things with like hat it's like we don't really
00:48:04.960know how many children did she have like because they didn't record stuff like they didn't record
00:48:10.640stuff until you're sure that this person is like gonna make it so there's a lot of yeah so there's
00:48:16.500a lot of sort of question marks about it and that's an interesting thing um because if you
00:48:20.800think about Akhenaten and even Tut, they recorded kids. I mean, you saw Stele of Akhenaten and his
00:48:33.560daughters, all his daughters, and they were little, you know, and we don't even know how old
00:48:38.020they got. They probably didn't really even get to like full, full adulthood, most of them,
00:48:42.560but you still saw a hieroglyphs of them. And, you know, they talked about the infants that were
00:48:49.540the stillborns of Tut, you didn't hear about anybody else talking about their stillborns.
00:48:54.820And you know, there were plenty of them. So like she mentioned in her book, they had to suffer in
00:49:01.140silence so much when it came to their children, because if the baby even survived the pregnancy,
00:49:10.560did they survive the labor? If they survived the labor, did they survive to age one?
00:49:15.760did they get to age two? How many babies were lost? And no matter what your status was in
00:49:24.260society, how many women lost so many babies? How many women lost their lives trying to have1.00
00:49:32.200a viable baby? We have a lot of infant mortality rates today and a lot of women that aren't1.00
00:49:40.980surviving pregnancies and labors and look at our medical technology. Yet we still have so many
00:49:47.180women that are dying because of childbirth. Imagine the sheer number of people back then1.00
00:49:54.700that just weren't surviving it because it just, it was too much a lot of times. And the thing is,
00:50:01.580you got to think about a lot of times they were starting out very young having children
00:50:05.160where their bodies really even fully prepared for what it was about to go through.
00:50:09.480and people were they were probably a lot sturdier back then than we are now because they had to be
00:50:16.500because you know their surroundings made them have to be sturdier um but you know if you got
00:50:22.740someone younger having a baby you're just going to have that natural is this going to work is it
00:50:27.900not going to work well and then the additional thing on top of that in terms of the royal family
00:50:31.640is it's brother sister marriage right so like how many chromosomal issues are going to happen
00:50:37.900when you're getting into generation after generation of incest which again this is where
00:50:41.940we're just like this is the society and we're not judging it but like they wouldn't have known that
00:50:46.980they were making their odds even worse and but see that's the thing you got to think about is
00:50:52.700okay so all of these people that that rose to be able to sit on that throne how royal were they
00:51:00.040really because like you said if it was a brother or sister there was going to be issues with that
00:51:05.260baby they're just that's just genetically a fact but you had so many kings that would die and they
00:51:13.080would have a son an heir that would come and replace them okay but that child nine times out
00:51:20.880of ten that child was born of someone that you were not related to otherwise that kid would not0.99
00:51:26.420have survived the like the harem like you have all these different women and that's where in this
00:51:31.200story um there's there's a couple sickly guys and then when you get sort of a sturdy guy who's able
00:51:37.100to live a longer life yet guess who his mother is she's like this woman from the harem she's not
00:51:42.600the sister she wasn't royal yeah and the thing is they were smart they had to realize that which is
00:51:50.340probably why they did what they did with the harems and he's just he procreated as much as he
00:51:55.160could because it was proven time and time again those were the ones that were going to succeed you
00:51:59.140not the ones that you had with your sister. And it's, it's sad that I feel bad for the sisters
00:52:06.780that had to go through that because what choice did they have? They, they just, they had to know
00:52:14.840that their babies were just never going to survive. And they had to be a horrible way to
00:52:20.740live life. I just, I can't imagine that because I mean, I have two kids and I know during both
00:52:26.800pregnancies I was like okay you know anything can go wrong during any pregnancy and so I was worried
00:52:34.400when I had kids I cannot imagine how worried they would have been knowing that the the pattern has
00:52:40.580shown these brother and sister babies don't work out well and I wonder if just like the amount of
00:52:46.660illness that was just around because it was such a long time ago and also just like the brother
00:52:52.100sister babies and everything and just like infant mortality really young girls having
00:52:56.220delivering babies like if like their death was so commonplace and I don't mean that people
00:53:04.240weren't upset I just mean there was like a lot of death around them all the time and I wonder if
00:53:07.800that's part of why as a culture they really clung to the spirituality and the religion and like the
00:53:13.140belief in the afterlife and like if that was I would imagine that would all be tied into each
00:53:18.060other because if you're seeing death around you all the time then you would find comfort
00:53:21.200like people do today in religion by thinking about the afterlife when we're going to be together and
00:53:25.960whatnot. You know, they, they really, that whole Egyptian society and culture really did pay a lot1.00
00:53:33.120of attention to death compared to life. Life was life. That was just, you know, just what it was,0.91
00:53:39.740but their life focused so much on death because death was literally right around the corner
00:53:47.440for everyone at all times and it's just it's kind of a morbid thing to think about as far as you know
00:53:56.640how our lives are today but to them that was just the way to view it otherwise you would just you'd
00:54:04.240be curled up in a ball in a corner all the time if you let the death get to you the way we probably
00:54:10.700would today if we witnessed that much of it because that just death was life to them yeah
00:54:18.100and that's i think i'm sure we're going to come across other things but two things we've mentioned
00:54:22.420now that in terms of like hat's world and what she's living in that is very very different from
00:54:28.260the world that we live in now like firstly it's like the sexuality of it and the like the not a
00:54:34.460sense of shame not a sense of embarrassment like that sex was just a matter of fact thing and it
00:54:38.980actually part of their religion and the death just really because people today like everyone
00:54:43.460lives like no one's ever gonna die and when someone dies it's just like someone just died
00:54:47.140what like because we're all living in constant denial and that's just kind of what our society
00:54:51.360is like so like those are the two cultural things that I'll try to keep in mind and I hope everyone
00:54:56.220does when we're telling this story like this is the world she was living in and so as much as I'm
00:55:00.660like picturing myself next to her and like living this with her it's like her cultural like I could
00:55:06.100never understand what that's like to live in a society that's that different from the one that
00:55:10.080we're in it but it works for them and it works for thousands of years and she made it work for her
00:55:16.140so you know 50 minutes in let's talk about hat um but we can't start with her until we talk about
00:55:24.940her father a little bit absolutely yes please talk about her father so that's tutmos how do
00:55:30.060pronounce it tutmos i say tutmos tutmos the first the first yes he was not royal in any way shape or
00:55:38.140form and this goes back to what i was saying where you know you kind of had to just grab who you
00:55:43.800could grab to put in in place because you had to always have a king you just you did you had to
00:55:49.600always have a king and then you would go periods of time where you might not have had a queen
00:55:54.100you would eventually get one but you always had to have a king no matter what his age was tut
00:55:59.800the first was older when he came into power because they needed to throw someone in there
00:56:07.180quickly. And he took to it. It's funny, even in today's society where you look at Prince William
00:56:17.700was raised to be a king. Prince Harry was not. He had a little different upbringing, a little
00:56:25.820more freedoms probably in his world than William did. It would have been the same back then,
00:56:32.180where, you know, the person that was expected to succeed, they would have been raised to be king.
00:56:39.860Thutmose I was not raised to be king. He was just raised to be a guy. Like,
00:56:42.900he wasn't even a prince. He was just a guy, right? He was like an aristocrat, but just...
00:56:46.940But just a guy. He didn't know the ancient script. He didn't know all the ancient rituals
00:57:19.940to start building towards those riches, but he is definitely the one that kickstarted the vast
00:57:25.740richness that is known of the 18th dynasty today. Because he went and he conquered, he subjugated as
00:57:35.200many people as he could, took whatever he could, brought it back to Egypt. And he, obviously they0.98
00:57:42.140built on large scales, otherwise they wouldn't have had the pyramids that were hundreds of years
00:57:47.280old by the time he came along but he started building on a larger scale than his predecessors
00:57:54.240you know two or three or four generations back because they didn't have the money that he brought
00:58:00.460into the system from everything that that he conquered um and not necessarily he i mean they
00:58:07.560wouldn't they would have talked a lot about what he conquered but he probably negotiated a lot of
00:58:12.020stuff as well because to be a good leader you got you can't just go around just killing people and
00:58:16.800taking it. You've got to be able to negotiate as well. We'll get into that with her later.
00:58:21.520But he just, he came in and he set a standard and she saw that. She grew up with that. She learned
00:58:32.480it. She absorbed it clearly. And I truly believe that there are so many people that are born gifted
00:58:40.440in whatever it may be, music, art, whatever.
00:58:45.180There are people that are just born naturally gifted.
00:58:48.900Thutmose the First was naturally gifted at warfare, clearly.
00:58:53.640She was naturally gifted at learning what was going on around her0.71
00:58:58.480and not necessarily trying to figure out how to make it work to her advantage,
00:59:02.900but just learning how it worked and how best to work within what was going on around her.
00:59:10.440She saw her dad where she would have known that he wasn't born royal. Everyone knew it. So she would have saw how he was successful regardless of no royal lineage. So why would she ever think that she couldn't be successful? It just, it wasn't natural to her.
00:59:27.180he became pharaoh at an older age like as an adult and she was his first child and it's a
00:59:36.260daughter and so the role of the first of the oldest daughter of the pharaoh she would have
00:59:43.120been raised to become to marry the next pharaoh like she was going to be raised and that wasn't
00:59:48.800just like oh you're the wife you're like the trophy it's like no like she would have been
00:59:52.800And this is part of why she was educated so well, like she was going to be raised to become co-ruler later on.
00:59:59.480Yep. And I haven't really ever found anything extensive about her mother.
01:00:05.580Actually, the most I've learned about her mother was through Karakuni's book.
01:04:11.280I mean, in today's world, the way a three-year-old looks at things, I mean,0.94
01:04:15.820we would have been blowing shit up because we could,0.97
01:04:19.120but back then that was just your duty.0.99
01:04:22.480That was just how life was. And this is what you did. I, I mean,
01:04:26.960I'm 50 and if I had that kind of power, I'd be like,
01:04:29.680okay, I don't like you. Bye. I don't like you. Bye. You know, but they weren't like that back
01:04:35.440then. Yeah. Yeah. I wanted to mention just the siblings. So when she's a young girl,
01:04:41.300she has two older brothers. They later die of various diseases potentially. But so
01:04:46.200she would have been raised with the expectation, whichever one of them survived was going to be
01:04:51.100the next Pharaoh and she would become his sister bride. But she also had a sister. And I wanted to
01:04:56.980mention this because i love the name of her sister which is neferubiti which is like nefertiti but
01:05:04.040neferubiti and later on in her life her sister died also young because like everyone was dying
01:05:10.620everyone did and there i forget the details but there is some of the tomb like we we see from
01:05:15.780the way that hat revered and remembered her sister that they were probably very close so
01:05:20.080she had this close connection with her sister her mother's there like i like the female energy that's0.99
01:05:25.840around her i think that's but also think about okay so they the the king would procreate with
01:05:32.820as many people as possible just to make sure that you know because you never knew who was
01:05:37.200going to die at what time um it might have been sort of like that with hat and her sister where
01:05:41.780there was no guarantee the hat was going to survive so you know her sister might have been
01:05:46.400getting taught some of that stuff as well yeah not at the same level as hat because you know
01:05:52.460She was there. She was the oldest. She was being taught that. But the younger sister was being taught some of it. So if she was the one they had to step up to be the daughter to do everything that was expected, she would at least have a foundation of what she needed to do, needed to know. And they could just build on that later on if they needed to.
01:06:12.640So I would think that there would probably be a closeness between the sisters, not just because they're sisters and, you know, they would add different quarters than the daughters of the ladies in the harem, but because Hat was probably trying to help her understand some of the stuff that she was being taught as well.
01:06:28.840Because, you know, Hat wouldn't have known when her last day would be and she would know that her sister would take her place.
01:06:35.860so i think that there was kind of a a two-sided um reason of why they might have been close like
01:06:43.140that yeah yeah just again you keep reminding me i'm like right because like anyone could die at
01:06:49.380any minute and so they're all living just in case that happens to them yeah yeah so eventually what
01:06:56.860happens is her older brothers die um and then there's a young little baby brother or i think
01:07:05.440he's like a couple years younger than her and that's tutmos the second and his mother was was
01:07:12.100his i forget he was very ill tutmos the second he so i assumed that it was a brother sister baby
01:07:18.360but maybe not i know his mom um one of them had a mother whose name was isis right that was the
01:07:26.080third that was tutmos the third tutmos the second i i could be wrong but i want to say
01:07:33.960that she had some sort of slight royal connection, not strong enough to really be able to rule
01:07:42.560herself, but strong enough to make her son a viable option to become king.
01:07:49.860Oh, yeah. So I'm just looking up. So his mother was Metnofret. Metnofret. So she was a secondary
01:07:59.000wife of tutmos the first and she had the title king's daughter like she's like on the royal side0.92
01:08:05.060yeah so but tutmos the second so half siblings and kind of surprised that this is who like she
01:08:13.660was raised hat she was like a priestess of the of the religion like at a very young like age like0.79
01:08:20.180six or eight like she was officially married to the god wife of the god and so and then she knew
01:08:26.640that she's going to marry her brother, one of them, because he was kind of the incarnation of
01:08:32.360the God. Basically, she's married to him. And then they also, again, Kara Cooney's book,
01:08:37.060but she mentions, and this is another cultural expectation. I was like, okay, right. This is
01:08:41.620an incredibly long time ago in a different cultural context. So it's not like they're married. It's
01:08:45.500not like the royal wedding, a Will and Kate. No, it's just like they're married. It's like
01:08:49.220a religious ceremony. And then that's that. And it's two children and they're married at the end.
01:08:53.560Like it's not. And that's something that's just so wild to me. It always has been. You don't read
01:09:00.320about marital festivities in ancient Egypt. You know, other other countries might have sent
01:09:07.900wedding gifts, you know, kind of of please still like us kind of thing. But you don't read about,
01:09:16.740you know, grand banquets and all that kind of stuff. And that has always surprised me because
01:09:21.200they did everything on such a large scale you know their buildings were large their
01:09:26.520festivals were large they lasted some of them weeks and months why didn't they celebrate marriage
01:09:33.520I don't that has always baffled me why didn't they celebrate that it was just you know someone
01:09:39.160looked at these two they're standing next to each other okay cool you're married next yeah like
01:09:43.280clearly it wasn't like culturally you know it was significant in the sense of like you know this is
01:09:48.160this these two are married now but that really speaks to the fact that in their society that was
01:09:52.920not that was not celebration no exactly exactly yeah and that's just that's weird because you
01:10:00.240would think that that would be something big i just i don't know i just i've never understood
01:10:06.560why it wasn't but i mean i guess they had bigger fish to fry on that one they had other things to
01:10:13.900celebrate. Yeah. So they got married. We know they had one daughter. They might've had other
01:10:19.160children. And the daughter was called, oh, it's also, it's almost Nefertiti, but it's not. It's
01:10:24.320like Neferer is their daughter. She's around for quite a while. She is, which is surprising.0.99
01:10:32.420They were only half siblings. So that might've been the reason why she wasn't quite as sickly.
01:10:38.340But a lot of those straight brother-sister children just didn't, they didn't quite make it, you know, maybe even to 10, you know, 10 or less, and they were passed on.
01:10:51.240So I have to assume that the reason why that young lady lasted as long as she did is because they were only half siblings.
01:10:58.280I can't think of any other reason because I don't know of any time where a full brother-sister child was ever sitting on the throne.
01:11:09.800I feel like King Tut was and he was incredibly sick.
01:11:48.380go with the sturdy ones the ones that have proven they're smart that's the women and this is like1.00
01:11:54.500this is the sack of hat basically so she she marries her half-brother tutmos the second who0.95
01:12:01.000is one of these little sickly guys so they do have a daughter who is neferar neferer i stopped
01:12:08.440trying to pronounce names a long time ago i just read them and keep going little nef nef
01:12:13.040so i'm just kind of scanning this to see so again we don't know exactly although um ancient egypt
01:12:21.700they did have like a 24-hour day and like we're able to sort of figure out years of things so we
01:12:26.960don't know how long the two of them so they were like like the dad dies and then tutmos the second
01:12:32.080is the new man pharaoh and hat is the woman equivalent like so like this is our pair of
01:12:39.980men women kings but keep in mind how young they're both they both are they're like 13 right they're
01:12:46.260like i mean like super they're kids yeah they are the new king and queen of ancient egypt and
01:12:53.520supposedly making decisions when we all know even no matter how old the king was it was always
01:12:59.420his advisors that were making the decisions but you've got these two children sitting on the
01:13:05.820throne one of them sick as all get out and you're looking to them to lead a nation i i i mean i know
01:13:14.580that's how their society was but honestly what did you think these kids were gonna do for you
01:13:19.280in this era i don't want to take away any credit from hat and from other pharaohs for like
01:13:25.220doing a good job but the all of society was built up that these were the incarnations of god like
01:13:32.300there wasn't no one was trying to usurp the throne no one was trying it's not like you know
01:13:37.100like in cleopatra's time everyone's killing everybody everyone's trying to take over in
01:13:41.540hats time there was this understanding and because they were in peace time because the like the river
01:13:47.300like was fertile like crops were growing everyone was okay so there wasn't unrest nobody was like oh
01:13:54.360it's these two young kids are the are in charge like let's take over nobody was doing that because
01:13:58.920everyone respected the position. And on top of that, she had been the god's wife for so long
01:14:06.800before then that she already had a level of power by the time she became queen that demanded
01:14:15.240everyone's respect that, I mean, at that point, no one was really going to question her because
01:14:22.140she was she was bloodline royal she was the god's wife she had been performing these rituals
01:14:29.700for years by the time she sat on that throne who in in the society the type of society that they
01:14:35.800had who was going to question her no one well and also like you said earlier that the because of
01:14:42.000people dying so often at young ages a young person was seen more as an adult than we would see them
01:14:48.000So like, yeah, she was 12. She was 13 years old, but she had been God's wife since she was eight.
01:14:52.640Like she was starting having babies like she was treated and seen as an adult.
01:14:58.200Whereas we would be like, that's a kid.
01:15:00.740She would have been wired differently than a 13 year old today because she understood the gravity of her responsibilities.0.99
01:15:08.760You know, a 13 year old today, you tell them to clean their room and they throw a fit and slam the door and they ain't cleaning shit.0.96
01:15:13.560where you know it's just there's no there's no gravity of responsibilities at 13 in our society0.98
01:15:20.780whereas in that society literally the world was on your shoulders you know and so you would just
01:15:28.780carry yourself differently absolutely and I think what you said about how to her you know taking on
01:15:34.380this role was inevitable and also I think just the thing about her gift and her power like I
01:15:40.100think from a very young age partially because of how she was raised and the role models she saw
01:15:45.200but i think she just carried herself in such a way and we see this throughout the rest of her
01:15:48.680life that people just respected her like the charisma that this woman must have had like the
01:15:54.580gravitas like people just unquestionably they're just like okay yeah no you sure like the power1.00
01:16:02.680yeah and um we talked about it with cleopatra where she had that that natural ability1.00
01:16:09.340um the major thing she had working against her she wasn't actually egyptian so she didn't have1.00
01:16:15.120the full support of the egyptian people you know hat didn't have that problem she was egyptian
01:16:21.180her mother was royal bloodline her father was the king you just you don't question that person
01:16:28.140and i think she from a young age too just because of that because she was you know an insider in
01:16:33.740that way like people so she had really strong connections and i think we see that throughout
01:16:38.060the rest of the story we're going to tell over the next 24 hours given the pace we're going at
01:16:43.300but um i think she had really strong allies people were loyal to her like this was and this is
01:16:48.880partially just because culturally like the royal the royal family was supported by society in
01:16:57.220general right but easily that could have flipped if she hadn't been as good as she was right the
01:17:05.520flipping at first would have been done by the religious leaders because religion, as we've said,
01:17:14.000ruled everything around them. Religion was the basis of their lives. You know, the gods were
01:17:20.400the basis of their lives. And so if anyone was going to turn on the royal family, it would have
01:17:25.140started with the religious leaders and then trickled down to high society, all the bureaucrats
01:17:30.820and whatnot, that would have supported the religious leaders in their belief that maybe
01:17:37.620this person wasn't fit to be king or queen. Like you said, we're going to get to it. But
01:17:42.280because the religious leaders had the faith in the current sitting king and queen, there was no
01:17:49.980reason for anyone else to have any doubts. Or if they did have doubts, there was no reason for them
01:17:54.140to voice them. And that was another thing that you never really think about. And she brought it up in
01:17:58.880her book and it made me really pay more attention to it is you don't see a lot of inscriptions of
01:18:06.000dissent you know people didn't sit and complain you would find it in graffiti here and there
01:18:12.320from people that were just commoners that maybe didn't like something that was happening but for
01:18:17.980the most part you you don't you don't read complaints they didn't you know they would
01:18:24.460would um they would show support um you know with sometimes you'd see um different scenes of
01:18:31.940of different celebrations and festivals that they had you would see you know they'd have like a
01:18:36.340crowd or whatever chiseled in there but you did you don't you don't read about people being unhappy
01:18:42.060with with how things are being done with the the current sitting king and queen and it wasn't all
01:18:50.020sunshine and light you know it wasn't because it just couldn't have been with everything going on
01:18:54.220around them but i do like the fact that they didn't dwell on the negative at least when it
01:19:00.480came to what they recorded um they just they tried to just keep keep it pushing you know
01:19:05.980we gotta just we have to just do life because we're only gonna be here for a short period of
01:19:09.480time so let's just do life sitting and complaining isn't gonna fix anything let's just do what we
01:19:13.400gotta do and i like that about them i like this about them and i think um like we're very early
01:19:19.340on in hats like rain and whatever but like there's never that level of descent in and there's other
01:19:25.660um so many other stories i've told on this podcast especially where women get into a0.98
01:19:30.980situation where they're in charge there is they spend half their time 75 of their time just trying0.94
01:19:38.320to deal with these like shitty men who are like oh i don't i don't believe you like i don't trust0.94
01:19:43.820you like hat was able to just do her thing because she was of royal blood like everything you just0.97
01:19:49.620she's a royal blood she was also so religious so spiritual like she was really devoted to this
01:19:55.800religion so the religious leaders would never turn against her because she was number one religious0.96
01:20:00.160fan like so she could just get shit done she didn't have to deal with being like no trust me0.81
01:20:07.100no I know what I'm doing like everyone's like yeah clearly you do carry on right that's unusual0.99
01:20:13.100for me in this podcast to find a woman leader in a situation where she can just get shit done that0.99
01:20:17.580never happens good for her and that is like you said that is probably been the the um probably1.00
01:20:24.840nothing that has been the the major downfall of all the women in history that had any sort of power1.00
01:20:30.160is you always had these jackass men they were always trying to assert their authority over0.99
01:20:36.120the woman that was actually in charge and so they were just constantly trying to fight these dumb1.00
01:20:42.360asses to get anything done and nothing. And then of course, well, she didn't accomplish anything1.00
01:20:47.020in her, her time in charge. Gee, I wonder why, because she didn't let her. I mean, it's just,
01:20:56.260it's the same way today where you have, you know, let's just say Congress, you have a woman bring a1.00
01:21:01.740bill to Congress and they're like, Oh no, even though they know damn well, that would be good0.99
01:21:06.480for the overall society. They're not going to let it go because a woman came up with the idea0.99
01:21:11.760instead of a man yeah no and this is where the sort of like me unlearning just not anything I
01:21:19.640was ever specifically taught but just the impression I got from just like taking learning
01:21:25.020history throughout my life until I started learning it myself as an adult it's kind of
01:21:29.840suppression that it's just kind of like people society was bad society was backwards and we've
01:21:35.300been getting better ever since and now today we're the best we've ever been no um you know it's like
01:21:42.380and then it's like yeah there used to be racism but they solved that in the 1960s there used to
01:21:47.980be sexism they solved that in the 1970s and now everything is great like completely wrong completely
01:21:53.800wrong but when you look back at this where it's like the longest ago story i've ever read and
01:22:00.500there's a woman who's in charge and everyone's cool with it it's not like oh yeah women didn't
01:22:05.300used to have rights and now they have rights it's like no like out the gate like hat was doing it0.96
01:22:11.520and then things went then things regressed because if you think about it you know her her brother
01:22:19.100slash the king he was sickly and he wasn't necessarily raised to be king not at all because
01:22:26.080Yeah, he wasn't taught all of the royal etiquette and whatnot.1.00
01:22:32.460So you have this woman who is the queen in all rights, who is God's wife in all rights, that knows all this stuff, probably a year or two, maybe three older than this sickly little boy that doesn't know shit.0.98
01:22:49.760So, yeah, they're going to listen to her because really, what other choice do you have?0.96
01:22:54.360you know you don't want you they always want balance so why don't rock the boat if what she's0.98
01:23:02.280doing is not you know outside of what you really think should be happening fuck it do it you know0.90
01:23:09.760just try to bring your brother along with you get him on get him on in line kind of thing you know
01:23:17.080I just I imagine that's probably what they were thinking was just just do what you know you need
01:23:21.440to do just smack him upside the head and make him do what he's supposed to do kind of thing because
01:23:25.420you know he was in there flailing he just whatever there was just nothing else he could have been
01:23:30.440doing yeah and i think my impression and correct me if i'm wrong in egyptian history in general
01:23:37.140like they really they had this culturally this really strong religious belief um the balance
01:23:42.940and everything but they just saw like when the nile is the level is up and our farming is going
01:23:49.020good and like that means the gods are pleased with us and if it goes and if there's a drought
01:23:54.580they're like someone's doing something wrong so hat as much like i don't want to take anything
01:23:58.760away from her but also she benefited from the fact that like the nile was good very much so
01:24:04.380and but it wasn't just her that would have benefited from that anyone that was in charge
01:24:08.140at the time that the nile was was acting right they benefited from that you know and those poor0.70
01:24:16.600unfortunate souls that were in charge when things weren't going right with the Nile and you know
01:24:22.000your crops weren't growing your your livestock was dying those people they just got the short
01:24:27.300end of the stick unfortunately that's who they questioned to be like oh they what they're doing
01:24:31.680is bad but because the Nile was good when Hat was here they're like I guess she's going well
01:24:35.960I wanted to point out though because I forgot to say and I found this very interesting
01:24:39.180um so when hat and her little sickly husband they had their daughter neferer their child was a
01:24:47.920daughter and generally they wanted to have a son then a daughter because they wanted to whatever
01:24:54.980but in their society they blamed or gave credit to the gender of the child to the father like they
01:25:03.820didn't blame the mother oh it's a girl and that's your fault and i'm like look at them you know you
01:25:07.860look at henry the eighth or whatever he's like my wives keep having daughters where it's like
01:25:12.020and we know now that like the chromosomally it is the husband it is they knew and i just
01:25:20.220there's just so many things about ancient egyptian culture that you just have to love
01:25:24.860because they were so practical and they yeah to them women were were a step below but they
01:25:34.600weren't to be stepped on they were they were to be respected and revered and you just you have to
01:25:42.340love that about them whereas you know like you said Henry VIII beheading people because they
01:25:48.540weren't doing they weren't giving him the sons that he couldn't produce 100% his fault anyway
01:25:54.480I just wanted to give ancient Egyptian culture credit for that because that was a nice thing
01:25:58.820for me, Noreen. So she and her little sickly guy, half-brother, Tetmos II, they were co-rulers.0.68
01:26:07.540What this is, is like at least four and possibly as many as 12 years. So like for some time
01:26:12.460before he, obviously what ended their co-ruler is that he died because he had
01:26:18.500a million health problems. And think about it. If he did last 12 years,
01:26:24.100that was a long time that was a long time for someone that sickly to be king for that long
01:26:33.280because 12 years to them would be like 50 years to us just he um you know kudos to him for not0.92
01:26:41.920falling down some stairs or something and actually managing to get someone else pregnant to have an
01:26:47.720heir that's true that's true so what happened is so he dies and then like the only child that the
01:26:53.180two of them had who survived that we know about is Neferur, the daughter, but he had, there was
01:26:57.780other women, there was other wives. And so he had various other sons. And then there's this,
01:27:03.040I don't understand exactly, but it sounds like they put all the toddlers, all the little boys
01:27:08.480in a room and then kind of waited for the gods to choose which one was going to be the heir,
01:27:13.140which to me is just sounds really chaotic and just like a daycare. Just these little toddlers
01:27:19.840just all like toddling around and the moms that they're chasing after them and out of these boys
01:27:23.960one of them is chosen who is tutmos the third who's going to be the new baby king because hat
01:27:31.420can't there needs to be the balance right like she can't be pharaoh on her own there needs to be a
01:27:37.240guy and in this case it's a toddler it's her and you gotta think about okay why was he chosen was
01:27:43.860he the one that ran the fastest was he the one that was climbing things more than the others
01:27:49.140they would have picked the one that they thought was they had the best chance of surviving.
01:27:54.100You know, were the other kids just, you know, just raggly little nothings that were sitting
01:33:59.000And so that was the name given to, if you have this like man, woman pair who are in
01:34:03.840charge, like that's given to the man and the woman is, she's always a step below, like
01:34:08.960although they're partners, like he's the main one in charge.0.67
01:34:11.160And if she had been the regent, what that would have meant is that she would just kind of be in charge until Thutmose III came of age and then she kind of stepped back. But what she was like, she's like, no, we're going to be co-kings. Like he and I are equals. Like she's giving herself the title of king as an equal to him.
01:34:32.460And then we start seeing that. I mean, he's a baby at this point, but like in the artwork, like they start being drawn.
01:34:38.820She's in front like of him, usually if it's the regent or if it's the wife, like they're behind.
01:34:44.320So she's claiming this male title as a woman, which is so fascinating.
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01:38:08.160And she played the role of regent. She played the role of, I'm doing this. And she probably was, this was her focus during the entirety of her reign. I'm doing this for the betterment of Egypt.
01:38:22.040so she played regent you know she let them put him in front on on anything that was carved whatnot
01:38:31.920she she was just buying her time honestly because had she tried to walk in from day one0.99
01:38:38.720and claim she was king co-king that would not have gone over well it it wouldn't because0.99
01:38:45.500the audacity of a woman to try to put herself equal to a man even though they didn't hate women0.99
01:38:51.860in that society, they still felt that women had their place and she would have been stepping0.50
01:38:56.280outside of her place. I saw something that Kara said at the very beginning of her book,
01:39:00.800that if a woman doesn't immediately renounce ambition, she will always be viewed as being
01:39:07.280selfish and doing everything as far as her own personal motives behind everything she's doing.0.92
01:39:14.220She didn't start out like that. She started out as, I'm helping him, I'm helping Egypt,
01:39:19.200until she realized just how much power she had.
01:39:24.540That's when she said, okay, screw this.
01:39:48.400she's being the regent and she realizes it's like I want to do this this this and they're like oh
01:39:51.960actually you can't decide that that's for the king and she's like really really okay well then
01:39:56.880I'm going to be the king like you know because I'm going to do this this and this yeah so one
01:40:02.800of the things that she did was she had and this is part of why we know about hat like because of
01:40:08.400these monuments and buildings that she commissioned and part of it is she did these great obelisks
01:40:13.520and she did everything in stone we need to make sure that we we bring that to the forefront
01:40:19.960because for the most part things were built out of mud bricks back then because stone was expensive
01:40:25.380and it took longer to to chisel out it took longer to to shape you know it just it took
01:40:32.100longer to quarry it took everything about stone took longer and it was more expensive but she
01:40:39.180did all her stuff out of stone she didn't do it out of mud brick like everybody that came before
01:40:44.800her very few men did things in stone and she was like screw all you i'm doing it in stone because1.00
01:40:53.160you bitches you you were weak and you're not gonna you're not gonna stand the test of time like i'm1.00
01:40:59.540going to and you know she was looking at it in slightly in that way because that's just how they1.00
01:41:04.800always looked at everything was for eternity. That's why they did what they did as far as
01:41:10.320putting all the riches and all that stuff in the tombs is so you would have everything you needed
01:41:14.080for the rest of your eternity. She was doing this to ensure that she would be known for the rest of
01:41:20.220eternity. And hats off to that woman for being that forward thinking on everything that she did
01:41:28.200because she wasn't doing it just for the moment. She was doing it for eternity. I mean, think about
01:41:34.420that because we can't wrap our heads around eternity we can't imagine never ending she was1.00
01:41:40.620looking at it as i'm going to be never ending let's do this that's a badass woman right there
01:41:47.080and also she like the benefit of her father like you talked about the places he conquered and stuff1.00
01:41:53.940like he was bringing supplies in from other places like the country could could afford this
01:41:58.720at this point i just just the scale of this so this is kind of one of her first big projects
01:42:03.940she did as king which is so these what are they called the obelisks so it took uh seven months
01:42:12.680for these to be made each one is 185 feet long so they had to be transported down the nile so they
01:42:19.840had to build special 300 foot long barges to get down there yes towed by other ships 864 people
01:42:27.960rowing. Once they arrived at the Karnak temple, which is the home of Amun-Ra, the king of the
01:42:34.180gods, the obelisks were sheathed with gold. So I'm mentioning this just because this is where
01:42:40.980she starts with her building career. Starts. That's the thing that you, she starts with all1.00
01:42:47.720of that. I mean, who starts that grand? She didn't make her way up to this. This is where she started,
01:42:52.880But the engineer in charge of this whole thing, so I guess the carving, but also the transportation is this guy who I want to bring up, who is Sennenmut, who had been, he'd been serving Hetschepsut as a steward during the reign of Thutmose II, the little sickly boy husband.
01:43:09.960and then because he successfully oversaw this impossible task so this gave her the confidence
01:43:19.100that she promoted him to various different high positions in the realm including the tutor to the
01:43:25.540daughter princess neferer and i want to talk about that there's pictures in the book but you can look
01:43:30.040them up too so there's senan mut is an interesting guy because he was just like i'm great look at he
01:43:37.760there's so many statues he made of himself and like non-royal people did not make this many
01:43:42.640statues of themselves and all the statues of himself it's like him with neferer the daughter
01:43:47.560it's always him with this little child so it's always showing his like proximity to the royal
01:43:52.760family so it's like him and this little kid it's always him teaching this little kid and that makes
01:43:56.960some people be like oh is he secretly the father of neferer and i don't think so i don't think
01:44:02.380hat would never have done that but especially at that point in her life but i think it was just
01:44:07.600sin and mutt being like look how important i am he couldn't put himself with her so he
01:44:12.860because he didn't come from anything so you know since he since no one can trace where he came from
01:44:19.020of any kind of importance once you get a level of status like that you're gonna be like look at me0.99
01:44:27.720bitches i grew up in the same stupid little village as you but look at me now where are you0.99
01:44:33.600at kind of thing i mean if you had the the money and the opportunity to be able to rub it in the1.00
01:44:40.900faces of people that probably tortured you when you were a kid who wouldn't do it is this where
01:44:45.140the story like so much of this story some of i'm just like oh culturally it's very different but
01:44:50.440just the people feel so familiar to me as the people like this reminds me of somebody who like
01:44:54.680you know gets goes viral from a reality show and suddenly he's on instagram being like look at me0.94
01:45:00.200i'm on a private plane look at me i'm hanging out with drake like that's the vibe of sun and mud0.86
01:45:05.180he's just like this guy who came from nothing and now he's at this high level and he's just like0.80
01:45:11.140suck it haters like yep in statue form yeah i can't lie i probably would do the same thing0.69
01:45:17.860if all of a sudden i had some sort of level of high society whatever i'd be like yeah see0.99
01:45:24.280you dogged me back then but guess what i'm about to go get in my maybach and you're getting in
01:45:29.820your toyota deuces yeah so sentiment you know it's it's a relatable thing but also like he did
01:45:35.880oversee this like i don't know how many people could have figured out how to transport these
01:45:40.860185 foot obelisks exactly people are naturally born gifted with things that they're very good
01:45:46.940at and he was very good at that and that's the thing that she she was gifted enough to be able
01:45:53.340to recognize another gifted person because, you know, you didn't get promoted within those ranks
01:46:02.640easily. You just, you didn't. And so for her to recognize his gifts, to feel that she could trust
01:46:10.960him enough to do the things that he did, she seemed to have been a pretty good judge of0.98
01:46:17.860character yeah he might have been an asshole when it came to trying to show off what he had compared0.99
01:46:23.420to others but that didn't matter to her fine do your thing whatever they ain't got shit to do with0.99
01:46:28.220what i've got going on over here he was able to do what she needed him to do and she knew she could
01:46:33.800trust him to get it done and that to them back then meant the world because you know by the time
01:46:40.540you got cleopatra like you said everyone was stabbing everyone in the back and it's not that
01:46:44.840people weren't stabbing each other in the back back then it just wasn't as prominent but if you
01:46:50.020pissed off the wrong person back then it's gonna catch up to you it's that's just human nature he
01:46:56.920did what she needed him to do he understood his place with her therefore he just kept climbing
01:47:04.420i i admire this about hat that you know is this person raised from the minute she was born to be
01:47:13.180like you were the incarnation of the goddess, like you are the most amazing person that she
01:47:17.900would see in like a common born person. She's like, actually, who's that guy like that? I like
01:47:22.660his skills. Like I like that. She could think outside the box in that way and like promote him
01:47:27.740and keep him there as kind of one of her guys. Like, and I think there was some other people in
01:47:31.580her that she had around her who she just in a similar way, she saw them, she saw their skills
01:47:37.000and she saw that they were useful. You know, she wasn't just being like, Oh, who should I promote?
01:47:42.160oh that's it's not a nepo baby it's like oh that's the son of the priest great let's give1.00
01:47:46.440him the job she's like who's good for the job like let's oh it's that guy it's that guy from
01:47:51.060that farm sure okay like i appreciate that about her and i think there's there's something we might
01:47:57.380have um skipped over that we should probably bring attention to is even though she was very
01:48:04.620well established within her religious place. The priests of Amun had a lot of power because with
01:48:13.780the exception of her, no one else could commune directly with the gods. It was only the priests
01:48:20.300that could do that. You had to pay the priests to say prayers to the gods for you. You weren't
01:48:26.020allowed to pray to the gods and get anything accomplished on your own. The only way your
01:48:31.260prayers are going to be answered is if the priests did it for you. So if the priests didn't like you,
01:48:36.460if the priests didn't support you, you weren't going to get anywhere. So since everything really
01:48:41.920truly revolved around religion back then, she would have needed the full support of the priests,
01:48:47.820the whole religious faction of Egypt. She would have needed their full support.
01:48:53.500What is the one thing that is all you're going to guarantee someone's going to support you?
01:48:57.320money. She, while regent, was going on military campaigns and resubjugating the Nubians,
01:49:06.220taking everything that they had, bringing it back to Egypt, filling the coffers,0.92
01:49:09.940which in turn would be filling the coffers of the priests, thus guaranteeing their support
01:49:16.180in anything that she would want to do in the future. So she had an exceptional understanding
01:49:24.440of how the world around her worked in order to get what she wanted. She could not just come out
01:49:31.880and say, God said I was supposed to be king and everything was going to be on, everyone was going
01:49:36.000to be on board with that. She had to say it and then slide a couple of dollars across the table
01:49:42.140and be like, so you believe me, right? And then if they supported her, if the priest of Lamun
01:49:48.040supported her, no one could dispute that. But the only way they were going to support her is as long
01:50:19.540this is the way that the world worked.
01:50:21.520And she knew this is what she needed to do.
01:50:22.980and so she did that thing she wasn't because we've seen people like who is nefertiti's husband
01:50:27.660the akhenaten akhenaten was just like i had this vision we're gonna change religion and everyone's
01:50:33.060like no we're not but he's like this is my divine like no no one followed him but people were on
01:50:39.160board with her because she knew how to deal with people she knew that you you can rock the boat
01:50:47.140but only to a certain extent once you get that boat tilted over to one side to a certain level
01:50:53.940then you're going to have to do some other things to make sure you can tip it a little further
01:50:57.960otherwise you're going to fall off the boat because no one is going to support you so i mean
01:51:03.520you got to give her you got to give her so much credit she was she was obviously a natural born
01:51:08.600leader she just was but she was smart about it she was smart about how to get everyone else on
01:51:15.280board with her being a natural born leader and that that's a mistake that people have made
01:51:21.020throughout time is you might have been a natural born leader but if you don't have the support of
01:51:27.060the people who in turn have power over other people you're not going to get anywhere you
01:51:33.960could be the smartest person in the world but if no one believes you no one supports you
01:51:37.260you're just another person she was determined she was not going to be just another person
01:51:42.380so she did like i said what she had to do in order to have everything all her ducks in a row
01:51:48.580to be able to be like boom i'm king i'm co-king this little boy yeah he's here but we ain't
01:51:55.180really we don't talk about bruno just we're gonna be doing what we're doing this is like um there's
01:52:02.860so many books that are like how to be a leader like napoleon or whatever you know like there's
01:52:09.500people who are Alexander the Great or whatever. And I feel like there's a real opportunity here
01:52:15.060for somebody to write a book about like leadership lessons from hat. Like how did she do it? Like
01:52:20.140people don't know this and people need to know this every, how you just explain that. I'm just
01:52:24.220like, yeah, yeah, she did. Like she, you can, you can have all the skills, but you need to also
01:52:29.940understand, you need to get people on your side and you need to understand how to get people on
01:52:34.160your side. And that's, I think what's missing from a lot of ambitious people who just never make it.
01:52:38.580Yeah. And you're not going to hear about her the way you should for two reasons. She existed so long ago. And she was a she. So those two things right there are going to keep. I mean, they don't really want to teach what happened in the 50s. So why are they going to teach what happened three or four thousand years ago? That's not going to happen.
01:53:04.980Yeah. And it's like, you know, and even though it might not have been recorded, even though they would have denied it if you asked them, I promise you, Caesar and the likes of his peoples, they studied her.
01:53:21.480they had to because if you want to be a great leader you have to learn from the other great
01:53:28.740leaders you can be born with natural abilities but you still need to learn and i promise you
01:53:34.300they knew who she was no and that's the thing like the records of her did continue and actually
01:53:39.560that's the next thing i had it ties in perfectly with what you're just saying it's like her going
01:53:44.020on campaign and stuff like that so um and she was going she was going on campaign like she was there
01:53:49.660with the troops physically there yes so she's going on campaign down into the land of kush
01:53:55.000which is now northern sudan area they need to control that area for economic reasons because
01:54:00.960it was a source of gold and other luxury projects and so she was not just kind of sitting back
01:54:07.480and kind of like letting you know like her father did all this stuff she wasn't just being like great
01:54:12.340he did that and i'm just gonna like hang out here she was preserving her father's empire so there's
01:54:17.380statues or carvings in art like we see her portrayed as a lion trampling Egypt's enemies
01:54:24.260there were sphinxes created with her face on it like she was like a lot of them a lot of sphinxes
01:54:31.980which is also like a masculine thing right so this is where it's interesting to me too
01:54:37.300like I've had a couple episodes of this podcast where I'm looking more at like gender and history
01:54:42.960and stuff like that and i think her portrayal is really interesting because at first when she's
01:54:47.440when she's the wife of tutmos the second in art she's portrayed as like she's the woman and she's
01:54:52.980like full feminine yeah and then when she at first when she becomes king she looks still
01:54:57.880full feminine but wearing you know the headpiece of the king like you could still see like her1.00
01:55:03.840silhouette like she's got breasts and then as her reign goes on towards the end of it she start
01:55:08.580in artwork she's she looks identical to tutmos the third like they're both it's a male portrayal
01:55:14.400and it's interesting we'll never really know what changed but i think she was just kind of like
01:55:19.700i am the king but i'm also a woman but later in her life she was like no i'm equal to him like
01:55:24.700we are both men like in art but she still used the pronoun yeah exactly she never completely
01:55:31.400got rid of the fact that i am a woman i'm gonna make sure you all understand i am a woman however
01:55:37.860However, I'm taking over this male role and you're just going to have to deal with it. She never, ever denied her female side. That, I think, goes along with that other thing of people not looking at her as just being ambitious for ambition's sake, where she was just trying to do it all for herself because she wasn't trying to hide who she was.
01:55:58.580She wasn't trying to convince everyone that I need you to view me this way and this way alone.0.79
01:56:04.140She wanted everyone to view her as, yes, she's co-king.0.55
01:56:18.940And even in Kara's book where she talks about how the scribes and how the people carving these different things, they're probably confused as hell.
01:56:27.820because they weren't really versed in how high society spoke and how they interpreted things.
01:56:34.760And it's like, why am I carving a guy, but I'm putting she? This doesn't make any sense,
01:56:39.980but whatever. That's what I was told to do. So that's what I'm going to do.
01:56:42.940They probably went home every night telling their wives, do you know what the fuck I had to do today?0.99
01:56:48.440Imagine those conversations. But I just, I love that about her that she never0.98
01:56:53.400tried to be a man she was always in from what i'm gathering in in actual life very feminine still0.95
01:57:02.540she just portrayed herself on the monuments as completely equal to to her co-king to her husband
01:57:12.060to her nephew whatever it is that she thought of him as and i love that i love that i mean you can't
01:57:19.140really get too much more bold than that it's really really really interesting especially
01:57:23.680just in the in the context of like because she was like i'm a woman and i'm taking on this role
01:57:30.220that is a man's role and she's changing the role to fit her instead of changing herself to fit the
01:57:37.120role you know yep exactly it's kind of like i don't know if you think like a woman who's becoming
01:57:43.620a politician or entering some business it's like i'm gonna wear a blazer but her vibe is like i'm
01:57:48.100it's like i'm gonna wear a blazer but inside of the blazer i'm wearing like a party dress like
01:57:53.940it's like i'm still me even though i'm wearing kind of the trappings of the king i'm still
01:57:58.760it's really it's interesting and just all like we're not gonna get into this don't worry i'm
01:58:03.480not gonna ask you to but just like the conversations that happen today about like
01:58:06.540gender and sexuality and stuff where it's all like men are men and women are women
01:58:09.840people who are not me are saying but where it's like well hat was kind of like what is gender
01:58:15.620She was very fluid with it. I totally agree. And I think that as obviously, you know, the men were in charge, blah, blah, blah. But overall, I think they were very fluid with human beings in general. Fluid with, I mean, men have been with men, women have been with women since the dawn of time.
01:58:40.260That's, I mean, that's just human nature. It's going to happen. It's whatever, you know, love is love. So it's like, I think Egyptians, they were very fluid with it. They might not have been outwardly fluid with it or where two guys would just be walking down the marketplace holding hands and whatnot.
01:59:01.700but I don't think that it was as frowned upon as people might think it was. I mean, it was
01:59:12.640common practice in ancient Rome, you know, just, I mean, everyone knew the high society,
01:59:20.780they had their group of young boys they went after and the group of young girls they went
01:59:26.540after, and that was acceptable. And I have to believe that to a certain point, it was acceptable0.97
01:59:31.520back then as well um otherwise i don't think she would have been able to have done what she did
01:59:37.440i mean you can slide money across the table to the priests all you want to but if they were hard
01:59:42.820and fast male and female don't commingle like that they would have never supported her the way they
01:59:49.440did that's just my personal belief yeah no and i'm thinking also we were talking before but like how
01:59:54.840a wedding was not a celebrated thing. So it's kind of like, yeah, like a man and a woman
02:00:00.740would get married or get together. And the purpose of that is procreation. So it's like0.90
02:00:06.200the purpose of that is not necessarily pleasure or a relationship or love because people, I would
02:00:11.280presume you can get that from other places. So it's kind of like these two people are like,
02:00:15.560we think about like, oh, it's this brother sister marriage. It's like, yeah. And they had to have
02:00:19.620sex and they had to have children, but it's kind of like, that's all they were supposed to do.
02:00:22.800It's not like they're not supposed to be in love with each other.
02:00:26.340So I think where sexuality, like there wasn't this shame attached to it.
02:09:42.920I mean, I don't know how they survived it.
02:09:44.700So she was bringing back things that they needed for their religious rituals on top of all the other richness and goods that she was bringing back, you know, foods they didn't have.
02:09:55.820So, you know, obviously there would have been gold and they might have even had silver.
02:10:01.020She was bringing things in this trade route that she reopened that they didn't have, that they now had, that made everyone's lives appear to be richer.
02:10:13.500I mean, granted, if you were a bureaucrat, you were already on whatever level of richness.
02:10:18.280But if you had something from a completely foreign country that it took them, what, I think I read it was like three years to build the ships to even be able to get there.
02:10:28.540So that was quite an expedition that she initiated to build enough ships to go and then to be able to transport all that stuff back.0.87
02:10:36.780That whole thing would have taken probably a total of maybe five or so years from beginning to end when she got back with all that stuff.
02:10:46.260that was a huge undertaking that was very bold to her because if she failed that would have been
02:10:52.160really bad for her but now all of a sudden everyone all these rich people be like oh look
02:10:56.580what i got because this came from wherever and you guys don't have this but i have this
02:11:00.980she just she played the game perfectly and this is why um like there's so many carvings about this
02:11:07.660like there's carvings of like her you know receiving the trees on the ships and stuff
02:11:11.780And this is where I want to mention because those carvings, a lot of them are in this temple that she built in this site, Der El Bari.
02:11:20.480So on the Western Bank of Thieves, modern Luxor.
02:11:24.920So she made this, it's described as a natural amphitheater against a curtain of towering limestone cliffs.
02:11:30.720So there's a picture of this in the book, but you can look it up to just whatever, Google image search.
02:11:35.140So it looks, again, like a very contemporary building.
02:11:38.060it's a stone building with like multiple levels kind of like little rectangles you know like sort
02:11:44.740of window shapes and it's this multi-layered thing and inside and you can go visit it today
02:11:49.600there's um carvings of her victory you know like her army victories her trading expeditions the
02:11:57.660transport of the obelisks like there's pictures of like all like i did that like these are all
02:12:03.380in this building that she built that's still there.
02:18:20.340So she just had just a natural luck with nature.
02:18:25.900and just the smarts to make everything else work out the way she needed it to.
02:18:32.460I wanted to talk as well about, I think it's at the same temple,
02:18:35.260the famous one, the like three-story temple.
02:18:37.560So there's a gazillion statues of her, sphinxes and whatever.
02:18:43.220But also there's giant statues of her.
02:18:45.440And I think this is where, and this is part of what's interesting0.71
02:18:47.560about the gender presentation, because there's statues of her
02:18:51.020that were created throughout many years.0.78
02:18:53.880and early in her reign they're painted like yellow which is the color that a woman's statue
02:18:58.360is painted and then mid-reign they're kind of orange because a man's statue would be painted
02:19:04.500red a woman's statue is painted yellow and then these ones are kind of orange it's like they mix
02:19:08.720the two and then towards the end of her reign they're all painted red like a man so this is
02:19:12.920where it's just like the gender fluidity it's it's like visual in that way like how she changed
02:19:21.580how she wanted to be perceived or how she was exactly it was it was about at that period of0.77
02:19:26.120time how does she want to be viewed by by the masses again never trying to discount that she
02:19:33.580was a woman she never tried to say she wasn't but what at this particular point in time how do i
02:19:39.100want to be viewed by people as regent she was at the beginning she was okay with being viewed as
02:19:44.500a straight female that started to change until she got to it where she wanted to be viewed as0.84
02:19:49.920cold king and to do that you have to portray yourself that way you got i mean i used to always1.00
02:19:55.800tell my boys um you know men don't like it when a woman shows she's got bigger balls0.91
02:20:02.140because that goes against their egos and the longer she was in reign she she must have felt1.00
02:20:11.040that she had to start showing who had the bigger balls because she she gradually started showing
02:20:16.420everyone i'm in charge take it or leave it i think part of it and this is kara cooney says this but i0.80
02:20:23.260think it makes sense because like early on in the co-king era like she's being like the portraits
02:20:29.720are like you know they're painted yellow or orange and she's got like a woman like a female silhouette
02:20:35.240but with the king crown but and by the end she and tutmos the third look identical like they're
02:20:39.180both being drawn as the same men and i think that's like because at first it's like a little
02:20:42.420boy and she's like i'm the adult he's a little boy but as soon as he turns i don't know 12
02:20:46.36015 and he maybe becomes like a larger presence she wants to make sure like just because this
02:20:52.820is a man and maybe he's taller than me or whatever she's like but we're equal and that's where she
02:20:57.280starts being like portrayed as like we're the same and i also like that she understood that
02:21:02.400she couldn't continue to portray him as a child because that would have caused him to start
02:21:07.500really hating her because he would have he would have understood his position he would have
02:21:12.300understood that, you know, I'm 15 now. They're looking at me more as a man, you know, and he
02:21:17.540probably was taller than her and, you know, wider shoulders and whatnot. But she understood that I
02:21:23.100can't keep, I can't keep my foot on him anymore because if I do that, he's going to rebel. So let
02:21:29.440me try to make things a little bit more equal to placate him so where he's not going to try to
02:21:34.760rise up against me kind of thing. And that was very smart. That was very smart because he never
02:21:39.560did. And I think also she maybe benefited from the fact that he was, you know, when he was in
02:21:43.700that little room of toddlers, they're like, uh, that guy, that'll be the co-king. Like she would0.90
02:21:47.720have raised him and he would have understood we're co-kings. And there's other examples from past
02:21:52.040Egyptian history of times when there were co-kings. So he would have been raised to be like, this is1.00
02:21:56.740okay. And this is normal. And this is fine. Like he wasn't stifled by that. Or he, you know, he
02:22:01.880would have been, as soon as he could learn how to talk, he would understand like, yeah, this is hat
02:22:05.980and work work the same and and it would have also it would have been helpful for him or for her but
02:22:12.540you know he would have never heard anyone talking bad about her because she was doing such a good
02:22:18.620job and she had been in that position for so long you know she she was royal for how many years1.00
02:22:23.660before he came along so if he never had anyone in his ear telling him you need to watch this bitch1.00
02:22:29.320because she you know she's trying to take over your shit if he never experienced that he wouldn't1.00
02:22:34.160think that because like you said it was always what he knew he always saw her taking care of0.99
02:22:40.220business and so as long as she was taking care of business and nobody was in his ear saying otherwise
02:22:45.100why would he ever think otherwise so it's again it's just she's just so smart in terms of just
02:22:52.040other significant things she did so she had a lot of buildings commissioned out of stone like you0.99
02:22:58.820said um she also during her reign introduced innovations in architecture and an art like the
02:23:04.480style of royal portraiture and sculpture changed a bit and stayed like with kind of like the trend
02:23:10.900that she set there um the design of royal sarcophagus changed under her time and she also
02:23:17.380apparently repaired some older temples which had fallen into a dilapidated state like she really
02:23:22.800wanted like you said like that legacy and to be remembered but she also really revered the
02:23:28.080ancestors and wanted to shape up what they did so they were remembered also um she built lots of
02:23:34.780temples for the gods which that is partially you know to win over the priests and the people
02:23:39.360but also goes along with you know she was just very deeply religious she was she was
02:23:44.320born into that she was she was raised to be that so it was twofold for her on that where she really
02:23:50.560truly believed it but she also understood this is going to keep them supporting me and she also i
02:23:55.420like this so um we were talking about the nile and how it's so important to you know when it it
02:24:02.400raises it lowers the water level and so there's times of year where maybe you can't do so much
02:24:06.600farming and what she did um is she employed people when the nile was lower giving them jobs like
02:24:13.480construction work and stuff to to build these symbols so she was just kind of like keeping
02:24:18.460people busy and employed right exactly you know don't be just sitting around so you can't farm
02:24:23.920right now okay then help build something when farming comes back then you can go back to that
02:24:27.360and she's able to do that because of the like all the stuff she was getting from nubia you know like
02:24:32.500what they were they were getting their gold and stuff so they were able to pay them but they were
02:24:38.660also bringing a lot of people back anywhere that they went to resubjugate folks that looked like
02:24:45.080they were about to rear their head up they would squash them back down and then grab a whole bunch
02:24:49.460people and bring them back with them. They weren't necessarily, I mean, some of them were probably
02:24:53.640slaves, but not necessarily all of them were slaves, but they were still used to, for the
02:24:58.900betterment of Egypt. So you bring back a couple of hundred people from wherever it is you just
02:25:04.680went and conquered, that gives you a couple hundred people to help you start building this stuff,
02:25:08.560you know? If so, fine. So they don't know how to carve, but they can drag that stuff along the sand
02:25:13.720and get it to where it needs to be. They can understand dragging. So, you know, they, she,
02:25:18.720not only did she utilize the the actual egyptian people she utilized the people they brought back0.87
02:25:24.020too so she was basically always reinforcing her workforce with everybody that she conquered
02:25:29.960and this is also saying that like during her reign like we've talked before about how you
02:25:35.160know does the average farmer or peasant even know who the pharaoh is or what they look like
02:25:39.280but she did in fact make the rounds around egypt um escorted by troops um you know a huge entourage0.54
02:25:46.740obviously but she would go around and they were hunting leopards she was carried on a traveling
02:25:52.200throne um and the remains of this chair are now in the british museum somebody should look somebody
02:25:59.360should liberate that but that's where it is right now you know what if you're in england there you
02:26:02.740go you can go see that there was a noticeable increase of the portrayal of priestesses during0.92
02:26:08.660her reign so maybe more women became priestesses like that was either she may did something to
02:26:15.860encourage people to do that or people just did because they had this female king and or just
02:26:21.380because the religion there's so many more temples maybe more people are just getting excited about
02:26:25.360it yeah so it opened up more positions of leadership in these religious groups for
02:26:30.160elite women of the realm like basically just there's more priestesses in this time so that's1.00
02:26:35.320interesting and it's it's funny because um priestesses have always been a part of the
02:26:42.560Egyptian religion, but they weren't focused on. It was always the priests because, you know,
02:26:49.520it's always the guys that are going to get all the glory most of the time. And so for priestesses to0.94
02:26:55.000start increasing in number and representation, that didn't necessarily die down after that,
02:27:03.160because you do hear about priestesses a lot in the next dynasties. And they actually played a really
02:27:11.660pivotal role in a lot of rituals that you hear about later on. So it's just me wanting to hype
02:27:19.740up a woman. I want to say that she started a tradition of priestesses that had she not done0.99
02:27:28.480that, they wouldn't have held the position they did later on in other dynasties. So power to the1.00
02:27:35.460women she she started giving women more visibility you know and I don't know if she if she deliberately0.98
02:27:46.200did that or if it just happened or like you said people were more um they were more hyped because0.97
02:27:52.340okay we have a female king so you know let's go out there and start doing more I don't know but0.99
02:27:58.140me personally I'm gonna say that she did it because she wanted to see women thrive and1.00
02:28:02.780she she started a revolution i think because she wasn't doing this in a self-centered way she wasn't
02:28:12.380just like i want power and here's what i'm gonna do she was like for the betterment of egypt this0.93
02:28:16.520is what is gonna happen and so inherently in that it means like okay well like maybe other women0.60
02:28:22.960can help the betterment of egypt so like her daughter so princess neferer so her daughter1.00
02:28:28.820inherited the role of God's wife. And so it seems like, I don't know for sure if she married Tetmos
02:28:36.040III, but like she is shown in art being sometimes she's doing the role of like queen, because
02:28:40.820there's these two co-kings, but you need that balance, right? So like, so the daughter is kind
02:28:44.960of the one who's doing some of these religious things. And so it seems like Hat was kind of
02:28:50.600preparing her daughter to take on a similar role as her, like she was getting this really good0.95
02:28:55.200education the titles that neferer has on various temples and stuff kind of show that she was
02:29:02.220exactly how hat had been when she began as god's wife like so it seems like she was maybe hoping
02:29:08.760that like neferer could inherit a similar sort of role as her and then i think this is great i think
02:29:15.120this is fantastic so usually usually like one of there's this festival that happens when a pharaoh
02:29:21.600has been Pharaoh for 30 years, which said because of life expectancy doesn't happen that often in
02:29:27.760this time. But Hat was like, I'm going to celebrate this, even though I've only been
02:29:33.000Pharaoh for 16 years. Because if you add the time where she was the wife, and if you add the time
02:29:38.340where she was the daughter, it's like, basically, it's 30 years. So let's let's go. Let's just have0.68
02:29:42.640this. I love it. She combined from the time of her father up until her time, she combined all
02:29:48.620the years of the topmost rule to get her to her 30 needed to have a said festival and i mean come
02:29:56.720on how brilliant i love it she's just like if you round up to the nearest 30 right it's 30
02:30:02.640and that was a big festival that one was just off the chain i mean i can't even imagine but then also
02:30:12.520to have that festival because a lot of just the smaller festivals that they did and just natural
02:30:17.340religious rituals that they did. The king had to do a lot during these festivals. You would read
02:30:25.620about them having to run miles and carry this there and wear all of this garb and recite all
02:30:32.120of these incantations. If you chose to have a festival, you had to know this is going to wear
02:30:39.520you down and you're going to need a whole lot of sleep after this is done. So it was clearly
02:30:44.760important to her to have this festival because it would have actually made her have to do a lot0.95
02:30:53.200to have this festival so it must have been worth it to her and also this would be like tutmos the
02:30:59.640third at this point like if it's her 16th year then he's probably on 16 like he's probably about
02:31:04.480adult size so it could have been sort of like now that he it could be part of her thing of being
02:31:09.800like yeah now he looked like he's taller than me maybe he's bigger than me but just so you know
02:31:13.560we're still co-kings let's just remind everybody that in this weeks-long olympics demonstration
02:31:22.380really yes i just and the thing is is the fact that he went along with it um he might not have
02:31:30.480wanted to do it at first because it would have required a lot from him as well because with
02:31:35.260them being co-kings he would have to do the same things that she was doing um but the fact that he
02:31:40.080went along with it willingly or not says a lot because being at the age that he was being the
02:31:48.000quote-unquote rightful heir to the throne he was in a position to be able to put his foot down
02:31:54.240and be like I don't really want to do this you're tripping ma'am this is not 30 years
02:32:00.840that's not how you count but so he went along with it so you know you have to believe that
02:32:09.700he might he just didn't have a problem with it but also with these types of festivals it was
02:32:16.380something to get everybody involved it was something to for for the commoners and the
02:32:22.700bureaucrats alike so if you're keeping everyone happy you know because that was the main thing
02:32:27.820they wanted to do is have balance and happiness and and good fortune if you're keeping everyone
02:32:32.040happy you're not going to have anyone come against you yeah and he would see the benefit in that
02:32:37.520I think he had a really good, not role model, but I guess role model, like seeing what she did, like he would go on. We're about to get to the part where he's gonna, he did very well for himself as well. And I think she trained him very well in how to succeed based on like her inherent natural ability, like the way that she was able to pick up and learn and pivot and be flexible. But also she saw what her dad did, the way she's trained by her mom and her grandma, like he benefited from all of that education from her.
02:33:07.520And, you know, and then he would have just his natural advisors as well. So, you know, he had a really, it was a perfect storm for him, the combination of everything and everyone that he had to learn from.
02:33:22.380You know, he was probably one of the he was probably set up better than anyone else to rule Egypt, because honestly, who else would have had that much time with that many people that were that good at their job?
02:33:40.340because typically what would happen is the king would die.
02:33:44.120Bam, his successor is on the throne and you got to hit the ground running.
02:33:48.760You don't have time to really absorb and understand all the nuances of this, that, and the other.
02:33:56.240He was probably the best set up to be king up to that point.
02:34:01.040Others might have been set up the same way, but he had everything he needed to be successful.0.95
02:34:08.600if he fumbled the bag then he was just a dork because dude you had been given everything you
02:34:16.200needed to be successful so the celebration the said happened in the 16th year asterix 30th
02:34:24.560of hat's reign and then she died six years later so in her 22nd year and we there's no one suggests
02:34:33.640that it was anything suspicious i think it was kind of like there's a million diseases and she
02:34:38.200died in one of them probably so she died but for an egyptian that is not the end of a story
02:34:44.820and so her her burial temple she was inspired by her father right to have like more of a secret
02:34:53.020tomb so it would maybe so that i think this is just interesting and i i didn't know this and
02:35:00.480now i know it but you know there's been so many grave robbers and stuff in modern times but there
02:35:06.920was grave robbers in ancient egypt times too you know where we're like oh the culture was so
02:35:11.140important and everyone is so religious it's like yeah but they were still being like there's
02:35:15.540riches in this tomb i'm just gonna take it whatever melt it down and have some gold for me
02:35:20.380you know people weren't so religious that they wouldn't break into the old pharaoh's tombs and
02:35:24.260steal stuff and also um subsequent pharaohs would have done it i mean it would it would be common
02:35:31.220people that would do it because you know they needed to feed their families but there would
02:35:35.300also be you know later pharaohs that would be like well all this stuff's just sitting here you
02:35:40.680know and and we're not we're not doing all that great with our coffers so why don't we just go
02:35:45.160grab some of that and then maybe i can build something with whatever it was that was just
02:35:49.180sitting there collecting dust it was a combination of folks that were grave robbing back then yeah
02:35:54.100i i don't know i just i previously in my life i had thought that everyone was so respectful of
02:36:01.940the death rituals that they would in that era they would never have done that but of course
02:36:05.480they did because people are just people people are people yeah so hat like initially a tomb had
02:36:10.840been planned for her when she was like the queen of tutmos the second but when she became a king
02:36:15.420she's like no i want to be in the valley of the kings like with the other kings and her tomb has
02:36:20.820never been found or no it was her body has never been found her tomb was found her body is not found
02:36:27.620yeah yeah her tomb was excavated in 1903 um but yeah her body has not been found and
02:36:38.880just side note that what was this send and mutt he had some sort of fall from grace eventually
02:36:45.680as well he had he was you know he's this architect he's this engineer he was designing himself this
02:36:50.440fabulous tomb but it was never finished like something happened with him where he yeah he
02:36:56.760wasn't able to use that um and i think his name was kind of chiseled off a couple places in some
02:37:02.800places yeah he he i think built enough of himself to where there was no way they could get rid of
02:37:09.960all of it because um there was a valid very valid point in in the book where this stuff was made of
02:37:15.180stone some of it of um you know granite that stuff's not easy to break so it would take a
02:37:23.920good amount of effort to really truly get rid of everything that had been built. And like was
02:37:30.420stated in the book, you can't have your workforce concentrating on destroying things and at the same
02:37:36.980time building the things you need to have built in order to leave your mark in the world. So you
02:37:44.700got option A, option B, destroy everything and you leave nothing, or you got to just leave some
02:37:49.600of that stuff there and get to build on what you want to have to be for your legacy and so i think
02:37:55.700that the reason why that just the workforce was spread so thin is why we have so much stuff that
02:38:01.500has remained and we even know what we know about some of these people because why should we know
02:38:04.900anything about cinema why should we know anything about him but we know about him because he was
02:38:10.800vain and built a lot of stuff about himself and they just didn't have the proper resources to get
02:38:17.040Yeah. Well, and then this brings us into, so it wasn't right away, like Thutmose III took over as king. And then he reigned for actually quite a while. I'll look up how long it was. But it wasn't until really towards the end of his reign that he started taking, getting the people to chisel out Hatt's name here and there. Can you talk about that? I'm just going to look up how long he reigned for.
02:38:40.440Well, what it was is she really, in a way, solidified his reign because he would not have been in the position that he was.
02:38:50.420Egypt wouldn't be in the position they were if it weren't for what she did while she was ruling.
02:38:56.280And like you had mentioned earlier, until an heir was, it looked like they were going to survive and be able to succeed.
02:39:05.440They weren't acknowledged publicly as far as like they weren't carved into anything.
02:39:10.440Everyone knew they existed, but there was no permanent record of them because you don't want to have a permanent record of a five-year-old.
02:39:18.540And by the time they're 10, they're gone. That's a waste of time and resources.
02:39:22.520And she alluded to it in her book, and I truly believe it, that he left her there to solidify his reign because at that time, all those years, he didn't have an heir.
02:39:33.440so he had to still make it look like he was the legitimate soul king even though everyone
02:39:42.580remembered for the most part that she she was co-king and he would not have been in the position
02:39:48.320he was if it wasn't for her but he didn't have an heir he didn't have okay but this is what's
02:39:53.320coming after me so I gotta still keep her once he had that heir established he was able to start
02:40:00.060kind of maybe trying to erase her and i did read and i didn't know this but i did read that once
02:40:06.960he started doing that he started replacing her image with his father and his grandfather
02:40:12.620because they were tutmost one tutmost two and they were the ones that solidified him being in charge
02:40:20.000not her because he had an heir now and he couldn't really say he didn't really want to be like yeah
02:40:29.300but the only reason i'm here is because of a woman you know my my auntie is the one that did
02:40:33.140this for me my rich my rich auntie to have like a really clear not not clear male yeah not confusing
02:40:39.940not with this kind of like and then it's like tutmos tutmos tutmos i just looked it up after
02:40:44.140she died he reigned for 32 more years i didn't realize it was i i was gonna say like 28 i didn't
02:40:50.300realize it was 32 that's a long time though honestly that is a long time he was this hardy
02:40:55.600little toddler like they chose the right one from that room like he i mean he must have just been a0.97
02:41:01.320bruiser in that damn nursery because i mean seriously because he went on a lot of military0.97
02:41:07.760campaigns himself i mean literally right after she died he went on a military campaign so it's like0.99
02:41:13.720he he didn't sit back and just enjoy the riches that she amassed for him he was he was about it
02:41:20.980He was, he was all in for being king and kings were expected to go on the military campaigns. They were. And he couldn't be like, okay, well, auntie went on these military campaigns and I'm just sitting in the palace. He couldn't have that. He couldn't have a woman show him up like that. So, I mean, it was probably a combination of that and him just being all in on being king and him being physically capable of doing it.
02:41:43.040So he went out and he did all that. But he started getting rid of her image and started replacing it with his grandfather and his father, again, trying to keep things as male as possible as far as who was in charge.
02:41:58.200Um, and if, if he was reigning 32 years after she died, let's be real, how many people that
02:42:06.540like knew her were actually still alive?
02:42:10.280Because she was already well into her twenties by the time she died, which meant most of
02:42:16.200the people around her would have been twenties or probably older.
02:42:19.740So for all of those people to last another 32 years, that's not real likely.
02:42:25.560so he's not going to have a whole lot of people going against him for doing what he was doing
02:42:29.480because they would not have been around or at least in any sort of power while she was in power
02:42:35.320so they didn't want him anything to lose by him erasing her you know because they already they
02:42:42.400were getting their wealth from him at that point now so you know you do you as long as you keep
02:42:46.880giving me what i want so i think that he was just doing a typical ruler thing i'm not so sure that
02:42:54.400it was embedded in man-woman type of thing. I think it was just rulers always wanted to make
02:43:03.380themselves look as legitimate as possible and as strong as possible. And for him to do that,
02:43:10.360he needed to wipe her away and put his grandfather and his father in that place
02:43:14.560to really legitimize who he was putting in as heir after him. I mean, it was mostly with them,
02:43:22.020it was logistical it wasn't personal most of the time yeah yeah exactly and i mean i've i've covered
02:43:28.120other stories in the podcast where it was more personal like people are just like no one can
02:43:31.860ever know this woman had this much power let's just like erase all records of her and for him
02:43:36.820i think it was more just kind of like life goes on and so he just kind of wanted to i don't know
02:43:43.900just kind of rewrite the story a little bit to really secure his own reign my favorite example
02:43:51.260of him getting people to like carve her out of stone there's a picture of it in the book
02:43:56.140do you remember it's like a picture like hat was there and they just chiseled out hat but there's
02:44:01.460just this person shape so it's like a shadow of like there used to be a person there and now it's
02:44:05.820just a it's like that yes yeah and that's the way they did everyone though because they they didn't
02:44:11.660chisel everything around it they just chiseled out the actual form of them but it's still a form
02:44:16.140of a person there's just no detail to it so obvious it's just kind of like it's like i don't
02:44:22.180know taking a photograph and just like scribbling out somebody's face it's like i can tell there was
02:44:27.640a person there and you know another thing i read that i never really thought about it but it makes
02:44:32.700sense that um some of the um the depictions of her were replaced with altars with food altars
02:44:42.360and different types of altars and so um typically in in in scenes you would have
02:44:49.080whatever god they were portraying looking at the king um as if they were like in a conversation
02:44:56.140kind of thing but now you just have these gods just staring at these tables these offering tables
02:45:00.100and it was kind of like what's the point of that what god was it and just stared at an offering
02:45:06.220table i forgot that thank you i love that detail yeah just it's like we can't have hat in this
02:45:11.560picture what if we just put like a table with some fruit on it great but the thing is is what
02:45:16.760gets me is that he didn't replace himself that he didn't put himself in that position he it was like
02:45:22.760he still had that much respect for her that he wasn't going to put himself there but he couldn't
02:45:28.560just leave a he couldn't leave her there but he couldn't leave a blank so he had put something
02:45:33.540there so he just put an offering table and it's just really surprising that he didn't put himself
02:45:38.260there instead but he was it was clear that he wasn't necessarily trying to wipe her out
02:45:43.420completely otherwise he would have accomplished that he wasn't trying to act like she didn't
02:45:48.960exist he just needed to portray certain things differently and that meant putting an offering
02:45:55.000table where she used to stand it's just funny it's yeah the original photoshop right
02:46:01.640and and poorly done the original royal bad photoshop so hat herself so she reigned for 22
02:46:13.100years effectively and so with this this article i'm looking at from this encyclopedia so it says
02:46:18.040like her temple at der el bari remained in use as the most important focal point for annual
02:46:24.160religious celebrations on the west for centuries to come um people still name their daughters after
02:46:29.580her and even a thousand years later like historians still wrote about the fact there was this woman
02:46:35.900who reigned as a king so she's not listed in some lists in temples of like here's the name of every
02:46:42.040pharaoh there ever was and maybe i don't know if that's malicious or if it's just kind of they were
02:46:46.340confused you know if that person was she wasn't an outright king so that's probably why they didn't
02:46:52.180list her tutmos the third was an outright king therefore they would list him in many people's
02:46:58.040she probably still was just regent whether she called herself co-king or not she was still just
02:47:03.080regent and you don't list a regent yeah oh and then tutmos the third like he did a really he's
02:47:09.500one of the most best remembered pharaohs just for like his military success and stuff and like
02:47:13.900she really set him up for that like we said but so i think he made enough of a name for himself
02:47:20.100that maybe they didn't have they didn't feel like they needed to acknowledge her
02:47:24.560But I mean, she is one of the greatest pharaohs of ancient Egypt.
02:47:29.640She is. And I've mentioned it in probably every podcast we've done with each other, that she is the ultimate for me. She just is. There were other women that were in charge. And you know how much I love my Nefertiti. But ultimately, she wasn't in charge. She was still under Akhenaten. He was in charge. She was probably all up in his ear about stuff. But he was in charge.
02:47:52.060hat was in charge period end of sentence she was in charge no one else can say that she's such an
02:48:01.500icon to me yeah um this is why like early this week i was just like gina i can't wait to record
02:48:07.820this i need i need to hurry up i need to talk to you about hat i'm obsessed with that i like
02:48:13.640ordered a necklace with hat on it because i love her and i want to wear her on my neck always
02:49:14.840no woman is going to put themselves in position to be leading military campaigns in ancient Egypt.1.00
02:49:21.260I mean, women don't really do it in all of history. I mean, it happened, but not very often.1.00
02:49:27.820We know when it happened because it was so rare. Yeah.
02:49:30.800And so you have to, looking at it the way we look at it, looking at it as just a straight human
02:49:36.800being, everything about her reign was scandaled. It was. But like you said, because she was so
02:49:43.940good. And I wouldn't even say she manipulated it. She just used what was going on around her
02:49:49.520and she used it perfectly. She covered her butt. She made everything look like it came straight0.99
02:49:56.680from the gods because she could, because she was in a position and she had the understanding enough
02:50:02.500to be able to do that. Therefore, in their eyes, it wouldn't have been scandalous. It would have
02:50:08.580just been the will of the gods so that one is very hard to to like inherently it's yeah no one
02:50:18.360of the time was being like like the audacity of this woman what's she doing everyone's just like
02:50:22.540okay yeah this is fair she's doing this but it's like i can't believe she did that so i don't know
02:50:27.240if you like if this is something where it's just like to you and me and like in the pantheon of
02:50:31.400history it is scandalous but to the people around her they're like okay if you balance that out to
02:50:36.020be like a five because it's like not i agree i agree because because one through five is us0.99
02:50:43.880thinking oh my god she had she had major balls them six through ten she was just doing what1.00
02:50:51.300she was supposed to do you got it you got it even that one out in in a five because it it really
02:50:57.540our mindset is different than exactly exactly so it's like half scandal is half not which is a five
02:51:04.040out of 10 yeah yeah yeah um the next one though scheminess i feel like is it i got yes because
02:51:14.060even though she might have been like oh but you know it's just the gods giving me these ideas0.98
02:51:20.040that woman knew damn well what she was doing at all times she did she she was smart and so yes0.99
02:51:28.420scheminess she she played her cards right and you gotta be a schemer to be able to play those cards0.99
02:51:36.940the way she did to be to rule for 22 years as a woman and have yourself depicted as a man i mean1.00
02:51:43.440come on she's got everything everything about her like the fact like coming up with the plan
02:51:48.600to like what i do believe that she believed that the gods were like you should do this but then
02:51:55.320everything that she did herself you know like knowing that she had to like grease some palms
02:52:00.280she had to pay some people off she had to build a temple in this city where this guy is from or
02:52:04.320whatever she had to like figuring out like the sentiment like oh that's the guy i can trust him0.55
02:52:10.660but then also having like checks and balances like she everything she did was so smart and so
02:52:17.860thoughtful and so effective like she always she was never not scheming you know like she always
02:52:24.720knew she had an angle she like it's like okay we need to get the money to bring this stuff in okay
02:52:30.620so then we have to build this boat okay that's gonna take three years fine and then once we have
02:52:35.620it let's have this festival you know let's make jobs for people when the nile is not great like
02:52:40.700she was always coming up with plans and schemes like she was never not scheming i think that was
02:52:48.160the only way she was going to survive honestly definitely 10 definitely okay the next the next
02:52:55.180category is significance and there's there's just i want to read if my cat will let me she's like
02:53:00.580pacing back and forth just in terms of okay so this is from cara cooney's book so she's saying0.95
02:53:08.680in the ancient world having a woman at the top of a political pyramid was practically unheard of1.00
02:53:13.920throughout the mediterranean and northwest asia female leadership was perceived with suspicion
02:53:19.080if not outright aversion mesopotamia i found this so interesting mesopotamia for example
02:53:24.600preserves only one example of a female political political powerhouse predating het shepsut0.97
02:53:29.560kubaba a tavern keeper who can in a consolidated power in the ancient city of kish in the 25th0.93
02:53:38.200century BCE during a time of never-ending war and crisis so it's like hat is like there was other
02:53:44.340women who were regents there's women who were pharaoh for like a minute but like no one like
02:53:50.400hat was the first really she was she really was I mean to take it to the level that she did0.99
02:53:58.020and to make it look really effortless she don't ever be another like her
02:54:08.200So there's another, I just had another quote that was talking about, again, from the same book. So historians can find almost no evidence of effective, formerly defined long term female leadership from antiquity, not from the Mediterranean, the Near East, Africa, Central Asia, like, I want to be clear, I'm not just talking about Egypt.
02:54:26.260This is like all the places that had like cultures going on, like cities, you know, established at this time.
02:54:33.540These societies were inherently based on masculine dominance because of their reliance on kingship and dynastic succession.0.66
02:54:41.720A woman could only take the throne when regional or imperial aggressions had removed all men from the centers of power or when a dynasty was at its end.0.86
02:54:49.600And all appropriate males in the royal family were dead.0.88
02:54:51.760The only rivals to Hatshepsut's models of female power would come later from imperial China. So, like, she is, in terms of significance, like, she's the first anywhere that we know of.
02:55:06.560And, I mean, that is hard for me to wrap my head around that no other woman was able to do it. No other woman that we can find any evidence of was able to do it. Not saying that there weren't women that were in charge, but their legacy didn't last.
02:55:27.720hers, and we've talked about this, how long ago did she exist? And we still know about her,
02:55:36.420regardless of if she had fuck-ups in there or not, whatever, we still know about her. And0.95
02:55:42.160everything that we know about her, for the most part, is positive. It's not negative.
02:55:47.300what does that say about this woman she is above all others that attempted to do what she
02:55:57.960accomplished i mean you you have no no better example than her you just don't i think in terms
02:56:05.180of significance like the fact that she was and again like there's like it said in the book like
02:56:10.000and like you just said you know i'm sure there's other women who who were leaders who were powerful
02:56:14.340but just not to the extent like 22 years like this really powerful kingdom making it more powerful
02:56:21.180like nobody like she was the first that's significant she's still remembered like her
02:56:25.940temples still exist and you can visit them and that's on my bucket list but i think i think we've
02:56:30.780talked about this like if you or i get into egypt into one of those temples it's like leave like
02:56:35.640leave me i need like 72 hours like i need to like look at every inch um like you can go visit it
02:56:43.300like so beginning to end like her legacies we've talked about this before but like just to remind
02:56:49.980everybody like in terms of like Egyptian pharaohs and I don't mean the average person on the street
02:56:56.280but like you or me like somebody who studies history how many names do we really know and
02:57:00.760what they did is like Hatshepsut, Cleopatra, Nefertiti, Tutankhamen like there's so many men
02:57:06.700and I don't know any like Akhenaten maybe like I don't know anything about them but like
02:57:13.220the women like hat like she's one of the few names that is kind of like there's a biography about her
02:57:19.280like how many english language biographies are there about a specific egyptian pharaoh like very
02:57:24.360few because they ruled for a long time before the macedonians came in and out of all of those kings
02:57:33.040pharaohs whatever they were referred to as i know very few names and i've studied this more
02:57:39.940extensively than you have. And I know I can list off maybe, maybe eight. I can't list off a bunch
02:57:51.740of them, but they all ruled and they were men and they were doing what they were supposed to be
02:57:56.900doing, but their names aren't still spoken today by really anyone. They don't have books written
02:58:03.920about them. They don't, they have a couple of carvings here and there. The only reason why we
02:58:08.940know about them because their name was carved in a couple of places how many places do you find her
02:58:13.100name yeah and those are the ones that just weren't destroyed how many were destroyed that actually
02:58:18.760existed at one time and she still has how many remaining come on now I feel I just I mean I feel
02:58:26.820like she's a 10 for significance but I really wanted to go through all the reasons absolutely
02:58:32.000I mean if I could give her a 20 I would I know I know I wish this is a bonus category
02:58:36.820but that's absolutely a 10 and then this the next category and this is interesting too
02:58:41.900in the pantheon of like what she did which is the sexism bonus and so this is where
02:58:46.200it's looking at how much did being a woman in a patriarchal type world hold her back and i feel
02:58:53.780like not much not much at all and i mean that a lot of that was because everything we've talked
02:59:02.700about this whole episode but like she was of royal blood she had these examples to look up to
02:59:08.420she was so smart and canny she had allies in all the right places like she held she held positions0.58
02:59:17.400of power at a very young age and i mean she was made god's wife at like what between six and eight
02:59:24.280something like that that's very very young to be on that high of a pedestal really so at that point
02:59:31.900you've already knocked out a whole lot of the sexism that you're going to be subjected to
02:59:36.320because you're already revered at a higher level than pretty much any other female around you.
02:59:42.920So when you start out that young, being revered that highly,
02:59:47.980sexism isn't going to play a whole big role in the rest of your life.
02:59:51.900Well, and I feel like her life, you know, it's different from so many other
02:59:56.400royal women in egyptian history because she found she was able to become a king you know
03:00:03.180but the society in general where there was like men were higher up than women and whatnot but it0.99
03:00:09.100wasn't women were subjugated it wasn't like some other societies where it's just like she was she
03:00:14.840got an education she was revered she was honored so the society itself wasn't as sexist as some
03:00:21.640other societies that i've looked at right where i would say that she would get some points on this
03:00:26.120is the fact that to become a king she had to say she had to present herself as a man like she
03:00:32.460couldn't just be like hey guess what like a woman can be king and here we go like which is kind of
03:00:37.900what she did but she still had to portray herself as a man so there's like i want to give her some
03:00:42.340points gina is why i'm struggling oh yeah well i would give her like three or four honestly because
03:00:47.780she did she did have to jump through some hoops that again they didn't record everything so we0.93
03:00:52.940wouldn't know all the hoops she had to jump through but she it's a given she had to jump0.83
03:00:56.740through yeah a vast amount of hoops to get to where she was regardless of the fact that she0.98
03:01:02.140was still so revered and whatnot so like i said i'd give her like a three or four it wouldn't rank
03:01:07.600high because she was able to do what she needed to do but it wasn't complete smooth sailing yeah
03:01:13.280i think like once she got in the role and she was there and things were going it was good but she0.96
03:01:17.860had to it took some energy for her to get into the role that um tutmos wouldn't have had to have
03:01:24.600done but at the same point you know for her whole reign and this is remarkable in the history of1.00
03:01:31.140this podcast and people i talk about everyone's just like okay yeah there's a woman in charge
03:01:34.680that's cool like gina that never happens i've done like how many episodes like that is never
03:01:40.860the narrative. Elizabeth I had a lot of power, and people respected her, but only to a certain
03:01:49.560point. People were still questioning her. They were gossiping about her behind her back. Everyone
03:01:55.440questioned her. Everyone, even her closest whatever, questioned her at every turn. She
03:02:02.860always had to be watching her back in a way that I don't think had to do. And so even though she
03:02:08.900had power she was long reigning she was this she was that she she still fell under that sexism0.99
03:02:15.340major sexism stunting her from really truly being able to be as great as she probably could have0.99
03:02:21.880been plus she was just she seemed paranoid but who wouldn't be in her position people were trying
03:02:26.920to kill her um they were yeah no but actually that reminds me of so just comparing hat with0.89
03:02:32.940someone like elizabeth so and again looking back at like the way that sexuality was so different
03:02:37.720in the in hats era versus other eras but what kara cooney suggests and again it's like not
03:02:42.900everything is written down because like why would you write down everything there's not that many
03:02:47.080papyrus scrolls you can't write a diary um but it was saying like it's it's not unlikely that
03:02:54.580hat probably had lovers her whole life oh because she couldn't marry again because her whole thing
03:03:00.140was she's the the god's wife like she was married to tutmos the second and like she couldn't but0.98
03:03:05.640it's like because sexuality was so much more in the open and so much more it wasn't hidden like0.99
03:03:12.240she probably could have had lovers and no one gave a shit really because people just had sex0.94
03:03:17.440and that's what the society was like versus elizabeth the first who had to be like i'm a1.00
03:03:20.980virgin like don't worry about me no lovers in my life like she had people were always being like oh1.00
03:03:27.340i think i saw her with whoever you know but hat could just be like yeah just fuck around like she1.00
03:03:31.460was yep and another thing cara brought up was um there was a possibility that had more children
03:03:38.440but because they were of no significance there's no record of them if they survived you know they
03:03:45.380could have been you know they could have died in infancy or whatever but i i it's hard for me to
03:03:50.660believe number one she didn't have lovers number two that she didn't have more children that just
03:03:54.840that doesn't that doesn't seem realistic to me but because it played no major role in what she
03:04:02.800was doing for overall egypt no one gave it exactly versus elizabeth where people are like obsessed
03:04:08.000with like checking her sheets like did she have her head versus hat is just kind of like whatever
03:04:14.380but also i do want to say and this is in the book too like they did have birth control then which
03:04:19.440just like people are debating that today and it's like okay 6 000 years ago 10 000 years ago this
03:04:25.320like they knew how to prevent or terminate pregnancy they did they they had a really
03:04:32.120good understanding of herbs back then yeah so okay so if we give hat like the a four for sexism0.88
03:04:38.820then where she winds up is with a 29 is her score and just so you know where that leaves her in the0.99
03:04:47.260pantheon of other people you and I have talked about when we did our reassessment of Cleopatra
03:04:52.140she got a 28 so hat 29 but that's because she ranked so high in a couple of places that
03:05:00.620Cleopatra just couldn't exactly I mean her hat the this I don't know I like that they're close
03:05:09.060to each other but I appreciate that hat is higher up I'm trying to remember where Nefertiti is let
03:05:13.660let me look. Nefertiti, 31.5. Because that was one scheming-ass woman. I'm sorry. She just,
03:05:22.880no one convinced me that she wasn't, but she had her reasons for doing it. It was a lot of personal,
03:05:30.100I think, but it was also just because she wanted to see her husband elevated as high as he could
03:05:35.440possibly get and who could be elevated more than the sun god reincarnated. I mean, to them,
03:05:41.940that was as high as you could get i like that the three of them are all really it's like 28 29 31.5
03:05:46.920like the three of them are and i think they are all equally interesting just like some of them
03:05:52.720have higher or lower in different places like hat had much less sexism than the other two did
03:05:56.520i think nefertiti had more scandal because of the whole changing the religion of all of society
03:06:01.960but yeah this is like the gina berry corner of my scoring matrix it's just like this is where
03:06:08.820it. Ancient Egypt slash Gina Berry. And you know, it's funny, I was, I read a couple of scholarly
03:06:15.220papers on, on hat and I read one and it was written by a European male, but he had a point
03:06:26.380and he said that after what happened with her and, you know, just because it's not recorded,
03:06:33.400that people thought that it was scandalous what she did doesn't mean that they didn't think it.
03:06:38.820But after what happened with her, when Akhenaten came and tried to upend how everything was going in Egypt, they thought back to her and they were like, you know, even though it turned out good, it could have turned out really bad.0.91
03:06:57.180So she wasn't trying to upend the religious part of it, which is the major part of their overall society, but she was still trying to upend a woman being king, a woman being in charge.0.60
03:07:08.820He came along and tried to shift in general how things were going within Egypt.0.85
03:07:14.820And they were like, no, just because it worked out for her, it's not going to work out for him.
03:07:35.740and i'm not saying what akhenaten did was right or wrong it was just what he did is what he felt
03:07:42.120led to do but they they weren't going to just go along with it and be like okay well it worked out
03:07:48.740for her so let's just assume it's going to work for him they were realistic about it and like i
03:07:53.900said she wasn't trying to change the religion he was and religion was the basis of everything for
03:07:57.880them so if you change the basis of life in general it's to them that's just that's not going to work
03:08:04.460but they had her to look at to say okay you know we we got to learn from from our past
03:08:14.080and I think that's probably why they the people kind of revolted against him as quickly as they
03:08:20.320did because they weren't willing to go along with okay this is gonna work out he knows what
03:08:25.960he's doing she knew what she was doing he did not and it was just he was just vibes he was just like
03:08:31.960vibes he didn't have a plan he was just like here's what we're doing hat was like here's my
03:08:36.800like 10 point powerpoint presentation of like how everything is gonna work i've thought about
03:08:42.320everything like she she had it figured out but another major difference in them in spite of the1.00
03:08:47.900fact that male female she was raised to be in charge he was not expected to take over the throne
03:08:56.700his older brother was, who was named Thutmose. So he was not raised to be pharaoh. So just like
03:09:06.720I said, with William and Harry, William had a completely different upbringing than Harry did.
03:09:11.860Akhenaten, who was Amenhotep IV before he changed his name, he was not raised to be king. Therefore,
03:09:19.160he was all vibes because he was allowed to be as he was growing up. She was all business.
03:09:25.380that's how she was raised that's how she functioned so that's why it worked for her
03:09:31.380and it didn't work for him because vibes don't work with religion no no and that's that's the
03:09:37.680thing i think we really detailed it well just how she was so savvy she knew just who like
03:09:45.200she could like an akhenaten is a good example of someone who's just kind of like well this is a
03:09:49.540religion and i'm god incarnate and here's what we're gonna do it's like people aren't gonna
03:09:53.340to follow you. If you do that, it's like, you need to understand people. You need to know like
03:09:56.880this guy, what's his wife's name? Like, what's the name of his dog? Like, let's be nice about
03:10:01.740it. Like, Oh, let's build him a temple. You know, like you have to, and she was always on. And
03:10:07.740that's, this is part of why I told you, I like ordered a hat necklace. I was just like to honor
03:10:13.420her. Cause it's so rare to me. And again, I've done so many episodes to find a woman who just
03:10:22.500like was allowed to thrive and to show how good she was because she didn't have to spend all of0.55
03:10:29.380her time fighting off or you know she wasn't just the regent she wasn't just there for the guy like
03:10:35.320she was able to be like actually i'm in charge and i'm gonna be amazing and i'm gonna do well
03:10:40.520just so many of these stories end with like and then she was executed or and then and then
03:10:46.420or she just she just drops for the annals of history exactly exactly it's just like where
03:10:50.660did she go um and hat it's like no we know exactly what happened we know she had all these successes
03:10:55.180i like it's for sure on my bucket list to go to that temple and see all those engravings of her
03:11:00.400and all for great successes you know like i have to try to become a citizen for like six months
03:11:05.360because that's how long it'll take me to get through all of it if i get to egypt well i'm
03:11:09.900sure you even more but i'm just like no i need to see everything like in detail like and then go
03:11:15.420back to it again the next day okay oh i missed that okay yeah yeah no it's such a i love that
03:11:25.080so much of this culture is still able to be seen and appreciated in egypt you know a lot of it was
03:11:29.880taken and put in museums other places but like you can't move a building so yeah right and i'm glad
03:11:37.000because if they could they would have definitely definitely they moved to smaller ones they moved
03:11:42.940some of the smaller statues and the smaller obelisks. They moved what they could, but luckily
03:11:48.140they didn't have resources enough to get it out of there before people started realizing what was
03:11:52.660happening. They didn't have Stenadmet to invent a giant boat to like sail the buildings down the
03:11:59.000Nile. I think he should be a hero to like architects and engineers and project planners
03:12:05.020because he did some unreal, like I'm sure she was like Stenadmet, here's what I want to do.
03:12:09.200and he's like you want to what like you want to move how big a thing down what distance but he
03:12:14.240figured it out yeah all right give me a minute i'll be back he yeah you know and that's the thing
03:12:23.420you you hear about the abu simbal and all that type of stuff of yes those are massive feats of
03:12:30.440architecture but he just doesn't get his proper due he really doesn't and it i think it's just
03:12:38.540because he did all that under a woman had he done all that for a man that would be the name
03:12:44.720that you would know it just would be um so even though he benefited from her it also cost him
03:12:52.820a spot in in history i just unfortunately appreciate their partnership i think it was
03:13:00.660really there was so much of her hat's success was because of her hard work and her skill and
03:13:08.620her natural ability but also just she was lucky in the fact that she he was around like i don't
03:13:16.660know if anyone else could have designed a boat big enough to do all these things that she was
03:13:20.160asking him to do or could have designed an obelisk that big and she was lucky that the nile was good
03:13:25.720and she was lucky that the mentors she had but then ultimately like luck only takes you so far
03:13:32.700like she she did that yeah yeah and she was also lucky that the the people that whether she paid
03:13:41.400them off or not but just she was lucky in the fact that people around her were willing to go along
03:13:46.880with it because you know sometimes people don't have a price you know and so she was lucky enough
03:13:55.960where either she was able to meet their price or they just didn't care they just supported her
03:14:01.680because they supported her because that's not a guarantee you know you have how many people that
03:14:07.280get paid off to do whatever yet they still find a way to turn on you later on and they didn't do
03:14:13.440that to her. So she had a lot of luck. I would say luck was probably about 20%. 80% was just her
03:14:21.080being a badass. I love her. I, all week I've just been like Gina, I can't wait to just talk about0.99
03:14:29.360how amazing hat is for like three hours, which is what we just did. You know what? Not as long as
03:14:36.880some of our other talks, but yeah. Do you have any, any final thoughts about hat or anything?
03:14:42.180I just wish that people that have any sort of interest whatsoever in learning about history would take the time to learn about her, because it is so worth it. And we know enough about men that are considered to be great, that accomplished whatever it is they had their scribes say they accomplished. Whether they accomplished it or not, I don't know.
03:15:07.000the fact that we have records of what she accomplished I have to believe that she actually0.80
03:15:13.580did because if a woman tried to say that she accomplished something that she didn't they would
03:15:18.340not allow her to say that she did so the fact that we have all this proof that this woman0.89
03:15:24.180just was the badass that she was please take the time to get to know something about her
03:15:31.300because you will not regret it I promise you you just I mean it's just it's inspiring honestly
03:15:40.520I mean it just is because to see someone that that knew had so much going against her yet still
03:15:48.320put her foot down and went for it anyways and accomplished it why can't I in today's world
03:15:56.060accomplish the things that I want to accomplish because I don't have to worry about someone
03:15:59.860trying to kill me usually I you know I don't have to worry about my boys poisoning me because
03:16:06.720you know they think that I have too much power over them or whatever I don't have to worry about
03:16:11.400a lot of things that she had to worry about so why can I not be great no I agree and really well
03:16:18.280said I find her so inspirational as well just as somebody it's again it's just it's really rare
03:16:24.860in the sort of history that I studied to find a woman who was like ambitious and smart and savvy
03:16:29.720and did it and thrived and and did it unapologetically yeah i mean you it didn't
03:16:39.920appear to me that she was ever asking for permission she was just doing it yeah it's
03:16:46.460and and you know the funny i had forgotten about this but it's it's she had it inscribed in many
03:16:52.720places that um i'm paraphrasing that um if you support me and you go along with what i want0.97
03:16:59.220cool you'll be rewarded but if you go against me your ass is grass and i'm a lawnmower so she she0.99
03:17:06.280had it inscribed in numerous places that support me and you'll benefit go against me you die that's1.00
03:17:12.520like you know what great motto right people took her seriously and she meant it yeah i just you
03:17:23.080know i could talk about these ladies in history for hours whether they accomplished what hat did1.00
03:17:28.020or not. I could talk about them for hours because every one of them played a very pivotal role in
03:17:33.500the history of their society. It might not have been on as grand of a scale as Pat, but they still
03:17:41.560played a pivotal role. And the history of their society wouldn't be what it is had it not been
03:17:48.280for these women. And so that's why I like to study them because there's a lesson to be learned in
03:17:55.360in every one of their stories you just have to be willing to learn yeah exactly and well just
03:18:01.680when you were saying before about there's so many people in history so many men in history who are
03:18:06.820studied and talked about so much i was like yeah there's just that pointless recent movie about
03:18:11.760napoleon which was right we've all heard about him enough we don't need that
03:18:18.560where's the hat movie and you know the thing is we don't even need any more cleopatra no
03:18:27.320we're good we don't need we don't need any more elizabeth the first we don't honestly the women
03:18:34.080that we've heard about the most we don't necessarily need to hear about them more we've
03:18:40.160we've heard about them about as much as we really truly need to and for some of us as much as we0.64
03:18:45.580want to let's start talking about some of these other women that accomplish great things that1.00
03:18:51.300you don't talk about as often because i promise you you're going to get a whole new group of0.98
03:18:57.060fans you start talking about these new people because it's going to be new things that they
03:19:02.180they didn't know it's going to be to them original and you know we've got all these remakes of tv
03:19:09.540shows and movies and cartoons and all that we're we're in a remake society right now let us have
03:19:16.100something original and there's plenty to pull from so many there's so many but and it goes beyond
03:19:23.160egypt it goes beyond greece and rome there's so much world history to pull from that just gets
03:19:31.220ignored yeah and it's always the same it's just yeah exactly it's like oh another cleopatra movie
03:19:35.840it's like she was great but like what about hat what about nefertiti like what about so many people
03:19:44.240yeah i don't know when the napoleon movie came out i was just like are you kidding me who wants
03:19:51.620this and apparently in that movie they show his army like shooting the nose off the sphinx or
03:19:56.620something i forget yeah that i don't know i don't know if that happened it could have i don't know
03:20:03.880i feel like napoleon wants he's played out well and i think he also knew that the ancient
03:20:10.320egyptians were so famous and renowned and he wanted to like relate himself with them
03:20:15.920so he wanted to have his name said with their names and i just said his name with their names
03:20:21.500but in a derogatory way and the thing about it is is you know if you think about it um the sphinx
03:20:27.100was completely covered up to its nose in sand by the time any real anyone realized it was there
03:20:33.060so if the nose was the protruding part that was exposed all that time with all the wind in the
03:20:40.700sand whipping against it what makes you think that that didn't just erode away why does it
03:20:47.240have to be that he came and shot that nose off why can't it be just natural elements ate away
03:20:53.600at that storm i mean come on napoleon anyway gina yeah thank you i'm excited for whatever
03:21:04.360the next thing is we're going to talk about it's going to be romans next time it's going to be
03:21:07.860romans because we want to again i don't want to just like pigeonhole you it's just like only
03:21:12.380egypt okay you let me know what section of roman history you want to talk about and we will talk
03:21:18.480about it yeah i'll give i'll give us both time to read up on it so we can really have a good
03:21:22.760discussion. Thank you so much. I'm always so happy to have you on the show.
03:21:25.560Thanks for having me back. I enjoy talking with you.
03:21:33.980And so having survived that episode, congratulations to all of you. I could never
03:21:40.960take out any part of that. There was, we had to, every single word was necessary to discuss
03:21:45.840this iconic person. It's really, what it really made me think about is stories of people like
03:21:51.120fredigand for instance who long-time listeners of the show know fredigand and how much she means to
03:21:57.140me but it's like the way that hat was able to do what she did and everyone supported her like she
03:22:03.880didn't have to half of i don't know 85 of what fredigand was up to was just swatting away these
03:22:09.820people who were like a woman in charge no that's weird like hat just got it done so it's it's i1.00
03:22:15.900respect the hell out of her. And actually I do want to mention, I mentioned in the episode that
03:22:22.060I was so hyped up on, on hat that I in fact purchased a necklace and I did, and I purchased
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03:22:34.940that we're in this partnership with each other. So it is a small business that makes jewelry
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03:22:54.860business and for a lot of their pieces they use recycled gold and they make their pieces to order
03:22:59.360so there's not that waste um the pieces are made entirely in new york city so everyone involved has
03:23:04.560healthcare in good wages. And so Hatshepsut, aka Hatshepsut, is part of the collection they have
03:23:12.680called the Difficult Women Collection. And that's like, honestly, the overlap between the people in
03:23:17.860the Difficult Women Collection and people we've talked about on this podcast is substantive.
03:23:22.320There's, you can get pieces inspired by Boudicca, Cleopatra, Agrippina, as well as Anne Boleyn,
03:23:28.280as well as mythological people like medusa aphrodite um sappho is there and yeah i was
03:23:37.440just excited like i was already working this gina and i have been planning to do this episode for
03:23:41.600quite a while by the time i started my brand partnership with common era jewelry and i was
03:23:45.780so excited that hat was one of the people there and then as i was researching hat i was just like
03:23:49.620i worship this woman i love i love hat so much i need to get the necklace and so i did anyway if
03:23:57.620you are also similarly moved, that you need to pay tribute to hat or anyone else via jewelry,
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03:24:16.860using code vulgar at checkout. If you want to get Vulgar History specific merchandise,
03:24:22.820you can get that at vulgarhistory.com slash store, which takes you to our Tee Public store.
03:24:27.660And that's the best shipping for people in the US. If you live not in the US, you can get merch
03:24:33.080at vulgarhistory.redbubble.com. And the shipping there is a bit more reasonable for non-US people.
03:24:41.360And you can also follow me slash this podcast. You know, I'm kind of starting vulgar history.
03:24:49.900It's a brand, you know, and I'm really diversifying the portfolio of what vulgar history is.
03:24:54.860And part of what I'm doing is I have a sub stack newsletter now.
03:24:58.700So it's called vulgar history a la carte.
03:25:01.140And at the moment I'm going through just some, I'm revisiting some pieces I'd written before
03:25:05.840about people I haven't talked about on the podcast.